7 years in… I’m tired, boss
Posted by East_History1325@reddit | Truckers | View on Reddit | 78 comments
The longer I stay in this industry, the more I realize trucking doesn’t really have a “driver shortage.”
It has a burnout culture.
The lifestyle slowly drains people mentally, physically, and emotionally and a lot of companies normalize it like it’s just part of the job.
Constant pressure.
Constant monitoring.
Constant rushing.
Bad sleep.
Terrible food options.
Isolation for days or weeks at a time.
Always being on a clock.
And after a while you stop feeling like a human being and start feeling like a machine that’s falling behind production numbers.
What really gets me is other industries openly talk about burnout, work-life balance, and mental health now.
Meanwhile trucking still has this attitude of:
“Be a man/woman. Figure it out. Keep driving.”
Then companies act confused when drivers become angry, unhealthy, detached, exhausted, or quit altogether.
I’ve realized recently a lot of drivers aren’t lazy or weak.
They’re just burnt out and mentally overloaded from living this lifestyle year after year.
Thanks for reading my rant…
LastMongoose7448@reddit
Gotta expand your horizons. I have no idea how guys do OTR for years and years.
SaltyyFries@reddit
Fr. Im only a year in OTR and heavily searching for other gigs. I couldnt imagine doing this for 15+ years
Vast_Obligation8213@reddit
I'm just doing otr for the 30month requirement that walmart has for hiring. I think most just do otr for the experience requirements that alot of the good jobs require
Panakinn@reddit
Same 14 months in and im already burnt out. Plus the money isn't even all that great compared to what you go through AND how much you spend a week just food and supplies. This shit is for the birds.
Signal-Perspective65@reddit
Hell, I'm 4 months in and I'm going back to being a garbo. Kids aren't coping with me being away and I can make almost the same money for less hours and being home every night.
ImaginaryCatDreams@reddit
You need to be shopping at Walmart and living out of your truck, not spending money in truck stops.
Gonzotrucker1@reddit
Live like a bum and throw your life away for the company you mean.
Panakinn@reddit
I get it but realistically its not that simple.
oneshadeoff@reddit
It really really is
LastMongoose7448@reddit
I mean, it kinda is…
ComprehensiveNail416@reddit
20 years of trucking and still never done OTR. At this point I probably never will
Frito_Penndejo@reddit
Same 20 years here and not even a single lay over, did food arrive for a while which has its own problems but I deliver groceries to stores now and it's great.
SnowCat6969@reddit
Im currently 2nd year local and have met many drivers with 10 plus years that have never done otr even a newer driver with 4 years also has never done otr so the local jpbs are out their you just have to look for em
Gonzotrucker1@reddit
30 years next month and I only did it for two years in the beginning, and I knew right away it was a scam to steal my wages.
Jaycool10@reddit
You've been blessed 🙌🏾
Bagzthehoney@reddit
Say the same thing only time I’ve been OTR when I was running my own authority an even still I did one state over. Wasn’t about to kill myself trying to be a super trucker
No_Teaching_8273@reddit
I Do car hauling and it's a new challenge everyday , there's never a dull Moment . It's great exercise , Great money. Longest I'm Gone is 3-4 days that's if I do North east's to the south
ImaginaryCatDreams@reddit
I worked for a company where once I was in the system I ran nothing but Coast to Coast, solo, drop and hook. I loved that part of the job and would do it for weeks on end. It was getting from home back into the right loads, and then getting the right load to get home that was the pain.
I parked my tractor in my backyard, first night I was home and the night I left I spent in the truck.
Few_Jacket845@reddit
Hey, how far out are you from your delivery?
Kidding. Yeah, I can't imagine how OTR guys do it. My body hurts enough just doing local.
JOliverScott@reddit
"you have gps tracking, why don't you tell me..."
Fli_fo@reddit
Actually it's respectful they ask it, since it gives me a chance to include some planned break etc into my ETA.
JOliverScott@reddit
As long as they ask respectfully not accusatively
Few_Jacket845@reddit
I'd go nuts hearing anyone actually ask me this consistently.
HighwayStar71@reddit
Deh deh deh deh deh BEEP deh deh deh deh BEEP "Increase following distance" deh deh deh deh BEEP BEEP
ThaQuig@reddit
FaStEn SeAtBeLt SeCuReLy
DreamsServedSoft@reddit
bro just wear your seatbelt
WallaWallaby011@reddit
"shut the fuck up bitch!" Lolol at my last jobs safety meeting they had to tell everyone to stop yelling at the lady robot voice 😭😂🤣
jecastro_2000@reddit
I am lucky the first job I got when I got my CDL 2 years ago was a local gig doing belly dumps. 8-10 hour shifts daily and Monday-Friday. Sometimes Saturdays depending how busy it is for our mixer plants. I got EXTREMELY LUCKY cause OTR would of caused a divorce.
