Any suggestions for new hobby that’s cheap and easy to get into?

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SubieGal9@reddit

Your mom, but you knew that.

Seriously though, kayaking isn't too expensive. If you're more of an indoor person, the national archives (I think) is looking for volunteers to transcribe old documents.

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A lot of people have said gaming. BUT if your wife was complaining about you not being present while high, gaming isn't going to be the solution. When I was married I gamed specifically to avoid my wife.

I'm not saying don't pick up a controller and play, but if your goal is more interaction with your wife then maybe keep looking for a better hobby.

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GeoHog713@reddit

Start fishing.

It doesn't have to be expensive. You can get a rod, real, and enough lures to start out for $100

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Insightseekertoo@reddit

I paint and exercise, although a recent wrist injury has sidelined both. It takes FOREVER to heal these days.

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BakedGoods_101@reddit

I'm with you on this, my husband do gaming and I can't comprehend why so many women hate it, it makes me really happy to hear him playing in the background while I read my book :)

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Automatic_Gas9019@reddit

Pickleball. She can go too. Adult coloring books. Cooking. Take what you normally do in the kitchen and learn new recipes.

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doglady1342@reddit

Do you like to cook? If so, you might like foraging. It's something you and your wife can do together. You'd get out in nature, unplug, and learn something new. Plus, it's free!

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Tanya7500@reddit

Darts

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IKnowAllSeven@reddit

Birdwatching.

You just need your eyeballs.

I suggest finding your local birding groups , they might be audubon society or have another name, and look at your local metro parks or whatever they are named by you.

Download Merlin and ebird. Merlin helps you identify birds, ebird tells you hot spots. They’re both frwe

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GenericRedditor1937@reddit

I wouldn't say I'm a "birder" yet, close, because I can't identify most birds without Merlin listening and I don't bring my binoculars and camera to the park every weekend, but it's funny how this interest just sneaks up on you around a certain age (42-50).

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OsideOps@reddit

It really does!😄

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tex_hadnt_buzzed_me@reddit

Raging against the machine

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BrewtalKittehh@reddit

Just don’t be the machine against which we rage

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tex_hadnt_buzzed_me@reddit

This is harder than it sounds. I try to at least be aware when I'm an unwilling or at least uncomfortable cog in the machine.

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root_fifth_octave@reddit

But despite all my rage, I am still just a rat in a cage u kno?

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marge7777@reddit

I always wanted to geocache.

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ShelbyDriver@reddit

I need to get back into it.

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Pitbullcharm@reddit

Adult paint by number

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midlife_dadpulse73@reddit

Rc cars are pretty damn fun. You can buy in relatively cheap (do research) and its fun any time of day, any season...

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analogpursuits@reddit

Slot cars, for that matter!

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midlife_dadpulse73@reddit

I'd love to get a nice AF/X set-up, just don't have the space to leave one assembled for any length of time.

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analogpursuits@reddit

Same for us. Would have to suspend it from the garage rafters, or some such nonsense. My partner used to go with his dad when he/we lived elsewhere and his dad was alive. He has his dad's whole collection and they are really cool. There is no slot car track where we now live though. 😭

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KarmaBike@reddit

Simply wandering in the woods is free, healthy and it’s always changing

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acoffeefiend@reddit

Exercising. Start with 20min/day. Running.

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SWNMAZporvida@reddit

I color. It’s intensely satisfying to have complete control over a little scene and getting to rip it up if you don’t like it.

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analogpursuits@reddit

Learn to play cribbage and teach your wife. It's an easy, interactive game, and it's quick to play each round. Cribbage groups often meet up for little tournaments at local breweries where I live.

My partner just took up crocheting in December. He really loves it! There is a local group that meets twice weekly where I live for sip-n-stitch (again, local breweries). They're such cool people, of all ages and genders. We've already hung out with some of the group at a potluck recently. Not your granny's knitting circle, I can tell you that!

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peterw71@reddit

Bird watching. Gardening. And some other stuff my parents used to do...

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One_Love_Mama@reddit

ha! I'm your parents

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chester219@reddit

Same

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peterw71@reddit

Me too! Worse things could happen, they seemed pretty happy.

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MariaInconnu@reddit

Crocheting or knitting. You can talk to someone while doing those.

