Am I the only one that thls annoys?
Posted by inspectorgadget9999@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 264 comments
I _think_ you're listening to me. I _assume_ you've stopped your music.
But I cant be sure.
It's like eye contact, taking your earphones out _proves_ you're listening.
Ckn-bns-jns@reddit
Can’t say this has hit my radar as anything that annoys me or that I’ve even noticed.
CheckYourStats@reddit
Yeah, I’ve gotten used to people having them in all the time.
15-20 years ago when this was a new thing, it was an adventure guessing if the person walking in circles and having a full conversation outside of the Grocery Store was either:
A.) Using bluetooth earbuds and on a phone call.
Or…
B.) Having a conversation with someone that only they can see.
missed_sla@reddit
I have significant hearing loss and the airpods work as hearing aids and don't cost $5000.
dallyan@reddit
Sorry, how do they work as hearing aids?
missed_sla@reddit
Airpods have a hearing assist mode. It's highly imperfect but it does help.
72pintohatchback@reddit
Modern earbuds often have "transparency" mode where the exterior microphones capture sound from your environment and play it back through your buds. If nothing is playing on them, it will effectively amplify your hearing to nearby sounds above a certain volume.
dallyan@reddit
Oh interesting I didn’t know that.
Skataneric@reddit
Some earbud manufactures have a voice setting for their ambient / pass through mode that will amplify vocal frequency ranges. I think my old sony's had that.
BlindMouse2of3@reddit
As a mechanic I've used them to amplify the sound of a ratchet clicking to know I was loosening a hose clamp I couldn't see.
pickledpeachesforall@reddit
Ditto!
Hefty-Notice-5841@reddit
Me three
marcos_MN@reddit
The newest AirPods have an “adaptive” setting that amplifies certain frequencies like speech.
4444444vr@reddit
but do AirPods also have a dedicated setting for this? thought I saw something about that.
Blanktc89@reddit
In the settings you can use them to carry out a sort of hearing test so it learns what frequencies you need boosted. When you use transparency mode it will modify or amplify the noise the mic picks up and plays it through. Can also specifically amplify voices.
Cyphierre@reddit
This is what you’re remembering.
HandaZuke@reddit
https://www.apple.com/newsroom/2024/09/apple-introduces-groundbreaking-health-features/
Eascen@reddit
I had my aunt get a pair for this reason, it works great for her.
Thatdewd57@reddit
I have severe hearing loss and accidentally dove into a pool with them on and rice didn’t work. So I had to use AirPods to “hear” cause it wasn’t the best unless someone spoke close to my phone. Ended up getting a replacement pair in the end that was a newer model so I can’t complain.
SonSuko@reddit
$26 warranty and you can replace them as many times as you want. Just walk in and say “everything dropped in the water”.
RockItGuyDC@reddit
Air Pods' hearing enhancement features don't use your phone at all, it's all done within the ear buds themselves.
denverblazer@reddit
Hold on.. I'm living without my prescribed hearing aids specifically because of the cost. Airpods are a solution? Can you explain how they help you?
IanCrapReport@reddit
That's because Airpods aren't covered by Medicare
missed_sla@reddit
Right, let's blame the only health care that poor people have for the problems caused by rampant capitalism. That kool aid sure is tasty!
CarbonInTheWind@reddit
Tons of rich older people use use Medicare too.
But I do agree that Medicare itself isn't the problem. The problem is how the government set it up to encourage price gouging in many cases.
Blizzardof1991@reddit
Bingo.
IlikegreenT84@reddit
Blizzardof1991@reddit
Bingo.
CarbonInTheWind@reddit
I have $100 Sony earbuds that work just as well as hearing aids. And they don't have the stick hanging down which annoys the crap out of me.
Wise-Tourist-6747@reddit
This. This is exactly why I bought this specific model
fsaturnia@reddit
Then this isn't really about you, is it? It's really annoying how many people in the comments here keep bringing up hearing problems when that is obviously not with this post is about. We get it, you have a problem. This is more about people who wear them all the time to listen to stuff in public. It was pretty obvious in the original post.
missed_sla@reddit
Hey, just so you know, you're being an asshole. Not sure if you recognize that.
ntrrrmilf@reddit
How do you know why someone keeps them in?
lehilaukli@reddit
This is exactly what op is complaining about. They expect people to take out the earbuds when they are talking to them so they know they aren’t listening to something else, but some people use them as a cost effective hearing aid. And those people would wear them all the time to be able to hear better all the time.
JoySkullyRH@reddit
How do you know though? Don’t judge - someone wearing EarPods, whether to hear better, think better, cope better, should be no different.
broke_fit_dad@reddit
Polar opposite for me I use the ANC as light hearing protection.
stareweigh2@reddit
yeah I can use my Samsung earbuds as hearing protection when I do outdoor shooting events. they aren't good enough for indoor protection but are adequate for outdoor shooting. I'm sure they wouldn't be ANSI rated good enough for actual work use but they don't make my ears ring and that's all I need if I'm doing a run and gun competition
broke_fit_dad@reddit
The ANC on mine (JLab JPod ANC) is 40dB which is actually pretty solid between them and my Smartwatch it lets my boss keep in touch with me in the field without my phone being in my hand
stareweigh2@reddit
that is good. I think the consistency of getting a good ear canal seal is what keeps it from being rated maybe? actual "hearing protection" earbuds cost a lot more from my research and again I'm guessing that these manufacturers don't want to be on the hook from hearing related injuries which is why they don't get them rated.
