Tea at home?
Posted by porpoise251@reddit | AskABrit | View on Reddit | 297 comments
I grew up in North America and a childhood memory is the smell of coffee filling the house each morning. I never had any desire to drink coffee and always considered it an adult beverage.
Do British people grow up drinking tea at a younger age? Maybe not in the morning as a child, but maybe as an after school drink?
Also, do you tend to drink the same type of tea (i.e. black) throughout the day?
I'm a tea drinker, but I drink a variety of teas throughout the day: English Breakfast, Vanilla Decaf, Peppermint, Rooibos,....
EnvMarple@reddit
I’m an Aussie. I grew up with the option of tea or coffee or chocolate/milo, as hot drinks any time of the day. I gave up coffee when I was in primary school (it was usually mainly milk with warm water and instant coffee). After that I drank black tea varieties . In my teens I introduced herbal tea. By mid 20’s I’d switched to mainly green tea. I now have a huge tea cupboard (with smaller chocolate section).
Aussies tend to be everything in moderation and not too much caffeine before bed.
I used to have a nightly herbal tea ritual with my niece and nephew when they lived with me between the ages of 2-6. Dinner, bath, tea, story then bed.
katharinelouise@reddit
I've been drinking tea since I was about 10? My Dad would bring me a cup of tea in bed before school every morning! 🥰
tropicsandcaffeine@reddit
I do not live in the UK but my grandmother and mother are from England. My grandmother would always give me tea for as long as I could remember (starting at like 5 years old). First thing in the morning. I used to make her tea cozies that she swore she loved to use!
Dapper-Bison-6153@reddit
That was nice of your Dad
katharinelouise@reddit
He's wonderful :)
Tom_FooIery@reddit
My parents used to put tea in my bottle when I was a baby. I was programmed early.
ItGetsEverywhere1990@reddit
We had tea at school too. At breaktimes. Big sugary plastic mugs of the stuff.
Pleasant-Put5305@reddit
Tea in the early days was usually a vehicle for biscuits, but yes, it was habit forming.
OkWing5717@reddit
Same with me! Also coffee but that’s because I have ADHD so was obviously looking to be stimulated!
imma2lils@reddit
In my experience, it is always black tea. I was brought up on it from a young age and my daughter had weak/milky tea from around age 2 or so.
stinkyswife@reddit
I think most of us started with milky tea in sippy cups or even the bottle. Any time of day.
Mindless-Thanks7114@reddit
OMG I have seen people give babies milky tea in a bottle.
lastMETALfinal@reddit
I was probably one of those babies, I had milky coffee as well. I think if it were today my parents must likely wouldn't let me have coffee til I was a maybe a teenager but the tea would still be ok.
Spjug@reddit
Got given tea as a toddler, switched to coffee when I was about 9-10.
Equal_Emu6152@reddit
On the hard gear haha classic. It was known as a adults drink bet you Felt toppa👌😆
Raisinsandfairywings@reddit
I always had milky coffee too (I preferred it to tea). It was instant coffee mind you.
lastMETALfinal@reddit
Oh yeah it was deffo instant coffee as a child!
Phillyfuk@reddit
My primary school gave us coffee in the winter. It was great.
MayDuppname@reddit
I had tea in bottles as a baby. The first big boy task I learned to complete independently was making tea at around age 5, so I didn't need to rely on others to get my fix.
Extra-Ebb-3529@reddit
Me too, and my children. Isn’t milky tea in a baby’s bottle normal for us?
MBronsonWisconsin@reddit
I still drink what’s called ‘baby tea’ by a lot of folk I know - weak and milky.
International-You-13@reddit
I remember using a stool to reach the kettle to make my first brew, as soon as my parents knew I could make tea I became the household teaboy.
MayDuppname@reddit
Same. Because I was so young when I learned tea-making skills, my parents bought a cradle thing for the kettle that allowed me to pour hot water safely without having to lift the kettle.
I still don't know if that was a kindness or child abuse to enable my servitude a bit earlier haha.
StockholmGirl29@reddit
My 10 year old daughter has just perfected making a cuppa. She's nearly as good as her dad who makes the best cup ever! I'm a "Johnny foreigner" and my tea is always too weak according to my husband. He calls it "maiden's water"! Not sure what this analogy means but it's what his grandad used to call weak tea!
stinkyswife@reddit
I'm pretty sure my son did (born 1994) - I definitely remember him having tea in a sippy cup (mostly milk, with a little bit of tea from the pot). He used to ask if we'd put 'chugga' (sugar) in, like we had. We'd tell him we had, but we hadn't.
ItGetsEverywhere1990@reddit
Now I just think 'christ... the caffeine.'
But my galaxy brain take in general is that a LOT of 'all this' *points to everything* can be chalked up to a completely unremarked-upon, and unchecked societal caffeine addiction. Everyone out here chugging coffee, red bull, tea, diet coke, then being like 'I'm so anxious' and 'I can't sleep' and 'I just have these rage issues'.
*Source - I quit caffeine 4 years ago
TheCounsellingGamer@reddit
When I first met my partner he told me that he wasn't the best sleeper. The first weekend I stayed with him I watched him drink a cup of tea pretty much every hour, right up to 11pm. I told him maybe he should switch to decaf in the evenings. He did and suddenly, he was sleeping much better
JerkRussell@reddit
I had it from a spoon and later in a sippy cup. Turned out fine, but we’ll see what happens later from the 80s microplastics.
Creative-Pizza-4161@reddit
Yep, I did (I'm now 30) as did all my siblings after me. My kids started having very milky weak tea as little ones (around 2) my eldest could make a cuppa at 5, my 6 Yr old has now learnt and enjoys making his dad a cuppa in the evening lol, it's his "grown up" part of the day. I think it's just ingrained in our culture by this point
Foreign_Emu_7943@reddit
No, that’s not usual
Aur_a_Du@reddit
Yep, milky tea with two sugars in a sippy cup from when I was 2/3. To be fair, it was only really at my grandparents at the weekend. In winter they would add a drop of Whiskey 😂🥃
Equal_Emu6152@reddit
Tea was a daily ritual for everyone young or old. Obviously if you were a kid dipping in a chocolate biscuit that was the meaning of life itself. It's that British even the dog used to get a bowl of it no joke obviously not hot like us but like warm, cold tea though even for the dog thats high treason she loved it. Miss you old dog🐶 All my dogs have had tea, sorry I'm back in the room now was just remembering all the good times we had😢
Glittering_Vast938@reddit
Started drinking tea about 8 years old I think. Often with a biscuit for supper.
cherrymagicgal@reddit
in my family we would have bot bot teas, which were quite literally a baby bottle filled with tea. the tea was mostly milky but it was still tea. again in my family, we were given it around 2yo ish. nephew rn whos 2 loves em and asks for one every morning
Superspark76@reddit
Children are brought up on tea so it's normal when the tea time alarm applies to them when they turn 18
Critical-Corner8046@reddit
I had tea in baby bottles when I was a nipper
lewisluther666@reddit
It really varies from household to household.
Done families permit weak tea, with lots of milk, for their young children. My nephews had very weak tea in their sippy cup.
Most people only drink black tea, it's the default when offering to other people. Any green or oolong is normally the individuals preference at home.
SpectreSingh89@reddit
I been drinking tea since 20, before woulda been now and then. ATM we have normal caffeine: Yorkshire tea. Am the only one who has other teas like Green, fruity, Earl Grey, Empress Grey (Earl is by far the best imo).
hotwheels_x@reddit
Normal tea (Yorkshire teabag, hot water, milk, maybe half a sugar as a treat) since I was very little. Had it in a sippy cup lol
nick-nic@reddit
We come out of the womb holding a cup of tea !
Realistic-Plant-1007@reddit
My Grandad use to put tea in my bottle/sippy cup. I have never liked coffee, I have tried a sip but just isn’t for me.
