What were the mid-late 90s and the early 2000s like in the UK?
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Does anyone else feel nostalgic for a time that they didn't even experience?
I was born in 2008, which I assume makes fellow askukers feel old, lol, but I can't help but feel so jealous of people who lived through the mid-late 90s and early 2000s in the UK.
stories from family of this time just make it seem like it was the best time ever, and it sounds like it really was an exciting era.
I mean, the Internet was new, smart phones didn't exist, and the job market was actually good for young people.
I'm not saying that nowadays is all doom and gloom, but I really really wish that I was alive in the 90s-2000s, and for some reason, I feel nostalgic for that time.
Those of you who lived in this time, I'll be forever jealous of you, but also feel free to share stories of this time in the UK.
Do you feel nostalgic for a time you weren't even alive in?
WeeRower@reddit
it was great being the last of the teenagers who didn't have social media
DogtasticLife@reddit
I am forever grateful that all of my youthful indiscretions are only stored in the slowly waning memories of my peers
Hamsternoir@reddit
There's the very odd photo that may exist but thankfully not many so I think we got away with most things
lapodufnal@reddit
Even when I was old enough to be in clubs, one person in the group would bring a digital camera on the night out. Wasn’t like you did something funny and immediately snapped on a phone that’s in their hand, we have a load of photos from nights out but they’re all group photos where we’re aware of the camera and posing (or attempting to)
Mammoth-Passion-413@reddit
Polaroid FTW
Mammoth-Passion-413@reddit
Used to take a week to get a 110 camera from the Freemans Catalogue!
And even then I used to run around with it strapped to my shoulder turning the flash on like it was the laser on Johnny 5 LOL
UnderstandingTop1579@reddit
Prince Andrew thought the same thing. Good job he’s not one to sweat
uncleanwhispers@reddit
Yes to this. I grew up in a time where it felt like the world would just keep getting better and better and where there were no phones to record any of my foolery. Brilliant.
Diplomatic_Gunboats@reddit
Fortunately cameras were banned on the 18-30's holiday in Faliraki or there would be evidence of the half-eyebrow and shaved head after a blackout night on home distilled raki.
Hefty_Tip7383@reddit
Fortunately my peers were usually in a worse state than me. Probably.
Severe_Iron_5127@reddit
Amen. Plus now defunct lads mag "mate in a state" archives 🤦♂️
TedBaendy@reddit
I almost feel kinda sad that there one very pixelated pic of me at 14 and then nothing until I was 18ish. I almost wish the embarrassment was documented.
UnderstandingTop1579@reddit
What a great way to describe our situation
LegolasleChat@reddit
Memories only to be revived on the one day each year when your schedules align enough to grab a beer together.
kittysparkled@reddit
Holy shit yes
greenhail7@reddit
Absolutely.
Fun-Perception-666@reddit
Amen!
LostLoch@reddit
Also the last generation of teenagers with proper subcultures. The goths, the emos, the scenekids, the neds. How you presented had a social function, to let people know who you were and what your tribe was. Now they all look the same, as they’re mirroring the influencers with the polished aesthetic. The last generation of childhood.
Bloatville@reddit
This is the one that hits the hardest for me & still does.
It used to be that you could see someone else from your subculture and there'd be a reasonable chance you'd be of like minds.
You'd like the same music, you'd be on the same political wavelength, you'd have the same gripes about society etc... nowadays I see someone who looks like they should think like me, and they really fucking don't at all.
They'll just be some tosser who thinks vaccines made his dog gay.
LostLoch@reddit
This is so true. Subcultures were about finding your tribe. Teenagers are developing their identity, but this should be done in groups. In communities, where they feel safe. I say teenagers 20 years ago felt much safer expressing themselves than they do now.
Bloatville@reddit
Exactly. And on the subject of developing an identity, without the internet serving up subcultures as fast fashion trends, we also had to make or modify our own clothes, dye (and often destroy) our own hair, use questionable substances as makeup, buy music based on cover art without ever hearing it etc, so even within our chosen subcultures there was also still so much creativity & individualism.
Ofc we looked similar enough that we could recognise eachother, but we still had our own styles.
Very occasionally I'll still see a deeply awkward teenager who's obviously figuring it out without just buying it on the internet & I always want to hug them. But that would be uncomfortable for us both, so I don't haha
Empty-Question-9526@reddit
Chavs, metallers, skaters and emos still exist but lots of people are a mix of all of it
alltorque1982@reddit
Absolutely this. Late 90s and early 00s were fucking incredible, end of.
pajamakitten@reddit
Or where social media was the likes of MySpace or Bebo. You did not need to have it, your parents were not on it, there was no algorithm for it etc. Back then, social media was actually all about socialising.
trollofzog@reddit
Pro tip, you don’t need to have social media today either.
TedBaendy@reddit
The only real nostalgia I have is that parents had friends reunited and constantly lectured us on the concept of oversharing on the internet. How it flipped on its head so badly is crazy.
Severe_Iron_5127@reddit
Ha...met first wife on their dating spinoff site...her Mum had an affair with an old school chum of her and her Dad's (ex hub by that point though, in fairness)
Severe_Iron_5127@reddit
(they rekindled things via FR...a common phenomenon in the UK at the time, as I understand)
pajamakitten@reddit
That was true. You had a big distinction between adult and kid social media.
NoChanceItsHer@reddit
I'll have you know sir I was actually friends with Tom from MySpace. Humble brag, I know.
pajamakitten@reddit
He was in my top eight.
TheeHappyDude@reddit
I'm still really good friends with mates who I met through a football forum, that I didn't previously know, back in the early noughties. Just a handful of them, most of them were tossers.
Excellent_Spare_2239@reddit
Absolutely! And it's not even a deliciously ironic take to call current social media "antisocial media" because it does, genuinely, make people antisocial.
Sophyska@reddit
Even for those who did (à la MySpace/msn/forums/livejournal etc) it was a different time. Angsty lyrics and casual grooming. What a time to be online.
TedBaendy@reddit
MySpace, MSN, Vampire freaks, darkjournal and forums like SillyGoth (with the casual grooming included)
Sophyska@reddit
I remember being SO thrilled to be made mod in a few VF communities(groups? Forums? Can’t remember what they were called). I took it so seriously. I remember talking to my bf at the time about one drama and how we were resolving it and what my mod shift times were. Incredible. Paving the way for a middle management career and I had know idea.
wheepete@reddit
You're telling me all the incredibly hot 18 year old Californian goths that were VERY friendly with me, a gawky spotty lanky 14 year old boy from England might not have been real??
Sophyska@reddit
My friend from vampire freaks absolutely worked in an alt clothes shop in Camden at 14 and 100% hooked up with Laurie from The Rasmus in there, and I won’t hear any suggestion that it was a lie!
Static_Wraith0_0@reddit
Back when the internet had personality. Amazing times.
AwkwardTie9427@reddit
Same here. When I first got social media, I began to realise how toxic my age group really were online which was an eye opener.
ProD_GY@reddit
Yep it sure was!
TheIhsaan7@reddit
100% this. Many other generations forget that millennials have experienced 2 different worlds.
Here me out. We experienced a time without much technology. From cds to memory sticks to online content like streaming services. We used to play outside from dawn till dusk without a care in the world.
Fast forward the 2000s. Where technology really advanced. Now everyone and everything was online. Not many of us played outside or engaged with people. Video ganes, social media and streaming services really kicked off. And then the rise of smartphones cemented this way of life.
So just to sum up 90s kids are the last generation to experience a time with little to no technology as well as understanding how to utilise technology. I see my children and my nieces and nephews now. They will never experience a world without social media without saying something in school that won't be posted online. It makes me sad. Of course technology is good aswell a lot of positive can be achieved aswell
Altruistic_Fruit2345@reddit
The last of the young people who had hope. Before the first of the endless financial crunches, before the never ending austerity, before catastrophic climate change became inevitable.
PositiveRainCloud@reddit
100%. Playing about and not being secluded to your bedroom and house, glued to your phone taught us so many life lessons. It also gave us resilience and social skills.
Mammoth-Passion-413@reddit
I did - and I can tell you life before the internet was so so much better!
imnotabotimafreeman@reddit
fab time,i loved 80s metal at school in 80s then indie rock landed in mid ninties and music was just great, everyone was optimistic as we had a new govt in Tony Blair and nobody was unemployed. It was sunny every day and we lived in thecoolest place on earth. I got to celebrate my 25th in Singapore in early 90s too.
Simple_Psychology_22@reddit
Unemployment is higher today than it was in the late 90s. The issue is that our money doesn't go as far, housing costs etc are so much more
imnotabotimafreeman@reddit
but it was rougher in 80s under Thatcher, people were having their houses repossessed because interest rates were so high
Simple_Psychology_22@reddit
Sorry, I got my point the wrong way round! Today's unemployment is lower than it was in the late 90s. But yes, it was bad in the 80s
Time_Bus6858@reddit
Entertainment was more social, external to the home, and group orientated than it is now. It's already been said but you can see that through the greater number of pubs, clubs, kids playing out, town centre shopping, community events, youth clubs etc. If you wanted to have fun, you'd be more likely to go out and seek it rather than stay in (though I did both as a bookworm and when MSN came out I became glued to my PC!).
Today's era of convenience and entertainment at your fingertips has its upsides but overall I'm afraid we've lost something quite precious.
MTW27@reddit
The late 90s were pretty great. The internet was new (for most people) and not toxic or all-consuming; you could turn it off by turning off your desktop computer. There were phones but they had SMS and Snake and actual phone calls, not social media or emails. There was a new government and things seemed optimistic (whatever you think of Tony Blair now).
GreatChaosFudge@reddit
Interesting that you mention Blair. He didn’t take office until 1997. Prior to that, for more than six miserable years, we had the Major government, mired in recession, squabbling with itself, and mechanically carrying on with Thatcher’s privatisation (even privatising things she had no agenda for, like the water companies). The economy then felt as awful as it does today, even though in many ways we were much better off then.
And it was in the mid-90s that the lunatic, superficial, conspiracy-driven right wing really started to gain traction in America.
We’re right to look back on the 90s as a good time in many ways, but we mustn’t forget it was actually quite rough to live through.
ChilledEmotion@reddit
I like the point about non-smartphone internet. That was the right balance, you had your desktop PC, and once you came off it, that was it, you were back in the real world. People always say social media has killed everything, but I'd say the smartphone did the most damage, as it is the vehicle for it. I'm grateful I can remember the 2000s when it was better.
Agincourt_Tui@reddit
Sky News was absolutely 24 hours and very popular. I get your broad point, but news in this manner was well established
TheGeordieGal@reddit
Yeah, but how many of us had families who could afford sky? I think my uncle was the only person who had it. We don’t and none of my friends did.
Sparkly1982@reddit
Not even Rishi Sunak
Agincourt_Tui@reddit
By the end of the 90s? Lots. Either Sky or cable. And this was a poor area. This has now unlocked a memory when pretty much every street got dug up to install the cable lines
Skip_the_bard@reddit
And for some reason I remember all our phone numbers changed when we got it??
Agincourt_Tui@reddit
Maybe. We had two different numbers without moving house, so probably the same but I don't remember when or why we switched.
Imagine digging up every street now.... it'd take 35 years to get that project completed!
TheGeordieGal@reddit
Maybe it was just my area where nobody had it then…
Training-Trifle-2572@reddit
My friend's parents bought Sky instead of carpet.
pajamakitten@reddit
Sky was considered poor and common by the early 00s.
callisstaa@reddit
If you went out for a meal they wouldn’t constantly blast your phone with rage bait though. There was a disconnect and while I’m sure people would put it on to catch up on things or see coverage of major stories not many people were tuned in 24/7.
I really miss sky sports news though.
MTW27@reddit
Yeah, we had Sky News, but you had to choose to watch it - not as intrusive as notifications etc.
Particular-Bid-1640@reddit
To me, 24hr news then seemed a thing only lunies watched outside the 'normal' hours.
Now I'm disregarding articles about Iran/the hot topic that are over 8 hours old
Agincourt_Tui@reddit
I don't think it was seen as a loony activity back then. I think this is a modern perspective. Similarly, Facebook wasn't viewed in the same way back then... it was the better version of Friends Reunited, which effectively did serve that purpose
Canookles@reddit
I miss analogue snake
GrandDuty3792@reddit
Snake 2 when it went through the walls and back was a game changer
Canookles@reddit
Somethings don’t need to be improved
that_mountain_goat@reddit
quite literally a game changer
TedBaendy@reddit
I remember my dad creating my very first email when I was around 12 ish - my parents still use their original ones
Bossman_Mike@reddit
The Spice Girls became huge in an era where petrol cost 55p a litre and you could buy a house for £60k.
elbandito999@reddit
I still vividly remember the first time I got my computer on the internet - must have been around 1996. I had to move my computer into the hall as I didn't have a long enough phone cable at that point. For some reason one of the first things I found was a chat room. Suddenly I was chatting with this guy in Brazil. Pretty much blew my mind.
cregamon@reddit
I agree with all of this 100%.
The Internet came a little later for me - probably around 1998/1999 but I’d still give 2008 as the end of ‘peak internet’.
Europe_MMA@reddit
If you were raised in 90s and 00s, youd likely have wished you were raised in 70s or 80s.
2muchroom@reddit
We went out to the pub with a tenner, people let themselves go on a night out, nobody recorded anything, music was awesome, it was all about the there and then, people loved in the moment.
Simple_Psychology_22@reddit
I went on nights out and spent £10-15 in the late 90s!
