How do you describe “Xennial” to other generations?
Posted by LadyStarblade@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 206 comments
My workplace is mostly made up of late-range Boomers and early GenXers. I’ve been asked what an Xennial is several times and the best I’ve come up with is:
“We combine the self-sufficiency and cynicism of GenX with the awareness and burnout of the Millenials.”
How do you explain our micro-generation to others?
General_Mousse_861@reddit
Our bullies were Genx, and we’re the cool older cousins to millennials.
LoetherS@reddit
This is so good. Like the last to know how to program a computer but never trust an app.
rearwindowpup@reddit
Read an article that many kids majoring in computer science today come into school not even understanding what a basic file system is, the concept of folders is foreign to them. How do you decide to go into computer science and know *that* little about them... That's like a marine bio major who doesn't understand fish breath through their gills.
qaa541@reddit
The desktop (folder) is the entire filesystem for most people today. The floppy disk icon is the save icon with no understanding of the history or reasoning of it too.
LoetherS@reddit
Kid - "What do you mean, im not a coder? i coded this app"
Me - 'ok cool, how does it work?'
Kid - 'I coded it.'
Me - 'well something coded it, but if you don't understand it, who fixes it when it breaks?'
AI is greybeard job security.
Flashy-Share8186@reddit
there’s a tinkering mindset that I think of as very Xennial, “hey, what’s this button do?” and I’m really worried about what will happen if curiosity and experimentation become a fad instead of a common viewpoint.
LoetherS@reddit
Yes. I feel like i like my parents can attest to all of the things I've taken apart in my lifetime, a small fraction of which I was able to fix and put back together.
mastawyrm@reddit
Yeah I have no fear of losing my job. Now, when I get older and this mindset is in the doctors? Oof
rearwindowpup@reddit
That last statement is so damn true...
babyidahopotato@reddit
I love a good planner and a nice pen 🥰
avalonfaith@reddit
Well shit, I am the cool older cousin! I like this description.
Risikio@reddit
We are one of the last technological literate generations.
We know just enough of technology to never trust it, but not enough about it to stop it.
Big-Indication7781@reddit
We ran from cameras, not to them.
LoetherS@reddit
My wife 76 wanted to be on amazing race, I was like why in the world would you want to be on a reality TV show?! I had zero desire. I'm like l, let's just go to those countries on vacation.
Reasonable-Wave8093@reddit
Bullied by genx🤣
Islandcrafter@reddit
I love a physical calendar lol
BuhByeNow01@reddit
Me, too! It’s an event every year for my husband and I to find the most absurd one possible. The only one my son has kind of “Heh’d” at is Rick and Morty. He said our Far Side one was “for old people.” 😑
Islandcrafter@reddit
hahahaha I love Far Side. Rick and Morty would definitely be more up his alley. I actually still order sets and give out to my customers for Christmas. No one's complained and they disappear every year.
Low_Roller_Vintage@reddit
We might have killed Applebee's, but we're keeping Staples afloat.
TelevisionKooky3041@reddit
Both technological literacy and media literacy are the main markers for me. I sometimes call us 'The Last McCluhanites' or 'Neil Postman's Children'.
We're the last generation to have a completely pre-teen internet-free childhood, but we also had to learn and adapt to new devices and emerging digital technologies in our teens. We know how to use new stuff, but we also have a healthy skepticism of the things we use.
We value intentionality over tools in ways that even intelligent millennials don't seem to comprehend. Some Millennials make a big deal of 'deleting social media' or going without facebook and instagram for a few days like they've just performed the 14 labours of Hercules. Some of us Xennials made a conscious choice to avoid even being on these platforms when they were first rolled out (I've never used facebook or insta, and know other Xennials who have consciously stayed away from these platforms).
We are more self-aware and conscious about the negatives of being too reliant on new tech, and the positives of doing without where possible.
MeatPopsicle10@reddit
I say “analogue childhood that adapted to a digital adulthood.”
When I started my film editing career I learned to physically cut film strips then had to keep-up with all the film-industry innovations until now where it’s all digital (and now I’m a video editor)
fact_addict@reddit
I like to also say “still heard the internet scream”, aka dial-up. Do straight Millennials know what a connecting modem sounds like? I feel like by very early 2000’s that had gone away.
