The most controversial opinion I have...
Posted by littlemama9242@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 402 comments
Dave Matthews Band sucks. I have always hated them. Come at me!
Posted by littlemama9242@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 402 comments
Dave Matthews Band sucks. I have always hated them. Come at me!
Fun-Preparation-4253@reddit
And I can't even say that as an adult 20 years later I've had any desire to listen to them. Some bands have grown on me.
No-Gas5342@reddit
Agree. I have more appreciation for stuff I didn’t necessarily like when I was younger. But not DMB. It’s 90s Coldplay.
Fun-Preparation-4253@reddit
I think that's a solid comparison.
127Chambers@reddit
Don't wanna make you feel any older but Coldplay's been making albums since the '90s too
IslandGrover@reddit
You know, I felt the same thing until I got dragged to see them live. I won’t shout it out, and I haven’t bought any albums or anything, but their live show was amazing. 🤷♂️🤦
mkeCharlie@reddit
I saw Train recently and had the same experience. "Wow, these guys are great!"
Went home and listened to all their top hits. Nope. Not a fan, really. But I would totally see them again—put on a great show.
oneeyedwillienelson@reddit
Whenever they come through my town, they do 2 nights of shows. I bring my wife to one show and then the other show, I bring a friend who swears they are not a big fan of DMB. Everytime, after the show each friend is like “wow, they are amazing live”
BlackEngineEarings@reddit
Love shows are a category of their own. I'll totally willingly go to a live show of musicians and bands I don't care for just because of the vibe of live music
Embarrassed_Body_777@reddit
talented bunch, but the yodeling singing is annoying
SubstanceNo1544@reddit
Im gonna go ahead and double down.. yeah they suck. You know who else blows..? The Beatles. Fight me
javaman83@reddit
Not even remotely controversial to me. Horrid all around.
lurk3141592653589793@reddit
The drummer is incredible. Say what you will about the actual music. Taste is subjective. But the drummer definitely does not suck.
BlackberryHelpful676@reddit
You can "make it" with a shitty guitarist or vocalist; almost nobody "makes it" with a shitty drummer.
mcfetrja@reddit
The Beatles suggest that you can make it with a sus drummer AND bass player.
CynicalAltruism@reddit
I'll reverse one of your downvotes and speak truth to Boomers with you. I mean... Lars isn't the best drummer, but he's arguably the best drummer for Metallica, but... Ringo wasn't even the best drummer IN the Beatles.
amayain@reddit
Honestly, they are all pretty darn talented, although yea, Carter (the drummer) is clearly insanely talented
SlimyPurpleMeteor@reddit
I’ve always considered Dave an excellent rhythm guitarist.
lurk3141592653589793@reddit
They might all be. I'm a drummer, so that's what I notice. Lol
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
He can play, sing harmony AND chew gum, all at the same time💯
ReiperXHC@reddit
He is one of the best, really.
caramelpupcorn@reddit
I like to think this was written by DMB's drummer 🥁
lurk3141592653589793@reddit
I wish I could drum like him. Lol
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
I can always appreciate a good drummer
Ninjafrogg@reddit
One time I was at a BBQ at a friend’s house and he was playing Dave Mathew’s live cuts on random through computer speakers all the whole dang night.
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
Sounds awful lol
one_among_the_fence@reddit
Not a controversial take.
BronskiBeatCovid@reddit
Totally not! A friend who was into them began to tell about all "awesome weed references" and I realized as someone who doesn't partake was maybe why I didn't think they were all that great.
Constant_Concert_936@reddit
A wise man once said “you’re either a Dave Mathew’s fan, or you’re a Kid Rock fan”
…
Negative-Wrap95@reddit
Not at all. I can't stand them.
yeahoksurewhatever@reddit
I consider it controversial that i like some of their songs.
HereWeFuckingGooo@reddit
Next OP is going to confess to everyone they don't like Nickelback.
cheeze_skittles@reddit
Yeah they always sort of had a specific audience. I find his voice to be grating.
Ok-Name1312@reddit
90's frat bros, mainly.
aliciadina@reddit
The scene from the Office where Andy asks the roller rink DJ to play DMB was so damn accurate I was rolling. “Deep cuts only”
Designer_Tie_5853@reddit
Then the DJ plays "Ants Marching", and Andy gets mad - "I said no hits!" but then jams out to it anyway? Yeah that is 100% me.
murph0969@reddit
Proudest Monkey!
amayain@reddit
Lie in Our Graves! Pig!
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
The Stone, and Two Step have to be my favorites. Spotlight from 1992, for sure….oh, how about The Lillywhite sessions…anyone??!
Thelmara@reddit
The Lillywhite sessions were great. Grace is Gone is one of my faves.
amayain@reddit
Yea, the Lillywhite Sessions were so much better than the eventual album (Busted Stuff)
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
AGREED! I was anticipating that album for so long just to have a ‘syke!’ pulled on me😂…..lol….just realized I don’t think that’s how everyone spells (or spelled) psych!
amayain@reddit
Me too! I remember thinking that I didn't understand why they made all the tracks worse lol
murph0969@reddit
For sure. Still have my burned cd from Kazaa.
humperdinck@reddit
It always sucks being a huge fan of something and then learning that the majority of people who love the thing you love are not your people. No shade to 90s frat bros.
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
Right? I never connected with frat bros myself, and never understood what specifically that crowd liked so much. I definitely had a huge CD trapper keeper of all the albums and bootlegs😂 Lost it in a flood at some point🤔🤔
abecedorkian@reddit
90s frat bros were always so mean to me. I loved DMB. I had no idea we had so much in common. If only I had connected the dots back then.
meltedchocolatepants@reddit
The guys that would sit on the stairs with a guitar playing Satellite (as this was the only song they knew) hoping that their skills would be enough to get them laid
BlankPaperTiger@reddit
Well that guy was an idiot - everyone knows wonderwall was the song to play for that to work.
meltedchocolatepants@reddit
I went to a college with a very big business program. The business douches all loved Dave Matthews.
Although, the people hosting these house parties were theatre majors. I think Wonderwall would have worked better
MagnumPIsMoustache@reddit
It worked
Fun-Mine7804@reddit
Yep.... married a 2000s frat boy and that is the only band he actually ever wants to see..... literally left a dead and co show early (I'm an old dead head) because he was so pouty....... whiny music for whiny men
mcfetrja@reddit
I mean, I always left Ratdog shows early. Same with Furthur. Pretty much gave up on Phil after I saw the First Fox Furthur shows. I totally understand the gripes about seeing decocainated Bob Weir. Shit was so slow you needed to pop some roxy just to keep pace with the music. And all of this is to say nothing about the unending quest to find “NextJerry” only for NextJerry to be John Mayer? I always thought that the acid was supposed to wear off at some point, so I guess this is where I start thinking I’m a glass of orange juice or something?
duucfho@reddit
As someone who lived in a frat house from 99-01, I feel this in my soul.
