Anon on mommies. | TheaterFire

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JustChillin3456@reddit

Had to explain to my foid the other day that there’s no such thing as a femcel irl

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Sacr3d_Kay@reddit

Fuckin’ waiting for that guy you speak of, twin

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Shadowbannedandproud@reddit

It does not apply if you are a transformer.

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Pope_Aesthetic@reddit

It’s true that a lot of guys struggle to find sex or relationships, it’s tough out there and it’s depressing sometimes.

But you’re assuming women have it easy just because they get attention. Most of that attention isn’t love or connection, it’s just people wanting something from them. Getting a lot of interest from men looking to fuck you isn’t the same as getting something meaningful.

Imagine being surrounded by people who want to fuck you all the time since you were like 12 years old, but none of them actually care about you as a person. You might fun at first, but eventually the novelty wears off and you just feel hollow.

So yeah, you’re dealing with frustration from not getting what you want. A lot of women are dealing with frustration from getting the wrong kind of attention over and over. Both sides can be unhappy, it’s just for different reasons. Try and empathize a little.

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geraterahmen@reddit

this has to be bait

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Sharky-Li@reddit

Instead of going avg guys that are more likely to want a relationship, they still mostly go after the chads who will inevitably pump and dump them and then complain about it. No, it is completely self-inflicted and the harsh reality is avg women don't want avg guys but that until they reconcile that they will continue to suffer. It's like buying a Ferrari and being surprised it's not as reliable as Civic.

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Senior-Resist9252@reddit

This just in: everyone wants to fuck hot people.

Most people tho are fugly and need personality and to take care of themselves to make it.

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Sharky-Li@reddit

Yes but many women also want an actual relationship which they cannot achieve if they go for the hot guys who have many options. Women can always get sex which is why they often look for something in part because of how they are wired. Men want relationships too sometimes but more often than not men are just happy with sex.

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Senior-Resist9252@reddit

Everyone wants to bang hot people and be in a really happy relationship, regardless of what they have in their pants.

The problem is being too immature to get all of that.

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Sharky-Li@reddit

Not necessarily as a significant portion of men, especially in their younger years, tend to prioritize sexual freedom over the constraints of a committed relationship. While some women are like this too, judging from the common complaints we see it's far less than men.

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Senior-Resist9252@reddit

Oh boohooohoo, the poor woamyn.

Nah, women getting attention from dudes raises the chances for a fulfilling relationship to occur, due to there being more opportunity for it through constant interactions.

Sure, many are stupid, just like many guys are stupid, and need to go through a few km of dick to figure out the dudes were there just to pump and dump.

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Pope_Aesthetic@reddit

Please talk to more women.

Talking to my friends, it’s really opened my eyes to how manipulative, whether intentionally or not, a lot of men are.

Several, several, several times I’ve heard them get excited about a guy who’s treating them well, making a ton of promises, then pump and dumping them some weeks later because they got cold feet or found someone else. Imagine how that would make you feel happening again and again.

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Senior-Resist9252@reddit

That happening again and again would mean the woman is dumb as bricks. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me 282883 times, shame on me.

And yeah, i have woamyn frens, i have a gf, i have sisters. All of whom are functional adults and not outliers who would basically say the same thing.

Men and women are manipulative, because both men and women are shitty. After a certain age and experience this isnt a surprise, you come to expect it.

What is rly bad tho is when people waste time with this whole gender war men vs women bullshit, instead of taking time to work on themselves. But that's hard, so it's easy to just make up an excuse of how the other gender is bad and that is why hot girl #838839 is always manipulated by fuckbois, not that she is a hot girl who attracts everyone and then chooses fuckbois.

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JustChillin3456@reddit

You don’t have to tell me

I was a femboy for a few years, would get thousands of matches on dating apps. Knew what it felt like to be a woman

Still was much preferable to getting 1-2 matched as a cis man

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nyaasgem@reddit

You got matches? 😭

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Skafandra206@reddit

And those are high numbers of matches for average men.

