I have a clear memory of where I was the morning of April 19, 1995
Posted by therobotscott@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 90 comments
I know it's a couple of days late and that this might not be significant to people outside the US, but I remember I was sitting in the class room of my favorite teacher ever. She was an elder lady with freckles and Jheri curls and the sweetest attitude to every kid in her class, even those who didn't deserve it. When I showed her pictures of my vacation she would say "There's my baby!"
We were sitting at out desks quietly doing our work when a woman from the school office came in and whispered something in her ear. I saw her look up to the ceiling and say "Oh, Lord..." with a painful look in her eyes. After the other woman left and some murmuring she told us the news. She told us that a building in Oklahoma City had been bombed and she asked that we would pray for them. News started slowly coming in and though I knew it was serious, I didn't know just how serious it was.
But that is a morning I won't forget.
snow1868@reddit
I was in history class in 8th grade in Enid, OK. My history teacher was one of the track coaches and the other coach came into the classroom and said, you should turn on the news because a building in OKC was blown up. The entire rest of the day was spent in front of the TV in each classroom. I remember my dad picking me up from track practice a few days later and hearing the news over the radio that they caught McVeigh.
As a native Oklahoman, it's something I'll never forget.
NewsgramLady@reddit
Hey, I'm from Enid! I was in 5th grade at Harrison Elementary there when the news broke. The teacher wheeled in the TV stand and we watched it, not fully understanding what the hell happened.
The thing I remember the most about the bombing was that little baby in the fireman's arms. Still gets me to this day.
Oh, and I remember it was a right-wing lunatic who did this. Naturally.
snow1868@reddit
I was at Emerson. You're class of 02?
NewsgramLady@reddit
Yes! I went to Emerson after Harrison. Then Enid High of course.
snow1868@reddit
You may know my brother, he was '01.
NewsgramLady@reddit
Would you mind telling me who he is? You can DM me for privacy.
Fluffy_Marsupial2947@reddit
I'm also from Oklahoma, but not the City. I will never forget that morning.
therobotscott@reddit (OP)
I was in Tulsa. Not as close as Enid, but it still felt close.
fromthedarqwaves@reddit
Also from Tulsa. I was in social studies and Mr. Cotney wheeled in the TV so we could watch the live coverage of it.
HoggyStyle@reddit
NW AR here…was also in 8th grade history that day when I heard. Not nearly as close as you guys, but we also stopped to watch what was happening.
fromthedarqwaves@reddit
If you’re ever in okc there’s a fantastic memorial on the exact site of where the federal building was.
CerebralAssassin88@reddit
Enid! I grew up in Woodward. We didn't have a proper mall so we'd have to drive to Enid to go shopping. I kind of miss it!
I was in 7th grade and living in Minneapolis at the time of the bombing.
snow1868@reddit
Oh wow, good ol' Oakwood Mall. I worked at the Joe's Clothes holiday store for Christmas 1998.
Ornery_House_8709@reddit
Also from Tulsa, was I. 8th grade Oklahoma History of all things. Kind of ironic.
stratusmonkey@reddit
I didn't hear about the bombing until I got picked up from high school after track practice. It was the main story on NPR, and my first thought was "Probably the Palestinians." I was a news junkie, and I wasn't familiar with anybody else bombing buildings like that before.
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
I certainly remember it happened as a news event. But I was a few weeks away from graduation and focusing on finals and everything else that's involved in that major process, so that was my life at that moment.
Worried-Trade-6407@reddit
As a card carrying SubGenius I object to this!
Dang_It_All_to_Heck@reddit
My daughter’s elementary school was 12 blocks from the Murrah building.
At least two of the kids in my daughter’s class had parents in the blast zone, one on the fifth floor of the Murrah building.
The one in the building had crossed her floor to talk to a colleague and when the blast happened, the floor broke off right in front of her colleague’s desk.
Somehow she made it down the stairs, helping another person who had been blinded, then walked the 12 blocks to our kids’ school, shoeless and covered in dust.
The other kid’s mom was injured, but luckily had her back to the big glass window in her office (doing filing) when the blast happened.
My daughter’s class was interviewed by 60 Minutes. People from all over the US sent stuffed animals to her school (she still has hers, a small zebra).
It was confusing and terrifying.
therobotscott@reddit (OP)
That is terrible. At least those two children were just old enough to not be in the daycare at the Murrah building. And I hope your daughter wasn't affected too harshly by the events.
Dang_It_All_to_Heck@reddit
She, luckily, is a resilient person with a sunny outlook on life. She did wind up in a medical profession, so she’s a helper, too.