For the love of your relationship, don't take up gaming. If she thinks you're there but not present with edibles, it will be moreso with gaming.

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BigDaddyBull_1989@reddit

Disc golf.

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Status-Effort-9380@reddit

Pinball. If you have a place nearby that is on free play (pay one cover price and play all you like), or better yet has a membership.

There are tournaments once you get into it.

Find a location near you on Pinball Map.

https://pinballmap.com/

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303FPSguy@reddit

Gaming.

Get a console or a gaming laptop and get a hobby you can enjoy into your 90s

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chester219@reddit

Hear me out. Birdwatching. Download the Merlin app and buy a pair of used nocs off eBay and you'll never be bored again.

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Formal_Plum_2285@reddit

Not to brag or anything but I have a pair of longtailed tits in my garden. If not for Merlin I wouldn’t have known something that cute even existed. Also I wouldn’t have 3 pairs of binoculars and I definitely wouldn’t have rolled pinecones in pigs fat mixed with grainworms and nuts and raisins all winter 😂

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NegotiationNo7851@reddit

I have been thinking about birdwatching thanks for the suggestion on the app!!

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Mistervimes65@reddit

Merlin is a great app. I also recommend a feeder with an inexpensive webcam pointing at it.

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Ok-Lingonberry-8261@reddit

Yes.

Although in six months, if OP is anything like me, he'll be pricing 400 mm primes and stacked-sensor mirrorless bodies.

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leungadon@reddit

Pickleball :D but I saw somebody elder mention birding, also a great idea, esp if you have a nice park near you or a local group if you’re into meeting new people

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GreatOdinsRaven_@reddit

internet pornography?

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Not_High_Maintenance@reddit

Pretty sure 56 year old me is not the demographic they are seeking. 😜

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ONROSREPUS@reddit

Hey this is one hobby some might make money at instead of loosing money. But if you are making money on it, is it still a hobby or just another job?

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GreatOdinsRaven_@reddit

Idk I must be doing it wrong.

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ONROSREPUS@reddit

Wait maybe I should have asked, Are you looking or making it? lol.

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GreatOdinsRaven_@reddit

I don't kiss and tell u/onrosrepus

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Fistofpaper@reddit

Isn't that just the Internet?

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GreatOdinsRaven_@reddit

So good, lol

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Reddiculusness@reddit

whittlin' on the front porch

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ONROSREPUS@reddit

Sounds fun until you start getting into fancier and fancier knifes. Next thing you know you will be doing chainsaw caricatures.

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Reddiculusness@reddit

Lumberjack

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_Norfolk_Ingway_@reddit

This made me lol

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Reddiculusness@reddit

I think about Jed Clampett every time I hear " whittlin' '

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u16173@reddit

Disc golf

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Formal_Plum_2285@reddit

Lol I was gonna suggest that. How random. I mean it’s not that common.

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SirPonix@reddit

There's over 11,000 disc golf courses in the US alone, so I wouldn't say it's uncommon.

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Formal_Plum_2285@reddit

I’m not from the US. But there are +250,000 tenniscourts and 400,000 basketball courts in the US, so 11,000 is not exactly mainstream

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u16173@reddit

I see a bunch of others suggested it before me.

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AppropriateDark5189@reddit

Not dog sports.

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Not_High_Maintenance@reddit

Why not?

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BrewtalKittehh@reddit

Buy a cheap acoustic guitar and take any of the volumes of free lessons on youtube. Get really good like, write some songs about our generation, monetize yourself and retire wealthy! Or, at least the first part.

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tonna33@reddit

geocaching

Use the website. They also have an app (and they push the app) but you can find way more on the website than you can on the app.

I just started. It gets me out of the house, and I can do as little or as much as I want to. I'm excited to try to find as many as I can that are around my small town. There's a lot! I was pretty surprised.

Check out r/geocaching to get an idea of what it is.

I'm not a very active person. It's easy to do and doesn't require much, other than walking, a phone (or gps), and a pen.

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Not_High_Maintenance@reddit

This is fun!

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Muted_Evidence1311@reddit

Sewing. Surprise her with a new summer skirt.

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Sufficient_Stop8381@reddit

Boobery

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Diela1968@reddit

3d printing. If you have a computer and start designing your own replacement parts around the house and fix things it will get you extra bonus points with your spouse.

