I don't know why I'm having this sub so reccomended but I wore that in 2002 xD I'm always just one step behind on fashion because I'm 34 and grew up dirt poor...
At least I get most of the throwbacks haha!
Fashion is kind of a wasteful and dumb concept anway, you are not missing out. Most of it is a waste of money and artificially driven.
Just find clothes that you enjoy and durability-wise stand the test of time, and you will probably be happier in the long run.
Some of the best clothes you will ever find are the ones someone else has already worn and stress tested for ya~
:( it's been a minute since I bought clothes and I've gained like 30 pounds and the jeans don't fit! The dresses do. But then I'm fancy in boring hair and no makeup.
I am unique. But it's a little stressful.
The stress people put on others for their clothing appearances is a huge part of the problem. Like you mentioned HR and my brain immediately twitched a bit and I had a lil flashback to my Hawaiian shirt battle I had once. (It met every bit of the dress code...,)
As a perpetually tall fat man who worked remote for the last 7 years I am now out of touch with what is socially acceptable dressware. But when I find clothes my size, its often best when I can find it used.
Goodwill and other veteran type used stores are good for that for me.
XD I pmed you but also, do you find jeans? I'm struggling with the lower part more than the upper part. P.s dresses ROCK but it's cold af in MN and I don't even fit into the tights I had last year >.>
I buy a ton of my jeans from the Walmart clearance rack. Now I am plus sized and love the Terra Sky brand. Around me they usually are 9 dollars on the clearance rack. But I have literally found jeans for a dollar a pair before.
Honey I'm shaped like a manatee got her wish to be human and kept her shape. If you just need them for work go cheap and comfy. Fuck walmart sells old lady stretchy jeans with no zipper or buttons and they even have pockets. As my grandma used to tell me in her thick PA Dutch accent "If someone doesn't like how you look they can just look a different direction."
I need the fashion police to buy me a wardrobe cause I really need ground up help. I am a 34 year old showing up with a hoodie and a wrap dress and angry someone is going to say something about my flats instead of boots.
Being drunk on a Friday night isn't gonna help though! But it's about 3am and I'm going to jam and play Mario kart because I have no kids.
:( good old boy Beau pooped a little by the door and it got on the fluffy part of boots? Just gonna dawn dish soap it tomorrow after using a fork to crunch the diarrhea off.
I'm optimistic but sometimes life stinks xD
I didn’t BUT just the other day I saw a rug made the same way and stood in the store cackling at an actual drug RUG 🤣🤣🤣 I’m so glad I finally had a reason to tell that story
Cmon the alternative was chet, biff or a Republican. Which ironically is where half the grown Lebowskis sit politically despite years of weed and hackin. Everybody legit in the 90s had a rage against the machine/blind melon moment. The drug rug was part of the uniform. Bricklin Meyer wore it best.
You just described me so well, lol. We were four guys flatmates and the ponchos were in a communal rotation. Every sunday playing hacky at the mountain in Mtl...
A whole clade of young men kind of just pokevolved into that. All the sudden you're choosing shoes based on how tight a kick you can get on the bean bag.
I remember getting dime bags from sketchy dudes out behind the pool hall. Dirt weed and was like 30% seeds. Nowadays I can get my artisanal lab tested super-weed delivered to my door legally in a fancy glass jar.
It's incredible how far we've come, when you think about it.
You used to have to text a guy, wait a couple hours for him to show up, and smoke a bowl with him while he ate your food and hit on your girlfriend if you wanted to buy weed.
And now I can just walk down to the corner and pick it up from the weed store. No stems, no seeds, THC content and strain are printed on the canister. Whole transaction took less than 30 minutes. The clerk wasn't a creep, and I didn't have to make pizza rolls for any-fucking-body.
Text?! This was not an option for me 😆. I had to nervously approach my cute neighbor and ask if he could find me some! 9 times out of 10 I chickened out and hoped a friend could do it instead.
