Why are schools so pedantic about uniform?
Posted by joehighlord@reddit | AskUK | View on Reddit | 532 comments
I understand the points of having a uniform. Although I feel if we're going to talk about 'Not being bullied for clothes' we'd also need uniform shoes and glasses and such.
Anyway, with the regularly scheduled heatwave and all the children still in school without AC. Why do many schools still seem to enforce blazer wearing, top-button-doing-up, ties and long trousers?
Even without a heatwave. Have 'approved' hot weather uniform with the emblems and such but just... let students wear either whenever. More for parents to buy yes, but also your kid wont get heatstroke and it's cheaper than installing AC which wont happen anyway.
What is the harm of letting kids wear shorts in the winter?
Fine_Cress_649@reddit
I believe it's a variation on broken windows theory.
If you enforce what is a fairly trivial but very visible and easily codified issue - i.e. uniform - rigourously, then you improve behaviour overall.
AngryTudor1@reddit
It is absolutely this- school leader here and teacher of over 20 years
The general view is that uniform is the easiest thing to crack, and if you get that right most of what you want follows
Very challenging children will still be very challenging whatever
But behaviour is infectious
Students who would otherwise just tow the line and get on will start pushing the boundaries if everyone else is or they think those boundaries are soft.
If the most basic and easily visible rules about uniform are soft, then all your boundaries are- and good students who normally would just do the right thing will follow a herd and misbehave.
If literally everyone is wearing their uniform correctly and students all expect that to be enforced, they expect everything else to be enforced and just get on with it.
I do agree though that in summer weather this needs to be relaxed by the school, and most schools do that
Magicwiper@reddit
Completely unrelated, and you're a teacher so probably know it better than me, but is it "tow" the line? I always thought it was "toe" because you're just edging near it.
Comrade_pirx@reddit
It's toe. I heard it was from the navy, I think a line was drawn across the deck and the sailors would line up along it for inspection or parade or something.
CreativeAdeptness477@reddit
Toe, it's from the houses of Parliament. At the front in front of the benches there's two lines across the carpet. Things used to get heated in the olden days with ministers from one side sometimes jumping over to attack the opposition. For order's sake they added the lines and a rule that said you couldn't go across it while in session.
But you could stand on it, I.E. toe it.
Yay that Granada TV studios tour my parents took me on 35 years ago has finally paid off!
n3m0sum@reddit
While used in Parliament, it has military origins. Appearing in memoirs and military manuals of the 18th century. Before any evidence of an actual line being laid down in the main chamber of Parliament.
It was probably adopted in the UK Parliament as a result of many MPs having seen military service and already being familiar with the concept of introducing order and discipline, by having people toe the line.
ac0rn5@reddit
"Toe the line" (from the Navy) eventually became "toe the party line", I think.
n3m0sum@reddit
I believe that you are right. Not just maintaining good order, but maintain what the party wants.
SionnachBaineann@reddit
I love an unexpected etymology post, for phrases or words. They're such interesting bits of trivia! Thank you 🤩
My personal faves are the word 'decimation' and the phrase 'piss poor'
AngryTudor1@reddit
I think you are correct actually
sixtydegr33@reddit
Nice to see some humility. Good for you.
roblesslie@reddit
You are correct, and It isn't unrelated IMHO, it is part of the same continuum. Attention to detail and standards matter in dress/uniform and language.
Shannoonuns@reddit
I work for a uniform supplier.
In my experience parents and students seem to be happier and the students tend to be more successful at the schools with the better uniform policy.
Like on top of setting boundaries, if a school is organised enough to create a uniform that is affordable, consistent and fit for purpose then they're probably organised everywhere else too
Also theres just generally less push back if there is straightforward uniform policy, when I was a kid my school didn't ever spesficfy which kind of school trousers or shirts to wear but then would punish kids if it was wrong. Also some teachers were stricter than others and it was just really frustrating and inconsistent, then the kids and parents would understandably argue back.
Whereas if everyone knew exactly what they needed, it was cost effective, good quality & everyone knew they would be punished if they wore something else theres less to argue about and cuts out a lot of the agro.
jamesanglofranco@reddit
Well your livelihood relies on that being true
AngryTudor1@reddit
I agree entirely
My daughter goes to a school where uniform costs a fortune because everything is branded.
On the one hand, that's not good- each year we consider signing up to join Squid Game to afford it
But on the other, we know exactly what she has to have and that she will not fall foul of the rules
Having worked in a school that only stipulated a brander blazer, the uniform was cheaper but we had lots of problems with super tight fashion trousers that were not appropriate for the "business environment" we were aiming for but were difficult to justify to unsupportive parents why they didn't meet the policy
hurrdurrswit@reddit
Has the department for education or individual schools ever looked across at other countries where uniform isnt a thing and compared achievement and attainment levels etc. Continental european countries where uniform isnt a thing dont have these issues, why do we and why does being strict about school attire for children have any meaningful impact in life and the real world.
AngryTudor1@reddit
I don't know if they have or not
I have visited schools in countries like that and most countries don't bother with uniform.
But we have a uniquely different culture in this country, particularly amongst our working class- and anti education culture that other countries don't really have
Turbulent-Fun-3123@reddit
Maybe because school busy themselves with trivial stuff like uniforms whilst failing to teach much.
AngryTudor1@reddit
And there is the pathetic "we hate teachers" attitude that plagues this country and holds back so many of our children
Alternative_Arm_7249@reddit
I mean I'm sorry, but the person you replied to is correct. My European family moved to the UK when I was 12 years old, so I got first hand experience in seeing the difference between the UK and Europe.
the stuff they taught me in year 8 up to year 11 in the UK, is what I had already learned in primary school in Europe.
AngryTudor1@reddit
No it wasn't
You did not learn upper level GCSE maths in primary school
You did not learn to write GCSE style history essays in primary school
We have a nation issue in this country with Secondary schools and primary schools not talking to each other. So I agree, in year 7 and even a bit of 8, students in many schools are not challenged enough compared to primary. This is a legitimate problem hardly spoken about
However, by year 9 and GCSE that disappears.
Remember also that schools do not get a choice in what is on the GCSE curriculum and exams
Alternative_Arm_7249@reddit
Read my original comment again.
I am not comparing UK primary to UK secondary.
I am comparing EU primary to UK secondary.
The things I had on my Maths GCSE exam, is stuff I learned in primary school back in the EU.
Therefore, the original point stands - UK schools/teachers are obsessed with uniforms, while teaching very little.
AngryTudor1@reddit
I did read it, and I don't believe you.
Top level GCSE maths was not on your primary school curriculum at the same level of difficulty.
Primary school age students in this country will learn algebra and a bit of trig, but not at the same level of GCSE at all
You did not write GCSE level history essays under time pressure at primary school either
Romeo-McF@reddit
The logic of their argument isn't hard to pick apart either.
Schooling in both the UK and EU finishes with university-qualifying education at 18.
If students in the EU were 5 years ahead by the age of 11, what would they be fannying about with for the next 7?
Kickitoff1902@reddit
The other point is the inconsistency in what is taught and how it is taught at primary. I teach secondary and we have kids come in at wildly different levels. You cannot just leave half the class behind, because one primary school taught something so half the kids know it, but the other primary schools didnt, so the rest of the class are clueless.
Year 7 is largely about levelling the playing field.
The spiral curriculum is also relevant here.
jamesanglofranco@reddit
Britain has one of the highest education scores in Europe. And why are you referring to “Europe” as if it has only one education system?
https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/education-rankings-by-country
The one area we do comparatively badly is foreign languages.
Silver-Appointment77@reddit
I'm from England and primary school education is better than any secondary. My Grandson has just gone into year 7, first year secondary and even he says most of the things he's taught, he already knows. I was the same. I was learning long multiplication and fractions in year 10. I already knew how to do it from primary.
As far as im concerned Uniforms are a huge waste of money. £50 for a blazer with the school badge on,, £30 for a v neck jumper with a badge on it. Then with a whole PE kit which all have to have the badge on it, that itself is nearly £70. So over £100. And the education they get is rubbish.
AnonymousCapybara72@reddit
I find that usually the people who complain about schools not teaching much are thick, lazy cunts who learned nothing because they fucked around in school and didn't give a shit.
moonbrows@reddit
Our cultures are different in that respect, we’re possibly in a worse economic situation and have been for a long time, and our attitudes aren’t the same. The above just explained why being strict about school uniform has impact in life
Away-Activity-469@reddit
I think it is true to say that uk kids are generally worse behaved than European ones, regardless of economic situation.
Uniform is about class. Its state schools aping what is perceived to be the 'proper' way to do school.
Artistic-Morning-659@reddit
I think it's true that this is a sweeping generalisation based on none idence whatsoever.
Various-Moment-6774@reddit
I’m from Greece and I’ve worked within youth organisations around Europe and emt a lot of students. I believe (and only based on my personal experience) that the UK kids are a lot worse and behave way worse. My friends telling me stories that they seem like movie scenarios for my greek education background yet very real. I also notice a huge difference in the school kids according to their area. Eg kids in less desired areas are more prone to behave awful, create chaos etc etc. I moved now ti a very desirable suburb and the kids are a lot better, behaving better, more polite, not causing damages etc. so i think a lot of it has to do with a lot of “bad apples” staying with other “bad apples” meanwhile in other european countries it seems to be a better mix between the socio economic background in schools.
Artistic-Morning-659@reddit
Still a huge sweeping generalisation. Another post designed to cast shade on the UK. How is the weather in Tehran?
Away-Activity-469@reddit
You reckon they are better behaved?
Lanthanidedeposit@reddit
Funny thing is that i had a dress code as a boarder at a well known private school. Only uniform item was a tie. We were allowed to ditch the jacket and tie on hot days
hueylouisdewey@reddit
On what are you basing the idea that UK kids are worse behaved?
moonbrows@reddit
Perhaps anecdotal but I lived in two Scandinavian countries and the kids were much, much more pleasant and better behaved in general.
zodII4K@reddit
Based on the reports I've seen and read Scandinavian kids are amongst the most happy. Likely behaving better on avg. The education system there is something next level in my opinion.
I don't know if there are uniforms in Scandinavian countries, but highly doubt the broken window theory works in terms of uniforms. I look at it as a controlling, meaningless rule. Doesn't prevent bullying, doesn't protect from the consequences of inequality. In fact, I think it makes it worse when facing it later in life or outside school.
There is crime elsewhere I am sure.. but what kids do here is wild. Keeping entire streets in terror, tenants being worried about their safety cause youth gangs roaming around, vandalism, drug usage, assaults, scrambler bikes in public places etc. It is massive.
Live-Inevitable-2232@reddit
I doubt kids in other places are exclusively angels but the rate you see headlines here about kids committing robberies, violent crimes etc is pretty astounding.
And that's just the stuff that actually makes the news. I often come across gangs of them on stolen bikes etc terrorising people in my city and it never makes the news.
The_Real_Rich1Up@reddit
Well exactly, its what they choose to report on the news to build a narrative they prefer. Crime is at a record low in fact.
Live-Inevitable-2232@reddit
I dont doubt that on paper it is.
But how much of that is because there's actually less crime and how much of it is because people are reporting things less and less due to non action?
The other month there was a group of a dozen kids all balaclavad up with bats, poles etc threatening to rape women and confronting men in the center of my city... While a couple of coppers just stood in the distance watching. Why bother?
KalWhosAsking@reddit
Good to reflect on why you hear local news more often than, say, Bucharest?
Live-Inevitable-2232@reddit
There may be some bias but I don't actively look at local news, everything I see is through vitality, which is my point.
DarkSouls3onDvD@reddit
Never base an opinion just on headlines, that's just super dumb. Look at the stats.
zodII4K@reddit
Just did a quick search and found multiple articles about children and teens in the UK being amongst the worst behaving ones in Europe. Sources from as early as 1999, based on academic reports, researches, studies.
Last year UK ranked one of the lowest, when it comes to happines/wellbeing of youths.
I only tried to sum up the results..
My personal exp with youths and children is the same to be honest, I've been to many EU countries, the current situation here is worrying to say the least.
a_f_s-29@reddit
I completely disagree actually
Enta_Nae_Mere@reddit
Exactly this, when academisation started newly acquired schools quickly adopted stricter uniforms to conform with boarding and grammar schools. It's also a nice way for governors to get a kickback from uniform suppliers.
Complex_War1898@reddit
you've never been to an outer city french schooll then!!!
Alyssa9876@reddit
Pretty much all mass studies show uniform makes zero difference to attainment and behaviour but the myth persists here in the UK
zabbenw@reddit
Uniforms are cheaper for parents. Fuck having to dress kids in nice clothes to school.
Anglo-Euro-0891@reddit
They also save a lot of time in the mornings, since the outfits for the week are already organised.
Kickitoff1902@reddit
School uniform doesnt have to be blazers and ties or a free for all.... look at the continental schools that do have uniform, or Chinese schools that do. Polo shirt, school branded tracksuit, trainers. Job done.
knotatwist@reddit
They aren't saying that having a uniform is what makes behaviour better, it's that policing the uniform when it already exists does
Away-Activity-469@reddit
So why bother then? Its just spending effort enforcing something for its own sake.
The argument is that uniforms equalise social backgrounds. But unless all schools have the same uniform, you have to accept that the opposite is true when it comes to different schools and wider society. The boater hats and tailcoats offer one strata, while polo shirts and viscose trousers offer another.
If we want to equalise social backgrounds we should ban private schools, not force kids from Luton to cosplay as edwardian scholars in piped jackets.
scarby2@reddit
And what the other poster is wondering is if any evidence exists to demonstrate that (other than anecdotes).
The fact that uniform has no impact does have a bearing here, given that it shows that if there's nothing to enforce (and we remove that lever entirely) there's zero impact.
Various-Moment-6774@reddit
I’m from Greece. A country far less financially troubled than the UK or most of European countries. Kids don’t have to wear uniform and kids don’t miss behave the way they do here. But from my point of view it’s not the school’s fault or the uniform or anything like that. It’s the family not want to parent their own kids. Leaving everything to a teacher. Who has to deal with 20-25-30 kids in the classroom. So it’s not about the uniform or what it helps to solve but about the parents who don’t wanna parent their own kids.
pullingteeths@reddit
Where's any evidence to back this "logic"?
CollectionStraight2@reddit
You really think our cultures are that different? I think it's just habit,to be honest. UK people think kids 'need' a uniform. Many other coutnries around the world don't
Anglo-Euro-0891@reddit
Your sweeping generalisation that having strict rules about school uniforms will NOT have any relevance later on in adult life is incorrect.
Many job roles require wearing uniforms, or a clearly defined dress code, of some description. School uniforms help children prepare for that. That is definitely one way it "has a meaningful impact in life and the real world ".
PeridotAurora@reddit
I see why people agree with this
Indie89@reddit
Do you think that other countries schools achievement and attainment levels are tied to the presence or absence of school uniform?
Or would it be more likely that funding / staff levels / resources / entry exams would be an indicator of that?
hurrdurrswit@reddit
Yes my point is i believe its largely irrelevant, many comments here are leading us to believe without a strict uniform policy we’ll have a lord of the flies situation in every school.
Indie89@reddit
Having been a kid that went through school uniform I am an advocate for it. I think if you're someone not into clothes / fashion etc its quite nice to not have to think what to wear each day. It was one less thing to be bullied over.
It's interesting we're seeing a continued increase in discipline issues at school, with increased disruption and lost time post Covid. While I highly doubt its related to anything such as uniform something is going wrong.
_a_m_s_m@reddit
I totally get it, but my main issue is the bloody price 😭
_MicroWave_@reddit
I don't get this. School uniform is by and large cheaper than 'normal' clothes. Asda is insane cheap.
Morganx27@reddit
Just checked the school I used to go to for the sake of argument, full uniform (i.e. just the branded stuff, not including the shoes, the skirts/trousers, tights, socks, shirts etc.) comes to £132. No bloody wonder my mum bought me clothes that were 14 sizes too big for me in Year 7 and expected me to grow into it.
Jung-And-A-Menace@reddit
My mum did the same and I never grew into it. Until my last day of high school, I had to roll up my sleeves. I could hug my knees and comfortably tuck my whole body into my jumper, like a tortoise hiding in its shell.
itsfourinthemornin@reddit
It was, a lot of cases it isn't now. When I was a kid it was simple - those school summer dresses, done in this weather. Rest of the year any yellow polo shirt would do as long as you had the school jumper.
Move to Secondary school, it's easy again, black trousers or skirt, white shirt, school blazer and tie. Year 9... personal branded uniform of polo shirt, jumper and P.E. kits. They even had... APRONS for Food Tech.
My son is now in school, Primary was easy enough, black trousers or shorts with branded polo and jumper or red polo with branded jumper, one store in the whole town to buy any branded uniforms (now closed). They changed to an "Academy" this year alongside the twinned Secondary. They now have well, basically branded everything down to the P.E. kit. The only clothes we are buying at ASDA these days for uniform is trousers now.
Plus side, they give every student a full free set when they start at Secondary (those students already get one as well come September) I suppose. Primary and below swapped over last month, in the middle of the school year, when my son's classes leave in almost 5 weeks. They could use their old uniform, kid's already got bullied for not having the new uniform shirt.
