What is the correct etiquette when a lap dance is finished?

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Classic-Wafer-7838@reddit

I've always wondered this, too. I'm a woman, and I've never had a lap dance, but I fear I'm more like Mark from Peep Show than I'd like to admit, and I'd probably have a very similar internal dialogue to the one he had in that situation.

I think I'd have shaken your hand, though, if I'd been the stripper. Our business was satisfactorily concluded, a hand shake seems appropriate!

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minipainteruk@reddit

"£30. I saw her foof." Is possibly the funniest thing I've ever read on reddit. Thank you, OP.

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pointlesstips@reddit

Is foof a commonly used word in English for the bits? It's the first time I've seen it.

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dismaldunc@reddit

foof at the the front, doof at the rear. The bit between the two is the "'twernt" (coz if it 'twernt there, the ladies innards would fall out) Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

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pointlesstips@reddit

And where in England is this from?

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dismaldunc@reddit

well im from the north west....

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minipainteruk@reddit

I've definitely heard it used before but I wouldn't say it was common. But if you were to say "I saw her foof", everyone would know what you meant!

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HMS_Hexapuma@reddit

It's the beauty of the English language. It may be common, it may not, it may belong to a particular subsection of the population in a particular region... But you knew what he meant. If people like the word and keep using it then it will be adopted as an English word. If they do not then it will vanish.

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FluffyMumbles@reddit

Same here. I've now got a fit of the giggles 🤣😂

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TomAtkinson3@reddit

and insisted I got a lap dance and that my SISTER - of all people

Genuinely terrified where this was going for a brief moment

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garry_baldi@reddit

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Definitely the start of a ‘Daily Sport’ headline in there somewhere.

“My sister bought me a lap dance at my stag do…turns out it was an ALIEN!”

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kliccit@reddit

I was thinking something alot worse than rhat tbh

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StIvian_17@reddit

“An alien bought me a lap dance at my stag do….turns out it was my sister!”?

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lapsongsue@reddit

Wincey Willis giving Gordon Honeycomb a bumpkin?

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Kezmangotagoal@reddit

No mate, I think most of us thought you were about to say it was your sister waiting for you in the room lmao

Alls well that ends well I guess!

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cyclopentanone111@reddit

Little monkey fella

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

“She ‘ad proper ‘airy arms n’tha…turns out…”

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Can’t believe I never thought of that originally…

Ooooo chimpanzee-that….MONKEY NEWS, YE FUCKING…CUUUUAAHNNNTS

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Breakfast_Bob_@reddit

Play a record, I need to have a word with you off air

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Severus_1987@reddit

Say ‘thanks that was great’ and walk out so she can get dressed in peace. Then get her back in there again

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handtoglandwombat@reddit

https://youtu.be/QzeFYkNw35Q?t=132&si=E3h4rZkhTgCTYCIt

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bloodandglory31@reddit

Went on a lads night out 20yrs ago and almost straight after entering a club that happened to employer dancers that lost their clothes, a mate looked visibly shaken. One of the dancers chatting to members of our group in one corner was his cousin. Several members bought dances just to wind him up!

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saccerzd@reddit

I went with a group of work colleagues a long time ago and one of my work mates had a dance from his next door neighbour (similar age) who he'd grown up with

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bloodandglory31@reddit

“So, erm, good to see you. Which bin day is it tomorrow?”

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heroics-delta8s@reddit

From bonfluencer to onlybins….

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HugeElephantEars@reddit

At my brother's stag, my very old and very awkward dad apparently politely dried the strippers boob with his extremely crusty very used handkerchief after doing a tequila shot off of her. Apparently. I was not there as I'm a woman. I hope no one bought the old fart a lapdance.

Fucking hell dad. Gross. Use a clean handkerchief.

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trmetroidmaniac@reddit

That is in fact the right thing to do.

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Lopsided_Snower@reddit

does you sister dislike your fiancé?

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caketaster@reddit

I had a lap dance once, the girl flicked her hair back and it went right in my eye. Bloody stung!

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YogurtConstant@reddit

I believe you sit up awkwardly straight, slap both hands on your thighs and say "right!" and then start looking around for your coat.

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Deep_Top8433@reddit

“A wank, I think.”

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C-i-d@reddit

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Bifanarama@reddit

Gosh, is that really the time?