I was like the one dude who couldn't stand DMB.
albanyanthem@reddit
I worked at a used record store outta high school. Prep guys buying Snoop Dogg, white zombie, kid rock, would then throw in a DMB cd and you knew it was their makeout music.
Primary-Strawberry-5@reddit
90s frat bros who think they’re deep
_SmashLampjaw_@reddit
Hearing "Ants Marching" makes my eye twitch.
goater10@reddit
One of the rare instances of celebrities famous only in the USA.
Jayman44Spc@reddit
My step brother was obsessed with them so I’ve heard every single album and I can’t even think of one song I thought was even okay
LilMushboom@reddit
Yeah they were always one of those "love them or loathe them" bands. I was mostly on the loathe side as a teen but I hated jam bands as a genre
Just_a_guy81@reddit
I’m in the third camp of they had that one song but beyond that I never cared to listen to them
LilMushboom@reddit
"Satellite" was nice. I couldn't stand the rest of the stuff they had on the radio
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
That’s fair—they overplayed radio hits to death!
AshDogBucket@reddit
Yeah, it's a fairly popular opinion
Ok_Percentage5157@reddit
Truth. I remember I saw them in college before they got super popular, and... That was good enough for me. Not my kind of jam.
alberthere@reddit
Especially after Chicago in 2004.
FWitU@reddit
It would be more controversial to like them
ughyoujag@reddit
This is the baseline opinion
jacksonmills@reddit
Is this controversial? I thought it was more controversial to admit you thought his later work was fine.
(I like the first two (three if you count the one on the prior label) albums like most average joes)
worksnake@reddit
How the actual fuck does this post have more than 7 upvotes? I mean 7 is actually way too much, you expect to see 7 and think “Who is upvoting this dumb post?”
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
yet here you are commenting lol. I think you’re taking the post a lot more seriously than it was intended to be. It was intended to be tonge-in-cheek and lighthearted
methodtan@reddit
It was fun
SlackerDS5@reddit
Because of their music, or for dumping sewage? Both are acceptable reasons.
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
Isn't that the same thing? 😆
SlackerDS5@reddit
True, but one got dump in a Chicago river, the other was a natural catastrophe.
Kellzy1212@reddit
NEVER FORGET-
Dave Matthews Band's tour bus stopping at the Kinzie Street Bridge to empty its blackwater tank On August 8, 2004, a tour bus belonging to the American rock group Dave Matthews Band dumped an estimated 800 pounds (360 kg) of human waste from the bus' blackwater tank through the Kinzie Street Bridge in Chicago onto an open-top passenger sightseeing boat sailing in the Chicago River below.
jackfaire@reddit
Literally the most popular opinion of Dave Matthews Band I've ever heard.
sooonnnk@reddit
shots fired!
HereWeFuckingGooo@reddit
I don't think I could name or would even recognise on of their songs. I only know of their existence from all times they were the butt of a joke.
elsie78@reddit
Totally agree
mcfetrja@reddit
The only redeeming quality about DMB fans- they’re not Phish fans.
mac117@reddit
Phish fans are the worst. Source: I’m a phish fan.
Inglorious186@reddit
I'll take your phish fans and raise you goose fans
They're the ones so annoying phish fans don't want anything to do with them
CTMechE@reddit
And then here I am, a fan of all 3.
The reputation is well earned, though. I personally have always felt that there's plenty of room for more music.
mcfetrja@reddit
The Cousin Oliver of Jam Band fans.
darksideofmypoon@reddit
I am not a Phish fan. My good friend is. After years he finally dragged me to a show (on 4/20).
That was a goddamn fantastic time.
dukedog@reddit
I don't really listen to Phish, despite liking jam bands, but man Phish shows are a blast.
Primary-Strawberry-5@reddit
We’re pretty awful people
tommyjohnpauljones@reddit
Guess I'm a bad person then.
Comfortable-Corgi416@reddit
Wow. That’s how you feel about your wife?! 😜
mcfetrja@reddit
That you and your favorite band’s fanbase are better than Phish fans? I don’t think we’re breaking any new ground with what I said. And we’ve been to more Jason Isbell shows than DMB shows since we got married, so we’re both winning.
ThinkFree@reddit
Don't forget Radiohead fans too
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
Accurate—that’s a different level of ‘annoying jam band’ Advanced, I’d say
momlv@reddit
I like both? I’m so confused I didn’t know this was a thing
mcfetrja@reddit
Yeah. That actually tracks. Both fan bases are completely oblivious to the reality distortion chamber they occupy at concert venues. Only difference is DMB fans were sold their fandom on the radio. Phish fans had to seek out their fix and eventual fandom from “that dude with all the Phish tapes.” Completely different realities that horseshoe effect into neighboring self indulgent fan base experience rooted in drugs.
ReiperXHC@reddit
Tool fans. (I'm one but....yeah...)
flaming_bob@reddit
That's harsh. It's also not wrong.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
👆👆👆👆
Hoppers-Body-Double@reddit
As someone who saw both bands on multiple occasions in the 90s, you are correct. They are both boring ass jam bands. The only thing I can say is better about DMB is that some hippy girl was giving me an old fashioned handy during one of their shows. That never happened at a Phish show.
mcfetrja@reddit
What? Toothless meth wook handles aren’t your bag? Did you even party with deadheads in the 90s?
Hoppers-Body-Double@reddit
Psychological_Tea674@reddit
Ooof lol
Lauuson@reddit
As a Phish fan, this rings true.
djsynrgy@reddit
Potentially hotter take..
The band is fine, but the fanbase retroactively damages the band's "likeability".
See also: Tool.
To be clear, I'm not here to pee on anybody's Cheerios. If either are your favorite artist, dear reader, I'm truly happy you have a favorite artist. I'm just saying it would be nice if you didn't routinely steer every conversation in their direction, and routinely insist they're objectively the greatest band on the entire planet. 😆
Same_Bug5069@reddit
Clearly you just don't understand the superiority of TOOL.... oh, no, wait.... yeah, we're douchebags.
AliveInTheFuture@reddit
Tool fans just kill me. Always the “well ackshully” type of guys.
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
This is 100% on point!
Unusual_Piano7118@reddit
Absolutely hate them too. Since the first time, I heard them on MTV.
wheresthebody@reddit
Ya, DMB is like a frat house date rape sound track.
AliveInTheFuture@reddit
I sincerely do not understand this 🤣
AbeFromanEast@reddit
DMB:
albanyanthem@reddit
I mean, what a life. Doing what you love, with people you genuinely seem to enjoy being around, and people pay you over and over to keep doing it.
mcfetrja@reddit
Yeah, but the trade off is having to see nothing but DMB fans at work. It’s not all upside.
thedavidrose@reddit
Little known fact: there are Two famous musical acts named after dildos, Steely Dan & Dave Matthews Band
Tinkerfan57912@reddit
not a huge fan of them either
GirdleOfDoom@reddit
AND MY AXE
FUWS@reddit
I think mine might be more controversial…
I’m not religious and I thought Creed made good music..