Lunatic-Labrador@reddit
I didn't like tea as a kid, but my mum kept offering for me to try it. I think around 10 I started to enjoy it and have drank it ever since. It was a morning and just home from school drink.
WraithOfEvaBraun@reddit
I had tea multiple times a day from, well as far back as I remember and I remember a LONG way back
I used to have a flask of tea with my pack up at primary school and I started there at 41/2
My sons also had tea from toddlerhood, was normal for us
NiftyPiston@reddit
I wasn't allowed to drink coffee until I was in secondary school, but my Grannie bought me a little mug with my name on when I was about 4 or 5 so I could have tea in the mornings.
Outside-Resist4688@reddit
I had tea in a beaker too
lizboferrari@reddit
As a baby in a bottle I was given milky tea. 80s baby tho.
KimonoCathy@reddit
Tea from about secondary school age (11-12) I think, though slightly on the weak and milky side initially.
And of course it’s black tea. Anything else isn’t tea!
Square_Quarter_229@reddit
I’ve been drinking tea everyday as long as I can remember. It’s really strange to not have a cup of tea in the morning
New_Pop_8911@reddit
I used to have tea in a beaker from about 2 years old lol. My kids were quite a bit older than me but I can't really remember, just one day they started drinking tea
shelleypiper@reddit
I'd say this is quite common, kids being given weak tea when they're really little, at least for older generations.
Accomplished_Fix5702@reddit
Yes, milky cool tea. My son's first words were 'tup of tea, tup of tea'.
Safe-Professional556@reddit
My nephew drinks tea... Which is odd as his parents don't (both drinks coffee) nor does his younger brother.
AtebYngNghymraeg@reddit
Ditto. I need to start the day with a cup of tea, or I don't feel properly ready for the day ahead.
Flat_Tie4090@reddit
It wakes my brain up. Day starts with p and t.
Caracalla73@reddit
Always say that a cup of tea to start the day is like a gentle caress, whereas a coffee is like a slap and a cold shower. Wakes you up just the same, but the experience is more of a shock.
AtebYngNghymraeg@reddit
I like this analogy.
rich1068@reddit
Same. My eldest took the last tea bag the other evening so I couldn't make a cup in the morning. I was so annoyed. And the day continued downhill from there.
Baby8227@reddit
Been drinking tea since about 9/10 and making the brews since a similar age. It was a right of passage as a kid being trusted with the kettle and making a decent brew. My bestie from schools mum loved me visiting as I’d go in (age 13/14) and be sent straight to the kettle 🤣
Hungry_Hannah23@reddit
I remember drinking tea in my own little kid sized mug probably aged 3 or 4...I used to sit up with my mum and dad and drink tea in the middle of the night when my sister was a baby and screaming the house down at all hours.
I also remember my mum making us "tea and toast" (a slice of buttered toast that you fold in half and then dunk in your tea before eating) for supper a lot!
mammyquatro@reddit
Yup.. we have been known to give babies of about a year old a bottle of milky tea
buzzfrightyears@reddit
There's a picture of me at 18 months drinking tea out of a beaker. I only drink tea now in the afternoon and evening
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Lol. TIL that British people call sippy cups a beaker. In Canada when someone says "beaker" I picture the beakers used in laboratories.
buzzfrightyears@reddit
Well my dad was a physicist 😂
MerlinMusic@reddit
I didn't, never really liked it until early adulthood. I drink loads now though, and my two-year-old often likes to have a tiny cup of his own when I do
Nooodlepip@reddit
Yes started drinking tea as maybe a two year old and have never stopped. And most people drink English breakfast but more and more are branching out to herbal teas. I’ve never met anyone who has black tea.
I know it’s a cliche about the uk and tea but it genuinely is a staple in 99% houses. Literally half way through a cup now.
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
I mean Black vs Green or Herbal. Black could be English Breakfast, Earl Grey,.... But it definitely can have milk or cream added
amhumanz@reddit
99% of Brits drink black tea with a splash of milk. No one drinks black tea without milk, and no one drinks their tea with cream.
Odd-Quail01@reddit
Lots of people drink black tea.
Cheese-n-Opinion@reddit
How often are people drinking those compared to a normal cup of Yorkshire/PG Tips type tea?
Flat_Tie4090@reddit
For me all the time, extra strong, two teabags in one mug let it sit for a wee while. If I can see the bottom of the mug then it's not strong enough, who needs red bull. For me Yorkshire and PG tips are OK but give me Earl grey every day, that's my normal.
Odd-Quail01@reddit
I don't like breakfast tea much so my 15 cups of tea a day are black black tea of some sort or other.
twirling_daemon@reddit
I take all of them with milk 😂
Odd-Quail01@reddit
I think you like milk much more than I like milk (I don't like milk)
Flat_Tie4090@reddit
I drink Earl grey, no milk. Hate coffee. I sometimes get those sachets of cheap instant hot chocolate then add a dollop of double cream, it's like drinking a mug of pudding.
HirsuteHacker@reddit
Wtf are you talking about, lots of people drink tea without milk, it's very common
Fridarey@reddit
If you put cream in tea the big flashy light goes off on the map in the Tea Surveillance Office. It’s how we used to monitor the position of overseas visitors in the olden days.
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Haha. I use milk, but I grew up with a parent who always put cream in coffee. Maybe cream is more for coffee and not tea.
Fridarey@reddit
It is known.
Srapture@reddit
English breakfast tea is a kind of black tea (as opposed to green tea, for example).
PipBin@reddit
Black tea is English breakfast as opposed to tea without milk.
I learned this in the USA having to ask for black tea with milk to get something that was close to a proper cup of tea.
Hopelassie@reddit
Milky tea in a sippy cup and then my own little mug from are about 5. Felt very grown up! I remember me and my big sister made tea every Sunday morning for my parents to wake them up. The tea was apparently disgustingly ghastly but they always drank it.
Flat_Tie4090@reddit
I was in high school when I started drinking tea. It was because when I visited my grandparents the tea pot was always just filled or just getting empty. My Granny would happily have lived off a staple diet of tea if she could have. Happy memories of drinking tea with them while watching countdown. I still watch countdown and watch tea though they are both long gone.
International-You-13@reddit
I've been a lifelong tea drinker, my grandparents would give it to me in a bottle when I was a baby.
KnittyMossBadger@reddit
My kids have all drunk herbal and fruit teas since toddlerhood - we make a pot to have with breakfast each morning and they like to choose flavours. They also like the odd cup of decaf English breakfast tea with milk but we don’t make a habit of it because of the tannins, but rooibos with milk is a regular choice.
jimmywhereareya@reddit
My 4 year old granddaughter has enjoyed a nice cup of tea in a proper cup, not a plastic kiddie cup since she was 2. She will ask for a cup of tea a couple of times a day.
Jumpy_Imagination208@reddit
Yes. When I was at school, for morning break we could have either tea or milk and two biscuits and then we had tea after games (I think it was maybe around 4.30pm) where we could choose between a cup of tea or squash (which is a little bit like cordial but not as syrupy) and we’d get two slices of bread and butter.
At home (like during the holidays etc) we’d often have a slice of cake and a cuppa tea at 4pm.
I couldn’t tell you what age I started drinking tea but it was young.
Now, I actually don’t drink English breakfast tea- just green tea, herbal teas and matcha.
Jonny_rhodes@reddit
My daughter drank it as a baby (decaff, really milky)
PurplePlodder1945@reddit
I used to have a cup of tea when I was little, before school. My mother would leave the half-drunk cup where I left it and I’d drink the rest cold when I got home from school. It’s always weak tea when you’re a child
CMR1891@reddit
All my family’s kids get a weak tea in their sippy cups/bottles with a bit of sugar from a very young age. My cousin was sitting in his little armchair at about the age of two next to my grandad who was in his big chair saying ‘eeee grandad, are we having a brew?’. He’s like 21 now and he’s still a little old man
Phoenix_Fireball@reddit
Some toddlers have milky unsweetened tea in bottles or sippy cups.
