ULPT: I have a bunch of info about my ex-spouses affair partner

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Decent_Adhesiveness0@reddit

Don't. Don't mess with the kids. They don't have any say in what their parent did.

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EmbarrassedUnit39@reddit (OP)

They are adult children. Don't they deserve to know what kind of person their parent is?

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Sorry for the late follow up. Alt account obviously. Appreciate everyone's replies. Just to answer a few questions: * The AP absolutely knew my spouse was married at the time. * Yes my ex is just as guilty. * Their kids and current spouse may be innocent... I don't really care. This event caused the breakup of 15 years of marriage to the person I had two kids with. * I don't want to have sex with the APs new spouse. Gross. * I'm not opposed to 'just moving on' but it's fun to entertain revenge fantasies. * I am not looking to get into criminal trouble but i'm not above ruining someones day or year. * Yes i'm aware most of this 'info' can be found online with some effort. Nothing was obtained illegally and I was literally given most of this information in the most dumbfoundingly coincidental way possible. * The affair 3 years ago and i've been divorced for 2 now. I have full custody of my 2 children.

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eandg331@reddit

Story time! I like all of these suggestions, honestly. Fuck a cheater. To betray your trust, (which is literally impossible to ever get back, really), to risk your health because you don't know how they're sleeping with this person - if it was safe or not, how many??? I mean thanks for the extra trip to the freaking health department for testing ugh! So anyway this isn't really conventional but it's what I did. I very very carefully and slowly manipulated some things to where my ex-fiance would end up falling back in love with me all over again. So basically the plan was to take him away from her, to convince him that we could start again and have a great life and relationship together blah blah blah. This took over a year to do. And then when I finally had him, I may have left my phone out where he could see the texts from the guy I'd been sleeping with the whole time. The guy I've been with for 4 years now, who dealt with my trust issues after my bad break up and was patient and my hero and showed me that I could actually love someone again, my REAL BOYFRIEND. And woo boy, those were some texts. Good Lord. Because my ex did not get it, he was just not going to understand how bad he destroyed me until I did it back. And it worked - it destroyed him and it's been great. **Small disclaimer: he did end up putting me in the hospital that night so I don't suggest you try this unless you know for sure they're not violent because I thought I was going to die that night 😬. Worth it.

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mydogisnala@reddit

How did you get him back tho??

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TabootLlama@reddit

Wild!!! This is some seriously awesome revenge.

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BleuTsunami@reddit

Tell her everything, and then be her affair partner.

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Vismajor92@reddit

You may be salty and angry. But have some compassion, his wife and kids are innocent in this. You report and they get divorced, so what? He need to pay child support, but the kids will have seperated parents, the wife will be crushed.. Sure he is an asshole. But i know for sure that my wife would hate you for telling her eventho i did the bad thing. We both share the same view, if you cheat and you tell your spouse about it the only thing you achieve that you put the burden on her/him and you relieved, which is wrong.

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royale_wthCheEsE@reddit

Lots of people telling you to cut your losses and move on. Not me: if this dude got away with it and is still with his unknowing wife, drop that dime. Include all the receipts possible. Introduce him to the world of spousal support, child support (complete with medical insurance) and losing half that community property. If he broke that bro code, that’s what he deserves.

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Vismajor92@reddit

But why the dude? I couldn't care less who fucks my wife, my way bigger problem that my wife fucked somebody other than me

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Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit

Yup. Just don't doxx the exwife or kids. They're innocent in this.

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PleasantPorpoisParty@reddit

And put his info into cars dot com for every make and model in a 500 miles radiance with an urgent timeline to buy now. Their phone will be blowing up for months

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Flux_My_Capacitor@reddit

Revenge is awesome. Nobody gives a shit if you go on to live an awesome life. This is just something losers say when they have no way of seeking revenge. 😂

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filtersweep@reddit

You look like a small and petty man if you are too weak to get over a bad relationship. A loser dwells on the past. There are many ways to look at this. I’d assume the cheating was justified if the dude acted like a man child in response.

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spotpea@reddit

This is freaking shitpost sub....