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Sillygoose1979@reddit

My husband and I play together on a pool league. It’s how we met 15 years ago, but I quit after I had a baby. We got back into it 2 years ago and it’s so fun. We play APA and they have leagues everywhere. APA is also geared to beginners- teams NEED lower ranked players. It does cost money but you can get decent cues for cheap.

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Secret-Avocado-Lover@reddit

Building those plastic models we used to put together as kids. Fun as adults too. Planes, cars etc.

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HuchieLuchie@reddit

Drawing. I picked this up about a month ago after spending the last ~50 regretting I couldn't draw. There are tons of free learning resources. Other than that, if you avoid the impulse to buy up all the expensive tools, you have everything you need on hand. I spend every evening now drawing for an hour or so and it's been an awesome destressor.

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Geniusinternetguy@reddit

I am a freelance illustrator and i mostly learned on printer paper with a mechanical pencil.

Even when i started making money i had a $200 tablet and some bundled software.

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SufficientOpening218@reddit

theres a great book, old school, called Drawing on the Artist Within, by Betty Edwards. came out when we were kids. she also wrote Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain. both take you from "I can barely hold a pencil" to really seeing and drawing, with a nice discussion of why art teachers dont teach drawing as a skill. very fun, and again, written in our error

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Formal_Plum_2285@reddit

Depends on what you like to do. But discgolf, doordashing (which I oddly find to be a lot of fun. But mostly cause I get to ride my electric scooter), youtube drawing/painting classes, darts and Pokemon Go.

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bigredroyaloak@reddit

A hobby that both of you might like especially with the warmer weather is letterboxing. Www.Atlasquest.com short or long hikes in parks, the woods, cemeteries to find lil hidden rubber stamps. More info on website. Very little expense but gas, a logbook, and ink. A lot of fun and if you have any artistic ability you might carve yourself a stamp to plant for others to find.

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Cynically_Sane@reddit

Oh, I am loving this idea and have never heard of it before. Now I'm ready to run out hunting for the treasures! I always thought geocaching sounded interesting and fun but somehow I never did it. Do you mind explaining how the two are different? Is it just the treasures are stamps?

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bigredroyaloak@reddit

Well the treasures are the stamp impressions. You don’t actually take the stamp just an impression of it. The box usually has a stamp and a logbook for the finders to sign or impress thier own signature stamp. You rehide in the same place for the next finder. The website has ways to look for boxes by city. And a way to log whether or not you found it. Each stamp has a clue and symbols to tell you how long of a hike it is (can be a drive up all the way to 8 mile hikes) and if it’s available all year round. The clue can be step by step directions or a puzzle or cypher to figure out where it is. Usually a conifer bush. It is very much in that sense like geocaching. There’s also events to meet others and get limited time boxes. I’ve carved my own and planted some in nearby places that didn’t have any. I’ve found many on vacation. It started in England a long time ago and I even found one in Ireland.

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bigredroyaloak@reddit

Well the treasures are the stamp impressions. You don’t actually take the stamp just an impression of it. The box usually has a stamp and a logbook for the finders to sign or impress thier own signature stamp. You rehide in the same place for the next finder. The website has ways to look for boxes by city. And a way to log whether or not you found it. Each stamp has a clue and symbols to tell you how long of a hike it is (can be a drive up all the way to 8 mile hikes) and if it’s available all year round. The clue can be step by step directions or a puzzle or cypher to figure out where it is. Usually a conifer bush. It is very much in that sense like geocaching.

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suzmckooz@reddit

My husband and I were kind of over just sitting on opposite ends of the couch while watching tv. We went back to board games 1-2 nights a week. Some are pricier than others, but it’s a fun way to spend time together without being glazed over.

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send2steph@reddit

Puzzles are fun too. We are addicted to https://magicpuzzlecompany.com/

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Jayrandomer@reddit

Used DSLRs can be found on marketplace for a few hundred dollars and you can take essentially infinite photos.

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CuriousMind149@reddit

Or iPhone photography if a camera is too expensive. It helps to have some prompts to get started. Like, go on a 20-minute walk and photograph everything that is orange. There are lots of books and online resources to give ideas.

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siliconsmiley@reddit

Curse at the wind. Totally free. Marginally satisfying.

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OptiGuy4u@reddit

I tried urinating upwind which is also free but in the end I just got pissed.

