So, I just actually listened to this song, actually listened to the lyrics;
Posted by Affectionate_Sky9090@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 180 comments
Landslide by Fleetwood Mac and bawled my eyes out. I've heard the song before but never actually listened to the lyrics in depth. I just lost a friend and the song came on during my drive home and the lyrics were actually painful.
Does anyone, being gen x feel the pain of this song? I just cant believe how deep it hit me.
BraveLittleFrog@reddit
Puff the Magic Dragon. I don’t give a flea’s flying fart if it was supposed to be about smoking pot (was it?!). That song makes me remember my favorite dog, favorite cat, and favorite horse who died all at once and I’m a pitiful puddle of putty.
Stevensays2@reddit
Thanks for the reminder. Brings back a lot of memories for me too. When I was young I loved singing it with my Dad, who passed away a little while ago. I miss him greatly. Been a long time since I’ve heard it. I’m about to listen to it again.
Due_Cucumber_6956@reddit
YOU TOO??? Puff hits me so hard that as a child I would have the tv turned off while watching the few specials that aired in the 70's. To this day, I ugly cry when I hear that song.
Equal_Trash6023@reddit
I've always loved this song. Any time a poignant moment happens. I want it played at my funeral followed closely by Bat Out of Hell by Meatloaf and the House that built me by Miranda Lambert, especially of my mom is still alive.
When I had my two miscarriages, I listened to it, my father's and grandparents passing. During the births of my two daughters and during my divorce...
I like both the original and the Chick's versions.
kaydeeceemee@reddit
When you are happy, you enjoy the music...when you are sad, you understand the lyrics
MrsNuggs@reddit
-Frank Ocean
Subjunct@reddit
— George Jones.
MrsNuggs@reddit
I lost a lifelong friend in 2016. She had always loved Fleetwood Mac, and her family asked me to help decide what song to play at her funeral service. I was driving while listening to their music, and Gypsy came on. I had to pull over so I could have a good cry.
She is dancing away from you now. She was just a wish. She was just a wish. And her memory is all that is left for you now.
Her family agreed with me, and I will never not think about her when I hear that song. In 2019 my sister and I saw Fleetwood Mac in concert, and I wept like a baby.
Last year I watched a documentary on the band, and Stevie explained that she wrote the song just after a dear friend of hers had passed. I cried all over again.
HearingDue2119@reddit
Middle age white woman karaoke classic
Cranks_No_Start@reddit
My wife and I were at the vet and we had to put our dog down. The song “I Hope You Dance by Lee Ann Womack”. Was playing.
I don’t listen to country music but over the years it would pop up and it was rough.
About 8 months ago I had to take another now older dog (14) who was failing health wise to the vet again and sure enough the same song was playing in the background.
AndiPandi_@reddit
I felt that gut punch from here. I’m so sorry about the loss of your four legged family member. 💗
kimmykam-28@reddit
My heart 💔
trixielee17@reddit
Yeah it's sad. I'm sorry for your loss. Bush does a cover that I love - rooftop live on youtube 💗
stuck_behind_a_truck@reddit
I’m a word nerd and lyrics are all important to me. That said. I always felt like I was missing the meaning of this one to a certain degree.
Intelligent-Gate36@reddit
This song always makes me think of a friends mom. Her husband divorced her after 30 years. She was a stay at home mom. Gave up her career to raise their kids. He decided he wanted to be with a younger woman he found. She had built her life around him literally. And then it all came crashing down. The kids were grown. This was back in the 90s. Married in the 60s. Now she had to build a life for herself out of nowhere without a job as a woman in her 50s. It was a completely unexpected twist to how she thought her life would go.
Also it could be the death of a loved one you thought you’d share your life with.
HallackB@reddit
Both sides now by Joni Mitchell hits me that way too. I think I listened to it for the first time in years recently while I was gardening and just started crying
tcon1834@reddit
I enjoy the original, but I’m partial to the Smashing Pumpkins cover. It’s an incredibly powerful song.
Sensitive-Question42@reddit
I first knew the song Landslide from the Smashing Pumpkins cover. A beautiful song.
YouMustBeJoking888@reddit
Landslide is absolutely the song to make you cry. It's beautiful and I try not to listen to it unless I'm alone, because I know I will get weepy.
dapala1@reddit
Fleetwood Mac and particularly the song Landside is a quintessential "boomer to next gen" song. Landside and a lot of songs from the generation really have no time era.
