Falling in love with a place on vacation and wanting to move there can be caused by the subtlety of car free, not cooking, or cleaning.

Posted by HalfwaydonewithEarth@reddit | expats | View on Reddit | 121 comments

I have noticed a trend that someone goes on vacation to Europe, Japan, cruise life, or other functioning societies and wants to expat away from the USA forever. Let me explain my interpretation:

I have been lucky to travel to Europe every year for 17 years. Sometimes twice. My total around the globe is 34 countries in 4 continents. So here is some commentary on expat wanderlust.

When you are on vacation coming from the USA you get to experience car free living. Maybe you take taxis or public transportation. Maybe you can just walk everywhere or rent a bicycle.

The other aspect is eating out. You probably didn't cook very much and ate at cute cafes, bakeries, street vendors, and restaurants.

Then your hotel probably had a maid.

You were separated from your work, neighbors, family, in-laws, and weekly bills.

You also might have experienced safe streets and refined people.

So this subtle combination was an escape from your daily dishes.

Switching countries can be smart. I am just pointing out that people sometimes are weighted down by possessions and seek to be free from possessions... that might be the draw to expat. Really examine it.

People down in St. Theresa Costa Rica seemed to be happy expats. They get $400 rent and only need an ATV. It's the car free beach that calls them. That's a noble calling.