When did you "lose a step"?
Posted by TheLurkerSpeaks@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 162 comments
Mowing the lawn today I felt overwhelmed, as if I'm just doing too much. Compared to five years ago I think I'm actually doing less and still have less energy. My wife gently reminded me five years ago I was five years younger. I feel like it really kicked into gear when I got Covid in 22. I'm not an old man, but I very much feel older every day.
jjgibby523@reddit
Skated in the hockey beer leagues for years. Hung up my skates near the end of my 30’s. In my early 40’s, had some younger friends ask me to dust off my skates and come back as they needed a good D-man.
I did, and I generally did a credible job but completed that season and hung up the skates again. I realized that while my mind could anticipate plays, moves, opportunities - perhaps better than ever- my wheels were a gear slower and that wouldn’t change much no matter how much conditioning I did.
Then, In my very early 50’s I nearly died from a rare, incurable disease. It was a hellacious fight back from the brink of the abyss. But 12 months later, I was able to go see some of the desert SW and hike some of the Bright Angel trail at the Grand Canyon.
Had another major relapse in 2022 and have been fighting back from that for nigh on 3.5 years+ now. Still not in remission but progressing. Doing some gentle conditioning and seeing results - pushups, brisk walks on days the neuropathy doesn’t have me unbalanced, yard work, chores, working on cars, just moving as much as possible.
But my energy level is improving at long last, albeit immune system is not, but still glad to be moving and enjoying life.
As the late General Chuck Yeager (Ret., USAF) once said “what was fun at 24 is still fun at 64, you just may be a step slower!”
ZebraBorgata@reddit
Yeah! I did beer league from my early 20s through early 50s. I just turned 58 and was considering going back to it to see if I feel like playing again.
HurinGray@reddit
Vulturev4@reddit
When the doctor told me I am developing arthritis in one of my hands.
I make my living with my hands.
mmpjd@reddit
I turn 53 today. I like to keep busy most of the time but I just don’t have the “oomph” that I once had. I tire easily some days. I sometimes wonder what my life will be like in 10 to 20 years from now if I’m finding myself struggling some days in my early 50’s. It’s still better than the alternative, though haha
Travelchick8@reddit
Happy Birthday!
Travelchick8@reddit
Have your heart checked. My sister just had a bout of a-fib but for a few months before this episode her energy levels were off. She attributed it to just age.
1968Chick@reddit
We're getting older...period.
Best thing you can do is strength train.
TapeFlip187@reddit
January 8th lol
https://i.redd.it/fzsilxjm9p4h1.gif
Glum_Manufacturer232@reddit
The ring cam caught my husband tripping over his own flip flops and busted his ass on the ground. He was very fortunate his head didn’t hit the cement. Once we made sure he was OK we laughed about it but I know it’s no laughing matter! He now wears stable shoes!
JohnMac67@reddit
Decent partial roll, haha. Sorry, hope no injury
TapeFlip187@reddit
lol thank you, thank you 💅
I thought for sure I peeled the whole buttcheek off my stretchies but not a scratch!\ Exquisite Walmart craftsmanship right there, haha..
ShartlesAndJames@reddit
got covid two summers ago and still don't feel I'm back to my old self. I get overheated more easily, and in general just don't have the stamina I used to.
Of course getting it right as I hit menopause didn't help, and I wonder which is more the cause of the symptoms/effects or if they're working in tandem.
MediumPlace@reddit
THIS!!!! I was in fantastic shape in 2024. Got a terrible, terrible bout of covid. Haven't been the same since, put on a bunch of weight. Just weak in general
Naive-Garlic2021@reddit
I've been declining in energy and stamina since age 40 due to hormone issues, but things got much worse in late perimenopause. Weeding gave me tennis elbow, stepping on a rocky beach tore my plantar plate, using power tools gave me carpal tunnel and TOS, nerve issues in legs gradually worsened. And the hot flashes and greatly worsened heat intolerance. It's like my body just let go in my very early 50s, though part of it was throwing myself into DIY to deal with grief. Nobody told me my body was much less resilient without all its estrogen!
demona2002@reddit
I’ve been on estrogen and that helped a lot but recently learned I am low on testosterone also and that was a game changer for energy levels.
Naive-Garlic2021@reddit
that's great! And thanks for the reminder. My doc has not wanted to put me on it but I think I should insist, just to see, because my life is wasting away here. What kind do you take--cream? pellets?
demona2002@reddit
I am doing cream. So good so far.
Mark_Underscore@reddit
Hormone replacement is a game changer. No need to suffer
Techchick_Somewhere@reddit
100% this. Helps with all of these problems.
ORF1Live@reddit
To be honest, each time I gave birth I felt less. Pregnancy was not kind to me.
amnichols@reddit
I hear you! My last pregnancy gave me sciatica. And I’m convinced it was the extra estrogen in both pregnancies that gave me a meningioma brain tumor 14 years ago. The brain tumor and subsequent hospital infection gave me fibromyalgia.
