Of course, hard work pays off.. for whoever owns the place where you do it.
Posted by Chudmaister@reddit | 4chan | View on Reddit | 128 comments
Posted by Chudmaister@reddit | 4chan | View on Reddit | 128 comments
PM_ME_CUTE_FUTANARI@reddit
Everyone is fucked up. Life does that to people. The fact that OP thinks nothing is wrong with him and yet believes he missed his chance for love in his early 30s and bitches about it on 4chan kind of proves he should just get with one of those damaged women and call it a day.
Necessary_Sea_657@reddit
Bro is 100% a chud if he can't get a 20 something Stacy with those stats
M3taBuster@reddit
Put yourself in his shoes. Even if you got a 20 something Stacy, would you be happy? Would you really be able to connect with her?
I guess I can't speak for anyone else, but if I had toiled alone for decades like him, even if I got a younger woman without baggage at the end of it, I'd resent her for never having to go through the loneliness and pain that I went through for so long.
The only type of woman that I'd feel was "on my level" and could truly understand me would be a woman my age who, for whatever reason, was a femcel all her life too, up until she met me (which would be a unicorn, of course).
codysexton@reddit
There's a plenty of 'young professionals' that are best of both worlds. Find the young lawyer, accountant, etc that's a few years out of college, smart enough for the real world but was too busy to be a degenerate
M3taBuster@reddit
I see what you're saying, but idk. In my experience, people who work the hardest also play the hardest. When it comes to desirable qualities in a person, when it rains, it pours. People who are really smart and hard-working also tend to be really attractive, charismatic, outgoing, good at sports, and so on. The just world fallacy that God nerfed Chad by making him a brainlet or lazy or something to bring him down to the same level as the rest of us is just cope. Point being, these elite lawyers, accountants, etc. probably always had very active social lives, got invited to all the parties, and have the experiences you'd expect to result from that.
letsmeet123456@reddit
Lmao. Only bluepilled simps talk about "connecting" with a woman. Women only exist to pop out babies and take care of them. You will never connect with a woman, they don't have the capacity to. Any woman above 27 is expired milk.
Matt_2504@reddit
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
oh, the south park depiction of Blizzard's first second generation eployees dad?
M3taBuster@reddit
So you only "connect" with men? lol
Or do you just not connect with anyone at all?
therealraggedroses@reddit
Yeah he connects with men, or more accurately men connect their 10 inch hog with the inside of his sphincter
liright@reddit
"I had anal cancer, so now I will HATE and RESENT anybody who didn't have anal cancer like me. This is a completely reasonable position, I am totally not a raging homosexual."
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
damn, buddy didn't have breakfast today.
M3taBuster@reddit
Unironically yes. If I had anal cancer, I'd probably feel that way. Can you honestly say you wouldn't?
ww3forthewin@reddit
The pain and toil of manhood shouldn’t be sought after in women . Who wants a woman to suffer as them ? That’s exactly the problem, that’s when you get bitter shitty women .
M3taBuster@reddit
I think facing hardship and still being able to come out of it a good, moral person who's able to love, is the true test of character. I'd be a perfect angel too if life was handed to me on a silver platter, everyone I've ever known was nice to me, and showered me in compliments, and wanted to be around me and do me favors and buy me shit, and never truly had to work a day in my life. Anyone would, except maybe the few most truly depraved. In that way, most women's character has never truly been tested because they've never really faced any hardship. I understand that that's just the natural order of things, but I still resent it.
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
"It's easy to be a saint in paradise"
marius_titus@reddit
So in the end....you want the 38 year old. Why would you resent someone 10 years younger than you for not 'suffering'?
M3taBuster@reddit
Because I'm a bitter, envious prick.
marius_titus@reddit
How old are you homie?
M3taBuster@reddit
mid-twenties. why?
marius_titus@reddit
Just wondering. I'm 34, you're still at an age where you don't have to turn into the bitter resentful fucks on this board. Women are genuinely great for the most part. The op is either fucking ugly or an actual bitter resentful 32 year old. I promise, women are good.
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
the "women are wonderful" effect is at full play here. they're humans. they're neither good nor bad.
marius_titus@reddit
They run the gauntlet. Some are genuinely wonderful and some are fucking vipers. But I choose to believe they're mostly good
McWeaksauce91@reddit
You can also date a little younger without going too young.
