Esoteric_Prurience

What are your thoughts on Pie, Mash, and Liquor?

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It is seen by a bit of a novelty food by the vast majority. Something to do while visiting East London, but certainly not a staple of the diet. Go north - I shan't invite debate by suggesting where 'North' begins - and you will find an almost religious devotion to pies and their various accoutrements.

Who is the first person you contact when you remember The Game?

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Is crossing the channel really that bad?

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Go into it with the airport mindset of yes there will be queues, yes there could well be delays, and you need to get there early. It isn't that bad. Like the other commenter has said - only the bad days hit the news.

Influencer caught smuggling Drug (Update)

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Pilot at my local airfield was busted for smuggling drugs here in the UK. Lots of cross channel flights - we all thought he did exceptionally well at crypto - turns out that was not the case. Looking at his plane - a lovely almost new SR22 and a beautiful Porsche 911 he parked up next to the hanger, I was sorely tempted to ask for his bosses phone number!

Fly above!!

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If you want to see some cool planes - go hangout at your local flying club, get an associate membership, and chat to the pilots. When I was 17/18 before I started my PPL, I joined a local club and just hung out - talked planes and made a few pilot friends. If they were feeling generous they would let me hop in the right side and in return I'd buy the burger at the away field - great deal for me! Got to know the instructors and the chief - ended up doing my PPL and my MEL there. Really cool ex-WWII airfield - the school was based in the old briefing hut the Lancaster pilots were based in before they flow. I'm UK based - but pilots are pilots, they are cool everywhere.

What’s your opinion on german beers vs british beer?

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If you want to sit in front of a fireplace on a cold winters day - there is nothing that beats a British real ale. Sun is out and you want to sit by the river with a beer? Nothing beats a cold German lager or pils.

Where are you going on holiday this year, if at all?

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Usually I decide about a week before going. The last few years I've done the Caribbean islands so there could be a return visit. I haven't visited much of the African continent so provisionally I have that at the back of my mind.

How do you cope with the stress of work?

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First off - you ain't no failure! You've only been there two months so you're still adjusting to the new environment, learning new processes, meeting new people, and getting into the rhythm of how your specific company operates. All these things will become background items and turn into the mundane. It's just one of those things that take time - but we all adjust in the end. What is important is you give yourself some downtime and try not to overload your free time off as best you can. It *will* get easier.

Anyone grounded for years and can’t find a realistic path back?

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I'm coming from a recreational private pilot perspective - but I was laid off during my IR training and couldn't continue to fly, having done at least 2-4 hours a week since I was 18. It was a huge blow to me - but I made it my burning desire to get back up there. It took six years before I was in a comfortable enough position to get back into the skies - it was tough but knowing I was working to get back to where I wanted to be was a huge motivating factor.

What's the funniest British joke you've ever heard?

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Do younger tradies not like being offered drinks?

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A friend of mine is an electrician, early 30's, and that is his top reason for not accepting a drink. He's seen the state of the kitchen and decided he didn't want some exotic new disease to be named after him.

Anybody?

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Is bullying serious at boarding schools in the UK?

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Is bullying serious at boarding schools in the UK?

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What stories do you have about siblings being mean to you?

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All in good fun, but.... My brother, little scamp that he is, had become a special constable - was showing how the handcuffs work and asked me to volunteer. We were at my parents house, in their kitchen, they have an AGA. Little bastard handcuffed me to to the oven and buggered off to take a shower. For those who have had to stand near an AGA for any length of time will know the heat is not to be trifled with. That was a decade ago and I am still plotting my revenge.

How often do you read a book?

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Usually have one on the go at any time - sometimes it is a heavy tome that takes me a month or so to wade through reading it one or two nights a week. Others I read back to back paperback slop that are fun reads and I can get through those in under a week. I'll always have something on the bed stand though. I'm in my mid 30's now so I don't read as much as I used to in my teens and 20's. My partner (51F) she is either reading one book every other day, or goes half a year without reading at all. Hope that helps answer your questions.

Is bullying serious at boarding schools in the UK?

Posted by Intelligent_Chef9950@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 23 comments

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I started boarding when I was 7. We lived next to a church and my parents would take me back to school on a Sunday evening, just as the church ringers were starting a peel. To this day I get butterflies in my stomach when I hear church bells. I assume that was the kind of character that was to be instilled in all of us.

Fan vs air con - how to survive summer?

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Is bullying serious at boarding schools in the UK?