Former_Elk_7690@reddit
I've drank tea since around 2 years old .
TooMuchBrightness@reddit
My friend was given caffeinated tea as a baby/toddler in a sippy cup then his mum didn’t know why he never slept 🤣🤦🏻♀️🤣 late 1970s 🤷🏻♀️
Former_Elk_7690@reddit
I had 0 issues as a little one . The amount of tea was only a little in milk and the caffeine negligible
TooMuchBrightness@reddit
Maybe she fed him builders tea 😂👀
JCDU@reddit
OK I'm going to say it - Anyone else find the American obsession with tea here a bit much now?
Most of the UK drink a lot of tea but it's mostly standard issue black tea with milk & sugar and then every 5 minutes we've got someone posting here carefully curating a tea ritual with a variety of posh teas and other nonsense.
As far as I'm aware we don't all go over to r/AskAnAmerican and keep posting about which particular brand of plastic cheese is best on a burger, or whether Bud Lite or Miller is the more discerning choice of cat piss to neck a crate of at a NASCAR event.
Can't the mods make a sticky post about tea linking BS 6008:1980 and call it done?
Ok-Hovercraft9348@reddit
Yes, we were given tea from a very early age, multiple times per day, including tea and toast or cereal for breakfast
One_Pangolin1766@reddit
No joke, my parents would dip a (just used) teabag into the milk bottle when I was a toddler Was probably 7 or 8 years old by the time I was taught to boil the kettle + prep a pot of tea by myself (with supervision)
Gamerlovescats@reddit
Drinking tea since baby. As many cups as I can drink in a day. No coffee yuck Earl grey all day long. No milk or sugar
MacularHoleToo@reddit
Yes, I grew up drinking milky tea as a child.
TwinkleHollow@reddit
What kind of tea are things like Yorkshire Tea and Tetleys? I know they’re black teas, but would that be called breakfast tea?
Even_Video7549@reddit
Yes, i've drank tea for as long as i can remember and both my boys love a cuppa with biscuits and their breakfast
damebabyz56@reddit
Ive drank tea since I were about 6.. my dad always used to make me a cup before school. Always tetleys. Im now 50 and always have tea in a morning or i cant function and my sons had tea from about 4 but always very weak.
Secret-Coast5471@reddit
I think I was about five when I started drinking tea. I had a Peter rabbit mug with two handles so I could hold it with two hands 😂 my son is 11 and he’s just started drinking tea
TooMuchBrightness@reddit
Tea from a very young age (4?) at breakfast and after dinner!
excitedbynaps@reddit
My mum tried to get me drinking tea when I was a small child. I hated it (aside from dipping a biscuit in). I have not had another cup and Im 32 now. (I will have the occasional iced fruit tea if that counts though). I also do not drink coffee or hot chocolate, iced or otherwise.
Atlantree19@reddit
Tea was an on and off thing for me. It was always about when I wad younger, especially at grandma's, we would drink may cups of tea.
When I moved out at 19 I didn't drink it as much but now I'm creeping to me 30s, I now enjoy and afternoon tea at home. It feels comforting and cosy. (I'm ready for the cottage in the middle of nowhere, drinking a cup of tea near a roaring fire).
(I had an ex of mine used to drink about 10 cups of tea a day, I'm not joking...he freaking loves tea).
Coconutpieplates@reddit
I don't know anyone who doesn't give their toddler an at least occasional milky tea. Obviously there's people who wouldn't, but I don't know them 😆 And this includes all the mothers in my groups who are not British, they immigrated here, but are too far into the tea culture to get out lol. In my house it's not a scheduled thing, people usually have a tea when they get in from somewhere so that's when the little one would be offered one. Not at breakfast or evening times. I think he just likes to join in and feel grown up with his tea in his tiny mug.
Sfb208@reddit
I can't remember when I started drinking tea. I'd say most people drink the same type of tea much of the day, though some people will switch to non caffeinated types after a certain time (or not drink any at all), and on special occasions they'll bring out a "fancy" tea. But yeah, I think at least at work we're all drinking the same kind of basic black tea blend, like Yorkshire tea, pg tips (gross), or supermarket own red label.
Saying that, there's no standard way of doing anything.
Historical-Rise-1156@reddit
I didn’t like drinking tea until my mid 20s, I had moved into a flat with only two gas fires for heating so it was cold most of the time. I also realised that the way most people around me made tea that was strong enough to hold a spoon up and when I started drinking tea it was brewed much less strong and was warming in colder weather. So it was a combination of how the tea was made & the Necessity of needing a warm drink
sunflowebloom@reddit
I grew up drinking both tea and thanks to my nan black coffee! I think less kids drink tea now, when I was little some parents gave tea in a beaker. I don’t drink it but most people drink what you find in other countries listed as English breakfast tea (but we drink it all day) and with milk, some have sugar. How much milk is always debated!
NoSeaworthiness2512@reddit
Used to make the tea but never drank the tea until late teens. Always the same type (normal breakfast tea), always with milk, any time of day. Same now. I'd never reach for a vanilla or a peppermint. To me, that's not what a cup of tea is
Down-Right-Mystical@reddit
Crikey, I don't know what you're expecting here, other than a piss take.
No, we don't grow up drinking tea like it's goddamn water.
I drink a lot of coffee. Most people I know start their day with coffee, and maybe have a mug or two of tea later on in the day.
Odd_Gap_9491@reddit
I mean...wrong lol
peterbparker86@reddit
The comments suggest otherwise..
Odd_Gap_9491@reddit
Yeah we drink tea as kids.
"different types of tea", literally all we drink is out favourite brand of black tea. Some people obviously drink green tea or the flavours but if you're offered a cup of tea in the UK it's black tea you are getting. Tetley, Yorkshire, PG Tips, Scottish Blend etc
Not sure I got it before school days with breakfast but other times when I was home and there was a round of teas going I'd get one.
My 7 year old daughter takes a tea with everyone else too.
Fine-University-8044@reddit
I was given tea as a child, probably from around age 7. Tea and toast. I stopped drinking tea around age 10 at a guess, thinking I’d gone off it, until a teacher gave me black sweetened tea for shock, but he didn’t have any milk in. I’ve drunk it black and unsweetened since.
bjblackpool@reddit
I basically started drinking tea as soon as I was old enough not to use a sippy cup. I was about 7 when my parents would add a splash of whisky as a treat/to get me to go to sleep.
Apparently “English Breakfast” is the generic name for the blend we use, though we focus on the brand (and will go to war on whether Tetley/PG/Yorkshire/Co-Op Red Label is the superior blend)
Khaleesix87@reddit
Tbh I was drinking tea from about 8 and making it as well
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Haha. I have this cute visual of British children making tea as well as beans on toast. Probably a rite of passage (and a very healthy one too).
StockholmGirl29@reddit
My 10 year olds "training" started this year. Cup of tea, toast, beans on toast, boiled egg and scones! Her culinary right of passage aged 10! I'm teaching her how to make Swedish cinnamon buns at the weekend!
shelleypiper@reddit
How is it healthy? It's caffeine.
Mindless-Thanks7114@reddit
Has anyone watched the bit in the Royle Family when Anthony is making the tea, all the cups lined up. It almost felt like I was going back in time watching it,
That programme got working class life so right.