basiden@reddit
I would love to know your experience with them. I tried using my bose ones similarly, but the delay on audio while I could hear a little of the live conversation wasn't' working well for me
tgerz@reddit
I haven’t ever heard of anyone saying there was a perceptible delay using AirPods or AirPod Pros. There’s a few links throughout this thread to Apple’s pages that talk about the settings. I’d recommend looking into them. If they fit your ears well I personally think they’re fantastic. Not going to win any awards with audiophiles for overall quality but they work well for what they are.
jtho78@reddit
AirPods are surprisingly good at make shift hearing aids. The battery isn’t all day like proper aids. You can buy a pair and test it out, they have a good return policy. We tried a pair for my mom and here hearing loss was too extreme
brakeb@reddit
I have tinnitus and would love some solution before they put me in the ground to fix that...
Bajovane@reddit
Unfortunately, tinnitus is not a curable condition. You can have some sort of white noise that helps you be distracted so you aren’t thinking about it too much.
I have a severe to profound hearing loss but I have never known true silence. I have had tinnitus my entire life. Sometimes the ringing is so bad I feel it, and it gets LOUD and can distort the sounds I do hear.
People: PROTECT YOUR EARS AT ALL COSTS!!! Warn your kids and grandkids about it! Hearing aids do not restore hearing quite like a pair of glasses restores your vision. You will need to adjust to your hearing aids.
Extreme-Rub-1379@reddit
DisposableSaviour@reddit
MAWP!
Realistic-Action-492@reddit
My husband recently got legit hearing aids from Costco for 1600. Free hearing tests for members. It’s been life changing for both of us. I was told they carry 3 brands, and each brand is top of the line - they are all 1600. He had a 6 month full refund return if he didn’t think they were for him. Free domes, filters and batteries for life.
RaeMadison@reddit
Yes! Thank you. My mom wears hers as hearing aids and they work great. And she can adjust them as needed for crowds or smaller groups.
blanksix@reddit
This has been a game changer for my mother, yeah. She's going to eventually need something heftier but for where she's at right now, the airpods work
creepygurl83@reddit
I work in a clinic and a lot of people with hearing loss use air pods over hearing aids because they say they work better!
jtho78@reddit
Hearing aids are OTC now and costs $700-1500. This allows headphone companies like Sony and Jabre keep the prices competitive
PotsMomma84@reddit
This.
CelticSith@reddit
This is exactly what I use mine for too, so much cheaper and they work amazingly. If you’re butt hurt that you get upset cause I have them in, that’s a a you problem
DigDugDogDun@reddit
I’ve been thinking of buying those for my dad for that exact reason. Which AirPod version did you get exactly?
CelticSith@reddit
I picked up the AirPod pro 3
trent_reznor_is_hot@reddit
I can still pay attention to someone without eye contact, just saying.
ZombieAppetizer@reddit
I like the arch shaped ones. As long as they aren't heavy, they feel way better in my ear and my ear canal is still open so I can hear what's going on around me.
Admirable_Average_32@reddit
I don’t talk to people with ear buds in. I think they don’t want to talk which is fine by me.
BritOnTheRocks@reddit
I intentionally take them out if I’m talking with someone, like at a cash register. I have had people think I was talking to them when I’m on the phone though, so I try to keep it down.
fsaturnia@reddit
We found the one decent person in here! Also the one person who seems to get with the original post was about, that it had nothing to do with people who have hearing problems but more about people who wear them when it's rude to.
ImOnlyHereForTheCoC@reddit
You seemed to miss the point that the people with hearing problems “when it’s rude to” are doing it BECAUSE IT HELPS THEM HEAR CONVERSATIONS
pickledpeachesforall@reddit
Thank you for being considerate ❤️
nampezdel@reddit
No offense, but this is creeping into “old man yells at clouds” territory.
Funk9K@reddit
Naw, it's polite to take them out when you're talking to someone.
chazysciota@reddit
And if someone does it, is it polite to get all pissy about it?
Funk9K@reddit
Nope.
MemoryHot@reddit
My sibling full on wears her big headphones when she’s with family (ie. eating at a restaurant)… it’s so fucking annoying.
promptlyforgotten@reddit
Like others said, these can be hearing aids as well. My daughter uses them since you can program in hearing test results and they have changed her life (far more kid-accepted than hearing aids that cost 10x that amount)
ghoulthebraineater@reddit
I'm autistic. I wear ear buds to help filter out background noise. If I'm wearing earbuds and not making eye contact I am actively listening. When I'm making eye contact I'm not hearing half of what you say. I'm too busy monitoring how I'm making eye contact how long I'm making eye contact and what my face is doing.
Leading-Summer-4724@reddit
This. ADHD here, and if I’m having to track your face to prove I’m paying attention, I’m too focused on trying to make it seem like I’m not just staring at one place on your face (but also not look like I’m moving my gaze over your face too much), to actually absorb what you’re saying. Drove my mom nuts.
agentmkultra666@reddit
AuDhd here and both of you said exactly what I was going to say! When I least look like I’m paying attention is when I could verbatim repeat what the speaker has said. If I look engaged, I have no idea what’s going on.