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I_love_Hobbes@reddit

I have two hobbies.

Coloring maze pictures and crochet.

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Jillee2@reddit

Rock painting! So so soothing and acrylic paint is cheap!

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Bjorn_Blackmane@reddit

Bird watching

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KaleidoscopeEqual790@reddit

Brazilian jiu jitsu. 2 months in at 52

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pugdaddy78@reddit

Disc golf costs about $40 to get started for a couple disks. Most courses are public and free.

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Barbara1Brien@reddit

Two things I’ve recently discovered that I’m going to look into… 1) Competitive jigsaw puzzling, and 2) Beads (for making jewelry or decorative displays.) They may or may not be expensive, not sure.

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jk_pens@reddit

You can get a decent electric piano for pretty cheap especially if you find a used one. All the tutorials you could ever want for free online. And of course, you can repurpose some of your monthly edibles spend on lessons if you want to. :-)

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MaximumJones@reddit

Crushing your enemies, seeing them driven before you, and hearing the lamentations of their women.

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ser_froops@reddit

Do you want to live forever?

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TestForPotential@reddit

Figuring out the riddle of steel also.

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murdermeMickey@reddit

Origami

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turrboenvy@reddit

Is $70 a lot of money? I'm learning guitar on a $70 acoustic my wife got off Amazon. You might be able to get a better guitar for less in the used market.

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schwelvis@reddit

Geocaching

Letterboxing

Disc golf (although, this will just lead you back to weed!)

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IkaIka239@reddit

Got back into vintage audio, cassettes mostly. Had forgotten how awesome vintage analog

gear sounded, so much better then streaming digital music.

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cmt38@reddit

Kayaking is fun and you can get into it for a few hundred bucks if you have somewhere nearby to paddle.

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optionoob2024@reddit

disc golf

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Shaved_taint@reddit

I was just coming in to say disc golf. I just picked it up a few months ago but I'm obsessed with it. It doesn't have a high price point for entry, most areas have free courses available, and it's challenging enough to remain interesting but also easy enough to pick up after watching a couple youtube videos

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Fistofpaper@reddit

If you toss Innova or Discraft, SUPER cheap. If you toss trilogy discs (Dynamic, Latitude 64, & Westside) like me....not so much lol. But your comment is 100% true for a beginner, and my added details are more like moving equipment from generic Wilson clubs to Titleist/Ping for ball golf.

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Clueless-2020@reddit

Paper quilling. https://youtu.be/6YWW6RmhwP0?si=ByvHUPM63JoWM2C8

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Dirty_Bird_RDS@reddit

Are there any activities your wife might like to join you in? It sounds like she wants to connect with you more. It might be worth taking up a hobby you can share, like tennis (if you have courts available) - functional racquets and balls would not be super expensive. Ditto for pickleball. Hiking is a great opportunity to connect and talk while you explore, and has very little entry cost (good shoes and water bottles will get you operational). Other advantages of sharing hobbies include being able to split costs - you could paint miniatures together, and you’d just have to get one set of paints.

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local_weather@reddit

My two cheap hobbies are running and yoga. Yoga is actually the cheapest because technically you don’t need anything, you can start by watching YouTube videos and decide if you want a mat or not. For running just get some decent shoes and you’re good to go.

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AVLThumper@reddit

Guitar. Buy a used guitar for around $200, and there are crazy amounts of free lessons on line. Start with Justin Guitar. Free at website, charges a fee for the app. You don't need the app.

There are free tuner apps, and too many YouTube videos. Have fun!

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Vandilbg@reddit

Or if you have the muscular stumps of a bass man. Bassbuzz is a great place to start.

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Rutibegga@reddit

Came here to say music (guitar is my weapon of choice, picked up a year ago for similar reasons) as well. Lots of different ways to learn how to make joyful noise! Voice is free, instruments... can be found inexpensively if you look at used.

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blacklabbath@reddit

Video games on a per hour basis are pretty good value. Especially if you buy games on sale. Example- you can sink 50-60hrs into a $20 game.

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turrboenvy@reddit

Video games have always been the best bang for my buck on a $/hr basis. Until I got into Star Citizen, but that's beside the point.

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wizoneaia@reddit

Try asking your wife if there’s a fun new hobby you can both share and be present with each other while you quit edibles

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dth1717@reddit

Try reading a book.

