Resigned from a Sr Staff DS role last week to build full-time. I cant sleep anymore

Posted by Obvious_Gap_5768@reddit | ExperiencedDevs | View on Reddit | 45 comments

I am a Sr. Staff Data Scientist at a large public company. Good comp, good manager, good WLB. I'd been building things on the side for about a year with my wife. Open source dev tool an edtech product, and a hackathon project that got traction.

None of them replacing my salary but all of them taking more of my brain than my day job was. I submitted my resignation last week, currently serving notice.

The fear has got worse after resigning, not before. When it was a side project there was nothing at stake. Now there is. The salary comparison is brutal. I keep opening a spreadsheet that tells me I'm fine on runway and then feeling not fine anyway.

Enterprise interest exists. I've had calls with companies that have 500+ engineers, signed an NDA with one. But enterprise sales as a two-person team is a pipeline management problem I have zero muscle for. A single POC can take 8 weeks before any code runs.

The part I got right was starting while employed. Eight months of overlap where I built the core product nights and weekends. Would not have had the conviction to quit cold.

Would love any suggestions you might have, I am just feeling very anxious