Lord_Darlantan@reddit
Specifically in the case of AirPod Pro, they can be set up to enhance hearing when people start talking. My hearing isn’t as strong as it once was, so they actually ensure I hear someone better. But I understand the point the OP is making.
unicorn-beard@reddit
Yes same, ironically I use them to help with conversations. I'm completely deaf in my right ear so it helps a bit, especially in places with multiple noises going on at once.
abbydabbydo@reddit
FWIW, i’m disabled in my right ear and can barely barely hear out of it. I got hearing aids at Costco last year, and it’s improved my quality of life dramatically. Well worth the $1600.
I only wear them when I’m going out. I can take calls through them, so at least there is that, but I do hate that they preclude wearing earbuds.
Snobs will say Costco is not as good, but it’s a matter of care. If you can find an audiologist who is dedicated to excellence, they are great.
unicorn-beard@reddit
Unfortunately I'm almost complete deaf in my right ear so even a hearing aid won't help :/
Bajovane@reddit
Hey, I have cochlear implants in both ears. Insurance covered the cost of the surgery and the devices. I have had one replacement so far and I anticipate needing a new pair within a few years and I hope they will again.
It’s a major adjustment, but once you adapt, you should be pleased with the results. My only regret is not having it done sooner.
unicorn-beard@reddit
Oh nice I'll have to look into it more - out of curiosity do you also have tinnitus and if so, did the implants help with that as well?
Curious_Orange8592@reddit
Specsavers sell hearing aids starting at £500 ($676 at the current exchange rate). Just one more way my terrible country is better than the US
Careless-Ad-6328@reddit
I sometimes use mine to enhance my hearing in places with a lot of competing voices/noises.
PMmeHappyStraponPics@reddit
When smart glasses can add subtitles to real life conversations, I'll be the first one in line to buy them.
SnooSongs450@reddit
Check out Nuance Audio. They are glasses with built-in hearing aids. I've debated getting a pair, because I've noticed I'm starting to have a hard time hearing people in noisy environments.
shakespeareriot@reddit
Gen 1 is heavily discounted at the moment
Lord_Darlantan@reddit
I’d make sure to check that it can do what 2 and 3 can do though.
shakespeareriot@reddit
Not released yet as far as I understand
Lord_Darlantan@reddit
3s are out. I nearly a bought a set, but nothing wrong with my 2s.
SnooSongs450@reddit
Do you have them?
Lord_Darlantan@reddit
I have 2s. Best headphones I’ve ever had.
Bajovane@reddit
Same!!! I desperately need something like that!
aweedl@reddit
I can’t wait for this. My hearing is actually fine, I just love subtitles.
DriveOld8007@reddit
Get ready, coming much sooner than you think.
ChiefBroady@reddit
I do that to. Just turn on adaptive audio with voice and voices will be clearer while others noises calm down. It’s so nice.
TurtlesEatCake@reddit
I use them as both hearing “helpers” (my hearing isn’t bad enough to warrant hearing aids) as they filter out some noise and enhance others, and also as hearing protection. I’m in a concert band and sit in front of the very loud and shrill trumpet section. The adaptive mode lets me hear the conductor without getting my eardrums blown out by the guys behind me.
sailorangel59@reddit
Just had a meeting with a client. She was using them as hearing aids, had nothing but praise for them.
In case anyone asks: I don't know why she didn't have actual hearing aids. From what she alluded to, her hearing is okay, but the Airpods enhanced it. So maybe her hearing loss isn't at the level it needs to be for hearing aids? Don't know.
lindentea@reddit
could also be less that she's hard of hearing and more that she has audio processing disorder? personally, the latter affects me more than the former, although i do have a non-zero amount of hearing loss from all the concerts i went to in the 90's-00's before i finally started wearing earplugs. but even when the volume of speech isn't the issue, it's still pretty hard for me to understand speech if there's distracting background noise. so yeah i could see such a thing being super helpful!
tqpni@reddit
Do you think AirPods like this would help with auditory processing disorder? My wife was diagnosed and I’m wondering if they would help isolate the signal from the noise. I didn’t know they had this functionality?
Vorpal_Bunny19@reddit
It’s the exact reason my doctor told me to get AirPods. Too bad my FSA couldn’t cover it.
Odd_Tadpole3750@reddit
It could be price. Hearing aids in the United States can be very expensive even if a person has insurance. I was quoted 4-6 thousand. I put off getting hearing aids until I found hearing aids at Costco for $1500.
OctoWings13@reddit
Is there any Android or non apple equivalent of this?
Lord_Darlantan@reddit
Maybe the Samsung Galaxy 🌌 Pro Buds?
OctoWings13@reddit
Awesome, I'll check these out...thank you!
greatswordstudios@reddit
Didn’t know. Thanks for the info.
JaxLunchBox@reddit
OK Boomer.
OGUncleDonkey@reddit
No you are not
Weird_Squirrel_8382@reddit
If I wasn't listening to you I wouldn't be saying things that make sense in response to what you're saying. I wouldn't have even turned to face you at all. I leave my ear buds in because I will lose them otherwise. Pressing pause and smiling isn't enough?
whythoyaho@reddit
Sorry I’m annoying you in the gym!
BlueProcess@reddit
Don't be an old
_plays_in_traffic_@reddit
youve official reach old man yells at cloud stage my friend
jesusmansuperpowers@reddit
I’m the guy with the pod. For me it’s gonna be off, but it’s always audiobooks or podcasts on mine. Music gets real speakers
ineffable_my_dear@reddit
Why would you assume anything?