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ddgk2_@reddit

If you're tired....sleep. If you're hungry...eat. If you're toey.....

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blitzwig@reddit

"I only came in for a frame fitting"

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WildKey9307@reddit

@verybritishproblems !

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travelingwhilestupid@reddit

Whelp

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

I think this is the only correct answer.

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Due_Resolution2634@reddit

get up without properly straitening your back and walk off whilst grumbling about how your back is sore until you are out of anyones eyeline.

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Psychological-Fox97@reddit

Just one of the reasons strip clubs baffle me tbh.

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D0wnb0at@reddit

Same. Cause it’s a thing you do with your mates for like stag dos and stuff, but it’s like, cool, naked women who I can’t touch, can pay them to dry hump me and still can’t touch.

It’s like sat around with your mates watching porn. It’s weird, and uncomfortable.

Cool for a young lad, cause “look, boobs, lol” but the whole thing is just weird for me.

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squigs@reddit

I quite like the observation by CS Lewis. I think the Striptease shows he was talking about were a bit different from modern strip clubs but the principle is the same.

"You can get a large audience together for a strip-tease act—that is, to watch a girl undress on the stage. Now suppose you came to a country where you could fill a theatre by simply bringing a covered plate on to the stage and then slowly lifting the cover so as to let every one see, just before the lights went out, that it contained a mutton chop or a bit of bacon, would you not think that in that country something had gone wrong with the appetite for food?"

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bornfromanegg@reddit

Isn’t that just what TV food shows are?

If people were not interested in that, then yeah, maybe I’d think something had gone wrong.

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Double_Jab_Jabroni@reddit

To be fair, I don’t think TV food shows were a thing when CS Lewis said that…

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Beautifly@reddit

I like this analogy because it definitely highlights what is wrong with society, but on the flip side, people would go to watch a cooking show

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TeHNeutral@reddit

According to the episode of Midnight Diner I watched, this is what japanese strip clubs are like. Small theatres full of men watching a woman strip in the middle.

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paulmclaughlin@reddit

I'm imagining that being dialogue from Aslan

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Even after the dance, I’d have DEFINITELY rather of had the money.

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JK07@reddit

My mate paid for one for me when he dragged a group of us into Blue Velvet one night. I'd definitely had rathered money, what a surreal and uncomfortable experience it was!
When it finished I just said "Err... Thanks..." And went back to my seat, necked my pint and went straight to the bar for another.

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GetNooted@reddit

Bet the pints were £20 each too

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ToshPott@reddit

Cheers for that, off for a slash

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yourefunny@reddit

Well my mate got wanker off by two of them on the stage at a strip club in Phuket... He then turned and bowed to the crowd... So maybe that.

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EveningHere@reddit

Life goals. Fair play.

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candystoreheather@reddit

I'll offer you a serious reply: you smile, tell her that was amazing, hand her an extra fiver* and leave her to get dressed. Then you go back and tell your friends she was great and if they want to know more they should go get one for themselves.

*Optional.

But a good lap dancer should cut through the awkwardness. Or even offer to not give you a lapdance if you'd prefer and just chat with you for the three minutes.

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

What?! A chat?!

Does that happen?

“Watch the footy last night?” “Nahhh, me neither…”

I feel guilty now for not being more appreciative.

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MateMasterScot@reddit

When I was 18 I got into a strip club. She could tell I was nervous and offered to talk with me, about anything I wanted. My first thought?

"So what do you do for work?"

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EveningHere@reddit

“Come here often?”

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powderedtoastman44@reddit

“You see, the problem with Arsenal is that they try to walk it in…”

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coelakanth@reddit

Did you see that ludicrous display last night

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EvilMonkey1965@reddit

What was Wenger thinking?

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Revolutionary_Sir476@reddit

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witandlearning@reddit

I’ve had guys go for 30 minute plus dances (so minimum £120) where I didn’t take any clothes off and we sat and talked the whole time. One guy I actually put more clothes on, he liked girls in satin-y robes

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nanakapow@reddit

Did you see that ludicrous display last night?

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candystoreheather@reddit

Get the right dancer and she'll chat about anything from football to politics to investments to theatre, tech or taxes.

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Postik123@reddit

I did get one chatting to me once and I told her under no uncertain terms that I would not be paying for a dance because I'm too tight fisted and my partner would be angry.