StockholmGirl29@reddit
I'm Swedish and we didn't drink tea in my family other than the herbal/fruit variety. My parents were coffee drinkers, as are most Swedes. I remember having weak decaf coffee when I was about 10 but not the real stuff until I was about 13. Kids in Sweden drink hot chocolate as a warm beverage. However, my British husband says he drank tea from babyhood and even had milky tea in his bottle as an infant! His mum backs this up and says it was pretty common when he was a kid in the 80s. He still drinks about 10 cups a day! My kids also like a cup of milky tea but neither like the taste of coffee and I think they're still a bit young for the type of coffee I drink! I do like tea. Builders with milk and two sugars!
Safe-Professional556@reddit
I always loved the smell of coffee but never enjoyed drinking it. It's fine in cake.
Started drinking tea at around 8yrs, but fairly seldom until I was old enough to use the kettle (mid 80s so not a modern easy to use thing). Once I was though it has been my hot drink of choice ever since - but only at home. If out either cold drinks or hot chocolate. I like my tea like tar strong enough to walk on and you don't tend to get that elsewhere.
Over the years I have tried a large range of black teas (tried other too but only really to be able to say I don't like them), but these days I only drink Yorkshire Gold.
ukbenn@reddit
Yup. From v young age. I now exclusively drink loose leaf darjeeling. No milk. No lemon. No sugar. Just amber liquid gold!
Polythene_pams_bag@reddit
I have been drinking tea from 18 months/2years old mum used to stick a milky tea in a bottle twice a day morning when I woke up and evening for bed! I could make tea before I could write! Now as an adult it’s literally all I drink thru the day
motherof_geckos@reddit
I know a lot of people my age who did but I was never allowed to, which ended up okay because I don’t really like tea. I started on coffee probably a bit too early for how hooked I got, I now only drink decaf
Littleleicesterfoxy@reddit
Yeah my family fed me tea before I can remember, my grandma used to let me sup some out of her saucer as that’s how she drank it (it’s very strange to think about now though! Not seen it anywhere else)
Obvious-Water569@reddit
I've known parents make decaf tea for literal toddlers. Granted, it's very weak and milky but it's still tea.
cariadbach64@reddit
My 9 year old grandson likes a cup of tea, although its milkier han mine and he has sugar.
Ancient-Awareness115@reddit
I didn't like tea so I didn't grow up drinking tea, I drink it now as my stomach decided it hates coffee. I have full caff ginger chai in the mornings and decaffe massala chai in the afternoon, these are black tea with spices as the only tea I enjoyed growing up was made by my friends african parents.
I have seen babies be given tea in bottles, like 1 year olds, but I think that is less common now
-MARMITEnTOAST-@reddit
I preferred juice or milk until my mid-teens, about 15. I go with strong english breakfast or any one of a few Yorkshire Tea including decaf.
Personal-Visual-3283@reddit
My kids (2.5, 5 and 7) all drink milky (decaf) tea
dinkingdonut@reddit
I didn't have tea until I was about 10 and coffee a bit later. I prefer coffee to tea now. My children have tried tea but don't like it. I think it's definitely a habit/family custom thing.
60svintage@reddit
I think most Brits like me are weaned on tea. Im sure i went from breast my to a teapot.
Johny_boii2@reddit
I hate tea
JerkRussell@reddit
I started from a baby and my kids are allowed it starting on their first birthday. For my oldest it’s a cup anytime I have one or when the grandparents have one. So, basically constantly but in low volumes because of having a short attention span.
If you ask in the UK parenting sub no one admits to giving their kids tea so it’s probably done still, but judged as something bad parents do.
I drink the same kind all day for the most part. English breakfast tea. Just not always the same brand. Occasionally I’ll have something herbal in the evenings when i don’t want the caffeine.
iNobble@reddit
Used to have a little cup of tea when I was 5 or 6. Wasn't very strong though, and very milky. Think of it more as a warm tea-flavoured milkshake, or warm bubble tea without those revolting tapioca balls
Poo_Poo_La_Foo@reddit
I'm from the south of England and it was not common to give children hot drinks like tea and coffee. It didn't happen in my family, nor did any of my friends families give them tea or coffee as children. That said, my extended family from the north of England gave their children tea all the time and I found it pretty odd!
I'm not sure why you'd want or need to caffinate children? 🤷🏼♀️
poxelsaiyuri@reddit
This makes sense as I’m from the south of England but my mums family moved here from further north, I was brought up on bottles of tea and still have hot blackcurrant squash when I’m feeling ill (normally with a bit of honey in it)
Poo_Poo_La_Foo@reddit
Update: Just googled it - apparently the NHS advice is not to give kids tea, coffee or caffeinated fizzy drinks under 12 - which makes sense!
poxelsaiyuri@reddit
My parents gave me tea in a bottle, the late 80s/early 90s was wild for parenting. Would have a cup of tea with breakfast as a kid then 2-3 between finishing school and going to bed (my parents probably drink 5-10 cups a day my mum tea and my dad coffee)
My own children (7-23) have only had tea given to them by my parents (the 7 year old has never had it but they gave my 10 and 23 year old it as a toddler behind my back because they knew I wouldn’t approve, the 10 year old isn’t a tea fiend by my 23 year old is (we lived with my parents until she was 1.5))
TheGeordieGal@reddit
I suspect I started drinking very weak tea as a toddler.
I remember for sure that as a Brownie we all made our parents a cup of tea as part our hostess badge when we made our promise at 7 years old - so I was more than capable at that age! I remember trying various quantities of milk and then 1 day deciding I like my tea like mum (black) instead of dad (milky and with sugar).
I’m pretty sure when I was going to school in winter we’d have a cup of tea with breakfast.
Clit_Master69420@reddit
I got in a wreck in my 3 wheeled Reliant Robin a few years ago: i awoke in hospital and noticed my IV drip was Ceylon pekoe.
shrugs
tattoodetective@reddit
Since I was a bairn - I used to love sitting and watching She Ra with a mug in my hands. I loved a milky tea in the morning. I think the best day of my mam's life was when I learned how to make a brew. A proper good cuppa is the answer to most things.
Clit_Master69420@reddit
😅🥰🥰🥰🥰
New_Line4049@reddit
We're given a cup of tea as soon as we're born.
Clit_Master69420@reddit
free: issued by HM Govt.
Cup is sturdy plastic: many still carry their Thatcher era mugs, usually engraved.
workerbee41@reddit
Tea was ever-present growing up, but I didn’t like it as a little kid; too hot. I preferred my “pop” (actually squash, Robinsons or generic). Eventually felt like that was too kiddie so I started drinking tea at about 10 or 11.
Moved to the US at 20, stopped drinking tea pretty quickly because it was harder to get basic teabags and electric kettles were uncommon at the time (1994) and switched to coffee, which I HATED the smell of before I moved here, after a long love affair with Mountain Dew. My mum moved here in with me about ten years ago so once again tea is ever-present in the house, I just stick to black coffee though.
Rachieash@reddit
I can remember having a cup of tea as young as 8, if one family member was putting the kettle on, we’d all be offered one, usually Tetleys or PG Tips…I prefer green tea nowadays.
BrownCollie26@reddit
We grew up drinking tea from as young as I can remember (my parents had a Teasmade machine next to the bed! 😂), and right through teen years would always have a cuppa and biscuits when we got home from school. I never drank coffee until mid teens, and didn't drink it regularly until college years, when late night partying made caffeine a morning essential. Now I'm a coffee addict but I still like a cup of tea in the afternoon. Most adults I know drink both, but it only seems common for kids to have tea, never coffee.
Medical_Ad_5505@reddit
Yes, I remember we used to give our nieces and nephews tea in their bottle. I also grew up drinking tea as a child
mozzy1985@reddit
My mum had me on tea from very young. I had tea in sippy cups. I only ever drink breakfast tea and average around 10 a day.