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eandg331@reddit

You know normally I would agree with you but unfortunately there are people in this world who just will never ever understand how their actions have affected other people unless something of equivalent awfulness is done back to them. Ask me how I know. And yes it's been real fun for my petty AF ass ☺️.

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Dazzling_Demand9678@reddit

I am unable to achieve my revenge, I think it’s hopeless - but I will 100% do what I can to help someone else.

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Dazzling_Demand9678@reddit

“The best revenge is being happy” omfg am I sick of hearing that. No bitch. The best revenge is the sweet salty tears of a Frenchman (hypothetically of course) or whatever region they may be from.

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spotpea@reddit

Then bang wife.

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Dazzling_Demand9678@reddit

These people deserve to know that their actions can have consequences. They shouldn’t be allowed to get away with it and continue being happy all the while hiding what a piece of shit they are.

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eandg331@reddit

💯💯💯💯

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sbbln314159@reddit

Post lost dog style PSA signs in their neighborhood & place of work titled something along the lines of, "Does your husband have ____? If so, he might be a cheater!" Slowly swap the ____ for more and more specific identifiable information, culminating with a hidden tattoo. Slowly move the posters closer to his house and office, one block at a time. Do this over the course of MONTHS. As you get closer, you may overhear some fallout. Enjoy.

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Wrong_Suggestion_123@reddit

That's incredibly petty and takes a lot of work... and may I also say, it's devilishly genius.

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Dazzling_Demand9678@reddit

Hypothetically how to do this if you don’t live in their area? Asking for a friend 🤣

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CptBronzeBalls@reddit

Fiverr I guess

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Dazzling_Demand9678@reddit

Hmm yeah probably

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SubstantialPressure3@reddit

The affair partner is just as bad as your partner, but let's not forget that YOUR spouse was the one that betrayed you, and that's who you should focus your anger on. That being said, I would find a way to let the affair partner's spouse know. And I would give some specific details, particularly if you have dates/times. And let the chips fall where they may.

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zoomzipzap@reddit

youd be surprised how cruel and disrespectful an affair partner can be toward the betrayed spouse.

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SubstantialPressure3@reddit

Of course. They have to justify what they are doing, somehow. But the cheating spouse also has a lot to do with that. Because they have to justify what they are doing, too. And they are both probably telling each other how dumb/terrible/mean their spouses are.

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Shell-Fire@reddit

My friends AP got sued by her ex husband for Alienation of Affection. That's kinda scummy. But a good idea.

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sam_likes_beagles@reddit

Life pro tips are something that benefit you. I think you might be looking for r/darkside or r/SithOrder

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Critical_Cat_8162@reddit

Just a reminder that the affair partner was not the one that screwed you over.

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WantonWord@reddit

Actually, most affair partners (80% plus) know they are the cheating trash, and especially women take joy in stealing another man as it gives them a feeling of power over another woman. Yet another reason to never forgive a cheater - not just the lies, betrayal, potential exposure to whore diseases, ect. - how could I ever trust a man who put a whore first, throwing away everything, while a whore steals and smirks and doesn't even want him, just he's a lying loser sack of shit that can't be relied upon for anything?

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Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit

The misogyny, misunderstanding of STIs, and shaming of sex-workers latent in that comment is astounding. I get the anger at being cheated on, but there's a **lot** of people catching strays over a person who you've fairly described as > lying loser sack of shit There's two people deserving of your ire, nobody else. But for your own sake please consider, do you deserve to waste your life on this hatred? "You deserve to be loved, and to feel loved, just for being you." --Mr Rogers mashup with my meditation teacher That does NOT mean anyone is obliged to endanger themselves or otherwise subject themselves to less than equitable treatment in order to give love to or receive love from others.

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WantonWord@reddit

You make a lot of ass-umptions here. I hate them, but I just move on, and after too much hurt, I just gave up due to abusers and their whores. They all knew, too - not just the whores, but their family and people who pretended to be friends. I support stopping sex trafficking, of course, but being a whore means exchanging sexual favors for profit, and there are more ways than money to profit. Save your bullshit and pop psych for someone who cares.

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riverscreeks@reddit

> 80% plus Curious if this is from a study or just a guess. From my experience, I’ve been the affair partner twice. Both times I was unaware that I was an affair partner. From my perspective I was also being cheated on.