I’m also 35. I’ve been married since late 20’s, but if I had to date again, I would be fine dating a girl in her late 20’s.
At 32, you can date a 25-26 year old and there are plenty of those who are without baggage, you can relate too, are not married to a career yet, and don’t have children.
But I think I would rather be alone than be with a 20-21 year old. Entirely to much difference in personality and maturity.
marius_titus@reddit
It varies person to person. If there's a click there's a click. My uncle is 13 years older than my aunt and I swear I'm so jealous of their bond. My parents are the same age and they hate each other, everyone's different.
chanbr@reddit
Sadly due to both male and female loveless losers promoting the view that the sex opposite them are, as a whole, entitled monsters, it does feel like a divide has grown between men and women.
marius_titus@reddit
More single ladies for us then, I love women and I find the contradiction of guys that want a girl and at the same time think they're all harlots so confusing.
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shooshmashta@reddit
Yea, probably. You'd be shocked that after 25 how little you change
LooseButtPlug@reddit
Pathetic.
penisbike69@reddit
Yeah, incels can never stop moaning like the little bitches they are
fens__xd@reddit
imo it wouldn't be a straight up resentence, more of a "damn she's infantile as hell" kind of annoyance. You can solve the situation by not 100% investing yourself emotionally in the relationship, kinda like the other commenter said - just have fun and let her grow alongside you - but it's really not that easy.
fuck anyone who says that there's no difference between 18-20y/o and 30-35y/o tho, stupidest shit ever.
BanzaiKen@reddit
>Would you really be able to connect with her?
The reality is a women in her 30s is single for a reason. As far as they are concerned, they wont be fooled again, but they never address those red flags that brought them there so there's no nuance, its just scorched earth on the wings of fellow femtards armchair diagnosing everyone as narcissists, incompatible star signs or who the fuck knows what else. Or the alternative is what OOP said, a woman whose so braindead her value is her job and her net worth and who is mysteriously still single anyway.
>I'd resent her for never having to go through the loneliness and pain that I went through for so long.
When you truly love somebody you want the world for them. Your days should be filled with laughter, joy and dread that someday one of you two will be gone, who you selfishly hope will be you first. If they give that energy back and double it without a thought of risk to their own soul and sanity its the most precious thing you can own and you will want to protect it. If you fuck that up and give something as precious as your soul away repeatedly you learn why women are the way they are in their 30s. As for men, either you have the courage, fortitude and madness to put in that work, make your mistakes and learn when life gives you lemons you bake those fuckers at 140 degrees, let it cool off a bit then cut a hole and fuck them so your dick builds up a tolerance to lemons. Or you become a first hand witness or a statistic to the fact 80% of all suicides in their 30s are men.
InternetSolid4166@reddit
You would be much happier letting go of your baggage so you don’t put that on future partners. Most men have been treated like shit in the past. How we deal with it defines what kind of man we are. Some personal advice is: use the pain to make a better life. If you can give a woman a better life so she doesn’t need to go through all that pain, isn’t that an awesome gift to give? I try to always look forwards instead of backwards. It has worked well for me despite some very rough circumstances and experiences.
IMHO, the best thing this 32 year old guy could do is find a 28 year old who’s ready to start a family. Maybe even go to Church. He’ll be beating off eligible women with a stick.
morgentrona@reddit
fair. i dont talk to anyone under 28 at this point. they need to have some life experience or it can cause some issues. i need them to have experienced suffering and evolved beneficially from it. etc. i usually date older than me, but when i have gone for younger.. it's always a situation where they are too underdeveloped for me to see them as an equal. i'm not one to date just for sex or looks, so the mind and it's state of development is important and paramount to and for me.
bannabananabanna@reddit
dating older women is for children who are looking for the mommy they never had
sadacal@reddit
Ok? So you're not in OP's situation if you're fine with dating women your age.
Ecstatic-Compote-595@reddit
yes I mostly date girls in their 20s and I'm in my early 30s, it's just who's out there trying to date. I don't think I could relate to anyone under 23 at this point but there's a certain point in your 20s where you're just kind of an adult and you should be able to connect with people in the same space as you. I have to do a bunch of networking for my career, I've got a ton of friends my age, in their 20s and people close to retiring.