JamesL25@reddit
A lot of schools these days insist on ‘branded’. I scoffed and made a similar comment a few years back to a friend who’s son had just started at my old school, and showed my how the grey trousers now had the badge monogrammed just below the belt line (apparently skirts have similar).
a_f_s-29@reddit
There should be restrictions on what state schools can demand in the way of branded uniform. A patch on a jumper or blazer is sensible but anything beyond that is excessive
LCPO23@reddit
Our school uniform is green and I can get jumpers and cardigans in green thankfully. But the specific colour of polo shirt can only be bought from a local shop that has them with the badge, they're £15 a pop and the quality is terrible. Shirts/blouses I can buy in the green elsewhere if I'm quick, otherwise it's the local shop again and they're £20.
I always have to buy 4 polos to start the year, and usually another 4 midway through.
Jung-And-A-Menace@reddit
Branded jumper, branded PE kit, branded tie (two, actually!), trousers in the exact right shade of grey, black leather shoes, black coat, black backpack. The branded stuff was from Coe's and the jumpers alone were over £20 each.
Indie89@reddit
They can make it so that it's black trousers, white shirt and black jacket with a patch you sew on. They should ban buying uniforms from specific stores.
Complex_War1898@reddit
black trousers are a big no-no because they could be jeans *shocked pikachu face*, they must be grey lol
a_f_s-29@reddit
Grey jeans exist
Complex_War1898@reddit
easier to spot grey jeans
pullingteeths@reddit
It's not the presence of a uniform that's the issue it's the stupid draconian enforcement of it that has appeared in the last 20 years or so. It used to be dealt with on a common sense basis where the colour of your socks, if you had the school badge on your shirt or not etc didn't matter and you didn't have to absurdly and humiliatingly ask for permission to remove your jumper. That is all performative nonsense that lazy schools to do pretend they're somehow raising standards when there's no evidence whatsoever that it does so.
itsfourinthemornin@reddit
I remember a few instances of getting told off for having either coloured or character socks instead of black socks at school, a few instances when I had no socks on and for sometimes having a "dirty uniform" (usually a spill), in front of my whole class with a demand for why I didn't have black socks on. I was living with my dad at the time when I went up to Secondary, who was neglectful on most aspects of care, I'd had to buy socks for myself at 11 because I had no clean ones or go without, I had to rely on my brother to clean my uniform for me in the end (thankfully moved close to my dad in those first months). I was getting bullied for all these little facts already, but a teacher thought it'd be a great idea to use me as an example and at the same time, embarrass me by letting my whole class know I have no socks on and the like. I tried to talk to them about it and was given the "it's your responsibility" line, buddy I was 11. I wouldn't talk to my teachers after that for the most part, my behaviour suffered drastically between that, bullying and home life so longer-term so did my education. I regularly got the punishments for reacting to bullies.
pullingteeths@reddit
That's awful and so unnecessary! Sorry you had to go through that over such ridiculousness as sock colour
itsfourinthemornin@reddit
It was an... odd school to put it lightly and without giving it's full story, some of the teachers were as a big of a bully as some of the students mainly out of comfort having taught there for so long. Many of them got kicked to the curb when they tried to "reform" the school at least. Luckily there was still teachers that were genuine, kind souls in it for us kids.
clrthrn@reddit
I live in a no uniform country and it’s great. School has a strong identity/spirit, bullying is no more or less of a thing than anywhere else in the world, school has a good behaviour record and kids feel comfortable all day. What is different is my kid’s teacher spends zero minutes worrying about what the kids are wearing meaning more time on important things like learning.
CollectionStraight2@reddit
In the UK we fixate on uniforms instead of getting to the root of issues. As evidenced by how many people are sticking up for uniforms on this thread
Indie89@reddit
I think uniforms are just a cultural thing, Japan for example has a strong cultural identity with uniforms and I personally believe we should continue with it and promote it with pride.
I also think uniform has nothing to do with the poor state of our schools which should be where the discussion is focused. The treasury (like every public service) has completely suffocated it, we have a syllabus that isn't fit for 2026, we have a lack of flexibility for SEND children, we have increased illiteracy rates, we have a discipline problem, we have crumbling schools, we have poorly paid teachers and reports of some toxicity in some schools around the faculty. And a government that hasn't even mentioned a strategy around education.
Chemistry_BITCH@reddit
No study like that, but in the last two years there was a school leader, teacher and parent survey on uniform in the UK.
Options were something like A) keep the same standards B) relax and have a more "casual uniform" C) get rid of uniform
The leaders were split between A and B
The teachers were mostly B with a little C
Parents were overwhelming A with some C.
I will link it if I find it but i am out and about
Essentially - uniform standards are driven by parents.
Source, head of a key stage in a UK based secondary school who has to deal with weekly phonecalls about parents and other concerned citizens about how pupils wear our uniform outside of the school.
a_f_s-29@reddit
Countries without uniform still have dress codes, which become much harder to enforce and much more discriminatory in the absence of a uniform
rbrown1991@reddit
Also worth noting that on many measures the UK outperforms many of these other education systems on international comparisons. I am not claiming that this is because of strict uniform laws , but I do think this myth seems to get developed that our education system is drasdtically underpeforming when it is actually one of the leading systems in the world. See for example the PISA rankings.
hurrdurrswit@reddit
Oh fully agree, i think our education system is world class. I just dont buy that uniform has anything to do with it.
smackdealer1@reddit
Lmao Brits are a special breed. You can't compare us to other countries in regards to cultural behaviour.
ohthedarside@reddit
I just dont understand why our uniforms are so uncomfortable and hot especially for boys
Im year 11 and surport a uniform but dear god does it need to be redesigned cause both girls and boys uniform just kinda sucks also i was one of the "problem students " i now go to a more specialist school but when i was in mainstream with a uniform the uncomfortableness and heat of it was just another thing that made going even more difficult then it had to be
School kids are literally dressed smarter then about 99%of the population and jobs out there
HalfFaust@reddit
At my school they seemed to go in waves of very strictly enforcing uniform and then gradually giving up. Wouldn't say I ever noticed a difference in behaviour. When they introduced blazers and ties, behaviour definitely got worse.
WanderWomble@reddit
That still doesn't explain why we're dressing our kids like tiny business men.
I went to an incredibly rough school and behaviour improved when we got a new head teacher who changed the uniform to branded polo shirts and skirts/trousers.
It must be hell for ND kids; I have major sensory issues and being forced to wear a tie and a blazer would have absolutely stopped me going to school because I wouldn't have coped with them.
AngryTudor1@reddit
We do it simply because parents like it
Simple as that
Our state schools all use private school style uniform because parents then think it's a better school
Schools that use sweaters and sweatshirts instead, parents assume are shit and badly behaved.
The smarter the uniform, the more parents rate the school.
My daughter is autistic and has sensory issues. She can't wear a clip on tie, so wears a proper one and that helps
A lot of school uniform just isn't built for teenage girls bodies either, which comes in all sorts of configurations and for some girls it must be incredibly uncomfortable.
So I totally agree with you, but I can promise you that it is parental demand, expectations and perception that drives it
spinningdice@reddit
Proper ties were against the policy at our school, it specified clip on tie - no idea if anyone got in trouble for the proper tie, but given each year group had their own tie colours (it moved up with them so we didn't have to buy one each year) I'm not sure where we'd have bought a non-clipon version anyway.
I hard agree with the body shape one as well, as a slightly larger student with early developing chest my eldest never looked right in Uniform no matter how many times we swapped out sizes.
itsfourinthemornin@reddit
Is there a reason for why it's against policy? More for curiosity's sake than anything being honest.
We eventually switched to polo/sweatshirt combination but it was always a proper tie, clip-ons got you told off and taught how to tie a tie if you didn't know - back when I was at school anyway. My son goes up to secondary next year, they are all clip-on ties for their uniform, proper ties aren't allowed. My stepdad and I were curious when we attended the open evening but they didn't seem to know why the switch to clip-on.
spinningdice@reddit
I think it's for 'Health & Safety' reasons, less chance of getting strangled and quicker removal in case they catch fire.
Old articles from 2009: BBC NEWS | Education | Schools switching to clip-on ties Old school tie is shunned amid safety concerns | Schools | The Guardian
itsfourinthemornin@reddit
It makes sense I suppose, I don't remember much of that at my school, tie was an unspoken rule off being off limits!
WanderWomble@reddit
Someone swatted me at school and my tie was so tight around my neck a teacher had to cut it off.
I then got told off for the rest of the afternoon for not wearing it even though I showed the teachers what had happened.
itsfourinthemornin@reddit
Gosh, despite some of the rough housing at my school, touching the tie was like an unspoken rule you didn't go for in a fight or prank. Latter was my average school experience!
Turbulent-Fun-3123@reddit
Not really, more OFSTED.
AngryTudor1@reddit
Not at all.
Perhaps in the past a bit, but Ofsted don't have a preference
They would pick up on students dressed unappropriately however
Turbulent-Fun-3123@reddit
I have known OFSTED to be very keen on uniform.
AngryTudor1@reddit
You have known inspectors to be very keen on uniform
The framework never was and the inspectors do not have that latitude now- or shouldn't do
West-Season-2713@reddit
I was undiagnosed with autism and when we changed the uniform to ties and blazers and such it was so difficult for me sensory wise that I genuinely just stopped turning up. Awful practice, based on flawed ideas of policing children, and an obsession with control.
Anglo-Euro-0891@reddit
A lot of schools, mostly at infant and primary level, actually do have set uniforms for the warmer part of the academic year. So no "relaxing" is required, because the uniform ALREADY accommodates the warmer weather.
Traditionally, most British schools had been doing this for decades as the norm.
Acrobatic-Watch-8037@reddit
No, what you've described is painting around the edges while ignoring the actual behavioural problems. This is typical British performative nonsense that makes you look like you're doing something useful, when in reality you're doing the exact opposite. And because British people are too polite to call a spade a spade, nobody stands up and says "hey this is fucking stupid, could we not?" - and even if someone did, they'd be looked at as if they're insane.
And thus Britain never improves.
AngryTudor1@reddit
Nonsense
You have it all wrong.
You need to understand who it is demanding the uniform and what the historical basis of it is
pullingteeths@reddit
This is a lot of nonsense not backed by evidence. If there was any truth to this whatsoever then countries where having no uniform is standard would have worse behaviour and results - they don't. And you would be able to cite studies that back it - you can't. It's extremely embarrassing that schools of all places operate based on this old wives tale level "logic". In truth it's just because it's the easiest most low effort way for schools to be able to say they're doing something to improve behaviour or raise standards or whatever without putting in real work to do so. Disgracefully lazy nonsense that is a waste of everyone's time and only results in unfairly targeting poorer kids or kids whose parents don't bother about uniform as much and "criminalising" kids who have otherwise perfect behaviour and would never be in trouble
How are countries that don't have school uniform in most schools functioning perfectly fine without doing this? How were UK schools functioning perfectly fine 20+ years ago before stupid draconian uniform enforcement increased? Is behaviour better here than in those countries? Is it better now than 20 years ago? Where are the stats?
AngryTudor1@reddit
Studies, studies, studies. You can wipe your backside with peer reviewed studies about uniform conducted in other countries, which have completely different cultures and attitudes to education.
Uniform is a thing here because of history and the way British social history has shaped us. I might even explain it to you if you learn some manners
Because they have completely different cultures and parental attitudes to education. They have different histories and their parents do not associate uniform with quality of the school. Behaviour is different too
🤣🤣
Uniform was little different 20-30 years ago than it is now. Behaviour was very different 20-30 years ago. You clearly have no idea.
What changed? You can no longer piss about for 5 years, leave school with no GCSEs and expect to walk into a job that you can progress in.
No, it's probably a lot worse. But uniform probably makes it better than it would be otherwise as it sets an entry bar of compliance.
Yes, comprehensively
What stats exactly do you think would be decisive with this?
I am telling you as a teacher with over 20 years experience in state schools
pullingteeths@reddit
I'm sorry, so where's your evidence? Was behaviour worse 20 years ago and it's improved since this nonsense was brought in, you have statistics to back this? What is it about UK culture that requires draconian uniform policies? Do non uniform schools in the UK have worse behaviour? There are millions of children in schools in the UK, if this is more than an old wives tale there should be ample evidence to prove its effectiveness
Do you seriously not believe this can be an easy way for schools to cite something they're doing to improve standards and give them a good image that doesn't require the effort that things like actually tackling bullying and particular pupils' behaviour does? You don't think there's any correlation between the rise of this and the "academy" system where schools, particularly with new heads, want to improve their "brand" image?
You don't think it's a problem that this inevitably leads to pupils from poor families getting in trouble through no fault of their own? To pupils who have otherwise perfect behaviour getting detentions etc because of the clothing their parents dressed them in? How is this any kind of net positive for them?
AngryTudor1@reddit
My evidence is being a school student in the 80s and 90s and then being a teacher from the 00's onwards
I never said "Draconian" uniform policies were required. If you are sending students home for a shirt coming untucked, that is wrong.
But if you stipulate a uniform policy and enforce it, that is not "Draconian"
And as I have said to many others, it is the perception of parents that leads the uniform drive. I am not explaining the history of it again, find my other post on this same thread about it
What schools would they be then? Have you ever seen one that wasn't specialist, IE an acting school?
What evidence do you want?
Since there are virtually no mainstream, standard non uniform schools in the UK (and most parents would not trust them if there were), what would you like me to compare it to? Finland?
You cannot compare any data because education changes in time and context. One school may have virtually no suspensions, but that doesn't mean the students are well behaved- it might mean they have "inclusive" policies and hide the bad behaviour statistically by low suspensions. High suspensions could mean lots of bad behaviour, or very little that is always followed up on.
This is uninformed nonsense. It is abundantly obviously you haven't spent any time in schools since you were a kid yourself, except maybe to make your kid's teacher's lives harder.
You don't even know what is "on the rise"
There is nothing inevitable about anything. A great may schools bend over backwards to support the poorest with uniform. Every school I have ever worked for provided pupil premium students uniform for free for a start, including shoes. Most schools have schemes where families give away uniform that doesn't fit and disadvantaged families can get these for free.
I agree with you that it is not right to be "criminalising" good students for minor infractions, and as a leader I believe in being a human being
But this is not difficult. My daughter is 14, has autism and ADHD- she has managed three years without one sanction for uniform
Major-Credit-2442@reddit
But why not just expand what is allowed ever so slightly and still enforce the rules rigorously? You could allow shorts but still have rules around it, eg min length they have to be, colour, material etc, and still enforce that.
I get what you’re saying about why the rules can’t be bent, I just don’t understand why that means the rules can’t be changed to something more suitable.
AngryTudor1@reddit
Great question
Simplicity is always the answer
When it comes to uniform, boys are almost never the problem. It is teenage girls, and their mother's.
Whatever leeway you give, some of the girls will look for loopholes and weaknesses in the wording to wear tighter or more revealing versions, and often their mother's will aggressively support them.
You want to allow shorts- great. Some of the girls will be coming in hotpants. The mothers will accuse any male member of staff even looking at them to ascertain compliance of being a paedophile - and quite often they'll say the same about female staff as well
The last thing staff want to be doing is measuring teenage girl's shirts or shorts, arguing over what the material is, etc- too open to vexatious complaints from the parents and we just want to get on with our day and teach
terryjuicelawson@reddit
Main question would be why do the school care if the skirt is short or "revealing". The worst is when the excuse is that it may distract male teachers.
Major-Credit-2442@reddit
Well I would assume male pupils being distracted by it would be a bigger issue than male teachers (I’d hope, anyway).
I guess though couldn’t you say the same for any of the uniform rules? Why do they care if you wear a tie? Why do they care if you don’t tuck in your shirt and have all the buttons done? A large part I would guess is the school want to present a good image, and that means having students dressed in what they deem to be a suitable uniform that would help to present a good image of the school.
Any_Fox_6092@reddit
I went to an all girls school with almost all female teachers and they were still arsey about skirt lengths.
AngryTudor1@reddit
I have never once heard that "excuse" other than in tabloid newspapers
You think it appropriate for teenage girls to have their arse visible during school? As some of them would choose to do?
Is that training your daughters well for the real workplace and for a meaningful place in it?
You see, you are literally deploying the exact same tactic as many of the mothers.
Completely disregard the law, then accuse teachers of being perverts for having rules about skirts or enforcing them
JLPLJ@reddit
When i was in school nearly half the students flouted the uniform codes and it absolutely wasn't just the girls
AngryTudor1@reddit
Depends.
Boys tends to be wearing trainers. It's an arrogance thing - a "I can wear cool footwear and you aren't going to do anything about it"
There isn't really that much else boys do, other than that horrific faux gangster thing where they have trainers down by their knees to show their boxers, but thankfully no one lasts long in a school like that.
Girls has more variety- either particularly tight or revealing clothing (tight fashion trousers or short skirts) or fashion and branded clothing/ shoes
jdjwright@reddit
Actual notice in a staff briefing about 12 years ago: “Remember everyone, girl’s skirts must be no more than 5cm above their knee. That’s about one hands breadth”
Yeah that’s gonna be a no from me on that one boss
Gazcobain@reddit
Take your shorts example. Let's say the minimum length is, I dunno, 16 inches.
If you bring that in as a rule, you will have some pupils wear 15.5 inches. And they will get away with it, because realistically, although that's a rule violation, who's going to enforce it? You can't realistically have someone measuring shorts length.
Once you have pupils getting away with 15.5 inches, you'll have some trying to get away with 15 inches, and then 14.5, and then 14.
Major-Credit-2442@reddit
But they already have this with girls skirts, don’t they? So why not let boys have the same option of wearing something that doesn’t cover their entire legs?
