My office had a grunge band day. All the emails for it had people dressed how I dress everyday with a t-shirt, jeans, and an open flannel button down shirt. The only difference was my shirts are usually gamer shirts not band shirts, I have less holes in my jeans, and cut my long hair when I went bald. I felt seen and mildly insulted.
I went to a dinosaur jr show with earplugs and realized there was no hearing protection robust enough to protect me from the assault on music that is that band.
I ducked down and tried to use the guy in front of me as a human shield. It sorta worked at first, but I left after a couple songs.
My top 3 loudest shows are Dinosaur Jr., SunnO))) and Swans. I definitely have permanent damage just from those 3 shows, andI wore earplugs at 2 of them!
Swans were 100% number two for me as well. Thing is, I somehow missed Dinosaur Jr. back in the day, so the first time I heard them was when I was 38. I’ve never hated a show so much in my life. 😂
Damn, dude, in my area shit from the 90s and early 2000s has been played on Classic rock stations for at least 10 or 15 years. They still play the older stuff too but it's heavily mixed with jams from the 90s and early 2000s. My Mom complains all the time that they play "my music" too much on the Classic rock stations these days.
I want to say I was in my mid 20s when they started playing Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, Stone Temple Pilots, Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, etc. on there (which would mean they've been playing it closer to 20 years). I've heard Breaking Benjamin, the White Stripes, and Fall Out Boy on there, too, though they were added more recently.
The first time I heard a song from the 90s on a classic rock station, I was like, "Yay!" 😁 and then immediately like, "Aww." 😔 Yay because these are my jams, Aww because it made me feel old. But at this point I've just accepted "my" music is, in fact, old enough to be played as classic rock.
There are couple of stations here in Central Indiana that are growing / leaning towards what I want; but there's still too much "classic rock" of old in there.
I realize I'm being quite nit picky here. I rarely ever listen to the radio anyhow.
The loudest radio listeners often get hung up on labeling genres rather than curating a listenable music program. A lot of radio program directors fell in the hole chasing down listeners based on that logic.
Those listeners just listen to their own playlists now and those programmers… probably sold the listener their smartphone.
Oh, my local classic rock station has been playing those songs for a little while now. It's not uncommon to hear Nirvana and Collective Soul followed by Pink Floyd and Def Leppard. They'll even throw on a Black Album Metallica song now and then.
The one that gets me is in certain strip clubs Grunge is staple the way 70s rock was when I first started going in the 90s. Like they're playing to the older dude clientele.
We had "Pirate Radio" 100.3 for a scant two years in the L.A. Basin, but it hit me right in the formatives, as well, from Freshman to Junior years in High Skoo.
KNAC, to a lesser extent, though I listened to it more, because it lasted longer.
Rev 105 forever. I did their high school show where they would bring students on to run a show. It was so much fun. I am still friends with one of their former DJs. Rev helped me become interested in radio as a career, which I did for 5 years before pivoting elsewhere.
Someone put together a 600+ playlist on Spotify for all songs played by the youth station I listened to, Triple J - Australia, for the year 1999. I plan to work through it over the next few long drives I got to do.
Dude, I still go off about how sad it was that WHFS went off the air and it's been 20+ years. You would think I'd get over it at some point but apparently not.
because those college stations WERE the original Napster. Lots of bands sent their songs to college stations to get airplay locally. It was the easiest way to find new music before the internet exploded.
I know why I do. I started college in fall of 96 as a broadcasting (radio) major. A couple years later, I was working at two of our local college radio stations (one NPR, and one that was your traditional college rock station). Even spent a summer as the station manager of the college rock station.
That place was both "home" to me and what my radio was set to most of the time.
I grew up listening to rap and was all sorts of confused as to what a kid’s show had to do with being on the sidewalk or how any of that related to college rock stations.
Hell no. If you’re anything like us, you’ll circle three blocks for an hour and half looking & waiting for free street parking rather than pay $15-$20 for a damn garage.
And we’re leaving the event at 9:30 anyway, because it’s getting late man.
I’m not trying to be out past bed time AND stuck in concert traffic. 😆
I remember as a kid, leaving every 4th of July fireworks early and watching the finale through the back windshield. Thought my dad was just mean at the time. Now I understand.
I feel like given that 1500 xennials have upvoted and 225 have commented, it falls under Xennials just as much. Granted I will agree, like I said to someone earlier, it definitely skews more toward the "X" than the "-ennial", but it definitely covers our generation. Both Pavement and Dinosaur Jr's careers were primarily set in the 1990s, when most of us were in high school, our musical "formative" years.
My brother has an ongoing bit where he notifies me when a dad at Little League is wearing a Joy Division "Unknown Pleasures" t-shirt. It's not every weekend but it's a lot of them.
I have this shirt, and it's one of my favorite shirts I own. I love it because whenever I wear it out in a public setting there's always at least ONE person (usually our age) that will stop me and be like, "DUDE that's hilarious"
One year for Halloween i printed a picture of Robert Smith and wrote Have you seen this man’s band? on it and threw on a lab coat. I was a doctor searching for the cure!
I don't understand the insult/jargon of 'pavement' dad as relates to dinosaur sr... the latter at least makes sense as an old person insult. How does pavement?