Simple_Psychology_22@reddit
For context £10 in 1999 is worth roughly £20 today. Good luck having a night out for that!
Mrs_B-@reddit
Born in 78, so this was my era! Oasis Vs Blur, Euro 96. Got a temp job that turned into a job for life! Nights out in town where everyone knew each other and had your back.
It was the best time.
WotanMjolnir@reddit
I was born in '75, and I still believe that the best year of my life was 1996 - I was 20/21, still at University, good friends, great music, Euro 96, and an absolutely glorious summer of weather. I remember once or twice a week over that summer holiday meeting up with old school friends back from uni and just going into town for a couple of pints and a wander around. Happy, friendly nights out on the lash. Literally no cares, no responsibilities, more-or-less my whole adult life ahead of me glowing with opportunity, and it would be five years before 9/11 and then another 7 before the GFC completely fucked everything. If you offered me the chance to go back I wouldn't even give you the chance to finish the question
Goose-rider3000@reddit
I was born 77, and 1996 was awesome, but I think the early 90’s are underrated. Very exciting time in terms of music and youth culture.
IllustriousWedding94@reddit
Older than most in this thread, I was born in 72. Sixth form of madchester, the stone roses, so many indie guitar bands in 89/90 was incredible. Guns n roses emerged. Rave appeared from almost nowhere, trance blossomed. The early 90s were mega.
Still real pubs on every street, a pub crawl in an average town was two mins between pubs. Everywhere doing a good trade, some rammed.
No bloody mobiles.
I love my smartphone now but I am so glad that they didn't exist until I was in my mid 30s and mobiles only became "everyone has one" in my mid-20s.
Agree that I was part of a lucky generation. We never knew how much familiar was about to end over the next couple of decades.
Dazzling-Ad6085@reddit
Sixth form common room with The Stone Roses loudly coming out of a tape recorder. Town was heaving every night except Tuesday ( I lived in a uni town)
Saturdays spent buying vinyl, sitting in the park and smoking too much.
So much fun, no camera phones so no evidence !!
IllustriousWedding94@reddit
You got it. Our sixth form common room alternated stone roses, joy divisions love will tear us apart and appetite for destruction. Although we had a record player!
Hours browsing HMV or independent record shops. Buying an album only knowing a track or two before getting it home to play it.
A quid for a pint and 20p for a game of pool. Earning £3.60 an hour in sainsburys on an evening and Saturdays paid for a lot of fun.
daddywookie@reddit
The summer I turned 18. Down the pub to watch the Euros, into my mate’s car to drive home, singing It’s coming home at full volume and celebrating with the people we drove by. Long summer evenings and house parties, not knowing what would happen as we all headed off to university. It was just full of life at 100mph.
I don’t know if the world has changed or if we all just got old.
Imtryingforheckssake@reddit
I was 16 in 96 and I still agree it was the best year. I still own my "in the mix 96" volume 1, 2 & 3 CDs. So much nostalgia.
CarDry6754@reddit
1980s kid the same as me
Hamsternoir@reddit
The summer of 96 was one of the best of not the best of you were just into your 20s.
FunkyYoghurt@reddit
The 1990s as a kid were pretty cool outside of school.
You played kirby, football, bikes, rounders etc. You know if you randomly see a bunch of kids playing on the street? It's quite rare isn't it? It wasn't in the 90s. It was every weekend and every evening for a couple of hours after school.
I'm forever thankful that I was basically the last generation to grow up without social media. I did have MySpace as a late-teen but it's nothing like the level it is now.
There is a hint of rose-tinted glasses, though. I'm gay and school was pretty horrific. There was zero support and if it slipped out that I fancied Josh in Year 9, it was an almost guarantee I'd go without my dinner that day and have a bunch of boys slap me about in the playground area that teachers weren't around. School bus home would be horrific too.
CapitalCharming394@reddit
My gay friend was badly beaten on the last day of school in 2003...the school banned him from Prom (called him a trouble maker) but the violent bullies were allowed to attend! Police were involved but homophobia was not taken seriously then.
Brave_Assumption6@reddit
I wish there was a middle way of normality. Back then homophobia was far too common and not taken seriously. Now thankfully it isn't but gay culture is also being pushed too hard as I notice seeing the rainbow colours in a lot of places especially when irrelevant.
Like I visit r/games and I see the big banner is all game controllers in different LGBT colours. I mean, why? It's a gaming community, not about socio-political things.
FunkyYoghurt@reddit
See it from an alternative perspective. Pretty much 99% in everything in media is a man and a woman. I don't say "omg heterosexuality is shoved in my face all the time". The second there's anything gay, straight people say it's shoved in their face.
Brave_Assumption6@reddit
I'd counter that by saying heterosexuality is the natural and predominant norm in humans and all societies, so I don't see it as being an equal comparison. Even then, there is no 'colour' or some identity associated with it that things like that subreddit or say our Barclays Bank rebrand as for hetero causes.
zero_for_effort@reddit
Nowhere near as bad as this, but on the last day of term one year a guy who was homophobic and generally an [expletive deleted] just came up out of nowhere and punched me in the face. I told a teacher, who didn't do anything. That casual kind of violence was kind of just waved off.
R_Eyron@reddit
I miss not being stressed about technology. Early 2000s if the phone was down or you couldn't access the internet it didn't affect daily life, but now if you can't access payment cards or authenticator apps or IDs on your phone it's a complete nightmare.
ambergriswoldo@reddit
Fun. There was a lot of finding stuff out through friends - new music / a new movie / a band who were amazing live - nothing was easy to find out about online so there was constant “have you heard of…” conversations with friends. Making each other mix tapes / compilation cds with random obscure bands, meeting up to watch an old vhs of some unheard of film together. I just remember it being a time of constantly looking for and learning about stuff through friends - hearing the end of a song on the radio, writing down the lyrics and asking everyone about it until you found out who it was by, tearing out pictures from magazines of outfits or quotes and creating arty collage mood boards with them, making outfits and accessories ourselves because it wasn’t as easy as just searching for them online / buying them online. It was a very creative time
LiliWenFach@reddit
And when you saw a celeb and you thought 'HOT!' you couldn't just google them and find out everything about them. You had to look for them in magazines or movie posters, or inside album covers. Maybe you'd find an occasional interview.
Now, you can stalk your celeb crush online and learn every little detail about their lives, beliefs, relationships etc. An awful lot of the mystique and fantasy is gone.
But I think that's true about most people nowadays. We know too much about each other in general.
Routine-Pair-7829@reddit
It was probably great if you were straight, white and mainstream. If you were non-straight, non-white, and/or not ‘typical’ in your interests, appearance, or any other aspect of your being, it was pretty shit in terms of bullying, hatred of people like you being acceptable and mainstream (eg widespread homophobia, racism and jokes about anyone slightly ‘different’ all being acceptable), and it being very hard to connect with or see other people like you.
LiliWenFach@reddit
I wouldn't revisit my school days for a million pounds. I was not 'typical' (fat and bookish) and I was told to off myself and sworn and spat at and threatened... can't imagine how bad it must have been for victims of homophobia, racism, ablism etc. And there was no real concept of mental health or 'it's okay to not be okay'. It was ingrained into you that you just had to accept bullying, sexual harassment, assault or whatever. Telling someone you'd been a victim of SA would lead to slut shaming (twas ever thus, I believe). Telling someone you were being bullied or hurt made you a grass or a snitch. People were very dismissive of victims. You were just expected to 'get over it'. It never occurred to me to tell my parents all I suffered, because I suspected I would be blamed, as most victims were. Self-harm was seen as attention seeking. Going to a counsellor meant there was something wrong with you.
As you can probably tell, trying to 'get over it' and 'fight my own battles' didn't make me resilient- it made me angry and for a long time, full of self-hatred. I tell my kids, no matter what has happened, no matter what they did, they can always tell me. They probably won't, but I don't want them to grow up thinking I will treat them as my parents and teachers treated our generation.
jadenoodle@reddit
Correct. 2008 GFC was when it all went to shit in the UK
gearjammer24@reddit
Was a teenager in mid 2000’s starting to get to nightclubs where we had Scooter Basshunter Alice Dejay DJ Sammy Cascada and countless others that I can’t remember the name of was brilliant!!
Pretend_Branch9688@reddit
Super Mario World on SNES. Playing it literally all day with my best mate.
Having a paper round that meant I could eat my weight in sweets.
Home phones - asking your mates dad if he was in.
No photo evidence of messy nights out (and having to wait until a face to face to hear all the details)
FOMO wasn’t a huge thing so you found happiness in what you were doing
Sweet_Mall_6752@reddit
Penny a minute dial up internet
Napster
Sweet_Mall_6752@reddit
No mobile phones and certainly no requirement to have one even when they were more common
Actually talking to people
Friends being reliable
Secrets stayed secret
No worries about being snooped on
Cheap alcohol
Cheap nights out
Cheap holidays
Less stress
More money
Artonox@reddit
Communication was simpler and more well understood. We all knew how things worked more broadly, and we had to physically go somewhere to have fun. Unlike now where everything is "algorithms", "ai", nanotech bs.
Practical_Interview2@reddit
Fucking great as a lad growing up , boring in 1991 and I feel I had the best of everything growing up
60percentsexpanther@reddit
https://youtu.be/zYpDJw7fThU?si=1DqQV9T9GWsWAEhc
pretty accurate, could have been me and my mates houses before a night out
Suspicious_Neck_5156@reddit
People will be saying the same thing about this generation in 20 years so enjoy it while you can.
It was a good time but people tend to forget the anxieties of the day now they’ve passed. It’s called golden age thinking.
Fancy-Professor-7113@reddit
My daughter was born in 2011 and she's constantly nostalgic for this time because I never stop going on about it. It was also a peak time in London where we live
Sad_Branch931@reddit
Born in 1985 and I think it was the best time to grow up. Analogue childhood, digital adolescence.
Qrbrrbl@reddit
Agreed, and it was a completely different type of digital. The frameworks were there, it was easy to communicate with your friends, but it hadn't yet turned into the algorithm riddled monetised cesspit we see today.
Early mainstream Internet before smartphones was a very different place
Sad_Branch931@reddit
Yep. MSN Messenger was the pinnacle of our experience.
Responsible_Ad_9234@reddit
I can touch type as a result of my use of MSN 😂
Lox_Ox@reddit
Yesss me too!! Nice to see someone else going around saying this haha
llksg@reddit
Saaaame
inthepipe_fivebyfive@reddit
I'll see your MSN messenger and raise you ICQ messenger
Odd_Gap_9491@reddit
Pffft IRC
gentletonberry@reddit
I literally remember the first day I used MSN Messenger and how it immediately changed all my perceptions of Internet communication. I must have been about 12 or 13 and being able to converse in a constantly updating window in what felt like real time, rather than asynchronously on message boards and web pages that you had to refresh, just blew my mind.
BollockOff@reddit
I remember going onto the WWE (then WWF) chatroom to talk to random people and it was amazing to think i was communicating with people all over the world. That was back in 2001 when i was 13.
Skip_the_bard@reddit
The first time I used MSN my dad had downloaded it to try speaking with some cousins in Australia and being able to type to them in real time actually blew my mind
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
It was amazing wasn't it? Being able to chat to people the other side of the word in realtime!
ImStealingTheTowels@reddit
Same here.
I was at a friend's house when I first used MSN Messenger and the chat rooms. We sat there together chatting with people from all over the world in real time and the feeling I got from that was exhilarating; I just couldn't get over how easy it was to do. I was hooked from that moment on.
C5Galaxy@reddit
And even then it was a very small conversation and over (at least for me anyway!). Nowadays people addicted to social media, needing to communicate and document everything.
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
Yes very true, it was just fun at that time, no vibes or any of that nonsense.
WitchyRedhead86@reddit
Oh MSN Messenger! The absolute hub of post-school social life and the bane of parents. I adored talking to my friends on it. Memories. 🥹
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
Asl?
Particular-Current87@reddit
What you wearin bb? 🤣
I cringe at the stuff I said in chat rooms in the early 2000s
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
And then when someone replied "clothes" it was like ok!
Particular-Current87@reddit
I suspect now that those chat rooms were full of horny teen boys and old men pretending to be teens 😞
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
😱, yes I dread to think who I was chatting too sometimes!
MGSC_1726@reddit
What’s your addy?
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
Oooo you asked for my addy!! Eek
Prototype85@reddit
Born in 85. Peak of internet communications right here
Dap-aha@reddit
The dungeon was built, the traps had not been invented
Creative exploration mode was sick
Bossman_Mike@reddit
I remember the old internet. Back in those days it was an exciting adventure, every website had its own homemade feel to it, it felt unique and aspirational.
Nowadays it's an assault of advertising, we value your privacy, accept our cookies, paywall here, authwall there. Region locking and the internet being unusable without VPNs or adblockers.
Particular-Current87@reddit
Born in 86 and I completely agree, saw the golden era of the Premier League too
el_disko@reddit
Same and I’m so glad I got to grow up in that era.
We didn’t get a home computer until I was about 13 and then the internet a year or two later. It was a completely analogue childhood having to wait a week to watch the next episode of your favourite show; no streaming or catch-up. Setting the VCR to record it if you were out.
TelephoneOrnery1394@reddit
You got the unaffordable housing though
Chickenhugga@reddit
It was positive. You could see the future being bright.
heroics-delta8s@reddit
You would be surprised just how life has been taken over by technology. Most of it dates from the smartphone, and broadband role out. It jumped from the enthusiast to everyone. You might feel nostalgic but booking your holiday by teletext was a lot less fun than it seemed. Having to pay £2.15 a minute to speak to a friend you knew in Canada gets old very quickly. And a fifty five year old man with a heart problem was unlikely to see sixty.