Also if you're not spending your whole life together you don't really need to completely relate to someone anyway. I think if you just met someone who made you happy for even a little bit and were able to walk away from it with your chin up you'd be a lot better off. Don't let perfect be the enemy of good and don't look for ways to self sabotage
BreadfruitComplete82@reddit
He's 32 not 62...
King_Of_Blazeland@reddit
He doesn't understand that most men want a romantic love, he thinks it's only about sexual appeal. OP wants a life partner not a fuck doll.
LeloucheL@reddit
u connect with other men that went through ur struggles. and have fun with younger girls who are still full of life and didnt go through shit
M3taBuster@reddit
Sounds gay
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
orrrr.. he doesn't want to date someone who is too young? which quite literally is somethinf an actual chud would absolutely do?!
Sgt_major_dodgy@reddit
Bro probably wants to fuck a dude or a dude dressed like a woman.
He's just not admitted it to himself yet.
LeloucheL@reddit
yeah he forgot the going to the gym and having good genetics part
TiddybraXton333@reddit
There’s a massive list of things you need lol
_Stealth_Hawk@reddit
Yeah, he can't respec, so he's fucked.
Mr__Castle_@reddit
Why in the name of God would you date a woman in her 30's if you're 32?
25-28 is the sweet spot.
peepeeinmypajts@reddit
Because i like people my own age my own background because it makes for more meaningful conversations less arguments and takes away monetary imbalance which contributes to feelings of resentment from both sides.
TheDeadlyZebra@reddit
Have you been tested for homosexuality?
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
don't forget to deepthroat your bro's wieners goodnight before kissing them.
peepeeinmypajts@reddit
You know I'm actually sexist in that I exclusively cry and whine to women and never in front of men.
Myg0t_0@reddit
It gets expensive and tiring once u hit 40
Mr__Castle_@reddit
That's why you do it when you're 32.
Bloodhoven_aka_Loner@reddit
it's even more expensive at that point
UntBag@reddit
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8last@reddit
Settle with the first one that will have your kid, who you can build a fucked up little life with. Thats my only no bullshit advice here.
lulululul666@reddit
You want to raise another man’s sperm?
Hayes231@reddit
If you think about another man’s jizz when interacting with a date’s children, you need to figure that out
UntBag@reddit
It’s pretty normal to think about your partner’s kids bro? Of course you have to consider the rugrats,tots,little ones, & sperms 😏
o0_smokeymcpot_0o@reddit
Dating women is kinda gay if you think about it. She's not some ethereal being that stepped down from the heavens. She's a flesh golem that was created using male DNA. So when you're fucking her, and you look at her, you're seeing her daddy's eyes.
8last@reddit
If it means she has your kid, short answer: yes. Blended family is better than no family.
donnydonky@reddit
what if she divorces you when you get older and don't have the looks to pull anyone anymore?
bannabananabanna@reddit
life is a risk, choose wisely, avoid the pronoun goblins, staceys and karens, choose "mostly normal"
Purplefilth22@reddit
For most there is no "choose wisely" its nearly always just whoever says yes. Most guys don't get to pick their partner like they're ordering from a magazine or online. It's just which ever one doesn't ghost the second their situationship gives a ring.
Your advice is not only wrong but detrimental to the average young man in America. The better advice is find one you think won't cut the string of the sword of Damocles that truly is hanging over your head. You MUST find out her relationship with her father. Her mothers relationship with her husband and her father. How much money she has. Why her longest romantic relationship ended (do not accept "he was a narcissist" or "it was mutual" if that was the case they would still be together).
Thats all I can think of or be bothered to type atm. But the "choose wisely" is about as descriptive as a boomers bootstraps advice. Spoiler: they were given their bootstraps. You actually have to earn yours these days before you can even attempt to pull them up.
donnydonky@reddit
it seems to me like 99% of the women i find on dating apps (since that's the main way i can find someone else) can hardly be considered "mostly normal" but then again I'm gen z
AaronRodgersMustache@reddit
First off, I’d only really use Hinge by apps these days. The rest are bots and OF or hookers by my experience and I found my fiancée three years ago via real life in a beer garden not online so I recommend that anyway.
psychicplague@reddit
That's rather pathetic
InternetSolid4166@reddit
I’m with the other guy. Foreveralone is way more pathetic.
We truly fucked up young people when he taught them not to “settle.” They understood that to mean anything less than Brad Pitt / Angelina Jolie is beneath them and they should stay single. That’s a recipe for a sad life. Back here in the real world we’ve all got scars and man boobs and saggy tits and wrinkles and shit. That’s okay. We still deserve love.