ORF1Live@reddit
Oh that's sad to hear, hope you're doing OK.
I have a permanent injury from the birth of my first child
No-Reading-4384@reddit
That long covid really me. Haven’t been the same since since.
Ok-Somewhere-2325@reddit
I remember reading that on most people covid was the hardest thing that body had every done.
No-Reading-4384@reddit
That long Covid just kicks your ass day and day out week in week out and nails you to the cross
thatleftturnatABQ@reddit
I got a new puppy last fall and now we chase each other around the house and yard for fun. I’ve definitely aged backwards a bit since getting her.
amnichols@reddit
I got a new dog (3 YO beagle) a couple of months ago. She only potties on walks so I’m now walking 3-4 miles a day. I’m pooped but she’s worth it. Another plus is that I’ve lost 10 pounds since getting her as I’m too busy to snack.
bibdrums@reddit
I hate this feeling of having to constantly guess if something is normal at this age or if something is wrong.
Panhandle_Mike@reddit
I feel the same, but in my case I wonder if my cancer is coming back or if it is my advancing age. I'm 65.
morganbroome@reddit
Hopefully your docs have a way to find out!
NoPretenseNoBullshit@reddit
Ramifications of Covid are destroying the well-being of people of all ages. It's not a flu, or a cold. It destroys the immune system, akin to AIDS, and damage's every organ system in the body. It's particularly harsh on the cardiovascular system. Around half the cases of Covid are asymptomatic. So unless you test you'll never know you are infected. Many times infection symptoms are so mild you may think you have a cold. However unlike a cold cumulative damage occurs with each infection, even ones without symptoms or mild ones. What you might be experiencing is post exertional malaise.
Maggieblu2@reddit
I teach PreK and am up and down off the ground numerous times a day, hike a few days a week with the kids, and I come home at night and wonder why I'm wiped out. 😂. They do keep me young at heart but some days my Gen X body revolts.
yarn_slinger@reddit
Between COVID, menopause, arthritis, losing 2 close family members and dealing with other family health issues in the past 5 years, I’d like to just retire from the world and keep to myself. I need to declutter and get rid of lots of stuff but I just can’t get up the energy to do it all.
omby@reddit
I'm right there with you, On the surface, I don't look like I have a lot of clutter in my house. That is, until you open my closets or go up to the bonus room upstairs. It's literally overwhelming just thinking about trying to cull all of it. I want to so badly, but I am in a complete functional freeze.
I went through menopause during COVID and it really messed me up. The uncertainty of everything, the anxiety, brain fog, weight gain, hot flashes, the isolation. I was already an introvert with social anxiety, and working from home for a year and a half, I completely lost my people skills. Been back in the office since 2021 and have not regained the social skills I lost. I work with my door closed and avoid people as much as possible.
DaveKelso@reddit
Gonna be 55 this summer, I cannot just bust my ass all day like I used to. Takes days to recover if I over do it.
SufficientOpening218@reddit
DancesWithPigs@reddit
Jokes on you, I never had a step.
JohnMac67@reddit
Good one
Hungry-King-1842@reddit
Losing a step is a relative term. I used to be a decent baseball player (played varsity ball and organized adult leagues in my 20’s) and played varsity basketball etc.
I noticed about when I turned 30 that I had “lost a step”. Catching up to a 90 mph fastball wasn’t so easy anymore. Seemed like the ball all of a sudden got a lot hotter coming onto the left side of the infield. The batted balls and the pitchers hadn’t gotten any faster, I just lost a step. When you’re playing in a competitive environment it doesn’t take much.
I have no issues doing anything work wise I used to do. Everything is fine there. So losing a step is a relative thing I would say.
Now, this whole vision degradation thing is for the birds. I always needed glasses for distance, but now I’ve found I need to take them off to read up close, but sometimes I need cheaters because super fine print I’m having issues with. That sucks.
jrsixx@reddit
Agree with everything. I played 16” softball for years. I was an outfielder and could get any ball hit out there pretty much. I could also hit a hard grounder to short or third and beat the throw every time… till about 35. First time in years I didn’t beat the throw. So I adapted and played 3 leagues a week for another 10 years or so.
I’m 61 this month, and while I feel like I’m in much better shape than 90% of my same age friends, I’m definitely slower and creakier than I used to be. 40 years of being a mechanic takes a toll on every damn thing.
MidwestAbe@reddit
How many Old Style's could you pound per game now vs then?
Watching young guys drink and play hockey reminds me of my age.
jrsixx@reddit
Man, old style was like Gatorade back then. At least one tall boy per inning, and 2-3 before and after. Now? I’d be full after two.
Mammoth_Sell5185@reddit
I used to play centerfield in softball and even until 33 I thought I was as good as ever. At 35 I was not. Just like the major leaguers, there was an obvious decline.