I mean let’s face it, I don’t think boys would be the ones to come into school wearing super short shorts. I mean maybe some but obviously it would be far more likely for girls to do that.
Gazcobain@reddit
Sure, but then this thing can be exacted to pretty much every item of uniform.
If you take shoes as an example. Suppose your boys are required to wear smart black shoes.
You will get a not insignificant number of them coming in in trainers that are designed to look like shoes, but aren't.
So here you have two choices: let it pass, or raise it as an issue, which will result in parents complaining that their obviously-trainers are, in fact, shoes, and the school then has a choice of defining a difference between shoes and obviously-trainers (difficult), or allowing all-black trainers.
So let's assume you then allow all-black trainers. You'll then have kids come in with all-black trainers that have white soles, or a white Nike / Adidas etc. symbol, to which you'll have parents complain that it's very difficult to find all-black trainers.
These are all things I've seen and dealt with countless times in my 14 years' teaching.
If you allow any leeway in uniform at all, you will get kids crossing boundaries about it. That's what kids do.
jdjwright@reddit
Also a teacher. The reason is that once you have any variation, it becomes almost impossible to be consistent. That ends with some teachers being stricter than others, which fuels a sense of unfairness. Then, there’s fatigue where some students always push boundaries, and so get let off more easily, which again causes resentment.
Not saying I agree with any of that just explaining the rationale.
ADL-AU@reddit
Why do female uniforms have allowances and variations such as skits, but males aren’t allowed shorts?
jdjwright@reddit
Usually because shorts with smart shoes and a shirt looks ridiculous, so you’d have to change the whole uniform. I guess you could go full-on prep school uniforms, but kids would absolutely rip it out of each other.
The only other way to do it would be to allow any shorts. But as soon as you do that, you’re back to lots of variation in what different teachers would allow, and the uniform as a whole breaks down.
When you factor in that schools generally try to keep uniform costs down, I can see why having different summer and winter uniforms isn’t popular.
Again, not supporting those decisions. Personally I would probably ask students to come in wearing sports kit if the weather was too hot, but I’m just trying to explain the rationale.
Comrade_pirx@reddit
It's obviously possible. Sounds like something to bring up with the head and the governors or the local authority if its a LEA school.
Mendel247@reddit
Having worked in Europe at a school that didn't have a uniform, and down the road in the same town at a school that did, there was absolutely no difference in behaviour. The only difference was that teachers had one more thing to enforce.
I myself moved from Europe to the UK at age 9 and suddenly had to wear school uniform, and it didn't make me see myself any differently than I had before. If anything, I was less focused in class because I found the uniform uncomfortable. In addition, the uniform really made kids from economically disadvantaged households stand out more, because you'd have a kid with a shiny clean shirt and intact jumper sat next to a kid in a dull, nasty shirt and a jumper with damaged cuffs and little holes. Believe it or not the differences were less noticeable at the school without a uniform
AngryTudor1@reddit
That's lovely for you, but the UK is a very different place with a very different attitude to education - and you will have noticed that.
Mendel247@reddit
Not that different. There are definitely areas where the UK falls behind the EU, and some where it's doing better. But behaviour in school aged kids isn't that different. Spanish kids may be louder, German kids may be more confident, Finnish kids may be more reserved, but an 8 year old acts like an 8 year old in the same way a 16 year old acts like a 16 year old. The UK isn't some kind of exception
Firm-Exam-6892@reddit
What evidence there is on school uniforms from peer reviewed journals suggests the opposite. Taking all other factors into account pupils at schools with uniforms experience more bullying because of clothing and less of a sense of belonging than those without uniforms.
AngryTudor1@reddit
Peer reviewed journals from Britain, talking about British schools?
I'd be surprised. Especially given their sample size would have been tiny
I am always a bit suspicious of these academics. On the odd occasions that they have ever dared be actual teachers, most of them did a few years and then got out as soon as they could
Firm-Exam-6892@reddit
Comparative studies have mainly taken place in the US, Canada and Australia. Not in the UK unfortunately due to the lack of a suitable comparative sample. The evidence is uniforms either have no impact or the impact is slightly negative. There are also a number of Australian studies on the public health benefits of sports kit uniforms. In my own experience at my kids school the SLT spend a lot of time on uniform compliance but are less keen to tackle difficult issues that don’t have a simple resolution. The head is very obsessed with uniforms. So much so it took a visit from the LA to get him to relax it in the last heatwave.
AngryTudor1@reddit
All are radically different cultures with completely different histories and attitudes to the UK
I'm sorry, but any study done in any other country is irrelevant
British families in general have a uniquely toxic attitude to education and teachers
Firm-Exam-6892@reddit
I think the main issue here is many claims are made about the benefits of uniforms in the UK, none of which are supported by evidence. I think we’d be much better off if education practice was evidence based. As a parent I’ve experienced both uniform and non uniform schools. One thing I noticed is that the uniform created more anxiety and greater appearance focus than not having a uniform. But that’s just my view.
AngryTudor1@reddit
I have a daughter and a son
One has a uniform, the other doesn't.
My teenage daughter goes to a school with a uniform and she literally never even thinks about what she is wearing.
I am not saying particularly that uniforms have a benefit. Not even that I agree with them- I think we could do away with them pretty well in many schools
But what they do is a) create a sense of community and shared purpose, b) provide a basic yardstick of compliance that is easy for teachers to set the boundary of and enforce and c) make parents believe that a school is quality
Firm-Exam-6892@reddit
There is no evidence for a), b) or c). Studies have in fact found the opposite to a) e.g. Ansari. B) is surely a distraction from managing behaviour issues that actually matter to parents and children. C) is just marketing and in that respect just taking advantage of children who aren’t in a position to give consent.
AngryTudor1@reddit
This conversation is going nowhere, because you have absolutely no experience and no idea what you are talking about.
I have over 20 years experience in schools in the UK, and you are quoting studies from completely different countries and cultures. They are meaningless here.
The thing is, I am not even a big supporter of uniform.
My post was explaining to OP why this was done
Neon102565@reddit
This is just blatantly untrue. Broken windows policing didn’t work in policing and it doesn’t work in schools - if your aim is to educate.
If your goal is to exclude to the point where things appear to be ‘fixed’ it works well.
In policing this means locking people away forever, and in schooling this means excluding ‘problematic’ children and not giving them an education.
AngryTudor1@reddit
That isn't what I am saying at all
I am saying that breaking uniform rules is usually the first step towards other rules becoming soft. It is the gateway to compliance with the community.
If you can win over students to comply with that one simple rule, the vast, vast majority will comply with all the others
If you don't, the boundaries are tested with the next level of rules which are automatically assumed to be soft
Neon102565@reddit
The evidence on this (which you reject because of the UK’s unique ‘anti-education culture’ 🫤) shows quite clearly that this just isn’t true.
The issue with creating a pointless boundary over uniforms is it devalues all the other boundaries which do have a purpose. Why on earth would you follow all the other rules if so much time is wasted enforcing something which is very clearly pointless.
So much time is wasted on enforcing uniform policies that the other issues, which still happen, go ignored. Schools become a site of constant conflict over an artificial boundary, which poisons the well for anything of genuine importance.
It also causes conflict with parents who have to bear the cost of strict uniform policies. Parents can see that the obsession with uniforms is pointless, and will be less willing to cooporate on other more important problems. This is probably the root cause of your ‘unique anti-education culture’ which doesn’t really exist, it’s just a conflict that has built up over time between parents and teachers, often with roots in how the parents were treated when they were in school.
The evidence on levels of exclusion with (particularly academies) implementing strict uniform policies is very strong and skews any, even anecdotal evidence in favour of the policies working.
Some_Confidence5962@reddit
Genuine question from a parent:
Does this logic provide any support to more complicated uniforms? Blazers, even ties.
Would the same logic work if the uniform was simple trousers/shirt/top or is there actual real value on the overtly complex uniforms.
School uniforms have not kept space with changing workplace attire and even more formal settings rarely still require a tie.
This is a curiosity question, not a rant.
AngryTudor1@reddit
The impetus for this is from parents actually.
Parents' impressions of a school are often formed in part by what the uniform looks like and how smart it is.
Private schools have such a huge cultural significance in this country, going back to the 19th century.
After the war, every grammar school tried to signal it's quality by copying private school uniforms.
Secondary moderns had jumpers, sweatshirts etc because it was assumed their children would never need to wear suits.
So culturally in this country we associate suit-based uniforms with a quality academic education and more casual ones with a lax, bullshit education.
Jhe90@reddit
I agree, schools need to keep control.
But theits a local school that kept people in blazers etc in this heat wave, black blazers... black trousers.
...
How is anyour gonna concentrate like that?
Complex_War1898@reddit
how come dutch schools dont need uniform, they are basically the same children!!
AngryTudor1@reddit
They are not the same children or the same parents
Much, much more positive attitude to education there.
Very negative in this country with the working class.
Lots of historical reasons for that, unique to our country
Historical_Rain_2960@reddit
Never works this way.
If you discipline children for unimportant things, they will grow numb to discipline and will take you less seriously.
AngryTudor1@reddit
That isn't generally what happens
Most like to know where the boundaries are and just get on with it.
Life is full of unimportant rules and laws
Historical_Rain_2960@reddit
You seem to forget that school is no different from prison in how it operates.
You think inmates are just going to behave in an institution thst detains them? Same goes for many kids.
Heck they don't even get beaten by CO's like Inmates, worst case scenario is getting expelled, who cares about getting expelled? It's literally just moving from one school to another.
In school, teachers are no different from CO's in prison. Their job is to maintain order and keep everyone in line. So it goes without saying that they aren't respected inherently for that reason.
AngryTudor1@reddit
You are talking absolutely garbage here and clearly have zero clue about what schools are like today.
This is exactly the sort of anti education bullshit attitude that plagues our culture. You got problems and it isn't the teachers that have caused them
hhfugrr3@reddit
Got to say that I don't believe the world works like this. The evidence suggests it didn't really work in New York and crime improved for other reasons that had nothing to do with their broken window policing strategy. I also observe my own kid's schools (one primary and one secondary), neither of which have strict uniform policies and yet both of which manage to enforce discipline and get decent GCSE pass rates for a non-selective comprehensive. Compared to my own first secondary school that had teachers clamping down on uniform constantly yet still had a GCSE pass rate of just 17% and ended up being closed a decade after I left because it just couldn't be improved.
AngryTudor1@reddit
Uniform has a link to behaviour, not grades (other than the effect that poor behaviour has on grades)
Hazzat@reddit
toe the line*
As in, you stand as close as you can to the line that would break the rules without crossing it, so your toes are just touching it.
SnowflakeBaube22@reddit
Yeah except when a child who always behaves well and works hard ends up being sent home because they forget their tie. Because that’s a useful thing to do.
AngryTudor1@reddit
I agree with you.
Draconian and high control, zero tolerance environments are toxic and harmful to children.
The rules need to be enforced, and a student who consistently forgets their tie is doing it deliberately and should have a sanction.
But the student who does it once needs compassion and a loaned tie as a thank you for all the hundreds of days they do get it right.
Fully agree with you on that
a_f_s-29@reddit
I went to a private school, and they were very relaxed about uniform. They also didn’t really do anything in the way of detentions or discipline except for the rare occasions where it was genuinely needed. But there were basically no behavioural problems at the school because it was a school full of relatively privileged girls who had very involved middle class parents. The school could afford to be lax on discipline and tough on academia because most of the students were anxious to please anyway. And, being a private school, they had complete control over which students they accepted in and the last say on kicking students out. It’s not the same situation.
I do have friends who went to much fancier private schools and boarding schools where discipline absolutely was a problem, because when you get to that level of wealth there is actually quite a lot of parental neglect and general abuse behind the scenes and the schools are selecting for money rather than academics or behaviour.
Either way private schools are privileged in ways normal schools aren’t, and I do think enforcing things like uniform is a gentle and relatively easy way of making things work. But once it becomes absurd, like forcing students to wear clothes blatantly unsuited to the weather, there’s definitely a risk that kids will lose respect for the rules and for following rules in general. Especially teenagers, they respect logical rules more than arbitrary ones.
No-Mark4427@reddit
I find it interesting that it's so harshly enforced on students but not on teachers.
It's not the only factor but it's a well known phenomenon that people dressed in 'smarter' / more formal clothing project authority far better than those who don't.
Anecdotally, the few teachers in my HS (One male and two female) who wore smart suits to work had by far the best behaved classes, but it could be that people who dress like this might also be more likely to be more authoritative. It was one of those situations where some classes everyone was a wild animal, but their classes just had a more scary air about them which made people fall in line. One of the teachers was a psychology teacher and she said outright to us that this is the reason she wears smart wear to work, as she sees a big change in behaviour vs wearing more casual clothes.
Mr_Venom@reddit
It absolutely is enforced for staff and there's plenty of dithering over dress codes that happens behind closed doors.
Of course, "not every school" etc etc but in the main if a school is hot on uniform the staff will be rigidly held to it too. Except PE teachers who can wear a trackie whenever they feel like it apparently.
No-Mark4427@reddit
Yeah I guess - I work in FE and there is zero staff dress code, though I do know a secondary grammar teacher and she is required to wear a school uniform/blazer.
When I was in HS it seemed very casual or at least the teachers could get away with a lot. Some came in jeans and a t-shirt, others office casual, all the way up to suit and tie.
Mr_Venom@reddit
Jeans and a T shirt, in a secondary school? That would be very unusual nowadays.
paolog@reddit
* toe the line
B−, must try harder
RobertStaccd@reddit
Toe the line*
Objective_Quiet_751@reddit
Toe the line, not tow.
Turbulent-Fun-3123@reddit
Young people all over Europe don't wear uniform and yet manage to behave well in school and in public. This policy is absolute bullocks. Window dressing. 'Yes our students all have mental health issues and hate coming to school, but don't they look smart. This is from a teacher. The teacher and management hours wasted on such trivial matters is mind-boggling.
FirstAndOnly1996@reddit
Bollocks.
AngryTudor1@reddit
Young people in Europe culturally have a much better attitude to education, and so do their parents. There is a real pathological fear and hatred of education in many areas
My own view? It is scarring from the horrid tripartite system which binned off 80% of children at 11 into absolutely diabolical schools
Demeter_Crusher@reddit
Mmm, BWT is about parking a car with broken windows in two neighbourhoods, one where that is common and one where it is not. It has little effect where it is just one of many broken-window cars.
But where that was unusual, it induces a variety of undesirable behaviours - it creates a permissive environment for, eg littering.
Uniform enforcement isn't like that, because if you remove someone for uniform violation they're then not in the group. So it's unclear whether improved outcomes are genuine or just because the group composition has changed.
YouWascallyWabbit@reddit
My son's school uniform is a logo'd sweatshirt and black trousers, and I love them for it. Schools that are obsessed with blazers and ties are, imo, mental, and I suspect have a non-zero financial relationship with uniform makers/sellers.
These stupid polyester costumes have become so popular in the last decade, I'm really thankful to have got my boy into the school he has.
EmeraldJunkie@reddit
I noticed my old secondary school slipped when it became lax regarding the uniform policy.
We used to carry "strike" cards, and could be given a strike from a member of staff for any infraction, including uniform. Three strikes equalled an hours detention on a Friday.
A few years after I left, it was made an academy and a lot of the senior leadership changed and they did away with the strike cards. My friend from university did some training there and noticed that most of the young lads wore trainers instead of shoes, which was not the standard when I was there.
The school went to having an outstanding ofsted rating to needs improvement within a few years, those slipping standards were just the first sign.
Enough-Progress5110@reddit
Except that the broken windows theory has been thoroughly debunked once subjected to any kind of scientific scrutiny so one would dare hope that in an academic environment of all places it would not be used for policy making…
humandustbin@reddit
Yeah I've heard something about how children always will try to push boundaries somewhat so having strict uniform rules mean that children can still disobey but ultimately everyone is safe and it doesn't really matter
KateEllaBeans@reddit
Which is flawed thinking considering that theory got debunked
https://cssh.northeastern.edu/sccj/2019/05/21/researchers-debunk-broken-windows-theory-after-35-years/
Atompunk78@reddit
This theory has been more or less proven though right? Like even with studies where they clean up all graffiti in a neighbourhood yet do no other changes, it drastically reduces crime
The_Real_Rich1Up@reddit
Broken window theory is wrong: https://scholarship.law.columbia.edu/books/114/
Mabenue@reddit
I’m sure that’s been debunked as not even being true.
I think some people just get off on being controlling to kids, it’s weird.
Fantastic-Pear6241@reddit
The research that initially "proved" it to be true was found to have lied/made up data.
So the theory has not been proved, though that doesn't necessarily mean it isn't true, unless there has been further research that has proven the hypothesis false.
It's just back to unproven theory.
AirconGuyUK@reddit
It is right, imo. It's all just an extension of the innate human desire to conform. That's not to say everyone has this, but in the general population most people do not want to stand out, they don't want to make waves.
If you live in a shithole area, where everyone treats it like a shithole area, then not standing out is also treating it like a shithole area.
And then of course the opposite is true.
_MicroWave_@reddit
Absolutely, it's about the first step of school discipline. You do this because we say so. That's the deal. You are a kid, we are the school.
Major-Credit-2442@reddit
I think you have a point here, but this doesn’t stop them from still expanding what they allow but still enforcing it rigorously.
SecTeff@reddit
That’s right and also if children want to revel they rebel with the uniform which is fairly minor compared to other potential behavioural issues.
