Everyone is being mean, but they have legitimate complaints.

OP it can be difficult when people challenge assumptions or beliefs you have held for a long time. It can even feel isolating. But know that if you have the smarts to fine tune a model like this, you have the smarts to look beyond the superficial MAGA nonsense you seem to have bought into and perhaps look at alternative, more mainstream perspectives and information sources.

This kind of stuff is not healthy and I, a random internet stranger, believe you would benefit from stepping away from those spaces for a little while and re-evaluating your priorities and beliefs.

Good luck.