With everything else? Literally on my 40th birthday I started getting hangovers if I drank 4 drinks instead of 7.
Now? Mid 50s is wack. I got tired going grocery shopping after doing a couple of small chores. I’ve lost more than a step kimosabe, I’ve lost a whole fucking staircase.
discgman@reddit
56, had covid like 6 times. I am a pro now. Still have lingering issues but they are managable. I also have RA so I am a step slower from that. When my meds get stopped due to illness it takes longer to get back to normal. But I don't let it stop me. I continue to move, walk, exercise bike and golf on the weekends. I hobble around a lot when I over do it. But I would rather hobble than be stuck on a couch or chair the rest of my life.
Primary-Initiative52@reddit
59, and got hit by the truck that is rheumatoid arthritis. OH MY GOD. After a full night's sleep I wake up exhausted. I cannot begin to express how much this sucks.
discgman@reddit
Same and it sucks.
InstantlyTremendous@reddit
Atrophy is a real thing, our bodies are very much "use it or lose it", quite literally.
I make a point of going mountain biking every weekend, rain or shine. Because I know from experience if I miss a few weeks my fitness and strength will drop dramatically and take months of hard work to get back.
I'll also run up stairs any time I can, just so I don't lose the ability to do it.
Physically, I don't feel much different than when I was in my 30s.
RedKleeKai@reddit
This. I run, hike, bike, lift weights, ski… and went on a two week vacation where I didn’t lift, and my first workout back, while I could still do the same weights, I was way more tired doing it than normal. Took a couple weeks to get back into the grove.
omibus@reddit
I caught Covid in 2023 and I have not been the same since. For example, my typical afternoon walk went from a refreshing couple of miles to an exhausting couple hundred yards (about 200)…and then I collapse.
2zdj03@reddit
I pruned a few branches on Saturday with a pole cutter and trimmed the grape vine but was wrecked afterwards. I'm only 54 😞
Xyzzydude@reddit
I recently did a relatively challenging hike that I had also done two years ago. My minutes per mile went up 20% between the two times I did it. Welp.
Informal-Name3181@reddit
When my shoulder was injured. I was active, lifting weights, exercising daily and holding my own. Then a little rotator cuff problem derailed half my activity. And I can't stretch my body right with the injured arm, so everything hurts. Now my other shoulder is playing up because it's being asked to do everything.
I have a battery powered week eater and a battery powered limb trimmer instead of a chain saw, and my wheelbarrow has two wheels. It's not OK.
tampaforfun@reddit
Love my 2 wheel wheelbarrow. My father in law called it an old man wheelbarrow I consider it superior.
Also I have shoulder issues too. Lately I have been working out alot more and its getting better. Lat pull-down, rear delts, seated rows all help build up stabilizer muscles. Once they are strong your shoulder will move better.
Informal-Name3181@reddit
I jumped back into the weight room too fast after my last round of physical therapy. Now I'm chomping at the bit, but following directions to only do my therapy exercises a bit longer. Then I gave modifications in the weight room after that.
I didn't ask about yard work, so they didn't tell me that I can't do that.
ironicmirror@reddit
Fell and screwed up my knee 2.5 years ago...could not walk for a week, had a limp for a few months... That was the start of it.
PGHNeil@reddit
45 when my back gave out and realize that bunions were just toe blisters that old ladies complained about.
ONROSREPUS@reddit
Not there yet, thank goodness.
morganbroome@reddit
I have a serious health problem that has severely limited me but that covid strain that went around in 2022 was the first time I had i and it definitely made things worse. I developed acid reflux and orthostatic intolerance afterwards. Made the fatigue I was already having worse. If that's what you had, it certainly could have contributed in my opinion.
PinkyLeopard2922@reddit
I had gone my whole life without ever having a broken bone and then Christmas day 2020 I was trying to cover some plants on our lanai and went down backwards breaking multiple ribs. That was very, bad. A couple of years later I was putting up Halloween decorations and miscalculated the step down into our garage and broke two bones in my ankle. That one was way less painful than the ribs but has really slowed me down. I wish I could go back to being that lady who had never broken any bones.
Chemical-Carrot-9975@reddit
I will be 53 in July, and thankfully, have not "lost a step". I am more fit than I've ever been. I would say that small aches and pains are somewhat more prominent, but mostly things I can work through with massage and foam rollers, and by listening to my body and slowing down as needed. My concern about injury has grown for sure, but thankfully, I haven't lost anything yet. I am just smarter about what I attempt, given that the risk for injury is greater.
theblisters@reddit
When I had a nervous breakdown and landed in the hospital
Loomiemonster@reddit
I hope you are doing better now. I went through a similar experience last spring. Things are better now but it wasn’t an easy journey.
theblisters@reddit
Thanks
Two steps forward half a step back. It's definitely getting better
I hope you are seeing a sunnier world today too
lisanstan@reddit
I turned 61 last month. 5 years is a long time at my age, especially regarding physical health. I've never been into physical sports or working out. I'm more careful with my diet now, but still eat more bad than is good for me. I'm back at the gym after falling off the last few months. Just a bit of weight training and treadmill. I'm not building muscle or running (those days are long gone and my knees refuse). I also have two huskies and my musher girl gives me a workout trying to make her walk, not run. She's given me some nice biceps.