It annoys me that my spouse walks up and starts talking without allowing me to pause what I’m listening to or checking that I don’t have noise cancelling turned on.
In public I wear EarPods so it’s obvious I don’t want people talking to me.
Few_Candle9432@reddit
I wear my AirPod pros and they actually make it easier to hear and pay attention to someone. They quiet the music if playing, enhance the voice and cancel out noise. Try them!
-Odi-Et-Amo-@reddit
I keep them in so I don’t have to listen to people.
fsaturnia@reddit
That's kind of a problem when you have to deal with people in the real world. People who go out in public, drive, talk to you and have jobs wearing these things are an irritation on society. If you do this, you are a problem. Do not have a conversation with someone while listening to it f** podcast. You need to learn to grow up. The world has lots of people in it, and you're just going to have to deal with it.
chazysciota@reddit
Nah man, sounds like you are the one who should just “deal with it.”
-Odi-Et-Amo-@reddit
It’s exactly people like you who I’m trying to avoid.
ChiefBroady@reddit
“The world has lots of people in it, and you’re just going to have to deal with it.”
Says who?
InfidelZombie@reddit
I only wear open-ear bone conduction headphones since I like people.
ChiefBroady@reddit
That is so weird.
Aeon_Return@reddit
Same! Especially if I sense a man about to approach. Then its earbuds in, phone screen up. Go away annoying person oopsie cant hear you.
Ok_Industry3016@reddit
LOL iI mean we grew up with corded car phones the size of VCRs.
chubbuck35@reddit
I actually put them in transparency mode and I can hear you BETTER.
SpectrumWoes@reddit
I can’t even wear those, they fall out of my ears. The way my ear canal is shaped won’t grip them I guess 🤷♂️
I have to wear headphones that hang off the top of your ear
spderweb@reddit
My headphones have a wire, and I've needed to get an adapter to plug it into my phone.
South_Professional63@reddit
I have them bitches but they fall out my ears if I sweat.
ethnicvegetable@reddit
I can actually hear you better with them in. I'm not listening to music.
WarNo580@reddit
I am. Boring dialogue is better to listen to with a backing track. It adds production quality to shitty stories.
ethnicvegetable@reddit
I hadn’t thought of it that way, ooo…
tgerz@reddit
I don’t ever really have this type of interaction. No one I know leaves them in while talking to me. I also take them out when I know I’m going to have a conversation with a person.
TheMysteriousSalami@reddit
Sorry, this is some real Old Man Yells At Cloud stuff
arcxjo@reddit
The thing Apple fucked up that everyone treats like normal that gets to me is every photo and video being fucking backwards now. I'm 110% convinced it's an iphone photo default setting (Android at least makes it opt-in, which is a step in the right direction, but there's absolutely zero reason that "feature" needs to exist in the first fucking place).
Nerdy_Gal_062014@reddit
But how much are you talking at people without giving them space to respond? I would think a response or lack thereof would be a clue.
Extension-Ant-8@reddit
Go is 100% talking to women at the gym who are passive aggressively not taking them out because they don’t want to talk to him. Get the hint. Leave.
arcxjo@reddit
Dude, you're living in 2017. The current TikTok trend is women bitching that men aren't talking to them in the gym because they got tired of being filmed and doxxed for turning their head a degree too far when getting up from the bench.
ja4496@reddit
That’s a you problem.
flojo2012@reddit
AirPods don’t fit in my ears so I see everyone wear them and get outraged and I can’t join in and look cool
dalainydalainy@reddit
You are definitely not the only one. I hate them.
MyBestCuratedLife@reddit
I have actually heard this is a millennial thing. I often have them in and am listening to nothing lol!
UnfortunateSnort12@reddit
I put mine in to get out of talking to people or hearing the background noise. That said, I live in airport terminals where the noise levels are an assault to your hearing, and in uniform, everyone wants to ask you questions.
The noise cancelling is so good on them, someone has to tap me on the shoulder before I realize people are trying to get my attention. If you haven’t owned Air Pod Pros, I get why you think I am trying to ignore you.
MyBestCuratedLife@reddit
Of my gosh, all the time! And I’ve learned I startle easily!
Baked_Potato_732@reddit
I keep mine in most of the day, but I’m alone most of the day so it works well. I put my work headset overtop of them too so I get double noise cancelling
notacrookshank@reddit
They just look like cigarettes stuck in ears to me.
plmb@reddit
Bluetooth headsets have been a thing since the ‘90s and you’re not used to it?
chillbill1989@reddit
*Airpods
carlitospig@reddit
Oh. You’re mad at me. But to my defense, the world is fucking loud.
HeronOrganic3727@reddit
Your_underscores_annoy_me_more_than_anything_I’ve_ever_read
inspectorgadget9999@reddit (OP)
Not sure why the Reddit markup didn't work
Kade7596@reddit
Fine on a desktop web browser.
Bytowneboy2@reddit
Works fine on iOS.
Solintari@reddit
I get overwhelmed with loud or repetitive sounds. I can’t explain it but it drives my flight or flight nuts and noise cancelling is a life saver.