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tigers692@reddit

I used to do a thing called “sex” it was cheap and easy to get into, it became more expensive later on…but we are probably at an age that the eighteen year expensive portion won’t occur. :-)

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wishyouwouldread@reddit

Collect Hot Wheels. Limit to either a specific color, or a specific manufacturer. Limit yourself to only buying at stores and not online. Under 2 bucks a car.

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ku_78@reddit

Board games. So many out there now. We bring Bananagrams on vacation and strangers see us playing and jump right in.

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Rutibegga@reddit

Right, and puzzles too! Love a good audiobook/puzzle combo, personally.

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DocDerry@reddit

Kama sutra. Roleplay.

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warrenao@reddit

Always stretch and warm up first, though, because explaining to your doc exactly what you were doing when you tweaked your back that much can be kinda embarrassing.

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DocDerry@reddit

If I have to have an awkward conversation with my doc - I'm going to make it just as awkward for him. Graphic detail.

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warrenao@reddit

I like this plan.

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ONROSREPUS@reddit

I am sure the storys that they could tell would be amazing and slightly awkward. Clearly nobody has seen the TV show "sex sent me to the ER"

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ONROSREPUS@reddit

Sexual related stuff isn't cheap!

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DocDerry@reddit

It's like guitars or any other fun hobby. You get what you pay for.

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ONROSREPUS@reddit

That was why my reply to this thread was laughing at cheap hobbies. they may start that way but they don't ever seem to end that way. Pretty soon you will want to upgrade.

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DocDerry@reddit

Absolutely. I went through it with hockey, guitars, beermaking, and computers.

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elphaba00@reddit

The costs just add up when you decide to build a dedicated sex room

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DocDerry@reddit

It's a cheap hobby to get into. If they want to get dedicated and go all in at some point theres going to be an investment.

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Tangboy50000@reddit

Mushroom hunting. Rock hunting. Hiking.

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Wildworld333@reddit

Rock hunting?

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Same_Lack_1775@reddit

Requires a higher caliber bullet but otherwise is similar to regular hunting.

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warrenao@reddit

The hard part is stalking them. They're very shy, and extremely good at both playing dead and blending into the background.

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warrenao@reddit

Sure, AKA rockhounding. You go out on hikes and find interesting rocks. There are more of those than you might think. Ask any geologist. Or rockhound. Or gem/mineral show attendee.

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Wildworld333@reddit

Interesting! Will look more into this. Learn something new every day!

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warrenao@reddit

Careful; it's a bit of a rabbit hole and can become addictive. I've managed to avoid the trap myself, but I can see the fascination of it.

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Genny415@reddit

Get a serger and learn how to sew your own custom fit tee shirts

Not a whole generalized learn-to-sew endeavor, just specialize in getting good at that one thing you wear a lot.

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Schnelt0r@reddit

Pokemon Go

Yes, you can spend money, but you don't have to.

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Betsy_Draper@reddit

Agreed with this! This gets us out of the house walking around. No prior knowledge of anything Pokémon is required

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imnotmarvin@reddit

Low effort, zero dollar (assuming you have Internet access), viewing old maps on the Library of Congress website. A high percentage of maps are fairly pedestrian but some are amazing and fun to look over. This old Chicago Gangsters map for instance.

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NoFollowing7781@reddit

I took up knife throwing.... it's like playing darts, but with more testosterone....

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paulrin@reddit

Cooking, It takes care of your present demands, and fulfils the ones around you. Have fun.

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Gulf_Coast_Girl@reddit

I don't think "hobby" has ever gone hand-in-hand with "cheap" for me 🤣

Are you looking for a hobby you two can do together or just for you? Are you looking for a physically active hobby or more of a sedate / sit down type hobby?

I'm going to assume you mean one you can do together so you can 'reconnect' and give you some ideas:

ACTIVE hobbies These may not seem cheap but keep in mind, you can buy things second hand through places like FB Marketplace or goodwill.

Paddleboarding or kayaking
Bike Riding / trail riding
Gym/working out
Yoga classes
Gardening

SEDATE hobbies

Gaming (console or PC)
Board Games
Ceramics
Bingo
Model building

Those are just some off the top of my head.

Good luck!