I was a bit sceptical but I have a partner who is a teacher and she swears it works and I believe her judgment
Electronic-Fennel828@reddit
Ding ding ding! That’s exactly it. It’s also why you see this more with schools in more deprived areas. It’s the appearance of control in a sea of chaos.
Think-Ladder7925@reddit
Exactly. Me and my classmates were a bunch of animals at the best of times, I could hardly blame them for trying to keep some sort of order.
JennySt7@reddit
Having grown up in (continental) Europe in a school system without uniforms, I have strong feelings against them to begin with.
Their only purpose, to me, is to stifle individuality, and train kids into behaving like “little soldiers” who must blindly follow orders, even if there isn’t a valid or logical reason behind them. I feel like uniforms are almost dehumanising, to an extent (not to sound too dramatic) - they turn a person with a distinct look and personality into a cog in a machine, barely distinguishable from the next cog (kid) down the line. Whenever there’s a discussion about them, my mind always goes to the music video for Pink Floyd’s “The Wall”, with the kids in uniforms falling into the meat grinder.
This opinion for me is also because of the differences in attitudes that I noticed between people my age that went through school here vs myself or people from some other European countries. The Brits have this deference to authority that seems to be almost automatic (whether that be in the workplace, when someone is higher up in the hierarchy, or whatever), which many of other Europeans do not necessarily have - and it seems to be tied to schooling. (By contrast, in my school system the prevailing attitude was that we could challenge anything that didn’t make sense or seemed unjust/unreasonable. In one of my school we had a plaque in the entrance hall with the Voltaire quote “I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it” - which was indicative of the prevailing attitude in our education). And this manifests even today in the differences in our attitudes in the workplace, for example (e.g. towards managers etc). And to me, uniforms and strict enforcement of uniform rules in UK schools is a big contributor in all of that.
Razdent@reddit
The thing tha annoys me is: Kids- blazers, ties and top buttons. Teachers- rolled up sleeves, no jacket, no tie no top button.
uselesstosser@reddit
It's all about power - a majority of teachers are basically useless, ask them something outside of the text book and they haven't got a clue, so the only way they can assume a modicum of power is uniform. They have sad little lives and couldn't make it in the real world. Maybe they were bullied so they become the bully.
HydroGamingz@reddit
Once you’ve gone through school you realise it wasn’t actually that bad, like the points for uniform were actually valid.
My school had a relaxed uniform though compared to most we had a polo, hoodie and black trousers that were alright. There’s also the option for shorts skirts etc. It was really easy to wear and was fine in the heat.
I do see the argument against full blazers etc but I still think there should be uniform like my school had where it’s relaxed but it’s still a uniform.
Once I got to college you do realise that ‘picking for bad clothing’ isn’t really a thing but you have to remember you’re older and more mature.
Also some people at college be wearing things that would be hella dangerous in school especially younger years who run around etc. Like some people be wearing massive chains on their trousers, spiked neck collars etc.
Basically for less mature people it’s defo much safer to have a school uniform.
Also when u grow up odds are 7/10 places you work will require a uniform or smart dress and hence getting use to it at a younger age is ideal.
citruspers2929@reddit
Teacher here. Historically we have moved to “shirt sleeves order” where students were allowed to not wear blazers or ties. Honestly I has happy with this.
But, last week, we trialled kids (and staff) coming in in PE kit. It was pretty unanimously popular. The arguments against are generally that girls would be wearing inappropriate (skin tight) stuff.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Follow-up question: why are schools so victim blamey about girls clothes? Outside school, we have huge campaigns about"it's not about what you wear" and "teach rapists not to rape". And inside school it's like the last 30 years haven't happened.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Its about what is appropriate.
Would go to a customer facing job in booty shorts and a crip top? No. You wouldn't in an office either, it's not appriate professional attire.
School is about learning, uniform is part of that. It teaches children how they're expected to dress in a professional environment, part of that is not distracting others with your attire or just doing stuff to be a non conformer which is what boys do.
Why should we let boys wear their trousers half way down? It looks awful and it's impractical. I wouldn't as a manager let my staff do that, why should a school?
HatOfFlavour@reddit
Yet in professional environments women can wear sleeveless tops and skirts yet the same place wouldn't let a guy work in a wifebeater.
My boss once floated clothing standards at work (we aren't customer facing, it's frequently boiling hot in summer and we deal with stuff that can stain your clothes) he had a proposed outline that banned shorts for guys but still allowed the women to go sleeveless and have skirts. I handed it back to him without signing it and said I know where I can buy a kilt if he's gonna force me.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Yeah it can be inconsistent.
Girls for a long time weren't allowed to wear trousers at school, which is silly
ASpookyBitch@reddit
Honestly I think I’d rather schools made everyone wear trousers. I’m sick of seeing the underwear of girls that have rolled their skirts up. Like I get it, but at the same time your kid can you not.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Or boys pants be cause they can't wear trousers properly.
A lot of it is parents telling their kids that stuff is OK
HatOfFlavour@reddit
That was also true at mine and after they were finally allowed they tried to enforce that the girls HAD to only buy those black smart trousers from the one uniform supplier, despite arguments from several curvatous girls that those hurt and didn't fit. While all the guys got smart black trousers from shops like M&S.
a_f_s-29@reddit
School trousers used to be so so uncomfortable. The sizing and cut of them was terrible
HatOfFlavour@reddit
Grrl trousers or were you blessed by puberty with a third leg?
a_f_s-29@reddit
So why is the girls sports uniform so much more cropped and inappropriate than the boys’? Why do the boys get to wear knee length shorts while the girls are in skorts?
I remember when I was younger the girls PE uniform used to be netball skirts - pleated, knee length, loose, breathable, comfy. Then suddenly overnight everything turned to skorts and we were never fully comfortable in PE again.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
No idea why girls and women can't wear knee length shirts, do they not make them?
Even in professional sports women wear weird outfits. Why do track & field need a two piece outfit when the men wear vests & shorts?
Alexandhisgoose@reddit
Yet a lot of offices today allow more casual wear. The days of everyone having to wear business attire are long gone and schools should follow suit and let kids wear their own clothes.
sixtydegr33@reddit
Read more of the thread if you'd like to find out more. It's not about preparing them for the world of work. It's about maintaining good order and high standards in schools (see the comments about the broken glass theory).
Alexandhisgoose@reddit
Those things can be achieved without the need for uniforms. For example you will get better order if people are comfortable at school rather than wearing something hot and uncomfortable that irritates them.
Funicular-@reddit
Let the kids be free, they don't work for you yet!
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
I think preparing kids for adult life is important, stuff like money management is lacking and we see now how often people can't not spend their whole paycheque every month often on things they don't need.
Kids can have plenty of fun at home and at lunch times
Funicular-@reddit
100% I think there should be more to prepare kids for adult life, especially with finances. It'll never happen though as the country thrives off debt.
As for uniform though, I was lucky enough to go to a school that didn't have one and it made no difference in preparation for adult life. It was just a great opportunity to be yourself and it made it easier to find people with common interests.
bluejeansseltzer@reddit
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
The kids who were bullied at non-uniform schools died!?
Proper research would be great, but the anti-bullying evidence for uniforms is anecdotal so it's perfectly fine to talk about experiences.
Personally I think it's correlation not causation. Schools with behaviour problems enact a new set of rules which include stricter uniforms and then credit uniforms for any improvement, or even use the adherence to the uniform policy as evidence of better behaviour.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Yeah same. I went to three schools; the one without a uniform was much more friendly and had zero bullying because respect was built in from the ground up. The other schools' uniform policies not only did nothing to reduce bullying, they actually made things more difficult for kids because a bully could steal/damage your uniform and get you in trouble.
Funicular-@reddit
Yeah I've never bought the whole people get bullied more with no uniform argument. I swear the only people that make that argument have never been to a school with no uniform but just assume that would be the case.
Living-Director-5080@reddit
Yes but these are children not professionals. You've just become another mug in the system
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Yeah but they need to learn what is expected in adult life.
moonbrows@reddit
I understand it could be seen as that, but the girls clothes issue usually boils down to telling them to pull down their skirt and they have to wear tights, because they’re children and there are paedophiles. It’s not victim blamey so much as no one wants to see your bum cheeks and if they do you should run.
I had this talk once and they were proved right when we had an assembly about perverts taking photos of us in our uniforms and having an fb group for it. There’s a whole category of porn for it tbf
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Can you describe what you think victim blaming means? Because what you've said here sounds like textbook victim blaming.
moonbrows@reddit
What was wrong with what I said, that there’s paedophiles in the world who look at kids? At no point did I ever say it would be the child’s fault should they get assaulted.
Also, what’s wrong with not wanting to see teenage and young girls bum cheeks? Pull down your skirts, literally no one good wants to see that.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
It's wrong because it's blaming the victim. Perhaps look up what victim blaming is if you don't understand.
moonbrows@reddit
I know what victim blaming is far too well, thank you. CPS did not take my complaint further because of my clothes. You are preaching to the choir and also not understanding what victim blaming is yourself.
There are people who look at kids inappropriately, that is a fact. If I said those kids were attacked as a result of short skirts, that would be victim blaming.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Making rules that kids can't wear short skirts because otherwise they'll be attacked is effectively saying that the skirts are a contributing cause and therefore blaming them. It's the same effect as you experienced from CPS.
moonbrows@reddit
Harm reduction and safety measures for children, who it’s inappropriate to see short micro skirts on in general isn’t blaming them for being attacked. It’s perfect for them to be leered at, subjected to harassment and isn’t pleasant for anyone normal to see, because they are children.
citruspers2929@reddit
It’s not “victim blamey about girls clothes” but more an acknowledgment that boys’ pe kit is baggy t shirts and shorts, whereas girls’ pe kit is vests and skin tight shorts.
dianthuspetals@reddit
Great point! It was no different when I was at school in the 00s and early 10s. I do hope that girls no longer have to wear gym knickers because they were both uncomfortable and humiliating.
moonbrows@reddit
Wow really? We had unisex a PE kit that was so incredibly uncomfortable from infants school and above. Before that we wore our vests and knickers, boys also had to have a vest!
dianthuspetals@reddit
PE kit for the girls was a polo shirt and gym knickers, with a gym skirt allowed over the top when outside only, but never during summer. We were allowed to wear track suit bottoms over our gym knickers during the winter months and when outside only.
Boys had shorts and track suit bottoms. Comfy and practical, and if boys didn’t want to have their legs exposed they didn’t have to.
The male PE teacher was very chill about what we wore and he always prioritised comfort. He let us choose what parts of the uniform we wore (even allowed girls to wear shorts like the boys), and when given the choice, girls always wore track suit bottoms, or shorts when it was warmer.
The female PE teacher was a nightmare, very very keen that gym knickers were always worn and her rules were obeyed. This was between the ages of 9 and 13 when bodies are obviously changing a lot and kids feel generally awful about it. She told us to get a move on and stop covering up in the changing room because once we’d given birth and had everything out in hospital, we wouldn’t care about covering up! She was a horrid woman.
a_f_s-29@reddit
Wtf are gym knickers? That sounds awful! And creepy
dianthuspetals@reddit
Imagine a pair of itchy “shorts” with the same coverage of granny knickers. They were horrendous.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Sorry, staff were objecting to allowing girls to wear their PE kit, because it's inappropriate? That still sounds victim blamey. If the girls want to wear PE kit to cool off it's not their fault if other people want to be creeps about it. Why not let them wear baggy clothes anyway?
citruspers2929@reddit
Nobody is objecting to anything, nor being a creep. Boys’ pe kit is commensurate to what people would wear to work later in life and girls’ kit isn’t. It really is as simple as that.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Who were you saying was arguing against it for being inappropriate then?
AirconGuyUK@reddit
Okay, so a girl can come to school in a bikini?
No?
Okay, well we agree the line needs to exist and now we're just arguing where that line is.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
I've been asked this before so I'll add my model uniform policy here.
To answer your question, bikinis expose your butt so wouldn't comply with Rule 2. Clothing must be long and opaque enough to cover private areas.
A good dress code shifts the focus from policing students' bodies to maintaining school safety and functionality. It should be gender-neutral, objective and based on the risk of harm behind every rule.
Enforcement guidelines are just as important as the rules themselves. Conversations around the dress code should be done with sensitivity. No body shaming. Individual violations should be discussed in private. Students shouldn't miss school unless necessary for safety.
A respectful dress code empowers students to make informed choices and treats mistakes as minor conversations rather than disciplinary crises. It's proactive in taking a positive view of bodies; they're not something to be ashamed of or victim blame about.
AirconGuyUK@reddit
I remember driving around with my ex who was from Eastern Europe and her just blurting out as we passed some school girls 'Why do school children dress like whores in this country?'..
And it's just got worse in the 10 years since I laughed at that.
There's two schools near me. One who has a strict dress code of modesty, with skirts needing to be ankle length. And one much like what you proposed there.
And it's the latter that I regularly see wildly inappropriate attire from the girls. The guys all dress the same in trousers, so nothing to really comment on there.
The girls have insanely short skirts to the point they couldn't bend over to pick up a pencil without flashing people.
It's just inappropriate for 12-16 year olds to be wearing stuff like that imo. My ex was right, they are dressing like whores. There's no need for it.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Okay I'm going to be bold here and say the person calling children whores is actually not on the right side of this.
AirconGuyUK@reddit
Didn't call them whores, said they dress like whores.
If I dress as a fireman, that doesn't make me a fireman.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
I mean, you can either reflect on what she meant by this or not. If dressing like a whore is value neutral because she wasn't calling them whores then why comment on it. She was criticising them.
AirconGuyUK@reddit
I think she was criticising the society that allows it tbh.
Tenzil-k@reddit
The short answer is that when everyone involved including bystanders and the people choosing to wear certain clothes is under very complex child protection legislation and have no legal ability to waver it by choosing to do things consensually in the way adults can it’s a legal minefield and ‘wear long clothes’ doesn’t make it less so but does mean less explosions.
A child under 16 has a legal right not to be exposed to sexualised situations. And until you can get every single parent agreeing on what their 11 year old is ok being exposed to thats a minefield for schools. And if the pupil whose clothing is the issue is over 16 you run into some real legal jeopardy for them
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
What sexualised situations? I find it hard to believe there's a law which says the girls PE kit is sexual, and if it did then surely it'd also be sexual during PE.
Tenzil-k@reddit
I think the PE kit in itself is probably fine. The parent of a year 7 complaining that they are constantly seeing more than they should of the older girl wearing a too small pair of PE shorts walking up and down stairs in front of them is a potential legal station to be avoided. What’s ok in a gym with a group the same age and sex isnt necessarily ok in front of younger pupils in other locations
The school I work is trying deal with skirt lengths in uniforms right now. And the girls are responding with the same arguments you did and I have a lot of sympathy for them. They also while talking about it spoke of how many times they had seen more than they wanted from boys shorts.
That’s genuinely a legal issue that schools have to consider more than other workplaces because nobody involved has the power of consent and even things that people are happy about doing can and does lead to very harsh legal consequences
I do genuinely get your point and do also think schools take wrong options often. I’m just telling you it’s because of child protection advice and legislation
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Which safeguarding rules mandate all this? These sound like opportunities to explain respect for other people's bodies. They wouldn't like someone staring up their skirts so they should understand not to stare up the boys' shorts.
Tenzil-k@reddit
Ok. I’ve explained the legal framework schools operate under. Things are very difffent than in environments that aren’t full of minors under the legal care of an organisation. I’ve even said I think schools can be too draconian. If you want to choose they are so because they’re 30 years out of date not because every single move has to not only protect kids but remove opportunities for legal challenges then that’s on you at this point
For what it’s worth schools spend tons of time each year coordinating with police about consent education etc and of combatting victim blaming and working on toxic relationships. They basically have to be aware of every side of this in a way that someone outside safeguarding kids dont even think about
A kid can get a legal record because another kid chose to send them unrequested a half dressed phone photo. Your ‘people should just not look’ doesnt begin to cover the liabilities involved and uniform codes do lessen the bad outcomes
Tenzil-k@reddit
Because everyone there is under 16 and under child protection legislation including not being exposed to stuff and the ability to say ‘I’m choosing to expose this stuff’ is there there because that person is below the age of consent herself.
So if you have a situation where a child is choosing to wear clothes that her parent thinks is inappropriate or sexualised they dont actually have the right to do so and child protection legislation kicks in.
And if the parent of another child asks why is my child being exposed to shorts that let them see more than they want to it isn’t as cut and dried as ‘rapists shouldn’t rape’ because you have over a 1000 under 16 year olds all
Protected by legislation with very different ideas of what is ok and no ability to legally say ‘but I wanted them to see it’
So the school just says ‘everyone wear x’ in the same way they respond to kids willingly sending each pictures of themselves by saying ‘no phones’
TapWaterDev@reddit
If the girls' PE kit is inappropriate, then it shouldn't be the PE kit...
omgu8mynewt@reddit
Female athletes (which many of the students will be e.g. dancers, gymnasts, runners) compete in what is revealing clothes.
A student wearing a gymnastics leotard or runners shorts and sleeveless shirt obviously is unsuitable for the classroom, so it isnt as easy as just wearing the same athletic clothes to class - there has to be a whole other set of clothes e.g. tracksuit, which isnt what you wear for PE
ASpookyBitch@reddit
But usually a PE kit for school, regardless of gender, is a polo shirt and shorts or tracksuit bottoms… so…
januarynights@reddit
Why would a sleeveless shirt be unsuitable for the classroom?
omgu8mynewt@reddit
In case you havent noticed, women rarely bare their shoulders except on hot days or dressed for sport.