Old_Top2901@reddit
I was never really interested in tea (I was more into pop!) until I went to uni. All my housemates were constantly making tea and that’s where I developed the habit. I don’t recall being told when I was young I couldn’t have tea, but it was never offered to me either. I just wasn’t bothered by it. Now I’m tea all the time!
pot51e@reddit
We tend to try tea in our early teens, and then go from there. Personally, I only ever drank tea in the forces - NATO standard - apart from that I'm a coffee drinker of 40 years. Tea never landed with me.
HirsuteHacker@reddit
Most people definitely have tea before they're 10
pot51e@reddit
Not by choice.
Salty-Value8837@reddit
I was half raised in Scotland and my mom would put tea diluted with milk in our bottles occasionally. Never drank coffee until 30 something because the machine at work didn't have tea.
HirsuteHacker@reddit
I drank tea every morning from about 6 to about 16, my mum would make me a brew with some toast for breakfast and I'd sit with her and watch the news.
Decent-Chip-868@reddit
My kids (now teenagers) grew up on herbal tea such as mint, lemon and ginger, turmeric, etc because that's what I like. I never liked black tea until the last few years when I realised that not all tea tasted like the stuff my parents and siblings used to have, and that it can be good without milk, which I don't like. My then 14 year old discovered the joys of black tea and introduced me and we now enjoy a great variety of teas. My younger kid still prefers mint tea as her main drink.
Whollie@reddit
I grew up drinking tea. When we were very young it was less brewed and more milk added than adults would drink - or even diluted with a splash of water.
My dad brought me a cup of tea every morning before he went to work. He left much earlier than I woke up but I always drank it because he'd made it for me.
As an adult I drink next to no tea, I've got a caffeine intolerance and need to be very careful with my intake. I also didn't buy milk for years and hate black tea so tended to instant coffee for my one a day. We have a nice coffee machine now so we are definitely a coffee household but have tea for visitors.
My in laws find it weird that I don't drink 'hot drinks' but it's down to the caffeine. I have decaff coffee and tea but it's rarely as good as the real stuff and I don't drink soft drinks much anyway. I'd rather have a pint of water than squash or a soda (or as I call it all, Juice).
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
I'm like you. I drink decaf tea or the herbal ones bc I can't tolerate too much caffeine.
Juice - you must be from Scotland, right? Diluting juice, fruit juice, council juice, juice (pop)? Everything is juice! :)
Whollie@reddit
JUICE.
(Yes, I'm Scottish 😊)
Kickkickkarl@reddit
I started drinking tea as a child. I used to like two sugars in my tea. Then I started work aged 15 so working in people's houses I was offered tea daily so would drink tea alot more. I think at some point I stopped having sugar in my tea and then in 2018 I switched to decaf tea which has been brilliant.
I have tried drinking normal yeah and I end up pissing every 5 minutes due to the caffeine so I have to drink decaf these days.
RegularWhiteShark@reddit
I've drank tea since I was a toddler.
Eskarina_W@reddit
I remember being given a cup of tea after dinner every day at my child minders house. At some point I decided I'd just prefer a cup of milk and didn't really start drinking tea again until decades later. I was 6 when she moved overseas so was drinking tea probably aged 4 or 5.
TarnishedLissy@reddit
If someone in the uk offers a brew, unless they specify otherwise they mean black tea (eg Yorkshire Tea, PG Tips, Typhoo) with a splash of milk. Maybe sugar, but that is often looked down on as a childish indulgence.
And that brings me on to the kids thing. Yes children drink tea. I think it's going out of fashion now for very young children but it still isn't unusual. It is widespread enough that a very common way to teach primary school kids how to write instructions is to get them to write down how to make a cup of tea.
My Dad only drinks tea or beer. It is incredibly rare for him to drink any other liquid, even at special occasions he will toast with a pint or a brew. Tea is black tea with milk (fresh cow milk) and beer is real ale from a hand pump or bottle.
Fuzzy_Possibility@reddit
I’ve been drinking tea as long as I can remember - it started very weak probably more warm milk with a tea bag dunked quickly in.
Paulstan67@reddit
For most people tea starts at a young age.
Yes the vast majority of the tea consumed in the uk is black tea, most other countries call it English breakfast tea. We just call it tea.
Almost all tea is drank with milk,
There are people who drink other teas but this is a minority.
Don't understand estimate how huge the tea culture is here.
We have aisles full of tea in every supermarket, we drink so much that buying a box of 400 teabags is common. We even have them available in bulk bags with 1000 bags.
When we go on holiday we take tea with us because foreign tea just doesn't quite hot the spot. So much so the first thing we do on our return to the UK is put the kettle on. (Any yes every household has at least one kettle , microwaving water would get you deported)
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Haha. I like a stovetop kettle.
Yorkshire sells really nice boxes with 80 tea bags in Canada. And Twinings recently added value boxes with 100 bags for their most popular teas (English Breakfast, Earl Grey, Peppermint, Camomile,...) which is amazing because before 50 tea bags was the largest package they sold. I can't wait to visit a UK tea aisle. That must be amazing.
We do usually call black tea just "tea", but that would normally mean English Breakfast or Orange Pekoe (a common name for black tea in Canada) unless someone specified Earl Grey or some other tea.
But most Canadians I know are huge coffee drinkers.
Gee897@reddit
I feel like I had tea in a bottle as a child LOL. Remember making my first cup unsupervised at around 7 with 2 sugars and I became obsessed. I have lots of fillings now and don't drink tea with sugar anymore 🙃
ev_hepworth@reddit
most young kids don’t like it (not sweet enough, too hot) but I probably started drinking tea around 10 years old. I grew up partly in Canada and France so really I guess it was when we moved back to the uk !
StunnedinTheSuburbs@reddit
I grew up in North America but to Irish parents. We grew up drinking tea, only black tea, I suppose what is sometimes referred to as ‘English breakfast tea’, but we drank Irish blends. I remember having tea with toast before school from at least 8 years old? Can’t really remember. Mostly morning and afternoon, but as I got older, we’d drink tea in evening too. My mum drank coffee but never offered me any and I still only drink tea.
neilm1000@reddit
I assume that vanilla decaf is regular black tea (albeit decaf) with a small amount of vanilla?
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Yes! I like the vanilla flavour in the evenings. It's not a sugary/syrupy concoction. Either vanilla-infused regular tea or add your own drop of vanilla to tea.
Seaside83@reddit
My 2yr old has a cup of milky tea every morning with his breakfast. He absolutely loves it!
Stressedhumbucker@reddit
I started having tea at around 12 or 13. I used to have it fairly milky, but now I drink it strong and completely black. Regular black tea during the day, then I change to Redbush in the evening or else it'll make it hard to sleep.
TheHoneyThief@reddit
Tea at a younger age? Yes:
When I was a kid (in the 80s) we used to be a tea only family where my parents would drink from taller mugs and I would drink from a smaller half mug (if you really want to complete the mental image then search for Bilton's Spring Bouquet and you'll see what I mean). Mine was milkier and sweeter because, y'know, kids.
Now, however, the vile perversion against beverages known as coffee has infiltrated our culture, so tea isn't as popular as it once was.
As for types of tea, it's nominally down to personal taste with the exception of purpose: If the tea is simply to slake one's thirst then simple common tea brands are used (such as Yorkshire, Tetley, etc...) but if it is to be savoured then the more exotic blends offered by Twinings are used, such as Earl Grey, Assam, Lady Grey, Darjeeling, etc...
Personally I enjoy the odd cup of Earl Grey, or Assam if it's served cold (asian supermarkets sell refrigerated bottles of milk tea). Two sugars normally. Five if I'm feeling like shit.
neilm1000@reddit
I've been drinking tea in the morning since I was about 6-7. I'm 44, and prefer coffee first thing these days.
Middle-agedCynic@reddit
Didn't try tea till teens. Didn't like it then and still not a fan. Had coffee from around 14 but instant so not that strong. This was in the 1970s. My own children were a similar age. One doesn't like tea or coffee. The others prefer coffee but these days are more likely to go for fancy or iced drinks than just regular coffee
TrueMog@reddit
I certainly grow up drinking tea. Although I can’t remember from what age.
