Anon has studied women's behaviour.
Posted by ShepardComandante@reddit | 4chan | View on Reddit | 113 comments
Posted by ShepardComandante@reddit | 4chan | View on Reddit | 113 comments
big_whistler@reddit
I don’t think most people repaint every 2 or 3 years
EddieHeadshot@reddit
Women do.
big_whistler@reddit
Why do you think that?
FuckRedditIsLame@reddit
My wife is already starting to get the urge 3 years after we've moved into a brand new home. Also wants to get the floors sanded and restained because she would prefer a darker shade of wood, or a lighter one... I don't know. Either way it's going to cost me weeks of weekends, or thousands.
akornzombie@reddit
Is she going to be putting in any cash/work into this?
Conflictingview@reddit
Or, you know, grow a spine and tell her no
FuckRedditIsLame@reddit
Sometimes in a marriage, it's better to roll with the gator than to pull away.
TSF_Flex@reddit
yeah, but not if it costs money thats good for spending elsewhere. Teach your significant others finances, please.
FuckRedditIsLame@reddit
Hilariously she has a masters in finance, but that doesn't override the XX chromosomes.
Theroux721@reddit
That's good advice for her.
Silenceisgrey@reddit
yeah but the gator aint dtf namsayin?
big_whistler@reddit
Of course your wife represents all women
BBWArchitect@reddit
My niece just had her boyfriend help her repaint the apartment upstairs even though her father repainted it already about 10 years ago. The walls were fine.
big_whistler@reddit
10 years is different than 2-3 years.
BBWArchitect@reddit
Alright champ now read the second sentence.
big_whistler@reddit
Yeah done
lifeisokay@reddit
Good job, that resolved the logical gap in your thinking. This conversation is now complete.
big_whistler@reddit
There was no gap, be gone
PushkiComics@reddit
So the conversation is undone, please go back to step number 2
big_whistler@reddit
Shut your smug ass up
faaaack@reddit
Fine according to whom? Not the niece I assume. One of the people who live in said home?
Valuable-Chipmunk784@reddit
It says so in the image dummy
igerardcom@reddit
Yeah, I've had to repaint my GF's place, and of course, I got very little appreciation for my hard work....
C_umputer@reddit
Not necessarily repaint, it's about the innate urge some people have, to do something new every once in a while.
Glittering-Term8375@reddit
*have someone else do it
C_umputer@reddit
Exactly lol
Tlr321@reddit
Ah - my wife doesn’t paint. She just re-arranges the living room every few months.
DreamsServedSoft@reddit
actually anon has a point except the women in my life will paint samples randomly and never pick a color and they’ll just sit there forever
PakyKun@reddit
My mother and sister wanted to repaint every year..
Why?
outland_king@reddit
It snowballs too.
You'll start with a new coat of paint, then suddenly the artwork doesn't match anymore and need to be updated. Now the couch is looking old compared to the new room and that needs to be replaced. Suddenly the whole room is new and you've sunk 5-10K on all new garbage when nothing was wrong with what you had.
Jah_Ith_Ber@reddit
When people do this shit I think about how life-changing 10k would be to a highschooler.
FuckRedditIsLame@reddit
I grew up really poor, hundreds of dollars seemed like tens of thousands. I have since dragged myself upwards into a pretty comfortable wealth bracket, but as income increases, so do the ways to spend it, and my wife happily suggests 10 or 20k upgrades without even batting an eye, not realizing that in that moment I'm remembering my childhood spent in second hand clothes, eating semi expired food, and afraid to turn on lights because surely the extra cent or two on the electricity bill might make it hard for my parents to pay.
Usual-Ad-4986@reddit
You have to convey what you said here in womanese i.e pausible denability
glaze_119@reddit
if you're being "forced" to waste 5-10k on redecorating you have the wrong partner.
yaangyiing_@reddit
without a woman, I'd sleep in a cave all day
no_one_knows42@reddit
Ngl that meme about the living room with one chair/PS4/tv would be 100% how id live if not for the fact that I want to get laid occasionally
Theroux721@reddit
Unfuckable
HitIerWasWrong@reddit
Give up women.
Embrace kitchen home gym.
TURBOWyMiaTaToR@reddit
Done
Virgil_Rug_Say_RUG@reddit
last bedsheet change was week or two ago, and ive not gotten around to changing the clean one back onto the mattress. ive been sleeping straight on the mattress for weeks.
VampiroMedicado@reddit
Put the fucking bedsheets dude takes a minute
Tomazim@reddit
grim
teflon_soap@reddit
Neanderthalmaxxing
SyntheticDuckFlavour@reddit
Then you get a grugfemme and she wants to whitewash the cave walls with lime. FML.
Silenceisgrey@reddit
"it burns"
icantlurkanymore@reddit
This guy thinks he's Bear Grylls. A goon cave maybe.
igerardcom@reddit
I wasn't dating for a few years, and when my present GF came over, I had to remodel my place overnight, otherwise she would've lost her mind....
bright_yellow_vest@reddit
Sick ass tree fort for me
Infamous-Bus3225@reddit
Wow, novel take. As if this hasn’t been a punchline in shit movies for the last 50 years.