ThinkFree@reddit
I am not religious and I used to listen to 90s crossover Christian rock like Jars of Clay, P.O.D., and Creed
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
My Own Prison was actually a solid album
ScreenTricky4257@reddit
I wonder who really first came up with the "90s white guy voice." Which I can't define but you all know what I mean, right?
External-Flight-4680@reddit
Professor Hickey on hearing Ants Marching:
Independent_Toe5722@reddit
Excuse me for being alive in the 90s and having two ears connected to a heart.
chicacherrie82@reddit
Real fans call him Dave
chicacherrie82@reddit
Well excuse me for being alive in the 90s and having two ears connected to a heart
😛
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
Under the table and dreaming is a great album.
Chemtrails_in_my_VD@reddit
Crash too. But Before These Crowded Streets is the magnum opus.
C_est_la_vie9707@reddit
Agreed. My favorite from beginning to end.
amayain@reddit
Groo Grux King is also really darn good too
Chemtrails_in_my_VD@reddit
Agree. Groo Grux King is the one album made after Busted Stuff that I like. They had a a fire under them during those sessions.
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
The Before These Crowded Streets tour was the first time I saw them live in like….98, or 99? So has a special place in my heart.
RalphMacchio404@reddit
Excuse me for being alive in the '90s and having two ears connected to a heart.
Chemtrails_in_my_VD@reddit
I hated them growing up. Thought they were a boring 90's adult contemporary act, like Kenny Loggins. But eventually I saw them a couple times and realized how good the non-radio stuff is. They aren't the band I perceived from the radio singles.
I'd put them on a short list of the most talent I've ever seen packed on one stage, and my resume isn't light.
rearwindowpup@reddit
Bruh how are you going to diss Kenny Loggins like that. He's one of the stronger overall musicians of the period, each of his albums is *drastically* different. This is the man who had original hits for both Footloose and Top Gun, he was established well before the 90's. Return to Pooh Corner may be the best all around childrens album as well. He used most of his money from a previous album to produce it, and arranged the tracks to be progressively calmer, with the idea being you can put the album on for your kids to listen to as you go to sleep.
Chemtrails_in_my_VD@reddit
I have no doubt that Loggins is incredibly talented. He had some giant hits. But it's a style that a 13 year old with a closet full of NIN shirts wasn't ever going to resonate with. And I'm mostly referring to my view at the time of his 90's output. Instead of Danger Zone, think One Fine Day.
BlackberryHelpful676@reddit
"Go ahead and pop in that Kenny Loggins CD."
"Ah, some Loggins and Messina."
"I didn't say anything about Messina..."
thor_barley@reddit
You DMB/reddit fans always seem to have this see them live and be enlightened angle. Keep enjoying, but I choose to remain proudly ignorant. Just saved 172mb of drive space by purging some forgotten DMB mp3s from a time when I told myself, "maybe if you listen to a few more songs you'll get it." Why do I even have DBM featuring Limp Bizkit? Deeeelete.
Darkwing873@reddit
This guy had mp3s he didn't know about in 2026.
Chemtrails_in_my_VD@reddit
Well dmb featuring limp bizkit is definitely some limewire shenanigans. Shocked it didn't set your drive on fire tbh 😆
thor_barley@reddit
I almost I feel guilty for deleting internet history. But I listened to half of the track and had a strong urge to declutter
user08182019@reddit
There are bands and there are bands whose members are true musicians. As in they deeply understand music and their instrument, DMB is the latter. I like Operation Ivy too but not because I can feel the mastery of music coming through. To each their own, no one needs to like art someone else likes but personally love DMB.
KW5625@reddit
They're so forgettable even though you know it when you hear them.
ThinkFree@reddit
You cannot quit them so quickly
dispassioned@reddit
I had a schoolgirl crush on this guy in high school from afar, like we never spoke as we didn't seem to ever have the same classes. One day in town he almost hit me while driving in an intersection. And we pulled over and he's like I'm so sorry, hey do you wnat to go get dinner or something? And I was like.. immediately yes. And things were going great. This was like my dream come true.
And then he's like hey I have tickets to go see Dave Matthews this weekend do you want to come? And I have never went from immediately yes to immediately no so quickly. My teenage brain couldn't process it lol.
weedexpat@reddit
You fucked up twice. You would have had more fun in the parking lot before the show than whole ass other years you lived. The 90s jam band scene was not to be trifled with.
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
Oh no! That was such a meet cute! Reminds me of the one crush from Clueless, where he listens to nothing but the Cranberries😅
Brokelynne@reddit
I audibly cackled.
ajosefox@reddit
Was a hater in high school, though I appreciated the Dave and Tim - Live at Luther College quite a bit. Heard him on Colbert the other week, though and man, I think I just hated because of how popular/produced the DMB was. Would 100% go to a show now. Bet it’s a blast.
drinkslinger1974@reddit
My wife insisted on listening to them during the birth of our second child and it did cross my mind to just go grab dinner while she was in labor.
hamburgler26@reddit
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iR2GpGtyqDg
Fredwood@reddit
I don't think it's a controversial take, I don't hate them but I wouldn't say I'm a fan. The best thing Dave Matthews ever did was make Dean Pelton dance so they get a pass from me.
improbabble@reddit
Ancient/Legendary/Hilarious ILM thread on this topic: https://ilxor.com/ILX/ThreadSelectedControllerServlet?boardid=41&threadid=13682&bookmarkedmessageid=793
AppropriateTouching@reddit
There bad and dumped 800lbs of shit on people on top of dumping shit music on to the world.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Matthews_Band_bus_incident
rangeghost@reddit
I don't mind them when they're on the radio or in a playlist with other bands.
But I don't generally go out of my way to listen to them on their own.
Mission-Jackfruit138@reddit
King of the Hill is the best animated comedy ever.
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
I love King of the Hill
Mission-Jackfruit138@reddit
The story all connects. I felt Simpsons, South Park and Family were too random and no built up storyline. I love King of the Hill will drop an inside joke and no one gets it if you didn’t watch two seasons before.
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
Mission-Jackfruit138@reddit
The running joke that Peggy has big feet. Things like that make it great.
_sacrosanct@reddit
I LOVE Dave Matthews Band. I've seen them live probably five times over the years. But I get it, they are not for everyone, and that's fine.
rialucia@reddit
That’s my take too. I actually couldn’t stand them at first because my oldest brother played the song Warehouse all the time. I didn’t come around until college, and now my bestie (who has seen them live like 20x) and I have gone to 5 concerts together with #6 on the books for this summer.
Zestyclose-Beyond780@reddit
Same. There is a live version of #41 that is still on my top 10 all time greatest list and never gets old. Always hits the spot. I’m actually going to go listen to it now!
Slim1256@reddit
Right? I've seen them a couple of times, and very happy to have had the chance (their live version of All Along the Watchtower was NUTS) - but I'm also of an age where, fuck, man - you don't like what I like? That's fine. Doesn't bother me whatsoever.