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I was at a boarding school during the 2000's. Talking to my friends who were also boarders, day students, and also state students - it seems like the experience is broadly similar across the board, if you will. Naturally, as a boarder, you are in closer proximity to your potential bully which, if not dealt with, can be somewhat of an extra hardship. For what it is worth, I personally was not bullied, and the abuse that I did witness did seem to have been handled swiftly. My father, who also went to the same school as I, did see much more bullying than I did - and my grandfather, who also went to the same school, said there much much 'character building' in his day, which one could possibly assume might not be well received today.

Gifts for private pilots?

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What is a small, cheap purchase you’ve made recently that has significantly improved your quality of life in the UK?

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I remember when I was in my first home, just me, and I remembered home scents exist. Since then my homes have consistently had the scent of sandalwood permeating every room. The day I hit 30 was also the day I realised Aesop was finally in my budget - it was simultaneously the death of my youth and my ascent into glorious scented rooms.

Should I become a pilot as a girl?

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My advice to you - firstly, yes, absolutely. Secondly I would strongly urge you to do your A-Levels. It doesn't matter what in, but if you can do something sciencey it will help you when it comes to your ATPL's, but whatever will give you good marks is great. You want to be competitive to flight schools if you are going integrated, but also to the airlines when you get there. Further, you want that extra education to get that further study experience. Don't worry about teaching yourself too much aircraft stuff - your instructors will get you there. Focus on your GCSE's for now, and be sure to get the best maths grade you can, it will help you. You don't need to be a mathematician, but a mild confidence will help take the pressure off. Ask your folks to get you a taster session with a local flying club. You can throw the plane around for an hour and you can ask your instructor for some tailored advice.

What rundown city/town do you think would become gentrified in 30 years?

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Men, how often (if ever) are you approached?

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Why aren't US airlines a meritocracy for pilots?

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Why aren't US airlines a meritocracy for pilots?

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At the airlines the training is so standardised, and the requirements for a high quality of airmanship is such that at that level the difference between those two pilots (assuming both are hired and working at the same airline) are marginal at best. Airmanship - insofar as physically handling the aircraft, is great when you're messing around in a Cub on a field - but not the best judge of a superior airline pilot. Decision making, systems knowledge and management, and crew management would be a far more accurate set of criteria in which to judge.

Men, how often (if ever) are you approached?

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Is it possible to access military-style pilot training in Europe (or anywhere else) as a civilian at 27?

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How would you want your student to tell you they're leaving you?

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I had the same issue when I did my instrument training. Same instructor for my PPL and we got on great, but his style didn't suit me personally. He is a professional and I just told him that it wasn't anything personal but I think that going forward I learn better with this other instructor. He said fair enough, we shook hands, and that was it. As I say, if they are professional they know that student/instructor relationships are an important factor and won't take it to heart. Be honest and upfront, and always advocate for yourself.

What uk activities have you no interest in?

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I always take myself to the North Norfolk coast whenever there is a big England game. It's summertime and I usually have the place pretty much to myself - afterwards I find a nice pub that doesn't have a TV and I can sit outside and have a quiet pint enjoying the view. I'm happy the England fans are happy - I'm even happier I can chillout without the crowds for the day.

What uk activities have you no interest in?

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I'm that way with psychedelics. Always wanted to try them, just to see what it is like. But I don't know anyone who has tried them, at least not enough to be knowledgeable about quality/quantity, how to be safe, etc. Still, I am hoping to make that friend at some point!

What uk activities have you no interest in?

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What uk activities have you no interest in?

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It was fun when I was rowing for my school - now, as a mere spectator, I dislike what has become. Perhaps it has changed - or perhaps it was always that way and I was too young to notice. I was rowing in the early 2000's.

celebrated a friends first solo

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My first solo I was still living with my parents at the time - I got home to tell them the news and instead found a note saying they'd gone away for a last minute trip. Still, on the plus side they left a massive wedge of cash and some homemade flapjack, not all bad. When I got my pilots licence the aircraft I took the skills-test in had to immediately be flown off to maintenance by my instructor - so he left right away, as did my examiner. I learned at a small airfield with just the one small flying school- it was just me there, so locked up and went home. I envy your friend! You did a great job!

What areas of the UK have you found to have Microclimates?

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Fresh paint on my old girl.

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Someone spat at my face. Should I report it?

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Yes, absolutely. If he is a repeat offender he might already be known to the police, and even if not, if he does do that to others and they also report, the police can build a data profile to identify an area in which to increase presence with their neighbourhood team.

Theatre goers of the UK — what to wear to the Royal Opera House?