PantsLio@reddit
In undergrad, I worked in the slide library in the art history department. My job was to make and assemble physical slides from film negatives. Was boring, but so satisfying to start with the raw materials and end up with a useful end product.
I was an art history major, so it was a fun sneak peak to next week’s lectures.
ikariashpool@reddit
This exactly.
ScottClam42@reddit
I like this. Another example... i unironically used microfische as a source is my college senior capstone paper ~ 2004
remnant_phoenix@reddit
We’re just old enough to fully remember the pre-internet world, but just young enough to still feel like we grew up with today’s tech, but we’ve also seen that tech go places that we think is for the worst.
ConspiracyParadox@reddit
Xennials are teenagers with back pain and arthritis.
We still watch cartoons and eat sugary cereal. We just take a crapload of pills first.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Xennials aren't like other cuspers because we sit on the edge of the technology boom. We were born early enough to use a card catalog, encyclopedia, and rolodex, but born late enough to have (mostly) always had computers in our lives, either at school or home. We existed in a 10 year window where we were the first ones to have computer classes from Kinder, and the last to graduate before Smart Phones and Social Media.
Seriously, that's what makes Xennials Xennials.
LoetherS@reddit
Computers in kindergarten? Im a 78 from tiny town Kansas and we didn't have computers at school till 5th grade and just 2 macs for 2 5th grade classrooms.
However my dad was a big nerd and we had a beast of a machine at home since kinder. Some of my first memorys are of him excited about the new toy 8086 with a laser mouse (had to use a reflective grid mousepad) and it only worked with one drawing progam, a 4 color monitor (you could change the 4 colors to 4 other colors but the most the drawing program could handle at a time was 4.) and dot matrix printer.
I made some awesome happy birthday banners with that printer. Try doing that today!
xeonicus@reddit
I can't quite remember if we used computers in Kindergarten at my school, but we may have had "computer class" as early as 1st grade. I remember our school had Macintosh computers. I guess that was popular in education back then? And we would play games like Reader Rabbit.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
77, we had them in Kinder, but I know not everyone did.
LoetherS@reddit
Fancy city folk. ;)
GreyGhost878@reddit
Right. We completely bridge the analog age and the digital age. We grew up with rotary phones, camera film, phone books, clocks, maps, and encyclopedias. But before we were fully adults we were using email and the internet. We are comfortable in both worlds. To me that's it.
EggandSpoon42@reddit
Ruh roh - I gotta look up the years for xennial, I thought I was one, lol, but we didn't have a single computer in our school until 5th grade, and it was for the librarian. The first computer class with a proper amount student computers didn't happen until my 11 grade year, and I couldn't graduate high school without completing the typing class, which I was able to test out of to avoid summer school (love me some touch typing still).
Looking up the years as 1977-1983, I'm an elder xennial, lol. Those 5 years really made a difference in computers being accessible to elementary students I guess
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Yeah, we had them in Kinder and I'm 77. But, I also know not every school did.
TwistedBrother@reddit
Analog to Digital generation.
Bad-Moon-Rising@reddit
I've said it several times here, but I love the phrase - analog childhood, digital adolescence. It perfectly encapsulates our generation.
AlienDelarge@reddit
Hey! I liked Windows 98!
DethByCow@reddit
Oooh Windows ME was a much more horrifying product.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Ah, well, we all know it was just Windows 98 with a new logo...much like Windows 7 was just Vista with a label slapped on it...although 7 was stable.
DethByCow@reddit
Yeah but with Windows 98 i didn’t have to reformat my hardrive once every 1-2 weeks. I made the full switch back to Apple (we were a Macintosh household) before windows 7 was out. I did like vista it was a cool concept and i liked the glass but it was such a memory hog. Which is bad news bears for a gaming rig, switched back to XP.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
That's true. I immediately needed 8GB RAM on Vista x64 vs the 4GB I happily ran on XP x64. My coworkers and friends were like, that's just bragging rights. Now I'm over here rocking 64GB RAM like it's 2006 version of 4GB.
osddelerious@reddit
The music. So good
anakusis@reddit
Nah that's a boomer trap. Good new music happens constantly. It's a nostalgia trap.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Yes, and no. Music revolutions/explosions only happen about once every 30 or so years. The music triggers nostalgia, but it was significantly different than other music of the era and tended to define that generation in ways other music of the era did not.
