it comes from the ballroom scene originally but blew up over past few yrs bcz it became part of aave then got adopted by stan twitter and now everyone says it
Its probably a joke, but really, no. This type of woman cost me friendships and any trust in people. You'll forget the fun much much faster than the whole lot of other shit.
Bro trust it's not worth it. Having them constantly put anything they like on a platform while absolutely dogging anything they don't gets tiring. If you like something they don't you'll hear about it, and if you don't, they're not capable of hiding their disdain even if they don't talk about it directly. Also prepare for the most mundane of preferences or personality traits being "I'm autistic/ADHD so I do X"-ified.
To be clear, nothing wrong with autistic women/people, it's the huge ego part that gets old.
I am one of the few success stories of the “I can fix her” trope. She had BPD/bipolar II, I finally got her to go to therapy + psychiatrist. Now things are great.
But I am the exception, not the rule. Please heed the warnings of others lol
It’s been 5 years. I think I know my girlfriend lol. BPD is a treatable condition. Yes, treatments don’t work for everyone. But they do work for a lot, and that’s why we even have a treatment plan.
To people on reddit, everyone with BPD is essentially the chick from Fatal Attraction or something. They don't realize that just as depression is a sliding scale, so are all other mental illnesses.
This is the exact stereotype Ramona Flowers was based on. She would show up, change a man's life, and then bail when it got too serious. That's like... the whole plot of the Scott Pilgrim comics. The "fairy-tale ending" of that shit is when two young adults agree to settle down and put effort into a relationship with each other, even when things are hard.
Variety is the spice of life, this is one of the toughest parts of any relationship. Post honeymoon, relationships can slide into situationships. Some describe it as a spark. Personally speaking the spark is usually found mutually early on. Now, this green text also speaks to power dynamics. Anyway, uh tl;dr modern dating is rough out there.
Put the light out, there is no hope. Romantic relationships are a lie. I believed in that once, but it is not real, you are at best comfortable but you will never be happy.
Yep. Didnt know a woman could take advantage of me. I literally believed she couldn’t make time for dates only hookups cause she was actually busy most of the time.
Unfortunately it’s real it’s happened to me too others in the thread are joking about it but it really does sting even when you know ahead of time it’s only for a little while
it indeed is lol not one sided tho, either partner can lose interest after the honeymoon phase, grow bored, etc, especially when it's been a few months and you see more of who they really are.
but it's 4chan so hes got no knowledge or experience outside of these couple of girls lol
MikeHoteI@reddit
If that EVER happens to me im a goner. That would fuck me up for good.
YesIam6969420@reddit
Where do I find these autistic women
duolicious-app@reddit
/soc/, discord, certain dating apps...
Physical_Mistake2907@reddit
Have a face card
PlentyOMangos@reddit
When did people start saying “face card” lol it’s been only a couple months or so that I’ve been seeing it
shaycee@reddit
it comes from the ballroom scene originally but blew up over past few yrs bcz it became part of aave then got adopted by stan twitter and now everyone says it
Dr_Brotatous@reddit
What's it supposed to mean? This is the first iv heard it.
shaycee@reddit
it just mean a nice face
getOFFmyMILK@reddit
I found a few out in the wild but you don’t want to deal with them trust me
According_Tourist_69@reddit
Hey now, don't make decisions for me! Let me suffer as I wish!!
rlyfunny@reddit
Its probably a joke, but really, no. This type of woman cost me friendships and any trust in people. You'll forget the fun much much faster than the whole lot of other shit.
RevReads@reddit
They're not like anime pixie girls, go outside
Practical-Essay-8634@reddit
women do not exists on the internet. It was all a set-up.
Letters_to_Dionysus@reddit
anyone remember the sharpie in pooper, shoe on head, tits or gtfo era? ahh those were... days
Gold_Mask_54@reddit
Bro trust it's not worth it. Having them constantly put anything they like on a platform while absolutely dogging anything they don't gets tiring. If you like something they don't you'll hear about it, and if you don't, they're not capable of hiding their disdain even if they don't talk about it directly. Also prepare for the most mundane of preferences or personality traits being "I'm autistic/ADHD so I do X"-ified.
To be clear, nothing wrong with autistic women/people, it's the huge ego part that gets old.
baz4k6z@reddit
Just like anon : in your imagination
Only_a_tree@reddit
He missspelled BPD
Sierra-117-@reddit
I am one of the few success stories of the “I can fix her” trope. She had BPD/bipolar II, I finally got her to go to therapy + psychiatrist. Now things are great.
But I am the exception, not the rule. Please heed the warnings of others lol
bemydost@reddit
Let's see how long that lasts
If it's really BPD then you are in for a ride
Sierra-117-@reddit
It’s been 5 years. I think I know my girlfriend lol. BPD is a treatable condition. Yes, treatments don’t work for everyone. But they do work for a lot, and that’s why we even have a treatment plan.
bemydost@reddit
Sorry if I across like an ass
My gf was was not an exception. She hurt me terribly. At the end I had to save myself from her.
How did you manage to get yours to take accountability for her actions?
arbydallas@reddit
To people on reddit, everyone with BPD is essentially the chick from Fatal Attraction or something. They don't realize that just as depression is a sliding scale, so are all other mental illnesses.
Practical-Essay-8634@reddit
and you used foul language. I hex you with a thesarius.
CyclicalFlow@reddit
It's same thing for women. It all boils down to BPD one way or another.
DemonExorcist@reddit
Bingo
immeasureable@reddit
Not a single unique experience
IanDerp26@reddit
This is the exact stereotype Ramona Flowers was based on. She would show up, change a man's life, and then bail when it got too serious. That's like... the whole plot of the Scott Pilgrim comics. The "fairy-tale ending" of that shit is when two young adults agree to settle down and put effort into a relationship with each other, even when things are hard.
So uh... do that, I guess.
LemonKing326@reddit
Variety is the spice of life, this is one of the toughest parts of any relationship. Post honeymoon, relationships can slide into situationships. Some describe it as a spark. Personally speaking the spark is usually found mutually early on. Now, this green text also speaks to power dynamics. Anyway, uh tl;dr modern dating is rough out there.
beerfass@reddit
Put the light out, there is no hope. Romantic relationships are a lie. I believed in that once, but it is not real, you are at best comfortable but you will never be happy.
DeliriumRostelo@reddit
This feels too specific to be fake but im gurssing it happened like 2 or 3 times
684beach@reddit
Yep. Didnt know a woman could take advantage of me. I literally believed she couldn’t make time for dates only hookups cause she was actually busy most of the time.
Narcofeels@reddit
Unfortunately it’s real it’s happened to me too others in the thread are joking about it but it really does sting even when you know ahead of time it’s only for a little while
knusper_gelee@reddit
"i always do the same thing because i like it. how do i stop this?"
...
LeafyChemist@reddit
Is this not just regular dating lol
xvsanx@reddit
it indeed is lol not one sided tho, either partner can lose interest after the honeymoon phase, grow bored, etc, especially when it's been a few months and you see more of who they really are.
but it's 4chan so hes got no knowledge or experience outside of these couple of girls lol
LeafyChemist@reddit
He's just like a younger me for real 😭
ISwearImAnonymous@reddit
Ohh so that's what that was.... No yeah makes sense now
Reptilesblade@reddit
Daveallen10@reddit
"It's them, not me "
Accurate_College_864@reddit