I also have a really hard time understanding people when there is a lot of background noise and these help me filter out some of the things I don’t need to hear. My hearing is fine, I think it’s some kind of auditory disorder.
trailrun1980@reddit
I just bought some for my Samsung, and yeah, I have one in WA I walk through the airport, but that bad boy comes out when I talk to someone, mainly because I'm partially deaf and need all the open ear I get 😂
PupLondon@reddit
I wear noise canceling earbuds and headphones...I wear them so people assume I dont want to hear them..unless it's an emergency, there is no reason for me to take them off
Allureme@reddit
GET OFF MY LAWN! 😂😂
merlinsmushrooms@reddit
I know this is gonna get downvoted to all get out but other people don't have to prove anything to you. 🤷🏽
mrs_hippiequeen@reddit
it's usually off, but off or on, if i care what you have to say, i remove it. apply that how you will.
Leilani3317@reddit
What annoys me is all my friends with ADHD call me using these and then proceed to do things like wash dishes, housework, other loud ass shit I guess they think I can’t hear? Get distracted a million times. Go on side quests. Not to mention wander away from their phones and drop the call. Just call me later when you can pay attention please.
leicanthrope@reddit
Of course, with the hearing aid mode that some of the newer ones have, leaving them in may be helping them listen.
IamGoingtoBundyland@reddit
I am annoyed that they look like they have left q-tips stuck in their ears.
symonym7@reddit
While in transparency mode, whether I take them out or not when talking to someone depends entirely on the apparent age of said someone.
Boomer? Out.
Zoomer? In.
Xennial? Apparently a coin flip.
guidevocal82@reddit
It's not only that. I have had a one sided conversation with someone before, before seeing the airpods and realizing that they aren't actually hearing me. I wear headphones, but over the ear ones, and it's clear when I'm not wearing them. I think it's rude af.
LH99@reddit
Preferable to people not using them in public and blaring their music or conversation for all to hear
Turkatron2020@reddit
Every moron on a rental ebike in San Francisco has these in their ears so they're blissfully unaware that they're in everyone's way 🙄
pickledpeachesforall@reddit
Some people at my work use them while they are working with patients. They are talking to someone on the phone and it's super obnoxious. If you didn't know they were wearing them you would think they were having entire conversations with themselves.
mcgamehen@reddit
Can't stand them. I wear Google Pixel buds.
Bland_Boring_Jessica@reddit
I hate AirPods with a passion but my Apple phone will not let me use the headphones anymore.
QualityBushRat@reddit
Sometimes I put earbuds in to avoid conversations, especially annoying ones.
hydrastix@reddit
It does not bother me as long as they can hear me and respond to questions appropriately. If they have proven they can’t, I will politely ask them to mute/pause whatever they are listening to and carry on.
Realistic_Essay_151@reddit
I don't shove them all the way in my ears. That way I can still hear. I pause my music if someone needs to talk to me.
_MadGasser@reddit
Ok, boomer.
username__0000@reddit
Taking my earphones out is how I loose my earphones. lol
Inattentive adhd is a pain in the ass but I work with it by not putting things where I know I’ll loose them.
And headphones in my hand will be mindlessly put down in some random place ,never to be found again.
TheMatt561@reddit
I'm ignoring you without the ear bud
BigPoppaStrahd@reddit
Strangely I don’t find myself talking to too many people with any kind of headphone in. So I can’t say I relate.
deadmeat6@reddit
This is sort of boomery.
Pitiful_Ad2397@reddit
Yes you are.
johnvalley86@reddit
Bring back the wires!
WendyPortledge@reddit
Honestly, yes, it generally bothers me if someone doesn’t take their headphones out to speak to me. I always do in a cash line. It’s generally rude. But I’m learning here that folks use them as a hearing aid, in which case is fine.
DefinitionSuperb1110@reddit
I'll take those awkward moments over some tool blasting their music in public any day.
pantheroux@reddit
Yeah. I realize that some people use them as hearing aids and some use their phones hands free and have to be available for phone calls, but there are some contexts where I find the Airpod thing weird.
I have lots of friends with teen/tween kids, and there are some who are never seen without AirPods. They will post pictures of family events/outings, or even major vacations and the kids will have AirPods in. Like, are you so disengaged from your family/the surroundings that you need to tune them out with music/videos/whatever? This trip to Asia is a once in a lifetime opportunity (and one most of us never get), and you’re gonna have your AirPods in the whole time? Maybe they aren’t listening to anything. Maybe it’s more like a fashion statement, but I just find it weird.
I have a coworker a few years older than me whose boyfriend is kind of a douche and he is also never seen or photographed without AirPods.
I’ve never used AirPods, so maybe they’re different, but I do use other Bluetooth earbuds and I find they’re constantly falling out. I don’t use them unless I’m sitting still in a contained area where I can find them if they fall. For working out and other activities, I have Shockz bone conduction headphones and big over the ear headphones. If I just wore my earbuds everywhere, it would take 30 seconds to just loose them. Maybe AirPods fit differently. I’ve been actually meaning to try them and see.
As a kid, I did use my Walkman, discman, basic MP3 player for the bus, airplane, and breaks between classes at school. Sometimes the batteries would die and I’d keep the headphones on to prevent people from bothering me on the bus or in the airport. I can’t imagine using them at a restaurant or while walking around with my family on an overseas vacation. I remember once being at my grandma’s house. The adults were talking/playing board games at the kitchen table and I was on the sofa reading. I put my Walkman on, and my mom instantly told me to take it off because it was rude.