Ok but this was MY dad, minus the Dinosaur Jr shirt. Like when Napster was a thing and I had a T1 connection in college he gave me a list of all the college station song titles or artist names he listened to and wrote on the garage wall so I could try and find them for him.
This post is for the ones that rolled their eyes really hard at that limp bizkit post the other day and then went back to thinking about the onion article they read about the 40 watt club in 1998
I will be honest, this one definitely skews more to the "X" than the "ennials". These were indie bands that a lot of Gen X and older Xennials were into.
I'm surprised by how much of this thread I have never heard of at all. Pavement? Dinosaur Jr.? Sebadoh? And I didn't get the Joy Division shirt, although now that my husband explained it I do remember having seen that album cover. He is GenX but British, heard of Dinosaur Jr. but not the others.
yeah, I think it really depends on who you were around in the early to mid-90s, and likely what city/country you were in. Most of these bands really only got college radio play and a little on MTV.
Only ever saw that once. Was the intermission between Marilyn Manson and NIN on the Self Destruct tour. Back when Marilyn Manson was a thrash metal band with a grand total of zero hits.
Most 90s show I ever attended was as a high school senior, a New Year’s Eve show at the 930 club headlined by cibo matto, Jon Spencer blues explosion, southern culture in the skids, and the Jesus lizard, with the Jim rose circus sideshow as mc.
I saw Lou Barlow play a one man acoustic set at a small Finger Lakes winery, which was incredibly cool and intimate, but there was also a moment of disconnect as the previous time I saw him, many years before, was in a dive bar.
For my bday last year my wife got one of his hand lettered/custom lyric pages, which I framed. One of the greatest gifts I have ever received and not too pricey I don’t think. He must be sick of people asking for Gimme Indie Rock (not my fave Sebadoh song but iconic and he only accepts ones where he wrote the lyrics)
The sexism in leaving out 50ish moms with pink streaks in their hair, ratty Sleater-Kinney t-shirts, and a story to tell about how their friend's zine got a shout-out from Kathleen Hanna once.
I think we're firmly in Gen X territory with this one. I've never heard of Pavement till I read the comments here, so I'm here asking why the hell they'd use that term.
So, me either, but we also must accept that wearing a Public Enemy or Ice Cube or The Pogues or Dead Prez or The Cure or Echo and The Bunnymen or Wu Tang or Operation Ivy or Mobb Deep or Cypress Hill or Fugazi etc. shirt is basically the same thing.
Like, the thing that makes it what it is is old folks proudly displaying their old-ass taste, and not the specific band.
lol same. Pavement absolutely takes me back to the late 90s, too. Pre-Internet, I didn’t really know anyone else who listened to them. Probably not at my high school.
My favorite Replacements t-shirt is the one I got last year that says "Unsatisfying Customers since '79". I felt that one, Paul. I felt it in my '79 vintage bones.
Nathan Hale High School in Seattle has one of the best radio stations around. Has for decades. Not quite college radio, but adjacent. Despite radio being a stagnant media, colleges ought to be obligated to run a radio station so there is at least one station in a city that isn’t straight garbage.
I was only into the college radio stations for the underground electronic music. Just sitting at home with a blank Maxell 120 minute ready to go in my tape deck.
I know my (showtune-loving) wife loves me because, among other things, she will go with me to see Dinosaur Jr. whenever they come to town even though they are emphatically not her thing
My girlfriend (now wife) was the afternoon chick on her college radio station 3 days a week. Still talks about the stuff she produced/promoted. I have no idea how I convinced her to go out with me because she’s way too cool for my dorky ass
The Jicks and you have to realize that malkimus is a deadhead routed through German “kraut” rock and then it starts to make sense and sound good. Oh and mushrooms help as well.
Pavement was one of those bands that was like, indie darlings. And they were sort of an indicator, like if someone listened to Pavement you could safely assume their music tastes went down a rabbithole of indie/college rock.
Just this weekend my husband got together with his old high school buddies and I heard them waxing nostalgic about the old radio station that was so great when they were in high school and how the local classic rock station now plays Nirvana and that’s “not ok”.
this is me with metal. I'm the old fart regaling younger people with tales of yore, when you could see shows like System of a Down in a Catholic high school gym.
What about those of us that like Pavement and Dinosaur Jr, but prefer to wear Spacemen 3 t shirts because listening to Big City while micro dosing was almost life changing.
I feel nothing :) Im 52, my beard isnt white, and I distinctly remember my younger sister and her friends being into Pavement, Dinosaur Jr. I think in 94 I was all over Weezer and Green Day.
circusgeek@reddit
Past my Primus
UnidentifiedKindaGal@reddit
I'd wear that shirt 😅
ADMotti@reddit
*glances nervously at his The Mountain Goats tshirt, knowing he’s next*
UnidentifiedKindaGal@reddit
I'm so late to this party, just started listening to them
Possible-Tangelo9344@reddit
Dinosaur Seniors?! After I take my vitamins we're gonna have words, but before 8pm please.
Cahamp@reddit
A podcast I listen to calls guys our age that still wear skater gear Elder Skatesmen.
codePudding@reddit
My office had a grunge band day. All the emails for it had people dressed how I dress everyday with a t-shirt, jeans, and an open flannel button down shirt. The only difference was my shirts are usually gamer shirts not band shirts, I have less holes in my jeans, and cut my long hair when I went bald. I felt seen and mildly insulted.