They are literally "timeless." I think everyone commenting gets it.
Exciting_Pass_6344@reddit
I lost my daughter to suicide in November of 25. Music in general has taken a whole new level of meaning for me. I tend now towards hard rock when I’m in the car by myself for self preservation, as it doesn’t bring the feels like most other genres. I totally get how you feel about this song.
LadyNorbert@reddit
Oh no, I'm so sorry. Gentle hugs from an internet stranger if you want them.
Sjoensmoem@reddit
Sending you lots of love too
cragmyer@reddit
sending you lots of love.
LadyNorbert@reddit
I'm sorry about your friend. And yes, that song hits hard when I'm sad.
playfulendeavour@reddit
Now listen to the Dixie Chicks version and experience the same feeling, but different https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4_wXPZ1Bnk
R67H@reddit
The live version, just Stevie and Lindsey, makes me tear up every single time. In the beginning, she says "This is for you, daddy". I didn't have kids when it came out. But 30 years later it's gutting.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WM7-PYtXtJM&list=RDWM7-PYtXtJM&start_radio=1 You're welcome for the ugly cry.
flyboy_za@reddit
This is a beautiful version of a beautiful song.
thekabuki@reddit
This is the version I have on my playlist
Wabi-Sabi_Umami@reddit
Same!
Bookgal1@reddit
Me too!
SubBass49Tees@reddit
Landslide kicks your ass no matter what sort of loss you've felt.
Break-up? You're gonna cry.
Lost a loved one? You're gonna cry.
Kids grew up and moved out? You're gonna cry.
The older you get, the more that song rips your heart out and stomps on it.
average_texas_guy@reddit
When I was a kid my mom would sing Red River Valley to me and I would cry and cry. Now that she's gone, I'd give anything to hear her sing it again.
From this valley they say you are goin'
I will miss your bright eyes and sweet smile
For they say you are takin' the sunshine
That has brightened our pathway the while
Do you think of the valley you're leavin'
Oh, how lonely and dreary it will be
Do you think of the fond heart you're breakin'
And the sadness you've cast over me
For a long time my dear, I've been waiting
For the words that you never would say
And alas my poor heart you are breakin'
For they tell me you're goin' away
As you go to your home by the ocean
May you never forget those sweet hours
That we spent in the Red River Valley
And the love we exchanged mid the flowers
Come and sit by my side if you love me
Do not hasten to bid me adieu
But remember the Red River Valley
And the one that has loved you so true
GardenBunnyBaseball@reddit
The Landslide cover by the Dixie Chicks guts me. This part in particular:
Well, I've been 'fraid of changin'
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older
And I'm gettin' older, too
pantstoaknifefight2@reddit
Let's just paste the whole song, shall we?
I took my love, I took it down Climbed a mountain and I turned around And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills 'Til the landslide brought me down Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love? Can the child within my heart rise above? Can I sail through the changin' ocean tides? Can I handle the seasons of my life? Mm Well, I've been 'fraid of changin' 'Cause I've built my life around you But time makes you bolder Even children get older And I'm gettin' older, too Well, I've been 'fraid of changin' 'Cause I've built my life around you But time makes you bolder Even children get older And I'm gettin' older, too Oh, I'm gettin' older, too Ah, take my love, take it down Oh, climb a mountain and turn around And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills Well, the landslide will bring it down And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills Well, the landslide will bring it down Oh, the landslide will bring it down
average_texas_guy@reddit
I took my love, I took it down
Climbed a mountain and I turned around
And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills
'Til the landslide brought me down
Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love?
Can the child within my heart rise above?
Can I sail through the changin' ocean tides?
Can I handle the seasons of my life?
Mm Well, I've been 'fraid of changin'
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older And I'm gettin' older, too
Well, I've been 'fraid of changin'
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older
And I'm gettin' older, too
Oh, I'm gettin' older, too
Ah, take my love, take it down
Oh, climb a mountain and turn around
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well, the landslide will bring it down
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well, the landslide will bring it down
Oh, the landslide will bring it down
Maryk67@reddit
Just reading the lyrics brings me to tears.
mscrybaby-mo@reddit
I've never been a fan of Stevie Nick's but I love the version by the Dixie chicks. It made me think the first time I heard it and it still does now many years later.