I had a crush on that guy from Clueless. Even though I was a totally straight-laced goody goody lmao. He seemed like such a sweetie and I thought he was cute.
Ha! When I grew my hair out in college (late ‘90s) I somehow started getting attention from the goody-goody young women. That wasn’t what I was expecting.
Hey! I showered! I never *shaved my pits* and I rode ponies twice a week. I showered plenty.
You just can't wash a baja very often or it will fall apart. It takes on a "patina" ok!! Plus we weren't rich, we're *house poor!!*
Oh god they are one of the ugliest articles of clothing. They look like they are made from the carpets in a convenience store like right when you walk in.
They never went away here, I’ve been seeing in the evenings at the beach for 30 years. I always like to imagine the beach kids wearing them now pulled them right out of their dad’s closet.
You can't not wear them to the beach without wanting to stay past sunset and light Heineken cartons on fire while smoking a pinner.. girls wore them too.
Can confirm: am girl. Also the sand shakes right out so you can comfortably put it over the car seat and not get all soggy after you swim in your cutoff jeans.
Got mine summer of 92 on the OCMD boardwalk. We called it a Baja. The girl I liked said she thought it was cool and I asked her if she wanted it. Smooth as gravel.
Jerga in Spanish literally is like a rough coarse cloth (like to scrub floors) so I bet that’s it. All the way up in the lower NE US though, impressive. I’m from the Cal Bay Area and we always called them “Bajas”
We called them jergas where I grew up (PA/NJ/DE). I would see them at the boardwalk all the time but I always felt like they were The Bad Texture on the outside and could never bring myself to wear one. I got itchy just looking at them.
I moved in 7th grade from a town where these were not a trend to a city where all the cool kids were wearing these hairy scratchy ponchos and I was SO confused.
I told my wife who is german, that when they made the 90s show the cloths were off. Not one kid wore one of these. You couldnt swing a dead cat in the 90s without hitting 4 people wearing one of these. Also there was surprisingly little plaid on the show too.
One Christmas me and my brother each got one from a relative that heard they were “in.” Wore them occasionally. Fortunately neither of us became That Guy.
Bought one in 1998 for $12 at an amusement park. I was a suburban kid from the rust belt suburbs. Didn’t care if I looked like a poser (i definitely did and was), it just felt right. Wore it to multiple outdoor outings and frat parties in college. It’s probably buried somewhere in my parents basement. I’d wear that thing now if I wasn’t so damn fat. I have no shame.
Back in the 70s in my suburban L.A. county high school, wearing this meant you often went to Mexico to surf over the weekend, or you wanted people to think that you did.
In fact, my cousin bought me one of these when a guy she was dating took her to Mexico to surf over the weekend.
Now, I live in Berkeley and you could find better versions of this in "head shops" that don't actually sell marijuana. But they do sell very expensive camptastic art that has Jimmi Hendrix smoking weed and playing guitar with Kurt Cobain all in psychedelic colors printed on a large mirror.
https://preview.redd.it/nopqka3p65cc1.jpeg?width=1252&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d41b6e43acfd0ef9db5b7f7419a62dbb80434d04
Wore this black and red one all the time. Paired great with my cords lol.
I never knew anybody that wore these that didn't also wear blown out Birkenstocks with unclipped tree climbing toenails. Sorry but I had a bad experience.
I always thought they looked horrible, but one friend of mine got one second hand and wore that damn thing every day. He was also stoned as fuck most of the time and liked hacky sack so... I guess the stereotypes are true!
My High School friends did. They were trying to be hippies. It was gross then, it’s gross now. The wooks are doing it. Ans they are even worse. Real trustafarians.
I still have one, git it as a gift. Not really crazy about the texture, a little too itchy. Has a friend when I was a kid that absolutely raved about his, so kinda' always wanted one myself. It's, meh...
I found myself downtown and the wind was getting cold off the sea, I was like shit, I'm under dressed! Alas, there was a shop that had them on a rack on the sidewalk for $20. Picked the best one and get compliments on it still, pilled as shit!
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