WillNotFightInWW3@reddit
Stop being a doormat
Virgil_Rug_Say_RUG@reddit
this is always an option, a great option in many cases, but it will often lead to escalation that most men are unwilling to follow.
once she knows that youd rather back down/compromise than risk the relationship, its over, she has you.
and this is the large majority of cases, you have to be fairly based to stick to your guns and/or simply just not give a shit if it leads to breaking up.
TechnicoloMonochrome@reddit
The best solution, assuming you're not the loser in the relationship, is to prep the rooms to be painted and leave. Go to work. If it matters that much it will be done. If it doesn't, then move everything back.
VeryInnocuousPerson@reddit
“Anon, you got me! I didn’t bother to do it myself so cold hard logic compels me to admit it wasn’t actually that important to me to begin with. I’m totally not going to pick a bunch of random fights with you over the next couple weeks in retribution. And I definitely will not go back to saying that we (read: you) need to paint the house again in a couple months as if this whole exchange we’re having now never happened.”
TechnicoloMonochrome@reddit
If anyone chooses to put up with that kind of silly shit that's on them.
glaze_119@reddit
right? the reply above talking about how terrible life can be if you disagree with your "woman", like bro that's not your woman, your a meal ticket if your life turns into hell over a paint job.
igerardcom@reddit
Based and truth-pilled.
So many truecels ITT that have no idea how terrible life can be if your woman really wants to cause a fuss.
Deviant517@reddit
You’ve never lived with a woman that wasn’t your mom…
WillNotFightInWW3@reddit
I have.
Not being able to find a woman that respects you, is a you problem.
johnny_tifosi@reddit
Saying yes but doing nothing is the true third option.
Justifiable_War7279@reddit
There are some conversations men never have, because they only end one way, so we never have them, and instead switch off, with a default "sure" response to most women. It's not pretty, but it's the way the world is going.
Goncaloafs@reddit
O999ooooóoooooo
Autumn_Fire@reddit
One of the most infuriating things my mom did when I was growing up was throw out my things "because they looked old"
Were they damaged? No. Were any of these items more than 5 years old? No. Did she, even once, a single time, ask? Absolutely not. And yes, she continues to be perplexed as to why I'm still mad she threw out a really good vacation bag (yes it was given to me by a close friend and yea, she did throw it out when I was away for a week but it was LITERALLY OLD OK????). I've basically learned the golden rule (because I'm 30 and she still does this if she thinks she can) is to lock my stuff away and give her a firm no. Nope, you can't toss that. No, I know it was bought last July, still doesn't mean you can throw it out.
State_secretary@reddit
Boomers are the most wasteful generation. Their parents would use and reuse anything as long as possible (i.e. wear clothes until they got torn, and then use the fabric as cleaning rags) but boomers just consume for no reason. Maybe it's because they lived through constant economic growth they now have a social pressure to buy shit they don't need. Or experiencing the onset of cheap, single-use Chinese plastic products brainwashed them to toss away and buy new until they die. All the boomers I know, including my own parents, express pride and joy buying new instead of fixing their old stuff. Men and women both do it but in different manners. When I was 12 our lawnmower stopped working so my dad went and bought a new one. Even as a kid I thought it was ridiculous so I biked to a hardware store, got a new spark plug and fixed the old mower, all for 5 bucks. Dad was like "huh, well good job, too bad I already bought a new mower." and he put the old mower in the garage. Took couple years until he agreed to give it away to a relative.
tuyguy@reddit
The female urge for unnecessary home improvement projects
philmarcracken@reddit
martha stewart: oh, you're approaching me?
marie kondo: I can't beat the shit out of you otherwise
lewd-boy-o@reddit
My mom forced me to do it to my room too. Now I have to move all my shit and have to use a makeshift of setup -_-
Fucked-In-The-K-Hole@reddit
A makeshift OF setup?
echetus90@reddit
My mum painted my room pink. I wouldn't have minded so much but I was 30 and it was my house.
God bless that woman, she was one as OP describes who needed walls repainted every few years. My wife does not have this condition, fortunately.
wiibarebears@reddit
Seen it happen, first it’s paint, then it’s furniture. Poor brother had to do so many dumb renovations.
AdFrequent3122@reddit
I was just thinking this. How a man can be comfortable in a certain home. But the woman will insist on renovating the kitchen, bathroom ... it never ends.
wiibarebears@reddit
She was not satisfied. The house changed many times over a 15 year period. It was never good enough for her
zrock44@reddit
What kind of women are you living with?