I_Am_Mandark_Hahaha@reddit
And I'm 'fraid of landslides 'cause the ground falls down around me.
There's rocks and there's boulders. Children take cover! I'm taking cover too...
MinusGovernment@reddit
My wife doesn't sing karaoke very often but it's the song she sings when she does.
thepaintedballerina@reddit
I mentioned it in another comment but hadn’t seen it on top level yet.
Johnny Cash’s cover of Hurt.
It stopped me in my tracks when I first heard it. Like full sit quietly for a minute or seven.
Most-Confusion-417@reddit
I cannot watch Johnny Cash 's Hurt ever without bawling.
Effective-Usual4152@reddit
If you can listen to it without at least tearing up, are you even human? Especially if you’re watching the video!
CampVictorian@reddit
“Bright Eyes”, by Art Garfunkel, from “Watership Down”. It’s such a poignant song, capturing the experience of processing death and loss. Beautiful lyrics, and such a diaphanous tune.
BraveLittleFrog@reddit
Don’t even go there. Been making bawl my eyes out since I was about 7 years old. The poor bunnnnnnnnnnnyyyy!!!!!
Adventurous-Fee-8158@reddit
Makes No Difference by The Band
jumpinoutofmyflesh@reddit
Love this as well. As a fellow Arkansan I’m kinda partial to Levon but love the “band.”
Numerous_Sky9235@reddit
“Landslide”, “Time in a Bottle”, “In My Life”, “Wish You Were Here”
TimelyExternal5769@reddit
All great. Another great sad song is "The Leader of the Band", Dan Fogelburg. It's a tribute to his elderly father, who was also a musician.
https://youtu.be/FW_98_DquUg
Two_DogNight@reddit
Oh, Wish You Were Here. I can hardly listen to it these days.
bukayodegaard@reddit
Id recommend Both Sides Now by Joni Mitchell.
Check out the original, then try the live version from a couple of years ago, after recovering from serious illness. Chills.
TwistinInTheWind@reddit
The version from the movie Coda is excellent too.
emcha77@reddit
That live one was the first time I heard it and it hit hard!
Lily_V_@reddit
A masterpiece. Looking at clouds as a youngster, seeing them when older. It just goes on and on. It’s a great song. “I look at clouds from both sides now…”
bukayodegaard@reddit
Turns out, she was also about 25 when she wrote this. Amazing.
She'd already lived a lot of life by then. e.g. polio, Little Green, poverty, marriage, divorce.
BE33_Jim@reddit
My mom's pastor called these Radio Angels.
On her passing, "How Far is Heaven" came on as he drove home after she passed.
Beautiful-Event-1213@reddit
Driving home from the hospital after my dad lost his battle with lymphoma, and I Can See Clearly Now came on the radio. Hearing it always takes me back to that morning.
Radio Angels is a lovely way to think about this.
ChalkHorse@reddit
I'm not GenX, older, but I'm sorry you lost your friend. Yes, I've always felt the pain of the song, since it came out in 1975. The meaning changes over the years for me, but it is always an emotional experience listening to it.
This is a song that has always helped me a little bit when I've lost someone I've loved. Neil Finn wrote it for a friend who had lost his mother, and to me, it is a song of love and hope at the thought that people "go on": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kar6Q_Yr65c
raggedyannie28@reddit
I saw Stevie in concert last year and sobbed like a child hearing this song live. It's one of my favourite songs and it's often made me teary, but I lost it all togethet hearing it live.
InevitableCodeRedo@reddit
I just broke up a few months ago with someone I thought I was going to be spending the rest of my life with. And this song came on right around that time and it hit like a hammer.
bkward@reddit
Didn't she write this after she lost her dad?
ChrisRiley_42@reddit
During a breakup with Lindsey Buckingham. The whole album (Rumors) was basically about the giant crap pile the relationships all the band members were going through at the time.
ChalkHorse@reddit
"Landslide" isn't on "Rumours" - it's on the prior album simply entitled "Fleetwood Mac". I was 20 when it came out, and it wasn't played on the radio like all the other hits from that album. It only got popular after the video "The Dance" in the late 90s. It was my favorite song from the album, and for years and years, nobody I knew had heard it. It was my special, personal song and always made me very emotional, and still does.
kittybigs@reddit
It’s such a musically beautiful pile of crap.