SilverAsparagus2985@reddit
You assuming is of course always someone else’s problem.
Distinct_Wrongdoer86@reddit
it blows my mind, not only are they very uncomfortable, they pop out of your ears constantly if you arent holding them in, at least with cords you can catch them but these dont even have those.
Also they look stupid as fuck what is wrong with you people
theelephantupstream@reddit
So glad I read these comments—I only have ancient ones and didn’t realize you can use the new ones as hearing aids.
gonzagylot00@reddit
That bothers people? Like I’m supposed to fish my earbuds out everytime someone wants to say something to me? No thanks!
elsie78@reddit
Yes, you should. It's all part of the art of communication and showing the other person you're posting attention.
lindentea@reddit
what drives me nuts is when i'm out and about walking a dog while using my very visible chonky earbuds ($15, non-Apple lol) and people just start talking at me and don't give me even half a second to pause my podcast and take one out first. like, if i see someone has earbuds in and i want to ask them something or compliment their hair or whatever, i get their attention first and give them a second to respond if they want to before i just start talking at them!
elsie78@reddit
I agree, that's rude
Into-the-stream@reddit
People don’t understand how to interact with actual human beings now.
inspectorgadget9999@reddit (OP)
Dunno
I'm happy to be proved 'old man yells at clouds' on this one.
fire_lord_akira@reddit
Maybe, but I get it. But I'm in my 40s too. Some times I will purposefully put a music station I know my son likes to find out minutes later that he is listening to his own music through his airpods anyway. I'm like, ok, that was a waste of time, I should have just put on a station I wanted to listen to to begin with.
It kind of reminds me of when my boss would call me into their office to have a conversation but stared at their blackberry the whole time. I'm like, I can wait until YOUR ready. I got a lot of shit to do myself and I want to give others at least MOSTLY my undivided time. I understand we live in a digital age now but give me some cues that I'm not wasting my breath
threebeansalads@reddit
It enrages me. Whether intentionally or unintentionally used it makes me think the person believes they are better than or something. I’m probably just too old school for this shit. Lol
sailorangel59@reddit
Out of curiosity is it all wireless earbuds or AirPods specifically? Legitimately not judging you, but I remember when they first came out, they were (are) super expensive and to see someone wearing them definitely gave of status symbol, look what I can afford, vibes.
Silent_Syren@reddit
Don't take it so personal.
loglady17@reddit
No, it’s the children’s fault.
Embarrassed-Sky-4567@reddit
If you need to fish them out that’s a bigger issue
cacecil1@reddit
Don't turn into a boomer now.
CaptinEmergency@reddit
They fit perfectly in my right ear and constantly fall out of my left ear.
aweedl@reddit
I also just miss having wired earphones. These things are so much easier to lose, plus you have to charge them and all the rest.
The so-called ‘convenience’ is not worth the trade-off for me. Bluetooth is the worst. I’m completely fine with plugging things into other things the way we did for decades. That system didn’t need to be ‘fixed’.1
fsaturnia@reddit
Nope. I worked in retail a lot and had to put up with younger people because places like that always hire what are essentially children to force into wage slavery early. Meaning I had to put up with a lot of gen z bullshit. I liked them until that time, when I was forced to work with them. Every one of them is wearing one of these earpods and I learned when they are and are not listening to you. You will get a lot of bland auto replies out of them verbally if they are listening to something. It'll be like talking to someone who is texting you in real life. Generally this generation talks like they're texting anyway, but they can't process it properly if you are talking to them when they are listening to something.
I say hi to one who isn't listening. His response is something like one of
That's crazy Fr Oh wow Dead ass Ahhh...
No substance to the conversation from their end. So you just give up. You may as well be talking to a wall or yourself. That's what annoys me about it. I don't care what they listen to or where they're listening to it as long as they are paying attention and they never are. I'm an older millennial and I see other millennials doing it too. As far as I'm concerned everybody who wears these things in public is probably not very socially aware anyway. Not to mention they're filthy. People seem not to care, seem to have turned a blind eye to how nasty their ears are. Pull one of these bad boys out and look underneath it, inside of it. Repulsive. Every time I see someone wearing these, my mind floods with images of how nasty their ears must be.
ElderScarletBlossom@reddit
Eye contact and lack of headphones are NOT _proof_ of anything... I could be staring into your eyeballs with no headphones on, and not hear a single word you said, or I could be looking everywhere other than at you, with airpods in, and be actively engaged in the conversation. You don't need to be looked at in order to be listened to, and you don't need earbuds out in order to be heard.
Cleisthenes1972@reddit
To begin I am disabled and use a walker (had a series of strokes that caused my the right side of my body to "forget" how to work among other effects). I also live in a downtown area. I guess it's the disability but rare is the day when I'm not approached by some form of grifter. Whether it is god botherers or your garden variety street people I get constantly approached by those who see the walker and assume I'm mentally disabled and can easily be taken advantage of. They start whatever speil they spit out, I point at the headphones and shrug and walk away. And I get to listen to music/podcasts while I do it.