8last@reddit
I've seen every other version where the guy didnt do that. Trust me, things can get so much more pathetic
JustChillin3456@reddit
“After a certain age, a man without a family can be a bad thing”
Every_Fail_9494@reddit
Fucking this! 💯agreed!
AlyxxStarr@reddit
As someone who had young love and, well, 30s love, I think most people mistake intensity for love.
moosemuffin12@reddit
Who tf said “wait until your 30s to drown in women” lmao. It’s almost like everyone knows college age girls are the hottest so you should try getting ass then. If you’re already at the age you’d consider a woman a hag, you waited too long. Good luck enjoying clubbing in your 30s lol
OD_Emperor@reddit
Pretty sad.
My 30s has honestly been great, met someone awesome and we're continuing to be.
Sometimes you just gotta know who you are, and demanding one at 32 means you're still too much of a child to be in a relationship.
Naebany@reddit
Bro didn't realize he can go for ~25 yo.
RustyPirates@reddit
Not sure if this guy is capable of love tbh
Aphrel86@reddit
have you considered looking for women in the 20s?
TheDeadlyZebra@reddit
Go to South East Asia and you can afford multiple young wives with that money.
ryvern82@reddit
Gay: anon obviously only talks to men
Fake: anon doesn't actually have any money
JustChillin3456@reddit
Become a passport bro. Simple as
penisbike69@reddit
He quite literally lives in paradise.
He is probably American, so he lives in the place that most humans would describe as the best place on earth to live. He seems to be pulling upper middle class wealth just by himself. He is 32, so he has like 2/3 of his life still in front of him.
He could literally go for a young (20-28 or something), faithful sweetheart 8/10 or, like you proposed, import a 10/10 woman from Asia or Eastern Europe. That would a life that like 99% of humans could only dream of.
Some people just don't want to be happy. Instead, they want to moan about their situation online
PickleMaster69@reddit
Top 1% in the 4chan sub trying to sell people on becoming a passport bro. The world is still whole
PickleMaster69@reddit
Top 1% in the 4chan sub trying to sell people on becoming a passport bro. The world is still whole
DefinitelyNotPine@reddit
Dunno how you think "I'll finally find real love when I get money". Guess why they suddenly like you?
Kryslor@reddit
Another day another incel fantasy cope
Maximus-CZ@reddit
many such cases.
JustJano_@reddit
just date someone in their 20s?
cantpeoplebenormal@reddit
What OP needs to is go older, like nursing home older.
nnuunn@reddit
You always have to wade through shit no matter how young or old you are
QTown2pt-o@reddit
It just gets worse as people age, approximately 80% of men and women are either mentally ill or have a fucked up attachment style in their mid 30s, that number is significantly lower in early 20s but lo and behold either the secure people pair off early or are traumatized in ways they never recover
sadacal@reddit
What? Younger people don't even have the maturity to not be toxic in a relationship. You will see young women have the most over the top expectations because the only experience they have with relationships is romance movies where the guy drives a hundred miles to get the exact brand of burger she's craving at that moment.
visforvienetta@reddit
This is why you try to date in your teens. You're meant to learn how to be decent partner by like 25 so that you can then have a successful committed relationship. If you haven't had at least one commited relationship by then you're probably going to be bad at them post-25 as well.
People who are starting to settle down for the first time in their 30s are invariably not good, whether they're men or women because either way they spent a decade learning how to engage in ahitty short term dating rather than practicing how to me committed well.
QTown2pt-o@reddit
Yea that immaturity often leads to bad outcomes that stick with the person as unresolved thus why by their mid 30s generally most single people are kind of unhinged. The kind of girl you illustrate would probably be not a good example of a secure person, gen z are twice as likely to have insecure attachment styles than the boomers probably because of social media etc
Mami-_-Traillette@reddit
Fuck this shit, femboy it is then
bannabananabanna@reddit
thats fixed with a strong male partner and a kid
triknodeux@reddit
OP is either insufferable or ugly. Or both
Tony_Roiland@reddit
Well from the post alone you can see what kind of person he is
bannabananabanna@reddit
thinking you must go through life alone, earn stats and expect a "prize" at the end is highly r3gard3d.
faik an gae
morgentrona@reddit
if you had married early you would have gotten 'forced open marriage' or 'hits 30 and gets divorced because dating app FOMO and wokeism told me to'. so both paths would have been a loss. i feel worse for the guys that married early. wokeism forced their wives to destroy their lives. i think it would be better to find love once wokeism is completely gone (were entering post-woke now). there SHOULD be a resurgence in morality and that will be the best time to find love.
