lad (or lass) post COVID nobody goes out and socializes anymore, and gen Z is profoundly damaged in how they interact with each other. If you look into it they are wildly socially disabled. Couple this with the absence of third spaces in general and places to loiter, and dating apps EXISTING and the casual hookups people have enjoyed since the 1950s longer exist. The apps present a 'there's always a better option' world that is fantasy and are engineered not to make functional pairs so that people keep relying on the dating app.

There is also the whole, shitloads of women now have absolutely zero interest in casual sex like they used to due to seemingly more hostile options for lays (and therefore unattractive) due to the explosion of the redpill and the risk of pregnancy just not being worth it.

People are dying because if a pregnancy goes septic, medical care is denied regardless. The whole corpse incubator thing also turned a lot of women off, to say the least of whats going on in their world. Its just not appealing to have casual sex for a significant portion of them like they used to. You kind of need a significant portion of women to be in on the casual sex for lots of casual heterosexual sex.

You might look fine, but you won't find any opportunities like you used to back in the day. Not now. No, demisexuality is not normal. Though if you're the type of person to instantly say something like you commented in a conversation, your personality might be unattractive or off putting. Nobody finds someone who is too self conscious or self loathing attractive. It's a non-starter for the majority of people. Nobody wants to ONS someone they need to reassure or emotionally tiptoe around.

I'm not sure if that helps but most people who are worried about how they are viewed appreciate honesty.