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reggie316@reddit

I do see both sides- and yes, the cheater is very much the main person to blame. In my case? The skank he cheated on me with knew damn well I existed both times around. Try as I might, I couldn’t find her blameless, especially since she tried to spin it that they just “couldn’t help it” bc “they fell in love at first sight”. She had all the power in the world to put her foot down and say “no” to any advances as well. But yes, any way to let the chips fall as they may and let affected parties find out what they need to find out? Do whatever you can

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gooeyjello@reddit

I hear your hurt and I'm sorry, but you're being quite crass.

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grumpy__g@reddit

Listen, you can be mad at the affair partner or think about it differently: Both were manipulated.

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WesTxStoner425@reddit

I think OP is fully aware of who screwed whom.

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FinanceMe03@reddit

You can do some damage with the time of birth!

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ICanBeAnAssholeToo@reddit

I can do some astrology natal chart fortune reading thingy but I’m not sure how to translate that to any damage… would be interesting to try though..

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ultrahateful@reddit

That’s easy. Print out his reading and then quickly paper cut his nostril with it. Follow up with piss disk.

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exintrovert@reddit

Unfortunate astrology chart?

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horsetooth_mcgee@reddit

I just hope they know whether it's a.m. or p.m. It makes all the difference.

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Biuku@reddit

Especially with a Time Machine…

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FickleVirgo@reddit

Ive always favored the, "sign them up" for everything approach. Interested in the Ladder Day Saints house calls and mailers- sign them up. Interested in receiving information about STD's from various health related agencies-sign them up. Interested in different types of weight loss treatments from various types of providers-sign them up. Interested in selling your house and need a realtor-sign them up. I think you get the picture.

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sam_likes_beagles@reddit

This sub used to downvote posts that were just revenge with no benefit to the OP

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Tikimom@reddit

So many assume X is a male. Planning revenge is sweet. Carrying out may not return the expected results.

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UmweltUndefined@reddit

Steal their identity and get back together

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BluesBlacksmith@reddit

why do you think it's hus fault that your spouse did that to you? grow up sone balls, that's why she betrayed you

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geoshoegaze20@reddit

Do nothing now. Wait a few years then act.

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Original_Rent7677@reddit

This is the way.

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teddyoctober@reddit

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

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TabootLlama@reddit

Besides the info above, do you have much evidence to share with the spouse being cheated on? Like, irrefutable evidence? Dates you know they were together she could reflect back on, or check phone records to see if where he said he called her from and where the calls were actually being made line up? If it’s ongoing and you have money to throw at it, hire a PI to see what they can dig up in this regard. Hard to maintain total denial when you have it recorded and present it to her. If none of that applies, as long as you’re not mailing illegal stuff, a letter to the wife followed by emailing everyone in the company directory you can find might do some damage. Obviously, stand-by for blowback. If this kills his marriage, you might be doing your ex a favour, should they end up together. If the info you share could only come from you, be prepared to be part of the drama as it unfolds.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Hmmmm I wonder why this person’s partner had an affair.

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PNW_Uncle_Iroh@reddit

lol I was going to say the same thing. I know what sub we’re in, but OP is completely unhinged. Sorry people are downvoting you.

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Mieniec@reddit

If you think any reason for cheating is justifiable, you're an evil person.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Nobody is saying it’s justified, it is explained however.

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Mieniec@reddit

Absolutely not. Omg I wish you never have a life partner.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

You’re personally surprised that a person like OP got cheated on?

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Mieniec@reddit

That's crazy talk. It would NEVER be expected, wtf dude?????

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Really? I don’t see how you can be surprised an insanely toxic person like OP would get cheated on.

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Mieniec@reddit

I'm not toxic like that myself, that's how. Newsflash buddy, only toxic people would think it's to be expected to cheat on other toxic people. Wtf.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Not sure I understand, did you read OP’s post? Could you imagine a person like that would create a good relationship?

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Mieniec@reddit

Yup, you don't understand. It doesn't matter if you can't create a good relationship with them or not. If you think it's fine to cheat on toxic and bad people, you are as toxic and bad as them, period.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Could you find where I said it was fine? My statement was that I am in no way surprised that a person like OP got cheated on. It feels to me like you’re having trouble following what I’m saying because of something you yourself experienced with this topic.