-Odi-Et-Amo-@reddit
It’s about her rocky relationship with Lindsey Buckingham.
bkward@reddit
Ah, yes. That's it. He wanted her to go back to school and she pursued her music career with Lindsey instead. Thanks
Mustbe7@reddit
She talks about writing it in this short article, no mention of her dad..
https://performingsongwriter.com/stevie-nicks-landslide/
Malady1607@reddit
In one of her live recordings, you can hear her say - this is for you daddy
Mustbe7@reddit
🫶 would love to hear that
EmbarrassedPrompt697@reddit
Anyone ever heard of Reminds Me of You, by Van Morrison. Kind of a deep cut, but after I lost my dad, that song absolutely wrecked me.
StevieNickedMyself@reddit
It's actually crazy how young Stevie was when she wrote these lyrics.
DooDooCat@reddit
Dude. I literally had the same thing happen to me today but with a Rush song. A Rush song!? I've listened to it countless times before but today I actually listened to it and understood what it was saying. The song is Time Stand Still. It'll never be the same from here on listening to it again.
bngthm@reddit
oooh aimee mann backup
Telmak2112@reddit
The older I get the harder this song hits me.
Gingerbirdie@reddit
Ha, I had "I'm not looking back but I want to look around me now" as high school senior yearbook quote.
CaroCogitatus@reddit
Entre Nous gets me sometimes.
Gingerbirdie@reddit
I was just singing this yesterday! It's melancholy.
Brkthom@reddit
Peart
drazaelb@reddit
That entire album gets me, every time
MiaAlta@reddit
Cat's in the Cradle
Local-Try1472@reddit
Why say that ?! That song 🎧 that was written by harry chapman was one of my favorite songs ever it hit me very deeply and I loved 🥰 it so much !RLB ps yes it does have a storyline to it but the lyrics are just so beautiful
Jacobysmadre@reddit
It made me cry as a child. I really felt the time passing and the loss of opportunities to build memories both directions.
small_spider_liker@reddit
Hate that song
ArnoldLayne1974@reddit
Pink Floyd - Time
DragonToothGarden@reddit
The line of "missed" the starting gun" didn't hit me until I was about 37. Then it hit like a tidal wave of awful realization and this was despite doing most of what I had set out to do.
For decades prior I listened to and loved that song and album but was too young to appreciate the lyrics.
And I loved that song and most of Pink Floyd since my first introduction in the late 80s.
cdanew@reddit
The acoustic version of Take On Me by A-ha is a completely different song. "I'll be gone, in a day or two"
Two_DogNight@reddit
I heard the original version on the radio yesterday and there's just no comparison. It should always be the acoustic version now.
changelingcd@reddit
I watched that damn lyric video again just today: "You're all the things I've got to remember."
Leather_Network4743@reddit
Eddie Vedder does a cover of Warren Zevon’s “Keep Me In Your Heart For A While” that hits like a ton of bricks. I challenge anyone to keep their eyes dry.
syntonc@reddit
That smh breaks me every time.
Apprehensive_Onion53@reddit
“Sound of Silence” also hits differently these days.
thepaintedballerina@reddit
I just saw Paul Simon in Prague on day two of Quiet Celebration. He closed out the show with Sounds of Silence… just him, an amped acoustic style guitar, and a spotlight.
Hearing him sing that in his 80s nearly broke me. It was beautiful and soul rendering. The weight of life experiences signing this with the backdrop of everything that is happening in the world right now. /gut-punch-tears/
Honestly it was like the first time I heard Johnny Cash’s version of Hurt. Hearing the gravelly voice of someone at the end of their life after his love died and facing mortality just hits different. And I’ve seen Trent do it roughly 27 times live, Johnny Cash made it his own.
sshevie@reddit
This right here
Local-Try1472@reddit
I am so sincerely sorry for how you are feeling I felt the same way about 2 years ago when my sisters and I went to see Rick Springfield in concert and when he sang “my fathers chair” 🪑 I too was in such pain and how deep the lyrics were that it made me cry 😢 RLB
ViewfromMyOfcWindow@reddit
Landslide takes me tf out EVERY. TIME. 😭 Such a gut-wrenching, perfect song 💔
DiscoFriskyBiscuit@reddit
Sitting in a gas station, tears falling as I waited for him to finish paying. Wiping them away before he got back.