UnidentifiedKindaGal@reddit
Don't be insulted- try honored. You're a real one
Salty-Esq@reddit
I feel seen

Future-Raisin3781@reddit
Dinosaur Jr. is the loudest band in the world.
Too much ruckus for me these days 👴
meatee@reddit
Dinosaur Jr is when I first realized "I should be wearing earplugs at shows" and I've been wearing them ever since
Strange_Airships@reddit
I went to a dinosaur jr show with earplugs and realized there was no hearing protection robust enough to protect me from the assault on music that is that band.
meatee@reddit
I ducked down and tried to use the guy in front of me as a human shield. It sorta worked at first, but I left after a couple songs.
My top 3 loudest shows are Dinosaur Jr., SunnO))) and Swans. I definitely have permanent damage just from those 3 shows, andI wore earplugs at 2 of them!
Strange_Airships@reddit
Swans were 100% number two for me as well. Thing is, I somehow missed Dinosaur Jr. back in the day, so the first time I heard them was when I was 38. I’ve never hated a show so much in my life. 😂
Future-Raisin3781@reddit
Earplug gang, assemble! I've been wearing Etymotic ER20s for probably 20 years now. Holding my tinnitus in stasis, lol
Kade7596@reddit
I might have to give whatever that is a listen to compare, but they definitely have some modern-day challengers :p https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1NdGBldg3w
amgineeno@reddit
Lol, reminds me, I need to take my vitamins. Damn
fargoLEVY13@reddit
Dinner before six so I can take my back pill
rekipsj@reddit
I got your back. But go slow because mine hurts.
URfwend@reddit
WeenisPeiner@reddit
Do you like tapes or cds?
COV3RTSM@reddit
Gottem. lol
Spare-Good-5372@reddit
lmao gottem
Administrative-Flan9@reddit
We are Flintstone kids. Ten million strong, and growing.
supergooduser@reddit
Lol why do I have such an affinity for my 1996 independent radio station 30 years later 😂
ant2ne@reddit
That was the best music. Only good music. Nothing ever sucked. Few if any commercials.
zealot_ratio@reddit
Still listen to WBER out of Rochester, NY, the only station that matters,
Tactically_Fat@reddit
I just want Classic Rock and/or Oldies stations to start playing rock from the 90s and 2000s.
Like - time has passed and now "classic rock" is now oldies, and oldies are now golden oldies or something.
No way a classic rock station that was playing Tom Petty and Mellencamp in the 90s should still be playing them today.
AquariusRising1983@reddit
Damn, dude, in my area shit from the 90s and early 2000s has been played on Classic rock stations for at least 10 or 15 years. They still play the older stuff too but it's heavily mixed with jams from the 90s and early 2000s. My Mom complains all the time that they play "my music" too much on the Classic rock stations these days.
I want to say I was in my mid 20s when they started playing Nirvana, Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, Stone Temple Pilots, Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, etc. on there (which would mean they've been playing it closer to 20 years). I've heard Breaking Benjamin, the White Stripes, and Fall Out Boy on there, too, though they were added more recently.
The first time I heard a song from the 90s on a classic rock station, I was like, "Yay!" 😁 and then immediately like, "Aww." 😔 Yay because these are my jams, Aww because it made me feel old. But at this point I've just accepted "my" music is, in fact, old enough to be played as classic rock.
Tactically_Fat@reddit
It's a sad realization, ain't it? Like when you see cars you and your buddies had in HS driving around with historic license plates on them. :-|
But that radio station sounds awesome.
Fue_la_luna@reddit
WDVE in Pittsburgh reporting for duty.
Tactically_Fat@reddit
I'm almost jealous of a Yinzer...
There are couple of stations here in Central Indiana that are growing / leaning towards what I want; but there's still too much "classic rock" of old in there.
I realize I'm being quite nit picky here. I rarely ever listen to the radio anyhow.
FouledPlug@reddit
The loudest radio listeners often get hung up on labeling genres rather than curating a listenable music program. A lot of radio program directors fell in the hole chasing down listeners based on that logic.
Those listeners just listen to their own playlists now and those programmers… probably sold the listener their smartphone.
hallowdmachine@reddit
Oh, my local classic rock station has been playing those songs for a little while now. It's not uncommon to hear Nirvana and Collective Soul followed by Pink Floyd and Def Leppard. They'll even throw on a Black Album Metallica song now and then.
Tactically_Fat@reddit
I'll occasionally hear some of the more "Modern" 90s rock... But there's still just too damn much fogey rock.
supergooduser@reddit
The one that gets me is in certain strip clubs Grunge is staple the way 70s rock was when I first started going in the 90s. Like they're playing to the older dude clientele.
hallowdmachine@reddit
Trying to picture someone dancing to Interstate Love Song just isn't doing it for me.
Warrior-Cook@reddit
I randomly looked up Rev-105 the other day, just to wax a few playlists. They only were around 3 years, but I was in HS those 3 years. Total era.
St-Ananas@reddit
I love radio K because (U of MN station) all the DJs seem to have been raised by Dino Srs. Plus Mary Lucia pops in on Monday afternoons.
Dannydimes@reddit
I love Mary Lucia, The Current isn’t the same without her.