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Auslander808@reddit

Old school models. Planes, cars whatever.

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Cinisajoy2@reddit

Cross stitch, embroidery, oh make that any of the needlearts. Drawing, coloring (with colored pencils.

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Cynically_Sane@reddit

Go explore the nature areas and forage items that you can create art with when you get back. The possibilities are literally endless with this one.

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justsmilenow@reddit

If you like edibles, you should try baking.

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Genny415@reddit

This is the real hack. You can save so much money on buying baked goods.

Have you seen the price of muffins lately? They are a good beginners project.

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WI762@reddit

Hiking, as others have said. Disc Golf for more active hiking.

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Fistofpaper@reddit

Disc Golf. There CAN be a cost later on if you stick to it and want to buy custom/tailored gear, but to try it out? $30 at a Big 5 to get a starter pack of Innova discs and the free version the U-Disc app will have you set. Most courses are free unless there happens to be a parking fee at a state park; even then it costs more for a gallon of gas nowadays.

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craftyrunner@reddit

Reading and watching movies from the library, walking/hiking. Learn to juggle. Body weight exercises. Cooking/baking.

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mandoaz1971@reddit

Hiking

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NotReallyButMaybeNot@reddit

Low cost, can be done solo or a group, low impact… checks all the boxes

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Zapp_Rowsdower_@reddit

Yep. Best thing going.

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TestForPotential@reddit

Fishing, puzzles, board games you can play with your wife. There’s a fantastic game for 2-4 people that my gf and I play all the time called crokinole…very addictive.

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Genny415@reddit

Crokinole is fun in the same way and circumstances as beer pong

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metalheaddad@reddit

Build a model car/plane/boat

Paint miniatures

Build an RC car/truck

Learn to play guitar (acoustic doesn't have to be expensive, online lessons are cheap or free)

Retro gaming (get an anbernic handheld)

Indoor rock climbing

Painting or pottery

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No-Neighborhood8403@reddit (OP)

Some good suggestions. I have a guitar, that I can play a little bit. I have a Nintendo Switch for gaming. Model building could be fun. I’ve also built a couple Lego sets, and wouldn’t mind trying another one

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metalheaddad@reddit

I got into RC car builds over covid and for about the same money as a nice Lego set I think they offer a ton more fun.

You can use them
The build process and setup resemble a real vehicle in more ways than Lego
The painting process is incredibly enjoyable (at least for me)
Depending on the model you get you can build one chassis and get dozens of different body shells and wheels to make entirely different cars without having to build from scratch
Endless modification opportunities

Check out some YT videos for Tamiya RC car builds and retro collectors.

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GrayMalchin@reddit

Crochet is fairly affordable and you’ll save money on hats and mittens.

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RMDVanilaGorila@reddit

Dancing lessons

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Bl8kStrr@reddit

Go to the gym

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livingPOP@reddit

PSA: Stay away from Stationery! Specifically 160gsm Notebooks & Fountain Pens.

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Ceamba@reddit

Oh god it took me a while to get over my paper goods addiction. Still have a life’s supply of notebooks of various sizes, colors, binding, etc.

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KelseyW315@reddit

Reading. Get a library card

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notanyimbecile@reddit

Learn a musical instrument.

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thelaineybelle@reddit

Been thinking of getting back into guitar & flute. Art & music is so restorative for balance.

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notanyimbecile@reddit

Yep, and playing a musical instrument develops a whole new part of the brain, it's almost like learning a new language.

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WBRobot@reddit

Couldn’t justify the expense of buying a saxophone again, but $300 for a decent harmonica and online lessons fit the bill nicely.

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ayapapaya50@reddit

Birdwatching

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Mrjlawrence@reddit

Reading. Hiking. Birdwatching.

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PlatypusDependent271@reddit

Collecting Hot Wheels cars the mainline cars are $1.35

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ku_78@reddit

I just bought a limited run one for $20 because it’s modeled after my new to me car. I can see how people could get into it.

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ArmadilloDays@reddit

Crochet travels well.

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Oldebookworm@reddit

I was going to say that, but wasn’t sure it was appropriate. I walk the dogs, crochet, whittle and (haven’t done it in while) practice a musical instrument

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ArmadilloDays@reddit

r/brochet r/crochet

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theoretical_hipster@reddit

Cornhole. Download Scoreholio app and find local blind draws to play in.

