What’s one of your top-tier childhood memories?
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As mundane as it sounds, I have a very, very fond memory of heading to the Co-op on a Saturday morning with my Mam, back when they had department stores rather than just convenience stores. I was probably 7 or 8.
Our local branch had a really nice cafe, that was decked out in a ‘Mediterranean‘ type theme with little tiled sloping roofs and vines hanging down. I was besotted with it. We would take our tray around, pick what we wanted to eat, and then sit together and enjoy it.
I can’t remember the food, but I loved being with her and spending our Saturday mornings together as I was practically glued to her hip, and this was one of our rituals.
I‘d love to hear yours.
Chevalitron@reddit
In the car on a coastal road close to sunset, saw dolphins leaping from the water against the orange sky. Thought I'd imagined it, but went along the same road 20 years later, saw dolphins.
gogoluke@reddit
The smell of fish and chips and petrol as I sat in my Granddad's kiosk in the summer as he filled car tanks and took payment. Everyone knew him and chatted as he worked away.
ashpotato16@reddit
It was just me and my mum for the first 8 years of my life. We'd go everywhere together. McDonald's was a huge treat that she usually couldn't afford when I'd ask. One day we found a £20 note flapping about in the street. I can still remember her telling me "come on, let's go get a McDonald's". It was like finding Willy Wonka's golden ticket and we basically skipped all the way there. This was when the upstairs would have little mushroom stools and huge colourful murals on the walls. Funny how something so small sticks with you.
Stlakes@reddit
Going to watch the rugby with my dad and my grandad. We used to have season tickets for Sale Sharks, so every Friday or Saturday night, Dad would drive us into Stockport, and park on this little side road on a hill with an insane incline. We'd park up, and walk to Edgeley Park. Dad and Grandad would have a couple of beers, I'd have a hot chocolate and we'd watch the game.
At half time, we'd stand in the bar and chat, and after the game we'd leave. I'd pester Dad to get me a burger from one of the burger vans (he never fucking would).
I loved wrapping up warm and watching the game, I loved being with the two of them, feeling like a grown up. How insanely animated and loud my grandad would get. Being in the crowd.
My absolute favorite game was in 2007, I think I was about 12. It was Jason Robinsons final game for the club, and he scored a last minute try to win. I can't remember the score, or even who they were playing, but it was the first time I'd like something the end of an era, Robinson had been a mainstay at Sale for the whole time we'd been going, and it was such a weird mix of emotions.
We stopped going a couple of years after that. I started doing different things with my Fridays and Saturdays, wanting to be more independent, like teenagers do, and I think my Grandad wasn't really bothered about going with just my dad. I'd love to go again with the two of them, but my Grandad is ninety now, and not in the best shape, so he's not up for sitting in the cold for two hours on a Friday night.
When my daughter gets a bit older, I want to start doing something similar with her and my dad. Go to the rugby, have a couple of beers with my dad, get her a hot chocolate, and stil not buy her a burger from the van outside the stadium
Wraxe95@reddit
Me, my twin brother and my friend set ourselves a challenge once on a hot summers day - that we would crawl on our hands and knees for about a mile through a mountain stream.
Always makes me grateful for having a childhood untainted by screen distractions and having to make fun with whatever you could find in the world instead
jilljd38@reddit
Anything that involved being at our caravans in rhyl , or a family party , there used to be loads of us , some have moved out of the area and most of passed away my mum is the youngest of 6 there's only her and her eldest sister left , we had amazing family holidays with aunties and uncles and cousins, when we got older we were allowed at the caravan on our own knew everyone on site and parties were the best , my grandparents house was always filled with noise everyone gathered there in winter for tea on Friday nights
Alternative-Emu9189@reddit
My primary school was a bit weird and fortunately I had a private tutor to make up for it.
We got to play rounders in summer for large parts of the afternoon most days.
Upstairs_Hope_2297@reddit
One day I remember it was raining all morning, and me and my brother were just sitting indoors watching a Goosebumps marathon on Nickleodeon. In the afternoon, it stopped raining and the sun came out. My mum decided to take us for a long walk (approx 45 mins) to get something from B&Q. There was a rainbow in the sky and the air had that distinctive fresh smell after it's been raining.
thecatsothermother@reddit
There's a name for that smell...🙂
Dazz316@reddit
Sitting in a car with a blockbuster video/DVD, a game and a hot bag of chippie suppers in my lap. Warm and stinking of vinegar. The anticipation!
TwoValuable@reddit
Going to random department store or supermarket (Knight and Lee, Debenhams, Littlewoods, Woolworths, Supermarket Cafes) and having a cafe breakfast, usually a select your own 10 piece and then sharing it with my mum and younger brother. Or going to the Somerfields and getting a saveloy from the deli counter to eat as a snack once we'd finished shopping.
Carboot sales, especially if it was a carboot we didn't go to often or if we were on a holiday and came across one. Looking round and having a burger at the end (back when burgers were a quid and cheese burgers were £1.50).
With my dad it would be going to random swing parks, once again bonus points if it was one we hadn't been too before.
Beach days and having the cool box full of food and homemade sandwiches that we could help ourselves too, as normally at home we'd have to ask before getting a snack or drink. Also being allowed to eat what we wanted in whatever order we wanted.
Ok-Dependent-637@reddit
Me and my dad could go to the cinema for free any Saturday we liked as the projectionist was the son of a family friend. We were pretty skint when I was a kid so it was a real treat. A couple of hours away from the house watching whatever was showing, we didn't care. I'd save my pocket money and treat us both to a 99 in the park after the film every few weeks.
We were a big family, so it was the only real time I got to spend with the old fella. Magic memories.