Excellent-Goal4763@reddit
Is everyone in this sub from MN?
Hilsam_Adent@reddit
We had "Pirate Radio" 100.3 for a scant two years in the L.A. Basin, but it hit me right in the formatives, as well, from Freshman to Junior years in High Skoo.
KNAC, to a lesser extent, though I listened to it more, because it lasted longer.
kittensbabette@reddit
Bought a rev 105 shirt on ebay a couple years ago 😎
Constant_Roof_7974@reddit
I still have a sweatshirt, some buttons, some t-shirts, their CD, and some other random merch, including a lawn sign they made during election season.
kittensbabette@reddit
I thinkn8 remember those, does it say Power to the People?
Constant_Roof_7974@reddit
Yep. That’s the one.
Constant_Roof_7974@reddit
Rev 105 forever. I did their high school show where they would bring students on to run a show. It was so much fun. I am still friends with one of their former DJs. Rev helped me become interested in radio as a career, which I did for 5 years before pivoting elsewhere.
BoredAccountant@reddit
You mean the ones that have been gone longer than you listened to them?
TheSean_aka__Rh1no@reddit
Someone put together a 600+ playlist on Spotify for all songs played by the youth station I listened to, Triple J - Australia, for the year 1999. I plan to work through it over the next few long drives I got to do.
bakedveldtland@reddit
96Wave still holds my heart!
jayne-eerie@reddit
Dude, I still go off about how sad it was that WHFS went off the air and it's been 20+ years. You would think I'd get over it at some point but apparently not.
Iheartbaconz@reddit
because those college stations WERE the original Napster. Lots of bands sent their songs to college stations to get airplay locally. It was the easiest way to find new music before the internet exploded.
ST_Lawson@reddit
I know why I do. I started college in fall of 96 as a broadcasting (radio) major. A couple years later, I was working at two of our local college radio stations (one NPR, and one that was your traditional college rock station). Even spent a summer as the station manager of the college rock station.
That place was both "home" to me and what my radio was set to most of the time.
PeteDub@reddit
‘96 was the absolute best year for hip hop too
TigerLilly_Tink43@reddit
We're still relevant!!!!
zealot_ratio@reddit
and you will know us by our Smashing Pumpkins heart tshirts.
BigFatBlackCat@reddit
I guess I’m a Pavement Dad/ Dinosaur Senior then
Texas_Kimchi@reddit
Man, I feel the pain.
incride@reddit
Just add it onto the back and knee pains
International_Bit478@reddit
I’m still LOLing from “Dinosaur Senior”
SLyndon4@reddit
I’m still wincing from “Dinosaur Senior”.
Terrible_Ad2869@reddit
Do you feel the pain of a few, or do you feel the pain of everyone?
HOTDOGVNDR@reddit
"I swear to god, if I get hit with one more fucking golf ball in this city!!"
slappy_mcslapenstein@reddit
I got a new bottle of Aleve at Costco the other day if you need some.
ranaldo20@reddit
Then I feel nothing.
Procrastineddit@reddit
It's better you don't, sir. This is a colonoscopy.
haux44@reddit
Thanks. I hate it.
btwrenn@reddit
I thought it said "white beard", and I was like, "MY BEARD IS SALT AND PEPPER, DAMMIT!"
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
Same, but I tell ya there's less and less pepper every day. LOL
Sisselpud@reddit
Which is good because something as spicy as pepper is just going to give us diarrhea at this point
SLyndon4@reddit
Meh, just take some Pepto, you’ll be fine.
bikemandan@reddit
Its scary how close to white mine is now
SLyndon4@reddit
Dinosaur Seniors ?!? Ouch, we’re not THAT old yet!
PlantsNCaterpillars@reddit
I grew up listening to rap and was all sorts of confused as to what a kid’s show had to do with being on the sidewalk or how any of that related to college rock stations.
HOTDOGVNDR@reddit
Mother fuckers. I tell you what , as soon as my Aleve kicks in, Imma come down there and open a can of whoop ass on someone.
Probably not, there is just never any parking. I ain't paying for parking in the garage! Have you seen the prices these days!?
Captain_Desi_Pants@reddit
Hell no. If you’re anything like us, you’ll circle three blocks for an hour and half looking & waiting for free street parking rather than pay $15-$20 for a damn garage.
And we’re leaving the event at 9:30 anyway, because it’s getting late man.
Modem_Handshake@reddit
Sharp. Because if you delay then you’ll just be leaving with EVERYBODY else
Captain_Desi_Pants@reddit
I’m not trying to be out past bed time AND stuck in concert traffic. 😆
I remember as a kid, leaving every 4th of July fireworks early and watching the finale through the back windshield. Thought my dad was just mean at the time. Now I understand.
HOTDOGVNDR@reddit
9:30? AT NIGHT!?
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
"Bitch don't make me shove my brand new New Balance up your ass!"
trumpsmellslikcheese@reddit
"But first I'll need to put on my cargo shorts."
Dannydimes@reddit
I feel seen and attacked.
meltintothesea@reddit
Dinosaur Jr shirts sell for over $1000 so I hope those pavements dads cash out if they have them.
BossRoss84@reddit
I feel like this would be Gen X more than xennials. Full-blown.