Beginning-Note3818@reddit
The music was good, the films were good, the art still had some meaning, we never heard of billionaires, still had a chance of fixing the climate issues. And there were more birds and wildlife and clean rivers and waterways. I feel for young people today trying to get a home or even a job. Or make sense of this world. Good Luck Young People, I really mean it. And no, life is not fair.
Balnagask@reddit
Loved it apart from the homophobia. Took me a long time to stop hating myself for something I couldn't control.
Raves were great though. No social media. When you got home you could actually switch off from the world.
Mostly great!
Funky_Owl_Turnip@reddit
Section 28 and all the shit around it did our generation a huge injustice. I'm sorry you had to live through that.
BollockOff@reddit
As a kid I learned more about LGBT issues from South Park, Eurotrash and Jerry Springer than i ever did at school. They all made me fully supportive.
I can never understand why section 28 was a thing.
Balnagask@reddit
Thanks mate. Looks like we're heading back that way though. Sad times
Funky_Owl_Turnip@reddit
Yeah it's really fucked up. I feel bad for the Youth of Today for many reasons, and this is one of em.
Turbulent_Ad_880@reddit
If the online safety act doesn't end up being used to restrict young peoples' access to info on every sexuality other than hetero, I'll eat my socks.
el_disko@reddit
I still remember the outrage from the first episode of Queer as Folk or when George Michael was outed. I’m convinced it pushed me further into the closet
Balnagask@reddit
Sad isn't it. It was Eastenders and Shameless having gay characters that helped me realised it was OK to be me.
Feel so bad for Trans people for all the shit they're getting.
When will people accept you're born the way you are. "turning" someone isn't a thing!
Appropriate_Emu_6930@reddit
I remember as a kid homophobia with pretty rife, yet we didn’t understand it. I really regret some of my choice of words at school. It must have been difficult if you were not straight in the 90’s.
Nostalgia becomes very different when you put yourselves in other people’s shoes.
Balnagask@reddit
Yeah it was, and some of the shit my Dad used to say didn't help. A long time ago now though we're good now
JoniDeadpool@reddit
I was in secondary school Those times were carefree, bright, fun. I would go back in a heartbeat
Amonette2012@reddit
Buying alcohol underage was easy. I drank in pubs from 14.
IllustriousWedding94@reddit
I remember so many times being asked how old are you. 18. Job done.
Daveddozey@reddit
School trip to Cornwall in 1999 when we were 16/17, had great fun in the pub in St Just
Amonette2012@reddit
School trip to Ypres at 14 or15, so 1995-6 ish. Bought a bottle of Martini Rosso. Coach driver smuggled it in for us. A teacher found two of us shitfaced and playing cards in the bathroom in our nighties. They just sent us back to bed.
TheFirstGlugOfWine@reddit
God yeah, there was a pub in our town that all the kids drank in and some of our teachers went there too. The idea that a teacher wouldn’t safeguard their students now is wild but nobody cared back then.
HalveMaen81@reddit
A few of them may be a month or two south of proper, but being in here stops them from getting into trouble out there. The way we see it, it's all for the greater good
Trancer79@reddit
The greater good
Fun-Brush5136@reddit
There was an idea that keeping teens in the pub where they could afford less booze and had some grown ups keeping an eye out was better than them roaming the streets on vodka/mad dog/diamond white.
My in laws ran a big pub back in the 80s-90s in Birmingham and this was exactly their philosophy and they also got on well with the police, who agreed, and would tip them off if there was going to be a "raid" so they would kick out the underage boozers.
Mind you the police were all pissheads then so no wonder they were OK with it!
Amonette2012@reddit
Our pub landlord used to just put parsley in our vodka.
ToastMarmaladeCoffee@reddit
Parsley? Can you explain please
Amonette2012@reddit
He said it was good for the liver.
pajamakitten@reddit
Being in the same pub as them is great safeguarding though.
aspannerdarkly@reddit
I mean you can safeguard them better if you’re in the same room
Brighton101@reddit
Piccadilly 21s was not for 21 year olds…
SeesawOk1776@reddit
I was mid-20s in this period (I was 26 in 2000) and looking back, I can't believe how good I had it! I had a great job with a company that supported me and paid for my NEBOSH qualifications, I had a company car, I lived in a house share with two other girls who were friends of my age and every weekend was a party! To paraphrase Human Traffic - every weekend was pubs, clubs, drugs, dancing, laughter and sunshine! Free parties in the woods, Exodus parties, squat parties in Hackney. It was jumping the fence at Glasto and rounding out the decade by going to Burning Man in 2000. Very few photos exist now, but on the plus side, very few photos exist now.
Looking back, it does seem like the world changed when the twin towers came down - the sunshine and optimism dimmed. Obviously, this would have happened anyhow, once we grew up and out of our wild years. But for a short period, it was absolutely golden 🧡
Werthead@reddit
It can be a bit overrated. People only talk about the stuff that was great (like music) and downplay the stuff that wasn't, like really terrible pay pre-minimum wage, the homelessness epidemic that only really declined at the end of the decade (and now it feels like we're on our way back to that), the teenage pregnancy boom, the start of the date-rape-drug problems, and how limited we were for entertainment options (especially as the late 1990s was a bit of a mixed bag for movie quality). It was still a good time to be alive, no doubt, but people really underplay the darker side of it.
The biggest difference though is the real sense of optimism and things getting better from the late 1990s really through the whole decade of the 2000s, only waning after the financial crash. That sense of "things aren't perfect but are getting better," is something we could do with right now.
No-Bowler2791@reddit
I was a kid during that time and it was awesome. It's when kids could be kids and actually played outside
I wouldn't want to be a child now in the 2020s going into the 2030s..
Mummifiedsu@reddit
They were great! I was a 73 baby so graduated as an RN in 91. I couldn’t really afford rent so bought a flat for £22,000 with a £1000 loan from the bank for the down payment. Monthly mortgage was £118 ! ( which was 1/7 th of my wage). Every chance we got us nurses would go on the £99 last minute holiday deals, or £199 for 2 weeks , oh the good old days when package deals never sold out! I’ve literally done every Greek island many times, Spain, turkey, Tunisia, Portugal cheaper than blackpool etc.
Ok-Garden9068@reddit
It's difficult to say if it was 'better' tbh. I was 20 in 2000 so looking at the world through the eyes of a 20 year old compared to a 46 year old father of two is a very different experience. The 90s/00s was great for obvious reasons but it was also riddled with misogyny, homophobia, racism and in my experience, it was pretty violent compared to today's standards
Fando1234@reddit
Not gonna lie, it was sick. You did miss out. Hollywood was actually good and you could look forward to new movies, not just remakes.
There was some great crazes like pogs, yoyos, Pokémon cards, football stickers.
I think generally the thing I missed most is people didn't seem as divided. Inequality wasn't as extreme, people were generally optimistic about the future, and we all had the same news sources. Which sounds like a bad thing (and there were downsides) but it meant we all felt like one nation experiencing the same story about what was going on in the world.
You could genuinely spark up a conversation with anyone about music or TV or public affairs and we'd all roughly have the same sources.
Snow-Gecko@reddit
For that last point, the covid lockdown brings a weird warm feeling whenever I look back on it because it felt like we briefly returned to a time when people had something in common, even if it was just because everyone was stuck at home.
TedBaendy@reddit
I work in NHS and my job was classed as patient facing so I still feel annoyed that I didn't get to experience this, people in the 'stay at home' lane seem to have such positive memories. But then again the whole 'key worker' opposite experience was something a lot of people have in common too
AwkwardTie9427@reddit
Yeah, I understood the concept of "key worker". Unfortunately the phrase was weaponsied against people with more... "humble" jobs... shall we say? I find it hilarious some friends of mine were dismissed from their jobs because of the v**xx yet walked straight into higher paying jobs without that requirement.
Gullible-Yam-8098@reddit
I personally really enjoyed it, but I know plenty of people who hated it too. It was an extroverts nightmare, not to mention people in toxic or abusive relationships.
pajamakitten@reddit
I liked being able to have a somewhat normal life though. There was a lot less disruption to my life because I work in the NHS and cannot work from home.
Master-of-Foxes@reddit
It is strange but COVID brought few changes, especially working in community health care.
It breaks my heart to hear and sympathise with the horrible experiences people had... but walking down normally crazy busy roads when everyone else was locked in was like being in a movie.
Just, so, quiet and peaceful.
My other half locked away with 3 small children however - oh you poor sod you 😖.
TheeHappyDude@reddit
I feel slightly ashamed about how much I enjoyed lockdown. No worries about work as I just continued from home, got to see my kids all the time, discovered the joys of online beer ordering, watched loads of TV. There were moments of worrying but I've erased them from my memory and I was lucky that my loved ones all got through it...
Rabbit-1989@reddit
I hear stories of lockdown gardening and baking and spending long days riding their horses. They read, and sunbathed, and camped in their backyard. I feel very jealous of people who enjoyed lockdown. I was a new mother of twins, with no support network and I was barely able to leave the house as it was. I'm an expat and I had no idea when I would see my family again. I worried my parents would die and I wouldn't get to them. It made both mine and my husband's mental health horrifically worse and caused my already small world to get even smaller. I have PTSD from birth trauma and from mid 2019-2021 I have barely any clear memories.
Supergoose5000@reddit
Let me help dude Lock down was ace, don't be ashamed of enjoying time with family.
mancfester@reddit
I had to work throughout lockdown in a non critical role it was shit because others seems to be having a blast. Some had to deal with the hard end of it. I think a wee bit of shame from those who were enjoying it is not misplaced in hindsight. Some people are just selfish though.
TedBaendy@reddit
Absolutely no need to be ashamed if the hand you was dealt was a positive one, it was just the circumstances at the time and no one chose them (ignoring the fairly small-but-loud anti-lockdown/mask issues).
If you got to spend lots of time with your kids, have lots of downtime and had no work worries, I know it was a scary time but I'm glad some people were able to have that experience.
Rabbit-1989@reddit
I think this is part of the reason I hate the end of Christmas day. It feels like that too. So many people are doing the same thing for a day.
Loose_Avocado4670@reddit (OP)
Yeah, this.
I think that we were all in the same boat and in some way or another it brung us closer together.
cfehunter@reddit
I think the division is largely a social media problem.
In the 90's you spoke about whatever with your peers and that was and it. You could have disagreements but they were localised and there was pretty much always a living, breathing, human attached to the other side of the discussion.
Now, if you go online you'll find people to support whatever terrible opinion you happen to think of, and the opposition is anonymous and easy to mentally discard.
iamhalsey@reddit
Whole groups of people lacked fundamental rights and protection from discrimination in the 90s/00s. Wealth inequality has become more extreme, but it’s the exception. Don’t let the volatility of today’s public discourse obscure the reality of back then. Inequality on every other front was worse.
Comrade_pirx@reddit
Agree, and income equality is broadly similar to as it was https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings/cbp-7484/
Altruistic_Air7369@reddit
That’s actually a really good point. We were more unified and shared very similar connections which I guess was comforting.
However, positives now are we are more diverse and I enjoy interacting with different cultures and there are just so many more options and things to take interest in.
I would happily still collect Pokémon cards and football stickers if I didn’t have a million other things to pay for though🤣
Darkus185@reddit
There was the internet, there was technology, but we weren’t ruled by it.
mynameisjodie@reddit
Pretty good We were out all day everyday after school etc and we wouldn't be home until 8 shower homework do it all again
KingPing43@reddit
It was simpler times, as you say smart phones didn’t exist so you weren’t constantly getting doom and gloom pushed at you 24/7
Some of the less good things were smoking indoors and casual homophobia/racism being extremely common.
IDKBear25@reddit
I understand that homophobia was rife and commonplace in the 1990s but was racism at the same level?
Ordinary-CC-2286@reddit
Speaking as a black person who grew up in the mid 80s/early 90s it was much worse. Everyone I knew experienced some kind of racism, it was just a part of life at that time. I remember as a little kid a group of white skinhead kids making monkey noises at my mum and me on a london bus, other passengers just laughed or did nothing.
Not saying things are perfect now but I'm confident my kids will never experience that.
IDKBear25@reddit
Ah sorry to hear.
PatchcordAdams@reddit
Also no ever mentions the insane amount of casual violence in this era. It’s like everyone has blanked it.
Quatermass58@reddit
100% agree. There was a time, where I grew up, when it wasn’t safe to go to a cash machine, it was so common to for people together forced to withdraw all their money and hand it over.
Something I find very disturbing that I’ve only realised recently is the general reaction to the levels of crime and violence. Instead of being appalled by it, everyone seemed to want to be a gangster’s best friend. Whenever there was drunken argument on a weekend one of the first things you’d here was “I’ve got 20 lads round the corner” or “I can have your legs broken it o my takes one phone call.” Disgusts me how accepted it was.
PatchcordAdams@reddit
Yeah, I said on my other reply I got jumped at a cash machine. I went to Uni in Birmingham and it was just accepted you were probably going to get mugged at a cash machine or walking home. Usually at knifepoint. Burglary was another thing totally out of control. I got burgled 3 times in Uni and my family home twice, then my own home in the late 00’s.
I also worked in a 24hr garage, and theft was really high. Our stock was hammered and we had loads of drive offs regularly.