She talked to me for about 10 minutes saying how she wanted to get into making websites. She knew some of the lingo which makes me think it might have been legit. Then at the end she said she had to get on with work and we parted ways.

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candystoreheather@reddit

Lapdancers are people too. Sure, some are hopeless cases but there are plenty of people who you would never suspect - teachers, legal professionals, web designers, healthcare professionals - and tons of students.

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jizzyjugsjohnson@reddit

Or tug your cock

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Yung_Cheebzy@reddit

If you can’t sum up your lap dance in one sentence then your aims are too diffuse.

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paradeoxy1@reddit

My aims are not too fucking diffuse!

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MattGeddon@reddit

This is a very serious business proposal, I couldn’t possibly sum up *all* the aims in one line

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RogueTrooper1975@reddit

This really should not be allowed... This is what men want, and we shouldn't be allowed to have it because it's horrible and it makes you feel sick

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Icy_Gap_9067@reddit

Great, now I'm getting an angry lapdance.

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TheKnightsRider@reddit

I will give you 5 stars on stripadvisor. Can you stamp my card? I think the next dance is free

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TheLordJalapeno@reddit

Fucking ‘Stripadvisor’ 🤣🤣🤣

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mdmnl@reddit

I really worry stripadvisor is going to fly under too many radars. That's brilliant.

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CarpeCyprinidae@reddit

I assume its commercial rival is bonking dot com

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Darnit_the_other_one@reddit

Hairbnb dot com

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CarpeCyprinidae@reddit

I assume its commercial rival is bonking.com

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Legitimate-Ad3778@reddit

If I only have a debit card, do I have to put it in the slot?

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snakeoildriller@reddit

Damn! My card's been swallowed!

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Inevitable-Debt4312@reddit

Just swipe, surely?

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figwithbigtits@reddit

You'll have to use contactless, no insertion is allowed

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mellonians@reddit

It's not a stamp card its got a vag stripe on the back. Don't ask where you swipe it.

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butterypowered@reddit

Still using vag stripe? She must be ancient. Most are chip and peen these days.

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mellonians@reddit

Clit and peen?

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Visa5e@reddit

*runs off to register that domain*

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Maylian81@reddit

At my brother in law's stag, he requested I join him and we get a double dance. Most awkward 5/10 mins of my life.....

Then we come out to find the rest of our very nerdy group talking to the girls about AI and how their jobs would be safe. I can't comment on if that was good etiquette or not 😂

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OreoSpamBurger@reddit

Not sure about that to be honest, have you seen some of those Chinese robot sex dolls?

A little more realistic and combined with a few leaps in AI, and the human race could be facing voluntary extinction in no time.

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Iwantedalbino@reddit

At my brother in laws we’d all chipped in for a special dance where he was handcuffed to a throne on the main stage and all the dancers in the place took turns to make him go various shades of red.

He’s not nervous with women it’s just not his cup of tea at all.

I gave one of the dancers career advice. Dances were twice the price in Edinburgh and they didn’t take their pants off.

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Greedy-Ad-3779@reddit

Pro-tip, never call women, "love". It's not the 1970's and you're not Bernard Manning.

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

I’m in the north east. It’s a pleasantry here. Just like “pet”.

We don’t take offence to stuff like that.

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Greedy-Ad-3779@reddit

You'd probably get told where to go in London!

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Alien-lifeform666@reddit

Surely the British way is to say “Jolly good! Would you like a nice cup of tea?”

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AssociationGold8745@reddit

I used to think strip clubs were something I wanted to try at least once, just to see what the fuss is about, but I can think of nothing worse of sitting in the same questionably clean furniture as dozens of other sweaty randy blokes whilst a woman faking any shade of interest gets their bits uncomfortably close given the strict boundaries . (Comfortably close sharing different boundaries with a partner, of course. Standing a normal distance away and under clothes for most strangers )

Does anyone actually enjoy them?

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TheGreatBatsby@reddit

The hand shake is fantastic.

Depends, normally you just get up and walk out.

If you really enjoyed it (and are very pissed) you give her more cash and go again.

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Kiwi_Woz@reddit

Best way is ro pull out your laptop and start trying to finish your proposal for Project Zeus.

Just make sure your aims aren't too diffuse.

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NoisyGog@reddit

On my stag night out years ago, my brother dragged me into a local “gentleman’s club” and insisted I got a lap dance and that my SISTER - of all people…

Oh god, dude, no, man. Just no.

had given him money to set it up.