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
I feel like given that 1500 xennials have upvoted and 225 have commented, it falls under Xennials just as much. Granted I will agree, like I said to someone earlier, it definitely skews more toward the "X" than the "-ennial", but it definitely covers our generation. Both Pavement and Dinosaur Jr's careers were primarily set in the 1990s, when most of us were in high school, our musical "formative" years.
BossRoss84@reddit
Ooooo. We’ll be seeing you in r/PopularClub in no time!
XFrankXGrimesX@reddit
My brother has an ongoing bit where he notifies me when a dad at Little League is wearing a Joy Division "Unknown Pleasures" t-shirt. It's not every weekend but it's a lot of them.
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
I have this shirt, and it's one of my favorite shirts I own. I love it because whenever I wear it out in a public setting there's always at least ONE person (usually our age) that will stop me and be like, "DUDE that's hilarious"
https://thegoodshirts.com/products/damnit-i-ironed-my-joy-division-shirt?variant=44229288722690
GiganticCrow@reddit
There was one that had, I think, 'The Cure' written at the top and 'Enjoy The Silence' written at the bottom.
Also reminded of a 'The Smiths' tshirt that had a picture of Robert Smith and his wife.
QueerTree@reddit
One year for Halloween i printed a picture of Robert Smith and wrote Have you seen this man’s band? on it and threw on a lab coat. I was a doctor searching for the cure!
XFrankXGrimesX@reddit
GiganticCrow@reddit
Right text would be better with something like "likes fascists, can't handle doing actual shows"
MillenniEnby@reddit
I was expecting this one
XFrankXGrimesX@reddit
That's terrific. I have this one. Well it's from someone else but the same joke
https://paom.com/products/0000000p-joy-division-shirt
GiganticCrow@reddit
I googled the latter and apparently Dave Grohl wears one
XFrankXGrimesX@reddit
Yeah, that one's gotten popular along with Hanson photo / Nirvana logo
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
Wait you have a shirt OF the shirt?! LOL
DengarLives66@reddit
I miss my Lovejoy Division shirt.
Commies-Fan@reddit
Never owned a single band t-shirt. Im white. Bearded. Close to 50. I like Dinosaur Jr. Love Nirvana. Never into butt rock.
Chivalry4Me@reddit
"beards"
texas-playdohs@reddit
Why are you attacking me?
NurseCait@reddit
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dismal_Ad1749@reddit
But I’m a mom and have tickets to Pavement in July.
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
Nope sorry. You just transitioned. You're a Pavement Dad now.
toodledootootootoo@reddit
I’m a woman with no children but I’m pretty sure I’m also a pavement dad
123BuleBule@reddit
Pavement Parent!
InterestingTry5190@reddit
I’ve got 2 tickets to paradise
Cael_NaMaor@reddit
I don't understand the insult/jargon of 'pavement' dad as relates to dinosaur sr... the latter at least makes sense as an old person insult. How does pavement?
jaggoffsmirnoff@reddit
I,on the other hand, fully appreciate that you can identify a Pavement Dad in the wild by his conspicuous Dinosaur Jr. Tee-shirt.
Cael_NaMaor@reddit
I still don't see a link or understand the label.
jaggoffsmirnoff@reddit
Well, we're old. And we used to be with it, etc.
Cael_NaMaor@reddit
Thanks for the info. Never heard of either. 👍
Uhokay1970@reddit
Lets just be bigots and see if we can disguise it with a cool name.... Sad/
96385@reddit
I'm going to be really offended as soon as I find my reading glasses.
portagenaybur@reddit
Dinosaur Seniors I can get behind. Was never into Pavement though. And those are the sharp opinions I’d expect a Dinosaur Senior to have.
Still beats the million other Pearl Jam dads.
wooq@reddit
As a Dinosaur Sr. in general Pavement is meh, but I really enjoyed Wowee Zowee for some reason
joshuastar@reddit
i mean, you kinda have to.
agentmkultra666@reddit
I will say I can enjoy Pearl Jam now, if only for the joy of making butt rock sounds through the entirety of Ten
PlagueofSquirrels@reddit
I'm in my Orthopedic Shoegazer era
tronassembled@reddit
For me it's post(humous)-rock
Sisselpud@reddit
More HMO than EMO for me these days for sure
DisposableSaviour@reddit
I became a girl dad, and went from rivet-head to cotton candy goth.
JumboThornton@reddit
What about the moms that wear D. Jr shirts?
Jasdak@reddit
I think I’m a little younger. I’m a Radiodad.
TheSean_aka__Rh1no@reddit
I watched a short before, 50 is is Old People - Freshman class. The first group of people in what's going to be our decline into the ground.
I have, unfortunately, skipped a few years and am already part of this alumni
Ericovich@reddit
A few years ago I saw Dinosaur Jr. and Built to Spill open for Guided by Voices.
It was like peak Dad rock.
plastiquearse@reddit
My partner is a bit sick of me dragging her to Built to Spill and Pinback shows.
So we’re gonna go to Interpol, to freshen it all up
Olelander@reddit
Two bands heavily influenced by their dad’s rock (Neil Young)… and then GBV lol.