VincentMac1984@reddit
I still buy wired headphones, they cost like $20 for Apple ones. I had two sets of air pods one had issues holding a charge after a few years the other I lost. I can’t afford to spend over $100 on them and I just prefer wired headphones anyway
boner79@reddit
I still wear 10yo bluetooth earbuds that are wired together so I can actually take them out of my ears and hand around my neck rather than being these cyborg shithead who never take out their earbuds.
norcaltobos@reddit
I’m a full on millennial and this shit kills me. Take your damn AirPods out of your ears. If they’re in your ears, it’s a clear signal to me that you’re not focused on the conversation at hand.
Miz_momo82@reddit
Nothing pisses me off more than when I'm trying to do my job and I'm met with a blank stare or huh huh? because they have these fucking things in
Willing-Ant-3765@reddit
I use mine for hearing aids. They work pretty damn good.
utti@reddit
Assuming that this is running into a friend or someone who stops and clearly wants to talk to you, this doesn't bother me. I'd be bothered more if they were wearing full over-ear headphones but those are much more convenient to take off. These ear buds can be annoying to hold especially if you don't have both hands free, and I've accidentally dropped one where it rolled under the bed and I definitely wouldn't want that to happen in public.
WalterWriter@reddit
I thought this was about the lack of wires when I clicked on it.
In that case, yes.
To answer your other question, also yes.
Funk9K@reddit
It's rude to talk to someone wearing headphones unless you need them to hear.
ConfusionOk4908@reddit
No. I often wonder if people who walk around with ear buds in constantly can stand their own thoughts, or what the constant need for noise in your ears means for their mental health. Not to mention walking around in public and having zero situational awareness. I also love and cherish peace and quiet, the thought of having something streaming through my ears all day would drive me crazy.
pushdose@reddit
Hahaha. I wear my AirPod pro just for the noise cancellation. I’m often not listening to anything at all. I just like the peace and quiet. In fact, I never use them for music. It’s either podcasts or silence. Sweet, blissful silence.
baudmiksen@reddit
Hello silence my old friend
Silent_Syren@reddit
In public, I always have one in my right ear, left ear free for situational awareness. I have ADHD so the music or audiobook help silence some of those other voices in my head. So therefore, my earbuds ARE for my mental health. What works for you isn't necessarily what works for everyone.
trumpsmellslikcheese@reddit
I take one out when I'm having a conversation with someone and want them to know that I'm listening. But honestly, I wear them in public a lot because I don't want people to interact with me when I'm just trying to get my groceries and get the fuck out of there.
rjcpl@reddit
Earbuds in general just annoy me as I’ve never found any that fit well and stay in and are comfortable to wear more than a few minutes.
ChristyLovesGuitars@reddit
Yeah, I don’t get why that’d bother someone. The store doesn’t pause the music if customers are talking with each other- why would you care?
visiblehorrorvideo@reddit
Well at my job if I have headphones on that means do not try to talk to me lol and people don’t, even if not listening to music I leave them on just for that reason 😂
Skye_nett@reddit
definitely not the only one, drives me nuts too
AntiRepresentation@reddit
You're weird.
HandaZuke@reddit
Would you ask someone to take out their hearing aids?
AirPods pro 2 and later are authorized along with Apples software by the FDA in the U.S. and many other countries as OTC hearing aids.
djsynrgy@reddit
TrustAffectionate966@reddit
I use headphones and earbuds to tune people out.
🧉🦄
greaterwhiterwookiee@reddit
I know this sounds dumb, but I actually hear better with mine in. I totally understand your thought behind the post. I have teenagers. I’ve dealt with people at grocery and other food places and wondered the same.
But I always just lean towards the same thought process of “everyone is an idiot and until they prove me otherwise” I’ll talk to them like they don’t understand English. Elevated voice, slow language…
ghoulthebraineater@reddit
Not dumb at all. I'm on the spectrum and my brain doesn't filter background noise for shit. Everything is foreground. Earbuds help filter out the excess noise and let me better pay attention to what I need to pay attention to.
wosmo@reddit
I think it's the not knowing that gets people. If they had 'traffic lights' it'd probably change perception a lot.
extranjeroQ@reddit
Umm I’m deep xennial and I LOVE my AirPod Pro for their Transparency mode
CaveJohnson82@reddit
Yes it annoys me a lot, and I make sure I take mine out even if they can't be seen.
Mikahl757@reddit
Can they auto translate from another language? That'd be nice for travel, unless it mistranslates while in another country, bad times.
_Xee@reddit
Earbuds are the international sign of "Leave me alone."
I remove mine if I want to grace you with my attention.
No_hero_here@reddit
A young ICU nurse coworker was wearing one in one ear listening to music while I was talking to her about the care of our patient. She stopped me and said I’m interrupting one of her favorite songs. Lucky the patient was intubated and sedated because I tore that nurse a new one. Fuck right off with that shit. She is on a travel contract, I doubt she will make it to the end.
Maleficent_Gas5417@reddit
You know what annoys me? People trying to talk to me while I have them in. Go away
flowstoneeternal@reddit
Being around people that aren’t using headphones while they are watching something or listening to music is far worse in my opinion. Same for speaker phone conversations.
Pho-Soup@reddit
Here’s the secret - I really have no interest in talking to random people and half the time I’m not even listening to anything.
CivilExam1011@reddit
As someone that used to use bluetooth headsets as earphones like 20 years ago, no they don’t annoy me. Im actually happy with them
webcrawler_1@reddit
Annoying the Sh$& out of me. However they are finding studies that show a constant even low Bluetooth wave connection is showing signs of cancers.
kmmccorm@reddit
Where are they “finding” these studies?