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BrocoliAssassin@reddit

It's on the women too. Most of them don't even realize just how bad their decision making is cause they've been told whatever they wanted to hear in order for the guy to get laid by them.

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Theroux721@reddit

You should insult men by calling them sluts; throw it right back in their face. That'll definitely work on them since it's clearly an insult.

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Sharky-Li@reddit

A femcel is just a 3/10 that won't settle for anything less than an 8/10 so in their minds, they there are "literally no datable men anymore." It's kind of like how they'll have a closet full of clothes but nothing to wear.

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Vall3y@reddit

I'm asking for real, isn't it literally the same for incels and fat women?

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KomasanblueTheSequel@reddit

No, incels LITERALLY have no options

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sadacal@reddit

If that was truly the case then ugly people would have been bred out of the gene pool by now.

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nyaasgem@reddit

By now?

Bruv, just 2-300 years ago people were still forced into marriages. Hell, maybe even today in some backwards East-Asian families.

Even further back you literally didn't have a choice because you had only a handful of women available in your village instead of several hundred thousand like today.

The gene will not die out that fast.

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FuckRedditIsLame@reddit

Ugly isn't a gene, it's a complicated thing, and can result from two attractive parents, in as much as two ugly parents can produce attractive offspring.

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Senior-Resist9252@reddit

Nah, cause there wasn't an evolutionary imperative for millions of years for it.

Ppl forget that evolution happens slow as fuck.

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TheSenCtizer@reddit

In the past, women had to rely more on men on income so they were incredibly willing to settle for the money, even if they weren't exactly thrilled about the guy's looks. It's only very recently, in the past couple of decades which is just a few generations so far, that women, at least in the west, have achieved income parity with men and we can see the result of it: chad carousel, hypergamy central. Lastly, you do know ugly and short women exist right?

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Sharky-Li@reddit

For the most part yes but many believe that femcels don't exist. I'm saying they do but their dynamic is slightly different since the original term for incels was guys who can't get sex which doesn't apply to women.

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HowlingReezusMonkey@reddit

Nah there are chubby chasers for those women

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Vall3y@reddit

Yes, the would be incels

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BrocoliAssassin@reddit

You've never talked to attractive woman that don't get what they want. Femcel comes in all forms.

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Sharky-Li@reddit

Men with options regularly shut down hot women too but the question is does she win if she can seduces them or does the man? I known guys who rejected dimes because they knew there was more where that come from and that it actually makes them more attractive since most guys don't turn them down. People want what they can't have.

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Iron-Fist@reddit

I mean the same is true of men; lowering your standards is undefeated.

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mayhap11@reddit

Not even remotely the same. Ugly men do not get approached by women at all. An ugly man with social anxiety and no friends has basically a 0pc chance of getting into a relationship. An ugly woman will still attract the attention of men, they may just not be the men she is interested in.

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Iron-Fist@reddit

It's exactly the same. And for both lowering standards works literally 100% of the time. If it isn't working just keep lowering your standards it is guaranteed to work literally 100% of the time. Don't worry about underselling yourself, what you get is your market value (that's how markets work).

An ugly man with social anxiety and no friends can still get a relationship, attract the attention of women, maybe just not the one he is interested in. See? Easy statement.

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Senior-Resist9252@reddit

Nah, it's not.

An ugly guy without social skills, that is not outgoing has close to 0 chances.

An ugly girl without social skills will still have someone wanting to hit that.

Both can improve and both can randomly have a happenstance interaction that leads to something romantical in nature, because human mating doesn't give a fuck about our modern values and chemistry can just happen, but anyone disputing this is dillusional / not wanting to see reality.

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Iron-Fist@reddit

Nah dude you just need to keep lowering the bar. At the bottom literally any man can pay someone desperate for a relationship. It'll be just as unfulfilling as a woman with someone just to use her.

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