Virgil_Rug_Say_RUG@reddit
this is correct, and one of the many reasons im single. not the painting in particular obviously, but the "im bored so do some work or waste some money" idea
sydneekidneybeans@reddit
yeah sure, that's why
Vicster10x@reddit
Not my wife.
lis_pi@reddit
It’s so classical. Men naturally like when everything is all right and nothing requires immediate action. It means a man does his duty good (no cave bears are going to devour your family…immediately). Women hate when there is no dynamic, because the absence of dynamic is equal to death. A woman feels secure, when people around her do something, it means people around her are aware and control situation, she can relax. Often (especially emotionally insecure and psychologically immature) women can provoke even really negative dynamics, just to feel better; psychologically immature men do not know how to react on that, what leads to catastrophic consequences sometimes.
trapaccount1234@reddit
Interesting take can you elaborate more on the this what handling the situation would entail?
lis_pi@reddit
Nah, there is no magic recipe, but giving a proper dick always helps (just kidding, lol). Listening for your partner and pay attention, maybe?
renaldomoon@reddit
Honestly, a proper dicking solves a lot of problems in my experience.
Lolazaurus@reddit
My college roommate was always on the phone with his gf from home arguing. She was constantly accusing him of seeing other girls (he wasn't) and other dumb bullshit. Then she'd come visit occasionally and my roommate would ask for some time alone which I was fine with giving him. I was usually hanging out at my friend's dorms anyways. But after every time she visited him and they fucked they were a perfectly happy couple. Their phone calls suddenly became all lovey dovey for a few weeks before she went back to bitching his ear off. At least until she visited again. Rinse and repeat over and over.
I felt bad for him. That must have been exhausting.
Electronic_Leek9147@reddit
Wtf was wrong with him? Why was he only having sex monthly? We're you satirical? Is this because of the lack of privacy?
Naebany@reddit
They might have been in a long distance relationship.
ravens52@reddit
Sounds like they probably were.
Supremely_Zesty@reddit
Poor guy had to go balls deep in college girl pussy at least once a month. Wouldn't want to be him. Nope.
trapaccount1234@reddit
Dickins is always a solid thing but I supposed you were getting at something different lol
make_reddit_great@reddit
Unfortunately being an asshole can counteract the negativity-creating woman. Not the nerdraging type of asshole who loses his temper, more like the cold-hearted type. I wish this weren't the case but I've been dragged kicking and screaming to this conclusion.
Tldr avoid neurotic drama creators.
Arrival_Joker@reddit
My aunt was one of these people and so was my grandmother. My grandpa suffered a lot. Been privileged enough to witness domestic violence from both genders in my lifetime. Amazing.
C_umputer@reddit
Classic solution is to spend most of your time outside the house
zabickurwatychludzi@reddit
that's an interesting thought for a place like this, can you recommend anything to read in about this?
lis_pi@reddit
I think all the Freud is about that, I’m not a fan though, he wrote mostly about heavily neurotic people, but that time it was pretty actual.
mystic_mesh@reddit
risking injury lmao what a pussyyyy
Silenceisgrey@reddit
In which anon discovers women care about basic maintenance
Chodor101@reddit
Real and straight
palavraciu@reddit
Repainting once every 5 years should be minimum hygiene requirement endorsed by government. The audacity of some rats exposing themselves like this is hilarious.
ostereje@reddit
Womens biggest desire, is to live a place with a designated janitor.
Full_Shuffle@reddit
People need to get a spine. "No" isn't an option? Yes it fucking is.
igerardcom@reddit
Truecel detected.
Full_Shuffle@reddit
I've had sex more than once you pathetic simp. Grow the fuck up.
Vox_SFX@reddit
Yea no...what loser life are ya'll living where that's how your partners want you to spend your off work time together?
Fucking lol, I'll keep chilling with my wife watching our shows and smoking a bowl when the kids asleep.
Gamer_chaddster_69@reddit
Watching a show with your wife sounds mind-numbingly boring
lobotominizer@reddit
psycho woman that is
altofanaltthatisalt@reddit
Anon likes to sniff paint
fluxrider@reddit
i hate how my spouse creates work out of thin air.
MonotonyDauntSonder@reddit
Perhaps I should stick to men?
YouDontLookSpiritual@reddit
I dont think we poors struggle with this issue
Dankie002@reddit
you can easily say no if you're not a white guy🔨
meechmeechmeecho@reddit
I’ve actually only heard this exact complaint coming from white guys married to white women. It’s very easy to just say no.
scottlapier@reddit
...and they'll complain about the furniture being out of place and the paint smell...
ControlThat8187@reddit
My aunt unironically did this and I painted the entire room in one day. OP is just weak.
PinBeneficial1366@reddit
In my country it's more like "after 13-20 years we realized that it's time to put up new wallpapers and make minor repairs"
Because it's cost too much money/resources and women understand that, but man can say no and if she wants all of this to happend - she gonna do it herself, usually fail and when men laugh about her, she cry about it
go0rty@reddit
A week to paint a room, are you doing it with a toothbrush?
pds12345@reddit
Paint a... House?
Fit_Lecture_9274@reddit
Anon should stop eating food, he will be hungry anyways