Wondering what would happen

Posted by Infamous_Code_4078@reddit | studentloandefaulters | View on Reddit | 42 comments

Hey All! I have $100,000 in private student loans with a monthly payment of about $1000 I went to school for Film back in 2005 and nothing came of it, I wish my parents had actually had a talk with me about going to school for that type of career but here we are. Over the years the balance hasn't changed much and I have only been able to really afford the minimum. It has gone up a few times due to forbearance and deferments that were needed due to just life happening. I got married 10 years ago and we are both now in our mid 40's with the realization it will never be paid off. We also have a house payment, credit cards and a car payment and the only way to afford it is my husbands job. He works a manual labor job that is starting to take a toll on his body due to his age. What he makes he won't be able to for much longer so once he starts working less the money he makes will not be enough to pay them.

My question is if we end up not paying them what would they come after besides wage garnishment and my credit tanking. Honestly I don't care so much about that as his credit is still good and everything we take out is under his name due to one day we not pay them anymore. My name is not on the house, I only have one credit card under my name and the car is also not in my name. We live in Arizona which I know has laws about couples being together for a certain amount of time property belongs to both but I read that is if the house was bought after you were married which it was not, he got the home before we got married so I don't think they would go after that. I did co-sign on his truck which has now been paid off but I am not sure how that would be affected. Our other vehicle is only in his name but that was bought after we were married.

I have looked at maybe refinancing but it would only save us $200 a month, I thought that if I maybe let it go and let it go to collections that maybe the payment may be even less than that and we can settle on something way less but I don't know if they may try to sue which I would like to try to avoid.

Any suggestions would be helpful!!!