Come to think of it, we're about overdue. I'd love to get away from this current trend of "How do I make it huge for Tik-Tok?" I'm looking at you Pitbull.
anakusis@reddit
Get away from algorithms. Good innovative music happens constantly.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Nigh unto impossible in 2026. I hate it.
anakusis@reddit
Literally find a band you like and see related artists on Spotify.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
And that would be an algorithm creating those suggestions for you.
anakusis@reddit
Still way more targeted than waiting for a TikTok trend to dump something in my lap. It's just lazy to whine about this. There's always good art waiting to be found.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Outside Reddit, which only gets used while I'm meandering through my work day, I don't have ANY social media.
However, noticing an increasing vapidness to music, I did some research on it. I debated doing my Masters thesis on it, but then opted for a Capstone program, and realized I preferred story telling in visual and interactive art instead (think Mass Effect, Bioshock), anyway I digress. Music has had an increasing reliance on the "15 second hook", the perfect loop, to get used in Tik-Tok videos. Whether or not it has harmed the industry is a matter of opinion, but the trend exists.
https://www.colorado.edu/today/2022/09/12/how-tiktok-has-changed-music-industry
anakusis@reddit
So before we had major labels paying radio stations for play. It's always been monetized. You just got lazy.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
That would ALSO be a matter of opinion, one derived on knowing absolutely nothing about the person you're speaking to. But, you know, you're entitled to it.
anakusis@reddit
How so. There's literally good music out there and you are unwilling to engage.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
You told me to stay away from algorithms, and I said that was hard to do, and you suggested I use an algorithm in Spotify, no less, to find music I like. That's like telling me, no don't use oil when you make bread, use olive oil instead. You then made assumptions that because I said Spotify uses algorithms, I don't look anywhere for good music. In fact, all I said was there is a trend of music trying to be used for Tik-Tok, which is true. In my opinion, this makes the music doing that shallow, vapid and I dislike the trend. Continuing with metaphor, it is the equivalent of me saying I don't like American football, and you decide that means I don't like basketball, either. I don't like Spotify, because its algorithm is really screwed up. I don't like the trend of artist trying to royalty farm 15s of Tik-Tok. The two have nothing at all to do with whether or not I hate music.
webslingrrr@reddit
I get you, but there has indeed always been lowest common denominator music that is/was completely vapid. Todays trash isnt any worse than yesterday's. Hell, a lot of those 15 seconds tiktok smash hits are literally old songs from decades passed. Its one of the reasons Gen Z earned that tongue in check "Christopher Columbus Generation" moniker for planting their flag on stuff that was already discovered.
What you might actually be observing is that listeners have changed and tend to care less about music than prior generations. But it feels like this is changing, and we are due for a major revolution again. It feels as though we are currently in an era akin to New Wave (not in sound but in spirit) -- ephemeral, catchy, overproduced, stylish and glamorous. Something real and raw will be next.
captainbeertooth@reddit
Do you hate all products simply because you are aware that someone is out there selling it?
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Yes. Absolutely. In fact, I walk around naked, never listen to the radio, watch TV, read a book, or eat...indeed, I'm a ghost because I starved to death.
I can dislike algorithms and targeted ads.
RingleBronger@reddit
Pit bull is 45 years old and his first album was 22 years ago 👴🏻
GivesYouGrief@reddit
Honestly my least favorite thing about xennials is us saying "we're so old." I realize all generations do this. I just think when I hear someone my age say that "bitch, speak for yourself. I ain't old."
RingleBronger@reddit
My point really wasn’t that “we are old”. My pint was that Pitbull is old people music, at this point
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Yeah, my intro to Pitbull was "Gasolina", lol. But while his Spanish stuff still makes your bootie bounce, his English stuff just is awful.
valthonis_surion@reddit
Music wise just look at the variety of 90s popular hits. We had No Doubt, Bush, Nirvana, Blues Traveller, Might Might Boss Tones, Scatman, etc. We had and still have all these genres, but during the mid/late 90s these were often all found on the same “popular hits” station. Now they’re all just specific genre stations/channels.