One of my coworkers had switched her two kids out of that daycare a few weeks before the bombing because her mom had retired and could watch them. She knew all those kids still there.
My younger child was at a daycare a few blocks away (a church run one). They ran some of the rescue efforts out of this church because it had a huge sanctuary where the workers could rest and a kitchen for hot food. There were sandbags all around the church in case of another attack.
OppositeRun6503@reddit
Funny how nobody brings up Oklahoma city and Waco or challenger on the anniversary of those events and yet on 911 we're forced to watch footage of that tragedy over and over on just about every network?
If 911 is to be treated like a national holiday then these other tragedies also deserve equal respect and attention as well.
FantasticAd4938@reddit
The coverage of 9/11 has toned down in the past couple of years. I think the network news stations are starting to understand we dont want to be imundated by memories of that for several days every year.
NewsgramLady@reddit
I think it's important for younger generations to see, as they weren't even alive when it happened.
FantasticAd4938@reddit
The younger generations should also be informed about Waco and the Oklahoma City bombings for knowledge purposes.
NewsgramLady@reddit
Totally agree.
FantasticAd4938@reddit
I think Bill Clinton wouldnt have wanted Waco and the Oklahoma bombings to have annual rememberances because those were bad things thay happened under his administration...
Or maybe, New York just gets more attention because of the media being located there.
PoisonMind@reddit
My band director was crying that morning. He got his master's from University of Oklahoma.
JunkHead1979@reddit
No clue. I didnt even know what this post was about until I got near the end. 1995, I was in... 10th grade. I guess I was school. I dunno.
Milkweedhugger@reddit
I faked being sick and stayed home from school that day. I remember watching the aftermath of the bombing on the news all afternoon. *I faked sickness on April 19, 1993 also, and got to watch live coverage of the Waco debacle as well.
gabbobbag@reddit
I faked sickness for both this event and April 20, 1999 when Columbine happened. I spent both days just home alone watching the news.
Dang_It_All_to_Heck@reddit
I was in Oklahoma City when the Murrah bombing happened.
On 9-11, I stopped for gas on my way to work and someone else getting gas was talking on his phone and something about the way he stood made me think of the Murrah building. I went home instead of to work, and turned on my TV to see the second plane hit the building.
Fun_Skirt8220@reddit
Give us a heads up if you wanna skip work on April 19 in the future? 😅
hyzerKite@reddit
I walked into history class and the teacher said “one hell of a birthday gift, huh?”
That was the day Waco burned in the stand off, then a few years later we had OKC bombing for the anniversary. There is no end to the evil men can do.
cloudydays2021@reddit
I was home sick that day and the news cut into my usual “sick day” programming of game shows and talk shows. I watched the whole thing alone in my apartment.
pnw_rider@reddit
Oddly enough, it was spring break week from our school in the Seattle area. I distinctly remember we were standing in line for Splash Mountain at Disney World when we found out.
Sufficient_Turn_9209@reddit
My best friend and I were competing at horse trials that we had been working towards for two years. It was a BIG deal, and a big step toward future ambitions. On the last day we heard about it from her mom because her father was a US Marshall, and she called to tell her he was on his way there. My teenage self was upset that her mom would lay that on her right at the end of something "so important". I really only understood the gravity of what had happened over the next several days, and I still feel kind of bad about my first reaction.
gearslammer386@reddit
I was in class about 15 miles from the Murrah building when it happened, we all thought a plane crashed into the roof of our school when it happened it was that loud.
unbalancedcentrifuge@reddit
My parents were out of town, so I skipped school. Then I just ended up staring at the news, unable to comprehend how much damage there was.
ScreenTricky4257@reddit
I was visiting my grandmother in Arizona. She and my mother were talking in the kitchen and I was so stunned by the news I couldn't even get up and tell them for like ten minutes.
randalp21@reddit
I was in 6th grade 10 miles away. Our windows shook and the doors all slammed shut. We though it was a gas explosion at first. We listened to the radio for a most of the day afterwards. Crazy times
d3dk0w@reddit
I was 7th grade 15 miles away and felt and heard it too. I went with a school friend to see it before they demolished it, one of the most eerie gut feelings I ever had. About a decade later we met up at the memorial site and so many memories flooded back.
okieboat@reddit
Same grade about the same distance away in one of those 40 year old t-buildings (temporary my ass). I happened to be looking up at the ceiling and I swear it bounced a foot. We thought it was a sonic boom from a jet about 20 feet off the ground.
malibuklw@reddit
We never once had news mid school day. They always had us wait until we left school
poptartsandmascara@reddit
It started out one of the best days of my life. I found out that day that I made varsity cheer for the next school year. Then I got home and saw the news. It’s one of the first “big” news events I remember. So sad.
