EmbarrassedUnit39

They are adult children. Don't they deserve to know what kind of person their parent is?

Sorry for the late follow up. Alt account obviously. Appreciate everyone's replies. Just to answer a few questions: * The AP absolutely knew my spouse was married at the time. * Yes my ex is just as guilty. * Their kids and current spouse may be innocent... I don't really care. This event caused the breakup of 15 years of marriage to the person I had two kids with. * I don't want to have sex with the APs new spouse. Gross. * I'm not opposed to 'just moving on' but it's fun to entertain revenge fantasies. * I am not looking to get into criminal trouble but i'm not above ruining someones day or year. * Yes i'm aware most of this 'info' can be found online with some effort. Nothing was obtained illegally and I was literally given most of this information in the most dumbfoundingly coincidental way possible. * The affair 3 years ago and i've been divorced for 2 now. I have full custody of my 2 children.