I'm not judging whether its morally wrong or right, but it isn't normal for day-to-day.
TapWaterDev@reddit
Really not sure what rock you're living under if you don't think women having their shoulders out is normal...
omgu8mynewt@reddit
What work outfit has women commenly in bare arms? Office clothes/nurse/teacher/childcare assistant/Doctor?
TapWaterDev@reddit
There's a difference between inappropriateness and not being a common uniform. As for office clothes, yeah, it's pretty common and increasingly so. I wouldn't bat an eyelid if any of my staff had their shoulders out.
omgu8mynewt@reddit
I'm not judging 'inappropriateness', that is just full of unconscious bias. I wouldn't wear bare arms in my open office, because even though my male manager wouldn't say anything there are many people around and women are constantly judged for our bodies. It isn't common in any office, its rare for women and only on hot days and only of certain cultures, and men are never bare armed at work.
TapWaterDev@reddit
"It isn't common in any office" - you really can't speak for every office
januarynights@reddit
I'm not sure that's true!
TapWaterDev@reddit
You don't need to be wearing skin tight clothing for school PE...
Consistent-Pirate-23@reddit
Wasn’t like that at my school, everything was competitive, we had famous sporting alumni and we were never allowed to forget it
TapWaterDev@reddit
Competitive, sure... but I very much doubt you were routinely wearing competition grade skin tight clothing in PE...
Consistent-Pirate-23@reddit
I left in the 90s, that stuff wasn’t a thing for ordinary folks
citruspers2929@reddit
Clearly what is appropriate for sport might be inappropriate for a day of work.
joehighlord@reddit (OP)
I also often wonder why uniforms are so 'smart' and also therefor often uncomfortable. Especially when they become to small mid way through the year.
A uniform that is comfortable is surely better for learning than one that gives gives the illusion of 'being professional'.
a_f_s-29@reddit
Uniforms used to be a lot more comfortable when they were made out of real, breathable fabrics instead of polyester.
rising_then_falling@reddit
You want the uniform to be different to what the children wear at home. It's all part of putting children in the mind set of "I am now in school mode where I dress differently and behave differently to when I'm on the sofa".
Also, raising children is to some extent about trying to make them work on the next stage of being grown up. Getting them to wear grown up clothes like shirts and jackets is part of that.
ADL-AU@reddit
A lot of modern workplace have done away with jackets, ties etc.
Thrilalia@reddit
If that's the case then why do countries that don't have uniforms in Europe do just as good or better than here?
It seems all arguments for uniforms are done outdated gigwash pushing some fantasy of times gone.
cherrycoke3000@reddit
We privatised our schools by giving them away to newly created Academy chains. Evangelical xtians, corporate money makers, whatever reason you wanted to run a school, regardless of experience, with enough money you could be in charge of hundreds or even thousands of children, their and so this counties future. Pushed by the last government, no further academies by the current government. What could go wrong?! Schools are now run by big corporates, who gave a big book of Boomer nostalgia rules 'How to run a school'.
We now teach children Spanish rather than French. Spanish is easier to learn and gets better exam results. French was traditionally taught, being able to co converse with our neighbours increases this countries money. Schools are rewarded for exam results, not increasing the UKs quality of life.
BenadrylCrumplsnatch@reddit
Often because they're cheaply made. Some of the most comfortable clothing I've ever had has been smart stuff, but it was also some of the most expensive.
You can't really do cheap, smart and comfortable. One of them has to be sacrificed.
joehighlord@reddit (OP)
Smart feels completely surplus to requirements.
hhfugrr3@reddit
My eldest kid's school is very lenient on uniform and has no significant difficulties with discipline. It also gets decent GCSE passes, certainly compared to my old school that was very strict on uniform but still ended up closed under the Fresh Start programme as no amount of uniform crack down improved it.
MountainMuffin1980@reddit
My kids school let's them wear their PE stuff if they want. The tops have to be branded but the white lightweight ones are really cheap.
They've also moved to a general Black and White uniform policy. Meaning as long as your top is white and bottoms are black and aren't covered logos then that's fine. Blazers and branded stuff is still available but not beccesary and I think it's probabl the best move.
connectfourvsrisk@reddit
Our kids are only allowed to do this on PE days but honestly they should be allowed to do this every day. It's so much more comfortable and practical. And I believe there were studies that showed it encouraged them to continue exercising outside of school as they weren't having to change out of "smart" uniforms and shoes.
A school fleece/hoodie, polo shirt and trousers I think is the most appropriate clothing for preteens to teens.
connectfourvsrisk@reddit
I think my kids look smarter on PE kit days than regular days. You can't really make joggers and a hoodie look scruffy but within 30 minutes a tie and blazer usually does - at least with my kids. And they're certainly more comfortable.
(The schools have leggings and joggers for girls as well with skorts for competitions only.)
_MicroWave_@reddit
I've recently come round to the as an idea. Primary especially should just be pe kit all the time.
Firm-Exam-6892@reddit
I find it very odd that a teacher should feel it is appropriate to comment on the tightness or otherwise of girls’ clothing.
chuchoterai@reddit
Absolutely- it is so essential to police girls’ bodies for impropriety. 🙄
cari-strat@reddit
Yeah, be warned - that issue got waaaay out of control fast at my children's middle school (9-13) a few years ago. They said on PE days, the kids could come in PE kit all day - this was supposed to be a black fleece and T-shirt, and plain black football style shorts or joggers.
It started off ok, but very quickly a group of older girls started coming in Nike Pro type shorts, first the long mid thigh ones and then very soon in the ultra teeny tiny ones where your arse cheeks are basically hanging out, combined with cropped T shirts.
They were the sort of strapping lasses that could easily pass for 16+ and were very much revelling in the resulting attention from the lads. Unfortunately it was also quite literally stopping cars on the walk home - there were blokes leaning out of their windows catcalling them, pensioners clutching their pearls, and all sorts.
Naturally the school got pretty upset over this, compounded by much social media outrage about how disgusting it was that they 'let young girls walk round in a uniform like that!'
The Head promptly outlawed all cycling-type shorts, and there were some sanctions handed out, at which point the girls decided to go full scorched earth.
They went in with the angle that it was a woman's right to dress as she wanted, the people claiming it was inappropriate were perverts, teachers shouldn't be looking at young girls' behinds, etc etc.
A day or so later, we arrived at school to find a load of them had fastened themselves to the railings with bloody great signs proclaiming 'Our bodies, our choice!' and various similar messages. The staff were running around like headless chickens, desperately hoping the local newspaper didn't get wind of it.
Unsurprisingly, full uniform as standard on all days was reinstated the following morning, and anyone in non-regulation kit at PE lessons got an afternoon in isolation.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Short sleeve order sounds very ex-military!
My bugbear with the PE kit is that you usually only need it once or twice a week. Suddenly needing it every day for 1-2 weeks a year is a PITA!
srm79@reddit
Even in work we had different uniforms for different roles or time of year.
Reception staff could wear a work jumper and gilet when it's cold, managers could wear a full suit or trousers and shirt/blouse, bar staff could wear shirts or polo's (even promotional t-shirts) depending on the weather or temperature of the club. Kids in schools should have some choice in how they dress that's proportionate to their environment.
Yes, it may mean buying more items for parents, but they don't have to have so many branded items as part of the uniform
MobileKeychain@reddit
Brits still defending uniforms don't seem to understand just how weird and archaic they are.
Useless_or_inept@reddit
Some people say that schools aren't preparing children for the modern workplace.
But, clearly, children are learning to cope with a subset of bosses who get super pedantic about arbitrary detail that's got nothing to do with the real work.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Given howany students will end up working in an environment that requires PPE, hygiene controls or being well-presented, then having a basic grasp of conforming to the required standards is a fantastic lesson for the modern workplace. It's just a shame no one gets an award for it.
tiplinix@reddit
The difference is that in one case the rules have a purpose (e.g. ensure safety) but in the other it's some arbitrary nonsensical rules. We should aim to reduce the noise if we really care about what the rules are trying to accomplish.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Everything in school is arbitrary nonsensical rules then.
Wtf has the Tudors go to do with being a software engineer?
Why is a carpenter learning about food tech?
Why is a premier league prodigy even in secondary school?
pullingteeths@reddit
You...understand that education is about more than producing worker drones right?
Drammeister@reddit
Our education system is designed to produce University lecturers.
TurboDorito@reddit
Its designed to produce exam results and nothing else. Its no wonder people treat it as free daycare.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Of course. That's why they are taught a broad curriculum and some of that is tailored towards some career paths and others towards different career paths.
You didn't know that?
HydraulicTurtle@reddit
As someone who had a shirt, tie and blazer school uniform which was rigorously enforced, I think they are very important.
It says a lot about the reductionist views of isolated policies that people write them off as being irrelevant to the work you do.
Habitual adherence to policy and legislation, especially one so easily codified and visible as uniform, teaches good discipline and civic duty, in my opinion.
It's basic broken window theory.
pullingteeths@reddit
Why do many other countries function perfectly well without school uniforms then? Your "theory" falls apart
HydraulicTurtle@reddit
When you say "function perfectly well" I have never made the argument that schools without uniforms don't "function well" - I made a case for the tangential benefits.
I'd argue the finest example of civic duty and responsibility amongst its citizens in the developed world is Japan, where school uniforms are incredibly deep-rooted in tradition. Not saying that is the only factor of course, but it supports the theory.
There is obviously a lot of nuance to it, but I am speaking from my experience and the benefits I saw in school uniform, even ignoring the inequality arguments.
There is a reason militaries the world over have strict rules on polished boots, it is a key teaching mechanism for discipline and responsibility.
pullingteeths@reddit
Schooling in Japan is a horrendous system that leads to extremely high rates of mental health issues and suicide so I don't think admiring it is a great idea. There are high levels of civic duty in many European countries that don't have school uniform
Evening-Web-3038@reddit
When they are in the McDonalds kitchen having a quick 1 minute rest during a lull in the service & when their station is sparkling clean, and the 19 year old pitbull of a "manager" comes over to literally scream in their face about how they are slacking off then they'll understand.
AdministrativeLaugh2@reddit
If you’ve got time to lean, you’ve got time to clean
Complex_War1898@reddit
still remember that phrase, thats why i did the bins, quick fag out the back with no one watching
HatOfFlavour@reddit
That's a manager who gets understaffed, can't find anyone to cover shifts and ends up working that station themself when staff stop coming in.
Isgortio@reddit
Isn't that what managers are supposed to do? Step in when they need to?
HatOfFlavour@reddit
Yes and if they're a bad manager they'll need to do so more often.
QueefInMyKisser@reddit
I’m at work right now in shorts and sandals
Legitimate-Lock9965@reddit
Im at work right now wearing only my boxers. I do happen to also be at home though.
Mundane-Topic-8214@reddit
Isn't the point made the same one about the army and shining your boots? It actually doesn't matter what state your boots are in but if you can't follow procedure and keep your boots shiny and clean then how can you be trusted with doing the same with a gun?
There are plenty of rules and norms in workplaces that have got nothing to do with real work, but you have to comply with them nonetheless.
I'm not saying that schools shouldn't be more flexible in having approved options, but learning to work within things like dress codes isn't unreasonable.
BikeProblemGuy@reddit
Being able to prioritise their time between important and unimportant things is a valuable skill for kids to learn. Whereas army privates are supposed to prioritise following orders even if they don't make sense.
hughesyg@reddit
My kids school doesn’t. They can wear T-shirt and shorts from after Easter break and been told they don’t need to bring blazers anymore
Fancy-Professor-7113@reddit
I don't know, it's mad. To produce more drones?
My kids' school has a white polo shirt option for the summer half term - but they did it a week earlier because of the weather last week. That's good because no tie or blazer.
onlysmaller@reddit
I’m 36 so we’re going back 20 yrs but we were allowed to wear polo T-shirts like the kind exercise with the school logo on and no ties blazers jumpers etc. It was a decent school as well I thought that was pretty normal.
Andra_Ingensbarn@reddit
Been teaching for over 20 years and yet to hear a good answer.
BTW the rules are changing with regards to emblems on uniform soon so as to reduce cost to parents
louilondon@reddit
School is designed to break kids to stop them being free thinking and just good robot workers
Rythorian@reddit
We had polo shirts for the spring/summer and then shirts + tie for autumn/winter
Silly-Cylons@reddit
I'm fine with any uniform that can be appropriately adapted to suit the weather/temperature. Expecting kids to wear blazers and do their top buttons up when it's 30C is just ridiculous. They'd be too hot to learn anything, so why even bother being there? lol.
mata_dan@reddit
Because about a third of teachers are bullies. This is quite obvious to anyone who's been to school or has any stake in a school.
Expensive-Draw-6897@reddit
Every school should have a summer option. I've never heard of the blazer on all the time rule. Is this from a private school? "
thelastwilson@reddit
Schools shouldn't be allowed to be pedantic about it. They should be allowed to give a broad description eg: grey trousers/shorts, white polo shirt and navy jumper, hoodie or cardigan but not beyond that.
But then I'm in Scotland and that's what my son's school does and tbh hardly anybody follows it, PE kit is supposed to be dark shorts with white t-shirt but everyone just wears whatever they want and they get PE two days a week so at any point at least 40% of the classes are in own clothes.
clrthrn@reddit
Having done my own school years in a UK uniform school and now with my own kids in a non uniform school, I prefer no uniform. Snobbery is what I’ve boiled the push for uniforms down to. If private schools all dropped uniform tomorrow, state grammars would follow first and then all state schools. Where I am now (EU country) , our future queen cycles herself to the local state school wearing jeans every day. I think the UK would benefit from seeing that sort of thing from UK royals. Flatten the class system and drop the snobbery for everyone.
Sure-Recognition-262@reddit
My theory is that schools know that children are going to push boundaries - so by giving them something to channel that energy into which is highly visible and obviously rather unimportant to push against (and for the school to respond to them pushing against it), they reduce the likelihood of children doing it in other ways which could be more damaging to themselves, each other, and the school.
keithmk@reddit
I agree totally with this as a retired headteacher, it was the one advantage I could see in having a uniform
Tape_Badger@reddit
I've always read it differently, and most of my friends agree: being militant about something which ultimately doesn't matter (it's not for safety, nor is failing to wear it harming anyone) undermines the authority of the adults in the school. If they're willing to blindly expect compliance for pointless reasons, it'll make kids question which other rules are being applied like that. This is why there is generally more respect for teachers who are 'human' over those who are overly strict/rule-abiding. It's the same in adult life and I don't understand why so many adults don't see it. The word 'jobsworth' is derogatory for a reason.
Sure-Recognition-262@reddit
You are perhaps correct.
Though when you say "It's the same in adult life" that highlights another reason they do it - adult life is full of pointless crap rules, and it's kind of school's job to train their pupils for adult life.
Tape_Badger@reddit
I meant that in terms of 'if you know someone who is militant about rules, even when those don't make sense, you as an adult, generally think less of that person and will likely disregard their opinions on all sorts of other things as a result'
Kids do that too. Enforcing uniform like so many UK schools do, means kids immediately view their authority with skepticism.
Kickitoff1902@reddit
Im a teacher. Uniform is dumb and wildly outdated. Why are we forcing kids to wear ties? "To prepare them for the world of work" - sure, but lots of places have wfh or hybrid working and even in most offices, they have done away with ties as an expectation, so really, we just create a pointless battle.
The world has moved on. Sure, have the kids all wearing the same if you want.... A polo shirt, and school tracksuit... with shorts option, and trainers would tick that box without any of the constant nonsensical battles we have today, totally gender neutral... oh, and bonus, they no longer have to waste half a pe lesson getting changed.
"But some kids will get bullied for their trainers" - well that may happen, but we allow non uniform days, the kids post everything on social media, and its a lot easier for parents to afford nice trainers if theyre not having to buy pointless school shoes and blazers, and shirts every year that the kids only wear during school. Kids get bullied for their hair colour more than the trainers they wear these days anyway.
No more pointless battles about untucked shirts and rolled up skirts. No more sending kids home to fetch their bloody blazer.
Honestly, there is a serious lack of common sense amongst school leadership about uniform.
clrthrn@reddit
The whole concept of uniform is ridiculous. My kid doesn’t have to wear one and went to school in cotton shorts and a t-shirt when it was 32c. Her class was productive despite no AC, civilisation didn’t crumble because a kid learned to spell with no tie on.
hello_there_213@reddit
Student here. Our school relaxes the policy depending on the weather e.g yesterday and today blazers weren't mandatory
Terrible-Group-9602@reddit
School uniform helps to stop poor kids being bullied because they're not wearing an expensive brand of trainers, for example. It means everyone is the same level in the community. In US high schools kids are constantly bullied if they dont 'fit in' with the expected fashion
pullingteeths@reddit
Having a school uniform in itself might help but the ridiculously draconian enforcement of it that has become a thing in recent years has no evidence backing it as worthwhile and leads to poor kids being unfairly targeted for not having the exact correct shoes etc
Terrible-Group-9602@reddit
All the shoes are the same? Not sure what you mean.
pullingteeths@reddit
No they'll have a rule like smart black shoes and then someone will get into trouble because they're technically trainers or whatever, even though they're a child and it's probably the parents' fault. Kids get detentions over silly nitpicking of uniform rules
terryturbojr@reddit
People say that and it's a nice thought but there isn't really any evidence to support it
Uniforms are rare in mainland Europe and they don't suffer worse bullying than us. In fact the UK is known to suffer much worse bullying at school than in other European and other developed countries.
