When do you stop giving Christmas and birthday money to extended family?

Posted by rebootsaresuchapain@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 112 comments

All my nieces and nephews are now over 25. Some even have their own children whom I put £10 in a card and just give a selection box to the parents. I have one niece and one nephew who I mentally file as ‘failure to launch’. They are 27 and 31, still living at home, never had partners, no kids and only one has a job. I’ve still sent them money. The aunts and uncles still send my kids money, as they are the youngest grandchildren. But even so, my youngest is 20 and they all work. Some of my SIL can be easily offended. I can see this being a drama is I stop the money in card.