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As you say, opening nights/gala performances black tie is common. Outside of those special nights wear whatever you wish. Most people going to the theatre/opera will wear something relatively nice in keeping with the special occasion of going out - others will rock up with jeans and a t-shirt - both is acceptable. There is no expectation of formal dress, but no one will look at you twice if you do decide to go all out - I guess you may get the odd glance, but mostly from people admiring the look rather than in judgement. Just don't wear headgear, or clothing that will spill into the seat next to you.

People who used to enjoy Walkers & Pringles, What have you replace them with?

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I'm a bit wanky and love a posh crisp - but do look forward to my annual Christmas Pringle splurge. Rather than replace I have just cut down the frequency in which imbibe. Crisps, to me, are now a bit of a ritualistic treat. I have a study in the house, with a large fireplace and a large overstuffed armchair. If the weather is a bit dull and I have a Saturday evening to myself - I will pour myself a glass of, either, good whiskey - or a good ale, set down a bowl of aforementioned wanky crisps, light the fire, and listen to a favourite album. At 34 I have entered old man hobby stage. Moderation, my dear crisp loving friend, moderation.

Does Anyone Else Kind of Avoid Telling People You’re a Pilot?

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Will a degree in electrical engineering help me land a job as a pilot?

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When all else is equal having a degree is beneficial over not having one. That said, the subject matter doesn't really come into it. It will certainly help you grasp the theory side of your exams, but not when it comes down to the hiring decision.

Have you ever walked out of somewhere due to not being served?

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You didn't offer to pay the person at the door? Having been raised well, I don't steal you see - if I am in a rush, or the staff are no good, I just walk up to the counter and get my bill.

EuroMillions has rolled over **again**. How would you use £181m?

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I think that is all the requisite you need. Give it 50 years and critics will be expanding on the juxtaposition between the light and dark shading, students will be sitting on chairs sketching their versions, and Sotheby’s will be selling it to a private collector for £50 million.

Do you prefer whole milk, semi-skimmed or skimmed?

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What are your top 3 desserts?

Posted by Seeyalaterelevator@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 158 comments

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"Qwop" - I love that! I know there are more sophisticated and technically challenging puddings out there - but the visceral feelings that the QoP brings back is unmatched - and in a lot of ways that is kind of the point of those sorts of puddings. Thanks for sharing your memories - I love reading them.

What are your top 3 desserts?

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The most marvellous of puddings that instantly transports me back to my childhood. Essentially it is breadcrumbs soaked in warm milk, with jam and homemade meringue. [Queen of puddings recipe | Good Food](https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/queen-of-puddings)

What are your top 3 desserts?

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1. Queen of Puddings - an more unknown entry, but has made very birthday a treat! 2. Apple and Blackberry Crumble - with custard. 3. Treacle Tart - with good vanilla ice cream

First time successfully landing on each attempt

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We all have that moment where it just "clicks" and something in your brain activates - part of that is the confidence that you *can* actually get the thing on the ground safely. Now it is just a case of refining and getting consistent. Bloody good job though - keep feeling fucking great!

Has anyone actually made friends at clubs or meet ups?

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A lot of it is perseverance - so many of these groups see people come for one or two meets and then you never see them again, so sometimes it is hard to put the effort in if you don't know if you'll see them again. Sometimes, depending on the group, it can get a bit cliquey, especially if it is a smaller group that has been meeting for years - I've had a few of those too. You have to just keep plugging away at it - find different hobby groups and hopefully one will stick - especially if you genuinely enjoy the reason for the group existing beyond meeting people. I mean like I would still go to the chess group even if I was just on nodding terms with everyone. And if you ever find yourself in Cambridge - give me a message, I'll give you a game of chess!

Has anyone actually made friends at clubs or meet ups?

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In my experience, yes. That isn't to say that it is impossible - but you just spread the potential groups of people too thin to meet someone you could get on well with. In my experience, and looking at the comments it would seem others have had the same experience, these general meetups sometimes attract some of the more socially inept and, you know good for them for getting out of the house, but they aren't some of the people I personally would enjoy befriending. Targeted groups with a hobby and/or activity in mind you immediately have things in common and is a good jumping off point, plus certain hobbies attract similarly like minded people. My chess group, for example, leans quite nerdy/geeky and, as someone who is quite nerdy and geeky, means that already there are 5-10 other things we have in common. Yeah - the friends I've made at these clubs I meet and socialise outside of the clubs. There are people whom I just have as 'club friends', but then there have been others where I do other things with, have a social circle with.