Terrible-Group-9602@reddit
As you mentioned evidence, do you have any evidence to support the rather dramatic claims in your second paragraph?
terryturbojr@reddit
That is an interesting article and shows how children are arseholes everywhere and interesting how everyone always thinks they're worse than everyone else.
Terrible-Group-9602@reddit
I think UK schools are very good at recognising bullying and labelling it as such, which may give a wrong impression there's more bullying in the UK.
terryturbojr@reddit
Google is your friend but some examples
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/bulletins/bullyingandonlineexperiencesamongchildreninenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2023
Troubling findings about bullying from The Good Childhood Report 2024 https://share.google/KkpsxLKxEuJO2jMxz
UK teens bullied more at school than in many other countries | The Standard https://share.google/hqUeawAUREcEmWagW
Woffingshire@reddit
At my school they always said that it was to reduce classism and encourage social mixing.
If every child has to wear the same clothes and has to wear them in the same way then kids who can't afford the most expensive or fashionable clothes aren't socially disadvantaged by it at school.
pitchblaca@reddit
I'm not a fan of strict school uniform rules at all. My child's secondary school punishes uniform violations, even with an explanation from parents, eg. broken shoes, can't afford new until payday, with the same punishment as disrupting lessons or being disrespectful to a teacher, which in my eyes, are far more serious.
I was in secondary school in the 90's, our uniform was black skirt or pants, white shirt/blouse, tie, black shoes, black jumper or cardigan. None was branded other than the tie.
Did I look smart? Sometimes. Did it stop me from getting excellent GCSE results? no.
My child is academically bright but has huge sensory issues, not wearing her blazer or tie won't make all of the knowledge fall out of her ears, however it does mean that she struggles to concentrate when she's too hot or feeling like she's being strangled by her shirt collar and tie.
As humans, we all learn and retain information better, and indeed, behave better when we're comfortable. I have no idea why secondary schools in the UK struggle so much to understand that.
CNRADMSN@reddit
I don't understand the need for any school to have blazers, shirts and tie tbh. Polo shirt and a jumper is perfectly fine.
Id get it if the uniform was actually nice but 9/10 is a short sleeved shirt, a clip on tie and a discoloured blazer... Yeah looks great 🥴
cleotic@reddit
It's another method to dehumanise children and young people, and yes I think uniforms and most rules of professionalism in the work place are also dehumanising. Uniforms in the work place for example often mean that women are being told that they look unprofessional and too sexy for being curvy, it means Black people are told that our hair is unprofessional, and a lot of rules that we have accepted have absolutely no purpose beyond dehumanisation.
Children are an oppressed class of people, demonising them as bad or naughty for basically being children gives us an outlet to vent our aggression, a perfect punching back and the belief that we are doing it all for their own good. The obsession with disciplining children comes from adults who should really discipline themselves.
dawson170@reddit
Teacher here - I've been of the opinion that we should have uniforms, but drastically change what they are
Uniforms have other advantages - easier to keep track of kids when out on trips for example
But why not change it to a white t-shirt/polo with the school logo on, a zip up fleece for when it's cooler, and then plain black trousers/shorts/skirt, and give kids free choice on shoes - let's face it, parents are going to feel pressured to buy their kids branded shoes anyway for out of school, and if they don't have to spend hundreds on a school uniform, it gives them extra money to buy a pair of nikes.
thefirstofhisname11@reddit
From a continental perspective, it’s really weird. Britain is supposed to be a very liberal country, yet they act strangely overprotective of teenagers. Have much more freedom on the continent
-Lifeisanillusion-@reddit
I’m glad we had uniforms at school. I’ve just started my first job that doesn’t have a uniform and it’s so stressful in the morning finding an outfit that works. I am constantly buying more clothes as I don’t want to repeat outfits constantly. Quite plainly my family would not have coped if this was the same in school. Kids and teens definitely would comment if they see people wearing the same clothes constantly and this was even a thing on casual clothes days.
With a uniform it’s expected that everyone wears the same thing all year so even if you only have two sets nobody knows.
perkiezombie@reddit
It’s because they were given an inch and took 10 miles, so the schools cracked down on it so it’s idiot/ignorance proof.
School allows trousers for girls? We all know that means something that wouldn’t be amiss in a professional setting, which is age appropriate, not form fitting and suitable for school. You end up with some of the school in perfectly appropriate trousers and the rest in leggings, flares, things with mad zips etc. They get called out for it because it’s not appropriate and the reply is “but you said trousers and these are trousers.” So the rule gets tightened so there can be no “misunderstandings”.
Parents and kids ruined it for themselves by taking the piss.
hurrdurrswit@reddit
Honestly, i think its largely to do with a mixture of British and archaic exceptionalism. I spent my whole life in the uk, including going to a rigorously enforced uniform school in the early 2000s. Top button and tie always had to be done up, shirts tucked in. Swelter in polyester blazer in the summer and no shorts or short sleeves allowed unless in primary school. After PE or games as the last lesson we also mind numbingly had to change back into school uniform before leaving school. Half of school just seemed to be pedantry about school uniform.
I currently live and work in Switzerland and my kids dont wear a school uniform and it has absolutely zero impact on anything. Not sure i buy the whole broken windows etc nonsense. I could wear what I wanted at university and currently at work typing this out wearing a tshirt, chinos and trainers. Kids school uniform just feels like an outdated victorian era relic imo.
geeered@reddit
No effects on your kids, I bet it does on some.
As someone who's parent had little idea or care about fashion and mostly shopped at charity shops, the school uniform requirements meant at school I was less singled out for it.
PreparationWorking90@reddit
In a sense I agree with you - but there is no reason that a school uniform couldn't be 'plain white tee shirt, plain black trousers/shorts, plain black pull over. They don't need to be designed to be as uncomfortable as possible, in a world where almost no-one wears a tie to work anymore.
regulator202@reddit
Yep. My kids school has a branded pe uniform for pe days and I have no idea why that can't be everyday wear for the summer term at least
salmonboy5@reddit
completely agree. there is absolutely a middle ground between "no uniform whatsoever" and "blazer and tie".
Key_Orchid_9171@reddit
I personally think a school uniform creates a level playing field, particularly as kids get older / more fashion/brand conscious. And for infant school kids I think it looks cute. I'm also British so up until sixth-form a uniform was all I knew, but I do have relatives in the US who have said that it puts pressure on teens from families with less money. I do, however, believe that any child should be comfortable at school in the heat and not forced to wear ties / long-sleeve shirts in the summer months.
Sublime99@reddit
Nailed it, wholeheartedly agree as someone living in Sweden.
snavej1@reddit
Apparently, before school uniform was introduced, there were many problems in schools about clothing and appearance. It would be obvious which were the poor kids and which were the rich kids. The different groups would argue and fight a lot. There would be intense competition around who could have the most stylish clothes. In mixed schools, there would be efforts to dress in attractive ways, sometimes involving intense flirtation and jealousy. It would all be a major distraction from education. Teachers would discriminate between rich and poor. Strict uniform policies help to reduce the visible differences and associated behaviours.
DecompressionIllness@reddit
“Broken Windows Theory”, equal playing field, corporate rebranding etc. There are a number of reasons.
I wouldn’t mind as much if the uniforms didn’t suck balls. School could make uniforms comfier and cheaper. Have kids wear sports equipments with the logo on it. I know there’s a school somewhere in the UK that was swapping over to this recently and a loos of Boomers whining about it on Facebook. As a kid, I’d preferred being in sports equipment all day to being in stiff shirts, blazers, and ties.
1234onions@reddit
My daughters primary school allow them to wear their P.E. kits when the weather is very hot.
Back when I was in secondary school we did not have to wear blazers and were allowed to wear short sleeved shirts.
Delicious-Fee-6225@reddit
Conform. Conform. Conform.
tightloops1971@reddit
Big way to avoid bullying, everyone wearing the same you can't pick on the poor kid for not having trendy trainers etc.
barnburner96@reddit
You reduce bullying by having actual consequences for bullying behaviour, not by forcing eleven year olds to dress like salarymen.
tightloops1971@reddit
It's part of the anti bullying measures, obviously.
pullingteeths@reddit
It's part of "pretend we're improving behaviour and bullying issues by doing something easy and lazy instead of actually doing anything to tackle it" measures
barnburner96@reddit
No it isn’t. That isn’t why they exist. You can argue (wrongly imo) that it’s a side-effect, but uniforms are objectively not designed to be an anti-bullying measure.
tightloops1971@reddit
I can guarantee that's part of it, plus easy to identify truanters, easy to identify which school anti social behaviour is coming from, easy to identify which school actual bullies are from etc. Believe it or not, up to you.
RaymondBumcheese@reddit
Its just nonsense, though. Kids are arseholes and there are still a million other ways to other people. Bag, phone, haircut, football boots, headphones, watch, height, weight, parents, sister, glasses.
If someone wants to pick on the poor kids, the poor kid is getting picked on regardless of if they look like they are dressed for their first day at Hogwarts or not.
tightloops1971@reddit
It's part of the measures to reduce bullying, it the only one.
goodallw0w@reddit
It’s tradition mate, you don’t have to justify it with gymnastics.
tightloops1971@reddit
Traditions start for a reason, people don't suddenly jump up all at the same time and decide children should wear a blazer. Did you know the first school uniforms were all blue, the cheapest dye available, so that all kids would be levelled with a sense of humility ie the poorer kids weren't left out and isolated. That has always been a foundational element of school uniforms, has been for 400 years, whether you like it or not, and no need for gymnastics.
Thrilalia@reddit
It doesn't do anything. Like every excuse for a uniform at school. The reason why it's bullshit can be seen in nearly every one of our neighbours, where kids go to school without uniforms, do just as well if not better than our kids due to reasons such as proper funding and prove a unifyis nothing more than an outdated model, brought in during the Victorian era, to push social compliance.
tightloops1971@reddit
Yes, if course, it's all a conspiracy to make children in the 2020's work in cotton mills. Except if you could afford a uniform you didn't need to work in a mill, slight conspiracy theory disconnect there.....
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
The same could be accomplished using a simple dress code. It doesn't answer the question of requiring blazers in summer.
tightloops1971@reddit
It called 'short sleeve order', kids can take off the blazers wear short sleeve shirts take off the tie etc. Just because you have them doesnt mean you have to wear them all the time.
GeorgiosSer@reddit
Since you understand the points of the uniform, could you please share how come no other school in europe use mandatory uniform in primary and secondary school?
fireinthehole88@reddit
Students will always push back on rules, if you allow them to break uniform rules then they’ll go on to break others.
Someone once said if all you’re battling is the length of a tie or the size of the gold stud in each ear then you’re winning at the rest.
pullingteeths@reddit
Old wives tale nonsense that isn't backed by any studies or statistics
Firm-Exam-6892@reddit
There is absolutely no peer reviewed evidence that this is the case.
International-Cow770@reddit
schools need to do away with branded clothing, hell if you want your emblem give them a sew on logo at the start of each year or smth like that. in the summer kids should be allowed shorts and polos cause they are children not adults who get breaks whenever they want etc
barnburner96@reddit
Almost as if it was never about ‘reducing bullying’ at all!
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
It's excellent for allowing teachers to bully poor students
Rekyht@reddit
Fucking lol. Let me guess, someone at still at school? No way can an actual real life adult think that teachers bully students. They don't have the time or energy. It's not the 1980s.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
I've had to deal with it personally so yes I know it does happen. Obviously not all teachers are that petty, most are absolutely lovely, but I'm sure a lot of folks have had to deal with a teacher who has it out for them personally as I once did.
Rekyht@reddit
Of course you have. Enjoy school next week.
pullingteeths@reddit
What's with the weird bootlicking? You actually believe no teacher ever treat students unfairly?
barnburner96@reddit
When did it stop happening? If you accept it happened in the 80s, when was the cutoff?
Rekyht@reddit
15:3, 27th January 1994.
Or you know, when the budgets got cut so much that theres no one that is left in the industry that wants to be a teacher just to 'bully kids'. Grow up ffs.
SpringAutumnReversal@reddit
Larping class in a dead nation
Immediate-Cow-6183@reddit
You need to ask a different question!! Why are self important parents and their equally annoying children so obsessive about breaking the rules. Society needs rules to operate effciently. This basic concept has not been absorbed by significant numbers of parents who pass their ignorance on to their offspring.
zoppaTheDim@reddit
The illusion of control is often more important than actual control.
That illusion is often a “selling point” for parents, who believe that if you force kids to wear a tie and jacket, they’ll get tie and jacket jobs.
nickytheginger@reddit
Basic power trip. Almost Every teacher I knew that would make us suffer were also the one that neither the student or teachers liked. I would love to know how they keep their jobs though.
Mickleblade@reddit
To trick for shirt buying. Size is based around neck size, but they're always too tight. But the next size up, which makes them wearable. OK, so it's bag elsewhere, so what? At least the shirt and tie is wearable.
Veenkoira00@reddit
How come they manage fine sans any dress codes in many countries – including ones above England in the PISA tables ?
Difficult_System1264@reddit
My kids are at school right now in shorts and t shirts. The only time I've ever seen kids wear ties at their school is either the first day or term or school photo day. I guess we're lucky that their school takes quite a casual approach to uniform. They are still in primary school but the local high school isn't particularly strict either. We're in Scotland if that makes a difference. Maybe the rest of the UK is stricter.
coomzee@reddit
I remember talking to the HOY about this once. So we take the jumper of the person who never turns up; why don't we be happy they turned up to learn. Then address the uniform issue down the road when they are in a stable home school balance.
Gazcobain@reddit
I don't disagree in principle with this - I have heard / seen this happen several times - but it does seem to punish those kids who just come to school every day and do what they're meant to do each and every day.
dmc1972@reddit
It's half term.
Difficult_System1264@reddit
Not everywhere. My kids are at school right now in Scotland.
joehighlord@reddit (OP)
I don't actually live in the country right now so basically didn't know that. I just had a thought and supressed childhood memories.
Pretend this whole discussion is happening during the next term time heatwave. I don't know how many schools ever close fully because of the heat.
Regardless I'm still interested.
GhostRiders@reddit
The vast majority of schools relax uniform rules in hot weather.
MissCurious75@reddit
I was coming to say this. My son attended a grammar and they're super hot on uniform rules. In the summer term they're allowed to have the top button undone and don't have to wear their blazer. The PE teacher also let them go home in their PE kit if it was the last lesson of the day.
Winston_Carbuncle@reddit
We held a protest in the outside, caged basketball courts one day when it was roasting. Even for the local radio presenters involved and students were giving interviews from the cage.
Somebody even managed to tie one of the assistant heads' arm to the cage briefly.
This was only in the late 00's but writing this is sounds like something from the 70s.
Funny thing is I'm sure we all just went back into lessons after about 2 hours
LCPO23@reddit
Thankfully uniform in our school is a bit more lax. For events they request shirt and tie, but day to day the kids can wear branded polo with grey shorts, skirts of dresses. Blazers aren't compulsory either. The only rule as such is no black, has to be grey or green.
It definitely helps on the hotter days.
JanSobieski-III@reddit
My school never had uniform
BlackberryMelodic567@reddit
My highschool actually ditched the blazers. We used to have a winter and summer uniform (summer was just a polo shirt but you were expected to wear the blazer in class but you could ask to take it off). Now they're changing it to just be the polo
UR_Arrogant@reddit
Uniforms have multiple psychological benefits. They should be designed to give wearers: - A sense of belonging. - Increased team cohesion. - Higher self esteem & confidence. - Improved productivity. - Role recognition. - Reduced anxiety about appearance. - Comfort in all seasons and climates.
School uniforms should be enforced and "looksmaxing" should be discouraged in schools.
DancingSpacePenguin@reddit
Uniform means discipline, and sets the student up for the real, actual world where you may not agree with the rules but need to conform.
Next week is not going to be that warm anyway.
Most schools don't require a blazer to be worn during hot periods. It would be a hazard of sorts.
Ok_Molasses_7037@reddit
Its just to demonstrate dominance. The fact that it is petty is part of the design, there to make an example that you must obey everything - and that the rules not making sense will do nothing to dampen the enforcement.
Bullying kids into compliance is culturally accepted, as is the sacred authority of optics.
tb5841@reddit
Uniform policies only work if all teachers say the exact same thing. Which means individual teachera shpuld not be making judgement calls, they should be following exactly what they are told to say.
Careful_Adeptness799@reddit
No harm in shorts / skirts. Thousands of schools let this happen. You need to petition the school.
Lanokia@reddit
Can't speak for all but we do have hot weather variants. Girls can go tights free. Boys can switch to shorts. Blazers are expected on their person but can be taken off in the classroom. Ties become optional.
Now male teachers... yeah they get the short end of the stick.
MahatmaAndhi@reddit
Teachers should wear the same uniform as the children. Maybe a different coloured blazer/jumper to set them apart.
The kids aren't allowed to take their jumpers off in this weather. But the teachers can come in in summer dresses or a light shirt. If the kids are representing the school, so are the adults.
barriedalenick@reddit
I worked in a school for years and we had summer dress orders that were triggered when it was too hot. Still a uniform but more suitable for hot weather - I thought most schools did this.
Miss_Type@reddit
They do! Open collar, shirt untucked, no blazer, ankle socks instead of tights, etc.