Brighton101@reddit
Was everywhere. Chased so many times, nose broken, just fucking gangs of hormonal young men everywhere. Think it was pub culture being the only culture + cheap booze + no consequences no film. Everyone’s so much more sel-aware. Classic it’s not the punishment but risk of being caught
IDKBear25@reddit
It was just lad culture. Plus the uprising of films about football hooliganism which musta inspired a few people to want to act like that.
PatchcordAdams@reddit
I got sucker punched by a fully grown man leaving school when I was like 15. Just a full force haymaker to the face. Sent me flying. Didn’t even tell anyone. Always fights in school with kids getting beaten badly.
Saw people glassed in the face multiple times. Every Friday night brawls erupting everywhere. Often 10-20 blokes fighting. Got jumped and beaten at a cashpoint. Thought they were going to rob me. Nah, just for violence sake.
Had a gun held to my head in after-hours bar robbery in Birmingham. Was almost blown up by the IRA too.
Football violence was out of control.
Honestly could go on and on. Too many incidents to even remember.
But the music though.
Realistic-River-1941@reddit
I've noticed that my teenage nephew doesn't consider random violence to be just a thing that happens when boys go to school.
kwakimaki@reddit
I'd say casual racism is just as common, if not moreso these days.
Ordinary-CC-2286@reddit
Then you either did not grow up in that era, or are writing this as a white person
KingPing43@reddit
They literally did blackface on little Britain, which was a hugely popular TV show on BBC
Turbulent_Ad_880@reddit
Agree, and homophobia. Living proof that silencing someone's opinion doesn't change their mind. They know they can't say it in public, but with their family and their mates and certainly in their own heads they still think they're all "pfs, pRVs and P**is".
UrMomDotCom666@reddit
especially with the internet. everyone has a platform.
NerdLevel18@reddit
I will say, being in primary school in the early 2000s (left '08) fucking slapped. The old ICT suites, introduction of the magic smartboards, pokemon cards, pogs, frutiger everything... dont forget the Wii coming out right as we were old enough to play!
Jello-Bubbly@reddit
I had a brilliant childhood in the 90s. We were in that perfect tech window where we had the N64s, PlayStations, and Pokémon cards, but the internet wasn't really a 'thing' yet.
That meant you had total freedom. You’d head out in the morning and wouldn't be back until the streetlights came on. Your parents had zero way of reaching you—if they wanted you home, they had to ring around the neighbors' landlines and hope someone had spotted you. You actually had to be brave enough to talk to your mates' parents on the phone back then!
Growing up in Belfast made it even more intense. You could literally feel the atmosphere changing. The adults were finally starting to breathe after a lifetime of conflict, and that hope was contagious. Suddenly there was a bit of money about, we were going on proper holidays, and even the food was changing—I remember trying stuff I’d never even heard of before.
The music was better, the movies were better, the tv was better and honestly, being a kid was just simpler. If you were a bit hyper or a bit 'different,' you were just the 'mad' kid or the 'eccentric' one. We didn’t have a million medical labels like ADHD for every personality trait. It was just a time when the future felt bright, which was a massive deal for a place like this.
AwkwardTie9427@reddit
Great post. I totally agree with the ADHD sentiments. It's become a craze which I hope will end one day.
CultTVGuy@reddit
It’s was probably the sweet spot for society IMO. It still had the social interaction aspects that are sadly now gone, but we had emerging technologies of the Internet. Less nanny state, more freedoms, no thought crimes, great entertainment and people were more geniune. No hiding behind a social media platform or a 5” screen persona. To be honest the late 80s were even better IMO (I’m Gen X) but for life in general the 90s was fantastic. And my daughter says the same as you. She’s so jealous us living in that transitional time
Glittering-Round7082@reddit
In my opinion it was far better than it is now.
We had pubs and clubs and social lives. Live music.
Social media has killed it all.
It's all been heading downhill since Sept 11th 2001.
It's honestly very depressing to have had an amazing life for 25 years and now things steadily getting worse for 25.
Nothing seems so have got better. Not music, not the economy, not our social lives, not world politics.
Honestly feels like a dreadful time to be alive.
AwkwardTie9427@reddit
You summed it up really well. This country, in fact the whole world, has gone downhill.
AwkwardTie9427@reddit
It was a more simple time. People took their kids to the library more than today. I remember using the library computer to access the internet before we had our own internet connection at home. Technology as a whole was viewed as a treat to be enjoyed either out at arcades or at home or school. TV and movies were more wholesome than the violence and gore and low-effort storylines of today. Days out weren't too different from what they are now, but things were loads cheaper. Sweets and chocolate were easy to buy each week, cinema tickets were cheap too. Life felt more adventurous, but I'm speaking more from a childhood perspective. My biggest negative feeling surrounding my childhood is how the older generation acted towards me in public and in my family. My view of the adults born in the late 1910s to the 1960s was this: the older you were, the more entitled you were. The times I used to receive unsolicited extroverted interactions from men who thought everything on the ground worshipped them indicated to me that British culture was all a show. Older men used to demand respect and quietness when THEY wanted to speak. These sound like generalisations, which I suppose to an extent they are. However, there were too many men like this who I despised. There were also nasty entitled older women I encountered, usually with posh voices who thought everybody viewed them as intellectuals. This kind of culture still persists but in a more sparse and polarised way. I think it's because more people recognise and reject toxicity in today's age in comparison to 20-35 years ago.
repair-it@reddit
It was awesome, the money I made from the famed "2000 bug" was incredible. The press hyped up the 'fact' that all computers would stop working when we transited to a new century, so I had loads of overtime testing computers for finance companies and the software to see what would happen. Everything just rolled on as usual.
OG_Treecamel@reddit
Born in 82 so I was just coming of age around that time and it was fucking fantastic.
Jam_Master_E@reddit
I went outside and played football a lot - if I wanted to go on the internet, I'd go to the library and play Neopets for an hour on their computers. Then back to football. Or Lego if it was raining. Or monopoly, or risk with my pals. I was in the Scottish Highlands too, it was a pretty good time, looking back.
ArticleAmazing3446@reddit
I only want to speak for myself because I’m sure that lots of people had different experiences of this time, especially if they were in separate social or economic groups.
I was a kid in the 90s and early 00s and a teen by 03/04. The biggest thing I miss which I’m sure is just rose-tinted glasses of being a kid was the immense sense of optimism we had as we were approaching the 21st century. It felt as if anything were possible and with all the new discoveries being made around the world - which included the internet, of course, but also the possibilities that it brought - it really felt like we were living in the future. And yet because we weren’t constantly on social media, we had time to imagine and to be who we were wherever we were.
There was a definite split between home life and school life, which was actually welcome. You had to a make real effort to see people outside of school knowing that they might not be home or that you might have to speak to their mum or something on the phone. I can’t really explain it but it also felt that there were lots of different cultures to be a part of, including the creation of your own worlds as you went. Now it feels like most things are incredibly monocultural.
It’s very strange because I feel completely comfortable in the analogue world of wide open outdoor spaces, books, videotapes, cassettes, and the clunky learning of MS DOS (and the patience this all brought); but also at home with the new internet digital (I was learning to build websites from a very young age and mod video games). It was the perfect mix and I advise anyone living now to try and find that balance.
But most of all build your own sources of hope
ThickTadpole3742@reddit
I was a teenager then and I'm so grateful I was. Better times.
McSheeples@reddit
I was born in 79 and some stuff was fantastic, particularly alternative music in the 90s. I am very grateful, as someone who was bullied constantly, that social media didn't exist. On the down side, I grew up with the threat of nuclear war in the early 80s, plus the constant worry about the IRA. My mum was from Northern Ireland and we'd go back regularly to visit her family. She was pretty blasé, but I do remember being quite frightened as a child getting caught up in marches or seeing police with guns.
People were openly homophobic, even when I was at university in the late 90s/early 00s. Casual racism and sexism was definitely a thing. I remember as a child going to see santa and not being allowed a water pistol because I was a girl. Girls didn't play football or rugby at school and were mostly funnelled into home ec or sewing at high school come GCSE time. As an A level student with predicted straight A results, a career counsellor suggested I might be better off as a mental health nurse rather than a clinical psychologist. Post uni when I was applying for postgrad and after some paid work, certain temp agencies wouldn't put me forward for what were considered male jobs. People would openly tell you you couldn't do things because you were a girl.
I suspect most of us look back at our adolescence fondly because that's when we developed our tastes in music, had the most free time and spent it with friends. Every era has its advantages and disadvantages. A couple of things that struck me when going back to uni as a mature student was how accepting the other students were of each other, and how generally nice they were. I also very much appreciated the online catalogue and availability of textbooks and journals so I didn't have to constantly commute in. On the downside everyone seemed so scared of failure, which definitely was as much of a thing when degrees were cheaper. I had more fun at uni than I suspect students do now.
shogatsu1999@reddit
Music was better, movies were better, gaming was social.
Spent way more time outdoors without supervision, could eat sugary cereals that came with a toy and enjoy our Saturday morning cartoons.
Food was cheaper, bigger and made with better ingredients.
The western world was pretty optimistic.
Fashion was unique, extreme sports were a big thing.
The internet was not fully monetised and frankly ruined by big tech.
It was more fun and happier than today's miserable world.
I loved it, wish I could I go back spend a day in London at sega world followed by a burger at planet Hollywood, and go home to watch match of the day followed by smack down.
JB-Original-One@reddit
Where to start?
Music was definitely better - grunge, dance music, Brit pop… it was just amazing and not like some of the vanilla clones you keep seeing these days.
TV was less focused on ramming “reality” tv down our throats and more invested in producing shows we wanted to watch. What other era could produce The Adam & Joe Show or The Word?! Ok some of this stuff probably wouldn’t be shown today but it was entertaining!
Fashion trends were better - you didn’t see lads going round with haircuts emulating Dwayne Dibley from Red Dwarf or the red neck guy from the Red Hot Chili Peppers video (tache and mullet).
VegaTron1985@reddit
Music scene was banging with emergence of Nu Metal and then emo culture, skating etc high streets were thriving with loads of choice, cheaper, money went further. Movies were better, football was better haha everything was better, born in 1985.. I am sick of the world now, years and years of once in a lifetime events fucking everything up. No wonder nostalgia is booming and gen z are going analogue
Braylien@reddit
It was definitely a better time, the music and movies were fantastic. No internet was actually great, and then the early internet was even better. Hanging out and talking to mates is something I would never imagine kids losing, but it’s a great loss. Raves were incredible, the whole scene was so optimistic and fun. 90s hip hop was the best. Great skateboarding scene, awesome fashion. We had it all. I do remember however, being very nostalgic for the 60s as a kid, I always wished I grown up then, and experienced the first summer of love. So I do get the nostalgia for a time you didn’t experience. If you wanna see a great movie that deals with that idea, of nostalgia for an earlier time that you missed out on, check out ‘Midnight in Paris’
AffectionatePop05@reddit
I love getting stories from slightly older workers about the pre-2008 workplaces. It's genuinely crazy how many perks employees used to get.
One guy told me he won a quarterly team raffle that was a week luxury cruise, company credit cards and company cars were way more common, Christmas parties were genuine large planned events. My sister's employer agreed a six month break for her to go travelling, having only been in a job three years.
The Global Financial Crisis stripped employees of a lot of benefits which is rarely talked about.
bowen7477@reddit
Nostalgia is a hell of a drug. Sentimental distortion. Romanticising a padt that never existed. Selective memory dressed up as history.
rightoldgeezer@reddit
Aside from the internet of things, going out was different. Had a real good vibe - people weren’t stuck on their phones on a night out. There would be one who had the camera, everyone else getting smashed. Shirt and shoes was a must or no entry!… and Jumpin’ Jacks… oh what a time to be alive for Naked Tuesdays! 😂
badger906@reddit
Not having everything connected to the internet was great! you’d have to knock on doors to find out where your friends were! You could spend an entire day adventuring trying to find friends lol. Knock on James door, his mum says he’s with Scott, you go to Scott’s house, his mum says they’re down by the river, you go to the river they aren’t there. So you’d hunt all your hang outs.
Flat-Exchange-3688@reddit
Music scene, pubs and clubs were cool. Rave scene had died down a bit, trance and hard house were peak, Ministry, Gatecrasher, Pam's House nights, city's were trying to open their own super clubs getting London DJ's in.. alongside that going to the pub for the night getting smashed, playing pool, supersonic getting played to death with all the britpop on the jukebox.. fuck I sound old now. My kids have their things but it doesn't seem to the heights of the late 90's/2000.
Worried-Departure386@reddit
Epic
Lynex_Lineker_Smith@reddit
Abso-fucking-lutely amazing .
Particular-Current87@reddit
The early P2P networks like Bearshare and Limewire were the real wild west of the early internet. You looked at how many seeds a video had, checked the title, and started downloading knowing there was a non zero risk of seeing something seriously illegal when you opened the file, or it might just be a virus that wipes your harddrive.
ImStealingTheTowels@reddit
I was born in 1986. The first time I experienced the internet was probably around '98 when I started secondary school, and honestly I wasn't particularly impressed at first. I spent a lot of time with my friends, either outdoors or on some kind of games console. It was generally a good time and I'm grateful for that.
I am also extremely grateful that the internet as we know it now didn't exist when I was a child. Not only because I was 19 before social media became huge (and therefore no photos or videos of me in my early teens doing stupid shit exist online) but I went through a few years of horrible anxiety that would've been made a LOT worse by today's internet. I really do think I would've ended up doomscrolling myself into serious mental illness.
Middle-Background-52@reddit
I loved it and miss it. It was especially fun standing around the computer listening to the internet dial up.