None of those things seem to improve my Type2 diabetes or HBP much anymore. After being well controlled for years, the lowest dosage meds no longer work. Genetics is a bitch. My mom died in 2019 at 75 of cirrhosis and was a lifelong alcoholic and smoker who had bypass surgery in her early 60s and also T2D. Dad is currently 85 and also an alcoholic with a CHF and uncontrolled T2D. I'm not sure he's going to keep his toes or feet at the rate he's going. My brother (63) is struggling with T2D and AFIB. He's also a chronic drinker and a smoker.
I quit smoking at 25, and have a drink maybe once every few months if we go out for dinner. I'm hoping i make it to the end in better shape than the rest of my bio family.
GospelofJawn316@reddit
Can definitely feel it having a football catch with my son. Used to be able to heave it a country mile like I was Uncle Rico. Now I’m giving it my all to throw 20-30 yards without it looking like a rainbow. And my arm is sore for 2 days afterwards.
mjh8212@reddit
Chronic pain has been my life for 16 years. Just as I started managing and making myself better I ended up with pots. When I passed out the first time is when I missed a step. I’m barely managing now and the pain is worse. Exercise raises my heart rate too much I’m at risk for passing out so I have to be careful.
addage-@reddit
Yardwork is deceptively tough. I do it early and late now and make sure I always hydrate before and after.
Workout a couple times a week and walk other days. But that doesn’t change the fact the sun can and will beat the hell out of me quicker than it did a decade or two ago..
-SpreadLove-@reddit
I lift weights 4 times a week and play pickleball 4 times per week. Could use a bit more cardio, and have sciatica, but otherwise feel great. Trying my best to not lose a step for a long time.
Fun-Position7750@reddit
I’m 54. Slipped on ice in Jan 24. Broke my wrist, rotator cuff surgery and now doing PT for the bicep repair they did. I’ve been stuck trying to heal. I’m walking but only since I’ve been out of the sling, a week now. I’m hopeful during PT I can strengthen my dominate arm. I’m still on work comp. At least for another month
missdawn1970@reddit
I don't think I have less energy than when I was younger, but I do have more aches and pains. When I do any kind of hard work like gardening, heavy cleaning or lifting things, I feel it the next day. If I skip a workout, my body hurts the day after I go back to it.
Beautiful_Extent_384@reddit
I also feel that I've "lost a step" after having covid. My ability to 10 key, for example, was gone overnight. I've practiced my way back to keying blind, but I'm no where near as fast, and I've been stuck here since I recovered.
jbsparkly@reddit
This is why I've started researching peptides in earnest
55 and feeling it...
BronsonBot@reddit
About a year ago I (47m) was feeling the same way. I then made the decision to rediscover my passion for cycling - worked at a bike shop during college and stuck with it for years before giving it up. I now have a good group of riding buddies my age, sleep better, have way more energy, and lost 30 lbs along the way.
Find your thing.
Legitimate_Bend_9879@reddit
I’m 46, but had originally “lost a step” around 38. I was overweight, sedentary, drank too much and had autoimmune issues. I dropped 40 lbs, found a strength training and cardio routine to stick with, quit drinking, eat less meat and I feel 28 again. No more psoriasis or joint issues. I’m not an anti-medical nut job, so I’m not claiming all autoimmune issues go away with lifestyle change, but mine did! Ive been maintaining for 6 years and I’m running my first marathon next month. Though I much prefer lifting over cardio, I wanted the challenge.
plnnyOfallOFit@reddit
I still work PT in the fitness industry, so coordination is my thing. Ya that makes me a cliche meat head in the world of media, but won't likely fall & break me hip too soon
IHoppo@reddit
58 here. I still mountain bike, 2 weekends ago I completed a 12 hour, 26.5 mile hike in North Yorkshire (Yorkshire 3 Peaks) - you've got to keep moving OP! It's tough, but if not then all you've got to look forward to is a life of sofa sitting.
kytulu@reddit
I turn 50 this year, work in a physically active job (A&P mechanic) and lift 2 to 3 days a week. I retired from the Army three years ago, and I am in slightly better shape now than I was then. I even lost around 20 lbs and went down a pant size.
That being said, the mileage is starting to catch up to me. I have less energy at the end of the day, and all the old injuries plague me at random times. I don't lift heavy anymore... my joints can't take it. Now it's lighter weights for reps.