Kindly-Might-1879@reddit
And Stevie Nicks was only 26 when she wrote this song…
TheProtoChris@reddit
Stevie Nicks is eternal.
LaceyBloomers@reddit
Do any of you know Jann Arden’s song, ‘Good Mother’? I’ve always liked it but it hits deeper since my Mom passed away in 2017.
And ‘Landslide’ makes me think of my Dad, even when he was still with us. He passed a little over a year ago. I remember him telling me that I’ll always be his baby no matter how old I get.
A_Tom_McWedgie@reddit
Canadian here: Jann Arden is a national treasure.
LaceyBloomers@reddit
Absolutely! I got to see her live and she was so good. And funny!
YogurtclosetLoud278@reddit
This song has always gotten to me. I must say that the remake that the Dixie Chics (their name at the time) made is even better. Love this song and can relate completely to how you are feeling ❤️
Intrepid_Practice956@reddit
I prefer that one too. The words seem so much clearer. Yes, it is gutting.
Reasonable-Ad-399@reddit
So I just read the lyrics- lovely but no emotion from me more than a smile. I’m really curious what makes them do powerful?
I’d guess a special life experience?
Bratpwr@reddit
Yes! I always get a lump in my throat listening to this song.
This and the Beatles' "In My Life" hit me hard for some reason.
devo0630@reddit
Landslide” and “In My Life” are 2 of the 3 songs that have me ‘cutting onions’, with the third one being “If I Ever Leave This World Alive” by Flogging Molly
https://youtu.be/POHYhiYZIbk?si=Sk73gKQnL9pCl3UR
Bratpwr@reddit
I had never heard that song before. Thanks for sharing. Yes, those lyrics definitely make the eyes tear up.
Statement-Fluffy@reddit
My LO played “In My Life” for me at our wedding. Tried so hard not to ugly-cry up on stage, but yeah. “Brothers in Arms” by Dire Straits is another beautifully sad song.
carlivar@reddit
"In My Life" was our father/daughter mother/son dance at our wedding. ❤️
GTRWLD@reddit
So many songs hit different these days. I used to almost never listen to country and in the last 5 years have found myself on the local classic country radio station more and more. The song that really did me in recently was The Dance by Garth Brooks. I’ve heard it many, many times and have even heard it played at funerals, but just the other day it came on and just nailed me.
k2j2@reddit
I took my adult daughter to see Stevie Nicks two years ago. When she sang landslide, I just started crying. Lyrics just hit me like a ton of bricks.
Echinodermis@reddit
For some reason, a few days ago I was listening to The White Cliffs of Dover by Vera Lynn. I had heard it as a child, and it’s still in there. Anyway, the light bulb came on my brain and I realized that I needed to take a hard listen to Vera by Pink Floyd. When I put it all together and listened to “Vera” a few times, I really felt it.
Ok-News7798@reddit
The first time I heard this song was when the album was released. I was 7 & my parents had just gotten divorced. I was a "unique" child & music was my first love. I have always cried while listening to this song, but yes...it does hit different as we age
truh22@reddit
I hadn’t really listened to the lyrics to that song until it was played in a South Park episode (s15, e7). It was very fitting.
Wabi-Sabi_Umami@reddit
This song hits so much harder when your kids have grown up and are out of the house and after you’ve lost close family members. 😢
mediawoman@reddit
Landslide Baker Street Good-bye by Night Ranger Alone Again, Naturally
We were steeped in sadness back in the day!
Affectionate_Sky9090@reddit (OP)
Cats in the cradle gets me all the time as well.
NDT03076@reddit
Listen to Why Do Little Girls or Tangled Up Puppet by Harry Chapin and try not to cry
Reasonable_Bar_6131@reddit
I love Harry so much! He belongs in the song writers HOF. Better Place to Be. Saturday Morning. Let Time Go Lightly. They are Perfection.
R67H@reddit
I actively avoid that song. I never wanted to be like my father, and I don't want my son to be like me. I want him to be better.
Reboot-Glitchspark@reddit
I would've died happy if I never saw mention of that song again. It hits the ouchy spot.