ShillinTheVillain@reddit
I moved to Michigan in the summer of 95 and remember so much of the news talking about the Michigan Militia. I was 11 and wondered what kind of hellscape we had relocated to
yowza_wowza@reddit
I was at a doctors office with my grandmother. I will never forget.
HighSeasArchivist@reddit
The ATF is to blame for Waco, Oklahoma City, and Columbine.
Dame_Milorey@reddit
I was about to graduate in a month or so then. Sometimes I get a little morbid and remember this edit of Lighting Crashes I heard on the radio.
OppositeRun6503@reddit
911 happened, yes it was a terrible tragedy but we need to move on from it.
We're only causing more pain by being forced to relive it year after year all for network ratings gold....meanwhile the jihadist movements that carried it out get to relive what to them was their greatest accomplishment ever and that's something that we should deny them the opportunity to ever do.
NewsgramLady@reddit
Umm, no. The you get generations need to see and hear about it. It's part of America's history, and we should never forget.
violetstrainj@reddit
I was in fifth grade, living in western Arkansas. Our teachers spontaneously gave us a “free day”, set up movies to watch in the library, and we got a tour of a helicopter that had coincidentally just happened to land in the field next to our playground. In reality, our teachers were in the lounge next door crying, watching the news, and calling family members that lived in Oklahoma to make sure they were okay. I had no idea what happened until I got home and saw it on the news.
madsci@reddit
I'm pretty sure I was in the parking lot of my community college before classes.
channelgirl27@reddit
It’s my birthday so I know where I was that day. Kind of a bummer to share this anniversary.
PensivePainter@reddit
Same here, I feel you. It's always in the back of my mind. Turning 40 during lock down also sucked.
mauibetty@reddit
4/19 unite!! I remember OK but not Waco. Im from New England so the first battle of the revolutionary war was big one for me and way less depressing.
Cthulhus-Tailor@reddit
I was 14 but I don’t recall where I was, it didn’t leave much of an impression on me.
Spartan04@reddit
Same here. I was also 14 then and I have no idea where I was or what I was doing at the time. I remember hearing about it at some point but I think it wasn't until after school.
scattershotdreams@reddit
I was homeschooled at the time and was woken up by the blast wind hitting our house. That whole morning is seared into my memory.
Moxie_Stardust@reddit
I was at Model US Senate in Germany (military kid, DoD schools). It definitely didn't feel as immediate being so far away, and not having American TV.
frolicndetour@reddit
I was in my Latin class in high school. Someone told my teacher and we already had one of the TVs on wheels in the room so he turned it on.
Claranova00@reddit
I was in DC on a family vacation during Spring Break. We were meant to tour the FBI headquarters that day, but everything closed to the public. We ended up wandering around Arlington National Cemetery as it was just about the only place still open to the public.
Resident-Device-2814@reddit
I went to a Catholic high school and we had just come back from a retreat and the night that the OKC bombing occurred, or possibly the next day, we had a follow up meeting at one of the teacher's houses, so it was a pretty close timeframe. But for me personally overshadowed some 8 days later when sitting in math class, I got the news one of my best friends had pass late the night before in a freak accident involving his car and roller skates. Hard to believe it's been nearly 31 years.
MPetersson@reddit
It was my 12th birthday. I went to school then after school we did presents and went out to dinner. I didn't find out until we turned on the news after the Ground Round. My tenth birthday was Waco and apparently my 6th was the Central Park Jogger attack. April 19 was a rough birthday in the 90s.
EmmalouEsq@reddit
I was in 4th period study hall. I was in 8th grade and was shooting the shit with some other kids. Then the tv rolled in and the teacher was really somber and she turned it on.
I knew it had something to do with the Branch Dividians. Those few years were crazy. Especially adding in the Unibomber
No_repeating_ever@reddit
I vaguely know where I was, but because of that I didn’t find out until the next day.
8th grade DC trip. We were doing our last feature and then drove back. Took about 8ish hours. Got home at 1am and my Nana picked me up and drove me home. Heard it on the radio the following morning.
littlesisterofthesun@reddit
I mean, I know where I was April 29th, 1992.
There was a riot on the streets tell me where was you?
eightnot8@reddit
You were sitting home watching your TV While I was participating in some anarchy
Initial-Progress-763@reddit
My school wheeled in the tv carts for this one, and for OJ's "chase".