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Ok-Produce8376@reddit

Maybe find out what your wife is into and spend some time doing that with her?

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bigredroyaloak@reddit

Not a bad idea at all. Start dating your wife OP

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LarryGriff13@reddit

Reading.

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boybrian@reddit

Geocaching to get out and about.

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Tv_Rots_Your_Mind@reddit

GMTA🤓.

I came here to say caching too. 🛰️🧭🤳

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Weekley13@reddit

Kayaking. Buy a used one & find a lake to start. Then you can start doing creek or river excursions. Pretty minimal effort & super chill if you want it to be.

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jesuschristjulia@reddit

Sashiko

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Bokononfoma@reddit

I was coming to suggest meditation, and it looks like you're already being asked to be more present. Over the past couple years, meditation has been a huge deal for me. There are apps out there that make it really easy to get started. I use Calm and Happier Meditation.

If you want a free month I can message you. I love it. It has a way of moving into your life. I even plan intentional quiet time to turn everything off, sometimes plan on eating silently just focusing on the food. As weird as that sounded to me a couple weeks ago, things like that have become things I look forward to.

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drhoads@reddit

Running is cheap. Get a cheap used bike and start cycling. If you have local open courts, tennis, basketball.

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woodya1@reddit

Grow mushrooms

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El_Peregrine@reddit

Grow cannabis

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woodya1@reddit

Well I think that’s to in line with what he’s getting away from

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-Granby-@reddit

Dome this several times using a fruiting chamber. Not very rewarding till the end. It is a lot of waiting.

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RCA2CE@reddit

I started fishing a couple of months ago, love it

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Awe3@reddit

Find something to do with your wife. Go for a walk. Getting high isn’t a hobby.

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Usuallyinmygarden@reddit

Bird watching, walking, taking local shelter dogs for outings, making salsa (grow some peppers this summer), start an herb garden.

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johnmflores@reddit

Are you looking for something that you can do with your wife OR in the presence with your wife (i.e., same room each doing your own thing)?

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MedsNotIncluded@reddit

I‘m practicing options trading.. but actually.. it doesn’t really fit either of your criteria..

Both can kinda be true, just not generally.. cheap is also relative.. in this case the hobby actually makes you money, but requires at least some capital.. 🤷🏼

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Twisted_lurker@reddit

Indoor roller skating. I got into it around age 50. Climate controlled workout with music (usually not good music).

It is weirdly wholesome. I’ve been to several rinks and never see bad behavior. Nobody cares how awkward you look or what pads you wear.

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mjskiingcat@reddit

Join the ymca- take an exercise class like Zumba there and meet people who don’t smoke weed. Really important to find a readymade healthy type community.

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the_natis@reddit

Listening to music with intent.

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-Granby-@reddit

Reading for me. It's really all I do and it's basically free if you are near a library. You can search and put holds on things. If you get crazy like I do then you can get a Kindle and then you have even more options. I also collect books and between thrift stores and garage sales and library sales I have built my collection to over 1,000

If you have the patience guitar is nice. Couple hundred bucks for an entry level Epiphone electric and a small 15 watt amp with a lead cable and you're good. If you're patient it will give you enjoyment for the rest of your life and the great things is as you get better it becomes more fun. Endless resources with the internet too.

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kcsews@reddit

Also libraries have lots of games,puzzles, seeds! Some have tools even a little singer!

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-Granby-@reddit

Tons of stuff at the library. My library has things you mentioned and cake pans and fishing gear you can borrow. They put on free events and movie nights. It's awesome.

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platypusandpibble@reddit

Don’t forget Libby (reading ebooks from a lot of different libraries) and the Gutenberg project.

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-Granby-@reddit

Of course. That's why I said you have more options when you get a kindle. Plus you get Kindle Unlimited for three months free and if you're like me you can run through a lot of books in that amount of time.

Also you can get tons of free classics and such from https://www.gutenberg.org/

Free to own. Then you can send them right to your Kindle https://www.amazon.com/sendtokindle

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joe127001@reddit

Buy a new Yamaha F830 acoustic guitar. Great entry level instrument and you’ll only need to buy strings a few times a year. There are so many free online tutorials as well. Enjoy.