Hello_Hangnail@reddit
/fossilizes
Ninja-Panda86@reddit
Why not? I call the Gen Z crowd "GenZilla". I just think it sounds neater.
tfaboo@reddit
u/TomPalmer1979
Coulda titled this, Just callin folks out there
tfaboo@reddit
u/TomPalmer1969
You could've titled it "Just calling folks out there."
ryguymcsly@reddit
I'm 40ish and I talk about '99, but yeah I get it.
These reunion tours are killing me financially.
TizzyTism@reddit
Ok but this was MY dad, minus the Dinosaur Jr shirt. Like when Napster was a thing and I had a T1 connection in college he gave me a list of all the college station song titles or artist names he listened to and wrote on the garage wall so I could try and find them for him.
OkAthlete8327@reddit
This is me. Been in love with both of those bands since the mid to late ‘90’s
SirNo9787@reddit
Sonic Elders
DoctorFenix@reddit
Soundgardeners
ApoclypseMeow@reddit
Ted Leo and I Need a Pharmacist
eastcoastflava13@reddit
Goddammit, puts on 'Hearts of Oak' for the thousandth time...
bj_hunnicutt@reddit
I know how to help, listen to tyranny of distance this time!
eastcoastflava13@reddit
Fine! I will!
masivatack@reddit
You mean someone who works at a Harmacy?
Dicfive@reddit
This is the first post in this sub I have no reference of. I have the sads
Pogokat@reddit
This post is for the ones that rolled their eyes really hard at that limp bizkit post the other day and then went back to thinking about the onion article they read about the 40 watt club in 1998
FewAward6923@reddit
I saw Mudhoney there in the early 90s! Did not go to UGA, went to NGC. College too small for a radio station, so it was 99X out of Altlanta.
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
I will be honest, this one definitely skews more to the "X" than the "ennials". These were indie bands that a lot of Gen X and older Xennials were into.
agentmkultra666@reddit
I think it depends. I’m a young xennial and I’m getting every reference in this post. I watched a lot of MTV as a kid though.
darkwillow1980@reddit
I'm surprised by how much of this thread I have never heard of at all. Pavement? Dinosaur Jr.? Sebadoh? And I didn't get the Joy Division shirt, although now that my husband explained it I do remember having seen that album cover. He is GenX but British, heard of Dinosaur Jr. but not the others.
agentmkultra666@reddit
yeah, I think it really depends on who you were around in the early to mid-90s, and likely what city/country you were in. Most of these bands really only got college radio play and a little on MTV.
GiganticCrow@reddit
Yeah was gonna say this is more my older sister's late gen x level stuff.
Tactically_Fat@reddit
Same here.
delldarlin@reddit
Jim Rose Circus Sideshow
I…uh….am not a parent. Obviously.
red286@reddit
Only ever saw that once. Was the intermission between Marilyn Manson and NIN on the Self Destruct tour. Back when Marilyn Manson was a thrash metal band with a grand total of zero hits.
More-read-than-eddit@reddit
Most 90s show I ever attended was as a high school senior, a New Year’s Eve show at the 930 club headlined by cibo matto, Jon Spencer blues explosion, southern culture in the skids, and the Jesus lizard, with the Jim rose circus sideshow as mc.
Less_Likely@reddit
I feel the pain of this post. Then I feel nothing
M_Me_Meteo@reddit
Personally I'm a Senior Junior Senior
Can't stop (don't stop) don't stop the beat... Don't stop (won't stop) don't stop the beat...Oh!!!
I just broke my hip.
Zesty-B230F@reddit
Pavement dad just means a guy in his 50s?
Impressive-Record839@reddit
Hmm yes I'm more of a sebadoh dad but uh oh
RelevantNostalgia@reddit
I saw Lou Barlow play a one man acoustic set at a small Finger Lakes winery, which was incredibly cool and intimate, but there was also a moment of disconnect as the previous time I saw him, many years before, was in a dive bar.
agentmkultra666@reddit
I’m also more of a Sebadoh dad, but I got a license to confuse
More-read-than-eddit@reddit
For my bday last year my wife got one of his hand lettered/custom lyric pages, which I framed. One of the greatest gifts I have ever received and not too pricey I don’t think. He must be sick of people asking for Gimme Indie Rock (not my fave Sebadoh song but iconic and he only accepts ones where he wrote the lyrics)
SixAlarmFire@reddit
Seeeebado
Olelander@reddit
Happily Divided
Procrastineddit@reddit
Christ, "rebound" came up for me last night, just shufflin' through old music, and I thought, "I should get a Sebadoh t-shirt."
circusgeek@reddit
This was also the entire audience of the last Ween concert I went to.
Every_Kale_1586@reddit
I went to see the Pixies last year.
All I could think was "why do all these mother fuckers look like me"...and "oh god is this what i look like now?
Japhet_Corncrake@reddit
Ah, fuck.
Pogokat@reddit
Something something neutral milk hotel pun
holeypeacoat@reddit
Could describe me but I’ll reject it because Pavement sucks.
jayne-eerie@reddit
The sexism in leaving out 50ish moms with pink streaks in their hair, ratty Sleater-Kinney t-shirts, and a story to tell about how their friend's zine got a shout-out from Kathleen Hanna once.
Moxie_Stardust@reddit
First of all, how dare you!
Second, I'm a grandmother now 💀
CNote_89@reddit
Sounds like you’re talking about Chuck from Stuff You Should Know.