GivesYouGrief@reddit
Gonna have to disagree. While of course there are occasional exceptions, most new music I hear trending on TikTok and other platforms is sheer uninspired trash.
attigirb@reddit
Listen to a college radio station, either locally or online. I hear a lot of new, interesting stuff that way.
Prince_0llie@reddit
That was your first mistake..listening for trending music on tiktok. Go curate your own Playlist on a music app or surf SoundCloud for a while. It isn't difficult.
anakusis@reddit
Well yeah if you wait for content to be fed to you that's your fault.
TwistedBrother@reddit
Absolutely. I hate hearing nothing but classic rock as “the best”.
Logical-Cherry9395@reddit
Have you not listened to your local Classic Rock station in a while? Last time I turned it on, I was rewarded with Nirvana, Sublime, and RHCP.
GivesYouGrief@reddit
I never used to think classic rock meant "songs at least 20 years old". To me it meant a specific era from roughly 1965-1975. I wish they'd call 80s/90s something else. 20rh Century Climax?
Prince_0llie@reddit
This. But technically speaking that Era of music WAS twenty years old when we were kids. 🤦🏽♂️
TwistedBrother@reddit
I moved to the UK and here they didn’t have the weird Disco is Gay shit that I grew up with in North America. But nah, I don’t tune in anymore. I’m more into electronic these days. Boards of Canada is the nostalgia trip for all Xennials.
StarsHavingPossums@reddit
Boards of Canada are dropping a new album soon. Oh my
Albedo101@reddit
It's not, and music is not about just music, but about having a society built on that music. That time is gone. There will always be good music, but music will never again have the cultural impact it had in the 20th century.
anakusis@reddit
Well yeah we're not given 5 options through radio that major labels have decided they want to push. Studio time was expensive. Now everyone can make music and we're better for it.
OrchidLeader@reddit
I like this distinction the most. We learned fully how to use the tools from both Gen X and Millennials as opposed to having only a passing familiarity with either of them.
We know how the VHS tab worked for recording, and we know how to burn a CD. We know landline etiquette and memorized phone numbers, and we know how to text message using T9 and eventually a virtual keyboard. We know how to look for a library book using a card catalog, and we know how to use InfoSeek, Excite, and eventually Google. We know what using a slow dot-matrix printer and a manual typewriter feels like, and we know what using Microsoft Word and a high quality, full color laser printer feels like.
There’s so much stuff….
Developing film / taking a selfie
Record a song from the radio / torrent
Encyclopedias / Wikipedia
TV shows at 8 pm / stream whenever
Saturday morning cartoons / cartoons 24/7
Physical maps / MapQuest/Google Maps
Newspapers / online news
House phone / our phone
And we can appreciate what Gen X went through and appreciate what technology brought us.
Solid-Hedgehog9623@reddit
Good take. We had a lot in common with the generations before us until the tech boom.
Relative_Progress946@reddit
Honestly I don’t. I just tell them I’m late Gen X.
elkniodaphs@reddit
We're the last generation that can work a C prompt.
Prince_0llie@reddit
I still prefer to use keyboard commands when using a computer. I struggle to remain aware of where the mouse is/was and tracking it is just not happening. Keyboard commands are just so much more intuitive.
HorribleDear@reddit
Have you ever waved your mouse around in order to find the cursor and it simply IS NOT there until you give up. Then suddenly it’s right there. Conspiracy I tell you.
Prince_0llie@reddit
All the damn time! Except with me it usually doesn't appear/move until I slam the mouse down a few times really hard.
Navaestacia@reddit
Analog childhood, digital young adults.
depictionofmood@reddit
Social sensitivity and awareness developed with us. We grew up knowing the n word and r word were bad and flinched when we heard them. However, we heard "that's gay" and didn't realize how wrong it was until we were in our 20s. By the time we were around 30, gay marriage was legal in the US. Girls and boys were treated very differently in school when we were growing up - by traditional gender roles. Only boys had autism. Girls were "just shy." Girls were rarely diagnosed with ADD. And hardly anyone came "out" or openly identified as trans in high school. That just wasn't done. It wasn't until a few years later that started to change. We saw people in the world dying of AIDS and saw how boomers and the older generations reacted with apathy. It's a "gay disease." Not their problem.