Super racist, tiny VA town, but it was surprising how the Rodney King news was relayed back then and there. Not "riots", it was "the verdict". Even in KKK country they seemed to acknowledge there were multi-faceted reasons for the response, and that those reasons were valid enough to avoid glossing over the mass response as "riots".
littlesisterofthesun@reddit
First thing I hit it was the liquor store. I finally got all that alcohol I can't afford.
eightnot8@reddit
With red lights flashing, time to retire And then we turned that liquor store into a structure fire.
therobotscott@reddit (OP)
I was at home. I was being home schooled at the time.
gernblanston512@reddit
I remember it, I was in my speech and debate class, there was an overhead announcement and they asked for a moment of silence. A few years later I was at OU and one of my sorority sisters dad was ATF and killed in the blast. It was so sad.
cbih@reddit
Me too. I was in Florida. We had rented two big beach houses between like 6 families and I was chilling and reading Wizard magazine. It really put a dark cloud over the trip.
CommonNative@reddit
I didn't learn about it until after school, but I do remember my mom saying she was frantic because dad worked for the D.O.D and was at the St. Louis federal building that day. Why yes, I did have nightmares.
Competitive_Bid3847@reddit
I was in 6th grade in a small town outside Oklahoma City. I remember watching coverage on television and not really understanding what it meant.
My aunts lived in Oklahoma City and said they felt what they thought was an earthquake. One aunt said that pictures fell off her wall and scared her nearly to death.
pixiequix@reddit
I remember this day. I went to a friends house with a group of girls after school and her mother was in tears watching the news. "Sit down girls, something terrible has happened..." We tried to enjoy our time together that afternoon but were all frozen by the news we'd just heard-- An entire building reduced to rubble, including the on site day care. A frightful act of domestic terror. The same thread of anti government sentiment that's now running the government.😵💫
Youasking@reddit
I was home sick from school. I remember whatever channel I was watching broke the story..they claimed it was a gas leak at first.
Less_Likely@reddit
I was on Easter break from school - my junior year and babysitting my then 2 year old niece all week because my older sister’s daycare arraignment was off for the week as well
timhowardsbeard@reddit
From South OKC and was in High School at the time. We heard the explosion while outside between classes. So many kids were panicking because their families worked downtown and some in the Murrah building. The phone lines were completely inoperative and I remember feeling panicked and anxious. We spent the next several days collecting food/gear for responders and volunteering at the site to feed people. Between that and tornadoes that I grew up with I was exhausted living in Okc.
HomegirlNC123@reddit
Was in the car coming back from a spring break vacation, heard about the attack on the radio.
redsector2112@reddit
I was thinking recently about my mom’s birthday on April 19 because she and I just associate that date with the 90s tragedies in Waco, Oklahoma City, and Columbine.
B_Williams_4010@reddit
I was in the dorms at the University of Oklahoma and it was on the lounge TV when I walked out for my first class. Everybody I knew lost somebody that day or knew somebody who did.
shempaholic@reddit
I was on vacation in Myrtle Beach that day. I remember seeing it on the news in our hotel room.
LongjumpingJaguar308@reddit
It was spring break and my grandma was taking me to or from drivers ed.
Benny-Bonehead@reddit
6th grade social studies in a different part of Oklahoma. Teachers were a bit panicked as many had family ties to OKC.
DrPeterVenkman_@reddit
We were on spring break in Orlando. We went to Denny's for breakfast and I remember seeing the headline/picture on the paper in the coin-operated dispenser out front.
t3hwookiee@reddit
I was in history in 8th grade near Tulsa. The teacher brought out the tv cart so we could watch the news coverage. Several students and faculty had relatives or friends in the vicinity of the bombing and were so scared. We were lucky, and only one person lost someone.
I still flinch when I see older Ryder box trucks. I still flinch when I hear a name that sounds similar to McVeigh.
The Memorial is gorgeous. Those tiny chairs…
Boatshooz@reddit
I was on one of those fishing party boats in Florida and the captain got on the intercom and relayed the news that he had just heard over the radio. Everyone on the boat got really quiet for the trip back to shore.
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
I was getting my braces off.
Initial-Progress-763@reddit
Where I lived, I don't think anyone really was prepared to process the events. OKC was far from the east coast and these kind of events were still thankfully rare at that point. I remember though that the bomb largely impacted the nursery which was gutting, galling, breathtaking. Why would someone do that, and how did the indiscriminate murder of babies forward their cause?
What a different world we live in now.