Oh, I see. That’s not great, but it’s substantially better.

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TheMarvelMunchkin@reddit

We all thought it was going THAT way!

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Harvsnova3@reddit

Thank you Miss. Your gyrations were adequate. Shake hands. Your etiquette was impeccable. Maybe she was new to the job.

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

“I enjoyed your vagina being on my jeans.”

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MysteriousSwitch232@reddit

Don’t rub your fanny on me.

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yingdong@reddit

These are sex people!

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cyclopentanone111@reddit

That little known B Side by The Police

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Striking_Grapefruit9@reddit

It's how he got the nickname Sting

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miscfiles@reddit

Stink

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Can I be rude….Not like that…

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afiuhb3u38c@reddit

The vagina is on the inside.

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Party_Divide_3491@reddit

Not the way she was dancing.

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AlabamaShrimp@reddit

Those words would have been correct in the situation.

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Harvsnova3@reddit

Particularly when you wrote your signature down my thigh with no hands. Well played Miss.

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super_starmie@reddit

Oh yeah, shake it madam. Capital knockers.

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Due-Comparison2016@reddit

The only time i was so high on edibles i could only notice how she was dancing ever so slightly off the beat and i wanted to tell her so badly that it made me look sad and she had to ask if everything was okay.

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wardyms@reddit

“In some cultures it’s actually polite to burp after a meal”

Same with lap dances and erections.

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GrodyWetButt@reddit

It's actually considered rude to not burp the worm after a quick lappy.

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tomuelmerson@reddit

Ask her what she thinks about the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre

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jizzyjugsjohnson@reddit

Help keeps the wolf from the door

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breaded_skateboard@reddit

Why? Does he usually drive?

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Excellent-Abies-259@reddit

For fear of being too Mark Corrigan from Peep Show

Brain - "If I'm not being forcibly removed by the bouncers. She might feel like she's not very gud at her job. Better tell her I love her and that she can't leave.".

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SupportNo9543@reddit

Aye, I had similar. At Santa Pod of all places, with extended family, good few couples etc. My missus' cousin and me had been drinking all afternoon, we were both leathered, went for a stroll and ended up at the strippers tent. He bought me one, and I loved it!, went the same as yours, however at the end, after rubbing her bits all over my jeans, she finished and asked me if I enjoyed it, I said Aye, mint, and she said 'well ive never had one like that before' I'd done nowt but sit there with my hands at my sides and enjoyed it I left the tent wondering if she'd actually been a brass.....

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xeroksuk@reddit

Brass...?

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excla1m@reddit

Older person slang for prostitute!

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xeroksuk@reddit

I'm not far off 60, never heard that one before lol

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callisstaa@reddit

Could be a Northern thing. It’s a pretty common expression imo

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Hahahaaaa

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ark19790@reddit

I think the 'love' and hand shake is a bit familiar unless you're a regular.

'Dude' and fist bump is first time etiquette.

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Kezmangotagoal@reddit

I’ve never had one tbh but I feel like I’d go for a fist bump when it’s done. I simply do not know how you can end that kind of interaction haha

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CaptainChampion@reddit

You say, "Sorry, I was asking for directions to Lap Land."

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Ambitious_Youth8943@reddit

*Flapland

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DiabolicallyOrange@reddit

Finger guns

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MeMuzzta@reddit

👉🏽ZOOP👉🏽😎

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0nce-Was-N0t@reddit

I went to a strip club once. It was an awful experience.

I was abroad for work with one of my colleagues. We arrived on the Sunday afternoon and he managed to talk me into going to one just for a drink.

We were the only people in there. When we walked in the girls were all just sat round a table having a chat. 3 of them got up just for us.

One of them started dancing in the middle, and 2 of them came over to us.

My colleague went off with one of the girls, and the other girl lost interest in me as soon as I told her I wasn't paying for a dance or a bottle if champagne and walked off. Her and the girl dancing went back and sat with the others at the table... I sat there feeling super awkward just waiting, so I finished my drink and left to wait outside.

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lostnov04@reddit

Even when single, i never understood the appeal.

Spend £££ on some stranger to sit on my lap, knowing I'm the 100th odd customer that week, and she's zero interest in anything I have to say, or even look like.

Pass.