My son occasionally drinks a cup of tea (maybe every other day) and he’s 6. He’s been doing that for the last year or two.
He is now at the point where he can make myself and him a cup of tea! 🌼❤️
Weird_Georgiana@reddit
I have no recollection of when I started drinking tea regularly but I've only ever had black tea. Herbal infusions are not tea IMO.
Signal_Cadet@reddit
My sister and I had warm milky tea in our tommy tippy cups when we were little. I also remember us having a cup of tea before school every day. Then when we were teenagers we began making our own tea. I’ve been on at least three cups a day since then.
Sonarthebat@reddit
I was offered it, but rarely drank it. Think I tried my first cup at 11.
WickedWitchofTheE@reddit
I’m British and didn’t drink tea until 18. It was drink it our home but never offered to children. I just started drinking it to fit in because I got tired to people thinking it was weird I didn’t drink tea. I think it’s weird to offer it to children as it has caffeine in it but I do know a lot of people who do offer it to 10 year olds up.
pebbley2@reddit
When young, children usually start on milky tea. It's a sort of progression.
haikoms@reddit
Ah yes, the gateway method!
Final-Unit8862@reddit
My girls grew up drinking tea at the start and end of each day as a routine. I’m into earl grey tea. However, we all drink coffee during the day my daughters have chilled (an abomination) and me hot and strong.
PrettyNobody2342@reddit
Milky tea from about 2 yrs of age. It’s still the go too when things are a bit stressful. Although I mostly drink coffee these days.
witchyAuralien@reddit
Im not British but I was drinking tea with every meal since I was like 4? And I never thought tea could be something for adults/older kids! It's so interesting.
Scrappynelsonharry01@reddit
I have been drinking tea since i was around 7 my gran used to insist on all of us having a cup every time we visited her. She always decided to add sugar even though myself or my parents didn’t like it that way lol but could you tell her nope, don’t ask me how much she added but i know she would add at least 3 in her own and it was soooo sweet so I’m guessing we got the same “treat” to top it off she’d give me some sherbet to eat. I hated that too it gave me so much toothache but i was brought up to just keep quiet about it to be polite but that got to the point of my dad having to tell her to stop the sherbet though it wasn’t worth the dentist trips lol. I still drink tea now but absolutely no sugar. Honestly the amount of sugar that lady fed me I’m surprised i never came home bouncing off the walls. Miss that lady so much
MillyHughes@reddit
I started having weak milky tea age 5. I won't let my kids drink it. They'll need to be at least teenagers.
Novel_Individual_143@reddit
It’s common to develop tea drinking fairly young and you normally drink the same (black) tea in the same way. That’s the standard. Of course some people drink other soft drinks and fruit flavoured warm drinks but to be a British tea drinker it usually means to have black tea with milk and some like sugar.
Metalogic_95@reddit
I'm British and I've never liked tea, love coffee (filter or espresso), black, no sugar.
Foreign_Emu_7943@reddit
No we usually start drinking tea as teenagers
Diddleymaz@reddit
I gave my children tea and coffee as toddlers. I was too.
durontochele@reddit
I used to drink tea since I was really young. I discovered coffee at 14 and stopped drinking tea.
Disastrous_Cloud_558@reddit
If we say tea we mean black tea. Vanilla decaf sounds vile.
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Lol. I can't handle too much caffeine, which is why I drink decaf (even my English breakfast tea is decaf).
The vanilla is a nice flavour. It isn't one of those Starbucks style syrupy drinks I guess London Fog isn't popular in the UK? It's a Canadian drink. Although London Fog is made with Earl Grey tea and vanilla syrup, which I don't like (the syrup). I just like pure vanilla extract/flavour with "regular" black tea and some milk, and a wee bit of honey sometimes.
Fibro-Mite@reddit
One of my earliest memories, as a toddler in the 1960s (I'd have been around 3-4 years old as I remember that my sibling was still a baby in a highchair), was sitting at my maternal grandmother's kitchen table drinking sweet milky tea that was perfect. No-one else could make tea for me like my Nanny. Even as my tastes changed over the years and I stopped having milk, whenever I visited she still made it spot on perfectly, exactly how I liked it, every time. Now I only drink tea if I'm in an area with softer water, I hate the scum that appears when you make tea with hard water. So I'm much more of a coffee drinker.
When my own kids were little (1990s), I'd make them weak tea with milk & sugar. When they wanted to try coffee, I'd put a pinch of instant coffee granules in a mug with hot water, sugar and milk. Nowadays my daughter prefers coffee, but still likes the occasional tea. She won't let her (4 & 7) kids try them yet, though. There seems to have been a push against allowing kids to have anything with caffeine in, no matter how weak in the last decade or so. My son isn't a fan of hot drinks at all now. Sometimes he'll have a hot chocolate, but he'd rather have a cold drink instead.
TylerDarkness@reddit
We don't drink tea in our house, I threw some tea bags away last month because we were having visitors and my husband asked if they were older than our kids. My eldest is four this month.
Ok_Anything_9871@reddit
The age of starting to drink tea or coffee varies a lot. Some people do give it to toddlers; but definitely by the time I was 16 I started to feel awkward that I didn't drink either when people offered.
When we talk about tea we mean black tea, usually English breakfast, unless otherwise specified - and hot! Fruit tea or herbal tea is a whole other drink. Green tea is undeniably tea but no-one British would say it without specifying.
YouSayWotNow@reddit
I started drinking tea around 8 or 9 I think.
Violet351@reddit
My nephew started drinking it before he could even say it
twoquietsuns@reddit
Yea, all day every day, PG Tips standard, Yorkshire and Tetleys also excellent. Earl grey from time to time. Ginger tea as a no caffeine option. Tea forever.
Raisinsandfairywings@reddit
Yes in my family we were all given very milky tea as toddlers. It’s not necessarily seen as a caffeine/“wake up” thing here but as more of a comfort. I’ll probably stick to just hot milk for now with my kids but I reckon by the age of 5 they’ll be having a weak milky tea.
KeyboardMash615@reddit
Probably started drinking it around 12 or so? Which is very roughly normal? My nana was a different generation: had my mum and her siblings on tea practically from birth, and used to give the dog milky tea in his bowl. That was unusual!
Weird1Intrepid@reddit
Those are all herbal infusions apart from the first one
Curious_Octopod@reddit
yeah, tea since a toddler, coffee a bit later - maybe 10?
bitofafixerupper@reddit
I don't really drink tea anymore but I had tea and toast every morning before school
Dollypuggle@reddit
Drank tea as a toddler and wasn’t allowed coffee until I was 10.
NarrowOwl4151@reddit
Rooibos is a crime against humanity.
MissAliceUk@reddit
I started drinking tea quite young! Wasnt allowed coffee until i was a teen.
Wasps_are_bastards@reddit
My kids had milky tea from being toddlers. Apparently so did our childhood dog and the cat helped himself to some of my cup once.
snarkycrumpet@reddit
When I was 6 and my sibling was 4 my Great Aunt would give us a small cup of tea every day after school. When I'm outside of the UK I drink about 3 or 4 cups a day. When I'm in the UK I drink about 7-10 cups a day.
Ennochie@reddit
My three are young adults, but they started drinking tea when they were around 6 or 7.
None of this sugary nonsense, as some replies mention. Just normal tea.
Aware_Ad_431@reddit
I can remember having tea in what they call a sippy cup in the US
IWoreOddSocksOnc3@reddit
I started drinking tea as a little kid, I feel like it's fairly common to do so
twospoons11@reddit
We always had a cup of tea with Sunday tea, from a very young age, I was never a fan. My brother and I have both grown up to be black coffee drinkers
Silver_Foundation681@reddit
I drank very milky, almost white and sugarless tea in a beaker from the age of 2. That was the done thing. Growing up I had cups of tea, and a very milky coffee before bed
My child drinks a very milky decaf, sugarless coffee early every morning, but tends not to want one any other time of the day. They don't really like tea.