Particular-Current87@reddit
I remember starting to download a video at night then checking the progress the next morning 🤣
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
Then waiting for a picture to load line at a time!
Kobiash1@reddit
Yeah, and we all know what that picture was!
Trying to get to the best lines before your parents caught you.
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
Haha oh the suspense....
russtafarri@reddit
Kevin Bridges does a great rendition of this: https://youtu.be/QhhtBk2T8KY?si=HX3O1NiwbGGzgb19
Natsumi_Kokoro@reddit
Maaaaam get of the phone!
Left_Chemist_8198@reddit
So many arguments though hahahaha
malacoda13@reddit
I was born in 1976. So I was 20 in 1996. (For those who didn't pay attention in maths)
In 1996 I bought my first house. I earned £10k. The house was £30k. I don't have a deposit, so I asked the builder I was buying the house from if they would pay the deposit for me, and I would up my offer by £1k. They agreed.
I remember getting my first mobile phone a few years later. Texts cost 10p each. I never used it to call anyone as it was too expensive.
Jobs were in abundance. The local paper had all the listings on a Thursday. Always 6-700 jobs listed. Mostly rubbish ones, but it meant you could pick work up easily if you wanted.
Going out to the pub was amazing. I used to go out Thursday, Friday and Saturday most weeks. There was a sequence of about 5 pubs we all followed. So you'd see the same people in different pubs over the course of the evening. Genuinely £20 would get me smashed and also get me a kebab/burger on the way home.
Town centre still had shops, and the out of town shopping zones were not ubiquitous.
I remember going from 56k internet to 256k broadband, and then 512k broadband in the space of a few years, and then onto 1mb broadband. At that point I couldn't feasibly imagine what anyone would need faster internet for.
The N64, PS1, GameCube PS2 and Xbox were all released in this era. I would regularly meet up with friends for 4 player local fun, particularly on Nintendo machines. Proper fun in the same room.
I have kids now, and while things are definitely different, the only thing I really worry about is housing for them.
JohnCasey3306@reddit
Genuinely the late 90s is hands down my favourite time on this planet.
-secretsocietytattoo@reddit
It was fabulous being a teen on the 90s. No smart phones, little interaction with a basic internet, no pics being taken when you're a bit drunk and gigs were made to dance and jump around not film. The whole Cool Britannia era gave us hope. Music was banging and there were so many subcultures within it.
Longjumping_Pilot840@reddit
Pre-social media and pre-smart phones days were the best! You lived things rather than stream them and folk were generally less aggro. Cars were interesting and we weren’t being taxed to oblivion to pay for “the environment”.
On that topic- where do environmental taxes actually go? We can’t repair the ozone layer and the gov aren’t investing in public services…
ThatNiceDrShipman@reddit
More racism, more homophobia, insane terrorism and endless wars. Worst of all, we had the Star Wars prequels.
Training-Trifle-2572@reddit
I actually loved the star wars films. Went to see episode 1 in the summer hols with family, sneaking in toffee popcorn and woolworths pick and mix.
BitterOtter@reddit
Gen X here, that time period covered my late teens to early thirties. I absolutely loved it, really and truly. Sure I had some bad times on a personal level, but as an era it was fantastic. I do wonder if sometimes I'm suffering from rose tinted glasses, but genuinely, the music, the social culture, the general societal feeling of optimism and that things genuinely were getting better after some ropey periods in time was really cool. And as much as I've made my living from the rise of the internet, I also now regard it with some distaste and I do not envy my nieces and nephews who mostly grew up with it being very prevalent in everyday life, especially social media and messaging apps. I know for certain that one of my nieces was being hassled on messaging apps to send nude pictures to boys when she was just 14. Luckily she's a sensible kid and told them to fuck off and then told my sister, but that sort of behaviour just didn't exist back in the mid 90s or early 2000s. At least not so brazenly - teenage boys have always tried to charm the pants of girls but they had to do it in person and that generally means a lot more scrutiny of behaviours by others whereas messaging apps allow that secrecy and constant pressuring.
insanity_wow27@reddit
Going into town to buy a cd and hope it was good. N64 and Playstation consoles set up in shops for people to play. Films in the cinema were still a big deal. Bowling alleys that smelled like cigarettes cos you could smoke inside. Everyone had to do their shopping in person so clothes shops were rammed on saturdays. UK garage was big. Trance music was everywhere. Lots of wet look hair gel.
Banana-sandwich@reddit
Good and bad. When Napster started up it was amazing, sharing music, discovering new bands, making friends, going to gigs with reasonable ticket prices. The gig scene was great and I loved independent record shops.
But homophobia was socially acceptable. There was a lot of racism, worse than now. People still died of AIDS. As a kid I genuinely worried about being blown up by the IRA.
Skip_the_bard@reddit
I went to a Catholic all girls school - being called a lesbian terrorist was a daily occurrence and we just… accepted it?
No-Department-4561@reddit
There was a huge amount of homophobia and sexism, which was just accepted as normal and promoted by “lads mags” as well as twisting feminism to make out it was apparently about getting naked and flaunting your body.
Wells_91@reddit
Just shows how easily people have always been controlled, if a way of thinking is in the limelight, a lot of people don't even consider how wrong it is.
Realistic-River-1941@reddit
The way feminism has changed from women can do WTF they want to oppression top trumps is strange. When I was younger, if girls saw a gender segregated thing they tried to abolish it.
Daveddozey@reddit
We had a bomb drill at school, prompt shortly after Manchester City centre was remodelled. Was just the norm to avoid walking past bins.
clarkey_jet@reddit
I was born in 1984. Went to uni from 2004-2007. It was the best time. The internet and early social media was there but it didn’t define our lives. Most of the time, I logged on to MySpace or early Facebook from my iMac when I got home because pre-iPhone mobiles were not great at handling websites. There were no apps back then. We could communicate in real time with our mates but there was very little threat that something silly we did when we were drunk would end up plastered on Facebook. There was still a popular monoculture, where it felt like everyone was experiencing many of the same things at once. Trends and memes developed and cycled out much slower. It was a phenomenal time for British music too. There were many more small to mid-sized venues. Going to see live music, even in arenas didn’t break the bank like it does now. Bands would tour their arses off to make it. For example, Biffy Clyro, before they got big, would play 30 dates on a single tour. I rarely see that from new bands coming up. Social media is the main channel for how they get discovered. I feel like we are entering the worst times now. Political extremism at both ends playing tug-of-war with everyone else in between, a totally unhinged US president bringing the world to the brink of WW3, a generation of young men being brought up thinking the manosphere is normal, so much of our lives being defined by algorithms and the whims of technofascists, climate change and the breakdown of any social order or common decency. I worry for younger generations and those yet to be born.
Static_Wraith0_0@reddit
Honestly i had the best childhood growing up in the 90s and early 2000s. Everything from TV to music was just awesome. There was a variety in things that just doesn't seem to exist today. The majority of my childhood was without the internet till around 2002 and even then people didn't spend all their time on it, social media was for socialising and MSN Messenger was just awesome for chatting to people. I agree when people say the 90s was the last great decade though because it was a time when we still truly had joint experiences, there was a sense of optimism in the world, TV, films and music still felt fresh and groundbreaking, people still had to leave the house to shop and socialise, we still had high streets, everywhere you went you bumped into someone you knew. The world was in my opinion at it's best sure there where problems but there was more in it. The internet has just made everything feel smaller and less personal it's in many ways devalued and destroyed the film and music industry. The reason people still miss the 90s and early 2000s is because they where the best of both worlds a time without internet and a time with the early internet and that's how the internet should have stayed.
sharpied79@reddit
Mid 90's (as a teenager, born in 1979) were awesome.
Summer 1996, peak Britpop (Oasis) beautiful weather, summer holidays (finished my 1st year at college) Euro 96, small boys in the park, jumpers for goalposts (in my best Ron Manager voice)... Marvellous...
ProD_GY@reddit
I was born in 1987 and loved the 90s, it was great. Knocking on friends door, playing outside untill the sun went down. The old games consoles were new and exciting. Amazing new music. Loved the 2000s as well. MSN and kerrang and mtv. There was a feeling of optimism
zero_for_effort@reddit
Section 28 really messed up a lot of young people's adolescence. Luckily in my area charities tried to pick up the slack regarding the complete lack of relevant sex education, but it was hit or miss if you were somewhere you'd even notice them.
City vs rural living made a huge difference. My village had 3 buses a day and if you missed one it was a 6 hour wait or you just didn't go anywhere. I remember trying to get reliable info on public transportation timetables was a pain in the arse. When the bus company finally started posting them online it was a godsend. Living somewhat remotely went from being extremely isolating to more-or-less manageable with the adoption of dial-up and everyone getting MSN messenger.
Harry98376@reddit
Not much different to now tbh.
daddywookie@reddit
I’m sat here watching the videos and photos my teenage kids have taken during their holiday, climbing and doing DoE hikes. I’m nostalgic for the similar adventures I had back then and glad that not too much has changed. I’m also a little sad I don’t have HD video and photos of the friends I knew and the things I did, and to keep those memories alive forever.
On the flip side, I don’t have to worry about all the stupid drunken stuff I did in the mid to late 90s turning up on a feed somewhere.
I can find where people are and get in touch with them easily. I can find almost any piece of information I want in seconds. I can travel and translate anything, look up maps and reviews.
On the flip side, the world has lost some of its mystery and adventure.
So the 90s were better, and worse. Different enough to be another world but similar enough to be relatable to today.
Wells_91@reddit
Best comment here, i completely agree.
Upstairs-Balance9846@reddit
there was this brief period between the good Friday agreement and the 11th of September 2001 where it seemed like things were on the up.
Fun-Brush5136@reddit
I think 2008 is what really made sure things were broken
TheeHappyDude@reddit
The fact that a global crash was weaponised by successive governments who's members all personally profited from it, utterly stinks.
No-Divide-1360@reddit
Remember when everybody was angry at bankers for like 3 months, then they blamed poor people and immigrants and everybody fell for it.
Ok-Application-8045@reddit
People are suckers, aren't they? We're all bagholders for the megarich. And now all these Epstein revelations are coming out we realise just how evil the billionnaire class really are.
BearMcBearFace@reddit
For me it feels like 2008 sowed the seeds and gave the boat a bit of a nudge, but 2016 was when the nails really started to get hammered in to the coffin of optimism of the 90s / early 00s.
Rabbit-1989@reddit
2016+17 were the last good years. We lived like kings and queens.
Flying_worms@reddit
The UK certainly has never recovered from 2008.
Altruistic_Air7369@reddit
9/11 was the end. I was 11 and one of my clearest memories. When I speak to people and they don’t remember it, it makes me realise we truly are a different generation.
Educational_Bowl_447@reddit
I was a child during this time, turning 8 in March 2000.
For a child, this era was electric. We went from watching Thomas The Tank Engine with that banging theme tune composed by Ringo Starr himself, to watching an abundance of cartoons across Cartoon Network, Nickelodeon (or Nicktoons) and Fox Kids.
Saturday morning TV was insane, with shows like Live and Kicking, SM:TV Live and CD:UK.
The internet was largely dial-up across the country, and it felt like a new frontier… or at the least a shiny new toy to me. Websites were fun little portals you could enter and get lost in.
You could actually play in the street, where each household actually only had one or no cars. At least, I noticed in my street over time the number of car ownership vastly increasing to the point where kids can physically no longer play anymore without the fear of damaging a car that’s ramped up on a curb.
The music lent its hand to this vibe at the time, with pop stars such as Steps, S Club 7, Lolly, Cartoons, A1, Boyzone so on and so forth, where they would grab the tweens attention of the time via CD:UK and on Friday nights, Top of the Pops.
Yes, we were the demographic, and yes, we ate that shit up.
You would be jealous of your mate for having a GameBoy Advance for their birthday whilst you had to make do with a GameBoy Colour. But hey, at least you had a dodgy cartridge containing 50 games in one on it, and that dodgy Vietnamese version of Pokemon Crystal. EGG. BAG. FUCK.
Honestly I could go on. But I’ll stop there.
TL;DR: For kids, the future was bright. The future was Orange. 🍊
BradyBunch88@reddit
I was born in ‘88 and so I was like 10/11 in the late 90s and a huge Manchester United fan. So that was pretty special watching that team of Giggs, Scholes, Nevilles, Keane, Beckham etc.
As a kid it just felt nice, had my Sega Megadrive but was never obsessed with it, was always out on my bike with my friends and playing football.
TV was good with the 5 channels, I grew up with Grandparents and they always watched the TV and read the newspaper.
Compared to the world we live in now, the 90s/00s was a slower pace of life, the early internet was fun with MSN, Friends Reunited. But being British we never really stop and appreciate what we had or have, at least I didn’t, I just always got on with life and still do!
Now I have a family it’s different, now I appreciate the smaller things and do take time to think about my life and what we have.
But it’s a tougher world we live in now than we did. Good luck kids!
aperturephotography@reddit
'87 here.
One of the biggest things i miss are the street lights. There is something magical about a misty Friday evening being lit by those fabulous orange sodium street lights.
Living in a small town too, after school we'd all go home, change eat then back out and with the school not being all fenced in like now, we'd go use the tennis courts they had, the basketball hoops n what not.
I could go on for paragraphs all the little things that all accumulated to make it an fucking awesome era to grow up. Even the late 2000s, Early 2010s there were things that just made it 🤌🤌
alex21dragons@reddit
Beware of people who were young then saying it was great. It's easy to be happy in hindsight about a time when you were footloose and fancy free.