WinkyNurdo@reddit
Early 80s. Mum used to take us shopping at the weekend. Mundane stuff. But we would stop off at the cafe in BHS, and get Philadelphia on toast, which felt ridiculously exotic to us kids as we never had it at home. If dad came along then we would go down the pie and mash shop (McDowells in Romford) and get pie and mash and liquor and squeeze into a booth. In the colder months we’d get roast chestnuts off a bloke with a brazier near the market, and a jacket potato cooked in a a wood fired oven on an old market stall wagon. They were cooked good and long so the skins were super thick and the insides were like liquid hot magma and could burn through your tongue if you weren’t careful.
masha1901@reddit
When I was young, many years ago, back in the 1960s there were tea rooms spread throughout the town. Lions Cornerhouse, Clarkson and various other places. My nana would always take us to tea or occasionally lunch at the weekend to one of them. If it was tea, then I would always get a toasted teacake, and a fresh cream meringue because I loved them. Spending Saturday afternoon with nana and having tea with her. Those afternoons were my favourite childhood memories.
spnelson@reddit
It being a sunny day. Watching my sisters play ocarina of time on the N64 in our bedroom. Going out to play with the neighbourhood kids in the park. Getting called in for spag bol and then gathering in the living room for some tv. Simpler times when you’re a kid.
Stefgrep66@reddit
One sports day I won the 100 and 200 metres sprintvin front of the whole school, and for a kid who was average at pretty much everything academic, the looks and whispering, the "that's hims" was a huge confidence boost.b
I was, for a few hours at least top of a class😊
affogatohoe@reddit
I have so many its hard to choose just one, they're all such small moments they hardly seem mentioning but to me they were so magical.
Things like going to blockbusters to pick the films for the week, grandad bringing out the big tub of soft serve after a Sunday roast, nanny taking us for long walks through all the parks in town and letting me peel the Brussels for tea, catching daddy long legs from the yellow flower bushes at my little primary school, eating roll mops and little picnics in the back of the car because we went to the bench and it rained too much to go outside, going to farm parks for every single birthday because we all love animals, so many more small things like this
ThrowRA-Illuminate27@reddit
That's sweet 🥹 I have similar, I used to love going to get breakfast at the Littlewoods (and later BHS) cafe with my mum when I was ~4-7
connectfourvsrisk@reddit
Same! We went home for lunch at school in primary and I remember once she took me to Littlewoods cafe and it felt so exciting with the ice cold milk!
BirdieStitching@reddit
I loved Christmas shopping and wrapping the presents in the evening with my mother on my parents bed. It made Christmas feel real and soon. I hate sitting there wrapping them on my own now.
My dad and I have weird sleep cycles and we were often up at night sitting in comfortable silence both working on our own individual tech stuff. I really miss that especially when I can't sleep or I suddenly figure out how to solve a problem and I can't share that excitement.
badger906@reddit
My 18th birthday. No not because I went out and got pissed (dead opposite). I went to comet with my mum, dad and brother, bought a 30gb iPod video, girl on the counter gave me the 80gb model by mistake. Then we went to a local riverside restaurant and had pub lunch!
Extremely average I know. But my mum is semi agoraphobic. Hates places other people have sat, dislikes food she hasn’t cooked etc. this was the last time we went out as a family like this.
So yeah an 18th without beer lol. My birthday was way before all my friends.
Possible-Ad-2682@reddit
My childhood memories seem to mostly be autumnal.
Buying polystyrene flat pack aeroplanes from the local village post office, or opening the packs of Panini football cards, and seeing the gold/silver ones glistening. I wasn't even interested in football, it was just something that everyone did!
ZombieGash@reddit
Every Sunday going to the carboot with my dad. Then we’d stop off at Morrisons, he’d buy me some warm food. Then we’d go back to the carboot because he used to see what people left over what didn’t sell and he’d make me go into a skip to fish it all out 😅
tongsyabrush@reddit
On Saturday my mum would sometimes take us to pick a cake. Then when we got home she would set out her china tea set and we felt like we were grown ups having high tea .
Plane-Painting-7878@reddit
honestly old department stores had weirdly magical energy to them. cafes upstairs, random carpet patterns, toy sections that felt enormous when you were small. modern shops feel much more sterile somehow.
DropDeadFredidit@reddit
On Friday nights we used to go to the local Blockbusters, rent out a video, buy a bag of popcorn and a tub of ice cream and then go home to watch it together ❤️
Rorstech@reddit
Occasionally going to Blockbuster on a Friday after school and renting some films and video games for the weekend.
Additional-Nobody352@reddit
Playing later quest and going bowling on my 10th birthday
Sherbetlaces@reddit
No mobile phones
tongsyabrush@reddit
My sister and I used to go to the chip shop in our street when we got our pocket money and buy a mix of pickled onions, gherkins and beetroot.
No-Ganache-8204@reddit
one thing i notice about childhood memories is how much atmosphere matters more than the actual activity. old cafes, supermarket trips, video rental shops, rainy car journeys, christmas lights in town. kids remember the feeling of being secure and present far more than whether anything objectively exciting happened. adulthood tends to lose that softness a bit.
mdmnl@reddit
I think that is missed by the cohort who think they need to create childhood memories for their kids by spending...
Happiest childhood memories are buying a chocolate bar to split watching VHS (admittedly in those days the chocolate bar felt like it was the size of a bollard), a home made cake, playing frisbee.
c-e-r-y-s@reddit
Aw, this is so sweet. It reminds of when my mum used to take us to Lidl bakery when it first opened, on weekend mornings and we'd sit by the coast for an hour.
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