VladimirPoosTons@reddit
I say we were children that lived mostly without tech/internet but had cell phones by college. So we’re more adaptable than Gen X but not quite as tech savvy as millennials.
HearseWithNoName@reddit
I don't have to explain myself, L2GoDuckGo plox ;]
oddball_ocelot@reddit
I've always looked at it like a boarder town. I'm definitely Gex X, but can move easily and comfortably in a Millennial space. English is my primary language but I'm conversational in Spanish, I've been to sweet 16 parties as well as quinceniaras.
melanthius@reddit
We grew up as the internet grew up. Our adolescence was the internet's adolescence.
jcapi1142@reddit
"The Bridge"
TechnOligee@reddit
I say that my references are all Gen X, but I speak fluent millennial. I’m kind of like Blade. I walk in both worlds.
NickVariant@reddit
Millenial's older sibling
VioletVenable@reddit
Or Gen X’s little sibling!
ptindaho@reddit
I am the youngest of 5 (4 of us are GenX with the oldest technically a boomer but much more like GenX). I think those of us with older sibs tend to be much more like our other older GenX sibs than people the same age who are the oldest in their families. We had mostly the same media as our older siblings which pulled us in that direction.
VioletVenable@reddit
Sounds like your oldest sibling is Gen Jones!
And yeah, while Xennials don’t have to be literal younger siblings of Gen X (though I am, too!), I think it’s a common part of the experience. We tended to look upwards for our cultural influences and strove to be accepted by the cool older kids.
Plus, being the youngest often limited our exposure to core Millennial culture. Like, an Xennial with little siblings would naturally wind up hearing their music, seeing their TV shows, etc., whether they wanted to or not. But, in my case for example, until my friends started having kids, the most recent Disney movie I’d seen was 1993’s Aladdin. So there wasn’t much of a “trickle-up” effect for us.
Regardless of where we fall in our family’s birth order, though, we’re awesome!
hoopstick@reddit
Even on Reddit I can’t escape being the middle child 🫤
GivesYouGrief@reddit
I have siblings in both!
BryanEtch@reddit
The Stephanie Tanner
59apache01@reddit
We're the group who really doesn't give a rat's ass. Most of us raised ourselves. We are more cynical than the early Gen X'ers (who I sometimes affectionately refer to as Boomer-Lite or Boomer 2.0). We don't like bullshit and we're burnt out after working in it for 25+ years with little reward.
RelevantNothing4653@reddit
A couple of times I've jokingly said the early GenXers (65-69) seem like Discount rate Boomers
Verbull710@reddit
I don't really ever talk about it in real life, just on here
RelevantNothing4653@reddit
Is that a 50/50 % split most days?
moonagedaydream01@reddit
I think that’s an accurate description!
mackmonsta@reddit
Analog Childhood and Digital Adulthood. Micro-generation in between X and Millennials with attributes of both
FoxExpensive9319@reddit
We early xennials had gradfathers who serverd in world war 2
Prince_0llie@reddit
That's wild to think about! My grandfather served in Korea. So, just barely after yours.
FoxExpensive9319@reddit
Do you know tv series mash ?
Prince_0llie@reddit
Watched it daily with my great grandfather (who likely served in WWII now that I think about it.
FoxExpensive9319@reddit
That was a true xennial thing watching cable tv with granddads
Prince_0llie@reddit
Yep, George Forman in his prime, then Mike Tyson. Football before it was heavily commercialized. He was grok the Silent Gen and he definitely embodied that. Didn't say much. But you definitely listened when he did speak!
cbih@reddit
Before this sub, I called us OG Millenials
BigDaddyUKW@reddit
Better than "elder" right?
SeahorseRevolution@reddit
Better than "geriatric", which was how I first heard it.
BigDaddyUKW@reddit
😂 certainly!!!
Humble-Associate-282@reddit
77 to 83. Rotary phones as kids but not as teens. There you go
Flashy-Share8186@reddit
when did the pay phones get changed out to push button? I remember both…
Prince_0llie@reddit
I was born in 84 but graduated at 17 so does that count?
morgaine125@reddit
Is this really something that comes up a lot in your workplace?
