ULPT Request Revenge for false allegations

Posted by Future-King-8607@reddit | UnethicalLifeProTips | View on Reddit | 30 comments

I have a coworker who falsely claimed I sexually harassed her and called me a pedophile. Of course, HR and our boss did nothing about it. I have fellow coworkers telling me she's talking shit on me when I haven't interacted with her for weeks. I am beyond appalled by this behavior and am looking for revenge. I was interested in sms bombing but it is unfortunately illegal. Eagerly awaiting advice, thanks for your time.

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Soggy-Attempt@reddit

Talk to Hr and your manager

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Future-King-8607@reddit (OP)

Lol as mentioned in the post, they said "okay cool we cant do anything its a he said she said, just avoid each other."

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Soggy-Attempt@reddit

And you say she’s still being aggressive about this. It’s escalated.

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i-am-foxymoron@reddit

I'd get an attorney. She's already falsely charged you for sexual harassment, if she gets sms bombed, etc., she's going to accuse you no matter what.

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Future-King-8607@reddit (OP)

Good point,what could an attorney realistically do for me? I would have multiple witnesses (at least 2 or 3 guaranteed) corroborating my story and confirming she said these things to them. As HR said it's a 'he said she said' and I'm curious if anything would hold real ground.

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Melonfarmer86@reddit

Maybe send her a letter letting her know if she keeps harassing you you'll get a restraining order, sue, etc.

A letter from an attorney can shut up a lot of people.

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brobeanzhitler@reddit

Attorney could make piss discs

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Helpful-Salt83@reddit

Defamation possibly

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Future-King-8607@reddit (OP)

I would imagine something along the lines of defamation or slander? Not sure if it's worth pursuing.

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AggravatingBid8255@reddit

Well, a cease and desist letter delivered from an attorney via an official process server would deliver a helluva "fuck around and find out" statement. Even if you can't actually afford to bite, the bark might be enough to get her off your ass

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Ambitious-Concern-42@reddit

In Canada at least, creating a hostile work atmosphere is actionable. So document everything.

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SalisburyWitch@reddit

She’s saying you’re a pedophile and you sexually harassed her. She’s trying to get you fired and locked up. I think it’s worth defending yourself. Your lawyer starts with a cease & desist letter, which should be enough to stop normal people.

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i-am-foxymoron@reddit

Intentional infliction of emotional distress.

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i-am-foxymoron@reddit

First off you need to be documenting EVERYTHING. I'm not an attorney, so I would post that question to r/legaladvice.

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This-Room4678@reddit

just get an attorney, any retaliation towards her will only make it seem like she's right. she accused you of sexual harassment, don't prove her right by harassing her. if you do retaliate anyways, at least wait a couple months or it'll be very obvious.

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Future-King-8607@reddit (OP)

Yeah, i wish the proper channels did anything about it. I didnt really have faith in hr at work but I figured it's the least I could do to get ahead and have it documented.

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duke_of_ted@reddit

HR is there to protect the company, not you. If you want them to act, you need to put it into terms on why this is bad for the company while also protecting yourself. The suggestions on key phrases to use is exactly the approach and put it in writing so that they have to act.

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Zeebird95@reddit

If your work isn’t doing anything about it. Your lawyer will probably go after them as well. You might get paid

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AggravatingBid8255@reddit

As others said, that may give you a case against your employer

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GreatBoneStructure@reddit

Brightly tattoo your penis and document it. When she can’t describe it in court she will be proven to be a liar.

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magseven@reddit

Start an intimate relationship with one of her parents. Next time she publically accuses you of pedophelia, exclaim, "Would a pedophile do this?!" and proudly roll the footage of you passionately giving it to her elderly father.

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GreatBoneStructure@reddit

Finally an unethical tip!

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ayleidanthropologist@reddit

Record every interaction, with HR as well, the rumors, everything

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Haggis_HotPocket@reddit

Sucks. I had an evil bitch pull the same thing. But at 63 I was financially, personally, emotionally ready to go.

HR backed me. 0 support from boss

So, retired early. Thanks evil bitch without life partner (suicide). I would have killed myself too if I was close to you. .

I am genuinely living a spectacular life. You. Still an evil bitch?

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Future-King-8607@reddit (OP)

I may have to consider a labor lawyer, thank you