Women who are dominant are usually very hard to break. They're dominant by choice, or for many other deeply ingrained reasons.

Men who are dominant are different, because often they fall into that role due to it being in demand. It's seen as masculine, women want it from them, so they figure out how to do it and often it's a LARP that many guys aren't very good at because the truth is that it's not natural to them and they don't actually want to do it. If 90% of these women found a dominant woman they'd be calling her mommy and getting pegged within the first two weeks.