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vankirk@reddit

Eat a gummy, then go play disc golf:

low impact exercise
low cost of entry ($20-$30)
free at public parks
weed smoking and beer drinking kinda activity

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b1e9t4t1y@reddit

Pinball and antique cars. It’s sure to keep your wallet empty.

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ancientastronaut2@reddit

Do you got a soulful wrist?

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b1e9t4t1y@reddit

Supple. And could be soulful.

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RobsHereAgain@reddit

Get an older motorcycle and restore it like an old dirt bike or street bike maybe get two so she can join you

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Signal_Cake5735@reddit

Roller skating! Hiking!

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DiscerningBarbarian@reddit

Vigorous masturbation? Become a teenager again for free

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Phobos1982@reddit

Gardening.

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platypusandpibble@reddit

Learn a new language. There are so many free resources online.

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Thunder-Fist-00@reddit

Pickleball. Hiking. Lifting.

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retrofuturia@reddit

Gardening - it can be done at low/no cost outside of a few tools and an internet connection (and a place to garden). Native plants are abundant and free to propagate with a little know-how, and it’s great for the local environment besides.

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BoldBoimlerIsMyHero@reddit

I have a mostly native garden and it’s a joy to come home to.

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wisemonkey101@reddit

Also fun on edible’s.

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Plastic_Difference54@reddit

Collecting coins

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ArcherStirling@reddit

As a guy that hunts, works on cars, still teaches martial arts, former Marine, I can't stress doing yoga enough. It changed my life and I don't suffer from the pain I'd dealt with for over a decade.

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BoldBoimlerIsMyHero@reddit

What did you like doing when you were a teen? I’ve tried all sorts of new hobbies that I quit because they looked cool but just didn’t speak to me. Then I thought about what I used to do. I used to paint. Play guitar. Write music. Write stories. So I bought the nice paints I used to use, I replaced the guitar I lost in a fire years ago. I started writing a novel. And you know what? I’m sticking with these. I do them all the time now and I’m really happy with them.

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pagalvin@reddit

Grab a cheap guitar from Guitar World or Facebook Marketplace or your favorite venue. Learn the basics from YouTube. You'll be amazed how far you can get with 30 minutes a day if you stick with it for even a month.

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Fit-Dark-4062@reddit

Meshtastic if you're the nerdy electronics type

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RedEvil7@reddit

Napping is my preferred no-cost hobby😴

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iamrava@reddit

i came to say sleeping... so take my upvote. :)

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notarussian1950@reddit

Guitar

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No-Neighborhood8403@reddit (OP)

I have a guitar, but at best I’m a decent “campfire guitarist” (playing simple chord progressions. Not a bad idea if I spend some time trying to learn more. I’ve always wanted to play the blues

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AbsolutesDealer@reddit

Check out Justin Guitar on YouTube. Considered one of the best in the free lessons space:

https://youtube.com/@justinguitar?si=PpilMpa6FvFI_t_r

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-carolinagirl69-@reddit

There are probably some YouTube videos that could help. This would be my first choice of hobbies for you since you already own a guitar and can play some.

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Novel_Pin_6784@reddit

Best answer.

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Great-Bug-736@reddit

Disc golf

Its really fun and the more you suck the more exercise you get. Lol

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Crazy-Ad-7869@reddit

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Fly fishing. It'll get you outdoors and moving but is still relaxing and something you can do after work.

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SeattleChocolatier@reddit

Cooking. You have to eat anyway. If you get competent, you can have a huge range of cuisines at a fraction of the cost of restaurant meals, and you can plan effectively so you use up your groceries without waste.

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No-Neighborhood8403@reddit (OP)

This is a double win. Learning to cook great dishes sounds fun, and I’d earn points with my wife if I end up taking on a lot of the cooking duties 👍

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Rand_74@reddit

Bowling. It’s about a $300 initially investment

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ImCaffeinated_Chris@reddit

Geocaching

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JJQuantum@reddit

Disc golf is laid back and a lot of fun, and cheap.

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RockabillyHog@reddit

I've gotten in to gardening and cooking lately and they are both rewarding and relatively cheap.

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traveldalliance@reddit

Reading. Fiction. Non-fiction. Whatever you are into. Free books available at your local library. Not to mention getting out of the house to go there, spending time browsing the shelves is enjoyable. You can join a book club- or not.

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