Basically, the places where these kinds of women appear are usually where people either a lot of time and or money are. Look at the places where the alt scene thrives in your city : can be a rock/metal themed nightclub, a cool pub where all the college students and young workforce hangs out... Depends on the country and place to live too.
But either way, it is also about how life has this whimsical and tragic ability to present us things when we aren't (or feel like we aren't) ready.
Also, don't stop at the makeup and leather. Look beyond what she seems to be. Look at the soul beneath it. That works for her green flags, but especially her red flags. If she has an ounce of good in her, she will notice your effort and reciprocate.
Only partially right. These women hang around places where people have excessive free time because they need attention desperately. Most of the women that do fit this archetype likely have BPD and they make the rounds and are incredibly soul sucking people to deal with because of their tendency to latch on, idealize, then discard. You can't fix them so don't try.
Given the frequency of experience you start to hear people thinking a disproportionate amount of women are like this. And while it is true that the number is higher than documented (1 in 20 where i believe closer to 1 in 10) the fact everyone has such a similar experience is because BPD women jump from relationship to relationship.
Having two "love of my life" relationships in one year is actually a slow year for them.
Their relationships usually don't last more than 4 or 5 months without breaking up at least once. And they're off to fuck someone else to quiet the madness as soon as its over.
Zero engagement with the post, literally just a post that immediately got screen shotted. Why didn’t you just make a post on a sub instead of posting it to 4chan, screenshotting it, and then listing it to here OP?
Joe_Mama_69420_@reddit
Based
Here4th3culture@reddit
You can only find this woman while unemployed. I will not elaborate further
LoiterAce@reddit
Please do
BustZaNuto@reddit
I will, actually.
Basically, the places where these kinds of women appear are usually where people either a lot of time and or money are. Look at the places where the alt scene thrives in your city : can be a rock/metal themed nightclub, a cool pub where all the college students and young workforce hangs out... Depends on the country and place to live too.
But either way, it is also about how life has this whimsical and tragic ability to present us things when we aren't (or feel like we aren't) ready.
Also, don't stop at the makeup and leather. Look beyond what she seems to be. Look at the soul beneath it. That works for her green flags, but especially her red flags. If she has an ounce of good in her, she will notice your effort and reciprocate.
Good luck, partner
ididnotchosethis@reddit
Fucking A well written
Entire-Background837@reddit
Only partially right. These women hang around places where people have excessive free time because they need attention desperately. Most of the women that do fit this archetype likely have BPD and they make the rounds and are incredibly soul sucking people to deal with because of their tendency to latch on, idealize, then discard. You can't fix them so don't try.
jer123@reddit
my god this thread and description was my ex.
Entire-Background837@reddit
And many other peoples'.
Given the frequency of experience you start to hear people thinking a disproportionate amount of women are like this. And while it is true that the number is higher than documented (1 in 20 where i believe closer to 1 in 10) the fact everyone has such a similar experience is because BPD women jump from relationship to relationship.
Having two "love of my life" relationships in one year is actually a slow year for them.
Their relationships usually don't last more than 4 or 5 months without breaking up at least once. And they're off to fuck someone else to quiet the madness as soon as its over.
Dangerous people to be around for sure.
Apathetic-Abacus@reddit
It’s scary how accurately this described my ex
Entire-Background837@reddit
Sub called bpdlovedones
Is full of us.
If you still need support
suburban_homepwner@reddit
that was not the response i expected. reasoned, mature, polite and kind - wtf.
pojohnny@reddit
that's some of the finest mercurial moonshine I've ever tasted.
fetusswami@reddit
A normal sane advice reply at 4chan, gods be praised
pojohnny@reddit
please let my appreciation of the same sane advice to add weight to your praise.
Murandus@reddit
I'm unemployed and this gave me hope. I should do more with my free trime.
The_Bloofy_Bullshark@reddit
I find them at the local bar. Lots of leather-clad cougars, I tell ya.
But as I understand it, there’s a cure for Hep C now, so I’m kinda tempted to shoot my shot.
fifththrowaway@reddit
Step 1:
Happy_Ocelot_4945@reddit
Get a get a box.
thegame2386@reddit
Whats step 2? All I have is scissors and confusion. All I know is no harm must come to the cylinder.
tensukexD@reddit
Cut it pussy
schmitzel88@reddit
Specifically she's behind you in line at a register where your debit card gets declined
khazixian@reddit
Enjoy the culture in its entirety, and dont say the word "foid" or end any word in "-maxxing." That and shower and youll get there eventually.
Might be a big girl with a jack skellington tattoo but its par for the coarse.
Bob_Saget_is_God@reddit
Keep posting frogs Im sure it will work out
Canadia86@reddit
Ok
shpidermaen@reddit
Ironically, Cassandra Petersen drew much of the inspiration for that character from drag queens. All the mannerisms are gay.
xxcali559xx@reddit
Real and gay?
thermitethrowaway@reddit
Vampira was a drag queen?
Guess that tracks with what I saw in Ed Wood.
Queasy-Meringue4786@reddit
It looks like a post
strainedhotline@reddit
Whatever happened to that Hannah minx chick
Kingofcheeses@reddit
I wonder that a lot actually
TowerTrash@reddit
At a lesbian bar.
She's a lesbian.
A really hot, gilfy lesbian.
stromdriver@reddit
was wondering if anyone else was going to bring that part up
zrock44@reddit
You can shut the fuck up
OutrageousQuantity12@reddit
Zero engagement with the post, literally just a post that immediately got screen shotted. Why didn’t you just make a post on a sub instead of posting it to 4chan, screenshotting it, and then listing it to here OP?
Phteven_j@reddit
The posts lately have been asinine. A couple comments if any and a lazy title like “anon dad”. Mods please earn your janny salary.
Ausfall@reddit
He wants reddit karma.
OutrageousQuantity12@reddit
The biggest loser desire I can think of is
porkin4what@reddit
I literally just met a girl like this idk what to do 😐 she likes me a lot but a hour away.
Eurasian-HK@reddit
Drive one hour see her, enjoy the distance and seperation when you don't want to see her
elreduro@reddit
Hot topic
Extra_Challenge2122@reddit
When I was little, pretty young, but old enough to know who Elvira was... I'd dress up as her for Halloween for several years in a row!!!
emodestroyer@reddit
The original BTGG
Becaus789@reddit
Become a tattoo artist.
AngelBryan@reddit
Everybody wants a woman like Elvira.
BBWArchitect@reddit
What straight man doesn't like Elvira, Mistress of the Dark?
LooseButtPlug@reddit
Even gay men love Elvira.
TomatoSpecialist6879@reddit
Even men without penises love Elvira
bannabananabanna@reddit
the manliest of men
Helpful-Team-2069@reddit
That's a genuinely good question.
BadJobBob@reddit
shit so do I
lamblamb65@reddit
How do you solve a problem like Maria? 🤔
BjornAltenburg@reddit
You don't, she picks you.