Lessons from getting 2 offers in a month at 10 YoE
Posted by Apprehensive-Cut3711@reddit | ExperiencedDevs | View on Reddit | 21 comments
Was fired a couple of months ago from a job I really loved. Spent some time dicking around with my own startup, also some travelling and spending time with the family.
Was just slightly anxious to start a job hunt
A couple of things I've learned from my job search:
1 - Don't panic.
I've spent some time on r/cscareerquestions and on LinkedIn and this was mostly a waste of time. There always people who says it's over (and in fact these people have been around for years). And even if it was panic and spending time anxiously scrolling through horrors/successes of others never helps
2 - Know what you want.
Previous time I was looking for a job I made a mistake of not preselecting tech stack / field / role I wanted. Ended up getting offers I didn't want. It was scary to do this and I had to reject some lucrative propositions in fields that were not interesting to me. But I think long-term it's the right strategy and I ended up matching with people of similar values and thinking.
3 - Develop your network.
Sounds basic, but all the offers/hr calls I've got were either from friends of friends, or someone I had worked with or people I met at conferences, or direct contacts from HR on LinkedIn.
In practical terms - go see what's happening in IT in your city and visit those events and find ways to have some fun over there (very similar to dating actually! :)). I noticed that people who are too needy at the conferences getting hard time getting good contacts, don't lose your dignity.
Also feel in your LinkedIn with a right information.
I almost didn't try cold applications - had enough horror stories about 600+ people applying for a job opening in an hour. But one cold application did hit back but it was a super aligned job that basically conformed ideally to my previous experience.
4 - Don't cheat or lie
Well, may be it works for some people, but I decided right away that I will not be using AI agents to unrealistically customize my resume, or use AI to cheat during interviews. I think trust and honesty are rare in todays world and if you can stay true you will attract the people who value that.
5 - Don't take a long break from your career
I took almost 6 months of and staff that I was doing cutting edge a year ago is now common place. Use your advantage of having an up-to-date experience. 1-3 months break should be ok.
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From the interview side I noticed a shift:
- most of the calls are just talking with people so be prepared to tell a good story about yourself and be able to connect with a person in a short time. Actually here knowing your values and being truthful really helps.
- interviewers will ghost you. First time I was upset, than stopped caring. Sometimes it's for a reason. I was trying to get a job in UK to relocate to London, and during the calls HR were friendly, but then just stopped contacting me and one time I pressed for it, it turned to be because I needed visa sponsorship. Sometimes it happens for no reason at all - you had a good call and then nothing
- system design interviews have shifted heavily into AI sphere (workflows, agents, evals). May be it was the specific companies I was interviewing for, but 3/3 system design were about that for me. (companies were Perplexity, US biotech startup and a worldwide edtech company)
SolidDeveloper@reddit
You leave out what I think is the most important aspect: actually being able to pass interviews. Whenever I look for a new job, I don’t have a problem getting interviews, I have a network and get referrals through it, and I mostly know what I’m looking for in a job. However, I always fail interviews for months and months. And it’s because prepping for interviews is the most difficult and time consuming aspect of the job search.
I have very little patience for interview prep (wtf do I have to recap so much and wtf isn’t my career background enough?), so I often go into interviews with just mostly zero preparation and just wing it.
chikamakaleyley@reddit
anytime i have to go on a job search, i have this DSA course that i basically stream in the background as a refresher. Usually I'll practice with a problem here or there, or see if i can write the algo fr memory
by the end of the course, which is generally a small subset of DSA but prob covers 99% of what I'll ever be asked, I don't feel compelled at all to do any leetcode.
fuckoholic@reddit
which course?
chikamakaleyley@reddit
Frontendmasters “the last algorithms course you’ll ever need pt1” primeagens course. It’s free u just need to sign up for an account
ultraDross@reddit
You mean, you don't cherish having to memorise reversing a binary tree every few years despite never having to do that on the job?
zakuropan@reddit
ok glad i’m not the only one who just can’t do interviews. it’s just theatre at this point, I can’t bring myself to care
slowd@reddit
It’s absolutely theatre and orthogonal to being good at the job. But the interview and negotiation pays off. The extra effort during that phase can easily net an ongoing $100k/year over baseline.
UnStrict_Veggie@reddit
OMG, thank you for writing this, I have over 12 YOE, and I just get treated like shIte in interviews, to the point that I’m truly depressed now. Your last paragraph really resonated with me. I just don’t know anymore how to proceed further, without losing opportunities, as my brain can no longer retain leetcode
cd_to_homedir@reddit
I never do special prep for interviews because it's absurd. If I'm being subjected to useless codegolf exercises, I'd rather fail these tests and skip to the next interview opportunity. Interview culture can say a lot about the employer and if my first interaction with a potential employer ends up with pointless time wasting exercises, this is a strong sign for me to move along.
GoodishCoder@reddit
I do pretty good with some interview formats and pretty awful with other formats.
Conversational interviews and small live coding exercises I can crush it on. I feel like that's the easiest way to demonstrate my real world knowledge.
Leetcode, obscure facts about specific technologies quizzes and vocab tests I don't crush it on.
Apprehensive-Cut3711@reddit (OP)
Yeah, I agree
Actually a hard part was to figure out what to prepare for the interview
The best investment for me was to look up interviewer online to be able to have a relevant small talk.
For a tech side - if it’s a big company you can try to search for what they ask beforehand
If it’s a small startup it’s relevant to look up papers they published or products they’ve maid and try to figure out what problems are relevant for them and work on those
Also simply ask HR - they are usually open about what will happen during the interview
Old_Dragonfruit2200@reddit
One of the rare good posts in this subreddit. Very well written
410_clientGone@reddit
this didn’t tell me anything i already didn’t know.
zerwigg@reddit
4 & #5 are most important imo
janyk@reddit
The problem with this advice is it presupposes that people are making choices that are causing them to run into difficulty.
Taking long breaks? The people I know who are long-term unemployed are not taking long breaks and are constantly looking for their next role.
And absolutely none of them had the luxury of getting offers for lucrative jobs in tech stacks or fields they didn't want to work in. You think people are struggling to figure out what they want? They're in survival mode and wanting to pay the bills. They don't have their needs met to begin self-actualization
FulgoresFolly@reddit
It's not out of touch, it's just not aimed at the desperation cohort.
CheeseburgerLover911@reddit
How did you figure out what you wanted?
Shallow86@reddit
What resources did u use for prep?
bigorangemachine@reddit
This wasn't a problem for me.
I openly said I took a sabbatical and I did some temp contracts. I learned linux/debian, node & c#.
My C# project has been an absolute interview hook for me because it had a great community response.
So I would say that if you do take a longer gap... have something to really show for it
CurrencyPrimary8674@reddit
Much needed! Thanks for this 😄
laueos@reddit
Congrats for getting the offers! 😊👍🏻