Dazzling-Skin-308@reddit
I don't HATE them... But also not a "fan". 🤷
They have a couple songs I like, most of their songs are just meh.
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
I feel this is the true controversial opinion—not many seem to be DMB neutral😅
bosco9@reddit
Same, I'm too indifferent about them to have an opinion on them
Dazzling-Skin-308@reddit
Right? They don't genuinely annoy me, like Creed or Nickelback or Hootie and the Blowfish - also not anywhere near as awesome as say REM, or Cake, or the B-52s, or Jesus Jones.......
Middle of the road 🤷
bosco9@reddit
Ironically I cannot stand any of the bands you mentioned (especially Hootie) but DMB is just sort of there and I'm fine with that
Local-Painter-1237@reddit
Haha! I love Hootie! But I can leave Nickelback & Creed. So much great music came out during that time it’s nice to have so many options, honestly.
don51181@reddit
I feel the same way. A few good songs with a different style. I just never understood the hype.
Local-Painter-1237@reddit
My take, too. Had some close friends who would go see them every year and were super into them. I’m not denying the talent, just was never for me. Although I will say there are some really beautiful parts of Crash and Ants Marching is kind of an earworm. Classic part of the ‘90’s for me.
Dazzling-Skin-308@reddit
Yeah - Crash Into Me and Satellite were two tracks I enjoyed.
Ants Marching, I thought was ok but damn it got overplayed on the radio.... 🤷😅
Koss424@reddit
very talented band. But not for me.
drtyhppi@reddit
Not as controversial as Pearl Jam sucks.
pina_koala@reddit
He has correct political opinions but the band would be really good without him
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
😱😂 Oh man! Was NOT expecting that when I opened this!! Break my heart! Actually—I was a die-hard fan until 2009, after LeRoy Moore died….no idea what a single album is anymore….but LOVED them in highschool. But fair—I get it😂
kozynook@reddit
Not controversial at all. Come on man. I’ve even seen it on a bumper sticker at a Phish show.
Helo7606@reddit
Nah, you want a controversial opinion? Nirvana is not as good as everyone thinks.
Fair_Blood3176@reddit
One of the most talented bands out there, especially live. They are unbelievable good live.
I once was part of the hating bandwagon then I listened to most of their albums and that easily changed and made me not understand the hate.
Grey Street is one of my all time favorite songs. Especially the live with Tim Reynolds one. Simply amazing.
Designer_Tie_5853@reddit
I went to a show about 2 years ago, first one I had seen post-Boyd, and they've definitely lost something without him. Not going to say they were right or wrong to kick him out, but the music isn't the same.
Fair_Blood3176@reddit
I've tried a bit of their new music and it hasn't hit me the same so far.
Designer_Tie_5853@reddit
I know it's uber cliche to say "the new stuff sucks" but DAMN the last album was really bad. I was with them through Big Whiskey.
amayain@reddit
As a long time fan, I completely agree. I understand why they kicked him out, but they haven't sounded the same since. I don't understand why they didn't really replace him. (I guess Tim stepped up his role a little bit but it just isn't the same without a fiddle).
greenmky@reddit
Yeah
I'm not a fan, really,, but they put on a really good show from the one time I saw them (free tickets for volunteering)
sgrams04@reddit
Sadly, Dave Matthew’s’ sister was murdered many years ago. It impacted him greatly. A lot of his songs revolve around living life to the fullest and not taking any moment for granted. Their later songs are repetitive and predictable and I don’t like it much. But their earlier songs are great. #41 is probably one of my favorite songs because of how instrumentally rich it is, how it crescendos and switches from minor to major scales, and blends the message of the song with each.
dakry@reddit
Yeah #41 is a genuinely a great song. Haters are being silly.
mhyquel@reddit
There's a reason you hate Dave.
https://youtu.be/bHfaMKm-A54
jaxsonMiss@reddit
Only song I've ever liked by him is "Don't Drink the Water." All other songs suck.
capthazelwoodsflask@reddit
What their bus driver did in Chicago that one time was pretty funny but other than that they suck. Bland ass 90's hippie/frat boy music.
Plus, the Ass-Crack Bandit was a fan.
LamarVannoi@reddit
That's not controversial.
Whatatimetobealive83@reddit
My friends group fucking loves him.
I do not.
NonSupportiveCup@reddit
DM is pretty amazing without the B. But they are talented people. Just not my kind of jam.
One-Earth9294@reddit
WickedKoala@reddit
They suck, or you just don't like them?
LovelyHead82@reddit
I can't stand their music
WheelOfFish@reddit
This is factual
Daehtop_renots@reddit
You HAVE to look up what Boyd Tinsley is up to these days. He has apparently created a new instrument. He calls it a Boxz. It's amazing.
MagnumPIsMoustache@reddit
No way, I’m a fan. I like the jazz influence. They’re great musicians. You can’t judge them based on their audience. Grab Live at Luther College and smoke a joint.
Alternative-Light514@reddit
I definitely went through a phase when they came out, but never went crazy with it. I think I had their 1st 2 albums then I just carried on living my life and listening to other shit lol
rojoshow13@reddit
I pretty much hate any band that is like them...Savage Garden, Train, etc.
Withnail_I_am_I_am@reddit
I'm the King of the Castle,
You're the Dirty Rascal--
Crash Into Me.
That song brainwashed me. Was riding in car w/ family on a trip when the song came on and my Aunt left it on the radio. I sang those lines right on queue. The rest of the car looked at me like "wtf" and laughed. They never noticed those lines.
ElectronicDrama2573@reddit
They were/are terrible. Sometimes your fan base can define you as a band. (Kid Rock comes to mind.)
Willywasawale@reddit
I’m preach
crmd@reddit
They’re the only artist I’ve ever encountered who can fill a stadium but has no gay fans. It’s odd because Dave's politics are quite inclusive and progressive. The fact that is art is universally repulsive to queer people is fascinating to me.
Vox_Mortem@reddit
Nah, I have this same opinion. My friend has an older brother who was always just blasting Dave Matthews and Blues Traveler, and both are horrendous.
marcell0cat2002@reddit
💯
mpmbullet@reddit
nonexistentnight@reddit
I was at Penn State in the 90s and DMB was everywhere. I could tell they were good at what they did but it was never my taste. I always found it kind of milquetoast and boring. I had gone from alt rock to industrial to IDM to ever weirder forms of experimental music.
One day I was at Peace-A-Pizza (RIP) and the staff had a DMB CD playing. The track "Stay", probably their hit I liked the least, started playing. But when it got to the chorus "Stay, stay, stay for a while" the CD started to skip. And it just so happened that the skip perfectly aligned to one "Stay". I sat and listened while I ate my slices "stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay". Now I was interested.
The staff were too preoccupied to notice the perfect skip. "Stay, stay, stay, stay, stay, stay..." it went on. A drone so persistent it would put any of the minimalists I enjoyed to shame. The famous experimental composer John Cage once said "In Zen they say: if something is boring after two minutes, try it for four. If still boring, then eight. Then sixteen. Then thirty-two. Eventually one discovers that it is not boring at all." DMB was, finally, not boring to me.