IMO, the key is staying active. Once you adopt a sedentary lifestyle, your health declines.
oldschool_potato@reddit
I’m 57 and this is my first year I’m not playing hockey. Very depressing, but I started to get minor injuries that hampered work the last 2 years. And I had a noticeable drop in ability last year.
ImCaffeinated_Chris@reddit
Quitting hockey is one of the toughest things and I still miss it greatly. I feel you friend. Nothing else comes close to playing.
HelloMrGladstone@reddit
I play a weekly pickup. Ages range from thirties to seventies (and younger when people bring their kids). I'm 58. Skate until you drop.
AdorableSorbet6651@reddit
You shouldn’t quit. Keep moving. I am 57 this year and am playing on another team to keep it up as long as I can. You will become your user name the less you move. Go down a division or league - find other old guys or come join us girls! Well let you play net 😃
Weird-one0926@reddit
Lose a step, fall out of grace
MikeW226@reddit
Motion is lotion.
Jag-@reddit
All fall down.
lololesquire@reddit
51 year old dude here…yard work wears me out much more than it used to…one tactic is just do 30 minutes to an hour of whatever you can each day…for a longer session, go for 30 minutes, take 5 minute break…off and on. Nothing groundbreaking but I found it’s a practical way to deal with it.
Lightningstruckagain@reddit
56 here. Just spent the entire weekend completing tasks that 4 years ago I’d have all knocked out by Saturday afternoon. Same as you- I take breaks now. It’s also a mind set thing: No one when says a word or even cares if I don’t finish everything ASAP. Im learning to take it easier on myself
stueynz@reddit
I’m 60yo and rheumatoid arthritis hit 8 years ago. Can’t do DIY and projects all day all weekend any more. My dad has been dead for 4 years when he was my age, so every day is a bonus.
Primary-Initiative52@reddit
59, and RA hit me last year. This is quite the rough road we are on. Wishing you every good outcome!
PositiveStress8888@reddit
Keep moving and for God sakes strength training, get off the treadmill, we're getting to the age our body's start to shed muscle.
Strength training every day different muscle groups, you do r have to lift heavy, even just your own body weight.
Resistance training is the only way to keep mobile, and your muscles will take over where your bones and joint fail you.
jacamomo@reddit
Yep. Since covid vaccine everything has changed. Constantly fatigued. Mind doesn't work as quickly as it used too.
shadowstar36@reddit
Crazy how people here are so butt hurt from you speaking your experience. They mass downvotes you. It's ridiculous.
Expensive-Shelter288@reddit
I think there is something too this. I know a lot of people who feel the same way. Even has a name. Long COVID.
Techchick_Somewhere@reddit
They said Covid vaccine, not long covid. These are two different things.
Less_Than_Average1@reddit
46 - it hit me like a truck this year. Just started doing military workouts and I’m one week in and already feeling better. Stay moving gents!
fastballcdm2019@reddit
I can’t go for a run 2 days in a row, i need a day in between. I can’t golf twice in a week, i end up getting tired the 2nd day and sore. I’m 57. It’s a daily struggle.
CrankyUrbanHermit@reddit
I went over to my son’s house a couple weeks ago to help with some yard work.
I was only there for a few hours and I was completely out of commission the next day with exhaustion and sore muscles.
I think I got dehydrated and over heated, but holy cow, I was just pulling weeds.
obxtalldude@reddit
About 10 years ago before my knee replacement I could not lift a washer onto a stand.
That was the first time in my life that my legs could not do what I wanted.
I'm back to full force after a knee replacement and lots of work.
Which is pretty much what staying in place means now, you got to keep working just to not lose what you got at 55 plus.
I play 80 year olds who are still competitive in pickleball so there's real no hard limit. Depends on the person, genetics and luck.
Witty-Awareness-8819@reddit
I was feeling that way too, and slowly changed my diet (after finding out I had high cholesterol) and started to intentionally exercise daily using an app on my watch that indicated heart targets and trying to get to 20 high exercise points daily. I started this year, and wow, I feel 50% better and feel a bit more energized. I was doing less and eating more and had no energy, but after this change, I feel much more energized. I am still overweight, but my energy has increased so much. I took very small steps at first so not to hurt myself or get discouraged. I'm not following any trend, or any special thing, just doing what I like to do. I used to feel like I was about to have a heart attack after doing any kinds of exercise (working around the house or at work) but now can do more.
dcamnc4143@reddit
I felt it slipping away. Every walking up or down a flight of stairs was getting precarious. I've started doing "prison" style workouts, that require very little space, time, or equipment. Things like timed burpees, man makers, deck of cards workout, mexican prison workout, etc. I'm feeling pretty great again because they combine strength and cardio in one.
SolomonGrumpy@reddit
COVID
nchemungguy@reddit
I turn 52 next week and am in the best physical shape of my adult life. But I have noticed lately that an afternoon of working around the yard and house wipes me out quicker than it used to.
we_vs_us@reddit
I’m almost with you exactly. At 52, my biggest loss so far has been stamina. I wear out a lot quicker than I used to.
sharpfork@reddit
This is the “use it or lose it” chapter. Every time you slow down physical activity for multiple months you’ll lose a step.
