Modern day social media would have sucked in our youth
Posted by FleetBroadbill@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 37 comments
I was recently thinking back to the, I don't know, 2001-2004 era and how shitty the world was, but also how I never had a sense of dread about anything (other than, maybe, the first few days after 9/11.)
It got me thinking about how much worse my interpretation of events would have been if Reddit/Twitter/TikTok/whatever had been around at the time.
"Ya'll there was a fucking massive terrorist attack in a major American city, thousands of people dead, and now we've got people sending anthrax around, we're in a recession and unemployment is over 6%, the economy seems to be teetering, we're in a war and about to start another one, we have a crazy christian for president who wants to spy on all of us and who's trying to ban gay marriage, now there's a fucking SNIPER in the nation's capitol -- how the fuck do people expect us to show up when the world is such a hell hole?" etc etc. Just thousands and thousands of posts and videos like that, like a firehose.
This decade has been similarly pretty sucky so far, but it's yet another thing that makes me miss the pre social media internet. Sticking to a handful of subreddits kind of recreates the feel of old message boards but not really
jackfaire@reddit
Disagree. I would have ignored any mentions of everything that I ignored back then. It's not because of social media that I'm aware of this stuff it's because I'm paying attention.
Constant_Cultural@reddit
I was massively bullied in my youth. Thankfully I was save from it at home. I dunno if I would still be here if I wouldn't have been
OhWhatever_Nevermind@reddit
Ditto. I would have been toast. To this day it messes with my metal health.
Diligent_Accident775@reddit
Well, we are glad you're here
Constant_Cultural@reddit
Yeah, me too.
VVrayth@reddit
I mean, it sucks now, so I don't see how it could have been any other way in our youth. We are blessed by the fact that our youthful stupidity wasn't caught on video to be immortalized forever.
lakebistcho@reddit
It sucks now
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
I remember going on newgrounds to distract myself on 9/11. Then they made Bin Laden videos soon days later. Different times!
InfidelZombie@reddit
That's because modern day "social media" isn't actually social, it's just advertainment. It's not social if you don't have a personal relationship with the vast majority of your connections, we just still call it "social" because it evolved from actual social platforms.
RIP Facebook, you were beautiful while you lasted.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
This is a good epitaph.
Spartan04@reddit
Enshittifcation has ruined a lot of things on the internet that used to be good.
crazycatlady331@reddit
Enshitification makes the modern tech bro hard. Particularly those in social media (ie Fuckerbot).
Adventurous_Pin_344@reddit
I miss Facebook when it was just inane inside jokes between me and my friends. It was stupid, but we knew it.
InfidelZombie@reddit
*Poke*
Lensgoggler@reddit
I have grown so very unpatient with both Instagram and Facebook. It used to be so cool. Now both are full of shit. On the other hand, I'm kinda old now and feel I'm fine with reddit being my main "social media". I still have both Instagram and Facebook because I have contacts there whom I value (like my friend circle from studying abroad) but scrolling on both is infuriating and I lose patience very quickly.
cybah@reddit
I left both before the pandemic. I do not regret leaving. The only thing I miss is how people forget about me b/c I am no longer on them. Gosh for bid people text or call instead of using social media as a communication form
Proof-Emergency-5441@reddit
You clearly didn't watch the news back at that time because that 100% happened.
And you forgot about chain/email forwards.
bcentsale@reddit
I can't imagine it otherwise. All these conspiracy theories and antivax and all this other bullshit still existed on the edges of IRC. Hell, even Geocities had its tin foil hat loons. The only thing that's changed is that modern day algorithm driven social media has given them access to a bigger audience.
6of1HalfDozen@reddit
Before we had the internet, there were people talking about the government spying on us. They weren't wrong, but I just had to avoid that one guy from time to time. Social media is just like AI; it just amplifies both the good and bad parts of humanity.
cat_at_the_keyboard@reddit
At least the loons were mostly isolated back then
Proof-Emergency-5441@reddit
Nah, they found ways to find each other.
bcentsale@reddit
Some days it is nearly impossible to remember that there are good parts. Even moreso as someone who studied history.
6of1HalfDozen@reddit
In the future, western society will look back on these years with nostalgia. The final decades of the enlightenment will look way better than their feudal dystopia. Enjoy Applebee's while you can
BeanerSchnitzel38@reddit
I must remind you that We Didn't Start the Fire.
cat_at_the_keyboard@reddit
BeanerSchnitzel38@reddit
That was a nice surprise that made me LOL
Significant-Kale-463@reddit
But we’re trying to fight it.
have1dog@reddit
I’m sure glad that everyone didn’t have a video camera in their pocket when I was in high school. I did my fair share of dumb shit, and I’m glad it’s lost to the ether instead of going viral or becoming a meme.
And if you wanted to talk crap to someone, there was a very real possibility of getting punched for it.
Phoniceau@reddit
Social media literally is the cause and effect of shitty state of the world. Everything is amplified as a result…
mlo9109@reddit
It's not the news cycle that would've sucked but the lack of privacy. I'm grateful none of the dumb shit I said or did as a kid is out on the internet to haunt me the way it is for today's youth. Especially when employers do look at candidates' social media and use it to make hiring decisions. Also, I wonder what's going to happen when Gen Z and younger start running for office. See the controversy in my home state of Maine over one of our Senate candidate's Reddit posts.
WalmartGreder@reddit
We have the same thing in Utah. A democratic candidate for a state senator posted some pro-SA stuff on Reddit 10 years ago (when he was 26), and he has now apologized for it. But 10 years isn't that long ago (2016), and I think it will cost him the primary. Plus, 26 is old enough to determine your outlook on life (after college, already started your career), so his apologies feel a bit flat.
CantFindMyWallet@reddit
My college girlfriend went to Tufts, and they used to do the Naked Quad Run every year before finals. A few dozen folks would just get naked and run around the quad. We did it our senior year, and then the school banned it not too long after that once everyone had cameras on their phones and could post anything to social media.
Primary-Strawberry-5@reddit
The only thing from my young adulthood is wondering who’s in possession of the Polaroids.
throwawayfromPA1701@reddit
I was a big fan of usenet back in the late 90s. My posts are still there, preserved until we nuke ourselves back to the stone age. There was one for marching bands. It definitely turned into flame wars between high schools. We definitely were told to mind what we say on usenet, or else.
Moist-Golf-8339@reddit
It would have sucked in our youth? It sucks now.
anOvenofWitches@reddit
In the 90s, social media was gay bulletin boards for hooking up.
Putting that kind of “social info” out there was broadly viewed as creepy/unsafe.
I recall there being a ton of resistance from straight friends even joining Friendster for this reason.
Wak3upHicks@reddit
Imagine the skate videos though