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Mieniec@reddit

I personally don't see the difference between saying "it's fine they cheated, there's nothing wrong with that" and saying "it's fine they cheated, their partner was horrible"

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Good luck finding the comment I made that said either of those things. So you genuinely not understand that something being easily expected and something being fine are two separate concepts? Are you dumb fr fr?

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Mieniec@reddit

No dude, you can easily expect that someone cheats, it's possible to expect someone to do something bad. If you expect someone TO BE CHEATED ON, that's the cheater mentality.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Is it possible to expect an obvious thing to happen and still think that it’s a bad thing to happen? If the answer is yes, you’ve contradicted your dumb points.

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Mieniec@reddit

That's the thing: it's never obvious that someone will be cheated on. If it's obvious for you, you're a cheater or at least have a cheater mentality.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Why do you think I know that you were cheated on? Because it’s obvious, just like it was obvious that OP would get cheated on. Both cheating are unjustified and bad.

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Mieniec@reddit

You are a cheater then. And I was not cheated on. I didn't have a lot of girlfriends and I'm with my now partner for over 6 years. I'm just not a morally twisted person that would expect someone to be cheated on. You just made assumptions based on nothing. All you represented with yourself is basically admitting you would cheat on someone, if you decided they would be expected to be cheated on. I would stay away from you irl.

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Mieniec@reddit

Saying there's no surprise is basically saying it's fine. I don't have trouble following, you don't understand what you're doing is normalizing cheating. This is a surprise and always should be, otherwise it's just admitting it's fine.

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Purple-Lamprey@reddit

Saying you’re not surprised by something means you think it’s fine? Are you dumb?

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Mieniec@reddit

Like I said, you don't understand what you're saying is normalizing cheating, I don't care if you think I'm dumb.

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Mieniec@reddit

Absolutely not. Omg I wish you never have a life partner.

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Mieniec@reddit

If you think any reason for cheating is justifiable, you're an evil person.

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TheSizzlerRizzler@reddit

Drop the other spouse a breadcrumb. If they’ve ever had an inkling, they follow it and learn what the other three involved parties already know. If they choose to ignore it because they prefer willful suspension of disbelief, then you didn’t force feed it to them and make them feel like a fool. Bottom line as they deserve to know, it’s their health and safety involved at the end of the day after all, but allowing them to discover it in a more organic fashion will empower them with the ability to make decisions strategically. And then, burn all the rest of it cause it’s fucking toxic, and because you will without a doubt obsess over the next pain point to exploit instead of starting to heal and remembering how to smile again.

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rjnd2828@reddit

It's good advice but way too ethical

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TheSizzlerRizzler@reddit

I did stray of course there, didn’t I? Redraft: blackmail your ex and her fuck-toy for every dollar you can, dime him out anyway and split the take with his soon to be ex-wife (retain option to savagely revenge bone each other, send nudes as appropriate)Catfish the shit out of your ex with ai generated Tinder/bumble profiles surgically tailored to be irresistible to her base motivators (cuz, if you’re going scorched earth, don’t half ass it).

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Own_Ideal_9476@reddit

That is true. If you are going to do it, go all the way. Plan it all the way through

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Own_Ideal_9476@reddit

I'm pretty sure what you are proposing goes beyond simply unethical into the realm of criminal. It is also pointless to put your freedom at risk for zero gain other than a fleeting feeling of vengeance. There is nothing special about the info that you have anyway. You could search SnusBase for more details on them from web breaches, things like: usernames, passwords, porn sites that they visited, etc. You might find evidence of them cheating on your spouse. I suppose that wouldn't be so bad. That's a dark rabbit hole to go down.

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Dull_Banana1377@reddit

Using some of that if is criminal so make sure you cover your tracks.

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vermilion-chartreuse@reddit

True revenge is letting them have the cheating partner and laughing when they're shocked that it happens to them

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eandg331@reddit

Oh God and you know it will! What a great day.

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ashleyshaefferr@reddit

Fuck this is weeeeeeiiirdddd

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sleestakarmy@reddit

both of them knowingly did this. they are both garbage. let the spouse know and move on.