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
In my workplace we're all "millennials"
Bad-Moon-Rising@reddit
I work with a lot of gen z - they love talking to me about the 90s and early 00s. They're so amused that I seem younger, but I'm 44.
puer_mendax_00@reddit
they all just ask organically for you to define “xennial”? Do you have the word tattooed on your forehead?
After_Preference_885@reddit
It is for me but I'm in marketing and we talk about generations all the time
LadyStarblade@reddit (OP)
Yep. Especially from the older folks in the office.
(And I guess it’s not a “lot,” but I’ve been asked three times in an office of 28 people, so that’s not insubstantial. 😃)
puer_mendax_00@reddit
they all just ask organically for you to define “xennial”? Do you have the word tattooed on your forehead?
LadyStarblade@reddit (OP)
Nope, but as I have a couple family members in the office (it's a family owned business) my age is known and two of the three people who asked have kids around my age. So I'm guessing it's related to that.
puer_mendax_00@reddit
Tell those boomers to get back to work, then grumble that no one wants to work anymore 😆
Vargen_HK@reddit
I've given up. They don't get it and think I'm just being pretentious.
I have had some success with the line "I grew up with video games that were technically incapable of showing me anything I couldn't handle. As they matured, so did I. That makes it hard to know how to handle them with my own kid." But only when we keep the conversation to that topic.
Flashy-Share8186@reddit
ah, I’m so glad my games were perfect for my age! On the other hand, my parents got cable around when I started school and didn’t even think about if they should control what I watched…
Nicotheintern1@reddit
I hum any theme from Disney Afternoon and wait til someone goes, "Rescue Rangers?!" Otherwise, I feel like we're quiet? Maybe that's just the indie/emo kid in me but like, it's kind of cooler not to talk about Fight Club.
Powerful-Entry8505@reddit
I think I would tell them to google it.
Flashy-Share8186@reddit
ah yes, we can remember pre-google…and when google actually worked!
Psychological-Web134@reddit
I can program your beta-max VCR to record shows on TV, and also manage your social media accounts.
Qxface@reddit
Young enough to understand the internet, but old enough to appreciate it.
dadoomombo@reddit
Too old for SpongeBob, and the perfect Q-Zone for Saved By The Bell.
non_clever_username@reddit
Most succinct way I’ve heard it described is “analog childhood, digital adulthood.”
If you consider “adulthood” starting in your teens anyway.
Ornamental_oriental@reddit
I tell my kids friends that I’ve been around since the first video game system came out. That seems to make me look like a grandpa in comparison.
RiotPurrrl@reddit
I usually just tell them I’m an elder millennial
The_Fell_Opian@reddit
We watched Duck Tales, played The Oregon Trail and don't give a shit which Harry Potter house we are.
Top-Pudding-4139@reddit
I'm elder Xennial and tell older people I'm Gen X but had the internet in high school and less angst.
For younger people I'll also explain that similar to Gen X I had no supervision growing up, including with my internet usage.
Prince_0llie@reddit
To be fair the internet wasn't filled with brain rot like it is now. We had to get our brain rot from late night TV and MAD magazine.
Top-Pudding-4139@reddit
Thankfully no, just the creepy old dudes looking for 16F 😂
Rosserman@reddit
Analog childhoods, digital adulthood.
Technology, Internet, & phones really took off once we were through school.
notadamnprincess@reddit
You know how they say you should limit your kids’ screen time? We’re what adults would look like if people actually did it properly!
VaguelyInteresting10@reddit
My definition is those born within the original Star Wars trilogy, 1977-1983.
Secure-Pain-9735@reddit
“Analog childhood, digital coming of age.”
GNTKertRats@reddit
It’s not quite breakfast, it’s not quite lunch, but it comes with a slice of cantaloupe at the end.