Alternative_Pie_1597@reddit
yes milky swwet and not very warm at first. say preechool.,
Missbhavin67@reddit
I started drinking tea at a very early age around four but it wasn't frequent. Just at tea time. Now I'm retired it's my regular drink most of the time. I have the same tea all the time
Illustrious-Divide95@reddit
I have had tea since about 11. It was often served with a meal back then.
The smell is nowhere near as strong as coffee so it's not quite the same for comparison. The process and watching my parents want, make and then drink tea, and show the relaxation and pleasure it brang is a strong and happy memory
Scrombolo@reddit
Yeah, I drank tea with my parents from a very young age. And generally we'd only drink tea-tea, not herbal. As an adult I still drink tea, but also grind my own beans for coffee. And I'll drink roiboos in the evening.
Proud_Ad_8915@reddit
Never had tea as a child. Had a cup as an adult and I prefer coffee
S1nnah2@reddit
Mum would make a pot of tea at breakfast and there would be a pot waiting when we got home from school.
Thpfkt@reddit
My first word was tea and my mum used to make a me a milky tea in my sippy cup as a baby lol
Ok_Place1431@reddit
Yes, I was drinking sugary milky tea by age 4. The sugar went when I was about 9. The milk went went I was about 12/13 and I'm a dedicated black tea drinker ever since.
Speaking of black tea, that's what we mean when we say tea. Of the ones you've listed, only the first - English Breakfast - is a black tea and would be considered tea in the generally accepted "UK default" sense. The others are "teas" in inverted commas in that they involve leaves or bags and are made with hot water. Tea means black tea. Other types of tea, like green tea or oolong tea are given their full names. Your peppermints and your rooibos and such aren't teas at all but are colloquially called such, again named in full.
Southernbeekeeper@reddit
Yeah traditionally british children drink tea. This is partly why we didn't have cholera like in the past.
Additional-Lion6969@reddit
Was around 10 I think
anabsentfriend@reddit
I had tea from about the age of five. It was weak and milky with a couple of sugars in it (would make me gag now!). I hated all the usually 'children's' drinks like squash, and just wanted tea. This was in the mid 1970s.
SarahL1990@reddit
People put tea in their baby's bottle.
PossibleGlad7290@reddit
I’m 44 and as far back as I can remember I’ve been drinking tea, definitely in the mornings too. From the age of about 8/9 I was allowed to make my mom and dad tea (dad 3 sugars and mom no sugar).
bluebellwould@reddit
We put it in my little sister's bottle... I guess all us older ones had it too...
But the she also got beer in a shot glass age 3 or 4 in return for fetching his the can from the fridge so...
wildflower12345678@reddit
I can't remember a time from growing up when I wasn't given a cup of tea at breakfast, lunch and dinner. Since becoming adult I generally have coffee.
Time-Mode-9@reddit
I remember driving tea when I was about 6.
Tea in UK is always black tea, unless specified otherwise.
Slightly confusingly, white tea is black tea with milk, black tea is black tea without milk.
Educational-Angle717@reddit
People saying yes is a bit odd to be honest. I never knew any kids drinking tea. It was always squash
Cheese649@reddit
I was probably 9 or 10 when I started drinking tea
TequilaMockingbirds8@reddit
Making a cup of tea is the first really grown up task you learn as a British kid, I learned at about 6 or 7
TequilaMockingbirds8@reddit
We drink tea from being very young, I had a cups brought to me in bed before school every morning. In my experience and those around me is that we tend to drink black tea with milk. I live in the US now and people here love to try and get me to drink all the frou frou teas because I’m British and I have to tell them that builders tea with milk and sugar is my drink, that while some individuals do drink those, as a nation that’s not our drink. In fact, I didn’t even know what we drank was called black tea til I moved here in my thirties, it’s just tea
blackcurrantcat@reddit
All my life, I really can’t remember a time when I didn’t drink tea with breakfast.
loveswimmingpools@reddit
My parents love tea but I always preferred coffee. Still do.
mrbullettuk@reddit
My kids have never drunk tea, 16 & 14. I don’t drink it but my wife drinks loads.
CreativeAdeptness477@reddit
As a very very young child I had milky coffee in my sippy cup, or so I'm reliably informed. Can't stand coffee as an adult. The smell is vile. That sippy cup was probably the last time I drank coffee.
Tea... hook that shit up to my veins! I can't recall a time when I wasn't drinking tea. I had that in my little sippy cup too.
Yorkshire tea primarily. I'll occasionally get other brands but Taylors of Harrogate's Yorkshire Tea is the best.
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
I have Yorkshire in my cupboard. Yorkshire (Taylors) and Twinings are my favourites!
Yeah, I didn't like the coffee smell each morning as a child and I never became a coffee drinker.
CreativeAdeptness477@reddit
Top man.
shortercrust@reddit
Maybe not typical, especially these days, but I drank tea in my sippy cup from a very young age. Definitely at 3, perhaps younger. It’s one of my earliest memories. A cup of tea first thing in the morning has been a part of my life ever since. If I realise I’ve run out of tea bags at 2am I’ll get dressed at drive the 24 hour garage to get some rather than not have one in the morning.
Alarmed_College_8169@reddit
I didn't because I didn't like it but yeah, loads of my friends drank it as children. I don't know if they had it first thing in the morning or not. I drink it now but not loads. I think most people just drink normal tea with milk and perhaps sugar. I drink both normal tea with milk, or fruit/herbal teas. Personally I don't like black tea on it's own and I think that's true for the majority. (I apologise if I offend the tea connoisseurs here, I do know you're the fanciest and most British of us all!) I'm more likely to have a coffee as my first hot drink of the day. I'm a big kid though so really I just drink squash or water!
PaleozoicQueen@reddit
My morning drink is coffee but yes as a child and a teenager I would have a builders tea from time to time. Now I am partial to Earl Grey but still am a coffee girl.
My morning smell though was the smell of flowers and fields driving through rural lanes on the way to high school with my dad, who was a teacher.
Veenkoira00@reddit
They used to put in baby bottles
SoOverThisAlready@reddit
My mum is a coffee drinker but my nan used to put milky tea in my play tea set as a little kid. I would then play mother pouring it into the little cups and forcing my family members to drink it. She also used to make us a cup of sweet milky tea when we woke up on a morning as we would stay at her house at weekends.
We only every drank breakfast tea, although my nan always drank earl grey. The smell of earl grey (which I now drink along with English breakfast) is one of the smells that brings back memories of her.
These days I dont really drink fruit teas unless its in bubble tea drinks.
Evening_Lack9831@reddit
I drink both tea and coffee now, but have been drinking tea since I was probably 7.
It wasn't often back then(and made milkier), usually when we would visit my Yorkshire born and bred relatives or as a weekend morning thing. I'd say I've been drinking a good Yorkshire Tea brew regularly since I was probably 13?
johnny_briggs@reddit
They put that shit in your beaker. They make you love it and then you end up addicted.
Lau_kaa@reddit
Most tea in the UK is black tea with milk.
I had tea from 7 or 8. In the morning as well.
Rudybrewster@reddit
Tea and loads of sugar for me from about 10 years old. Dropped the sugar much later.
BryOnRye@reddit
Yup, same. Usually 4 or 5 sugars as a kid, levelled off at 2 in my 20s and down to one now that I can’t eat and drink whatever I want without putting on weight.
Low-Tangerine4492@reddit
No, I'm British and worked in Italy as a teenager (au pair) and got hooked on expresso...