Odd-Tangerine-257@reddit
i'm thinking of working for the russians for a year straight to save like 80k then going to nursing school 🥴
Odd-Tangerine-257@reddit
i love being otr but after gaining like 50 pounds i realize it's pretty hard to stay in shape and my sleep schedule is all fucked. I didn't even wanna do local but now i'm considering it just so i have a regular workout schedule and go to the gym again or just leaving trucking altogether and going back to healthcare where i can easily take 20k steps a day.
Dangerous_Ad1115@reddit
I only lasted 6 years because of everything you mentioned. 01-08.
r_s-nsfw@reddit
We can't even talk about mental health issues or they'll make renewing your Fed-Med card a living hell.
valboots@reddit
I like operations that have variety. Wanna go OTR for a bit? We have work. Want a steady schedule but still stay out on the road for a week? That's okay, we got you covered. Want to be home every day? We have that too! Unfortunately, there's alot of gatekeeping in our industry, similar to the trades. Unless you know someone, you're not going to get in.
Alarmed-Internet4135@reddit
I’m local and burnt out. Working 5 12 hour shifts a week and then drive 45 minutes home doesn’t leave much for a life. But I can’t find anything else with my skill set that pays 100k a year. So it’s just a sacrifice I have to make.
SnowCat6969@reddit
Maybe dont worry about making 100k and find something closer to home with less hours or move and find a job that you dont constantly put in 12 hour days
Alarmed-Internet4135@reddit
I got a family to support.
SnowCat6969@reddit
People support familys with 30k a year if your not happy where your at its up to you to change it or embrace the suck
IamRNG@reddit
the people supporting families off of 30k are either scamming the system's government assistance, or live in some podunk town in a flyover state.
NoRelation1491@reddit
No no no no, TAX PAYERS support those families. People living below the poverty line, their lives fucking SUCK, been there done that.
NoRelation1491@reddit
Get out of OTR........
firemarshalbill316@reddit
Trucking is a weird profession. I pays well for what you do but stealthily steal other more important things from you that you don't notice till later... your time and health.
I've learned to manage my own time not the dispatchers BS. Be firm and about what you will and won't do. "No" is a complete sentence. If they can't handle it be willing to walk away.
I know everyone isn't in that position but you REALLY need to stand up for yourself in this industry. Don't be a dick but also don't be a Jerry.
It's a good career as long as you have plans past doing it for the rest of your life. Work on your finances and watch how much leverage you get from being able to say NO.
Try to save up 6-months of living expenses minimum. You'll be grateful you did.
Quiet_Molasses_3362@reddit
Because companies realized 20 + years ago it was cheaper to bring in newbs than to pay for experience. Longer you in the industry the less value you have.
Fli_fo@reddit
Exactly. Driver shortage is a way to get governments to fund the CDL school.
Or to get people to think there's a great carreer in trucking, so they put their own savings into getting a CDL
JOliverScott@reddit
Absolutely this. Great Moments in Unanticipated Consequences when the government thought they were solving one problem by encouraging carriers to train new drivers became an incentive to actively churn through drivers to bolster their profit margins with high turnover and fresh blood coming through their CDL mills.
Fli_fo@reddit
Trucking is just like the trades. We are the modern day peasants.
Carpenters, plumbers, car mechs etc nobody gets open talk about burnout, work-life balance, and mental health.
The most important thing is work for a company that has some human decency. And give it your best but also communicate clearly about when it gets too much.
I have to say I'm out of trucking myself. Because truck drivers themselves are their worst enemies. They all feel so cool working so hard never taking a break. They don't work together for worker rights.
Lopsided-Bath-8404@reddit
Seriously . 😒 it’s burnout culture for sure
Gonzotrucker1@reddit
That’s just trucking long hours is normal , and you can make $1500 a week for 1000 of work, lol
_877-CASH-NOW_@reddit
That’s what I try to explain to people wanting to get into trucking, particularly OTR. It isn’t just a job. It’s an entire lifestyle. Honestly it suits me but I’m in the vast minority. This lifestyle is not for most.
You can do a lot with your experience man. Look for LTL or line haul jobs. Many line haul pays well, is unionized, you do a regular route, and you’re fine every day. You’ll probably have to run doubles but it’s more of a “job” than a lifestyle where you live out of a box. You have enough experience now where you can get into just about anything you want.
OrdinarySalary@reddit
I’ve only been at it for 3 years, local and otr. I just don’t enjoy it anymore. I’m getting ready to go back to school for x ray tech
Parking_Exit2297@reddit
I’m burnt out lately been out here 39 years usually take vacation every 6 months but haven’t yet I’m sooo fucking tired
JOliverScott@reddit
Yup, by my ten year mark I was up to quarterly vacations just for my sanity. Fortunately my carrier was flexible like that but this is absolutely a terrible industry overall for recognizing that driver burnout is real yet no method of dealing with it.
Baconated-Coffee@reddit
Skilled trades that require a CDL are better than trucking.
LilFunyunz@reddit
Like crane operators?
wavy_moltisanti@reddit
I second that motion
JOliverScott@reddit
This is absolutely true. The 'driver shortage' narrative is just a smokescreen to hide this ugly truth. In any other industry the same kinds of expectations and schedules would result in nationwide strikes and even fifty years ago when the trucking industry was much more organized this occurred. Unfortunately since that time the erosion of fraternity has coincided with the erosion of respect for the industry's labor force causing drivers to feel more helpless to change the situation. Unless drivers figure out how to organize and act with a sense of unity then expect nothing to change.