OrangeGrouchy179@reddit
It was good and generally I felt the future was exciting. Tech was interesting and something to make life more fun.
5ubredhit@reddit
It was the best time ever. And now everything’s shit.
That-Chain-5139@reddit
It was the best of times. If i could go back i would
Feelincheekyson@reddit
Going to call for your friends even though you didn’t know whether or not they’d be home. Just to walk home like nothing had happened if they weren’t home or playing out.
scotianheimer@reddit
It was, as they say, the blurst of times.
the_topiary@reddit
The BLURST of times?
kittysparkled@reddit
Parklife!
Outrageous_Ad_6471@reddit
Those fucking chimps
Severe_Iron_5127@reddit
They were great in some respects, coming out of the cold war pre 9-11, the existential dread lifted and there was economic and social optimism following the Tories electoral demise, before the cronyism and rot set in with NewLabour.
Everything was getting better technologically, the internet at home was a thing but phones had only just gone mobile and had no cameras.
Cars were getting more reliable and less prone to rust.
Houses were more affordable than they are now, both to rent and own, mortgages easier to obtain on a lower relative salary.
Music was finding new avenues to explore & mashing the past with the future.
Pubs stunk of smoke as did clothes after you'd been there and then to a club til the early hours for a few relatively cheaper drinks and a dance
sk4tekenn@reddit
The 90’s compared to now:
1) You met people everywhere, the bank, the check out, the petrol station. If you paid for something. You had the pleasure of a human interaction.
2) You discovered music in an organic way. Tapping people on the shoulder and then texting yourself the band. How I discovered Everlong stays with me.
3) If you wanted news, you bought a paper or watched the news. Your factory default was unplugged.
4) My Nokia phone lasted for days and didn’t tweak my brain towards ADHD tendencies. It was as reliable and interesting as a Bic Biro pen!
PsychologicalBag0409@reddit
I was born in the mid 80s and your not wrong it was entirely preferable to have had no social media in childhood and non algorithmic social media in our teens. Most working families could afford a house, a car and a holiday most years. You could go see a gig for a decent band for between £12 and £20 quid instead of remortgaging/selling a kidney. Loads of really cool things to grow up with.
But there is a bit of a rose tinted view of our generations childhoods. Those who were born in the mid 80's and later might have grown up in comfort but unless they got on the housing ladder every early in life it's likely that the 2008 crash would still have delayed or prevented home ownership for them. We all grew up believing, with demonstrable proof at the time, that if we got a job and worked hard then we too would be able to achieve that level of comfort too when really that wasn't necessarily the case and it was jarring. All some of us got in our 20s was ever increasing rents and a sense of inadequacy about what we had managed to achieve in life comparative to our parents or regardless of how hard we worked and rather than support or understanding from the previous generation about our struggles (and recognition of their generations part in it) this issue was presented societally as our own fault because....idk we like avocados or something.
And then you gotta consider that, ok, the ladette movement of the 90s paved the way for female empowerment and we were certainly at the point where girls could aspire to grow up and be whatever they wanted but there was a lots of sexism. A lot of cultural and sociatal norms for women that just wouldn't fly nowadays and, whilst i'm white so I cannot qualify this, but I assume people of colour would have similar experiences. Like we were waking up but we were not woke yet as a culture. There was a lot more, sexism, ableism, racism ect and whilst I see that those issues still exist they are not as socially acceptable as they were back then and I wouldn't want to go back to that even if we have somewhat jumped the shark with some issues today. It's not perfect today but it is better.
There are parts of my childhood and youth that I'm sad my daughter will never have but there are some things I'm glad she will not have to experience.
AssumptionBudget279@reddit
I don’t remember the mid nighties but I do remember the early 2000s.
It was a strange time compared to what I’m used to now. Social media became a huge thing when I was in secondary school or high school for Americans and now I’m 30 so most of my life I’ve had social media but as a kid in the early 2000s we went outside more and our parents would set up “play dates” and we didn’t really interact with anyone until that play date and school. We had big thick phones too and no one knew what an app was. There was only like one or two games on the phone and you couldn’t get more. I played the game snake SO MUCH 🤣
There also seemed to be a certain popular show that everyone was watching and there definitely weren’t as many options as there are now.
It felt more relaxed and not as what on earth is going on now?? but that could just be a kids perspective, since I didn’t notice anything political or what’s going on in the news because to me that was “adult stuff” and adult stuff was boring ha.
RaspberrySad2546@reddit
I look back very fondly on that period in time, I have to keep reminding myself that my awful mental health issues at the time don't feature in my memories and so it's like having rose tinted spectacles on.
Watching the internet grow was very cool though, it was very exciting and most people just wanted to make friends and chat to people from around the world. I think the way discussions online have been gamified with points systems almost exclusively has a negative impact and leads to childish attention seeking behaviour.
Even the Reddit downvote system has been used for what over a decade to mean "waah I don't like what is being said, but I'm too much of a baby to explain why and instead treat a constructive comment as bad"
mr_mlk@reddit
I was born in 1978, so mid 90s was high school & college, late 90s was university.
Don't get me wrong, we were much more optimistic for the future then than now, there is a lot we could look to lean and bring back from the era. But it was not all roses.
Yid@reddit
Times have changed and that's fine, but I do miss a bit of lad culture. Being a teenager was great. Big breakfast, TGI Friday, The Word, 11 o'clock show, Max Power, Mixmag, Nuts, FHM and Zoo. Eurotrash!
Jumpy-Sport6332@reddit
It's just nostalgia. Parents were so much more authoritarian, most of us were smacked and lots worse. Homophobia was standard and everywhere, every day. Violence was common fights at school every day, walking places could be scary in certain areas. People smoking everywhere including indoors everywhere smelled. No streaming, you took a gamble on every album you bought and were reliant on the radio or a friend's mixtape, we bought magazines to find out about music. I used to get lost all the time without Google maps. Being on the bus so boring, if you forgot your book or finished it nothing to do. Every text message cost 10p so not so much chatting on message as it added up fast. Internet very restricted waiting for your turn on the computer or on holiday looking for an internet cafe, and not very private, usually on the family computer in full view. Hard to find online community in the way we can now. Clothes were much more expensive. If you got interpreted during your favourite programme or went on holiday and forgot to set it (or a parent wanted to record something else at the same time) you were out of luck. Less interesting food, I didn't see Mexican for example until the end of this era. Consent wasn't prioritised, sexual harassment and assault very common too and schools didn't stop most of this.
Informal_Republic_13@reddit
My peers and I in the late 1970s were so jealous of those who were of an age to experience the psychedelic 1960s and we listened all day every day to the music, held an all night vigil when John Lennon was killed etc.
Now I realise it was just as cool and groovy for us, we just didn’t know it.
Be here now.
Rabbit-1989@reddit
I love the fact that we were free to do things without the fear of things being plastered all over the internet. I remember seeing the first iPhone. We gathered around it on the sofa and played guitar hero, which was an early app I suppose. Very rudimentary.
InterestingIsland981@reddit
Born late 70s. Most of the time I felt like I was an outsider watching everyone else have fun but never really feeling part of it.
Familiar-Woodpecker5@reddit
I was born in 1980! Honestly they were the best times to be a child. Especially being a teenager pre internet. We were free and there was less societal pressures. We phoned our friends from house phones or phone boxes. We were outside all the time and we had youth clubs. I didn’t watch the news or read newspapers so I lived in my own world, free of propaganda.
CarpeCyprinidae@reddit
I was born n the late 70s and consider that for healthy straight people, the late 90s was the high point of UK quality of life. Cars were great, music was great, bright colours were everywhere. Weather ws stable, the economy was in turbo mode, unemployment was functionally 0%. The cold war was over, and we had won.
I have gay friends, and I have ill friends, and for them it wasn't so great - things were better than the 80s, but now is way better.
Green-Temporary9686@reddit
It was alright, me and my brothers spent a lot of time making films on my vhs video camera, I’d wake up early on Saturdays to watch SMTV live, really loved pokemon and owned a gameboy. I’d ride around on my bike without headphones or music for hours and never get bored, go home and make a coke float. I got my first mobile in 2003 and it was the coolest thing ever, playing games on a phone was the best part of any car journey. Portable dvd players were awesome. I got gta 3 when it came out and it was the craziest game ever, on the last day of term I would take my ps2 into primary school and we’d all be playing gta 3 while the teachers had no idea what the game was lol. by 2004 I got really into Habbo hotel and by 2005 I created a bebo page so I could make online quizzes, didn’t even care about the social media aspect, the word social media didn’t exist to me. I had a computer in my bedroom but it had no internet connection so I used it to play games. I use to watch South Park online sometimes and it took forever to buffer a single episode which sucked I’m talking could take well over an hour. Msn was always on in the background of my family pc, and when I use to go on holidays I use to feel really cut off from the rest of school and had zero idea what was going on there or what my friends were doing, I’d call my friend and ask him if anything interesting happened and if any cool new furni came out on Habbo and if it did I’d be super jealous because I couldn’t use my mums card to buy any until I got back lol. Yeah the early 2000s/late 90s don’t feel miles different from today I remember it feeling modern like today feels it’s only when I look back at old photos I see how dated it was
Pen_dragons_pizza@reddit
Better than now, much better
Original_Ant_1386@reddit
I was born in 68, a child in the seventies and a teenager in the eighties, a magical time.
Jonnythebull@reddit
As others have said, they were brilliant times really. What I would give to go back to 90s, get a pizza and rent a movie from Blockbuster again 🥹
TopRaspberry6247@reddit
Was born in 1977 and I have to say, there is rose tinted viewpoints on this subject here. I think being a young person is better today, yes there are issues but on the whole its better now than it has ever been.
Having a phone is a liberation, believe me. A teenager of me would have loved a mobile phone where you could have access to your interests and means to have extensive conversations with friends and family. Teenagers and young people have greater opportunities to socialise ( beyond having to hang out in a dingy pub) by various means these days which is amazing - Down the road from my house some has changed a shop front where people come in and play boardgames.
Violence was quite common in pubs and clubs back then. As a young person you had to keep your wits about you when you were out and about - Other drunk males, bouncers. Your clothes stank of cigarette smoke the next day so you had to wash it the next day. nightclubs and pubs could be real dives, where owners did not have to make an effort to bring in customers. They would have tactics in making you drink more, ie. crap loud music so you wouldn't dance and chat so you drank more. Most of them were owned by local criminals.
Music was good but its so much better today, incredibly diverse in comparison from that time. "Britpop was great music" - yes but it was primarily 4/5 white males with guitars and there was a lot of pedestrian stuff which is largely forgotten now. Plus you had to pay around £14 for a cd with about 10 songs on it - 3 of them might be good.
4.Politics - It was time when newspapers and two political parties dominated the conversation and what issues were to be discussed. Tony Blair had to fly, within 24 hours of being elected labour leader, to Australia to kiss the ring of rupert murdoch. He had no choice on the matter because he saw how his predecessors were ripped apart by the newspapers. Politics today means you can discuss a huge range of issues directly with other people.
TheGoktor@reddit
I was a teenager in the 1970s, and really wanted to have been a teen in late 1950s USA. Everything seemed to be so stylish and cool! 😎
The '90s were great for me, personally; my marriage broke up, and I found myself! And there was Britpop, too! 😊
DirectionSpecific103@reddit
There was a real optimism in the air at that time. I turned 16 in 2000 so had my first phone at that age but camera phones and social media was a few years away. I remember having a Saturday job but if I didn't like it could just spend a day in town walking round seeing what shops were advertising for staff, getting a load of application forms and just filling them all straight in. Pretty much guaranteed to get a new job from that alone.
MteQmcC@reddit
Paradise in the west country
Appropriate_Emu_6930@reddit
Music was better, I loved buying the NME and then buying records. I could get away with a lot more back then without everything being caught on camera!
Impossible_Pie4091@reddit
You had people constantly around knocking on your door to come out as kids. Now you can chill in a whatapp group.
Indysheep@reddit
I turned 10 in 1999 so rather than being a "90s kid" this period was pretty much my childhood. I mainly remember:
Mum forcing me to go outside and play with friends.
Playing Nintendo 64. If you were stuck, you needed a walkthrough. Same if you had a PlayStation. If you were savvy enough on the internet you could find them online.
Sunny Delight, Cheese Strings, Dairy Lea Dunkers were the cool things to put in your lunch box.
If you had a friend wth a parent who worked offshore in oil, that was your best ticket to getting bootleg copies of films long before they were released on video/DVD.
My dad was a computer programmer and was able to install a whole bunch of games for me on our family PC. Games like Donkey Kong Country, Chrono Trigger, Legend of Zelda - they were only a few years old at the time but felt amazing and fresh.
On a not-so-good side I remember serious stuff on the news. Aside from Diana I remember incidents including the Soham murders, Sarah Payne, and others, where kids were being abducted and killed. Even though DNA evidence was around, this was pre-social media so detectives still relied a lot on grainy CCTV footage and witness accounts to pinpoint where people were.
I also of course remember 9/11 and that was where I feel things changed. Until then there wasnt really a "bad guy" to be concerned about, then this happened and, though I was a kid, I did sense things got more serious and people were a bit more cynical about what you can and can't do etc.
Onionbleak@reddit
Watch the inbetweeners
UltraFab@reddit
Yes, I grew up in that time period and always thought the 70s looked so cool. My mum said it wasn't though.
lardarz@reddit
Treble vodka and cokes for £1.25
No social media or phones
Arguably the best period for music of the last 100 years
Not expecially financially challenging
Nick_080880@reddit
The last period in recent history when things actually did get better.
marxistopportunist@reddit
Economic prosperity, low prices, abundant booze and great music and movies
miserable__regret@reddit
Monday mornings, back at school. You'd know what happened over the weekend. Arsenal lost? You'd hear it from the United fans. They'd be looking forward to it all weekend and you'd be dreading it.