If you are sitting on your ass all day resting up or some shit like that, you are doing it wrong. Exercise until you are tired multiple times a week.
talktojvc@reddit
I’m a 1979 Gen X and very tired all the time. Did the medical things, lost weight. Still tired. I got chickens and chase them around so it feels more like entertainment than work, but I also frequently wake up and wonder how I’m this sore from just sleeping.
Misanthre@reddit
Also 1979 GenXer here. I feel your pain. Literally. Way more tired than I was just a couple of years ago, and definitely starting to recover more slowly from almost anything...
MarcusAurelius68@reddit
https://i.redd.it/g50b6rsdan4h1.gif
It worked for Rocky
Vegetaman916@reddit
Haven't yet. On Tuesday I will be climbing a small mountain that is under a BLM closure order, and I will be doing it in order to get high res video of Area 51, which I will then be posting to YouTube. When I come down the mountain, I will most likely be arrested for trespassing, class A federal, and stuck in jail for a day or two.
I'm 50, and this will be a normal Tuesday for me.
Two weeks after that, I will be trying to avoid arrest near a sealed and shutdown nuclear reactor in California.
You can't lose a step if you don't slow down.
Techchick_Somewhere@reddit
You rock and have earned a YouTube follower.
GidgetXOX@reddit
Sounds awesome! Please DM me your YouTube name.
Vegetaman916@reddit
It's on my profile, my friend.
rollenr0ck@reddit
I’m 54 and I thought I lost a step when I started passing out when standing up. I’d been trying to figure out my health issues and kept coming up,with nothing. My blood pressure was low consistently, wasn’t getting any lower so I shouldn’t be passing out. It sucked because it was random and wiped me out. Then the heat started to get to me. Drained me so I didn’t have strength. Finally figured out I have celiac disease and have been poisoning myself for a while. I started to clean up my diet and one day I didn’t have a stomach ache. It felt unusual. My joints are feeling better and I’m not passing out. I like this. But then menopause and hot flashes. Damn, they are uncomfortable, but also make me feel drained.
Techchick_Somewhere@reddit
Talk to your dr about options for HRT.
trUth_b0mbs@reddit
this is why exercise is so important, esp when you're older.
A sedentary life creeps up on you fast, almost like it hits all at once over night, so if you aren't exercising now, start and make it a habit.
bonzai2010@reddit
I started running every day when I was 44. It's something I'd thought about and tried before, but I had switched to barefoot (with toe shoes) and I had much better form so things worked out. I've been running every day since.
I stopped drinking about 3.5 years ago and I got faster! I also stopped drinking coffee. I wasn't a heavy drinker (no more than one beer a day), but that change made a huge difference. I'm running much faster now than I was in 2012.
jacknbarneysmom@reddit
It does sneak up on you. I naively didn't think it would happen to me since I'm pretty healthy. I have never contracted Covid. I had (am still having) treatment for breast cancer last year and the hormone blockers I'll be taking for the next 5 years make me stiff and sore. I just try to keep moving every day. When I get tired, I rest. My 82 year old neighbor inspires me. He's out there every day, improving and working on his property. My advice would be to be kind to yourself and keep moving every day.
Meeplemymeeple@reddit
I felt it after returning from a month overseas with my wife at 52. So I changed my diet and got a gym membership. 9 months latter after losing 12kg I fell amazing and have so much energy. Youth was great because it seemed to require less effort but the effort now is worth it.
Meeplemymeeple@reddit
Also, work with your Dr. they will help you regain your fitness correctly.
supershinythings@reddit
After complaining about low energy and constant fatigue, my doc ordered a vitamin panel.
I tested for very low (below the lower bar for normal) vitamins B12 and D. It took about 3 weeks on twice a day supplements, and suddenly I started feeling MUCH BETTER.
From ChubbyEmu (medical youtuber) we know that especially low B12 over a long time has serious effects, but in my case it manifested as fatigue.
So consider getting your vitamin levels tested. Certain vitamins are important for cell metabolism so if that component is missing, it manifests in subtle but annoying ways.
If you’re around things like lead, also consider getting tested for heavy metals. My Dad popped for this when he worked at a gun range for several years. The air filters were poorly maintained so he and several others experienced unsafe lead levels. This was 30+ years ago so hopefully rules are enforced more strictly nowadays.
Anyway a few simple tests can evaluate if your metabolic balance is affected by deficiencies or excesses.
9inez@reddit
Quit doing my own yard 2011 and switched to doing sports to move my body and sweat instead.
Way more fun, friends and family will join you. That is more physically and mentally effective in keeping your step.
FlatSixFun@reddit
My lawn was costing $600 per mow, it only took a few of those bills before I bought a big zero turn mower to do it myself.