I lingered a bit after I was done to (ahem) stay with the experience a bit longer. But it was time for me to go. I told the staff "Hey your CD is skipping." "Oh my God," they replied "I'm so sorry about that." "Don't worry," I said. "I kinda liked it."
mpmbullet@reddit
Shirohitsuji@reddit
Ugh, yes.
sassyfontaine@reddit
I’ve hated them from the first second I heard them. Not for me.
Drslappybags@reddit
How is this controversial?
brskier@reddit
Can confirm
red286@reddit
That's like saying you don't like Brussels sprouts or liver.
You might want to re-read the definition of the word "controversial".
Ashesza@reddit
This is legit and I will fight anyone who claims otherwise... Okay not really fight, but I will look at them in disgust.
Comfortable-nerve78@reddit
I’ll second that. His voice is too whiny for me. Way too hillbilly sounding for me. Not my style.
oneeyedwillienelson@reddit
South African hillbilly?
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
I mean, it's definitely possible....Have you ever seen Die Antwoord?
LineImpossible3958@reddit
I liked DMB at first, went to back to back concerts in the summer of ‘99. The Dave Mathew’s Tim Reynolds tour came to campus and it was such a big deal. But by 2001 I lost interest and never really listened to them again.
TheJokersWild53@reddit
I like their songs on their albums, but I had a friend that loved their live music and would download the live versions on my PC, because I had cable internet and he didn’t. I tried to listen to the live versions and couldn’t stand them. DMB is a jam band when they play live and the songs were 10 minutes long.
qwerty-game@reddit
I liked them when they first came out, then hated them for a long time. But I’m back to enjoying their music now. I’ve been to a few concerts the past three years and I enjoy the concert energy, but I don’t listen to them regularly.
ChrisChuck1@reddit
I approve this message!
Pandoras_Fate@reddit
You have my sword OP!!
Vegskipxx@reddit
And my bow
Schmliza@reddit
And my axe!
psychcaptain@reddit
And this guy's wife.
BlackEngineEarings@reddit
roonilwonwonweasly@reddit
I second the approval of this message
Tedanki@reddit
This is a lukewarm take at best. Everybody with any sense hates DMB.
The best thing they ever did was dump a bunch of human waste on some people in Chicago.
chocki305@reddit
My friend's reaction to that..
"Still better then hearing them live."
Conscious_Home_4253@reddit
Can’t stand DMB
HowOtterlyTerrible@reddit
I still dont understand why so many people love them.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
They don't suck, they blow.
MilkManX@reddit
💯 agree with you.
Ditzy_Davros@reddit
I got dragged to their concert back in the day. I was so grateful I had a seat. I took a nap.
False_Ad_5372@reddit
Couldn’t agree more…. Also Radiohead.
Remote_Database7688@reddit
OP’s led a sheltered life.
mwalker324@reddit
realauthormattjanak@reddit
They're terrible and it's the ultimate "emperor has no clothes" musical take.
Texas_Kimchi@reddit
FUCK DMB!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate that band like an irrational hatred.
sgrams04@reddit
Mine is that I find swearing cringe.
disinaccurate@reddit
My "Dave Matthews Band" is Jane's Addiction. I fucking hate Jane's Addiction. I do not understand someone hearing Perry Farrell warble out "JANE SAYS" and thinking, "yeah this sounds great".
Sisselpud@reddit
I'd rather be covered in the sewage from their tour bus than listen to them. And some people got that chance!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Matthews_Band_bus_incident
disinaccurate@reddit
One of those references I always want to make that nobody understands, because why would anyone remember a reference used a few times on a daily sports show back in 2004? But ever since then, it's been one of those lines my brother and I say back and forth to each other.
dixiebandit69@reddit
How ironic would it be if at least one of those people was a fan?
TomPalmer1979@reddit
They're awful. Just obnoxious. And I have two very dear friends who both like, follow him around the country. They'll go see him 10-15 times a year, like hippies following the Grateful Dead. It absolutely baffles me, and we just don't talk about music together.
wolfdickspeedstache@reddit
I will only come to your side to help you defend this righteous stance! FDMB!
Relevant-Package-928@reddit
I tried to like them and couldn't. I really hate Bob Marley and Jimmy Buffet.
HoneyAche-@reddit
Finally, someone said it! DMB is definitely an acquired taste.
RyanCypress@reddit
I hate these guys. And, thanks to this thread, I have one of their shitty songs half ass stuck in my head lol.
tattva@reddit
what about 3day weekends? why are they controversial??
XDariaMorgendorferX@reddit
DMB is my favorite band and let me tell you…your opinion is NOT controversial. When I say they’re my favorite band I get pretty regular comments like “ew, really?” or “why???” Younger people just go “who?”
ixnine@reddit
I like the song Crash Into Me, otherwise I couldn’t care less one way or another.
Aggressive_Power_471@reddit
I used to like him until I saw him live in 1999 I think 2nd album in. Worst concert of my life. after that I stopped listening. But if the radio plays a song I used to know and like I will not change it. But I also do not listen to his Sirius channel either.
fromthedarqwaves@reddit
I saw him live in 2001. He was playing by himself as it was a charity thing and a lot of musicians were coming and going on the stage. I thought he was pretty good but he was very, very high. He had to keep telling himself to breathe, just breathe.
Aggressive_Power_471@reddit
when I saw him it was outside in Foxboro stadium, it was raining and he still had to tune each and every guitar before he would play the song. Maybe he was high but I was so over it.
HikingTom51@reddit
Having gone to Jimmy Buffett concerts at their height in the mid 90s and DMB concerts today, I think the DMB fans are the “parrottheads” of our generation.
mrmattmatt478@reddit
I always thought it was more controversial to say that DMB was good lol.
Street_Party@reddit
You are not alone.
_kurt_propane_@reddit
One hit wonder
Same-Manufacturer773@reddit
I was a closet DMB fan from 2006-2017. Didn’t want to lose punk points. But now I don’t care. Was friends with my now husband for years before we discovered we both have a DMB concert shoe story. Might have even sealed the deal for us 🤣
EidolonRook@reddit
Who?
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…kidding.
Individual-Tackle-24@reddit
I see your "Dave Matthews Band" and raise you "The Mighty Mighty Bosstones".
caryn1477@reddit
Nah I agree. Mine? Nirvana is overrated.
Independent_Toe5722@reddit
Ok, whatever. Nevermind.
caryn1477@reddit
😄
shrimp_flyrice@reddit
Why though? Why the strong feelings?
Simple-Chemistry-878@reddit
How dare yiu! Just kidding. I only liked two or three of their songs. Never got the hype.
itsjakerobb@reddit
Agree.
missed_sla@reddit
Eh. I don't hate bands, I just don't listen to some of them.
aaronwintergreen@reddit
They do suck
Psychological_Tea674@reddit
lol I’m from CT where DMB shows end in parking lot riots.