RobSchneidersHair@reddit
Do you think everyone married before 30 is in an open marriage or divorced?
ThirdHoleHank92@reddit
Sometimes I think you guys hear so much of the worst of the worst that you assume all relationships are like that and it hopeless.
It's not really like that in real life, but you'd have to get off the Internet to see that.
aghastamok@reddit
Too many people think happiness should be the default emotion. That's just your western brains too soaked in propaganda to function correctly.
The "Happiest" people are the people who get comfortable with discomfort, find joy in little things, and live in the moment.
"WHERE'S MY 22YO VIRGIN WHO LOVES ME IMPLICITLY, LIFE SO UNFAIR" is regarded. "Where's the person who I like having around who likes doing the things I like doing?" is the question they should be asking, and they should be answering it while being social in unrelated ways.
letsmeet123456@reddit
And people who had young love, married their school sweetheart, and popped out babies in their 20s are now divorced, fat, lost 50%, and lost their children. Turns out the problem was always the same thing no matter the age.
Sabrac707@reddit
The grass is always greener on the other side.
gayhotelultra@reddit
gay guy here, is the heterosexual male experience this miserable?
Wild_cmpt6406@reddit
Fax
akulowaty@reddit
OP only has money to offer (shit personality, most likely fugly) and is surprised only women interested in money want to date him. Of course h/ regarded.
SlySychoGamer@reddit
Everyone ive known with a decade old relationship that started in high school and college.
ALL HAVE FAILED.
Either divorce or break up. The girls also all get with someone within a year.
On the flip side, every guy ive known who has gotten with someone after 25, has had a better relationship. But OP isn't wrong. Just not entirely right. I finding a life partner in your youth is ideal, but very few stick as they age nowadays.
HefflumpGuy@reddit
I was literally drowning in young hot women in my 30s but I learned an important lesson; that looking hot doesn't mean they'll be interesting people or that I'll have any chemistry with them. I broke up with a beautiful girl who I really loved to chase the dream and the dream just turned out to be a weird, lonely experience.
I agree with the last paragraph, that young love is the one to hold on to. I made the same mistake back then, thinking that I needed to go out and spread my wild oats.
ptjp27@reddit
Passport bro origin story. Many such cases.
50ShadesOfKray@reddit
Sad sack of shit posting. Sad maxed. Cortisol through the fucking stratosphere.
MonotonyDauntSonder@reddit
I will never find a virgin woman who is just like me. Sad.
MonotonyDauntSonder@reddit
Would have been better to never have been born.
Influanza@reddit
some of yall just need god atp
peachy-carnahan@reddit
Anon is ignoring himself. You’ve spent all this time and energy to compare yourself to assholes on Reddit? Get a life. You’ll never be happy. No one will, but you can have moments of it if you’re willing to grow a set be grateful for what you have.
JPDubs@reddit
"no, its the WOMEN who are wrong...."
McFaze@reddit
fake: anon is turned on by women
gay: anon refuses to settle with a woman meaning only one thing
TendieBot2000@reddit
nabbersauce@reddit
You're back! Good bot.
ElGringoPicante77@reddit
My favorite not
fudgemental@reddit
Another victim of the shitty promises of capitalism. Should've taken those paychecks and worked on developing a personality over the years instead of trying to get to the finish line.
Chuds like these will unironically post "LotR is shit, they could've just taken the eagles to drive-by that ring into Mt. Doom"
Valuable-Chipmunk784@reddit
Yeah he should have taken 27 showers per day and gotten 347 hobbies too
paul-jenkins@reddit
I see your problem there. You got to the mid game and went to early game areas for easier farming. Jokes on you
ElectricSnowBunny@reddit
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clayticus@reddit
There are 20 year olds everywhere. Go to any Asian country. Bro you got options everywhere.
adolescentghost@reddit
Dumb chuds can’t attract normal women, so they complain about the dregs that are their only options. This is just sad. He’s no finding quality women because he’s not a quality man,