Omg thingymajig is thingy's mother on Eastenders? Did you see it?!
Karate Kid was on last night? You'd see kids doing the crane kick all around the playground.
That time delay was special. Nowadays you hear about things straightaway on WhatsApp and whatnot. It's all so instant. But that delay of things stewing or the excitement brewing to share those things on Monday morning was really something - and we didn't have the fifty million streaming options we have now - almost everyone was likely to have watched the same things on the four (then five) channels.
Bright-Energy-7417@reddit
I think so, I was at uni in '92 and emigrated in '01. One of the best bits was being able to be bored - no cellphones, no constant online life, genuinely needing to find things to do. And limited information, so you ended up falling in with others and stumbling across stuff randomly (now we have algorithms that filter the world for us, it's not random, and there's no need to explore or meet people).
For me, it was also very affordable. Despite being a student, we'd go out clubbing once or twice a week, and in Birmingham that was heaving, as a postgrad I and my friends had National Trust discount memberships (and yup, student discounts were heavy), so regular weekend expeditions somewhere cool in the Midlands, and yes, going out with a group of you was kind of normal.
Oh, second hand books! Cavernous or maze like old bookshops still existed, my partner and I had our obsessions and we did expeditions to Haye-on-Wye and Edinburgh, back when they were bursting at the seams with them for stuff from the 20s and 30s. Mind you, on trips to London (Kew Gardens was a cheap day out, West End shows were in our budget even if a treat), Foyles and Forbidden Planet were worth the pilgrimage. Nowadays they're small and limited. Even Forbidden Planet in Birmingham was wonderful as it had US books and authors unknown in the UK - I did a double take once when I found myself holding the door open for Terry Pratchett.
In my case, my interests were pretty techie. I was into music and audio, which somehow led me to running across vintage hifi, which meant glowing valves and a fascinated obsession that had me checking out radio rallies over summers and falling in with a group of elderly radio enthusiasts. And having to learn stuff from old books from the library. Or in the early dial-up days, quickly logging onto CompuServe with a modem (if the line in our flat was free, phone calls were negotiated and our phone was on a 10m cable) to synchronise my newsreader with the newsgroups I was on. The Usenet was rather like Reddit and I became active on the audio ones.
Oh, and chatting was possible on IRC - internet relay chat - though I'd want to grab an hour on a university network for that. Very small global community of people, but I knew people that way, and we'd chat and argue in groups in real time. And which was cool, this was the wonders of the JANET backbone, something that expanded as the early internet became a thing.
Music was definitely better. There seemed to be a massive hit every month, and having only limited radio and TV channels, we all knew it. And we all had a general idea of who was who even if we had different tastes. I'd go and buy singles as they came out (originally 7", then mini-CD, then CD) as albums were investments and could be a bit of a risk as it wasn't easy to find out if you'd like the other songs.
General living, well, from rundown student accommodation to a first flat - incredibly affordable then, even if in a roughish part of town, I do remember it being more cheerful. Just been refurbished, so dark wood frames, white walls, and we got chintzy curtains. So generally light, warm, cheerful. Cheap IKEA in bright colours, colourful crockery, a collection of mismatched mugs. Everything still made in the UK. Ridiculously bright as halogen bulbs were a thing and we had a hot uplight in the living room. Still haven't moved on from colour and eclecticism, I'm so glad we're leaving the grey-on-grey with bare concrete era, shame it's gone straight into 60s revival meets dingy victorian.
duvagin@reddit
the most popular things to subscribe to were magazines, and even then you owned it forever once it got delivered
FartWar2950@reddit
I think some folks feel this way in every generation...I was always jealous of my old man growing up in the 60's and 70's with such amazing music, but I think every generation views their childhood with nostalgia and chooses not to remember the shit bits.
I do agree with other posters that social media is a huge factor for modern youth, it started to come about as I was going to college then uni but didn't become the toxic, poisonous, brain-deadening shit-fest that it currently is until I was in my mid-20's.
Ralphisinthehouse@reddit
Every generation thinks their childhood was the greatest. That's just a fact of life. But the 80s and 90s were peak human being, as far as I'm concerned, especially for growing up in, and I'll tell you why.
Number one, we had enough technology to make life fun. Computer games, gadgets, hi-fis, TV, cable, stuff like that but we didn't have so much that it just meant we spent our lives glued to screens or having our every moment or movement recorded.
What that meant was you got up, you went to school, you saw your mates. You got into a bit of trouble, went home, did your homework, played video games, saw your family, rinsed and repeated Monday to Friday.
Then on the weekend you'd get up at 8 o'clock in the morning, go out with your mates, and have no contact with any family member until you got home at night. If you were a younger kid in the 80s then it would be "make sure you're home before it's dark" but you could quite often end up five miles away from home on your bikes in that time.
When you were a teenager it meant hanging out with your mates, getting to mischief. In our case we all started drinking when we were about 14 or 15, going into town, going to the arcades. Never got in any real trouble but never worried about anyone finding out about everything on social media.
School holidays were an amazing few weeks of telling your mates you'd meet them in a certain location at a certain time the next day and then spending all day together and having the memories.
TedBaendy@reddit
I think I was part of the first wave of teens to have social media, MySpace and bebo etc became a thing when I was around 14 from what I remember.
Had a Nokia 3330 where I could send ten texts a day. Remember household arguments about the interest most days when the dial-up was still connected to our home phone.
dowhileuntil787@reddit
I’m apparently deeply odd in that I think now is the best time to be alive in the UK, despite our many obvious problems. I miss the optimism of the late 90s. I also miss a night out being cheap. I miss the post-Good Friday/Kosovo, pre-9/11 couple of years where geopolitics felt like it’d turned a corner and going through an airport was still pleasant. But the choice and experiences we have now are much better. Even live music/comedy/the arts are much better now.
Honestly, lots of things were pretty naff back then, and a lot of the nostalgia comes from people just reminiscing of a time before they had commitments, dependents and the aches and pains of mortality slowly creeping in. I reckon if one just woke up and it was still the 90s, they’d soon find it isn’t quite as good as they remember. Watch some videos of day to day life in the 90s and it doesn’t look as great as the highlight reel would suggest.
That said, I thought 2012 in particular was an epic year that really sticks out in my memory.
Own_Bonus2424@reddit
you kinda knew people in you're area everyone knew everyone drinking and smoking was the thing if you was 15-40 town centres was rammed every weekend pubs clubs there was no need for online dating you would mingle meet new people every week getting laid was so easy life was good
Mondays-fundays@reddit
If you entered the adult world in that period, you had 10+ years of prosperity to build your life before it all went to crap in 2008 and never really recovered.
The UK was far more optimistic than it has been since it smelled of CK One and Marlboro Lights, and we had the convenience of mobile phones without the scourge of social media
Also, beer didn't give you hangovers. The models were hot, the music was cool, and I could stay up all night because I was young. And being young is probably what colours a lot of what seems amazing about it.
IDKBear25@reddit
Was that because of your age at the time or the brewing process being different now?
IDKBear25@reddit
HOLY MOLY - I WAS BORN IN 2007 AND FEEL THE SAME WAY!!!
YOU HAD TOP OF THE POPS IN ITS POMP, PORTABLE DVD PLAYERS, MOVIES WERE ACTUALLY MADE WITH EFFORT AND PEOPLE LOOKED FORWARD TO SEEING THEM IN CINEMAS OR LATER ON DVD, PREMIER LEAGUE FOOTBALL WAS INCREDIBLE, FORMULA 1 WAS FANTASTIC, PEOPLE ACTUALLY HAD ASPIRATIONS AND AMBITIONS WHICH THEY COULD ACHIEVE, AND PUBS AND BARS WERE THRIVING INSTEAD OF NOW WHERE A LOT ARE STRUGGLING.
People were also just a lot happier and more friendly and there was more community spirit.
These are just a few of the reasons why the whole of the 1990s and Early 2000s appeal to me so much and sound sensational!
SpaceTall2312@reddit
I'm 56. The 80's and 90's were good times on the whole to be alive especially from a musical point of view. The cost of living was fairly reasonable. Rents weren't insane. My first one bedroom flat cost £350 per month. Awful things went on the world, certainly, but because we didn't have the Internet or smart phones or even 24/7 TV, they weren't shoved in our faces round the clock. In general, I would say that people were in better mental health. However, the employment situation wasn't great and we were all terrified of nuclear war. In that sense, similar to today!
sushi_collector12@reddit
Wtf are you on about?
tgy74@reddit
Mate, if you remember the 90s you weren't in the 90s!
Lollygagger105@reddit
I was going to comment: I was mostly drunk. And loving it
Boundlesswisdom-71@reddit
The mid 90s and early 2000s (well, up to 2001), in hindsight, feel like the last gasp of the optimistic period after the end of the Cold War.
From 1991 up to 2005-6 was a period of abundance compared to what we have now. There was, relatively speaking, peace until 9/11. Wages were doing OK; cost of living was OK; social media didn't exist really until 2004. There wasn't the online brain rot. No cyberbullying. People had some hope for the future. House prices were climbing but housing was still affordable.
The period wasn't perfect but compared to now it feels like a Golden Age (more of a historical anomaly actually).
We are now in the Cyberpunk dystopia I was reading about in the late 80s, early 90s. Corporations rule the world.
Individual-Muffin235@reddit
A bit rough, but lots of freedom and joy to be found.
misimalu@reddit
I graduated University in June 2001. Got a graduate position in advertising in London that started in August 2001. They fired all the interns quietly on Friday 14 September. It was nearly impossible to get hired again. The world felt like it had ended. Eventually I started working in a shop. No money for clubbing etc and I wasnt attractive enough to get in to most of them anyway (00s door policies were brutal). No graduate jobs. The one thing that was SPECTACULAR was early internet. Especially LastMinute.com. I really REALLY miss the time before “the masses” and older people used the internet for everything because the deals on stuff were absolutely phenomenal. eBay as well. Post 9/11 flight deals in particular were insane. I got to go to Japan for £500 return, and the USA for £200. Book-on-the-day-of-travel trips to Budapest plus 5 star hotel for like £50. And older people just scoffing at the idea of trusting buying things on the internet. I also really miss early streaming on iPlayer and Channel 4. Me and now husband ditched our tradition TV in 2005 and hooked up a computer to watch everything. Awesome times. I don’t miss how much safer I feel now with access to good maps, driving or walking with a Mapquest print out was terrifying!
Ok_Yam_4023@reddit
I feel like apologising. I had a mortgage at 18 and still went to uni at 19
Downtown-Jump4408@reddit
Unreal
Kitchen-Lab-2934@reddit
Born in 1991 and it was truly the best! I really wish I could go back in time and have my children in that period!
TheeHappyDude@reddit
It was great, you missed it and I can only feel sorry for you. On the bright side we'll all be dead well before you and you'll remember the 20s and 30s with equally rose tinted glasses.
Bossman_Mike@reddit
There was a definite feeling of optimism and excitement around 1995 onwards. Life was good. The economy was doing great. Essentials like food, petrol, housing were very reasonably priced. You could have a nice life earning much less than today.
Extra-Sound-1714@reddit
A lot of this is because people were young and the economy was doing well. Then we had the crash of 2008 that the country has never fully recovered from. BUT much of the boom was built on unsustainable levels of debt. So the time you are nostalgic about is like taking out a big bank loan, living it up, and inevitably crashing when you have to start paying it all back.
Warriorz7@reddit
Born in 87, grew up with a Sega "master system" and then a Mega drive", next was the Amega 1200 and finally the PS1.
I'm not being a boring old git by listing these but just to say even "back then" we knew about computers and saw consistent fast progress and had some idea of where we were headed.
I had my first mobile phone around Y2K, a Sony Erikson (Free by collecting ring pulls ((seriously)). Although my dad had a Vodafone (I think) a few years earlier. In the 2000's a text message or "texts" (txt) cost 10p, with limited characters (144?), letters including spaces,not words. If you sent a txt you meant it (only 10 per £1!). Landlines were common, imagine you want to speak to someone and call them and their parents or siblings answered! You had to ask "Hello is "X" there?"
It was overall an amazing time. Lots of "alpha" versions of what we have now e.g. we didn't have Wikipedia we had "Encarta 95" (a digital encyclopaedia with pictures and some basic video). Lots and lots more and happy to answer questions as a boring old dude .
Dictatorsmith@reddit
Culturally in terms of music, film, games, comedy, fashion, literature, tv it was sublime.. we seemed linked by most cultural events as a nation… bad things.. there was always the possibility of violence as a younger guy- things like bullying weren’t taken seriously, food was generally terrible although there was less fast food.. I’d say as a whole it’s 60-40 with the late80s to around the late 2000s being a hot bed of culture and entertainment
Michael_Thompson_900@reddit
I was a kid in the 90s. Some of my key takeaways:
Some stuff that has improved since then; - less (emphasis on less and not the word ‘none’) misogyny. 90s sitcoms were kinda gross when you watch them back, and most female characters were purely plot devices to further the ‘lads’ ability to shag. - satellite navigation. Long journeys were a bit hit and miss pre sat nav. - the translate app on modern phones is a wonder and makes global travel so much easier.
Daveddozey@reddit
To put shared tv in context, 17 million people watched corronation street. Three times a week.