Affectionate_Ask_769@reddit
Journey as well. Kill me.
OnRedditAtWorkRN@reddit
I don't like any of their music. But I have a love for the band
The sole reason is I knew a guy named David Matthews before the band blew up. It has provided so many hilarious moments.
A few years back we were in a bar league and suddenly a Dave Matthews song comes on. Then another. Then another. When the fourth hit we saw the other team just dying laughing and then looked over at my buddy David and all he could do was half chuckle and give that, yep, this is my life kind of look.
Not to mention all the office space references. Why should he change his name, he's not the one who sucks.
Remy0507@reddit
I wouldn't consider my feelings toward Dave Matthews Band "hatred". More like "an aggressive lack of interest".
Fun-Grab-9337@reddit
They're like... U2 to me. Obviously talented and had some big undeniable hits, but I can't fuckin' stand em.
frawgster@reddit
While I don’t think they suck, I will say that they almost got put on my shortlist of “do not listen to ever” in 2005. I was a huge fan, and was gifted a couple of tix to a concert. I was fucking stoked.
Fifteen minutes into the show I wanted to burn it all down. The entire band was so high/drunk that they literally couldn’t play straight. Drums, strings, horns, vocals…all of it was sounding like if a group of deaf chimpanzees got together for a jam session.
To make matters worse, my GF and I seemed to be the only people in our section who weren’t dangerously under the influence of whatever the drugs of choice were to Los Angelenos circa 2006. We spent all of 20 minutes at the show then ditched. I’m so glad we didn’t pay for those tix.
Anyway, I still love his music. ❤️
NYTravelerBD@reddit
LOL I just played a live version of Ants Marching for my 12 y/o daughter yesterday and she thought it was absolutely awful.
ArticulateRhinoceros@reddit
I will forever sing the lyrics “Cry centipede” in place of “Crash into me” in honor of an old high school boyfriend who hilariously misheard it.
brucecampbellschins@reddit
Can extremely common basic takes still be controversial opinions?
ThatGuyInThePlace@reddit
The music is fine, but the cult following is insane.
zealot_ratio@reddit
Saying a band "sucks" is the most cliche, meaningless thing we can say. What is "Sucks" other than a broadly arbitray expression of personal taste? Do we have anything we can weigh it against? (and for the sake of discolusre, I don't like or hate them. I like some songs, but was never a big fan).
I look at things like, are their songs original or just carbon copy of other things? Are they relatively good musicians? Do they connect with their audience? Those are all things that, while subjective, are less subjective than "Do I personally like them".
I think, objectively, we can say their songs were fairly original. They used pretty complex musical structures compared to the 4 piece power chord basic band. It doesn't make it better or worse, but they had pretty dense musical structure, unusual rhythm and instrument choices, etc. Musically, if not also lyrically, they were fairly unique to other music being played at the time..elements of roots rock, jazz influences, folk, etc.. I think you also have to concede that this denser, more complex musical structure also showed a fairly decent level of musicality....they could play and play well, even if you don't like what they played. For example, I'm not a Dream Theater fan, but I'm not going to even start to make an argument that there isn't talented musicianship there...it's just not my thing. And I think it's hard to argue that they didn't connect with their audience, given the pretty long standing and devout fan base.
So if we're saying the suck just because what they played wasn't to our taste, or they were overplayed in the era where that was the standard thing (which they were) then we're saying our personal preference is somehow a universal measure, which is just silly. There are plenty of bands out there that I don't like that are great musicians doing very original and appreciated. I just don't like their product. I wouldn't say they suck, I'd say "I don't like/understand their music".
________76________@reddit
I just remember in college when people would refer to him as Dave, like "yeah we saw Dave last week at Red Rocks" as though they were besties lol.
I actually did have a friend in college who played a gig with him and she said he was kind of a tool.
Under the Table and Dreaming still slaps though IMO
SenorNeiltz@reddit
Eh. Pretty harmless crowd in my upbringing. They didn't overlap with my tastes (NIN, Beastie Boys, Radiohead, STP, Soundgarden, Weezer) growing up.
Crash Into Me and Ants Marching are bops.
I do remember his tour bus dumping shit everywhere -- was that in the 90s? Lol
Ingonyama70@reddit
Honestly? The two Vertical Horizon songs I've ever heard, I like better than DMB.
Ok-Brick6831@reddit
This you, Starburns?
Independent_Toe5722@reddit
His name is Alex.
Ok-Brick6831@reddit
😂
He should try carving that into the side of his face then.
farfanseaweevil@reddit
They were good when I was in college and could play some of their stuff on guitar. It got me places. But yes…while talented, I can’t stand them, especially his voice.
hjeff51@reddit
I am with you. The bands only saving grace is having a beast of a drummer named Carter Beauford. Only thing I am paying attention to when a song of theirs is on.
the_ballmer_peak@reddit
He's incredible.
the_ballmer_peak@reddit
They aren't usually my cup of tea. I find a lot of the songs pretty boring. But I have listened to them a lot and seen them live, because my wife is a fan. I will say this: they're great musicians. In particular, Carter Beauford (the drummer) is absolutely incredible.
For evidence: listen to the track "Lie in our Graves" and only pay attention to the drums. It's not that it's some grand solo, it's just that the entire thing is this flowing syncopated jam with great fills. He's an immense talent.
MlsterFlster@reddit
Never liked 'em.
walter_grimsley@reddit
I stand with OP, despised DMB and still do
StamosMania@reddit
For those not aware ... us in Chicago never forget ....
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Matthews_Band_bus_incident
neckbeardsghost@reddit
You missed a prime opportunity to invite people to come crash into you 😂😂 (I can’t stand them either)
fosterhamster@reddit
This isn't controversial at all. They have been my favorite band since 1997. Folks either hate them or love them, it's never, 'eh, they're okay, I guess.' Dave's voice is distinctive and it grates on some people. The band is eclectic and the song length is much longer than is standard.
No one can argue with their musical talent: Carter Beauford is one of the best drummers I've ever heard play, or their dedication to their craft and fans: they are still touring every summer.
But lots of people hate them. And that's okay. Peace!
silentsnak3@reddit
A few songs I like, but not an albums worth.
curiousitrocity@reddit
I always hated Tom Petty.
PhobosMortum@reddit
You have my sword! Carter Beuford is a beast though.
chrisdecaf@reddit
OP loves parking lots and paving over paradises
TheLastBoat@reddit
I used to feel the same way. Dave Matthews was Banned from my collection. But now that music has changed, I miss bands that actually play instruments so I give DMB a pass.
daydrinkersunite@reddit
A buddy and I were at the bar drinking. Nothing on the jukebox, so he went to play it and asked what I wanted to hear. "Classic Rock" I said. He asked "What about Dave Matthews?"
"I CAN'T STAND THAT YODELING SON OF A BITCH!!!"
arcxjo@reddit
He clearly spent too much time practicing soccer and not enough learning how to write songs.