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0nce-Was-N0t@reddit

And you just leave horny to go and join all of your mates, feeling disappointment and regret.

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Sustainable_Twat@reddit

“Thank You, Ma’am”

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Harry-666666@reddit

Thank you, mum

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minipainteruk@reddit

What kind of strip clubs are you going to?

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cdbman@reddit

His mums

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audigex@reddit

The one where he gets family discount, obviously, he’s not an idiot

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figwithbigtits@reddit

I only go to clubs that offer a senior discount, some of the models are a bit past their prime but I don't discriminate.

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Harry-666666@reddit

It was a riff on previous comment based on OP’s brother arranging it & sister paying for it. Keep it in the family and all that.

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HizzlePizzle@reddit

thank em

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Remarkable-Volume615@reddit

I just say that was great and move on. 🤷🏽‍♂️

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jsharp85@reddit

Start crying hysterically and scream “what have I done!!”

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jsharp85@reddit

Maybe silence for a good 5 seconds, then a quiet “ew”

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Own-Pen3465@reddit

You wipe and put your penis back in your trousers

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Western_Froyo6627@reddit

"She was hoying her ... Bits all over me Jeremy! What was I supposed to bloody say?"

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TobsterVictorSierra@reddit

"I know you only did all that for money, but I think we've got a meaningful connection. What are you doing tomorrow?"

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Rev_Biscuit@reddit

I can take you away from all this

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Dazz316@reddit

Fist bump.

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Imperfect_Complaint@reddit

Has she finished criticising your business proposal at this point?

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Andries89@reddit

"Ta that was class that"

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Lovely jubbly.

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Thinkinstuf@reddit

Lovely Jiggle, would be more relevant.

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arseyas@reddit

Apologise and leave.

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hidingbehindyoursofa@reddit

Pop off for a swift j Arthur?

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Just_A_some1@reddit

“I mean it was good, but nothing compared to mum”

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WoodpeckerDry4430@reddit

Mum here, get off the internet ya little b*llox 😈

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MobiusNaked@reddit

Well. Obviously now she is in love with you so you ask her on a date.

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Database_Reasonable@reddit

Clean up any spillages.

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t0b9@reddit

They usually kiss you on the cheek when they’re done and then you just say thanks and go to the bar.

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Gouldy444444@reddit

I read this to the Mrs and she says we have to stand up and use our hand to rate them out of ten while shouting the number like in strictly. “Seven”!!!

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Severus_1987@reddit

Say ‘thanks that was great’ and walk out so she can get dressed in peace. Then get her back in there again

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MisterIndecisive@reddit

Ask how much the extras are

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CaptainPerhaps@reddit

Stand up, salute, eyes right, and out you march.

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Zavodskoy@reddit

Definitely don't get into an argument with her about whether or not your aims are too diffuse

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Silver-Advance5276@reddit

Its rude not to offer cunnilingus prior to leaving

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ReflectionChemical71@reddit

Walk off half-crouched hiding your semi and soiled trousers.

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eralcilrahc@reddit

This is comedy gold

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allthebirdsinthesky@reddit

I'm sat reading the comments out to my partner, he's in stitches.

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Trick-Station8742@reddit

🤝

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losingit1111@reddit

Bow and leave

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Mr_Bumcrest@reddit

You drink to forget how ridiculous the whole experience is, I presume

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Eyeous@reddit

Normally correct etiquette is a high five.

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BobBobBobBobBobDave@reddit

The one time I was dragged into one of these places, I think I said "Very good, thank you very much" and left.

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Fatbollocks1994@reddit

Op if youre looking for a serious answer don't ask reddit lol, reddit is good for seeing whose quip is the funniest but you'll rarely get a straight answer.

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mdmnl@reddit

I believe nothing can go wrong if you say "I would like a bottle of your finest champagne"

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dexington_dexminster@reddit

"Sorry babes, we're all out of the Mumm, but if it's all the same, there's an old bottle of "Nasti-Sperm-Auntie" round back we've been holding onto for the more well-to-do gentleman"

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Responsible_News577@reddit

Did you see where my bottle of beer went, I seem to have misplaced it somewhere...

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flyingredwolves@reddit

"Cheers luv"

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Amositey@reddit

You just pull your tongue of her ass and then leave

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Glittering_Vast938@reddit

“Hoying”. North East?

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

Aye, haha.

Wasn’t you was it?