SexMachine666@reddit
I've been at it 22 years and I am absolutely sick of it, lol, but nothing pays as much as it does and I have a family to support and bills to pay.
I have to take a lot of time off and it's never enough but if I didn't take the time off I do I'd probably just start running assholes off the road 🤣
Jaycool10@reddit
On Point! Rant! Best Wishes!
sbcountydweller@reddit
I want out too. I find it hard finding something to get back into or start fresh. Seems like im looking in the wrong areas for opportunities. Idk. Hopefully soon. I want a life back
Chariotgirl3@reddit
I’m 3 months in at my first trucking job, really looking forward to when I hit the two year mark so I can move states and try to find a company hiring for locals. I kinda love OTR cause I like roaming the country but the lack of social life is really fucking with me, some days worse than others. I do make a point of doing a lot of meal prep and skipping lunch so I’ve actually started losing weight but I can definitely understand why so many truckers are in bad shape cause of the job
overtly_undercover@reddit
If you want to be home but make a bit less(depending on experience and what not) Hauling aggregate. You may even learn how to operate equipment if you have a good company. Some other options include fuel hauling. Crude usually goes from point a to point b so it is a consistent route and time off.
ConsciousAwareness69@reddit
The grass ISNT greener on the other side driver. Keep the wheels rolling
Wadester58@reddit
With the SCOTUS ruling today I think some changes are coming slow but CH Robinson fought hard to preserve their immunity from culpability in doling out cheap freight. Now they can be held just as responsible as the carrier. The carriers now have a some leverage in negotiating rates this is just my opinion from 50yrs of being in the industry
Ill_Aside_5662@reddit
I like my regional job, home every 36 hours. I wouldn't go back OTR again, local also sucks imo. You just gotta find out what works for you. Local work was work 16 hours and only have 8 hours of off time including going home, eating, commute to the yard and spending time with family.
Lower_Skin_3683@reddit
Yes. I worked local 12 hours then went to 14. I was tired all the time.
WallaWallaby011@reddit
Damn! I never work more than 10-11 hours at my local gig! I shuttle between warehouses and I never have to double drop!
ursisterstoy@reddit
A bit over two years OTR and it depends. Right now I have 2:41:56 on my 70 and it’s just before 20:40 central time. Get 11:07:03 on recaps at midnight. I need to start my shift as soon as my current hours will last barely until midnight so I get my recaps while I’m driving to be on time for the delivery. Luckily next one less strict because I’m bringing it from South Carolina to Indiana as a relay someone else is going to deliver and it doesn’t deliver until Monday. Maybe I’ll have a chance to sleep and drive in the day time .
RanarrSmokerr@reddit
Idk man i think this shit is easy, but also I come from doing manual labor. Former arborist / landscape crew lead
Vaguechicanery@reddit
At this point the only thing that burns me out are other drivers.
Professional-Ask-112@reddit
I feel you! I get the burned out feeling like every 6 months. Being ran hard, triple stacked loads.. but I get on a cruise twice a year and it’s been bearable. This is year 9 for me
Solid_Yak9109@reddit
It's not a life 4 everyone
Lower_Skin_3683@reddit
I drove 5 years OTR. Then 19 years local. It sucks either way. I got out.
Jimlee1471@reddit
Been driving lower 48 and Canada for close to 17 years. It is possible to maintain your health and sanity while OTR but I'd be a liar if I said it was easy. It really does take effort to do it. And, even after all that effort, it still doesn't work for everyone; that's why I don't give anybody a hard time if they decide to hang up their keys. Even I get really close to burnout every so now and then.
Rich-Broccoli7085@reddit
Trucking is a job thats only exhausting if you make it exhausting or work for a company that makes it exhausting.
Good thing about trucking is theres thousands of trucking companies and eventually youll find one that works for you.
timbocf@reddit
This. Its the best since I'm in LA traffic a lot. PLUS I'm home on weekends. God is good!
dragongamer365@reddit
This hit so close to home. I moved into the office because iwas getting so burned out. I have a passion for training people and helping them become the best drivers they can be but I just can't be a full time driver anymore. My company still has me move freight at least once a quarter and that is enough for me to remember why ino longer want to be a full time driver again.
Cardinal_350@reddit
I was tired too at 7 years. 18 years after that I'm still tired.
mterry1@reddit
I just wanna salute you for doing OTR for 7 years 🫡
hellbillyjoker@reddit
OTR is soul sucking generally explains why they farm out so much to immigrant drivers who are so desperate for anything they'll work slave wages.
I did my year and got the absolute fuck out. Got a pretty solid gig. Not great but keeps a roof over my head and they've been accommodating for my medical issues.
Now that im home every night at a local gig I could never go back. Especially since I got a 15 month old at home, I couldn't take being away for 2 or 3 weeks then only getting more or less 3 days at home.