Am I wasting the prime backpacking years of my life?
Posted by Anxious_Primary_1107@reddit | Shoestring | View on Reddit | 16 comments
Note: I know no one can help make the decision for me. But I just wanted some perspective on those who were able to go backpacking regularly throughout their 20s. What changed as you age?
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M24 here. I’ve always loved backpacking and adventurous travel. During uni and before starting work, I managed to do quite a handful off-the-grid trips and honestly I don’t feel quite done yet and always look forward to do more of these.
However, recently, I received a job opportunity that would require me to relocate somewhere where travelling becomes much harder, mainly due to distance, cost, as well as lack of holiday leaves. It’s a contract work and I’m pretty much guaraanteed the job until the max next 5 years. On the posive side, the job pays pretty well. And since I won’t be spending much (I dont spend alot aside from travelling), it’s a brilliant opportunity to stack some money.
The dilemma is this: if I fully commit to this path, I’ll basically be putting long-term travel on pause until I’m around 29.
And I know 29 is not old. But after tearing my ACL last year, I started becoming more aware of how fragile the body can be. I try my best to keep my fitness in check and make I am always in shape. But I still wonder whether the rugged style of backpacking I enjoy now (long bus rides, rough accommodations, hiking, sleeping anywhere, constantly moving around) will still feel the same in my late 20s.
Part of me worries that I’m “wasting” the prime backpacking years of my life.
At the same time, another part of me thinks sacrificing 5 years now could massively improve my finances. To the point that I probably could take a year off or two once im done with this contract job.
So I’m curious to hear from people who’ve been able to do both. How different is travelling in your early 20s vs late 20s? Did your energy, interests, or tolerance for rough travel change a lot? Or is this fear mostly in my head?
jesteryte@reddit
It's not that you'll be too old to backpack, it's that life creeps up at you with responsibilities and commitments. In your 20s, you don't have a mortgage, a car payment, etc. - you're so much freer than you've ever been before or will be again. It does get harder to travel as you get older, because you're just not as free, and don't underestimate the friction that causes.
shaav@reddit
It is so much more difficult to settle yourself for some comfort later in life. Build a good foundation now, then use the freedom of your 30ies to live.
I did it the other way round and while stories and memories are nice: They fade. Wish I had done many things differently - if I had, I'd have more freedom now.
badlydrawngalgo@reddit
I backpacked in my teens and early 20s, I'm 68 now and still backpacking. My partner is 71, we both still love the adventure.
Plastic-Pop-5369@reddit
I’m 32 and just traveled South America by backpack for 7 months, no issues and no different than my big 6 month Asia trip when I was 25. Also probably 3/4 people I met were 30+
Unless something crazy happens, you are not going to feel very different at all at the age of 29, it’s really not that old hahahah trust me!!
Sudden-Bat3174@reddit
My 30s have been my best years for travel and backpacking. I gained a lot of experience in my 20s with my career so I’ve been able to take long breaks and come back to find a job pretty easy because of my resume.
BimboSmithe@reddit
Travel, when you can, while you're young. I'm 69 years old with artificial knees. I started to travel with my wife after we retired. We have been able to see quite a lot of Europe and S.E. Asia. There are things that are more difficult. Not just trails in the wild but boarding smaller aircraft, stairs in general etc. We are thankful for having the time and money to get out and see the world. Still, we think about how much more we could do when we had youth and fitness.
lmatt63@reddit
I took a 1yr break at 30 to travel and it was the best decision I made. more confidence, better decision making, and i could actually enjoy things instead of rushing.
TreeThink5214@reddit
As someone who started only at 23 and is now 26, I would say you're wasting the best times. Most people wait until they're rich enough, retired, or have the time to travel, but you'll never be this young or healthy again. Time takes everything, including your health, so I would much rather retire later in life than wait until I'm really old to see the wonders of the world. It has so much to offer. But that's my take on it.
yesitismenobody@reddit
Bro it's insane to think 29 is old or anything will change in your body by 29 to think it will be more difficult. The only thing that's risky here is that by the time the contract is over, OP might realize he likes money and comfort more than he likes travelling. In terms of doing it now vs doing it when you're retired, sure, do it now. But OP says he could take 1-2 years off when he's done at 29. That's likely more than the entire time he could backpack in these 5 years. The only risk is, he might not want to do it anymore, but whatever he wants it's what he should do.
radiant_dinosaur@reddit
It did for me. Early 20s I could easily have fun in hostels, take buses/cheapest transportation. While I’m not crazy luxury by any stretch now (early 30s), starting in my late 20s I had less tolerance for staying in hostels, took trains over buses, and became more willing to pay for convenience/comfort. However, this can vary deeply person to person and I’ve seen people in their 40s and 50s at hostels so don’t feel limited.
crazyoldkatlady@reddit
I’m mid-30s and travel backpacking-style (everything in a pack, walking and public transportation only, low budget) with my teenage daughter. If there’s a will, there’s a way and you don’t keel over at 40. You have decades and decades ahead of you to travel.
BreadfruitRegular631@reddit
I'm 60 and still travel using the same backpacker style I did in my 20's. I have money now but 'luxury' such as nice hotels does nothing for me so I'd rather use it for something else. Others embrace the ability to abandon backpacking style. It is going to depend on you and your health and probably no way to predict for sure.
madamebutterfly2@reddit
I don't think it is a bad idea to make money now. The body is fragile but it doesn't have to be as bad as you think. Boatloads of old people do the Camino de Santiago every year. You can backpack in the future if you want. You just might not be doing it "like a young person".
WitnessEntire@reddit
I was fine backpacking in my 30s and now I onebag with kids and I’m going to be 50. Take care of your body. I enjoyed traveling at all ages. I think I enjoy it more now because I know more.
lucapal1@reddit
I have done both, and now I'm over 50 I'm still going...at least 3 months a year, minimum.
If you stay in shape and prioritize travel,no reason why you can't keep doing it.I still take long bus rides where necessary,walk a lot, stay in budget accommodation and move around as and when I choose to, without problems!
And if you do feel you want to change your travel style in the future? Nothing wrong with that either.
SalamancaVice@reddit
Money buys comfort. Time buys stories.
Pick what you’re willing to run out of.