GidgetXOX@reddit
I’m 58 and felt that way when I was 50-53. At 54 I started swimming every day (May -Oct.) and walking Nov. -April to get my exercise/steps in. I lost 40 pounds and have maintained a “slim” figure, ideal BMI and have had more energy over the last year than I’ve had over the last two decades. Everyone is different so what works for me or some may not work for you but if you’re only
exerting energy mowing the lawn once a week you may want to try gently increasing your steps from week to week. But always consult a doc as there may be underlying issues. I’m the Queen of rare conditions but so far no doc has told me to stop swimming or walking.
mattyb07@reddit
I started a new job 6 weeks ago lots of walking involved and I'm averaging 12000 steps a day, feeling fitter and have more energy now and have dropped a good amount of weight
altblank@reddit
i look at my jungle of a backyard and feel the pangs of wanting to do *so* much, but not really wanting to do anything at all.
i got covid a couple times as well, but it's the slow slowing down that gets you more than a quick disease.
afschmidt@reddit
I feel this. It's like a wave come at you and it's overwhelming. Just try and do *one* thing, even if it is a small project. I had all these ideas of what I wanted to do and it is hard to get motivated. The thing is, you don't wait for motivation to find you, *you* start and the motivation will happen. You need to overcome the rock that is mental inertia.
altblank@reddit
absolutely agreed. making a start, however small is almost always the key first step.
thinking of the big picture is somehow a self-defeating exercise, even though that's what most projects need.
altblank@reddit
absolutely agreed. making a start, however small is almost always the key first step.
thinking of the big picture is somehow a self-defeating exercise, even though that's what most projects need.
WilfordsTrain@reddit
Do some strength training. I’m almost 50 and my energy levels rebounded after a few months of exercise 2x a week. I feel like I’m early thirties at this point. I would need to add some regular cardio to get my virtual age back into my 20’s, I’m trying to add that in the next year or so…. The challenge is always prioritizing the time.
non_curamus@reddit
I’ve been feeling it for a while, but was severely reminded of it Friday when working in my crawlspace to repair some ducting. Holding my arms up for long time, my neck, crawling on my belly over rocks and debris, and the absolute worst part to do any kind of work, I can’t see shit up close. The crawlspace is just like working on my truck. Everything I needed to see what just out of range of my readers and too close to see without. Plus the sweat and the dust in my eyes. I let out a few glorious strings of profanity and somehow got the job done.
And of course, I’ve spent the rest of the weekend with sore abs, sore neck muscles, sore shoulders, bruised hips and knees.
I don’t remember the specific moment I realized I was getting old, but little slaps in the face like this keep happening.
QuistyLO1328@reddit
To help with seeing under the truck/crawlspace: if your reading glasses are +2.00, try +1.00 readers. The higher the number, the closer you need to be to see the thing you’re trying to see.
I feel ya, I tossed the ball a few times with my dog and the next day I couldn’t raise my arm above midpoint for almost a week.
No-Masterpiece-6432@reddit
Wow 🤯 you just described my life for the last two years. i thought i was the only one but for me the kicker is it also came with a divorce.
KirkVanHootin@reddit
When did I “have a step”
jasiland@reddit
I'll be 61 in two days. Three weeks ago, I came down with that nasty cold/flu/NOTCOVID thing everyone in the Bay Area has and finally started feeling pretty much back to normal last week, went to a party (a small party) and, of course, stomach flu. I feel like my brain thinks I'm still 40, but immune system is all "nope, we're elderly now, folks".
Peaches4U2@reddit
Happy birthday!
jasiland@reddit
Thanks!
Hot_Poetry_6475@reddit
In 2020 when caught OG covid. I had also just turned 50. ☹️
tc_cad@reddit
Not yet, but I have been working really hard on getting my Mom’s house in order. Moving all the boxes and furniture. I ended up with tennis elbow in my left arm and golfers elbow in my right. Crippled. But couldn’t stop. However, the end is in sight, then I’m going for a massage and sit in a hot tub.
impulsive-puppy@reddit
I'm 53. I'm taking this next week off of wheel just to do house projects. I'm just not able to keep up with everything that needs attention ( yard, garage, basement, etc) otherwise.
No-Masterpiece-6432@reddit
yup im 54 and feel the same way. I need to take time off just to keep up.
fredout1968@reddit
It definitely gets harder..
DasderdlyD4@reddit
My joints and feet hurt, not just ache HURT after working 8 hours. Going from 59 to 60 was like entering another time zone. I’m worn out every day.
tranquilrage73@reddit
I love doing it all, but it really is exhausting.
unbewitchy@reddit
I got Valley Fever about 3 years ago (post-COVID — I’m sure my weakened immune system had something to do with how sick I was), and though I’ve recovered to a point, my energy and stamina have never fully come back. Not sure they ever will. As someone who cleaned houses during the Great Recession for extra cash and could work hard for four hours with hardly a break, I swore I’d never hire a housekeeper. But now, if I want to also keep a garden and do anything else other than work and rest, it’s necessary for me. I feel very grateful that I can afford it, but I wish I didn’t have to.