Retirednypd@reddit
Times of your life ....Paul anka
Powerful_Coyote6068@reddit
YouDaManInDaHole@reddit
I'm alooone again
Without youuuu...
Tomasimo@reddit
Freakishly_Tall@reddit
I have a thing for soul crushing songs, and those are all excellent examples.
But the kids these days have it figured out, too: It ain't just back in the day... of my entire "Depressing" playlist, the Birds of Bellwoods song Sky stops me in my tracks every time. The first time I heard it, I had to sit down and collect myself.
If we're doing "so, ya wanna be gloomy on a Saturday" is all, I guess.
KMFNR@reddit
Faster Pussycat - House of Pain springs to mind.
yardkat1971@reddit
It made my spouse burst into tears. It surprised the crap out of the them when it happened.
mommymomnyleebotts@reddit
I knew I was getting older the first time it made me cry & now I have an adult grandchild.
reb6@reddit
Glory Days hits a lot different in your 40s
serizzzzle@reddit
Listen to the Smashing Pumpkins version. It’s incredible.
wstone5594@reddit
Ugly Kid Joe
labretirementhome@reddit
Two girls sang this in duet with a boy on guitar at my son's high school graduation.
Goddamn it was unfair.
Well, I've been 'fraid of changin' 'Cause I've built my life around you But time makes you bolder Even children get older And I'm gettin' older, too
LagrangianMechanic@reddit
One that always gets me is the Alan Parson Project’s “Time”:
Goodbye, my friends.
Maybe for forever.
…
Who knows where we shall meet again?
If ever.”
LadySassington@reddit
I'm surprised no one has said "Dust in the Wind".. lost my mom a few years back and she chose to be cremated. The song hit me so so hard...
Affectionate_Sky9090@reddit (OP)
Omg, I forgot about that song 😢
juliettelovesdante@reddit
Oh, I love that song. Sing along load. It feels so good to crawl into it that way.
If you need another one try Make You Feel my Love. Either Bob Dylan's or Adele's version. So profoundly moving.
I'm so sorry about your friend. Sending love your way.
NeiClaw@reddit
It’s funny because I always thought it was about Stevie doing coke to get over Lindsey. The snow covered hills. The “mirror. Seeing her “reflection.” The landslide bringing her down. It works a lot of different ways.
-Odi-Et-Amo-@reddit
It’s about actual snow. She wrote it while in Aspen and Lindsey Buckingham left her there while he went on tour lol.
thekabuki@reddit
"Because I built my world around you" hits hard once you have kids
Affectionate_Sky9090@reddit (OP)
Yes, and theyre grown too 🥺
fridayimatwork@reddit
Yeah I never was into it but my friend is in a cover band and it hits now
Dramatic-Yam1984@reddit
I find many of their songs to be emotional and relatable. Will always be one of my fave bands
Natural_King2704@reddit
I lost a friend to a drunk driver in 1997. Heard the acoustic version of a song "when I close my eyes" by Kenny Chesney. It's a country song, but it hard to tell. Still makes me cry.
Ok_Blueberry304@reddit
Steve Wariner, Holes in the floor of heaven 1998. Make sure you have tissues. Makes me think of my grandma. Its cathartic though.
Affectionate_Sky9090@reddit (OP)
So sorry 💔
Maureengill6@reddit
The Smashing Pumpkins version was a pretty good cover. It made me look for the original....and well, Fleetwood Mac <3
Seven_bushes@reddit
I have a memory of a good friend doing her version of an interpretive dance to this song while on a girls weekend. She was end stage breast cancer and that was the last time I saw her before she passed. I can’t listen to that song without a combination of a smile at her silliness, and overwhelming sadness and tears that she’s gone. She was an amazing person.
paperhanddreamer@reddit
I love that you have that precious memory of her. <3 she sounds like she made the most of the time she had. RIP to your sweet friend.
newwriter365@reddit
That one has been hitting me in the feels since I realized I could no longer stay in a loveless marriage.
xtrasweetc@reddit
Good... This is just what I thought of when I read the post. His new got the same reason. 😥
Cold-Guidance6433@reddit
This song has always hurt because I lost my dad young but it hurts more now that I’m getting older. Time Stand Still by Rush chokes me up a bit as well.
AdhesiveSeaMonkey@reddit
I love this song.
Now.... don't hate me for this..... there is a cover by Gwyneth Paltrow that's really good. It's from some tv show but I found it on Spotify a while back.