Sisselpud@reddit
The Ben Folds Forty-Fives
mycatlovesprimus@reddit
Went to see Dean Ween solo. Before the show was looking around and it was literally 95% men EXACTLY like me. It was unnerving
Wise_Finance_5315@reddit
I feel attacked
Quarantined_foodie@reddit
Wouldn't Pavement dans talk about Pavement?
Tess47@reddit
FYI. Someone did a YT cut of WKRP Johnny Fever. Its the best
DrunkenMaths@reddit
I'm a GvsB bachelor I guess?
ItsNadrik@reddit
I think we're firmly in Gen X territory with this one. I've never heard of Pavement till I read the comments here, so I'm here asking why the hell they'd use that term.
Bushwazi@reddit
I never liked or listened to Pavement. So:no
fikis@reddit
So, me either, but we also must accept that wearing a Public Enemy or Ice Cube or The Pogues or Dead Prez or The Cure or Echo and The Bunnymen or Wu Tang or Operation Ivy or Mobb Deep or Cypress Hill or Fugazi etc. shirt is basically the same thing.
Like, the thing that makes it what it is is old folks proudly displaying their old-ass taste, and not the specific band.
Bushwazi@reddit
Oh. Then guilty. Many times over.
fikis@reddit
Same, friend. It's OK. We are where we are. Old and alive.
Might as well be grateful and gracious.
defective_toaster@reddit
No idea who Dinosaur Jr. is. Guess I wasn't cool/hip back then.
cashews_clay15@reddit
Today I found out that I, a woman, am a Pavement Dad (minus the beard).
SweetPrism@reddit
I am not a mom, but I would DEFINITELY be a Pavement Mom if I was. I guess I'm a Pavement Aunt? I am also a Dinosaur Sr lol.
Constant_Roof_7974@reddit
lol same. Pavement absolutely takes me back to the late 90s, too. Pre-Internet, I didn’t really know anyone else who listened to them. Probably not at my high school.
majorjoe23@reddit
As a guy who has seen a member of Dinosaur Jr perform at a member of Pavement's house, I feel seen.
BobbyGuano@reddit
I feel personally attacked…
Alternative_Smile528@reddit
Wowie Zowie, this hurts
Temporary-Job-9049@reddit
I feel the pain of that comment, lol
LadyMirkwood@reddit
Oh I feel that
I may look and feel old and worn out but at least I'm wearing my Replacements t-shirt.
god_dammit_dax@reddit
My favorite Replacements t-shirt is the one I got last year that says "Unsatisfying Customers since '79". I felt that one, Paul. I felt it in my '79 vintage bones.
seamonkey420@reddit
oh.. "i feel the pain" of that joke..
KingdomOfFawg@reddit
Nathan Hale High School in Seattle has one of the best radio stations around. Has for decades. Not quite college radio, but adjacent. Despite radio being a stagnant media, colleges ought to be obligated to run a radio station so there is at least one station in a city that isn’t straight garbage.
Beetso@reddit
Is KEXP still on the air there? If so, I'd say Seattle has at least two non-garbage radio stations!
KingdomOfFawg@reddit
KEXP, KISW, and C89.5 the Holy Trinity of Seattle radio.
porkpie1028@reddit
More-read-than-eddit@reddit
Side note that it took moving to la before I realized Sinclair was a joke as their last name.
EidolonRook@reddit
I've gotten to the age I don't really care what I'm called, but I will own it so hard and turn it into something SO annoying to my kids.
Dinosaur dad here! I'm Jurassic Parking the car here! It mean I RAWR as I pull into the spot! RAAAAWWWWRRR. -beep- -beep- -beep-
Duvetine@reddit
Sonic Elderly
aetherhaze@reddit
Still late 40’s but for me it’s an Operation Ivy T-shirt
More-read-than-eddit@reddit
More young x than xennial (in college in 94) but fine. I wore my guided by voices under the bushes under the stars tee this weekend.
Lughaidh_@reddit
I saw a lot of Dinosaur Seniors when my wife and I took our teenage son to see Weezer. The Flaming Lips and Dinosaur Jr. opened for them.
International_Bit478@reddit
LMAO
deepthoughtswithdan@reddit
I feel targeted...but dinosaur seniors 🤣🤣🤣 brilliant
ParticularBed6338@reddit
I was only into the college radio stations for the underground electronic music. Just sitting at home with a blank Maxell 120 minute ready to go in my tape deck.
NonCorporealEntity@reddit
You guys had independent radio?
VampireOnHoyt@reddit
I know my (showtune-loving) wife loves me because, among other things, she will go with me to see Dinosaur Jr. whenever they come to town even though they are emphatically not her thing
helloaaron@reddit
Least she can do if you’re having to go to her showtune revues. Lol
buckut@reddit
do we have to be a dad? im down for dinosaur jr anytime.
helikophis@reddit
I don't get it, what's the connection with "pavement"?
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
Pavement was the name of an indie band in the 90s
helikophis@reddit
Ah okay thanks, never heard of them!
Pantsickle@reddit
Well show me a word that rhymes with pavement
and I won't kill you parents
and roast them on a spit.