Junior_Ad_3301@reddit
If you still have the ability to work out, you need to. Doesn't have to be crazy, but we gotta keep moving to be able to keep moving. Wishing you resolve and strength
chamrockblarneystone@reddit
I’m ashamed I’ve spent yet another winter not working out.
Surfing season has started for me and every year it gets harder and harder to break off the rust. This year I’m worried about my back.
Once I’m in shape again I will not stop working out!!
fredout1968@reddit
This is the key.. As I have aged i am now working out all year. Because coming back from breaks is hard now.
chamrockblarneystone@reddit
I swore to myself last year! Now I want to kick my own ass. At least I kept the weight off.
Maleficent-Neat2964@reddit
Mentally or physically?
fredout1968@reddit
I ride mountain and road bikes and do yoga.. i am 57.. i managed 120+ miles this week between road rides, commuting, and a couple of mtn.bike rides. No yoga this week unfortunately. I also take care of an acre of grass and plants and the normal house maintenance.. I have definitely lost a step the fast rides are now 18mph vs 22mph and what used to be a ten hour day in the yard is now 5 hours a day x2 and I am more tired than ever.. That said, I am pretty happy to be as active as I am.. I will not go gently into the night..
CrankyDoo@reddit
I’m 56 now. My 40’s were a long process of getting rid of all my bad habits. I quit smoking and drinking at 45, and at 49 I got very serious about my diet and made some radical changes (I follow the Pritikin regimen). Then the pandemic inspired me to start running, and I now run about 25 miles per week. If you had asked me at 44 how I felt, I would have said “I feel tired and I feel like crap”. If you ask me now, I would tell you “I feel great, never felt better”. The only big effect I feel from aging right now is, I don’t have the stamina I did 20 years ago, and improving my run times is almost impossible. If I take even a few days off from running, it will set me back three months in progress. All this to say, I guess maybe 12 years ago I felt I “missed a step”, but I don’t feel that way now.
eastbaypluviophile@reddit
Menopause kicked my ass and has destroyed the body I had. Weight gain, aching joints, obliterated metabolism, flagging energy… all boxes ticked. Only 6 years ago I could keep up with or even outpace LEO’s who were half my age on rough hikes thru rugged terrain. Now I can only go a couple miles before my hip, back or knee pain becomes unbearable. I really hate what getting old has meant to me.
ShaiHulud1111@reddit
It was Covid in 2022. I had it three times so far, and I wasn’t the same after that one. I felt it immediately. Energy and fog. Since, I have bounced back 75%, but just slowed down. At 55, you expect some, but this seems extra. I am fit, eat well, and acttive.
Wise-Lab-2321@reddit
I'm 45, almost 46, and i got a very bad case of covid in Nov of 2023. It was my first infection that I'm aware of, but obviously asymptomatic infections are a thing so I can't be sure it was my first infection. Anyway, I've never been the same since. I definitely have less stamina than I did previously and I worked out a lot before then. I think maybe some of my stamina is finally coming back, but it's been slow. I really worry about the long term health impacts of that covid infection. :/
rogun64@reddit
I was around 45 when I first noticed. I was also very active at the time and so it wasn't due to a sedentary lifestyle. It just got harder to do the things I'd always done. I'm now 58 and it's gotten worse every year.
CoastRanger@reddit
Covid did it to me, was 50 and in the best shape of my life from farm work. Got covid, suddenly I could barely climb a flight of stairs without stopping and developed heart rhythm issues. Had to go back to a desk job.
It’s gotten slowly better in the following years. For many, the crippling Covid fatigue comes the day after you take advantage of feeling OK and do too much
PoisonCoyote@reddit
Check your testosterone level.
anonymois1111111@reddit
After I had a year of immunotherapy. It really took it out of me.
itwillmakesenselater@reddit
Couple of years ago, I helped out a hay crew a friend was using on his fields. I hauled hay every summer for years, but the last time was about 4 years before the above event. I was so sure it would be no problem. I was so wrong.
Kemosaby_Kdaffi@reddit
9 years ago, I tried running a couple blocks home. I was out of gas after 200ft. I had naively thought I could jog a 9-10 minute mile until that moment
caffeinetherapy@reddit
Are you running nowadays?
Old_Goat_Ninja@reddit
Not yet but I have a very physical job so I stay in pretty good shape just from that. Then I hit the gym regularly, but I think it’s mostly my job where I walk 20,000-ish steps a day. I hate walking that much but at the same time I’m kind of thankful for it, keeps me in good health.
Ckn-bns-jns@reddit
Just part of aging, the flu hits me way harder than COVID ever has. Use it or lose it, the more active you stay the more your body cooperates.