Resident-Condition-2@reddit
The Chicks cover is amazing.
Six_Pack_Attack@reddit
Billy Corgan (or maybe the Pumpkins) also have a respectable cover.
wyohman@reddit
This is a song that requires no cover. There's nothing anyone can do to make it better or worse yet, make it average.
tomh987@reddit
The “children get older” was not something that I ever thought about or appreciated. Now that I have adult children it’s a gut punch every time.
PatientAccurate8468@reddit
Yes…I hear you.
mldyfox@reddit
This is a song i didn't discover until I was in my late 30s, but one I really love. I tear up every time I hear it now.
R67H@reddit
Let me guess... Pumpkins or Chicks?
LoreKeeper2001@reddit
Very poignant song.
unikittyUnite@reddit
Yes, this song really resonates with me. The lines “But time makes you bolder, Even children get older, And I'm gettin' older, too” really gets to me now that I have an adult child.
A more obscure song that gets me is Springsteen’s “Blood Brothers”. It’s about connecting with long lost, old friends and mourning the friends that have passed away.
Ill-Experience-7910@reddit
yep on Blood Brothers. have had 3 friends die in the last year and a half. al VERY unexpected. that one super hits.
notusuallyhostile@reddit
This song and Time Stand Still by Rush are hard for me to hear without getting emotional.
I just went to a class reunion - we graduated 123 kids. In 40 years we lost 12 of them. Cancer and Covid killed 8 of them. Accident killed 1. And 3 of them were lost to suicide - including my best friend in high school. Because it was a boarding school, we were unusually close - at least compared to my kids and their public-school friends. But because we were a boarding school, very few of us lived close to one another after graduation. Facebook/Instagram were often the only places we could gather between reunions. And now, social media has become this kind of replacement community billboard for tragedies and obituaries. Even more-so as the years fly by. I sit on my porch now on Saturday evening, with my granddaughters asleep upstairs on the weekends we get to have them over, and I think about the next 20 years - if I’ve got that many left - and just how quickly the last 20 years went. Freeze this moment a little bit longer means something completely different to 50-something me than it ever did to 20-something me.
F-Cloud@reddit
Honestly, I can't even think of the lyrics to Landslide without being driven to tears. I'm sorry for your loss. Our generation is entering the phase in which we'll gradually lose more people. I've lost a few close friends already.
MrsRalphieWiggum@reddit
The room just got really dusty
rtduvall@reddit
Yeah, as I age I want to enjoy things deeper now. It’s all about quality of life at this point.
myleftone@reddit
I think Nicks wrote it at seventeen and it was about growing up, thinking about her relationship, and facing life choices. Pretty impressive insights at that age.
smokythejoker@reddit
There’s a Billy Corgan cover and he sounds like adult Cartman from South Park. Totally changed the song for me forever.
Sorry for your loss.
F-Cloud@reddit
I love the Smashing Pumpkins cover. I knew the song since childhood, but the emotional weight of it didn't hit me until I was in my 30s and I heard the cover. Now both wreck me when I hear them.
EmotionalVegetable48@reddit
I heard the Pumpkins cover before the Fleetwood Mac original
bmanjayhawk@reddit
I really love that cover
HotLava00@reddit
Every five years, this song means something different to me, and it’s been incredibly powerful at every turn. Brilliant songwriting, beautiful poetry.
Wide_Fault3135@reddit
That song hit me when my children became adults, it hit hard and I cried. Also listen to Beautiful Child by them it’s just as painful and emotional! Condolences!
Illustrious_Plant581@reddit
There seems to be a pain and beauty that really stands out in a lot of songs. Past decade has been …..
Roseliberry@reddit
Live version of “take on me” by A-ha got me like that. It’s really true that it’s no better to be safe than sorry, for real.
Celtic159@reddit
It's a beautiful song.
I cannot listen to Purple Rain without completely breaking down.
Conduit-Katie82@reddit
I am so sorry for your loss.
It was my father-daughter dance song at my wedding. Last year, it was one of my daughter’s dance teammates final performance song for her senior year.
Dobgirl@reddit
I’m sorry. It is a touching song, so lovely.
StJmagistra@reddit
I definitely understand it better now than I did as a teenager.
I’m so sorry for your loss.