Approaching Leaving a Job Early (<1 Year)
Posted by Shehzman@reddit | ExperiencedDevs | View on Reddit | 18 comments
4 YOE and currently have 8 months at my current company (second job). I had no initial plans to leave my current company. However, a former coworker reached out about a higher paying role (\~20% base bump + RSUs for the first time in my career), referred me, and I just got the offer. I’m most likely going to take it, but I feel really guilty about leaving my current company after only less than a year. I’d like to stay 2-3 years typically, but this opportunity was too good to pass up for me.
I like my current coworkers and my project manager, but I see that the seeds of mismanagement are starting to be planted for our current project. Internal software is a new concept to this company and upper management sees us as a cost center. This alone isn’t abnormal, but it’s to the point that they’re already complaining about the project budget and one of the ways my PM considered reducing it is by cutting engineering hours spent on the project. The project is less than a year old. Also, upper management just dictates what we work on next despite no experience with software engineering management while my PM does. The issue with this is that we’re constantly having to shift focus onto superfluous stuff (mainly UI enhancements but it sometimes involves updates across the full stack) that makes them happy instead of focusing on building a solid foundation before working on this stuff. My manager has tried to work with them, but it’s proved futile so far. Long term, I have my doubts about the project success if this continues and so does my PM.
Despite all of this, I want to ensure that it’s still a smooth process for them before I leave. Current strategy is to write as much documentation as I can for what I’ve worked on, set my start date to a week after our initial release of the application (already did this), and offer a potential backfill for my role. Would love to hear some other strategies to consider as I’m going to break the news later this week. Would prefer not to burn the bridge but I wouldn’t be surprised if I do.
Idea-Aggressive@reddit
If you like your current company stay. Not always green elsewhere for 20% more which will go on taxes
Shehzman@reddit (OP)
I have my doubts on my current project success long term due to upper management meddling. Also, I’ve had coworkers tell me about some issues they’ve personally had with upper management.
Don’t have a full picture of this new company, but the former coworker that referred me really likes it there (he’s been there for almost 2 years) and the answers I got around culture during the interview process were satisfactory.
Idea-Aggressive@reddit
You made your mind, so why even bother to ask
Haunting_Rope_8332@reddit
Felt guilty leaving my previous job after 8 months, so I understand where you're coming from. When I decided to move on, my manager was reasonable about the situation, but I still made sure to leave a solid knowledge transfer document and offered assistance with backfilling my role. What worked for me might not work for everyone, but it's worth considering. (Typos: "felt" should be "felted", "situation" should be "sittuational") Note: The comment is written in the first person, sharing a relatable experience and offering specific advice related to the
Available-Thing-7061@reddit
They would not hesitate to get rid of you when convenient, you do whats best for you.
Possible-Pirate9097@reddit
You're comparing apples and oranges unless you work somewhere that stack ranks - companies generally don't continually replace employees because they think they can get a better one.
Shehzman@reddit (OP)
True and while this has rung through my mind, it’s mainly just the timing. If it was a year+ then I wouldn’t care as much.
Available-Thing-7061@reddit
You are almost at 1y, that does not look bad as opposed to something like 4-6 months.
Its absolutely not an issue as long as your resume is not full of such tenures
Shehzman@reddit (OP)
This will be my third job and my first one was for 3 years. Hoping to stay at this one for a while cause it seems like a solid tech firm and the stock is climbing atm.
Available-Thing-7061@reddit
In that case, dont worry honestly, no one will even bat an eye.
livando1@reddit
You’re a nice person. I’m not special, you’re not special, leaving a company after a short stint for significantly more compensation is not special either.
Take the new job. Be kind, professional and do your two weeks before you leave.
Vivid_Fan9346@reddit
IMO, a short stint early career is no big deal. It'll be something you'll get asked about if it becomes a pattern.
Just leave on good terms. Document and offboard your current work and knowledge like you're planning.
OverclockingUnicorn@reddit
Just don't make a habit of it and nobody (who matters) will care
farzad_meow@reddit
just politely tell them that you got an offer that is giving you a lot of money and you can’t pass it up.
last time I did that they understood and worked with me to document my projects for the next person.
ps don’t feel bad, making choices to benefit you is important than keeping others happy.
nana_3@reddit
You know you’re not doing anything wrong, right? You’re way overthinking it.
Just tell them a really good job opportunity fell into your lap and you have to take it.
You don’t have to set a good end date for them, or pre-plan your handover and off boarding. Pick an end date that works for you. Just give your notice period, thank them for the opportunity and ask them about their handover procedures.
Oakw00dy@reddit
If your current company thought you were irreplaceable, they would've paid you more. Unless you've got a contract that says otherwise, you owe them nothing. If you're feeling nice, give them an hourly rate for consulting services if they've got questions after you've gone.
CombativeCherry@reddit
It's not personal, its business. Do what's best for you.
Don't actively screw your current co-workers over, try to hand things over in a good way, tell your colleagues you liked working with them.
But absolutely put yourself first.
FaradayPhantom@reddit
Take it and don’t feel guilty. This economy is nuts and if you have an offer, take advantage of it.