PreparationWorking90@reddit
Primary schools are bigger on summer/winter uniforms
Ok_Cow5684@reddit
My dad was the deputy head at my secondary school. He hated the uniform rules; he thought they were pointless and wasted teachers' time on enforcing uniform when they could have been doing something more useful. I think most of the senior staff agreed.
But the school governors liked to see the students looking "smart", and refused any requests to change or relax the rules.
So it may be that the teachers are stuck enforcing rules that they hate just as much as the students do.
Miss_Type@reddit
Teacher of 20+ years here, and I absolutely agree that I hate enforcing uniform rules - and I teach in a school that has got rid of ties and has everyone in open necked shirts all year. Our school PE kit is great, I think they should be wearing a variation of that every day.
Reasonable-Key9235@reddit
Discipline. We did it as kids, no reason not to do it today
Valuable_Setting_172@reddit
I work in a school, it's pretty relaxed about uniform. As long as you have the correct tie on and take your hoodie off in a lesson it's mostly fine.
Big focus on working with the kids instead of just disciplining them. If we spent all our time enforcing conformity we'd burn all the relational capital we have, instead of saving it for what actually matters.
It's a large state school in a fairly deprived area but is rated Outstanding and gets really decent results, I do think it works. Even if it means doing things the hard way sometimes.
SnowflakeBaube22@reddit
School holidays are not the same across the country. Kids in my area are definitely in school.
I hate the school uniform rules. The “it prevents bullying” rhetoric is nonsense. Bullies will bully regardless of what you are wearing.
It’s so draconian and I can’t understand why they are still so determined that it’s a good idea.
Shannoonuns@reddit
I work for a school uniform supplier.
Like you said, it reduces bullying a bit and it helps identify students on thier way to and from school.
Also you get less of that thing that seems to happen in the us where the dress code policy ends up really frustratingly spesfic, needs updating constantly and kind of feels like its being made up on the spot just to spite certain kids.
Not all of them are too pedantic about it too be fair, also I feel like if a school is organised enough for a good uniform policy that works its probably a good school generally.
If you have a kid and thier school uniform policy is a bit crap raise it with the school. Our schools often come to us with new ideas after they've received a few complaints or suggestions.
It might be worth pushing for school boys shorts at least because most schools allow skirts anyway. Also you can get these most places now for a reasonable price.
We have some schools with emblazoned summer shirts and blouses so they don't need a jumper, tie or blazer but it can get quite expensive considering they probably only really need the full summer uniform a few days a year. Theyre only really popular with our schools in wealthier areas.
My favourite option is pe kit days, most schools have a pe polo/t-shirt with a logo so it doesn't force parents to buy more clothes but they still has the benefit of wearing an identifiable uniform.
Do bring it up with the school either way.
i-like-your-tree@reddit
I'm sure the will be some grand excuse about behaviour but from the perspective of an SLT who works very closely with OT, sometimes uniform provides a clear structure that can really benefit a student by taking away processing and adding clear lines and boundaries, other times we're trying to not tell the head teacher that he actually is being a horrible person for punishing the ASD kid who can't tolerate the collar on his shirt and tie when he refuses to wear it and it results in a very very predictable meltdown. I'm sure rigidity helps plenty of kids, but I'm also sure it won't make a huge difference if they just chose a uniform that wasn't a sensory nightmare so that the smaller group of kids can access education without being made to feel like they're the problem. I hated uniforms as a kid, I don't really like them as an adult. Primary schools are doing better by having comfier styles
terryjuicelawson@reddit
It is an easy way of instilling discipline, that is the core of it. Everything else is a mild positive or excuse. Schools don't care if someone is bullied for having the wrong brand of t-shirt.
hhfugrr3@reddit
Pleased to say not all schools are like this. My kids' schools are very laid back on uniform. My eldest's uniform stipulates a blazer and tie, but he rarely wears the tie and we haven't bought him a blazer since year 7... he's currently doing his GCSE exams.
Sacu-Shi@reddit
The uniform is secondary to the lessons about following rules, complying with corporate expectations, preparation (getting uniform ready each day), presenting oneself in a businesslike manner. If the kids wear a uniform, all these life lessons come along with it.
InternationalRich150@reddit
My eldest daughter school when it hits over 20, they can remove blazers and jumpers. Over 24 and its Pe kit to school.
I mean they struggle to stop the girls wearing obscenely short skirts to school, so I guess allowing them to undo shirts would lead to inappropriate vests underneath. Just a guess.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Redditors don't work in jobs requiring uniform, PPE and hygiene equipment then?
Many students will move onto such careers. Realising that there's a standard of dress is important, even when you work in a casual environment and you're not wearing unprofessional/offensive clothing.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
Lots of workplaces have a dress code, but it's a small minority that have an actual uniform. And most aren't anywhere near as draconic about enforcing it as some schools seem to get.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
What you define as uniform is up to you.
But given that the biggest employers* in the UK all require varying mixes of uniform and PPE, I don't believe for a moment it's a small minority.
*NHS, Armed Forces, uniformed public Services, Tesco, John Lewis Partnership, Compass and others across retail, services, pharma and construction.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
It's 19%. What you define as small is up to you. (:
https://yougov.com/en-gb/articles/47782-the-death-of-business-attire-just-7-of-workers-wear-a-suit-to-work
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Nice cherry-picking of stats.
So you picked branded clothing, ignored PPE and formal work wear, as well as requirements imposed even on smart casual (which is a dress standard in itself), and also included "middle class" roles which inevitably won't be the first job many of these people have (unless they've managed to make it through university without ever working).
But sure, you have your cherry.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
So what I define as uniform is not up to me after all? 🙄
I would count places that need you to wear a suit or smart clothing as a dress code, not uniform.
PPE is arguably uniform as well but even if you include that it only brings the total up to 28%, certainly not a majority.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Perhaps look up the origins of the word uniform to understand what it means.
Do all children go straight into middle class jobs? That's a surprise to me. Maybe you're a nepo baby so that's "normal".
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
Where has this come from all of a sudden? If you're gonna get into making random assumptions then I think this conversation is done.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
You need to look at your own reference and appreciate the disparity in middle class and working class stats.
Like I said, cherry picking.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
So your problem with my original post is that I didn't specify that a higher minority of low-income workers wear a uniform compared to middle-class workers? And you're accusing me of cherry-picking? What has any of this got to do with the original premise?
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
We're talking about teaching children to enter the workforce. You understand how that works, right?
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
I don't understand what point you're trying to make or what it is about my original post that you disagree with so much that you felt the need to reply to it five times.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
I think you're confused. You're replying to my thread. You don't understand your own references or the topic of conversation. I'm not here to help you with fundamentals.
Rekyht@reddit
Because the idea is to teach people to be able to dress smartly or wear a uniform without enforcement.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
It's amazing that schools have perfected teaching every single lesson in life more important than "dress smartly" that they can afford to spend so much effort on teaching this one particular rule.
Rekyht@reddit
Yes because telling kids to look smart is directly impacting their lack of budget for other lessons. Great take!
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
So you don't think schools ever disproportionately enforce uniform rules to the detriment of other things? You're sure that never happens?
Rekyht@reddit
Yes. I am very confidently going to say that them asking pupils to wear their uniform actually helps with behaviour, as lots of studies have proved, and multiple teachers in this thread have also attested too. So if anything, it helps them, rather than hinders.
IrrelevantPiglet@reddit
That wasn't the question I asked.
Rekyht@reddit
Clearly you're still at school given how shit your comprehension is.
If you want a direct answer to:
"So you don't think schools ever disproportionately enforce uniform rules to the detriment of other things? You're sure that never happens?"
No.
hopeelizabethhh@reddit
what about when a student from my school was sent home because her socks were white and not black? was that really reasonable to you?
Rekyht@reddit
That's what enforcing a uniform policy is, yes.
hopeelizabethhh@reddit
i’m not sure what question you’re answering there because it certainly isn’t mine, but thanks for your time
Rekyht@reddit
Good lord our schools really need to teach better reading comprehension.
BilboDankins@reddit
Thing is I don't think you need to learn or be trained to understand a work uniform. It's as simple as, if you have to wear it for work, put it on in the morning. I doubt forcing kids to sit in a classroom sweating while trying to concentrate. If you work in a job that requires PPE, that's another story, and forcing students to wear blazers and trousers in a classroom teaches nothing about the importance of ppe or risk assessing when you need it.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Then you don't understand how people learn.
School teaches you early there are consequences to not following the rules.
PPE is necessary and almost inherently uncomfortable. You have to accept in life you will be uncomfortable at times. It's necessary. You preserve. There's a balance, and health is a priority. But that doesn't mean you get a free for all because it's a few C hotter than what you seem comfortable.
Gold_Sovereign@reddit
I for one don’t like having to wear goggles or a lab coat and sometimes I don’t, just like many others do a lot of things that break HSE rules at my work. Many more dangerous things people get away with too. Does this go back to my time in school wearing a uniform in hot weather ? I don’t think so. It’s about the culture and consequences in your CURRENT workplace, not when you were at school. If I knew there were severe consequences to what I did I wouldn’t do it, but even that doesn’t stop some people. It’s in their nature.
mhoulden@reddit
If a job requires PPE or a formal uniform, normally the employer provides it. I've sometimes wondered why, if uniforms are so important for schools, they don't issue it themselves.
bramleyapple1@reddit
Its really not a hard concept to grasp
Plenty of countries don't have school uniforms and don't have issues with school leavers unable to wear PPE etc...
LifeNavigator@reddit
This isn't to do with uniforms, more so the fact that you're getting paid and is within your control (as in you WANT to work), unlike school which is mandatory.
Kids in other countries with no mandatory uniform learn it fine without issues.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Going to school isn't mandatory in the UK. Education is mandatory. Don't like it? Talk to your mum.
Accurate-Herring-638@reddit
I went to school on the continent, so no uniform. As a teenager I had part time jobs in restaurants, care homes and the local hospital. All of them required me to wear some kind of uniform and somehow I managed without my brain exploding.
Now, I'm a university lecturer so I can just wear jeans and a t-shirt everyday :).
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
So your data point is 1? You don't lecture in maths or science then?
Wild_Region_7853@reddit
Where was any of this implied? OP literally said they're not against uniforms. There are very few jobs I can think of where an employer would force you to wear a blazer in 30 degree heat and no air con.
BilboDankins@reddit
With wfh, a lot of employers don't even require you to wear pants anymore.
Emotional-Steak1339@reddit
It's the broken windows theory. It's sometimes also called "sweating the small stuff". The idea is that strictly enforcing smaller, easy rules (especially visible ones), reduced the amount of bigger rule-breaking that happens.
Take a rough school where holes get punched in the walls. The theory is that making kids have their shirts tucked in and put blazers on before leaving the classroom reduces this kind of antisocial behaviour on the corridor.
Sometimes they use a similar logic on public transport. Going round and giving people fines for having feet on seats (in theory) reduces the amount of fights, aggressive behaviour etc.
Affectionate-Cost525@reddit
I don't understand why more schools don't do "summer uniforms"
From Easter onwards we had coloured polo shirts depending on our year. School jumpers were optional. Made it so much easier although the uniform shop charged something ridiculous like £19 a shirt as they needed the schools logo on them.
72dk72@reddit
Uniforms are normally cheaper than the designer and branded clothes children would wear otherwise.
72dk72@reddit
Because its about discipline. I fully support it as long as the uniform is available from multiple suppliers / supermarkets etc and branding is just ties and sew on / iron badges that are no more than £2
Looking4DomTop@reddit
Our school always had a “shirt sleeve order”, basically non-uniform days, in hot weather. And the normal teachers let us loosen our ties/top buttons in class provided we did them back up again before heading to our next lesson
Davski88@reddit
Couldn't agree more. I work in a bank and I'm currently wearing a t shirt, yet my son is expected to wear a shirt, tie and blazer. Make it make sense.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
But if he was working in an environment requiring PPE or hygiene controls, they'd still be wearing it regardless of the weather...
CrossCityLine@reddit
And there’d be a safety critical reason for it… unlike a school uniform.
Targettio@reddit
It's almost like school is preparing children for the expectations of adulthood
CrossCityLine@reddit
You think most adults have to wear PPE?
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
No but many will have a dress code for work, uniform is about teaching kids what they expectation is.
Every job I've worked in, the floor level customer facing roles require a uniform standard
CrossCityLine@reddit
Conversely, I’ve never had a job that requires a uniform. So swings and roundabouts innit.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Most minimum wage retail jobs will require it, and that's likely what most kids out of school will do
Davski88@reddit
Although I agree with this, it should be noted that most minimum wage retail jobs in 2026 dont have the uniform of shirt, blazer and tie.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Ok
But they still have a dress code, often not very flexible for weather
skittlesdabawse@reddit
Because the uniform is usually just a branded polo and any black trousers, and those kinds of jobs are frequently inside air-conditioned shops.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
That's brilliant. I can't name any of my friends that have never worn PPE, even if it was just a hiviz, safety boots or gloves.
SeniorMoonlight21@reddit
Such a silly excuse. Plenty of countries around the world do not have school uniforms and people still do not have issues wearing work uniforms.
EntirelyRandom1590@reddit
Plenty of countries also have terrible accident rates in the workplace.
Targettio@reddit
That is not what I said.
School isn't just about learning. It's about becoming a productive member of society. So that includes certain behavioural expectations, attendance, clothing, following structured days etc.
The uniform is part of that preparation.
danieljamesgillen@reddit
School is in many ways like prison, the children are forced to go and usually didn't chose to go to that school. Further, like prison, the school is forced to take the child. This creates a problem where if discipline slides, the whole systm can grind up. So they enforce the small rules to stop any more serious matters emerging. I support uniforms, but no child should be forced to go to school against their will, and schools should be free to expel pupils whenever they wish.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Kids should go to school, education is important.
bluehobbs@reddit
I doubt he’s expected to wear a blazer in this heat. Not known a single teacher or school to say otherwise. Most of the time they even relax the rules, with no top button / ties.
HatOfFlavour@reddit
There were always some creaky dinosaurs employed that seemed to think everyone sweating was somehow healthy.
spinningdice@reddit
I still maintain that if students have to wear a uniform to maintain the image of the school then staff should too, surely they are also representing the school?
It does feel like the rules have got more draconic over the years, I remember at middle/high school that 'dress code' was a shirt/blouse, black/dark gray pants/skirt and a jumper/sweater in the right colour, logos were optional and that was basically it (there was also no restriction on taking your jumper off). My kids at the same schools had blazers, sports kit of a specific brand and all had to have the school logo on it. Complete pain the arse, especially for my eldest who was slightly on the chunky side (wouldn't even say they were fat but the required uniform just didn't fit well in any size).
bright_sorbet1@reddit
I don't know any schools that force ballers and jumpers during hot weather.
Most schools have a summer version of their uniform.
In primary school it's often shorts and dresses. In secondary school you lose the jumpers and sometimes we were allowed to take our ties off.
Uniforms are much better for social cohesion and parity than wearing your own clothing. What kid at 14 wants to have to compete with their peers in a game of fashion or wealth?
cherrycoke3000@reddit
I dont know any schools that don't enforce blazers and jumpers on school children. Traditionally Witson was the Christian saints day that marked the start of no ties. That changed when I was in this new fangled 'Yr 10'. Then the Head would decide, daily, after we had a been in school some time. I worked in schools across London for a decade, all late daily decisions by the head. I moved again, worked in several schools, all daily late decisions by the head. The last one my son attended and was to nervous to remove his blazer in case he had misheard. I was also first aider and spent many lunchtimes dealing with his heat induced nosebleeds.
Uniforms are an archaic control system supported by ignorant people. Uniform puts extra burden on struggling families who have to split the budget to two sets of clothes per child and rhe extra washing. Corporate branded overpriced plastic Uniform does not improve society, however much the right wing papers tell you. Children are missing education because they can't afford Uniform. Schools have no understanding or empathy, just show how weak they are insisting they are preparing children for life by forcing them to clip on a tie. Uniform is not a leveller, they have thir own bag, coat, shoes and style. Bullies will find something to bully others for. Maybe schools should deal with the actual bullies, but then the would have to sack a quarter of their staff.
bright_sorbet1@reddit
Uniform puts no extra burden on struggling families than needing to buy five extra days worth of clothes for each child. Especially considering each child would want to conform to fashion and brands popular among their peers.
Uniform is absolutely a leveller. And you are proving the exact point - even just with a backpack and black shoes, and a coat there is still exhaustive pressure to keep up.
"Bullies will find something to bully" is irrelevant to this conversation. As is whether schools typically deal with bullying effectively.
Zealousideal-Sail893@reddit
One word.
Discipline.
AsburyParkRules@reddit
I wish growing up my school had uniforms. I grew up in an upper middle class town. My parents had money, but thought providing a high end wardrobe for school was ridiculous, so I always was insecure about my clothes. Later in life when I owned my own sales company I purchased logo shirts for all of my employees so they never needed to worry about what to wear. They loved it. They often told me it took a bit of stress away from their day.
SlowRs@reddit
My school (Scotland) just used to give us a green piece of paper in the morning if you didn’t wear uniform. Get too many and you couldn’t go on school trips.
Didn’t really stop maybe 50% from not wearing uniform. Mostly was jeans/trackies with the school hoodie is what got worn.