Unfortunately the British generally can't make decent coffee 🤷
phoebean93@reddit
Got hooked on what?
Marzipan_civil@reddit
I think I started drinking tea when I was twelve or so. Don't remember drinking it in primary school, anyway. I would have drunk hot chocolate at a younger age though.
AnneKnightley@reddit
I didn’t drink tea til I was late teens. Before that it was water, milk or cordial only.
Strange-Direction-85@reddit
Milky brew in a bottle from birth. It's the law.
No-Decision1581@reddit
My grandmother rarely washed her teapot and used loose tea, the closer to the end of the pot you got the more it felt like your teeth were furring over. I am what is known as a teapot now because of the amount of tea I was exposed to growing up. Can't get enough of it. Keep your flavoured stuff, black tea all day with a dash of milk and a spoon of sugar please. Now, put your knickers on and go make me a cup of tea
anxiousthroway85@reddit
I was born in 85 I would have a beaker/ sippy cup with milky tea from being about 2 in the morning and in the afternoon. My mother was upset when I started primary school aged 4, as this meant I would now miss my 2 o’clock cup of tea.
Didn’t aim to do this with my own kids, it our youngest from ages 18months used to grab our tea and gulp it down if we set down half a cold mug before we could stop her, she bloody loves the stuff
freebiscuit2002@reddit
Coffee is no less common in the UK than tea. Families do what they do. There is no rule about it.
mrnico7@reddit
Aye, my gran always used to make sweet tea and buttered plain bread toast as far back as I can remember. Perfect breakfast.
chez2202@reddit
I can’t answer for everyone but I grew up drinking tea and so did my daughter. Regular tea (think English breakfast tea).
We both now drink all different types of tea. Peppermint, camomile, vanilla, any fruit tea. But not Rooibos. That crap smells like a tramp’s arsehole.
porpoise251@reddit (OP)
Really? I find it similar in taste to the vanilla black tea flavour, but then I only drink it with some honey and milk. I have it as an evening tea sometimes (when I don't want caffeine). It's not an everyday tea and it isn't my favourite, but I do probably drink it a few evenings each week.
chez2202@reddit
Try it without the honey and milk and see what you think.
It’s honestly foul to me, but everyone tastes things differently and it’s quite likely that I’m wrong.
gohugatree@reddit
I reckon Rooibos tastes and smells like burnt cardboard.
chez2202@reddit
I’m happy for you. Because burnt cardboard is a way better and much more acceptable description than mine.
OnPointTip1@reddit
Every day since I was about 10 years old. I'm 57 now
hallerz87@reddit
My grandma picked us up once a week after school and would always make us a cup of tea. So I definitely was drinking tea from around 8 years old
Hunter037@reddit
My kids don't drink tea and neither do I
LiquoricePigTrotters@reddit
I used to have tea in my baby bottle.
stupidlyboredtho@reddit
My nana doesn’t give a fuck about anything and was putting tea in my bottles when I was an infant. Said it helped me sleep better 😂
JDM2783@reddit
My mum would put some tea into mine and my brother's sippy cups when we were kids (Scotland) 😂
Late_Coyote_5239@reddit
I am 70, so remember long ago most children had tea with breakfast.& at tea time. My eldest grandson, now 31 had tea as a baby. But my younger grandchildren were never given tea & don't drink it now. I think it is a generational thing.
stinkyswife@reddit
Ooh I've just had a flashback to my own childhood cups of tea in the 70s, made with stera 🤢, and escaped tea leaves in it
TinnitusWaves@reddit
I don’t remember a time when I didn’t drink tea. My nana constantly had a pot going. Funnily enough my dad would occasionally make my brother and I a cup of milky coffee on a Sunday morning. I distinctly remember the house in Chester where that happened. Welived there for 6 years so I’d have been between 4-10.
I’m 50 now and have lived in New York for 25 years. I drink two cups of Yorkshire Gold almost as soon as I wake up. I’ll drink another 3-5 cups throughout the day. I’ll sometimes switch to Earl Grey in the afternoon. I’ll drink coffee if I have to but I’m not really that fussed about it. I’ve managed to indoctrinate my 13 year old to the ways of the cuppa.
MidasToad@reddit
Started drinking black tea with milk at age about 7. It is an breakfast, afternoon and evening drink, not usually accompanying a meal.
In the UK, most of the tea is a milky black tea as default - we drink other tea, but it would be considered much more niche (I like a herbal train the morning).
CocoRufus@reddit
Ive been drinking strong tea, small amount of milk, no sugar since I was about 12. Im now 59 and my world is not right without that first cuppa of the day
fluffyfluffscarf28@reddit
My four year old nephew loooooves making others tea and having his own (weak!) cup. It's definitely something we know from a young age!
Mindless-Thanks7114@reddit
When I was growing up tea was the only option, first time I had coffee was when I was about 12 and it was coffee powder with chicory (sp) it tasted weird but I still liked it better than tea.
gohugatree@reddit
My Irish (living in UK) parents thought it was appropriate to put sugared hot tea in a baby bottle, I’ve been ‘on the tea’ since about 1 year old. If I have less than 10 cups a day I feel cheated.
lis8904@reddit
I have to say I was different my mum and my brothers all three drank tea then coffee except me I don’t drink hot drinks ever I’m the only one of our family that did not drink twa coffee and other hot drinks
Heathy-Heatherson@reddit
Yeah I was drinking milky tea and milky decaf instant coffee since I was a toddler.
Quirky_Yak2181@reddit
Yes even in the mornings! As a child I personally didn’t really like tea that much so didn’t drink it but my younger sister would have a cup of tea every morning before school.
As soon as I could walk and understand basic instructions my parents had me running tea for them like a little tea servant 😂. I could make a great brew before I even enjoyed it myself. It’s something that a lot of english kids are brought up around, and most kids I knew growing up would drink tea. (sometimes with sugar to sweeten it a bit if the bitterness was too advanced for a young palette)
Now that I am older, I do drink tea (english breakfast) regularly, maybe 3-5 cups a day or more if I am working from home. In the evening I’ll have decaf or chamomile to avoid the caffeine. It grew on me a lot, and a part of that is definitely due to it just always being around, giving it a nostalgic kind of link.
Nigelb72@reddit
Started off drinking tea but now mainly drink black coffee... Nothing hits better than a good cuppa when made properly though
Mindless-Thanks7114@reddit
I don't drink tea now, apart from when I am very skint and drink a weak black tea to calm the hunger pangs, but I can remember having at least two cups, milk and sugar, before I went to school.
Apart from pop (soda) it was all we drank at home.
So many cups of tea lol.
TheHootOwlofDeath@reddit
I don't remember the first time I had a cup of tea but I remember my mum putting it (cooled) in my sibling's sippy cup when they were a toddler, so I was probably under 5!
Growing up, we always had a cup of tea first thing in the morning once we got up and I still do now. I always drink black tea with milk throughout the day. I probably have at least 5 cups a day, winter and summer.
True-Comfortable-465@reddit
I started drinking tea when I was about 10. Started with sugar, dropped it when I got older.
bushcraftbobb@reddit
I was given " baby" tea from a very young age and have seen friends with children do the same , basically twice as much milk to tea type ratio given to toddlers or younger.
SnooDonuts6494@reddit
From about the age of 10, IIRC. Always the same brand - a "normal" tea; not flavoured. With milk.
Afraid-Astronomer886@reddit
I'm pretty sure we used to have really milky tea in a bottle when we were really young
Conlilrae@reddit
Our five year old and 14 year old have both shared having tea with us since toddlers. Started at two sharing in the experience of having a cuppa together but with a tiny dip of our tea bag in very milky tea. Then slowly less milk added over the years. Our 14 year old now effectively has a milky tea. Lovely tradition for all to share in and tell stories of our days over.
cakesforever@reddit
Yes kids do often have a cup of tea.
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