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snakepliskinLA@reddit

Send Adult toys with a gift card from your Cheating Ex saying “Thinking if our last time together. Hoping you think of me when you use these! Love, Cheating Ex.

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Yoink1019@reddit

#1 is telling his current wife. #2 is fucking her. #3 is moving on

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RonanH69@reddit

#4 fuck his mother.

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31renrub@reddit

I think you meant #4. Get Time Machine 5. Use Birth Date info to figure out when they were conceived. 6. Fuck his mother 9 months prior to birthday. 7. Become his father.#

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magseven@reddit

8. Ground him.

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TwoPlyDreams@reddit

Call him Luke?

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We_Are_Not__Amused@reddit

I think you mean 3: moving in with her? 🤣

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UnusualAd8875@reddit

Yes!

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CptBronzeBalls@reddit

Well said Sensei

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princesscharles@reddit

Sign them up for spam calls or emails lol.

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j48230@reddit

Let it go. It will come back to haunt you.

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Apprehensive_Bed9083@reddit

Isn’t all of us pretty much findable with like a name sometimes just an address or a phone number You really wanna screw over the person that you were in a relationship with cause the partner of whoever your partner cheated with didn’t do anything to you and you weren’t in a committed relationship with whoever your partner cheated with on you

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EpicMediocrity00@reddit

I find your text almost impossible to decipher but assuming I did it right, I agree. However, I did downvote you for making me waste my time.

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East-Psychology7186@reddit

Blame your EX not the person(s) they cheated on you with.

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sam99871@reddit

I think I understand why your ex-spouse left you.

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Wishfull_Drinking@reddit

Call them from a random number. Ask for them by name. Throw in their address so they know it's serious. Let them know you've been trying to reach them about their car's extended warranty.

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flearhcp97@reddit

Are there kids involved anywhere in this situation?

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exotics@reddit

Your ex partner is the one to blame. Not the person they cheated with.

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No_Educator_6376@reddit

Your best shot is if your ex gets in a legal dispute

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rsukul@reddit

Everything past telling their current spouse gets into something either too unethical, is a charge, or hurts someone else. If you want to be unethical, destructive and getting in and out quickly, you offer to trade your silence for something. Everything else will leave you feeling unsatisfied and like you've wasted time unless you have a personality disorder.

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grumpy__g@reddit

Glitterbomb.

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Few_Ad_7613@reddit

Glitterbomb piss disk.

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zuklei@reddit

Piss disc then move on. You’re already divorced.

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ScooterRags@reddit

Get a burner phone send this dude a message but not as you to his wife about his cheating ways. Drop a few breadcrumbs so he or your ex can’t 100% say it was you.

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The_AlmightyApple@reddit

Grow up and get over it lmao this some highschool shit

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types-like-thunder@reddit

You should not use this website for any purpose other than the intended one. [https://mailbait.info/](https://mailbait.info/)

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P-E-DeedleDoo@reddit

"For my loved one" mushy greeting cards delivered to each address signed "Me". Maybe misdeliver a few to the unsuspecting partner.

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Charlie24601@reddit

The ethical thing would be to tell the affair partner's spouse so they know they are being cheated on as well. But since this is the unethical advice sub... Call their place of business as well and tell them. If you still want more carnage, go on the businesses social media and post about the affair.

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einstein-was-a-dick@reddit

AP spouse. Could backfire, they could be separated and show their hand.

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oak_and_tonic@reddit

Go to the other side of town, mention casually to someone that you think it's perhaps potentially possible that the affair person was cheating and just wait to see how fast the rumor spreads. Don't mention it was with your ex. Be cool 😎

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DunstonCzechsOut@reddit

You want them to hurt like you've been hurt. But they won't be, because they committed the act in the first place. Just let the other person's wife know, since they deserve to know what's going on. You have brighter days ahead OP don't sink. I'm wishing you closure and if you do find a creative way to feel like you've evened the score I hope it works out!

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Positive_Reference96@reddit

Actually the partial ss may be enough to determine what the rest of them are so long as they're older than 11 I think which is the new system but you can basically find the rest of a social if you have the last 4 especially if you know where they were born. Give it to me Ill run it up lol

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kissmyhappyass420@reddit

Post an ad that you’re selling a car at an unbelievable price. That, or renting out an apartment/ house.