Scottish_squirrel@reddit
My daughter's secondary school is a blazer and tights on regardless of weather. I agree they should be in uniform but night the tights. A shirt and tie still identifys them.
jimmybiggles@reddit
kids can be bloody nasty, regardless of what you wear. glasses and shoes are a bit more unique (wide feet, high arches, orthotics - different frames for different needs etc) so that'd be difficult to follow.
"hot weather uniform" for us was just you're allowed to untuck your shirt, undo the top button, and take your blazer off. shorts were also allowed on hotter days but i think i only saw 2 people ever wearing shorts... personally i run really hot so i'd have probably worn hot weather stuff all year round bar maybe jan and feb, had that been a thing...
regardless of how uniform you make everyone, kids will find a way to pick on things. but i think there'd certainly be more if they removed the uniform rule. i went to public school but on a full scholarship - my family didn't have enough money to send me otherwise. i'd have been ridiculed for the clothes i owned, as they weren't the big/expensive brands like polo etc, nor were they following the trends as we had to make them last. so i'm glad we had a set uniform, which we could buy (a few sizes too big so i'd grow into it 🤣) and then that worry left.
to further my point of "they will still bully you", i didn't have iphones/touchscreen either (in secondary school from 2011-2018), had a brick phone until year 12 when i got my first job and bought my first phone (cheap HTC). kids can be nasty about whatever they can see is different 🤷♂️
ICantBelieveItsNotEC@reddit
Yeah, I completely agree that they'll just bully you anyway. When I was at school, we were encouraged to buy our uniform from the local tailor, which was extortionate. Alternatively, you could buy a badge from the tailor and sew it on to a blazer from Asda. Obviously, the tailored uniform kids took that as an excuse to bully the supermarket uniform kids for being poor.
I think the uniform rule is pretty outdated tbh. It comes from a time when all clothing was expensive, so the poor kids would be stuck with rags and hand-me-downs if they had to wear their own clothes. Thesedays, thanks to fast fashion, you can dress just as well as the rich kids (better, if you have good taste) on a shoestring budget.
PreparationWorking90@reddit
Even more - when I was at school we had this plus the 'right' black trousers and the 'wrong' black trousers, the 'right' shoe brands and the 'wrong' shoe brands. If children want to pick on each other, they will find something to pick on.
Petrichor_ness@reddit
I went to a pretty crappy school in the West Midlands in the 90s/00s.
I remember a teacher once having a go at a kid for some minor uniform infraction, telling him one day he'll have a job and have to wear a uniform which is why it's so important to understand its importance in school.
One kid called out that their dad didn't have to wear a uniform, he wore his jeans and tshirt to work (this kid's dad worked in marketing/early webdev), and I remember the teacher replying:
"that's all well and good for your father but most of you will end up working in a job that requires a uniform and for most, it will be a Tesco* one and that's if you're lucky"
*at the time, they were building a huge new Tesco in our town and it was often referenced that it would provide so much local employment and how lucky we'd all be to have a job for life.
justabean27@reddit
Retailers have warm and cold weather uniforms and it is entirely up to the worker which one they want to wear
bozom@reddit
I remember the boys at my school wore skirts as there was a no shorts policy…..
Longjumping_Fig2460@reddit
My daughter's secondary school let them all wear PE kit when it's very hot. So there's still consistency but no blazer is required and shorts/skorts are OK - that seems a nice compromise to me
AnEnglishAmongScots@reddit
Is this all schools, or primarily English secondaries?
My (albeit rough) Scottish secondary was fairly lax on uniform. Blazers only mandatory if you were a Prefect/ Head of House, black leggins and trainers fine. I routinely wore wee white blouses and black denim miniskirted pinafores! As long as you wore your tie, they didn't really care.
Ok-Moose7861@reddit
Because you are being trained to be a drone and do what your manager says. So you will contribute to society, pax your taxes and dont cause issues.
somnambulante@reddit
I think it'd be preferable for high schools to just adopt polo tops, as some already have. Comfy, practical and still smart without going all shirt and tie which is odd anyway (in my opinion).
LightWorkerBoy-144@reddit
If anyone asked my kid to wear hot uniform in this heat, I'd consider as the parent child abuse to enforce it. It's way hotter than years ago, and I'm not risking my child's life. As long as my child was well mannered and polite in school in general I would be fine. Wasn't this hot regularly back then. My mother told me in no uncertain terms to be safe in the heat as a nurse. School rules meant nothing over safey.
RebelliousEducation@reddit
I absolutely understand the point of uniform for school, but I do not understand why they make it something so uncomfortable.
Kids learn better if they are comfortable. Enforcing very specific types of shoes and clothing that are not known for their comfort makes no sense in the overall purpose of school. Surely they can make a uniform that they can enforce for all the right reasons that is also built for comfort?
SJTaylors@reddit
I know this is anecdotal and I have no idea on a wider view point, the school I went to had a declining Ofsted and massive behavioural issues, the new principal was so strict on uniform it was in the papers that he was sending kids home for wearing incorrect socks. Behaviour improved as did the Ofsted.
ContentAdagio9805@reddit
It's because it's visible. Teaching and learning aren't. Management have no idea how to improve teaching and learning, but have to prove they are doing something to improve outcomes. Uniform is the irrelevant thing it's easy to put in a spreadsheet.
thatbloodytwink@reddit
I cant really say for other schools but the school i went to relaxed the uniform in heat, it would start of with no blazers then PE kit if it was very hot
Dagenhammer87@reddit
There's some good that comes from uniform standards, but there's also the other side to it.
For every bit about clothing not exposing the gap in family finances/poverty etc. and creating a level playing field, getting kids in the mindset (after all, clothes maketh the man, they say) to learn etc. I do think that it's another control measure open to abuse.
Having been a teenager (many years ago now), teaching must be like trying to herd cats.-.so I can give them that.somewhat.
But I also can't escape how backwards the school system is. Everything else seems to have moved on and yet we're still in the 1860s in our schools.
Sat in rows (like on a production line), put your hand up to speak or use the toilet (like a production line) and then bell to bell working (I won't make you read that a third time! 😂).
A lot of the things I hear from my kids could sound like just upholding good old fashioned respect but then other things sound like a compliance technique that some peopl get job pissed from.
My kids don't typically have any issues - but one thing my senior school did well was to have a summer uniform of badged polos.
However, the constant thing I hear nowadays is that uniform can only be bought from X or y shop.
In my day, you could get a blazer out of any shop (so long as it was black) and either iron on the badge or sew it. The only real thing was the ties to get from them for a couple of quid.
I wonder how much of it is another way to add money to school coffers as you've got next to no choice.
Master-Trick2850@reddit
the other point is that if everyone is wearing the same uniform, no one gets bullied based on what they are or aren't wearing
notamisprint@reddit
Like a few other commentators have said, typically once you start to relax uniform rules other problems start to crop up.
I work in a very disadvantaged area and I've heard our senior leadership say the uniform is supposed to be aspirational - preparing students whose family often don't work or work minimum wage jobs for the possibility of dressing more formally for work in the future. I personally don't think the kids think that way, but you never know!
We see problems with uniform every year as y11 approach exam season and the year team/behaviour leads become less stringent on uniform in order to get the kids in. It always leads to issues with punctuality, more behaviour problems in lessons as they think they can get away with more and it has a knock effect on the other year groups. If you are strict on uniform, other stuff genuinely does take care of itself much more.
We do have relaxed uniform policies during very hot weather - specifically they will be allowed to come in without ties and blazers. However, this also causes problems getting them back into the full uniform when the heat does down because a lot of kids can't understand why it's one rule in the heat and another when it's cooler. Cue at least a week of chasing up uniform problems for teaching staff who don't make the rules but get in trouble if they don't enforce them.
If it were me making the decision, I'd probably tell them to come in in their PE kit on hot days because trying to adapt the regular uniform just causes more problems from a teaching point of view.
chuchoterai@reddit
Having grown up in a system without uniforms - it just seems so rigid. I am bemused as to the need for children to be dressed as junior accountants. My children are not allowed to remove blazers in 30 degree heat. They went to a non uniform primary school, thankfully, so this new requirement is even more irksome.
France, Germany, Spain, Italy - in fact most of mainland Europe, seem to be able to educate children without forcing them into ties and blazers - is there something uniquely challenging about British children? 🤷🏻♀️
wasdice@reddit
Little people on a power trip
Last_Candidate_5804@reddit
Wearing shorts in hot weather is worse than wearing long flowy trousers, as they don’t protect your legs from the sun as much. Its much better for the sun to hit the trousers than to beat down on your legs
chocklityclair@reddit
We do. In hot weather they can take their blazers off.
thespanglycupcake@reddit
If kids can't follow basic rules about uniform (and don't expect them to be enforced), they won't expect other rules to be enforced. It's pretty simple. That said, our school always engaged brains and if it was really hot, jumpers/blazers/ties were allowed to be removed. Most boys wore shorts in the summer anyway so there wasn't much else to be done.
robertm94@reddit
When I was at school we had a summer uniform we were allowed to wear when it was hot...
It was a short sleeved polo shirt and we were allowed tow ear shorts with it.
Additional-Nobody352@reddit
Teachers wanting Control
Major-Credit-2442@reddit
Yeah I used to hate it in school on hot days. It was much better in our sixth form where it was a lot more laid back. No ties, we could wear normal shirt or a polo shirt, and there was no blazer, we would wear a hoody instead. Pretty sure we could wear shorts as well, or even jeans as long as they were black (this was when skinny jeans were popular, I remember quite a few coming in wearing those spray on skinny jeans from Topman, I can’t imagine trying to wear a pair of those now haha).
I think simply allowing polo shirts (uniformed ones with the school badge on) and shorts without a blazer seems perfectly reasonable.
toady89@reddit
My school used to allow polo shirts in the summer, then allowed them year round and now have gone the other way with blazers year round. I get the comments about uniform and behaviour though, polo shirts have me the same relaxed feeling I have on a Friday in work where we have 'dress down Fridays'.
Ricky_Martins_Vagina@reddit
I'm just glad I went to school where I did and when I did 😂 the only thing our school were really that strict on was footwear. Black shoes / no trainers.
I get the need for a uniform and have no issue with that in principle. But it's when they have rules like not being allowed to take blazers off / having to wear their blazer even outside of school grounds when walking home / only being allowed to wear school-branded clothing that you can only buy from the school at an extortionate price / etc...
No-Relief4861@reddit
My school uniform made me MISERABLE in this kind of weather, I still remember the awful sweat patches :(
They used to say it's "preparing us for the workplace".. I work in an office environment, and when I wear my simple loafers I feel a little overdressed!!! Never mind the stuff they expected of us in school.
We weren't even allowed canvas shoes. Even if they were all black and smart looking. I think boots got banned too.
Nail polish was banned. They'd take you to the office and remove it if you wore it. Now, when I'm in an office, nail polish seems to be a great symbol of being well put together!! So how on earth is that preparing anyone for the workplace?
The culture of many schools sucks. I don't have a good answer to the why, but I share your frustrations.
BobBobBobBobBobDave@reddit
It is a bit of a bind because if you have a uniform policy, you then have to make kids actually conform to the uniform rules, otherwise it takes about a week before you don't have a uniform policy.
As for making kids wear their blazers/jumpers in hot weather, I imagine it is so the school doesn't get 200 emails the next day telling them that a kid has lost their blazer.
As for shorts, good luck getting teenagers to voluntarily go to school in smart shorts.
thetechguyv@reddit
When I was at school (several decades ago) we used to wear school shorts - I don't get what the issue is.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
Just leave it at home.
If kids don't want to wear shorts they won't, and if you allow for girls anyone from 14 onwards will wear things that are totally against the policy.
When I was at school girls wore the shortest skirts they could get away with and tied their shirts into crop tops whenever the weather went above 15C
Even at work when I uniform is required for the floor workers, you have to police it otherwise it becomes totally inappropriate for the environment. Some people have no sense of what is OK for them to wear outside work and what to when representing a business in front of customers
BobBobBobBobBobDave@reddit
Yeah, leaving it at home or in your locker is what happened when I was at school. It would make sense.
CornelliSausage@reddit
I don’t know but I was raised in the US where we “don’t have uniform” - LOL yes we did. The uniform was dictated by our peers rather than by the school. It’s much better when the school does it.
Most schools I’m aware of will have different rules in hot weather where the blazer doesn’t have to be worn.
Turbantastic@reddit
Power tripping mostly. I went through the British education system in backwards northern England over 20 years ago now, some teachers were like dictator's with uniform. Even if it was melting hot you had to ask permission to take off your blazer and jumper. I asked, they said no, I was that hot I took it off anyway. Their response? send me to the office and call my mum who rightly told them to fuck off with the petty shite and does not wearing a blazer or a jumper stop me from writing?
Consistent-Pirate-23@reddit
We were told it was about preparing you for the outside world. The same outside world where everyone looks different.
We didn’t have relaxation of uniform rules in summer, heatwaves in portacabins while wearing blazers 😂😂😂
shadowmoses4726@reddit
gives teachers something to do
Neonauryn@reddit
We really don't.
shadowmoses4726@reddit
do a good job a it
quentinia@reddit
I used to be a primary school teacher. By far the best school I ever worked at didn't have a school uniform and all the staff were addressed by first name by the children.
Commercial-Pear-543@reddit
Some teachers are obviously power tripping and take things too far when it comes to nitpicking (I worked with many like this).
But the main purposes are removing the fashion faff and teaching a child how to look presentable in essentially smart dress.
It could be dated with the way office wardrobes have gone, but my parents went to work in suits for over 30 years. I did before Covid. I knew how to look smart.
UnlikelyPie8241@reddit
Our school is strict with uniform natural hair colour, black hair ties.
eivoooom@reddit
When I was at school during spring and summer we were allowed to wear polo shirts of the school, the only lesson at the time during hot weather that was actually good to be in was ICT as all their rooms were AC.
Active_Definition_57@reddit
I did a full 14 years at school in the '70s and '80s and only had to wear uniform for 5 of them. That was the first 5 years of secondary schools (now years 7-11). No uniform in primary or sixth form.
RaymondBumcheese@reddit
Its just little hitlers. I went to two of the last schools in our area that didn't have school uniforms and, after seeing our kids have to wear them, I will die on the hill that they are absolutely pointless.
Els236@reddit
Admittedly, I don't remember it being this hot in the UK when I was a kid, but it drove me up the wall when teachers would refuse when you asked if you could take off the school's itchy af polyester/nylon sweaters in summer.
I get wanting the kids to look smart, but shirt tucked in, sweater/blazer on, etc in this kind of weather is mental. It's asking for trouble with kids getting heatstroke.
Thankfully, I think most places would have the "summer policy" in place already now, so short-sleeve shirts, no tie , and definitely no blazer/sweater.
ClassroomDowntown664@reddit
I'm 23 my secondary school let boys whare shorts when I was yare 11 . we also had non blazzer days . my school had a mixture of new/refurbished buildings which was great in the summer
Electronic-Fennel828@reddit
I went to one of those tie, top button, blazer type schools. In heat like this we still weren’t allowed to remove blazers unless the head teacher felt it was warm enough and declared a “blazer off day”. Which was absolutely ridiculous.
I work in education and most of the schools I work with have thankfully taken a much more sensible approach to uniform. It’s a polo shirt with a logo, and students can wear trousers, shorts or skirts to school as long as they are black. Shorts and skirts need to be at least knee length. I feel that’s pretty sensible and I’d have been quite happy with that as a kid. It’s why I’ve got absolutely no patience for kids at my schools saying that uniform is too strict.
I’ve worked in a lot of schools over the years though, and the general rule seems to be that the worse the area the school is in, the stricter they will be about uniform. Schools in nice areas don’t feel the need to come down so hard. They’ve got supportive parents who will support their kids, and the students in those schools will more or less do well either way. Schools in worse areas are fighting, constantly fighting. So they hold the line on uniform to make it look like they have some semblance of control. They don’t.
CoffeeIgnoramus@reddit
I'm going to avoid the "Is it correct to have uniforms?" debate, but basically, the pedantic part of not deviating is purely a misguided effort to avoid "chaos". Realistically, regardless of why uniforms were implemented, to put kids in discomfort that doesn't benefit their education and is absolutely avoidable is a sense of control for those making the rules. Not in an evil control over kids, but in a control all humans want, a sense of order that feels "neat" and "easy" to control.
It's not coming from a mean place but it is absolutely illogical.
Jimquill@reddit
Because they love exerting control over the powerless?
My school was never adamant about blazers in the heat. We were allowed to wear short sleeved shirts.
LordBoomDiddly@reddit
It's about the only control they have left seeing how kids now can act out with no repercussions
Dangerous_Bed2566@reddit
We had to have our jumper but we did not have to wear it
joehighlord@reddit (OP)
I was lucky. Mine never had ties or blazers. Just short sleeves and a jumper for winter.
I run hot so can't remember but I think I used to get told off about never wearing the jumper in winter.
Jimquill@reddit
Boggles the mind to think about now. Rules for rules sake.
godsavedonalduck@reddit
Control and power.
They don't need it in other countries in the world apart from like 3, why should we need it here? Oh because we're one of the richest countries in the world although our economy feels similar to Moldova so kids can't afford nice clothes? Wouldn't this be the same in countries like uganda? 😅 It feels Draconian wearing a blazer and tie ties up to the top and shirt tucked in just to sit learning about useless shit you'll never actually need in life.
Non uniform schools do exist, something I'd consider if I was a parent.
Funicular-@reddit
I'm so glad I went to a school that didn't have a uniform. It's so much better to be able to wear what you like and have abit of individually.
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