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Ive just had a look and was thinking about this, he really is a celebrity isn’t he. I get where your coming from, but its your property at the end of the day and if you and the kids miss him he belongs back at home with you all, if you get any backlash for it i think a fair amount of people would agree its place is in your family. I would possibly make a post on the facebook group if you do keep him at home, people might worry about him otherwise, its ultimately your cat so i wouldn’t worry about any backlash.

Oh dear, it reminds me of a facebook post where someone wanted to rehome their cat because it was confused where it lived due to neighbours feeding it. You all must miss it, im happy to help if local (liverpool). The only thing i can think of really is luring it into a humane trap with its favourite food. Or lend a few pairs of hands to help you grab it if you think thats possible. The trap would probably be easiest.

I agree 100%, i feel like i grew up with really toxic social media (as a women it seemed all about appearance) so i feel differently than my aunties/uncles that are constantly on it, but having the space away means i would find putting the faceade on again exhausting

R.i.p corner shop 1p sweets & 10,20,50p mixes, working class heros, gone but never forgotten

I would definitely agree that this is more of a homeless application than wants to move out situation since you dont want to move out you need to move out for your own safety. Contact the council. There are some jobs that you can live in/provide accommodation but they are few and far between, if your in college maybe have a chat with the safeguarding advisor.

This comment needs more upvotes, that has literally happened to me and someone i know. Avoid openrent

Ex starbucks employee here, ive got a john lewis milk steamer which has a cold milk setting which makes throffy cold milk, make normal instant coffee shot with boiling water, add cold milk, add plenty of ice- plenty of ice is key to a ice cold coffee and dont pour your warm coffee shot over the ice or it will melt. Add vanilla or caramel syrup or whipped cream (with caramel desert sauce on top to be extra) to your liking. You dont need a milk steamer you can just add normal milk ( which is how they do it in most coffee places).

Have you got any good mates you could stay with on your 16th or anyone else you could stay with for a couple of days around your birthday? I would have a good talk with your mum about it she might not mean it but if you think she does try and be away from the situation around your birthday. A few days apart might even make her rethink the situation.

I used to have a mate that was kicked out at 16, he stayed in supported accommodation got universal credit and completed his alevels, currently in university. Approach the councils homeless team and you will be a priority given your age. I’m really sorry to hear your in this situation it must be very difficult speak to someone you trust about it possibly at school or childline could also help.

I get what your saying so was mine but the lazy post people will just look and see theres no number then not deliver, i would mention this if you contact anyone about it.

They mustn’t think must they 😂 i think they were getting work done and then didn’t put them back up for a while so much anxiety getting a parcel back then 😭

This happened to me a lot a while ago because my next door neighbour had took the number off their house so everyone was confused……..

Im sorry to hear this, i was in a similar situation when young. With me though it wasn’t autism it was the fact id been bullied. I felt a bit different at school because i had different interests and people found it easy to pick on me/found it harder to make friends. I felt like nothing i said made any sense/was embarrassing/not good enough and i had body dysmorphia. What i needed was to be told i was none of that, maybe you could find a therapist or sit down and have a chat with her about what are different mental health problems and what they mean. It can be difficult for a child to accept a diagnosis or it can be difficult for them to talk about what they have been going through because they might feel embarrassed/ a need to protect you from it. I obviously dont know the whole situation so i am not saying any definites but i do know she is a lot more likely to get on better with a parent like you who wants them to get over it, i wish you and her the best luck.

My mum works in the NHS too, discrimination like racism and homophobia towards staff is very common. Try to ignore them and be yourself as cliche as it is. They obviously don’t have very happy lives if thats how they have to carry themselves.

I would say it depends how much you value your space, Extension on the ground floor wouldn’t take any away form you. I would say the cellar over taking space out of bedroom 1 and 3 because i feel like your making the bedrooms quite a lot smaller

Go on universal credit, be honest with them about how you feel about work/education and take it from there. They will help you find a job if thats what you really want but i think bennefits would be more suitable for you at the moment, a job isn’t going to be any less stressful than education is in your position. Think about how you can manage your current position best and how you can get to what you would like to do in the future. Ive been in a similar position to you, take advice but don’t let anyone tell you how to feel when it comes to picking a job/education, its a difficult task to figure what you want to do with the rest of your life and its all about what you are most passionate about not what anyone else is doing/thinking.