This is me losing it at Sean Mendes after hearing his songs too often in the car "What!? No you can't treat her better, you don't even know her. She's not just some blank slate you can project your fantasy on, once her actual personality starts getting in the way of what you imagined you're going to realize you wasted both your time. You have no idea what he does for her or that he actually does know the real her and is treating her really good all things considered. Besides, if you really cared about her you'd respect her ability to make the decision she wants and respect that decision. Let it go Sean! Ugh."