RCP90sKid-@reddit
I mean, as a physical unit, they were, at their peak, one of the best bands in the world. You can't argue their talent. The first few years of their existence, playing in small clubs, is legendary shit.
Now...the easy listening crooning and stylings of DMB, fire away. Shit is grating.
the_OG_fett@reddit
SlapHappyDude@reddit
Like a lot of music, I think it has a time and place. But like a lot of popular music, I think the popularity outran the quality.
I took a road trip once with a dude who was really into DMB and it was not the worst driving music.
I've heard they put on a great live show.
Thenadamgoes@reddit
Same. Same. Always have.
Warrior-Cook@reddit
That's one way to say you've never learned guitar. Dude has mad intervals, I'll give 'em that.
SweetCosmicPope@reddit
They're hit or miss for me. They have some songs I like and plenty I don't. They have an excellent version of All Along the Watchtower they did live. And they have a show every year at the Gorge. I'd like to check that out one of these days, but it always falls on my wife's birthday weekend and she can't stand DMB. But I hear they are amazing live.
I live in the Seattle area, as does Dave. And apparently people run into him regularly on his morning runs around Lake Union, and it sounds like in real life he's a grade A asshole.
airportspongebath@reddit
Hang on, a rich white guy from South Africa who’s a total prick? That’s bizarre, I’ve never heard of anything like that happening before…
gutens@reddit
I feel like they are all talented musicians, but it’s just not for me. I remember videos for Under the Table and Dreaming being on MTV a lot and not minding them so much in HS (although, I watched whatever was on that channel). But it was the fans that I encountered in college that made me kinda start to hate them. “You don’t like Dave, bro?” No, I don’t. I’m certainly not on a first-name basis with the guy.
fromthedarqwaves@reddit
Yeah you either like them or you don’t. Reminds me of Grateful Dead or Phish. I like some DMB songs and I’ve seen him live a few times. I’d say the live shows are better than the albums for sure. But some DMB songs make me cringe, especially the overplayed ones.
FewConversation569@reddit
I felt this way until I saw them play live at a music festival. They put on a great show so if you are only listening to their studio work or the radio, you are judging them on their worst work.
Reasonable_Effort_@reddit
I still, two decades later, feel bad because I criticized my girlfriend for liking them. I mean, I still think they suck, but I didn’t need to be an ass about it. I am much more pleasant now that I’m not a music snob. I always think “oh this person would hate what I listen to” before I trash anything they enjoy.
AbbreviationsBorn276@reddit
That is not controversial at all. I have that same opinion.
EastTXJosh@reddit
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I think Under the Table and Dreaming and Crash are great albums from start to finish. Before These Crowded Streets has a few great moments. Everything else they put out is crap.
---username_--@reddit
They sounded like old lady, hotel lobby music when it was new. Now old ladies listen to it, and I hear it in hotel lobbies.
lost_horizons@reddit
Instant downvote. Sorry not sorry
purplelilac701@reddit
You are always entitled to your own opinion!
the__ghola__hayt@reddit
I don't hate them. I nothing them.
DustedGorilla82@reddit
If you grew up in the mid Atlantic you were required to go to 1 concert.
wrldruler21@reddit
Most of the "I lost my virginity" stories from my High School include DMB music and/or concerts.
BeSeeVeee@reddit
Absolutely not! I knew it wasn’t for me long before I had any “opportunity” to see him in person. That was never going to happen.
Stuffleapugus@reddit
I'm from California and I have friends that get emotional over that DMB. 🤣
aliciadina@reddit
So accurate. The office Andy at the roller rink.
https://youtu.be/YiJnNRt9dUs?si=Bwf76n_zgBfGDqtH
SchucksAndMucks@reddit
Ha! My friend was a PA for one of the band members. If I was still 20ish I would have DIED of jealousy that they got to tour with DMB. When I met my friend at 28ish, I was all, damn, that jobs sounds like it sucks and never took them up on the offer for free tickets. It’s amazing how quickly ol’ Dave can give you the ick.
Treadingresin@reddit
You could not be more right about one of the worst, most annoying bands to come out during the 90s. I had the great misfortune of being dragged to a concert while visiting friends in a different state. I couldn't say no or escape. Truly awful. To make matters worse I ended up next to a super drunk frat bro who would not stop WHOOOOO!!! at the top of his lungs even when asked to allow others to hear.
Fuck I hate dave matty
Express-Cow190@reddit
They were talented musicians but I don’t understand how or why they got so big. Like it’s good background music for a picnic or in a movie montage or something, but I can’t imagine clearing an hour to listen to a record and do nothing else.
R0botDreamz@reddit
See, I always think these takes are deeper than face value.
Sometimes it's more than just the music. Like say you were dating someone and they broke up with you and went on a date with another girl to a DMB concert. Or maybe a person you hate loves DMB. Or maybe there was a clique at your school who listened to grunge and they beefed with the clique that liked DMB and Hootie. It's always something more than just not liking their music.
FalseVeterinarian881@reddit
LOL
I loved their first 3 albums…beyond that, meh. Their shows are great from a sense of variety and you never know what you are going to get (like PJ)…but otherwise boring production wise. I expected more the first time I saw them.
There is a reason they don’t tour much outside of the US (in comparison to other acts) I would say.
NotAChanceBucko@reddit
I left bonaroo early so I could miss their headlining set but also to gtfo before traffic got bad
SevereDeparture739@reddit
Which one is worse? Them or Hootie?
monstermack1977@reddit
it was at a DMB concert that I first heard Robert Bradley's Blackwater Surprise....so for introducing me to one of my all time favorite albums, I will give DMB a pass.
NINJAM7@reddit
I think they're...fine. I also think bands like DM are akin to other hippy/pothead jam bands that draw a cult following to their concerts. Similar to phish and grateful dead.
Rich_Celebration477@reddit
You know, I liked them in high school, then I was very “meh” on them for 20 years or so. My friend recently invited me to join him for a 3 day DMB camping festival at The Gorge in WA. I was like, sure I guess. I don’t hate DMB, but I went in with pretty low expectations and more as a chance to hang out with a buddy I hadn’t seen in years.
Say what you want about the studio albums- I won’t argue- but that band was Fantastic live. Absolutely great- and I’m a music teacher so I know a little about music. They have obviously been working hard to make their live shows better and tighter over the years. They did 3 sets over three nights, each over an hour, and every one of them was a full immersive experience.
wmubronco03@reddit
I disagree but why would I be pissed at you?
dreadpiratemyk@reddit
Another Jimmy Buffett. Worst thing about the music is the fans.
Darkhaven@reddit
Creed, and Staind. They're all horcruxes, along with Kid Rock and Russell Brand.
Temporary-Job-9049@reddit
I liked "What would you say" and then not one song after that. DMB sux
SufficientOpening218@reddit
i love that song Gravedigger, about his sister that passed away. i dunno. his music has its place.
Matty_D47@reddit
I need to ask a follow-up before my judgement: The show Friends, a ground breaking sitcom or unfunny hot garbage?