LadyStarblade@reddit (OP)
Or completely random, paper thin orange slices. 😆
IMayBeOnlyOneMatch@reddit
The childhood neglect of a Gen X with the technological know-how of a Millennial.
n33dwat3r@reddit
"I grew up along side the internet." My childhood was pre-internet but we did have a computer at home since the 1980s. I learned my alphabet from a synthesized voice that was high tech at the time on the Commodore 64 from a program called talking teacher. Had BBSes and email in the early 90s which we used to communicate with my uncle in Desert Storm. Got online when I was 10. Didn't get a basic cell phone until beginning of college at 17. But I did learn about the 2nd plane on 9/11 from somebody reading it on their phone.
Day2205@reddit
I dont. While this micro generations captures a few things unique to being an elder millennial/young x, at the end of the day, I feel “elder/geriatric” millennial is just as well defined and it’s easier to just roll with that while also connecting to the larger millennial cohort
Shabbadoo1015@reddit
I just tell people to Google it. I think there’s enough out there to give people a pretty good idea of what a Xennial is supposed to be.
BoysenberryRegular62@reddit
Analog childhood, digital adulthood. You can extrapolate everything else from there...
SHD_Tech@reddit
I don’t interact with other generations other than to fill my prescriptions and hand me my McNuggets. I have no need of descriptive terms.
andrew_Y@reddit
I’m old enough to know about a joke that happens when someone’s in the shower and you flush a toilet. However, I’m young enough to not know what the fuck it does.
jreashville@reddit
I used Napster in high school.
Hynch@reddit
Ska music
R0botDreamz@reddit
Too young for Star Wars, too old for Harry Potter.
Most_Beyond9318@reddit
I didn't know what HP was until after graduation ('99). I was working customer service at UPS at the time when GoF came out and we got So Many calls about missing or damaged books. I investigated and got hooked. I got out of the fandom when JKR became trash.
HoyAIAG@reddit
Analog Childhood and digital High School
Most_Beyond9318@reddit
I just tell people I was a senior in high school before I had my first email address.
Cephalopod_Dropbear@reddit
We didn’t have a computer in middle school and we were surfing the net at home in high school. We didn’t have video games until we were 7 and graduated with 3 consoles in our house. We were simultaneously the last generation to have video games and computers introduced to us at school and the first generation to have computers at home.
The generation before us doesn’t generally understand technology all that great. The generation after us knows how to use it all, but isn’t sure how it works. We know how to use it and we know how it works.
We’re also unique in that poor kids didn’t experience any of this and rich kids had a Nintendo in 1985 and a computer in 1989.
Basically, we’re the “simultaneous” generation. The last of one thing and the first of another. One kid having all the tech while another kid down the street still created their own fun.
It was just a very unique time in history that lasted about 4 years.
heyitscory@reddit
I had an Atari hooked up to a black and white TV because there was no way my folks were letting us occupy the big color TV in the living room with a stupid toy. We could use the spare TV.
It was okay though. There's a switch on the back of the Atari that switches the color mode to be useful on black and white TVs so you can tell player and enemy sprites apart from the background and each other.
onamonapizza@reddit
Whatever.
DarksunDaFirst@reddit
We were the generation that was raised to not talk to strangers on the Internet and get into their cars, and then when we hit adulthood we built the world to allow us to do that.
SalukiKnightX@reddit
I was telling my Mom about sub-generations. Notably for younger Boomer/older GenX they’re called the Brown Generation (being the generation affected in the aftermath of 1954’s Brown v Board of Education) for having experience in a racially segregated classrooms then in the middle of their schooling have integration. I bring it up since for example my Pops didn’t had mostly black classmates until he went to university, but my mom started with mostly black classmates only having integration when the black high school in her town closed and merged with the white high school (… named after a Confederate general).
This leads to Xennials. Our defining attribute was experiencing life before the Internet and cell phones we had to deal with insane technological advances as they happened in real time. It’s like remembering comic books in supermarkets, then seeing them move to their own places then seeing the medium go digital. Or remembering a See and Say/Touch and Tell toy as a toddler then move to cassette read along as child to having the concept made as an app as an adult, like remembering phonographs/record players transition over to cassettes and Walkmans to CD’s and Discmans to MP3’s to now playing music from your phone (the current digital Swiss Army knife). The idea of always being on ground that can change overnight due to technological advances.
