what's your reaction when someone speaks your language?
Posted by Typical-Farmer-1462@reddit | AskBalkans | View on Reddit | 19 comments
i just came back from bulgaria and me saying "blagodarya" got me a literal free dessert.
Suitable-Decision-26@reddit
I dont kniw about the rest of the Balkans, but if some one does even a bit of effort we are very pleased since most people don't care at all, most of the time.
No-Championship-4632@reddit
I get surprised for sure. Not exactly shocked.
Many years ago, I applied for a B1/B2 US visa for work. I had an interview with a US guy in the embassy, he asked me whether I prefer it in English or Bulgarian, I said it doesn't matter and he told me "then in Bulgarian, I love to practice". Then he talked in Bulgarian, but it was better Bulgarian than what I talk, like what they speak on the news on the national TV channels. So since then, nothing can surprise me.
dwartbg9@reddit
It's obvious that a guy working in the US Embassy in Sofia, would speak Bulgarian and willing to learn it. Your scenario is kind of different.
No-Championship-4632@reddit
Willingness to speak is one thing, speaking it better than the locals is another.
the_lonely_creeper@reddit
To be fair, embassy stuff really should be speaking the language of the country they're posted to, if at all possible.
hereforthebooooze@reddit
I was in Gran Canaria with my American friend and I heard the staff in a restaurant speaking in Bulgarian. We were speaking with our waitress in English the whole time, until it was time to get the bill. I taught my friend how to get the bill, so she flagged down the waitress and said smetkata molya. The waitress just about fell over she had to repeat it to make sure she heard her correctly and started laughing and was so pleased. I taught my friend blagodarya as well which is very difficult for Americans to pronounce so when the waitress came back and my friend hit her with the thank you in Bulgarian (not just the easy Merci) she was so impressed she gave us some little gifts from the restaurant.
A couple years ago I brought another American friend back with me and my family to Bulgaria for a week and a half (she loved it) and learned a few phrases. When we were leaving Sofia Airport she was dropping her learned phrases as much as she could and the security officer thought she knew the language and was giving her instructions in Bulgarian. When I explained to him she only learned some phrases and she is just visiting from America, he was pretty impressed with her effort and pronunciation. Honestly I think that nothing makes a Bulgarian more unusually cheerful is when foreigners try to speak the language.
Early-Show2886@reddit
im surprised and say oh wow you speak my language? cool and then i ask where he/she did learn it.
pcmtx@reddit
I am not Balkan, but a few times I've gotten to use some Serbocroatian with some strangers here in America and they are always pleasantly surprised.
STATUSReally@reddit
Of lele pak ovie
SwimmingAttention133@reddit
depends on my mood and how good the other person is speaking. Usually i am very patient and encouraging but if i am in shit mood and have no time i'll just switch to English
Ajnitic@reddit
'Eeeeeeeeee brateeee'
No-Relative-9878@reddit
"Cao", "Zdravo", "Dobar dan"
Stverghame@reddit
I absolutely love it. It takes time, effort, probably many plateaus in learning process - you HAVE TO respect someone's determination to learn something out of pure passion.
Online I met quite a lot of foreigners whom I helped with Serbian, and I am always glad to hear them speak/see them write in Serbian.
bigelcid@reddit
Bulgarian barkers (as in, the guy saying "come, have a seat at our restaurant") often learn funny Romanian phrases to attract tourists. About the mother in law, or Gigi Becali, or whatever.
0-Satisfaction@reddit
Cool, now Lets have rakia and beer so you can speak it properly 😭
Istar10n@reddit
I think it's cool. And if I talk to someone a lot, I try to learn a few phrases in their language.
Comfortable_Cress194@reddit
impressed
EnvironmentalPhoto73@reddit
You mean when a stranger makes the effort to learn? Cool as f**k.
_Stalwart_@reddit
From my experience meeting other Greeks abroad hasn't yielded the best results.
I don't want to be biased but only 1 of them was a good person for some reason.