Best place in Europe to find work?

Posted by fernandagrace@reddit | expats | View on Reddit | 28 comments

Hello, I am 29 years old and I have been living in Japan for almost 8 years. Having grown up in the Philippines beforehand, in time I have realized it is very difficult for me to settle and thrive in Japan, given the 'polished/tatemae' culture where there are so many unspoken rules, unreasonable steps, lack of openness, and general inflexibility in a lot of things. My career has also been more or less stagnant as an entry-level hotel staff and ESL teacher because of language barriers. I have tried learning Japanese for years, but have trouble assimilating. Although Japan is so convenient and realitvely safer, I realized the culture here – the gender inequality, the lack of deeper social interactions, toxic work culture, and terrible mental health systems – is not something I can see myself settling into. I deeply feel like time seems to pass by quickly and I have just been surviving throughout the years, fell into deep depression twice, and also developed health issues.

I am almost 30 and I'm thinking of the next steps to further my career, income, and quality of life. I fear that the longer I stay here the more I will be stuck. I graduated with a Humanities degree but have little to no job experience directly related to it. The bulk of my work experience has been in entry-level jobs in the English education and hospitality industries. My hope is to shift to a career where I can grow my skills, move to mid-level career, earn more, and feel less stuck/paralyzed/anxious.

I am thinking of either taking a vocational program in Spain (because of the price, warmer culture, and maybe easier language to learn) or saving up for a Master's degree in the UK (I know this is not EU anymore sorry for the misleading title)..I don't have much other paid options to try in the interm due to financial difficulties. Every money I save goes towards the next step.

My fear is if I move to Spain, I am not sure of my career options or of how well I would be able to get by while taking the vocational program. If I get a Master's in the UK, it's also the same problem plus I don't know how longer I would have to stay in Japan to save up for the exorbitant student visa.

What do you think? Are there other countries or pathways I should take into consideration? Thank you and I would appreciate your comments.