I’d assume the next micro generation would be with younger Gen Z/older Alpha defined by the dealing with C19 lockdowns while in school and the effects afterward.
nderhill__@reddit
Analog childhood digital adulthood. The bridge generation to the internet age.
Risikio@reddit
We were the happy little accidents that happened to our Boomer parent's Bob Ross marriages.
Prince_0llie@reddit
Bahahahahahaha OMFG I'm stealing this! 🤣
shark-exorcist-666@reddit
Young looking enough to be blamed for avocado toast, but we didn’t start the trend.
Prince_0llie@reddit
I don't even get it. Why? I get laughed at by younger millennials because I'm too Gen X in this regard.
Prestigious-Row-3244@reddit
We are the generation that marked the deliberate cognitive transition, from analog to digital.
Darkest_Rahl@reddit
Too millennial to be fully gen x. Too gen x to be fully millennial.
Prince_0llie@reddit
This is the answer.
LadyStarblade@reddit (OP)
NAILED IT.
hey_suburbia@reddit
77-83
NoKatyDidnt@reddit
I almost don’t think that we can. It’s something I’m not completely sure that others could understand without experiencing it themselves. We had such a unique situation with the explosion of tech and the internet that I feel like it’s unique.
Texas_Kimchi@reddit
This photo explains us.
kombatminipig@reddit
Too young to enjoy the good times, too old to not remember what it was like before.
puer_mendax_00@reddit
this is how I define xennial:
nopester24@reddit
I don't. You either know or you don't
Jonestown_Juice@reddit
I don't. This isn't a topic that comes up in Meatspace.
silentsnak3@reddit
Tech support for Boomers, therapist for Gen X and coach for Gen Z.
We are the fix it generation. Kind of like when you work on a car, make it worse, try something else, cuss at everyone and blame your parents for not teaching you how to fix stuff. Then you take it to a shop that fixes it, but with huge cost added on due to fixing your other mistakes. And finally telling your kids what not to do.
GivesYouGrief@reddit
"my favorite band is Bad Religion"
SirClarkus@reddit
We were the last generation to grow up without the internet or cell phones, but entered the work force expected to be familiar with both
crazycatlady331@reddit
Gen X/millennial cuspers that don't fit into either generation.
E-Rock77@reddit
Analog childhood, digital adolescence.
jbaker232@reddit
Oregon Trail generation
medyolang_@reddit
used too many words when “people in between genx and millennials” would’ve done
Curious_Instance_971@reddit
I describe myself as Gen X …
Don’t kick me out pls
Resident-Pattern4034@reddit
We understand everyone, we’re the only ones that can.
Into-the-stream@reddit
I know where we are, I know this is probably pretty unpopular, but I don’t buy into the notion sea that whatever generation you are is what defines you. I think there are people I relate to across many generations. Xennial for me mostly means we have a lot of shared popular culture from childhood.
LooseMoralSwurkey@reddit
Analog childhood with a digital college/young professional life
Maleficent-Permit871@reddit
Too young to be old, too old to be young.
ProduceEmbarrassed97@reddit
IT support for my grandparents, parents, and my kids.
FUWS@reddit
Last gen to have indoor smoking
rosemarylemontwist@reddit
I don't. That's my gen X half not caring, though.
osddelerious@reddit
Born around 1980
Possumjones@reddit
Born in an analog world. Growing up thru the transition to digital. Is not frustrated with new technology but rather curious and interested in it while still remembering fondly the simplicity of our analog world.
Bubbly_Assignment478@reddit
Millennials with a work ethic.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
Millennials who grew up with MTV.
Illustrious-Lead-960@reddit
“It’s horseshit, just like all of the other generational terms. At best gives you a rough idea based on stereotypes.”
Taco_El_Paco@reddit
I don't. Maybe it's the Gen X in me though...
Bushkill67@reddit
I say I have a constant struggle inside of me. I am both Don and Peggy in that scene where she wants recognition for her work and he tells her that’s what the money is for.
marxistopportunist@reddit
The last generation to enjoy abundant natural resources through to maturity
bunnyspaceship@reddit
The Babysitter Generation, bc I had to babysit both my parents and my siblings. Exhaustion. :)
FrostyMasterpiece400@reddit
Born after episode 4, before episode 6.
We had internet from highschool+ mostly