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
It's eh. I'll leave it on for background noise if it comes on after whatever I was watching, but I was never a Friends fanatic like so many others I know
Matty_D47@reddit
Alright then, I'll allow the Dave slander lol
alehanjro2017@reddit
It's okay bro. There was plenty of us how did a hard pass back in the day.
Future-Act1229@reddit
Agreed. But my late bestie loved them, so I am forced to listen to them when their music comes on the radio, because I know it's her saying hi and torturing me all at the same time 😂
Ok_Box_8844@reddit
Yeah. All my friends listened to them in college. I tried getting into them to see if the nostalgia effect worked with them. I like Ricky Martin better.
dudebro5000@reddit
rajkaos@reddit
Some of us have always felt that way. I’m not going to hate on anybody for enjoying Dave Matthews Band, but they’re just not my cup of tea.
initcursor@reddit
Should've ended that with "Crash into me!"
littlemama9242@reddit (OP)
Damnit! Missed opportunity for sure
HuckleberryLogical63@reddit
They had a radio hit or 2 I liked, but nothing I'd go out of my way to hear. My wife has a friend that will travel around the country to see them though, she and her husband has seen them more than 50 times. Mind boggling.
EfficiencyIVPickAx@reddit
Who's got their claws in you my friend?
affectionateanarchy8@reddit
You live a very easy life then
Bearded_Pip@reddit
They do. I’m going to get into some nasty fights over this in the nursing home over this 20 years from now.
DocMcCracken@reddit
There are a few good songs, but I hung out with some folks that made it their identity to like Dave Matthews, it was OK, but not for the love that they gave. I do think weed was a big factor in their thought process.
whattheflagnon@reddit
You’re not wrong.
Tuckermfker@reddit
That band did absolutely nothing for me. That being said I'm a musician who made about -30000 dollars playing music i personally enjoyed, so good on him for getting paid.
realitythreek@reddit
They’re okay. I watched part of a live concert on YouTube recently and will say I think they’re better live. But they have “music my parents listen to” energy these days.
Pretend_Education_86@reddit
I listen to tons of music, like tons from every era especially our childhoods. They would never be in my collection.
majorjoe23@reddit
Fans call him "Dave."
Which is why I always use the full "David John Matthews." I would find a longer way to refer to him as possible.
eatyourface8335@reddit
They are great musicians. You just don’t dig the style.
omgwtflols@reddit
Same
Sweet_Deeznuts@reddit
I also agree
Myrtle_Snow_@reddit
Everyone I know who likes Dave Matthews is too old to be a xennial.
mortmortimer@reddit
real fans call him Dave
Lonely_Opening3404@reddit
No. You're right. He sucks.
cuemchugh@reddit
For a brief moment I was suddenly transported back to every High School classroom I had sat in in 2002.
Was never a fan myself.
barktwiggs@reddit
So you are more of a Hootie and the Blowfish guy eh?
jeophys152@reddit
Not controversial at all. I’m not a fan. Never have been
cloudydays2021@reddit
I find their music sorta lame but Dave Matthews has been quite the activist and I agree with his stances on a lot of topics, which led me to buy tickets to see DMB this summer. Gonna get high and have fun
Ornery_House_8709@reddit
That is the only correct take to have
LooksLikeAWookie@reddit
Salesforce flew Dave out just to do two songs at the start of a seminar. Dave started off with: "This is the shortest song I've ever written. Comes in at just under fifteen minutes."
jimsensei@reddit
I just outgrew them. One day I had Under the Table and Dreaming on repeat in my CD changer then 30 years went by and I just haven't thought about them.
theHollowTarnished@reddit
Ever since "just go with it", I cant stand him.
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Aerias_Raeyn@reddit
Yep. I appreciated ‘The Space Between’ because it was during my HS dating years — but yea, never understood their massive following.
Beyond the music though he seems like a pretty solid guy.
Unhappy_Performer538@reddit
Even if you hate them, the hook always brings you back, you cannot lie!
StrongBreadDrawn@reddit
Crash Into Me was...ok, and was mostly just one of those songs that for me became part of the backdrop of a micro-era.
I've never liked any of their other stuff.
Worth_Specific3764@reddit
agreed
Metzger4Sheriff@reddit
I don't love them and I don't hate them, but I am looking forward to their chain of themed casual restaurants at vacation destinations in the not-to-distant future.
Scooter_Boat@reddit
They had one good song.
ThizGuyFawkes@reddit
I like Satellite, Crash Into Me, and sometimes I'm in the mood for Crush. But that's it. I tried listening to full albums and I just couldn't get into them.
B_B_Rodriguez2716057@reddit
You put some respect on Gray Street. Fucking amazing song.
Im_from_the-future@reddit
Crash into me
USAF_Retired2017@reddit
How. Dare. You!!! I love DMB. 😭
Koshnat@reddit
Friends call him Dave
Stuffleapugus@reddit
They don't suck. They just suck.
HalfElvenPakiNinja@reddit
AAAHAHA!!! This is so great cuz I used to LOVE Dave Matthews Band! LOVE THEM!! Had all the albums, knew the words to all the songs, I taught myself his songs on my acoustic guitar and it made me a much better guitarist...but now I can't even stand a second of any of their songs hahaha! I played them out for myself so hard. Plus y'know their sound got kinda "dinkier" in the early 2000 and onwards - BUT - nonetheless, they suck in the most sweetest way for me.
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sipperphoto@reddit
Hard agree. I liked them when they first broke, but by the second album I was out. His damn voice just grates on my soul.
Similar_Program_7085@reddit
Never heard anyone say this before. Very brave of you
kl1n60n3mp0r3r@reddit
You're not wrong here.
RockLobster11230@reddit
You are allowed to have an opinion, even if it's wrong ✌️
boston_homo@reddit
I disliked a lot of 90s music that seemed to be everywhere and that would include the Dave Matthew’s Band.
eyelers@reddit
There are so many bands people liked when I was younger and I legit tried to like them as well.....I just couldn't get into them. You are right, but so am I lol
OtiumInUmbra@reddit
I wouldn't say I hate DMB, I just kind of nothing them. I did like that "Gravedigger" solo song he did though.
Amazing_Recording_31@reddit
Really not that controversial an opinion
InfidelZombie@reddit
All my homies hated them back in the day. They were a running joke.
Fit_Extent_1254@reddit
Personally, i thought only gen xers liked dave matthews band anyway.
TheREALBaldRider@reddit
If you hated them in the 90s, no reason why you shouldn't feel the same way. I stopped listening to anything after their 5th album but was disappointed by everything after their 3rd.
I hated all the boy bands back then but have since changed my mind.
Dreamfox37@reddit
I hate OAR. That poker song is the laziest, stupidest, unnecessarily long piece of shit ever written. I didn’t want to rain on their parade but I feel like I can do it here, so thanks.
Stardustquarks@reddit
I Stand with OP
EBMille4@reddit
OP and me