-E-Cross@reddit
Probably in the same place as the 5G is turning the frogs gay studies
Hour_Option_5260@reddit
Source?
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
Well there's this one, and appear to be a few more on scholar.
Gian_Luck_Pickerd@reddit
"Trust me, bro"
marle217@reddit
Haha, you still believe this? Remember when we first got cell phones in our 20s and all the old people told us that we'd get cancer haha obviously that can't be true because now we're all inexplicably getting colon cancer for no known reason wait what?
Tigerpride84@reddit
Share the source, sounds like pseudoscience
freshleysqueezd@reddit
I just think they look dumb. I only buy earbuds without a stick
-E-Cross@reddit
TangledUpPuppeteer@reddit
My father uses them as an alternative to hearing aids. They work to help him understand what’s around him, and taking them out just means you better start yelling. He lost three different hearing aids. He hasn’t lost the AirPods. So it works, he better have them in if you want to get past three words with him.
For me, you start talking at me, I’m probably not listening whether they’re in or not so, keep talking. I’m not even being rude, I just assume everyone else is going through lists of stuff they need to accomplish that day, same as me, and they are just having trouble with the internal aspect of the dialogue.
If I intend to have a conversation, I remove them, otherwise, I’m continuing on with my day. Learned that the hard way. The people who always insist you have to stop what you’re doing to give them undivided attention usually don’t care about what I’m doing or why I am where I am, they’re just out to make my day more difficult for their own amusement. I have no intention of going out of my way to make their ability to bother me easier. And I read lips, so I know whether or not I’m willing to remove them or not.
electricsugargiggles@reddit
I wear Loops in public places. I take them out when talking to people.
I don’t really think about other people wearing earbuds. I’ve gotten used to asking someone if they can hear me before jumping into conversation, but that is just a habit of living with my partner and both of us WFH for 6 years.
yespls@reddit
I use mine as cheap hearing aids. You'll be fine.
Starbreiz@reddit
It is the polite thing. But I wear over the ear headphones so people WONT talk to me. I put them in aware mode so I can hear people on the trail I walk and people assume I cant hear them, which is fun.
Baked_Potato_732@reddit
Good think I don’t feel the need to prove anything to anyone.
Own_Potato2491@reddit
I had to specifically tell my Gen Z employees NOT to do this with customers at their desk (car sales).
elsie78@reddit
Yes! People should take them out when talking with others, it's rude not to. It shows you're engaged and listening.
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
Yup. Just like looking at or towards someone who you're communicating with. There are exceptions (such as talking around something you're working on), but in the default case there are behaviours we perform to show someone we're paying attention.
Not plugging our ears is one of those.
dewihafta@reddit
I work in an office where almost everyone uses headphones for one reason or another.
The buds in particular are annoying since you cant always see them.
In the end, everyone just uses teams, even if the person theyre speaking to is one desk away.
These are strange times…
APOC_V@reddit
I usually only have one in if I'm listening to something while in public. I like to keep my situational awareness up and don't like relying on "audio transparency" or "conversation aware features in them. If I'm shopping when I get up to the counter I pause it and greet the person, do small talk and make eye contact (you know all the weird stuff that use to be normal) There's never any doubt I'm giving you my attention and time.
thehakujin82@reddit
I adopt this off and on. Would run with only one in, so that if a car is coming or a dog gives chase (or whatever other scenario we can come up with), I’m alert and aware. It’s a good practice in general, I think, but especially for running/biking.
indecisivesloth@reddit
I do have people start conversation when I've made no indication I'm interested in talking to them. I take my earbuds out but I kind of wish people would take a hint. Oh well
Ok-Brick6831@reddit
Taking them out only shows they don’t have other noise in their ears and can hear your mouth doing its noise making.
Doesn’t mean they’re listening to what you’re saying. Nonverbal cues are better to look for, to see if they are listening, regardless of ear buds in or out.
Apprehensive_Hat8986@reddit
It can go either way.
If someone puts in the effort to take out their earbuds, it's because they're trying to listen and show that they're listening.
But
If one has to ask someone to take their earbuds out, they're not listening either way, and are just humoring the speaker until the speaker stops making noise at them.
And all the variation on those themes.
Responsible_Park3317@reddit
Honestly, if someone has their earbuds in, I assume they don't want to talk. So I leave them alone unless it's super important. To do otherwise would be dickish.
sanebyday@reddit
How does taking my eyes out prove I'm looking at you?
_kurt_propane_@reddit
Make sure to shake your fist when you say this stuff please
Revolutionary-Emu154@reddit
I thought you meant the way the person in the pic has them in. My kids always yell at me because they think I have mine in wrong.
purpleteenageghost@reddit
Transparency mode and conversational awareness.
HylanderUS@reddit
If I make eye contact with you, you can be certain I'm not listening. If I'm doodling or staring into space, I'm paying attention
mindpivot@reddit
Nope, you aren’t.
But the new “listen to your surroundings, old man” mode is nice
Kid_Kameleon@reddit
I hate earbuds. I use the larger headphones with a solid backing.
nisamun@reddit
Cans?
Lulu_42@reddit
The only thing that annoys me about them is how we aren't all constantly talking about the fact that we look like Cybermen from Doctor Who.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit