How common is it for Americans to leave their doors unlocked?
Posted by Mont3Carlo@reddit | AskAnAmerican | View on Reddit | 433 comments
I work at an alarm company, and many of the customers we monitor are elderly. A good number of them leave their doors unlocked so first responders can get in during emergencies. I’ve also seen news reports showing how easily people can enter homes when doors are left unlocked.
jackofspades49@reddit
I lock it everytime. I even lock my bathroom and I live alone. Locks feel nice. Its like putting on clothes for your house.
gunterrae@reddit
Hell, half the time the hubs and I don't even close the bathroom door. It just pisses off the cats.
skinnyribs@reddit
I have adhd. One of the ONLY habits I’ve managed is to lock the door every I leave or come home. I grab my keys, so I know they are in hand, then walk out the door and turn at least the knob lock behind me. And since the keys are in hand I then remember to do the deadbolt. And then the inverse when I come home. I go through the door and I turn the knob lock. And since I just did that and keys are in my hand I turn the deadbolt. If I didn’t do it every time I would forget left and right to do it when I leave the house or am going to bed.
Phil_ODendron@reddit
I love living alone and not even closing the bathroom door, much less locking it.
ATaxiNumber1729@reddit
I like the phrase “like putting on clothes for your house.” I will disappoint you, I never think to lock my doors. But I do live in a kind of rural area and my neighbors would engage you before I do
jackofspades49@reddit
Very fair when you're out in the middle of nowhere.
I live in a very urban area and we've always called gunshaots "Vallejo Crickets"
and the clothing for your house is a very me thing. I'm glad you like it!
i've always been very uncomfortable being nude. So getting dressed always felt like a nice suiting up montage where you equip your armor for the day. And coming home, locking the doors when I enter is part of securing the base and engaging the airlocks. They're both a sort of personal safety/security feeling.
ATaxiNumber1729@reddit
Agreed. I used to live next to the Atlanta Braves stadium. On new years’ folks would pop rounds off which is wild to me.
jackofspades49@reddit
RIGHT?!
Every 4th of july and new year everyone fires off like Yoesemite Goddamned Sam fucking Elmer Fudd!
weeniehutjunior1234@reddit
Uh. I lock my doors bc I’m not an idiot. If you have visible neighbors, lock it.
mauser98k1998@reddit
As a kid in rural KS we never locked our door. This was pre cell phones and if there was an accident there wasn’t another phone for 2 miles.
Now I live in a stupid safe neighborhood in Va but my wife insists we lock our doors so I do
SevereAnimator5@reddit
So sad people have to live somewhere that they have to lock their doors
Maleficent_Sea547@reddit
Funny anecdote, we always locked doors. Accidentally left the car unlocked before Christmas, someone stole all of the gifts from the car. Another time, we came back from a trip and we had left the inside door to our house open for a week. Nothing was missing from our house at all. It was a crummy neighborhood, but I still find that weird. Maybe criminals thought if the door was open we were home?
frog980@reddit
Never lock mine. My back door doesn't even have a lock. They didn't worry about locks back in the 1920's I guess.
mittencamper@reddit
Depends on where you live.
weaselblackberry8@reddit
Exactly. Someone was just commenting elsewhere that it’s weird that people on tv don’t lick their door when they go inside a house. I lock mine in my current house but haven’t in every place where I’ve lived.
I do always lock doors at night and when not home. I know people who seldom lock doors.
FoolishPersonalities@reddit
I definitely wouldn't lick my door, let alone a stranger's door
Libraries_Are_Cool@reddit
Leave your doors unlicked if you care about paramedics being able to reach you quickly in an emergency.
frog980@reddit
Yeah, don't want slick doorknobs from saliva that they wouldn't be able to turn to open the door
Common-Project3311@reddit
In my area, most people just climb up on the roof and lick the chimney.
Dr_Watson349@reddit
And thats why you will never be invited to my birthday party!
sharpshooter999@reddit
My house doesn't have any functioning locks
Naamahs@reddit
I agree. I have a door with a lock that locks behind me after x amount of seconds. I usually lock it myself but if I get distracted in any way it's still going to be locked.
weaselblackberry8@reddit
I know a house like that. The door unlocks with an app. When I’ve been there and gone outside with kids, I know that I have to bring my phone outside or risk getting locked out.
Naamahs@reddit
Mine has an app or a fingerprint or a code. I can set temporary codes that expire in x amount of time or days, so when I have people doing something I give them a code that will expire after they leave lol
HumbleLife69@reddit
Bro where are people licking doors?
RingGiver@reddit
Licking doorknobs is illegal on other planets.
Coloradozonian@reddit
Don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answer to😂👍
plumberbss@reddit
I have seen videos of women licking door knobs
whyweirdo@reddit
This reminds me of an old commercial for a car dealership where the guy buying the car ran up to it and licked the handle so the other customers knew he had dibs because he was so excited. It might have been local, but I remember it was on cable and not the internet
tamreacct@reddit
I remember this commercial from early 2000’s and it was a by VW. Guy on phone telling buddy to hurry because they have a silver one (I think it was a Jetta). Salesman and potential buyers approaching and he licks entire door handle…they stop in their tracks.
GothDerp@reddit
Duuuuude memory unlocked! Coincidentally I now own a VW 🤣
tamreacct@reddit
Now that it’s unlocked, just make sure you lick your own handle.
Schwubbertier@reddit
r/gonecivil
therealdrewder@reddit
Usually that's a different kind of knob isn't it?
ToastetteEgg@reddit
Fiend.
Ok-Entertainment5045@reddit
Toddlers will lick anything
jackofspades49@reddit
It's just part of the holiday season!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-LxYYm1YH0
manderifffic@reddit
Hey, let us enjoy our hobbies
omgcheez@reddit
Licking Doorknobs is illegal on other planets.
FoggyGoodwin@reddit
People on TV sometimes don't even close the door when they enter the house. Strangely, I never thought about TV folks not locking their apartment doors on entering.
Up2nogud13@reddit
And many don't even close doors when being chased by zombies. Irritates the hell out of me!
Maurice_Foot@reddit
Kramer, the lead character on Kramer tv show, always going into his neighbor’s apartment.
Slight_Manufacturer6@reddit
Yea… that is weird to lick your doors.
AlarmedTelephone5908@reddit
I mean, OP even said they don't lick doors on tv.
PartyPorpoise@reddit
That typo threw me off for a moment lol.
LtKavaleriya@reddit
And family. My mom, despite being from a rural area with zero crime, was extremely adamant about locking doors at all times. She would go around and make sure they were all locked (even the door that led to the attached garage) before bed.
Now I live in a small town which also has basically zero crime. A lot of people here leave doors unlocked, and it’s totally normal to leave stuff like bikes, mowers, weed wackers etc outside and not worry about them being stolen. Yet i religiously lock the doors because my mom taught me to.
My in-laws however do not ever lock doors. My wife has gotten better about it but didn’t at first either.
Unusual-Material9443@reddit
my town is like that. very small and really the only crime is speeding through the town. people leave stuff laying in their yards all the time. keys in trucks. nothing ever happens.
functional_moron@reddit
I live several miles into a Forrest and I have dogs. I never lock my door. If someone were to enter my home with ill intent they wouldn't have a good day.
Avery-Hunter@reddit
Yup. Where I live in a largeish town that is relatively safe but has its issues? I lock my doors at night and when I'm not home. But I've lived places that I never locked the door, because who's breaking in when the nearest neighbor is half a mile away? The moose?
ZHISHER@reddit
I lived in a pretty bad neighborhood, but we never left our doors locked. Every single house with locked doors got broken into multiple times, ours never did.
We also had 3 110lbs German Shepherd’s.
driver004@reddit
Or how few fucks you give. Come on in I’d love to try having guests over but how rude of you to not schedule, so I guess we’ll have to use my schedule.
And id pronounce it UK just to make it sound weird
ImColdandImTired@reddit
Yep. Where we live, it’s customary people like the ones you mention - elderly, disabled, etc, to have a lockbox like the ones real estate agents use, with an emergency key inside. They give the lockbox code to the fire department that would respond to a call for their address so first responders can unlock the door and come in if needed.
AdhesivenessEqual166@reddit
My mom has one of those. She lives in a fairly rural area, but she grew up in NYC. She's definitely a door locker.
OJSimpsons@reddit
Yeah, it's inversely correlated to population density.
Stan_Deviant@reddit
In my very remote area people are more likely to lock their doors to keep out bears than people. Cars more than houses, but I have a stick in the tracks for my sliding door when I'm not using it.
stiletto929@reddit
TIL bears can turn doorknobs.
Stan_Deviant@reddit
Some types are easier than others. Even my dog can open a drop lever door and he still chases his tail.
Ok-Flight-1504@reddit
That’s not even remote areas. That’s areas with a few trees.
LandofRy@reddit
I feel like this should be the pinned comment on every post in this sub
EtchingsOfTheNight@reddit
That and "There are 350m people here. A lot of them do a lot of things."
LifeApprehensive2818@reddit
You forgot "No, that's just the influencers talking"
No_Prior_4114@reddit
Yup. I knew a guy that grew up in an area where they never locked doors. Moved to the city and scoffed at any suggestions of basic awareness. Like sleeping on a train and locking his door. He got robbed multiple times.
CycadelicSparkles@reddit
Yep. I live in a low-crime area of one of the lowest-crime states. Leaving your door unlocked is pretty common.
jda404@reddit
Yep. I live fairly rural, not middle of nowhere. I am in a neighborhood, been here for over 20 years know all the neighbors we're all cool with each other. I haven't locked my doors in over 20 years. We've never had break-ins in this area. Not middle of nowhere, but no one comes out here unless they live out here. Never say never I know, but it has never happened. I have neighbors who've been here longer than me say there's never been crime and break-ins out here.
If I lived in a city or populated suburbs I'd lock up. When I go to work or into town, into the city, or the store I lock my car then, but at home every thing is unlocked.
CockroachVarious2761@reddit
exactly - I live in a pretty decent area, low-crime, suburbs - we generally lock our doors at night, but during the day they're unlocked a lot. We've gone to bed with our garage door that faces the street wide open and only realized it in the morning. Never had an issue in 25+ yrs.
sundancer2788@reddit
Mine is currently open 24/7 because a pair of doves nested in there lol. Garage is behind the house, yard is completely fenced and we have multiple cameras and pups. House is usually unlocked because we're home and in and out.
Traditional_Trust418@reddit
Just what I came here to say
Educational-Big-6609@reddit
Very much. In my current neighborhood in Oregon, I could leave a bag of cash on the doorstep. In my old neighborhood in Florida, a locked car in the driveway was a risk.
Unusual-Material9443@reddit
i dont even have keys to my house. i havent locked it since i moved here 9 years ago. i do have 4 giant dogs that wouldnt let anyone near the house though.
tsukiii@reddit
My in-laws un rural Ohio do that. I’ve always lived in suburbs and cities, so I lock my doors.
darwinsidiotcousin@reddit
When I lived in rural Ohio we didnt lock our doors because why the fuck would a robber be in our neck of the woods. It's poor farm country. You gonna rob us of our firewood?
I live in CA now (also rural) and a friend of mine didnt even have a key to his house because who is driving 6 miles down a gravel mountain road to rob anyone?
I lived in a city for a while and the door was locked any time someone wasn't going through the door.
It all depends on where in the US you live
whatiswrongwithme675@reddit
Same. I grew up in suburbs and cities. Have lived on a rural area for 10 years now and I lock my door when my husband is gone or when we leave on vacation. That's why I have a dog.
21schmoe@reddit
Okay, but what about serial killers?
LtKavaleriya@reddit
My grandparents/mom’s house in rural Ohio was burglarized in broad daylight back in the early ‘70s. At the time there weren’t any other houses within half a mile, so I guess it was an easy target. Of course, they broke a window to get in anyway so the locks were of no use.
binarycow@reddit
Locks keep honest people honest.
gemInTheMundane@reddit
They also keep lazy junkies from walking in and trashing your house.
darwinsidiotcousin@reddit
Yea I remember my parents saying when I was a kid that it was a liability lol
If you're far enough away from other people that no one hears a window break, you'd rather they just open the door
Imaginary_Ladder_917@reddit
This is what my husband’s dad used to say. I definitely lock our doors more than my husband does, especially if I’m home alone during the day. We always do at night but I think it’s mostly because I make sure it happens. I grew up in suburbs. Our doors were always locked growing up.
KoalaGrunt0311@reddit
A friend bought 20 acres outside of Pittsburgh, moving from the city itself. Asked the sellers for the keys at closing and was told that they have no idea where the keys are because the doors were never locked.
jigokubi@reddit
You'd think they'd mention that a little sooner.
KoalaGrunt0311@reddit
It's a cultural difference. I mean, hay and barn equipment is probably more expensive than anything in the house and it never gets locked up.
Distinct_Damage_735@reddit
I had a similar experience a while back - I was staying in a farmhouse in rural upstate New York, and I asked where the keys were, and the owners had to look for a while because they never locked the doors.
SufficientOpening218@reddit
this is the answer
Gecko23@reddit
There are rural burglaries in the paper all summer, every summer, around here. Thieves can drive, and it's pretty obvious that houses without immediate neighbors are a lot easier to break into than one's with someone 50' away in the next house.
It's still far more risky to leave valuables in your car parked on the road in any Ohio city, but it's not without risk even out in the middle of nowhere.
bikenumberten@reddit
If a thief comes to my house, they could either open the unlocked door, or they could break the window of the locked door, unlock it, and open it. The lock won't stop them, and nobody would hear or see them either way. Locking the door would cost more and be a bigger mess.
ObligatoryAnxiety@reddit
I'm in rural Ohio. I think our area barely counts with all the subdivisions creeping in. We lock our door at night and when we're gone for habit and also because we don't want to any individuals under certain influences to wander in.
Temporary-Tie-233@reddit
I live in a rural area with four noisy dogs who I reckon make this place less appealing to anyone casing the neighborhood than nearby homes without dogs. I lock my front door because it's an old house where everything doesn't fit together perfectly anymore and the door once blew open in the middle of the night. It woke me up when it happened and my dogs came right back in when I called them, but since I can't guarantee I'd be home or wake up every time it's easy to just keep it deadbolted when I'm not actively using it since we can get high winds out of nowhere around here.
The back door is off the kitchen, a newer part of the house, and has never blown open. Even if it did, the back yard is privacy fenced and my dogs have their own door to get out there anyway, so it's not a pet safety issue and I never intentionally lock it. It's the door I use most and it only has a lock on the door knob and no deadbolt, so it's easier to accidentally lock yourself out. Which has happened to me when I went outside to do chores with no keys and didn't know it had been turned just enough to be locked behind me. This was after the front door defaulted to being deadbolted, so the dog door came in handy that day.
sgtm7@reddit
I have never left my doors unlocked. However, I have been using smart locks for around 6 years now, so I never need to lock them. They lock automatically after a few seconds.
9human-being@reddit
I could never 😭
pawsplay36@reddit
I usually do during the day when I'm home. But my partner doesn't.
MM_in_MN@reddit
Never. My doors are never unlocked.
If I’m out in yard, door is locked.
Taking dog for a walk, it’s locked.
It’s locked immediately after I enter my house.
Habit I picked up living in the dorms and randoms would wander into any open room.
natetrnr@reddit
Every night I lock all doors religiously. If we will be gone for the day or most of the day, we lock them. If we pop out for the store or a restaurant, we usually don't lock. Although we probably should.
gotcha640@reddit
Another vote for depends.
For me, locking the door is mostly to confirm it’s latched and won’t blow open in the wind. If someone wants in, a kick will open it, or go around the back and take your time with a window or picking the lock in private.
It’s all an illusion anyway.
No_Owl_7380@reddit
I live in a small town, one block from the police station and the two officers on patrol frequently ride down my street since it’s one of the few the traverse the whole length of the town. The door is often unlocked. While I don’t own a firearm, many in town do and there’s an 80% chance that someone would meet the end of one if they broke into a house so that functions as a deterrent.
I lived in a major urban city for years and the door was alway locked.
Fire_Mission@reddit
Never. Not in the city, not in the suburbs, not on the farm where I grew up. Cars are locked too. Way too many cases of crimes of opportunity where thieves will just go through areas and see if doors are unlocked.
unlimited_insanity@reddit
Home invasions are incredibly rare. Most of the time a person entering your home to steal stuff wants you to be out of it. If I’m at home and awake, my door is probably unlocked. I do lock it at bedtime because being asleep feels more vulnerable.
HermioneMarch@reddit
Never thought about the EMS situation.
I lock my door when I’m away and at night for sure. Sometimes during the day if I’m not going in and out
upnflames@reddit
I live in a relatively nice apartment building in a good area. I leave my door unlocked quite a bit. My unit is also about as far from the building entrance as you can get and I have a big scary sounding dog, plus security cameras in my hallway and apartment.
If I leave for the day I'll lock the door, but if I'm just running to the store or out to eat,, of sitting at the couch at home, it's probably not locked.
Dazzling-Climate-318@reddit
I lock our doors when we leave and turn on the alarm. If we are home and working in the yard we leave the doors unlocked. Our windows and doors have censors on them so any unauthorized opening of them will set off the alarm system. It has a battery backup so it works irrespective of whether the power is on or off. We don’t want to be robbed, nor allow anyone we have not invited in our home admitted. This is partly a safety concern and partly a concern about the potential loss of our personal possessions.
HollowRaven15@reddit
I always lock my door. I live in an apartment building and anyone can just walk into the building. The one time I didn't lock my door cus my husband was coming home from work soon, a kid opened my door and got spooked when I thought he was my husband and I greeted him.
neovenator250@reddit
My doors are always locked. I have a friend who leaves his unlocked when our group is coming over, but the last one there locks it
BatterUp1600@reddit
Never
rosycross93@reddit
We live in a very safe city (Boise) but there's definitely petty crimes of opportunity everywhere. We had some things stolen out of unlocked cars. We generally always lock the house, though we're both bad about not only forgetting to lock the back door, but if it's nice weather, leaving it wide open. So far nothing has happened, and we do have an attack golden retriever 🥴
imnottheoneipromise@reddit
I’ve lived a little bit of everywhere (military), but was raised in rural MS and that’s where I live now. My doors are always locked whether I’m home or not. It’s not safe being a woman, even in rural south MS.
BasedTaco_69@reddit
Growing up, we never locked the door. We didn't even have keys for the doors. It was in a semi-rural area. Now I live in a suburban neighborhood and I usually lock the door, but not always.
CloudedLeopardDaemon@reddit
I live in Massachusetts, so I was always very cavalier about leaving my door unlocked, generally not bothering to do so unless I was going to be away from home overnight, despite living in a city, in a neighbourhood with a ton of foot traffic. Once I accidentally left my front door wide open overnight, and a giant bowl of change and small bills clearly visible from the street, and not a single thing was out of place next morning. But a year ago my girlfriend moved in with me from Buffalo, and she almost couldn't believe I was so careless, so now I generally keep it locked, just for her piece of mind. But I'm hoping she acclimates and realises that it's not actually necessary here, where both violent and property crime are drastically lower than in a Rust Belt city.
da-karebear@reddit
I live in a suburb that is consistently ranked as one of the 20 safest cities in my state. And my doors are ALWAYS locked. I have a keypad on my outside garage door and another keypad on the interior garage door into the home.
I dont believe somebody will do anything or walk in, but I don't believe in tempting fate either.
blueghostfrompacman@reddit
I lived in a very secluded and gated community in the middle of a forest growing up. I don’t even think we had house keys. But other than that I’ve always locked my doors.
Ok_Depth_6476@reddit
I always lock my door, even when I'm home, even if it's broad daylight, I was raised that way. Even if I leave the front door open for air/ light, the screen/storm door gets locked. I live in the suburbs and there's not a lot of crime in my immediate area, but you never know.
amsmit18@reddit
I live in Michigan. I grew up in a small town in the northern lower peninsula. My mom and siblings who still live there keep their doors unlocked and even their keys in their unlocked cars!
I live in Saginaw, which a decent sized city in the lower part of the state. Once I accidentally forgot to lock my car day and the next day I realized someone had broken in 🙃🙃
It really just depends on where you live lol
wiserTyou@reddit
Not much crime in my parents house. We lock the doors at night time and if we're gone for several hours, otherwise not.
As a former maintenance worker most fire departments I've seen have very little trouble with locked doors.
Your average door isn't that secure. If someone really wanted in, they can probably get in. They're more of a deterrent for crimes of opportunity.
Libraries_Are_Cool@reddit
But if you're old and falling down every couple of months or just getting short of breath and calling 911 a couple times per year, you might not want to have to rebuild your door jam several times per year. That really burns through your social security checks.
CemeteryDweller7719@reddit
My dad had terminal cancer and was a fall risk. Really, just medical emergency risk in general. He had one of those life alert type buttons. (Which he refused to use but that’s a different issue.) We got a lock box like realtors use, and the life alert company had the code. So if he hit the button and needed help they could provide the code to any responder. He also had nurses that came multiple times a week, and they could use the lock box to access the key. It wasn’t safe for the doors to stay unlocked, but we had to make sure that people could access him when needed. Because, if paramedics have to break in your door to get to you, no one is reimbursing you for that repair. There’s a lot of risk to leaving the door unlocked all the time though. If someone is elderly or sick, they might not leave their house much and may not keep up on maintenance, so someone could think the place is abandoned or people are away and try to come in. Just too much risk that it would be an “easy” target (either mistaking the home as empty or knowing that the resident might be more frail.)
zfcjr67@reddit
I'm starting to worry about that with my dad, now in his 80s. I was looking at smart locks that I had the control to open if needed, but I like the lock box idea.
BeeSuspicious3493@reddit
We did the lock box. It worked out really well as my grandmother didn't want the key pad. Life alert co, her next door neighbor and family had the code.
And while we are on safety, a document on the fridge with all meds, allergies and two emergency contacts.
Ok_Depth_6476@reddit
Yeah a lock box is more reliable. I have a "smart" lock with a keypad, because I got tired of locking myself out of the house. The batteries need to be replaced a couple of times a year, and although it does warm you, once they're depleted, you obviously can't use the lock, so that's bad in an emergency. On the other hand it has great features, like being able to give different codes to different people and monitor who is entering and when. (As long as it's connected to wifi). But at least you know a lock box isn't dependent on batteries or technology.
zfcjr67@reddit
when I was younger (1970s) the fire department had a program called "vial of life" where they used old prescription bottles to hold a medical information and identification document. They taped it in the upper right corner of the fridge because the inside of the fridge doesn't burn in a house fire and will most likely stay put in case of a tornado.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vial_of_Life
binarycow@reddit
These days, it might be easier to get a lock with a key and a keypad.
Often, you can assign personal codes. So you can assign a code to the nurses. Assign a different code for emergency purposes and give that to the life alert company (changing the code once the emergency is over). Friends and family can get their own codes, etc.
And, if push comes to shove there's still a physical key. Or, if the batteries died (and you ignored the warnings that the battery was low), some models allow you to press a 9V battery to some exterior terminals to power it. So worst case scenario (you lost your key and the batteries died), you can buy/borrow a 9V battery and still get in your house.
CemeteryDweller7719@reddit
When he was sick those existed but were still pretty expensive. I like the idea of set codes for specific people. The lock box worked out well though. Particularly because occasionally he would have a different nurse. Something would happen and last minute they’d have to send someone other than the usual 2-3 that would come. So they’d have the code on his file. The box he had locked onto the door handle, so it would have been a good option for someone that rents and can’t necessarily change the lock on the home. Or someone that just doesn’t feel handy enough to change a lock themselves.
binarycow@reddit
For sure, it's much more of an option now.
Same concept with a keypad lock. Create a code for the nursing agency, and have them put it on file.
Absolutely. Even with keypad locks being more common/cheaper, a real estate style lockbox is still a good option.
What I don't like about the real estate style lockboxes, is that they give access to the physical key.
Suppose there's a nurse that comes by regularly. The nurse knows that the homeowner has some valuables (that the nurse wants to steal) hidden or locked up in the house. The nurse also knows the homeowner is going to visit family for a few weeks.
The nurse can get the code for the lockbox - no problem, they're an authorized person. Just before they unlock the door, they use a $15 key guage and write down the key's bitting (the measurement of the notches on the key). To any observer who isn't watching very closely, nothing suspicious happened.
The homeowner, when they go visit family, brings the lockbox (and the key) inside the house. They think their house is secure. Nope! The nurse (who measured the key's bitting) went to a locksmith and had a key cut. The nurse waits for the homeowner to leave, and then has a few weeks to find the valuables. Observing neighbors would simply see the nurse (who has been there many times before) use a key to go into the house (which they have seen happen many times before). Only people who know the homeowner is out of town would suspect something - if they happen to see the nurse entering, and realize it's suspicious. Additionally, there would be no signs of a break-in, which would make it harder for you to get any results from police, and harder to get insurance payouts.
With the electronic door locks, regular nurses would get their own dedicated code. The staffing folks would have a code for any temporary folks, but that code would be regularly changed. The codes can be temporarily disabled when the homeowner goes out of town. Additionally, many keypad locks provide auditing - you can see exactly when each code was used. The nurse would be left with more traditional, noticble, or time consuming approaches, like breaking windows, picking locks, etc.
booksandcheesedip@reddit
The lock box was a really smart idea!
CemeteryDweller7719@reddit
I can’t say that I came up with the idea. I think the nursing company recommended it. Which makes sense. He had the same nurses, but they visit a bunch of people so they don’t want keys to everyone’s houses. I used the box a couple of times just because I’d get to his place and realize I didn’t have my key, lol.
BeeSuspicious3493@reddit
We have a lock box on my grandmother's door. The company who monitors her fall alert necklace has the code in the event they call 911, her next door neighbor also has the code. Then of course family has it for if we needed to get in or call 911. Works out well.
1heart1totaleclipse@reddit
I lock my door every time I close them. Have accidentally locked myself out a couple of times, but I have a spare key outside in case that happens. I would rather be safe than sorry. I live in a safe area.
KoRaZee@reddit
In the country it’s common, in the city it’s not
ratelbadger@reddit
I’m often more worried about bears and raccoons than pirates. But we have those too during the summer months.
21schmoe@reddit
I've only lived in big metropolitan areas (NYC and Chicago) in both suburban and city areas.
Grew up always locking doors, unless it was daytime, and some of the family members were outside.
Culture shock for me was having roommates that didn't think it was necessary to lock doors.
HikeTheSky@reddit
I mean I left a drill in the driveway the other day and it was there the next day. Stayed out at least 24.
And some years back I forgot to close the garage door while being gone for the weekend. Besides cats that looked for food, nobody went there for three days.
ZoeTravel@reddit
2d floor balcony door... unlocked All the time. First floor is triple locked and chained at night.
LetterheadClassic306@reddit
i've seen that with older relatives too - they worry about paramedics getting in. what helped my grandma was getting a smart lock with a keypad or fingerprint. she leaves it locked but gives codes to family and emergency contacts. some models even have temporary codes for responders. that way she's secure day to day but first responders aren't stuck outside. we got her the August Wi-Fi Smart Lock and it's been solid.
andrewcool22@reddit
My doors automatically lock. So I don't technically lock them. :)
Several_Celebration@reddit
I grew up in Chicago. As a kid one time I left my front door unlocked but closed as I left the house to hang out with friends. When I came back home my Sega Genesis was missing from my room. It turned out my parents found out I didn’t lock the door so they hid my genesis and told me someone broke in and stole it to teach me a lesson.
I lock my house and car doors at all times.
Electrical-Title-698@reddit
I live in a bad neighborhood so I leave my door unlocked in hopes that I someday will get to mag dump someone
IHSV1855@reddit
It depends heavily on where you live. Growing up far from the city in a secluded section of a fairly wealthy suburb, we only every locked the front door when we were asleep or nobody was home (which was rare). Other doors (sliding deck door and back door) were locked most of the time, mostly because it was easier to lock them each time than to remember to do it every night when they may or may not have been unlocked at some point during the day.
Now, living closer to the city in a much busier suburb, my wife and I keep the two back doors locked unless we’re actively using them and leave the front door locked at all times except when we know someone is going to be using it shortly. As an example, my wife gets home from work about 15 minutes before me. She leaves the front door unlocked so that I can get in, and then I lock it when I come in.
Sugah-mama21@reddit
I don't even own house keys. Our house is always unlocked and in nice weather our windows are always open. We don't lock our vehicles either.
wvc6969@reddit
We often do which is a bad idea but it’s so convenient
Key-Bodybuilder-343@reddit
In the small town where we lived until I was ten, no one locked doors.
After we moved to California, that stopped immediately. (Not because anything happened, the town was just much bigger than the one we’d left and it seemed prudent.)
BradyMcBallsweat@reddit
For my house, when I leave for 20 minutes or less.
I leave my car that sits in my driveway open all the time. It has nothing of value in it, I don’t care if it gets stolen, and I’d rather have someone just open the door and look around then break the window and look around.
I’d describe my town as having a moderate amount of crime.
FishingWorth3068@reddit
Depends where you live. My cousin leaves her house unlocked all the time, mainly because she always has people stopping by. She also lives on a big plot of land on top of a hill and you have to drive past her sisters and parents to get to her place so nobody is just sneaking in. My mom also lives in the country and that place is locked down like a fort.
UncomfortableBike975@reddit
I did for a few months in this house. Until I had an elderly woman with dementia walk right in asking for her son. Stopped leaving it unlocked after that. Nearly 20 years ago now.
GreenBeanTM@reddit
Depends on who you are and where you live. I’d bet money that most people lock their doors tho.
justforme31@reddit
Where I live (in the country) super common. We don’t lock cars, houses, anything most of the time
Mental_Internal539@reddit
Only time doors unlocked is when I am home.
PrincessWolfie1331@reddit
It depends on where you grew up, and where you now live. I grew up in a shady suburb known for drugs and crime. I now live in a small town, with problems with drugs and porch pirates. Even if I lived out in the country, I'd still lock my door.
Standard-Jaguar-8793@reddit
I used to live in a small town where I never locked my door during the day, only at night.
Now I live in a small town near a big town with a significant homeless population and crimes against property, so I lock it most of the time.
Khpatton@reddit
I lock my doors when I’m out of the house and at night. While I’m home and awake, it’s usually unlocked because our lock is old and finicky, so if one or the other of us isn’t home yet it’s easier just to leave it unlocked.
We live in a generally safe neighborhood, but it’s an affluent neighborhood in a major city (not the metro/suburbs), so it’s a frequent target of crimes of opportunity. We don’t have a garage, so I always leave my car unlocked with no valuables inside for the same reason. There are smash and grabs relatively often, and I’d rather a potential thief rifle around my fast food napkins and leave disappointed than smash my window.
mykepagan@reddit
My doors only get locked when we go to bed or go away overnight.
Which facilitates my (immigrant) friend who just barges in without knocking.
Vincitus@reddit
Nice try burglars.
Designer-Travel4785@reddit
We didn't used to, but thanks to the liberal loonies, we have a bunch of meth heads and homeless running around burning shit to the ground.
DancingWithAWhiteHat@reddit
I lock my doors and am genuinely baffled by people who don't.
MyDogOper8sBetrThanU@reddit
I grew up in semi rural Midwest in the 90’s, but within biking distance of suburbs. We never locked our doors and I can say for a fact none of the families of my friends did them either. Plenty of times I’d bike to someone’s house in the morning and walk in and wait for my friend to wake up and come downstairs. My mom would buy extra cereal for the boys to eat when they waited for me.
Today I lock them, but it definitely wasn’t a thing growing up.
DancingWithAWhiteHat@reddit
Baffles me. I've lived in multiple "dangerous" and "safe" neighborhoods. A dangerous person will travel to reach you if you're a target. I've tried to explain this to people but nobody seems to get it.
In hindsight, maybe being present during an attempted murder in a "safe" neighborhood has skewed my opinion on things.
wunderduck@reddit
If a person is traveling specifically to attack you, a lock on your door isn't going to stop them.
Mediocre_Daikon6935@reddit
Safe neighbors and “shoot first” neighborhoods often over lap.
Lots of places, doors are unlocked, but they better know you or be expecting you, or you’ll see the barrel of a gun, if your lucky.
NothingButACasual@reddit
If someone is looking for you to kill you, locking a door won't do much at all to stop them.
Locking your doors is more to keep out the drunk guys who get confused, the sketchy kids who want to steal from easy targets without too much work, and the random druggies or homeless just trying to hole up somewhere. Crimes of convenience, not specific targeting.
Those types of situations generally don't exist out on a farm where you've got a half mile between neighbors. Even in towns and smaller cities, they were quite rare only a few years ago.
NothingButACasual@reddit
All the time, or only when you leave or go to bed?
Alternative-Eye7589@reddit
My roommate thinks if you leave the door unlocked the people will not enter because they think you will have a gun. I leave the house shortly after him so I lock the door and our other roommate locks up at night.
Whybaby16154@reddit
Our neighborhood is full of hunters and gun sports guys. Nobody “needs” to lock doors because intruders wouldn’t survive. We usually do lock up - but have cameras and game cameras on trees out in the yard too.
Don’t want to miss out on the local wildlife in the yards.
tcrhs@reddit
My grandparents lived in a small town and never locked their doors in case family wanted to stop by.
I live in a bigger city. My doors are locked at all times. If you want to stop by, ring the doorbell.
urfriendflicka@reddit
Growing up, the doors were only locked when everyone went to bed. I lock my door at night when my daughteris home but leave it unlocked if she's out, and I don't lock it when I leave the house. When I lived in a big city, my door was kept locked 24/7.
Cars are what are most commonly broken into in my town, so my car is always locked however. Living in a smaller town where there is little crime, neighbors pay attention, and police response is fast seems to make smash n grabs the preferred crime here. I should probably be more vigilant about locking my door since no where is 100% safe.
zusia@reddit
Some of us live so far into the wilds that we only close the doors so the bear and raccoon don’t wander in.
1Negative_Person@reddit
I’ve never locked my doors anywhere I’ve ever lived. I’ll leave town for a week or more and not lock my doors. Seriously, never.
Oops, no crime.
Mediocre_Daikon6935@reddit
Well yea.
What if the neighbors need something?
Besides, damned if I have a key to the house.
Odd-Tomatillo-6890@reddit
We usually lock them but sometimes we forget.
Mediocre_Daikon6935@reddit
I’ve never locked my door. I wouldn’t live somewhere where I felt the need to.
A locked door ain’t stopping a criminal, and it isn’t stopping fire or EMS.
The difference is, we’re almost certainly going to break something trying to get in.
I suggest you tell the customer to have a key hidden and tell your company, or get a key pad.
Because I’ll look for one, but if I don’t find it fairly quick, I’m breaking whatever seems easiest to make entry. And more often than not it. No one is home.
Sparkle_Rott@reddit
I live near a big city. My doors are always locked. Even back as far as the 1950s when I was a kid - doors locked.
FlyingCupcake68@reddit
I have always locked house & car doors since I started driving in the 80s.
themistycrystal@reddit
We lock our doors at night and if we leave the property. We don't lock them if we are out in the yard.
ConsiderationFew7599@reddit
My door is only unlocked when I'm coming in. It's locked when I'm home and when I'm gone. I live in a safe area. But, I see no reason to tempt fate.
largos7289@reddit
I use to while i was home, not so much anymore. Ok so my friend CCW in his house and i said well that's dumb why? he told me in case someone came in the house he's ready. I've never had that happen, like ever. So one day i'm out about the house, wife was a t work, kids at school i was putz'n around. I do like a normally do, then i leave my garage open and the door to the house. I've done this like a billion times never had a issue. Well that day I'm in the kitchen, drinking a soda and this dude just waltz'ed in my house. I don't think he was expecting someone right there because he looked spooked, goes oh sorry wrong house and RAN. Now i carry in the house and lock the doors. That was crazy, I don't live in a shiity neighborhood.
Creepy-Selection2423@reddit
It really really depends on where you live in the US. Also depends on what time of day it is. Leaving your door unlocked during the day when you are home and awake, and leaving it unlocked at night what you were sleeping or when you go out, are two totally different things.
minidog8@reddit
For me? Never. Absolutely not.
minidog8@reddit
A few blocks from where I live, a woman and her daughter were stabbed by a stranger who entered their apartment because the door was unlocked. If the door was locked, I bet he wouldn’t have bothered to try and get in, or at the least the noise would have woke them up and allowed them to call 911 before the stabbing began.
Level-Engineering-11@reddit
"...... I've also seen news reports showing how easily people can enter homes when doors are left unlocked."
No shit!
nygenxmom@reddit
Never.
JayFenty@reddit
Grew up in a rural area and locked doors was the default, granted my parents grew up in more urban areas. Still don’t care where I am, just because the door can be unlocked doesn’t mean it should be.
SeaworthinessHot2770@reddit
I am 70 years old and home by myself a lot of the time. I would never dream of leaving my doors unlocked. We have cameras one is on the door. I will not ever answer the door unless I know the person knocking.
SnazzleZazzle@reddit
I’m in a relatively low crime area in the suburbs outside of a Philadelphia, nice quiet neighborhood, and I’ve always locked my doors. It’s ridiculous not to because you just never know. Better safe than sorry.
Salty-Ad-198@reddit
Nothing is common in the US.
SteampunkRobin@reddit
I live in a middle class neighborhood. I don’t know anyone who leaves their doors unlocked.
tiggipi@reddit
I live in a not great neighborhood in a kinda high crime rate city in Michigan. I keep my doors locked nearly all the time. Only unlocked if I'm outside in my yard.
reporterbabe@reddit
My parents, in their last years, refused to lock the door to their condo. They wanted to make sure the neighbors would look in on them if they didn’t pick the morning paper off the welcome mat or that the ambulance crews could get in the door if there was an emergency.
It drove me crazy, but I lived a half hour away and it worked for them.
As it was, the neighbor did call me when the newspaper clue made him go inside to find my father feverish and on the floor. Dad died a few months later, predeceased by mom.
Skoolies1976@reddit
My husband is a locker, i am a non locker. I grew up never locking anything, my family home we didnt even have keys as far as i know-and with 5 kids and friends everyone was always coming and going. When i got married it was super frustrating to me to unlock doors all the time coming and going but we did have a few car break ins so i did start trying to remember. Now, we live in a literal RV resort park and no one locks anything, cars houses, boats, nothing. and zero crime. It took my husband a while to come back to the dark side, but we dont even take the keys from the car anymore. it is very freeing to not worry (we dont have much worth anything anyway but you know.
cryptoengineer@reddit
Ours is unlocked during the day, but we're pretty exurban - large lots, houses set well back, we know our neighbors, and the location is basically unreachable without a car, and a strange car would be noticed.
No problems in 25+ years.
Careless_Ocelot_4485@reddit
Always keep my doors locked.
Lopsided_Panda_775@reddit
Good to know pulls up sheisty
Ok-Pomegranate-9481@reddit
I always lock my doors, though it is more out of a "completeness" of closing the door, rather than any particular fear of crime or random people dropping by. It never makes sense to me to not lock the door.
Secure-Ad8196@reddit
I don’t lock my doors ever I live in a gated neighborhood in the suburbs so
Quix66@reddit
Not at all. Not anymore in the last several decades.
Ameri0425@reddit
Nobody in my house even has a key, so daily in my case
SmoothCriminal103@reddit
Rural areas? Pretty common. Cities? Not a chance. I lock everything. Including my car in the garage.
VirtualFallacy@reddit
Nope, I just leave a claymore on the porch to deter would-be trespassers.
Silkies4life@reddit
When I’m home? Always. But I’m at home with my 120 lb Rottweiler and a variety of firearms. My neighborhood is safe, I’m more worried about teens stealing change out of my car than anything else.
xtianlaw@reddit
You're telling me that one can simply enter a house through an unlocked door?
Wait until the vampires of the word hear about this!
2PlasticLobsters@reddit
That's been an ongoing point of contention between my partner & me. He grew up in a semi-rural area where no one locked their doors except when they went out. Some even left doors unlocked at night. He thinks I'm being paranoid when I lock the doors during the day when I'm at home. He still pretty much thinks the whole world is Mayberry RFD.
Ironically, the place he grew up has been heavily developed & isn't semi-rural anymore. But when we lived there, he still acted like it was.
His parents were the same. They'd never had dead bolts installed, just had those useless little doorknob locks. Their logic was that they'd never had trouble in the past, so why bother? Somehow the fact that the area had completely changed didn't really register with them.
After his mom died, we moved in with his dad. During the time, I slept in a basement guest room. Because security was basically zero, I kept a Louisville slugger next to the bed. fter his dad died, the first thing I did was call a locksmith.
Apparently most of his extended family is the same way. They live in that area that's now heavily populated, but still act like they're in Hooterville. It's amazing how so many people can live in the past.
redjessa@reddit
This is not going to be the same for all Americans. I would NEVER leave my doors unlocked, like ever. I grew up in Los Angeles when the Night Stalker was active. I live about a half hour from LA now in a more suburban city, that is relatively safe, but still plenty of crime and these doors are always locked. My relatives in small-town Idaho, often don't lock their doors.
MartialBob@reddit
I never used to until I went to bed or left my home. Then in my first Apartment someone snuck in while I was in the shower and stole my PlayStation and iPod. I lock everything now.
DarwinGhoti@reddit
I lived in rural Maine for about 15 years. When I sold the house, I had to have a locksmith come out because I hadn’t seen the front door key in about a decade.
RedSolez@reddit
I've never lived in a dangerous area but have always kept my exterior doors locked when not in use. While it's unlikely someone will try to break in, why give them an opportunity?
I've noticed that in my area when there is the rare police report of a robbery, it is always of an unlocked car or house.
tcspears@reddit
It probably depends where you live. Growing up in South Boston in the 80s and 90s, it was a very working class neighborhood, and we all knew each other, so we never locked our doors.
Today no one knows each other, and there’s more crime that has moved in since the community isn’t as tight-knit. I moved out to the suburbs and always keep my doors locked, and don’t know anyone who leaves theirs unlocked.
I bet elderly people are often just not used to locking doors, because they probably spent most of their life knowing their neighbors, and not seeing the break-ins and robberies we see today.
franktheguy@reddit
The door is locked any time it is closed. Unlock, open, walk through, close, lock. Every time. Taking the trash to the curb? Go out back door, lock. Wheel trash can up to curb, go in front door, locking right after I enter. How often has someone tried a door to see if they can come in? No idea, doesn't matter, maybe never. Front door is the easiest since there is a keypad.
Persis-@reddit
We lock our doors at night. Otherwise, my young adult children are coming and going all the time, so the door is usually unlocked.
macoafi@reddit
How far out of the way do you live? I live near a metro station, and I lock mine.
My dad lives in a neighborhood with no through-street and no sidewalks, a mile from anything… he doesn’t lock his. The only person who ever robbed him was our babysitter.
A couple times when I was a kid, he accidentally locked the door, and my siblings and I had to break in after school.
NotTurtleEnough@reddit
Yeah, it’s super strange. People are paranoid about the neighbors just because they are male, but then leave their front doors wide open all day.
Cowboywizard12@reddit
I generally leave mine unlocked
datedpopculturejoke@reddit
It 100% depends on where they live. I never locked my door when I lived in a small, quiet suburban town and 5 of my close neighbors were cops, including the chief of police.
Now that I live in a much busier part of a large suburb, I keep my exterior doors locked at all times.
KiwiTabicks@reddit
Grew up in upstate New York and the doors were never locked except when we went on vacation. It's just how I grew up and what seemed normal. Had lots of issues when I moved to Europe and the door locked on its own - I would never remember to carry a key with me.
Patient_Parsley7760@reddit
I think a lot of that depends on age, and where the person grew up.
I have spent most of my adult life living in apartments. The only time I leave my door unlocked is when I am taking the laundry down one floor to the laundry room. I really only feel safe about that because our building has outer doors that a burglar would have to get through first.
Head_Razzmatazz7174@reddit
The only reason I lock my door when I'm home is because the door knob latch doesn't quite catch. It blows open when a dog sneezes.
I live in an area where the only break ins that happen are from stray animals and June Bugs.
Coloradozonian@reddit
I have if I’ve lived in the country keys in the cars too
Extension_Variety190@reddit
Knox boxes should be covered by Medicare for seniors with health issues.
As an alarm company, this is your chance to partner with Knox to help make this happen or, at the very least, offer low cost Knox box installs.
If you don't know what a Knox box is, ask your sup.
Cant-think-of-a-nam@reddit
Depends where you live. I lived in an urban hellscape no one left their doors open because its a shitty area. Now in the suburbs everyone just leaves their entire house wide open then they wonder why their stuff gets stolen
yugami@reddit
When I was rural and it would be worse to replace the window they broke because no one would hear it anyways I left everything unlocked always for convenience.
KixStar@reddit
I live in a safe neighborhood and unless the kids are outside playing, my doors are always locked.
I used to live in an apartment alone and a dude just walked in. He thought it was his friend's apartment that was directly above me, and he was very apologetic but it was scary af. My doors stay locked.
koolaideprived@reddit
I live in the country and never lock my doors. If someone wants to get in, there is a big glass sliding door on the back porch that a brick or medium sized rock would take care of in a heartbeat.
Defiant_Finger4011@reddit
I’ll leave my garage open during the day, I would also probably keep the back door unlocked during the day if the even the slightest wind didnt blow it up (the doorknob latch is busted, so I have to lock it using the dead bolt). The front door is open if we have mild weather. But at bed time all the doors and first floor windows are locked up.
Growing up though in the 90s and 2000s though, anyone could open our garage door, we never latched it. We didn’t worry about first floor windows or check before bed to make sure the front and back door was locked. Different times
lisasimpsonfan@reddit
I lock the doors at night. During the day the doors are never locked. Except for a DUI or DV we don't have crime where I live. In 20 years there has been one murder.
Paisable@reddit
I've lived in a few areas that decided that for me, where I am now, is an absolutely not.
theoldman-1313@reddit
I usually leave mine unlocked if I am at home and awake. I always lock up at night and when I leave.
Soldier8_1981@reddit
I always keep ours locked if I'm at home or not. But that is my preference. My parents never locked their doors. I lived out of state for a while, I came home to visit, walked in, yelled Hi, walked through the house, no one there, checked the garage, the car was missing, I found out later that they had gone on vacation.
stiletto929@reddit
The truth is if someone really wants to break into your house, they will. And a lock isn’t going to stop them. I figure looking the door is more of a psychological safety thing.
unknowingbiped@reddit
Ive locked myself out of my house multiple times because I always lock the door when I go through.
zoppaTheDim@reddit
You’ve seen news reports on the subject?
How does that go?
Oh look how easy it is to turn the knob?
AlarmedWillow4515@reddit
We live in a very safe suburb and we used to leave our doors unlocked all the time. I got self-locking doors because I didn't like it and it was impossible to get my husband or the kids to lock doors. The odds of someone breaking in are very low. Even now, it would be super-easy for someone to come in the window other otherwise get in if they really wanted to.
Conversely, I used to live in the city and would never, ever leave my doors unlocked.
Funny story - in my 20's, I lived in San Francisco and my roommate accidentally left our door unlocked. A guy on PCP broke into the house thinking it was some place he was supposed to be and polished my roommate's shoes - the INSIDE of the shoes.
hokiegirl759397@reddit
I never leave my door unlocked even if I'm taking a minute to get my mail or take out the trash. Too much crime these days.
agreeswithfishpal@reddit
Was that news report showing how easily people can enter homes when doors are left unlocked part of that series that included reports on going outside when it's raining making you wet and on not eating making you hungry?
Gloomy-Difference-51@reddit
It just.. depends on where you live. I live in the city and I lock my door. My aunt lives in the country and never locks her door and almost brags about it. I went to her house on Easter and when I locked my car with the key fob, she was shocked. I said I do it out of habit and it didn't change how shocked she was.
alwaysboopthesnoot@reddit
I used to leave my car doors and front door unlocked. Not anymore. There hadn’t been a murder here since WWII until a doctor killed his wife and then himself at their beach house, recently.
But this very safe place gets hundreds of tho sands of tourists. Our houses are close to the sidewalk and street. People have tried doorknobs, opened garden gates, stood on our porch, wandered through our garden.
Nobody has taken anything yet that I know of on my street or near me, but closer to the harbor and train station some bike and purse or phone thefts do happen. You realize pretty quickly after moving here, maybe someday they might try. And anyway, you don’t want a bumbling tourist to walk in and surprise you when you’re not fully dressed or whatever. So, you lock all your doors.
House museums and shops in houses are dotted around all over the place. People get confused, it happens. Or maybe they think the whole town is like a model village? IDK.
Carinyosa99@reddit
Where my dad grew up and where I used to spend all my summers, people don't generally lock their doors except at night.
I live in the suburbs of DC and it's a pretty quiet neighborhood so I've kept my door unlocked before, particularly when my son was a little younger and he'd go out to play at a friend's house or the basketball court or when he'd come home from school. Back then, I didn't want him carrying a key around because I knew it would get lost. Now he takes a key with him pretty much all the time so the door is locked all day.
r34gtr1999@reddit
When I use to live in a rural area it was pretty common for people to leave doors unlocked. I don't live in a good area anymore so... Deadbolts on every door, plus the screen doors locked, alarm set even when someone is home. Garage has bars over the windows and a separate alarm system too, to go along with the 3 locks on the door.
Jaci_D@reddit
We live in an affluent area and only lock our doors overnight
Searcach@reddit
I grew up in the city, with a high crime rate. I never left my door unlocked. Now I’m in a different area, in a gated, retirement community, and I DO sometimes leave my door unlocked when I walk to dog or do a trash run, but otherwise…always locked.
lavasca@reddit
Elderly people in SFH need knoxboxes. They can lock their doors and emergency services can still get in.
It depends where you live. Never going to leave my doors unlocked in San Francisco. When I visit my dad’s family in the country I’m not sure there even are locks.
MenuPsychological853@reddit
I don’t even have keys to my house. Doors are always unlocked
AffectionateSun5776@reddit
Doesn't matter. Our dog would handle it.
parkz88@reddit
I lock my backdoor because the wind blows it open. I'm more worried about bears and raccoons or my dog getting out. I once had a cat just walked in my house after my dog passed. Mickey the cat still visits
Any-Investment5692@reddit
I live in a suburb where i can sleep soundly with the back door unlocked.. Its never been locked in 12 years...However when i lived in the city. I always locked up my house and had a baseball bat ready. I also kept my car unlocked just so that my car windows won't be smashed. So yeah if you live in the city.. Lock up the house keep car unlock. If you live in the suburbs. Keep the house unlocked and the car whatever. :)
Bossyboots37@reddit
In rural states, yes. I know people who leave their keys in their car in their driveway. People leave their cars running when they go into the grocery store. I do it when I pick up my coffee. I live in a small city.
I leave my garage open by accident all the time in the summer. I don’t lock my house from the garage, so we sleep with doors unlocked often
Terrible-Image9368@reddit
Mine are always locked
DesperateDon244@reddit
Never lock the door and key is in my car.
Rose_E_Rotten@reddit
My brother lives in a country area, so he doesn't lock his doors if he's just going to the store or restaurant. He will lock it if he's going out of town for a while. My brother also has motion activated cameras outside his house, so he gets notifications if there are movements. He gets annoyed when it's just a bug on the camera or a tree moving in the wind, but is OK that it's not a person that doesn't belong there.
Sensitive-Respect-25@reddit
Our front door is always unlocked, and in fact the side door can't lock anymore. We have had friends just walk in, and its expected. Its also ok.
Its a half mile drive from my house to the next nearest. The doggos tend to let everyone know what's going on, and the camera does a great job watching the quarter mile long driveway. If someone wants me dead bad enough to sneak through dense woodland in the middle of the night, playing splinter cell and avoiding trail cams, I'm fucked anyway.
Elle_Duderino@reddit
When we lived in the suburbs we always locked the doors and had a security system. Now we live out in the country and we lock it mostly to instill that habit in our kids for when they go off on their own. But all in all it’s completely unnecessary around here. We have a locked gate, 6 dogs, and we live on a street with kind yet heavily armed neighbors. Absolutely no one is going to try to break in around here unless they’re looking to get hurt.
Tom-the-DragonBjorn@reddit
Our neighborhood is so safe we only lock the doors at night.
SnowblindAlbino@reddit
It's entirely dependent on location. I live in a small town and we've left our house unlocked for 30 years, unless we're leaving for more than one night. Thinking back, we probably locked the doors when our kids were toddlers so they couldn't get out. But otherwise? I don't even take a house key with me when I go to work. Years before we rented a house (in the 1990s) from a young couple; we were their first renters of the house they'd lived in for many years...they didn't even own a key to the door so when we rented they had to put in a new lock so we could get one.
I've also lived in cities where I wouldn't walk around the block without locking the doors.
marksman81991@reddit
My friends house they used to leave it unlocked until night. I used to be able to come over and just enter.
My house, unless I’m going in and out a lot, it’s locked.
AcmeCartoonVillian@reddit
Lock them when I leave or go to bed.
If I'm awake? 50/50.
Then again I'm 6'6" and heavily, probably ludicrously, armed... with a dog in the house. That door is closed for courtesy, not because I'm afraid of what might come in my house
PegShop@reddit
America isn’t one size fits all. I live in an area that I don’t loc, but I grew up in one that I did.
adeldreda@reddit
I grew up in extremely rural Wisconsin, and the house was only ever locked at night. Minor exceptions for going out of town overnight. They DID lock it the day of my grandpa's funeral, I guess because it would be relatively public knowledge that we'd all be out of the house? But this was such a rare occurrence that as a teenage driver, I didn't have my own house key, do that was quite the unpleasant surprise when I got home before my parents did that day.
Now my husband and I have our own house in a suburb of Minneapolis and I DO have my own house key, but I rarely use it. The main and back door are almost always locked simply because we don't use them that much; we almost always enter in from the garage. If we DO use the other doors, 98% of the time we leave it unlocked until we're back inside, even if we're both leaving for a walk. It's a very quiet neighborhood where everyone kind of knows everyone, so the risk feels pretty minimal, even though I know it's not zero.
Competitive-Reach287@reddit
My Dad used to yell at us if we locked the door.
jckipps@reddit
That varies so widely that it's almost impossible to say. Local culture, crime rates, and personal paranoia all factor in.
All within several miles of me, there's houses that are never locked, houses locked at nighttime only, houses locked when unoccupied only, and houses with enough perimeter security to rival Camp David.
My house is never locked. The time may come when that needs to change, but I hope not.
churchillguitar@reddit
If someone wants to get in, they’re getting in. A locked door just means you get a few extra seconds to grab the PDW, or you get warned of an intruder by the sound of broken glass.
NedThomas@reddit
If I’m awake and home, the door is probably unlocked. Granted, anyone who comes in without an invite will have to deal with the fact that my wife is a better shot than me.
giraflor@reddit
I’ve never done it intentionally because I always lived in cities until a couple years ago. However, my kids were caught leaving the doors unlocked as teens because they couldn’t find their house key and didn’t want to be late for school.
We didn’t have anything worth stealing, but it was scary in terms of personal safety.
stopvolution@reddit
Rural north Georgia, doors are never locked.
MagpieWench@reddit
A locked door is a social contract. Unless you're reinforcing the door frame and surround, someone determined will get in.
B00k_Worm1979@reddit
Ours our locked and our alarm system turns on.
Rumpelteazer45@reddit
Depends on where “News reports showing how easily people can enter homes when doors are left unlocked”. Well yeah it’s literally an unlocked door.
Even locked, it’s not hard. The question is how much noise you are willing to make to get in.
Locked doors only keep honest people out.
I’m 30 miles outside DC, big suburban areas. Accidentally we’ve left doors unlocked overnight, zero issue.
In my state, EMTs, firefighters, and any first responder is legally allowed to break through a door to get to the person.
JadeChipmunk@reddit
I live out in the mountains and know my neighbors. Occasionally ill leave the door unlocked if im just going out for a little to the store or something but still lock up if we'll be out for a while.
jollyroger822@reddit
Sometimes I forget to lock it as I used to live in a rural area where I never locked my door. However I do sleep next to a firearm so if someone wants to fuck around and find out I guess they will.
Libraries_Are_Cool@reddit
When I read your comment, rather than picturing a handgun in your nightstand, I imagined a Glock lying next to you on a double bed, with its muzzle lying on an ergonomic, memory foam pillow.
jollyroger822@reddit
It prefers a goose down pillow
binarycow@reddit
I don't leave my house unlocked, but I sometimes forget to lock my car when it's in my driveway. Haven't had any issues (yet).
I always lock my car when I'm not parked in my driveway or garage.
I never lock my car when it's parked in the garage.
ThisDerpForSale@reddit
This is a country of 3.8 million square miles and over 340 million people. That is going to vary vastly based on a huge variety of factors.
binarycow@reddit
That is basically the answer to (almost) every question on this subreddit.
Unless it's asking about some federal law, the answer is always "it depends on where you are"
amboomernotkaren@reddit
My mom lived way out in the country and left her key in the car for 30 years and her doors unlocked. I live in a VHCOL area and lock the doors and my car. My neighbor has lived in her house since 1948. Nothing has ever been stolen from her house (mine either since the 1980s). It’s safe here, but….better safe than sorry.
VoiceArtPassion@reddit
I lock mine at night and when I’m not home, they will stay locked until I go outside.
mekoRascal@reddit
I live in rural Alaska, my door doesn't lock
BoltActionRifleman@reddit
The last place I lived had an old closet door handle for the front door, it wasn’t even capable of locking. Current place has a lock but we don’t use it and would have to look around to see if we still have the keys. If someone wants in, they’re going to get in regardless of the door being locked. And if they’re able to just open the door, at least I won’t have to repair or replace the door and door frame.
bigedthebad@reddit
Small town north Texas.
I leave my door unlocked if I'm home and awake. Who is going to bother me?
AnybodySeeMyKeys@reddit
We pretty much don't. Of course, we live in a secure condominium.
But even when we had kids living at home and we lived in a house in the suburbs, we rarely locked the door.
binarycow@reddit
We have indoor cats, and at one of our old apartments, one of our previous cats managed to get outside, and we never found her. So, we are (understandably) worried about the cats getting out.
At my old house, the front door would (rarely) open on its own, in very windy weather - even if it was locked. The door didn't have deadbolt or screen door, and apparantly the strike plate needed to be adjusted.
At that house, we also had an alarm system. So if the door did open on its own, we would at least know about it (and the sound of the alarm would scare the cat into hiding inside the house). Because of this we always kept the alarm enabled, even when home. (And yes, I did MacGyver a fix for the strike plate using toothpicks)
In our new house, we have a deadbolt on our doors. And that is the best thing possible to keel the door from being opened when we don't want it opened. So yes, we leave our deadbolts locked. Even when home, so the cats don't escape.
Detonation@reddit
It doesn't matter where I live, I'm always locking my doors.
Forward_Tank8310@reddit
The doors of our year-round home are typically unlocked during the day, but locked at night & anytime we are away. Our summer cabin is in a very remote area where our few neighbors all know each other. Those doors are closed but not locked during the day to keep the critters out.
maimou1@reddit
I was growing up in Atlanta when it was the murder capital of the Nation. Doors were always locked.
CemeteryDweller7719@reddit
So for a situation like this, a lock box. The kind like realtors use. We used one with my dad, and he had one of those buttons he could hit in an emergency that monitors the elderly and sick. The company had the code to the box. If they had to send someone out they could give them the code to unlock the door. His nurses also had the code so they could get in (because he couldn’t hear anyone knock). Close family also had the code. Otherwise there would have been dozens of keys floating around out there.
Physical_Dentist2284@reddit
Honestly not even sure where the key is anymore. Obviously, I live in the middle of nowhere.
Super_Direction498@reddit
And what's your address if you do this, we want receipts
Bvvitched@reddit
Always
I’m not super worried about crime but my house is mixed use and use to be a law office and despite no evidence it is currently any business multiple people have tried to open my front door looking for the former lawyer — and I love not wearing pants
Livvylove@reddit
I never leave it unlocked. I've even accidentally locked out my husband because he went outside and left it unlocked without letting me know.
cakebreaker2@reddit
I never lock my door. Hell, we went on vacation and left it unlocked. I also dont lock my car doors.
Dgp68824402@reddit
Not common at all.
warp10barrier@reddit
My door is locked at all times unless I am actively going through it.
eastcoastme@reddit
We lock the house, even while we are in it midday. We live in a rural area and I think 80% of the people in the area do not lock their homes. The women I work with will tell you to “just go in the house” to pick up x,y,z. A lot of cousins and relatives live in the area, so they are complacent. My family is not like this at all. My husband even locks their homes shed while he is cutting the grass.
albertnormandy@reddit
I do it sometimes. I try to lock them at night, but if I'm lying in bed and suddenly remember I didn't lock the door I won't get up and run down there. Also, if I am making a quick trip to the dump or something I will leave them unlocked. I love 200 yards off the road in a rural area. If someone is going to take the time to walk down my driveway with the intent of breaking in I doubt they will let a dinky door lock stop them.
Kingberry30@reddit
Depends on your location.
MetalEnthusiast83@reddit
Not much crime where I am, but I still lock the doors at night or when I go out.
Not sure why I wouldn’t? I have a gust of wind blow open an unlocked door. Don’t want that to happen when I’m not home.
Less_Wealth5525@reddit
I left my doors unlocked for 20 years but once my garage door was left open and my purse was in my car and someone stole it.
Dr_StrangeloveGA@reddit
I didn't have a house key until I went off to college in the early 90's. We never locked the door in the 70's and 80's though we did live in a fairly rural area.
Aellithion@reddit
I have never bothered to lock a door in my life. The idea is comical when you realize how easy it is to go through a window or glass door. It's also entertaining when people make a big deal out of it when they just use the two half inch screws to lock the skid plate in.
I've lived all over the US and I have lived in the UK. Locks provide a weird level false security.
DoTheRightThing1953@reddit
I don't usually leave my doors unlocked but anybody who really wants to get in won't have a problem. The front door has a large window in it. The back door is French doors.
arcteryx17@reddit
I live on the border of metropolitan and rural. 1 mile east is city like and 1 mile west are farms. I lock my doors not because of safety but if someone breaks into my house and my large dog will attack them. My state is the only state where the dog owner is responsible regardless of the situation.
Longjumping_Ant7025@reddit
I have an electric lock so it automatically locks everytime the door closes. But a lot of the time when I'm home I'll leave the wood door open and just have the glass shut because my cats love the view and sun. I remember my grandmother would purposefully not lock her house when she went out "in case someone stops by".
Range-Shoddy@reddit
I locked them when I lived in the suburbs. Now I live borderline rural tucked around a few corners and down a hill. I also have several large loud dogs. If someone is dumb enough to come in my house that’s their problem. I lock the front door but not the back ones. I often go between doors outside and if they’re locked I can’t get in. I have an alarm but I’m not sure I’ve ever used it here. I have a smart front door lock and have used that in an emergency. If my parents did any of this I’d lose my mind. No loud dogs though.
HoyAIAG@reddit
I lock the doors always. My wife 50/50
punkass_book_jockey8@reddit
Rural area and I leave my doors unlocked. My neighbor has well issues and pops in for laundry sometimes.
If someone wants to get in where I live they will get in. My front door and bathtub are probably the two most valuable things in my house when no one is home. If the doors unlocked they’re not gonna smash my door and cost me a ton of money.
Everything in my house is junk. I spend all my money on kids and travel. My inhaler might be the only hand held object of value sadly. Freezers don’t even have meat because we’re mostly vegetarian and we have nearly everything on electricity so no one’s stealing fuel.
When I lived in the city the house was locked but I also had 7 roommates so someone was always home.
expeciallyheinous@reddit
I live in Massachusetts. I walked dogs and did petsitting for years so I was in and out of people’s houses constantly. There are towns near me where I didn’t have a single key for any of the clients who lived there because the doors were always unlocked. Ever since moving out of my parents’ house, I never locked my doors anywhere I lived… even in places I probably should have. I do now, but only because I worry about my cats getting out if the door blew open or something.
thewags05@reddit
Even when I lived in suburbs just outside of Boston I'd forget to lock my house at least half of the time. It's just a safe area overall. I once forgot to lock it when I went on vacation and nothing happened.
bh0@reddit
I don’t, but probably could.
Square-Platypus4029@reddit
I live in a rural area where it's very common. But most people have dogs or guns or both and issues are rare.
bigfoot17@reddit
You needed news reports to tell you unlocked doors are easy to enter!?! OP is the doorknob
Thspiral@reddit
I would say very unusual. I live in an extremely safe place and lock my doors when I’m not home 100% of the time. Why take even a smash chance when locking is not a big deal.
scumbagstaceysEx@reddit
I lock the doors at night before going to bed if I remember. That being said , I came home from a three-week long vacation to find that I’d left the sliding door to the back porch completely open (except for the bug screen) the entire time I was gone. Nothing was taken. I live in a suburb of Albany, NY.
relikter@reddit
I live in a safe neighborhood and only recently started locking my doors at night. About 3 months ago I came downstairs at 7:30am to find my 6 year old neighbor had let herself in to return a toy to my daughter. The neighbor's mom came rushing in a minute later to apologize, and we all laughed it off, but I don't want random kids wandering around my house uninvited.
Think-Rush8206@reddit
Growing up we never locked our doors, until one day, my mom was in the kitchen and she heard a noise in the living room. Our special needs neighbor had wandered in. My mom told her to leave, the neighbor spit on our floor. From that day on my mom always made sure the door was locked. This was probably 35 years ago.
Elixabef@reddit
I’m always shocked to hear that there are people who don’t lock their doors. I’ve always locked my doors, even in very safe neighborhoods and in rural areas. I’m not taking any chances.
SparklyTree_1754@reddit
No way. I’ve lived in cities too long to be so trusting. Even my dad, who lives out in the country, will lock up at night or if he’s going to be gone from the house for a while.
Buncai41@reddit
In my neighborhood, I keep my doors locked.
Dickrubin14094@reddit
The only time I’ve ever heard this is online. I’ve never heard any friends or family talk about leaving doors unlocked. This is dating back to the 40s & 50s in middle of nowhere miles from neighbors houses and middle of city house. The internet needs to stop trying convince people this actually happens in America
JohnHenryMillerTime@reddit
I've lived for 12 years in a pretty crime heavy part of Oakland California, a city known for crime in an are known for crime.
I leave my house with my door unlocked daily. If I had a house key I would lode it.
Zero problems.
Libraries_Are_Cool@reddit
Your's is the second comment I've read so far from someone in Oakland not locking doors and being OK. It really shows how a small number of people do most of the serious criming and most people are decent (or at least not serious criminals) without needing locks nor a police presence to keep them honest.
penguin_stomper@reddit
People ask the same sort of question about leaving stuff in the bed of their trucks. Theft is just way less common than people think. Yes, I'm in the rural southeast, not Oakland, doors here are often unlocked as well.
Accomplished-Car4069@reddit
can i come in
spandexcatsuit@reddit
It’s locked all the time unless we are right outside
wvdude87@reddit
Almost never. I don’t even know where the key is to my front door.
Ok-Possibility-9826@reddit
i’ve only ever lived in major cities with the exception of a short stint in the suburbs. I live in a nice neighborhood, too. I lock my doors. Couldn’t fathom not doing so.
OrganizationSouth481@reddit
I will if I’m only going to be out for a short period of time. Anyone wanting to play games in that period of time would have to deal with 4 huge dogs. That is typical a deterrent to anyone wanting to commit unsavory actions during daylight hours. At night, door is always locked.
JohnLuckPikard@reddit
The last time I used my house key was in 2015 when I got there after buying it.
DieHardAmerican95@reddit
I only lock my doors when I go on vacation. I work swing shift though, and my wife locks the doors on nights when I’m working.
tmorse85@reddit
I keep our door locked, but primarily because we live in an area that can get very windy. We've had the door blown open at all hours if we've forgotten.
midwestCD5@reddit
America is huge. I’m sure some rural country folks leave their doors unlocked (I know some of my relatives up north do) but I, living in the suburbs, always lock em.
oneislandgirl@reddit
It's hard to lock your doors when you depend on windows and doors being open with screens to get ventilation.
Traditional_Trust418@reddit
I grew up in Wyoming and I don't remember a single person locking their door or their cars. People would even leave their cars running in the winter while they went grocery shopping or ran other errands. And I'm still in my twenties so my childhood wasn't that long ago.
When you live in a small town, you feel safer whether you are or not
Glum-Welder1704@reddit
I only lock mine when going out. Apparently that makes me a lunatic risk taker around here.
Zestyclose-City-3225@reddit
Only if i forget, but i have 2 protective GSDs so no one is getting in.
paulrudds@reddit
I know a lot of people that do it, and I still think it's a terrible idea.
CosyBeluga@reddit
no comment
ChemicallyAlteredVet@reddit
We have automatic smart locks but during warm months we are in and out all day so I set them to stay unlocked. But it’s an old house with many windows. If someone really wants in the door and lock isn’t going to stop them. So I sleep with my 9 mil on my nightstand.
notsosecretshipper@reddit
I'm not even sure I could find a key for my front door in a timely manner.
ArickxEightOne@reddit
Locks only keep honest people out anyway.
MessoGesso@reddit
I had an emergency medical condition a couple years ago and I made it to the front door to unlock one door. But I was too sick to keep going and open the outer "storm" door.
The outer door has a glass panel and a screen. I thought if that door is locked the only way in was to break the glass or the door. I expected to come home from the hospital to a mess
I came home and it was llike nothing had happened. Fire and Rescue is very good at their job.. i woouldnt leave doors open bc all night because of them.
What they did at my door was get the screen out from where it goes into the door. Then i guess just move the glass, reach in and open the door. They're skilled like break-in criminals but it's for good.
manderifffic@reddit
Very uncommon in most places. The only places I can think of where people don't lock their doors are very small towns of like 10,000 people where your nearest neighbor is at least a half mile away.
PickleManAtl@reddit
Well, I live in a suburb of Atlantis so I would not dream of not having my doors locked. Even so, I grew up in a much smaller city in West Virginia in the 1970s, and people were in the habit of locking their doors back then, there.
I've always been amazed how some people will even go to bed at night with the doors unlocked and say that they live out in the boonies or somewhere where it's really safe. Bad things can happen anywhere. And I don't understand if all it takes is to twist a little lock with your fingers to keep people out, why wouldn't you do it no matter where you lived just to be on the safe side?
Groupthink00859@reddit
In the Army we had a crusty old sergeant bring in cheap lock picking kits from ebay, after a 10 min instruction every Joe had popped open a series 200 padlock in under 15min on the first try. Your homes front door lock wont stand a chance against someone with just a few bucks and access to youtube.
Jaspersmom1818@reddit
Not anymore.
maybach320@reddit
I don’t but my grandparents that lived in a town of 350 people sure did.
BookLuvr7@reddit
I've always locked my doors. No question.
jackfaire@reddit
Our door is a keypad. My friend's mom can't remember the code so it gets left unlocked when she's out and about.
Normally we don't leave it unlocked at all. We live in a good neighborhood but we just both have the habit of locking the door.
Available-Egg-2380@reddit
Locks don't even work on my front door. We installed a slide lock. Tbh only put that on because the wind kept blasting the door open. Need to replace the whole door eventually.
SteelGemini@reddit
I've seen too many true crime documentaries that begin with a town where no one locks their doors and ends in horrible murder for me to leave my doors unlocked.
ByWillAlone@reddit
First responders have excellent equipment for getting through locked doors. They can even get through locked and barricaded doors (I know, because my mom suffered a stroke and had a safety rod behind a locked door and they were able to get through it in under 5 min). So yeah, I keep the doors locked 24/7.
retire_dude@reddit
When I bought the house I live in the previous owners had lost the keys to the front door. They hadn't locked it in 10 years.
Rum_Running_Sailor@reddit
My doors are unlocked exactly long enough for someone to enter or exit. That's it.
Top-Web3806@reddit
The only time my door is unlocked is when I’m physically entering or exiting it.
Long-Zombie-2017@reddit
Small town, rural area and i don't lock my doors. Dogs. Guns. Lol
FleetAdmiralCrunch@reddit
Doors unlocked during the day and back door open for the dog. I did leave the door open all night last week, but we usually lock up in the evening.
My dad locks his house most of the time but leaves the keys in his car when he goes out. ????????
SplitOpenAndMelt420@reddit
I live in Los Angeles and you have to get through two sets of locked doors before you get to my locked door
ChoppedUnc-SF@reddit
I have literally never left my doors unlocked in 50 years. Maybe a few times by accident.
PippyandAshley@reddit
Out in the boonies? Of course. They know we're armed and don't have much worth stealing. In or near the city? Absolutely not. Occasionally, tweakers just try random doorknobs. I don't want the inconvenience of being traumatized and going to court because my dog or something else permanently maimed an intruder.
MostAsk855@reddit
If I’m home and awake the door is unlocked. If I’m gone or asleep it’s locked.
AliMcGraw@reddit
If you live near Leavenworth, the federal prison in Kansas, they advise you to leave your car unlocked so that an escaping inmate can just steal your car and you can just report it, and plate cameras can rapidly find it. Whereas if you lock the car the inmate might come into your house and threaten you.
I lock my house overnight but I generally don't lock it when I'm in it and awake. (I'll lock it if I take a nap.) I live in a pretty safe area. I know some people who never lock their houses, altho I would not feel comfortable with that!
Not_Write_Now@reddit
I'm originally from city and suburban areas and even though my husband and I moved to a small town, we always lock our doors. The closest thing to leaving them unlocked is if we're home and the weather is nice, we'll prop them open and leave the chain attached.
tuberlord@reddit
I usually remember to lock my doors when I leave or go to sleep. Sometimes I forget, and it upsets my wife.
A few years ago I literally forgot to close my back door and left for the better part of the day. Nothing happened.
Kanya_Mkavry@reddit
We live in the suburbs, in an older area. We don't lock during the day if we're home unless the weather is bad.
DigitalGarden@reddit
The last 3 places I lived, I did not even carry a key.
Until ICE. Now we lock up everything, as protection against that.
These were all suburbs of major cities.
Organic_Salad2910@reddit
Depends. My parents in live in South Carolina and only lock their doors at night. I live in a large major city and absolutely lock my doors.
Gonna_do_this_again@reddit
All the time when I was young, never now.
Rock-Wall-999@reddit
I lock my doors to keep my dogs from attacking unwanted visitors!
Matban09@reddit
I've lived all over the US. I will always lock my doors.
XTanuki@reddit
I spent a lot of time in a small town in the Midwest where folks left their keys in the car…
hollowbolding@reddit
i have had this argument with men who have moved from the suburbs to the city and act like they don't understand how they get robbed. it's more common than i would like it to be but it's weird enough a lot of people locally go 'why would you do that'
disclaimer. definitely feels more or less weird depending on the area. i have too many stoned/drunk college students mistaking my house for theirs to risk it
poser765@reddit
I live in a road that’s off a road that’s off of the main road in a gated community with its own security that’s about 8 miles outside of a very small city. You’ve got to go very far out of the way to get to my neighborhood then you have to go out of the way to get to my house in that neighborhood.
I don’t lock my doors. Hell I don’t even know where my house key is.
Educational-Big-6609@reddit
The USA is a huge country with VERY diverse locales. Remember that Seattle to Miami is a distance equivalent to London to Istanbul. Think about the diversity between those two and simply apply the English language across all of it and you have the USA.
So, “how common is [x] for Americans?” will nearly always be met with “well, where in the USA?”.
Honestly.
famousanonamos@reddit
I live in the boonies and have a lot of windows. If someone wants in my house, a lock isn't going to stop them. They'd be in for a rough night though.
shade_study_break@reddit
Depends where you live. When I lived in a suburb of Cleveland, all the time. When I lived in the East Village and later Williamsburg, never. Oddly enough, where I live now, in a high rise in Chicago, I do leave my door unlocked during shorter trips, as my building has a doorman and I know all my neighbors. For me it is a function of foot traffic and what I know about crime in the area generally.
Stupidlysurviving@reddit
Nice try, robber! I'm locking my doors tonight! Or am I?
theEWDSDS@reddit
Hey, Vsauce! Michael here. Your house is safe. Or is it?
PracticalBreak8637@reddit
I have a friend who lives in a small town. They don't lock their homes and even leave their keys in their car if they're going back out.
hanshotgreed0@reddit
There’s so little crime in my town that we only have a handful of full time cops, and a couple more part time. If we’re home the main door that we use to go in and out of the house generally isn’t locked except at night. We always lock it when we leave unless we’re just going for a walk around the neighborhood. At my old house I didn’t even have a key to the front door, we just left it unlocked when we left 😅
Devi-Supertramp@reddit
Our doors are locked at all times, even when we are home. They’re left unlocked only when I’m doing yard work or something where I’ll be going in and out repeatedly. I live in a decent area in the PNW, but my city does have issues with unhoused people and substance abuse, and every so often people post their Ring camera footage on Nextdoor of random impaired people trying to enter homes. So it just seems safest.
Quirky_Commission_56@reddit
We always lock the door when we leave the house.
sluttypidge@reddit
My parents live miles down a dirt road. They never lock up.
visitor987@reddit
It where you live Almost no one leaves them unlocked in or near east coast or west coast cities. A lot people live them unlocked in small towns. It more dangerous for burglar than the homeowner to access an occupied home most small town homes are armed
dorkychickenlips@reddit
Me? Never. My kids? All the damn time.
RDS80@reddit
Small town in Indiana. We don't lock our doors unless we leave the house.
jonny5isalive1@reddit
I haven’t locked my door in over 2 years. I don’t even have a key.
soap---poisoning@reddit
It’s not common where I live. You never know when your perfectly nice neighbor’s addict grandson will visit and decide to cause trouble.
DesertKangarooRat@reddit
Depends, lots of people feel safe enough to not lock the doors where I live,I’d say 80% of the ppl in my neighborhood probably don’t, but in that regard, it isn’t thieves we have to worry about but bears. I grew up in a place where you lock doors though. If you’re super rural you probably wont lock up. Bigger population areas will though.
Jp_gamesta@reddit
It really depends where you are
When I was in college at a relatively small religious university in a tiny town with almost no crime (I never saw a single cop up there) I usually didn't lock my door, nor did my roommates. And considering how often I accidently walked into the wrong appartment, no one else did either.
In the city I've spent the rest of my life in, everyone always keeps all windows, doors, etc locked. You may leave a key hidden in your back yard in case you get locked out, but even that seems kinda precarious.
codainhere@reddit
not common
Paul721@reddit
During the day ill leave it unlocked in Colorado, always lock it at night though.
yozaner1324@reddit
My family lives in the middle of nowhere and the doors were basically never locked, I don't even remember that we locked them at night. Now, I live in a major city and the doors are locked basically all the time unless I'm on the porch or in the yard.
Remarkable-Rush-9085@reddit
Growing up in the late eighties through late nineties in my small town no one locked their doors unless they were going on vacation. Now I think most people do, I honestly mostly don’t, definitely not if we are at home.
OmightyOmo@reddit
Fire department is getting in no matter what locks you have. They’ve got mad skills.
Alarm companies have bad reputations for being the ones who actually break in.
JoganLC@reddit
When I lived in the actual middle of nowhere we didn't lock the doors. I installed keypad locks years ago and it just auto locks now.
Premium333@reddit
Very much depends on where you live.
That said, all homes are easy to enter regardless of locked doors. Breaking a window is loud, but it can also be easy.
forgotwhatisaid2you@reddit
We don't usually lock ours unless we are going to he gone for a while. We do have a big loud dog inside though.
wrigh516@reddit
I grew up never locking house or car doors.
My wife grew up locking doors.
It depends on who leaves the house. Our car auto-locks.
ToastetteEgg@reddit
I’m from Los Angeles and no one leaves anything unlocked. Ever.
flyghu@reddit
My front door is locked, but none of the others are. Fully fenced yard. Big dogs. And if you make it past them, I'll make it clear the lock on the front door was for your protection, not mine. Team 'Merica, Fuck Yeah!
Icy-Whale-2253@reddit
I lose my keys easily so sometimes I do
Impossible_Jury5483@reddit
I never leave the door unlocked.
PMmeHappyStraponPics@reddit
I live in the suburbs.
I lock my doors when I go on vacation, but normally not otherwise.
Throwaway_anon-765@reddit
Not only do we always lock our doors, we sometimes have double security locks. If we’re home, single lock; if we’re away, double lock. I don’t know anybody who leaves their doors unlocked.
reblynn2012@reddit
Growing up rural never except at night. Now as adult most of the time in small city here and yes at night.
Smooth-Shock-4486@reddit
We had to find the keys for our twenty year owned house before we sold it because we never locked it up. Safe neighborhood and no problems.
Mouse-Direct@reddit
I live in a midsize city. My doors are always locked, and I double and triple check them.
Not_An_Isopod@reddit
I live in the middle of nowhere, door is rarely locked. When I lived in town it was always locked. Even in the middle of the day.
redcoral-s@reddit
I saw a map that said georgia was #1 in keeping doors locked. My family keeps it locked anytime we're not home. This did once result in a random child bursting inside the house in the middle of the day
Rays-R-Us@reddit
If I told you you’d rob me
Slight_Manufacturer6@reddit
We lock ours at night when we go to sleep but that is the only time.
It depends on location. When I was younger, I lived in a town where I didn’t even lock the doors at night.
shammy_dammy@reddit
I'd say it's not very common.
miketugboat@reddit
Out in the country? Most. Suburbs less and cities almost never. I live in a city in a gated community in an apartment with locks on all the entrances, and I still leave my personal front door locked.
wyvern713@reddit
Door is always locked unless my husband or I are doing something outside, or we're going in and out frequently (like taking groceries in). Even when we're just chilling at home, door's locked.
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
We rarely lock our doors, unless we are traveling.
r2k398@reddit
I never leave my doors unlocked if I’m not coming right back in the house. Even if I go across the street to talk with my neighbor, the door is locked.
qu33nof5pad35@reddit
Depends on your neighborhood.
JoyDVeeve@reddit
I grew up in rural central Ohio and I don't know if the house had locks on all of the outside doors. Especially for the myriad outbuildings.
As soon as I was able I moved to the closest city and then I always locked the door if I was the last one to leave and when I went to bed.
bearfootin_9@reddit
I'm pretty sure I'm not the standard, but I lived in Oakland CA from 1980 to 2021 and almost never locked my door that entire time (only locked when I went out of town.) Although over the years several houses in my neighborhood were burgled, but I never was. I now live in small city Oregon, and don't think I've lo ked my door for the last 5 years.
shwh1963@reddit
I lived in a rural area, small town, and a suburban city and I’ve always locked the doors at night.
Trey-the-programmer@reddit
If say it depends on where you live and when. Growing up in the suburbs of Houston, or does were generally unlocked until both my parents started working. The door from the house into the garage was almost always unlocked until something was stolen out of the garage around 1979. The car doors were generally unlocked in the driveway until the 80's.
Now, I live in a safe neighborhood well outside of Austin. My wife and I are both at home most days, and our doors are generally locked all the time.
It will be unlocked if one of us is outside, working in the yard.
Chickadee831@reddit
I live in a rural area. I lock at night, or when we go out for a significant amount of time.
Yeahboyeah@reddit
I grew up in the suburbs and we didn't lock the doors until the early 70s.
astralTacenda@reddit
my parents rarely lock their door, they live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere. like 4 houses per mile bumfuck nowhere.
whereas my entire adult life, the door is LOCKED. if we arent in the yard, less than 50 feet away from the door, that fucker is locked. if both of us are inside, locked. if both of us are gone, locked. if one is inside and the other is running errands, locked. the only time our door ISNT locked is if we are doing yard work or smoking some weed on our front step. hasnt mattered where we live or what time it is, my spouse and i are paranoid enough to not take ANY chances, especially with 3 indoor-only cats, one of whom has BAD anxiety.
CubicWombatPoops@reddit
Not often if I’m out for a couple hours. I have 2 crazy 50lb dogs.
lotusbloom74@reddit
If I am home generally unlocked, but locked if I leave the house or go to sleep. Although I’ve left doors unlocked overnight and never worried too much either
Far-Increase8154@reddit
I’ve always locked my door even as a kid
I feel you are more likely to be victimized than a locked door preventing a first responder from reaching you in fine
misagale@reddit
Never
Sea-Astronomer-6600@reddit
Live in a more rural area of Missouri and we always lock our doors. Danger can lurk everywhere
sneezhousing@reddit
Smaller rural towns common.
Me personally always locked
Grafakos@reddit
Doors are locked by default, unless I'm outside but on the property.
HyruleanBarmaid@reddit
We live out in the country a bit and at the end of a gravel road nobody travels down unless you live here. I leave my doors unlocked, car doors unlocked, and sometimes car keys in the car.
I’ve never ever lived in a place I felt safe enough doing that, we’ve either been in the city, around crime, or just generally untrustable neighbours.
Downtown_Ganache6727@reddit
My sister lives in a rural area and leaves her door unlocked during the day. I’m used to living in the city and I lock my door the second I step inside. It’s never not locked. Same with my car doors.
skatoulaki@reddit
It depends on where you live. I live in a smallish suburban town, and generally, my husband and I leave our doors unlocked during the day while we're home. We lock them when we leave the house, and we lock them at night before we go to bed. I used to live in a city nearby, and our doors were always locked then.
vabeachkevin@reddit
Basically never.
DangerousDave303@reddit
Never
kaimcdragonfist@reddit
Nice try, thief
(/j)
RatonhnhaketonK@reddit
I live on the third floor of an apartment complex, so I leave my door unlocked. So do my neighbours on the same floor as me. We all know each other.
Meilingcrusader@reddit
In Northern New England not uncommon. In the city much rarer
thatsad_guy@reddit
not common in my experience
Stressed_C@reddit
Depends on location and possibly time of day.
kimjael8@reddit
I think it depends where you live but generally most people lock their doors. My hometown and the city I live in now are fairly rough so everyone locks their doors, but my college town was extremely safe so I knew quite a few people that left them unlocked.
AngleRelative4683@reddit
Not common at all anymore