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gooeyjello@reddit

Find out when the office Christmas party is, go, bring the wife

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SmallPeederWacker@reddit

Theoretically if you write all that info down in your notes app and send the screen shot to those scam texts that could do some damage.

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Significant_Meat_421@reddit

Or any rehab or higher learning place.both of them are persistent mf'ers

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exintrovert@reddit

…but this suggestion is supplied for educational purposes only, of course.

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Ipsilateral@reddit

Do you live in Ann Arbor and is your ex husband a former D1 football coach?

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Fluffychipmonk1@reddit

Haha damn.

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arouseandbrowse@reddit

Send them an anonymous tip that your ex is cheating on them. Then tell their spouse.

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Jimmy-U-Wont@reddit

Voodoo

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MzOpinion8d@reddit

I’m not sure if you realize this, but the “plethora” of information you list is stuff you can find online in like 10 seconds. The AP isn’t the one who betrayed you. I am certain you actually DO have a plethora of information about the one who did. If you want revenge or validation or whatever, seek it on the one who broke your vows.

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Outspoken_Idiot@reddit

Why... It's not his fault you ex cheated with him !! Does he know that she was in a relationship? Did you and your ex meet when you were both single ? It's water under the bridge let it go. It would be different if it was a mate of yours who did the deed, blame her not the fling party unless they already knew you.

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Niniva73@reddit

Going after the person who didn't owe you fidelity? I mean... As a devoted poly widow, with no interest in settling down with a third husband who's just gonna die on me, I don't have a good way to screen for cheaters.

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BrownEyedGurl1@reddit

Tell the affair partners spouse, and employer. Sign up for every spam service and church list you can think of. Tell your ex spouses new partner.

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eXclurel@reddit

Send a message to the wife with some proof like text messages or photos. Do not do anything else because you are not someone who can think of ways to fuck with someone by yourself with all the information you have and you have to ask what to do here. You will fail. You can even be arrested. Don't even try. You are not any of the things you said you are. You are just bitter and sad because a person you loved betrayed you. Send a message to the wife with proof on a different account than your own and move on. You are better than this.

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Therapeuticonfront@reddit

I read about this woman who was arrested and charged for fraud for creatj g fake dating profiles for an ex partner and his mistress with a fake name on the seediest of hook up sites/apps under with enough details to make it identifiable The offences were linked to the fact she created a fake letter from a sexual Health clinic and sent it to the persons work colleagues advising them they need to get tested due to the highly infectious strain of genital herpes and warts that the fake name on the website had contracted- they weren’t able to identify the person because they had been a secondary infection from a large orgy, but were linked to that workplace. This would get you jailed?

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Juicy-Lemon@reddit

>Date, Location, and Time of Birth You could have their star charts done!

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Necromartian@reddit

And pay for a croocked medium who will do a shit luck chart for them.

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bigfathairymarmot@reddit

Devious!

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bigfathairymarmot@reddit

Funny thing is I can find most of this info out on people just with internet searches. Cyber stalking is kind of a hobby of mine.

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BluBeams@reddit

>I have literally been silver plattered a plethora of personal information about my **ex-spouses** affair partner. Ethical advice: Move the hell on. They're an ex. Get over it. If you can't, seek therapy to help you process why you still harbor such anger and hatred after leaving your spouse. Unethical advice: search the sub for what to do with that info.

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National_Frame2917@reddit

With the business address you could send a dicks by mail to their work address. If you get their bosses name you could send it to their boss from them. Or you could send them one at work.

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celerypooper@reddit

In true Reddit fashion, piss disc all the above addresses

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Live-Motor-4000@reddit

My advice is to move on and enjoy your life - this POS has already taken enough of your time and emotions. But, revenge might help you heal - I dunno. So, sign him up for a load of religious, political, sketchy and sexual wellness junk mail. Contact the wife so she definitely knows the sordid details If you’re going to send people to the house, be careful you don’t cause his poor wife to suffer more. And don’t just dial pizzas as you will be screwing over some poor bastard who works for tips

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