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Glittering_Vast938@reddit

Ha ha no!!

Just smiled at the word. Miss the north East!

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ShowmasterQMTHH@reddit

I was at my brother's stag night in Birmingham and my other brother insisted on buying me a lapdance from this lovely Russian girl. I was just sitting there on my hands (house rule) and she bent over, dropped the pants and her labia fell out of her. One side, like an elephants ear. She apologized and tried to tuck it back in.

I said "No, you're fine" and she just kept trying to tuck it in and apologizing. And like a dose I said "no, it's sexy", I don't know why I said it, trying to be polite or distracting or whatever, but she then said "you cute, you like to see more" and that was it, we just stared at each other and she packed up and went.

That was nearly as weird as one of the other dancers coughing out her tooth on top of my brother when we were on the roof hanging with some of them..

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Dependent_One6034@reddit

When the performance ended I got out of the chair, said “cheers, love…” and went to shake her hand.

You usually pay more for touching.

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Suspicious-Case3861@reddit

Who pays for strippers

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

My sister.

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hunterfam55@reddit

They usually give you a minute to settle down and leave you to it

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Itchy-Book402@reddit

Once she stopped dancing, it's normally your turn. One dance each. That's why its called Gentleman's Club, not Egocentric Club.

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Postik123@reddit

Similar to you, but I went with... a client of all people... kind of sat there for 5 minutes not really knowing what to do. I seem to recall she fingered herself, then afterwards I said thanks, got up and walked out.

Later on my friend (client) managed to get one of their phone numbers, which is expressly forbidden by the club but he always did have a way of influencing people. The number was real because he called it later on and it went to her voicemail.

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

It’s awkward as fuck but there was no insertion going on. Haha

My mate was running around like a crazed pervert looking for lasses who he’d never had a dance from. He spent about £300! We left him there. Never seen him since.

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CrispyFriedOwl@reddit

He didn't come to the wedding then?

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

He actually didn’t. Haha.

Some say he’s in the very walls of the club…

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Ok-Ship812@reddit

A lifetime ago I’m in a strip club someone outside of Houston. Anyway my buddy tips the DJ to pay Money by pink Floyd as the last song of the night as the dancer on the table complains it’s the worlds longest song.

So my mate Lena’s forward and tried to place his thumb and middle finger around she ankle.

‘What you doing babe’

‘I’m trying to fit my thumb and middle finger round your ankle’

‘Why’

‘I have a theory that if I can so that then you swallow’

……

‘Swallow what?’ She says innocently.

Ah happy days.

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Glittering_Echo_7963@reddit

What a horrible thing to do to your wife-to-be. So many engagements end because of things like these happening at stag dos. My mum's friend was full-blown cheated on, because they forced the groom with a prostitute after getting him drunk. They broke up for 6 months, lost the money for the wedding, and suffice to say she went through hell

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WonFriendsWithSalad@reddit

Er, depending on how drunk he was or how literally he was "forced" it sounds like he may have been sexually assaulted

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Glittering_Echo_7963@reddit

Yeah it was horrible, he couldn't remember anything, but it doesn't diminish how she felt. I would also have called the wedding off if it were me.

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AllThatIHaveDone@reddit

If your partner were raped on a night out, you would call of the wedding? Jesus wept...

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Glittering_Echo_7963@reddit

Emmm yeah, surely that's no good state for either of them to go through a wedding the following week?

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AllThatIHaveDone@reddit

"Call off the wedding" means cancellation, not postponement...

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crow_road@reddit

To be fair if your fiancé was raped on her hen night then probably? Not out of shame or guilt, but kind of traumatic to go into a wedding with. She would need some recovery (hopefully)?

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FornyHucker22@reddit

maybe that was the intended cover story but wifey was buying none of it 🤔

honestly tho never mind how drunk I get I still am aware of what I’m doing, maybe others are effected different 😐

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therealhairykrishna@reddit

There's quite a large gap between a lap dance and having sex with a prostitute.

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VolcanicBear@reddit

broke up for 6 months

So he fucked a prostitute on his stag do, she went through hell, then they got back together...?

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G4VV0@reddit (OP)

What?! How did this go from a private dance to prostitution? Is that what’s supposed to happen at the end?

Glad I offered her a handshake now. I’ve really dodged a bullet there, haven’t I?

Don’t worry, I told my wife the following day. She laughed.

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