C-ute-Thulu@reddit
I hated Dinosaur Jr but everything else is me to a T
AccountOfMyDarkside@reddit
My husband is white, silver hair, 49 y/o, hated college rock in 1994 and still does, but with an acceptable SOAD t-shirt. Dinosaur Jr sucked.
I call him sexy af dad.
hiro111@reddit
🙋♀️✊
COV3RTSM@reddit
My girlfriend (now wife) was the afternoon chick on her college radio station 3 days a week. Still talks about the stuff she produced/promoted. I have no idea how I convinced her to go out with me because she’s way too cool for my dorky ass
ayaruna@reddit
wooq@reddit
This absolutely does not describe me.
(I can't grow a beard)
judgeridesagain@reddit
"Man, I'm too young for this shit" says the Smashing Pumpkins mom
Big-Honeydew-961@reddit
I love this.
Full-March-4700@reddit
I just saw pavement and dinosaur jr last year and they weren’t that good lol
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
They never were. LOL But they were indie and listening to them made you feel cool and superior to people listening to pop and mainstream music.
Full-March-4700@reddit
Thank God it’s wasn’t just me. I was always a punk. But I had the chance to see them both and watching I was like wtf was everybody talking about!
Jebgogh@reddit
It’s a good thing they wrote that out cause I am not sure I would have heard it clearly if spoken due to my tinnitus from attending Dino jr shows.
digital@reddit
Anything 1980s -90s beats the crap out of the dystopian hellscape we live in today 😄
pumpkinhead9000k@reddit
I figured Pavement dads would be big Stephen Malkmus fans
yodellingllama_@reddit
Yet we know that to be untrue, at least in general. I really tried to get into the Kicks, but I just couldn't.
Corporate-Scum@reddit
If you can’t dig Pig Lib you can’t dig at all
Jebgogh@reddit
The Jicks and you have to realize that malkimus is a deadhead routed through German “kraut” rock and then it starts to make sense and sound good. Oh and mushrooms help as well.
Corporate-Scum@reddit
Pavement ist rad! They’re still champions of slack. No overdoses! No fancy haircuts! Never taken literally!… Grade A Champeens!
n8texas@reddit
Yeah, thanks for the reminder that I need to get that blood test scheduled….
Hockey_socks@reddit
I’ve had three dinosaur jr t-shirts in my life but now that I’m 45 I have none. I’d better rectify that!
Turbografx-17@reddit
Feel that. I used to have the Green Mind shirt in high school and I don't know what happened to it!
FuckYouNotHappening@reddit
See, this is what the internet was invented for - silly word association jokes 😍😍😍
barktwiggs@reddit
Oof. I feel the pain of everyone...and my back!
CubesFan@reddit
Why pavement dads?
TomPalmer1979@reddit (OP)
Pavement was one of those bands that was like, indie darlings. And they were sort of an indicator, like if someone listened to Pavement you could safely assume their music tastes went down a rabbithole of indie/college rock.
Practical-Train-9595@reddit
Just this weekend my husband got together with his old high school buddies and I heard them waxing nostalgic about the old radio station that was so great when they were in high school and how the local classic rock station now plays Nirvana and that’s “not ok”.
Deuce46@reddit
Ouch
Epicardiectomist@reddit
this is me with metal. I'm the old fart regaling younger people with tales of yore, when you could see shows like System of a Down in a Catholic high school gym.
the radio show was Nasty Habits for me.
Ssttuubbss@reddit
I literally just scored a tape deck so I can listen to my old recordings of my local college radio station
DestroyerTame@reddit
Dang
Shuatheskeptic@reddit
LaziestManinLACounty@reddit
Yeah well you’ll be old one day too
Rust_Bucket37@reddit
Oh good I'm safe...45, white beard, rocking the Clutch Carhartt hat. 🤣
rmulermule@reddit
Has to be some cross over with Sugar Daddies
Evening_Ad_1099@reddit
What about those of us that like Pavement and Dinosaur Jr, but prefer to wear Spacemen 3 t shirts because listening to Big City while micro dosing was almost life changing.
goosebattle@reddit
This is too old for me.
thisolddog1@reddit
I wanted a range life
But I settled down
jcstrat@reddit
I still have a Dinosaur Jr CD in my collection. But my hair isn’t gray and I don’t have a beard. I’m still going against the grain!
TiEmEnTi@reddit
This is my brother in law except with Nine Inch Nails
drknifnifnif@reddit
Seba-Doh!
devenger73@reddit
I feel nothing :) Im 52, my beard isnt white, and I distinctly remember my younger sister and her friends being into Pavement, Dinosaur Jr. I think in 94 I was all over Weezer and Green Day.
sixfourtykilo@reddit
Go to nearly any bar with regular live music. Most bands are playing 90s tributes and they're REALLY FRIGGIN GOOD.
detectiveriggsboson@reddit
This would hurt a lot more if my back didn't hurt so much.
MeatEaterDruid@reddit
I feel attacked.
jacabasselope@reddit
I feel personally attacked!
Door_Number_Four@reddit
All is Dinosaur Seniors are very hard of hearing.
Sensitive_Diamond328@reddit
Oof my high school boyfriend, and he is still so fine. LOL.
Jonestown_Juice@reddit
Damn, that's me. I love college rock from the 80s and 90s.
sleeperninja@reddit
I approve the change, how many do we need for the yays to have it?