Everyone knew about the Fry Deirdre campaign, the body under he patio in brookside etc.
Saturday night variety problems were heavily watched, Noel’s house party, generation game etc. kids watched the same cartoons after school
And everyone hated antiques roadshow as it meant the weekend was over and it was off to bed.
Limitless supply of on demand entertainment broke social cohesion.
Doctordelayus@reddit
Entertainment was amazing
Wrestling was amazing with the attitude era, then you had Takeshis Castle (the Amazon prime reboot is shit), then there was peak Gladiators (new one is shit), Robot Wars, I could go on and on but it’d be a LOT
Music was great also, and it was generally an edgy time to live in (at least from personal memory) with Jackass, Backyard Wrestling, Balls of Steel, The Dirty Sanchez, Scary Movie(s) and also porn magazine shows on late at night like Sexcetra and Eurotrash
The ps1 and ps2 were out and seeing gams of those was mind blowing and fun af, if someone had a full stereo set up for their TV or radio, it was amazing to see
People actually celebrated holidays too, I feel like the past 10 or so years, people are miserable af and don’t celebrate anything like they used to back then
People (at least from my memory) would still occasionally hitchhike, can’t do that anymore though, sadly
Chocolate was better, especially cadburies before it got an American hostile takeover, Sunny D was the best drink there was
I wanna say there was more wildlife around too, I used to see starlings and house sparrows everywhere as well as grasshoppers, ladybirds, stink bugs, but I haven’t seen them in years
As well as edgy as I said earlier, it was also a very cheesy time too, just look up It’s Chico Time and We Are The Cheeky Girls, even S Club 7 and Spice Girls are pretty cheesy to be fair
Sad-Razzmatazz8047@reddit
For Teenagers = Skateboarding, bmxers, punk/metal/hip hop. Consoles and multiplayer at your pals. Early days of the internet creating wonder
mondeomantotherescue@reddit
No phone cameras. You cannot imagine how free it felt
gazmbuku@reddit
Brilliant. Turned 18 January 1999 so perfect age to go mental on millennium! Was a great time period
Daveddozey@reddit
My neighbour was born dec 31st 1981. He moved away before we were 18, I always assumed he’d have an interesting 18th birthday.
WastelandOfConfusion@reddit
Really good. They were really good.
Hey_its_chunky@reddit
Idk I'm an 06 baby
treesofthemind@reddit
I was 11 when you were born makes me feel old lol, but TBH I don't really remember the 2000s much less the late 90s as I was a baby then. I guess primary school without social media was good, but my secondary school years were all heavy on the social media even though this was before TikTok, so Facebook and Instagram primarily. (Honourable shoutout to MSN) Some of my strongest memories are the early YouTube days, Lady Gaga's first music videos, Club Penguin, Neopets etc
Jolly_Psychology_506@reddit
For me we peaked as a human race in that time period. There was a sense of freedom, post Cold War optimism and things were improving rapidly.
UrMomDotCom666@reddit
i'm born in 2006 and wish i experienced the 2000s. but then again, people will always be nostalgic. there's a lot of comments here saying we missed out and that it was a great time. this always happens though. my grandparents were nostalgic about the 50s for example. there's already people nostalgic about the 2010s. i work with kids and some of them told me that they wish they could've been a teen during the 2020s. it's a never-ending cycle.
WayoftheBear@reddit
Having to make plans at lunch or break where to meet after school, and having to be there. I miss that sometimes.
Hardie1247@reddit
Honestly, I don't remember much of it. I have a lot of childhood pictures of my parents and me in the 90s and early 2000s, I recognise places but genuinely can't remember the events for the life of me. One thing that always stood out to me about the pictures I do have is how old they actually feel lol, I was raised mostly with toys/shows from the 80s, and I think that makes the pictures look older than they are, but comparing the colourful environments and products in those pictures to how bleak a lot of things in my life feel today is strange.
Westsidepipeway@reddit
I remember a couple of things from childhood that stuck with me. My dad sitting up at 6am (or whenever the news started) to watch Blair come in. And how happy everyone was with that and it felt positive and good. I must have been 8 or 9. And the good friday agreement. I remember a lot of bomb scares as part of life as a kid growing up in London, and not having bins etc, and it was such a big thing.
Obv also remember September 11th and the shit show that caused, but I feel like I was a teen then so it's not like my childhood childhood. Also obv london bombings.
2cbterry@reddit
I was a tween/teen so I had the usual teenage angst but at least it wasn’t recorded on the internet forever so that’s something. I feel I was less influenced as we weren’t chronically online so I managed to figure things out for myself. You probably feel the same way I feel about people who were late teens/early 20s in the 90s cause you know those bastards had the best raves, also not recorded/online.
Communardd@reddit
God that does make me feel old, I was 16 years old the day you were born, but honestly 'what it was like' really depends who you were. If you were a nerdy kid like me, you were in the avantgarde of technological progress, much of what we have today existed in fledgling form back then. When I was 8 years old in the year 2000 I had a dial up internet connection and I was making the most of it, playing online games the way you would do now, the only problem is your mum might want to make a 3-4 hour phone call on Sunday and that would block off the whole internet, you couldn't make phone calls at the same time as running the internet down the phone line.
The most nostalgic memory for me of growing up in the 90s and early 2000s is just the slow drip feed of information, the relative inaccessibility of it. You wanted to see a film trailer? Best hope your parents bought the Sunday newspaper and it'd come with a cd-rom full of film trailers, there was no instant access to video media via Youtube etc. This tended to add a greater aura of mystique to upcoming media, my most nostalgic childhood memory is the sheer excitement of awaiting the release of the Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter movies in 2001 - 2003, the slow build up of excitement as you collected CD trailers from newspapers and magazines and read tid-bits of information in magazines as you impatiently waited. It seems nowadays, there is such an excess of information, everything is instantly analysed, broken down and demystified, there are no surprises anymore. However, that is likely just me growing old and jaded, I'm sure young kids are still thrilled by emergence of the new world around them, it's just my time to feel that was in the late 1990s / early 2000s and like any older person, I'm nostalgic for a more innocent time.
anti-sugar_dependant@reddit
I was born in '89 and imo you didn't miss much. I think the good bits were some very good music, being able to go into the cockpit of an aeroplane as a kid (that was very cool), not having phones, and some bankers throwing themselves off buildings because they'd shafted the economy.
I guess what I miss is the idea that things would get better. Until about 2008 there was a plan that if you followed you'd come good. You had to do well in school, go to uni, then you'd get a good job and be able to buy a house. We had the rug pulled out from under us, the first generation to do worse than previous generations. Sadly subsequent generations have been stuck in the same downward trend so we had it better than you but we also had the shock of being first. I'm super glad I'm not a teenager now though, it looks awful. Maybe things will get better if some more bankers jump off some more buildings?
cayosonia@reddit
Loved loved the 90s. Went on holiday with my then boyfriend on 1st Jan 1990. Went on to living in my car, going to Uni, being on the dole and then starting a career in Tech. Lots and lots of not giving a fuck and having working knees
No social media, no real internet, not everybody had a massive tattoo
Best best decade of my life.
Bskns@reddit
I was born in 97. I can remember my older sibling hogging the landline speaking to their friends after spending all day with them at school and my mum yelling at them to get off the damn phone because she wanted to use the Internet or call our nan. Equally though, I got my first smartphone at age 13 and now I can see that it impacted my formative years. MP3 players were great, but my prized possession as a kid was my red portable cd player (with matching over ears) that I would use to listen to Peter Andre’s long road back or Girls Aloud in the back of the car on long journeys. I used to use the computer just to play on paint or write stories on Word. If only little me could see me now staring at a rectangle full of the world’s information… she’d be as overwhelmed as me.
dantes_b1tch@reddit
It was pretty decent TBF. I was born in 1983 so was doing my GCSE at what 1999? Mobile phones were just becoming a thing (if you didn't have a Nokia you sucked). Social media hadn't polluted peoples brains (that was done to a lesser degree by newspapers). Roadmen/chavs weren't really a thing but chavs were just starting.
I dropped out of college and walked straight in to a job. A year later I started the career I'm still in.
WWE was going through it's attitude era, we had Playstation 2 which is arguably the greatest console of all time.
In 2000 one of my favourites cars of all time was released, the Subaru Impreza P1.
Yeah tbh I think we had it fairly good
robp140@reddit
I left School and was trying to find a job in 2008. It was not fun.
Loose_Avocado4670@reddit (OP)
Oh, I can imagine.
robp140@reddit
I had to sign onto benefits (UK) for a while. It was fine tbh everyone was in the same boat just had to make it work. Things were a lot freer then as an 17yo. No smart phones. Cheap drink and ciggies. Busy bars and high streets. That I remember anyway.
Severus_1987@reddit
Sounds cliche but it really was so much more fun. Much more relaxed and free attitude, less economic mess
FIREBIRDC9@reddit
I think the biggest factor of why now is worse than back then is the constant exposure to Doom and Gloom News media.
24/7 news from around the world isn't a good thing.
Plastic_Length8618@reddit
Yeah, it didn’t feel like there was so much pressure. You could have fun and not spend every second optimising your chances.
gustinnian@reddit
One example: It was exciting witnessing and participating in the rise of Jungle music and Drum and Bass - an utterly original art form born out of abusing new technology. We felt we were making music for beyond the year 3000. Brit Pop was backwards looking, but we were optimistic for the future.
call092@reddit
I was born in 1991, it was honestly a different world. But i know im a bit biased as everybody looks backs on their childhood with rose tinted glasses. I was probably the last generation to grow up without social media and a screen in our face every minute of the day
RaspberryJammm@reddit
I'm a similar age. Didn't have internet or mobile phone until 14. No smartphone until I was 22. Didn't have own laptop until Sixth Form.
FIREBIRDC9@reddit
My first phone didn't even have a colour screen. Got my first Laptop , and therefore true internet connection in 2008
FIREBIRDC9@reddit
92 here! We are the last of the Millenials!
athelstanjnr@reddit
I was born in 1995 and even my teenage years seem completely different. I didn’t have a smart phone until maybe 16/17? Even then they were basic in comparison, my vague memories of the early early 2000’s are great, we did have consoles but I think the fact that games didn’t just go on forever meant you’d wait until Christmas or your birthday to play another, so going outside was preferable, what a time
Far-Sky-4763@reddit
It wasn't the best time ever - you had Rwanda, Bosnia, Kosovo, 911, Afghanistan and Iraq kicking off. There was still a lot of $h*t in many ways. But it was definitely better than now - things weren't as outrageously expensive, the 2008 crash hadn't happened, you could earn better money, music was far better compared to today and there was were fantastic films. Also, technology like the internet was still novel but no as damaging as social media. Fun times.
owzleee@reddit
Amazing. Off my tits for the whole time.
LochNessMother@reddit
It was amazing, but we also thought that our parents had had a better time in the 60s….
fat_penguin_04@reddit
Bit too young to remember the 90s culturally but if I could stop time it would be round 2004. I really miss a time people weren’t influenced to be at each others throats. I also think the modern internet has made people to follow a small number of specific trends. Back in the early 2000s I feel like you could be who you wanted way more.
tunasweetcorn@reddit
The last of UK monoculture everyone would watch the same things on TV same music on the radio, etc then come into school and talk about it. I grew up when social media and smart phones were just emerging, something just pure kicking about around town or down the rec getting home and jumping on MSN or call of duty hits different you were online but not just constantly consuming media. A better time IMO
FIREBIRDC9@reddit
I left school in 2009. 18 years old in 2010
I feel lucky that i was part of the last generation to grow up in the analog world before the switch to digital.
Internet was limited to the house computer , Smart phones didn't exist yet. Boxy CRT TVs. Physical Media still being the prevalant method of data.
When i was a kid we still used VCR , so make sure to rewind that Tape when you are done!
No social media , No Ai Slop
Playstation was epic , games were small enough to fit on the disc and din't require a 6 hour download to play.
Had a CD Walkman when i started secondary school. Imagine having to take a chunk of your physical cd collection with you where ever you went. I had a bag the size of a dinner plate full of CDs!
I also had a portable DVD player. A relic from a physical media age!
Went from my bulky walkman to a tiny MP3 player in a span of about 3 years! The Jump in tech really was something!
Also Top gear on Sundays at 8pm , a programme basically the entire country watched!
stuaird1977@reddit
I was 20 in 1997 and had been going clubbing since about 16, I knew all my mates house phone numbers off the top of my head and even though we got phones around 1998 they were the shit ones used to only ring people
I loved growing up in that time, i was at college and university and it was so chill and you just lived for the weekend,.which started on Thursday's and finished around midnight sunday. Every pub and club was hammerrd and the lads holidays on 18-30s / Twentys were mental
lizzie_knits@reddit
I’ve been around the block a bit now and tbh every generation ends up saying theirs was the best growing up.
James-Worthington@reddit
110% mortgages were absolutely wild.
danmingothemandingo@reddit
I think everyone becomes nostalgic for whatever era they were in their 20s
Available-Nose-5666@reddit
To be honest, I have to say at least we had childhoods. We played outside, entertained ourselves playing on swings, going to the park. We didn’t have smart phones but we used to call our friends on landlines or sometimes just write letters to each other. Back then very few people owned mobile phones, and they were very basic.
Remarkable_Bet_4131@reddit
It was briiliant. The world was a different place. We used to go into the city centre as kids and walk round freely without risk of harm, when we were teenagers we done the same in pubs. Women and kids were alot safer, not so much for guys as physical fights were very common but women did fight too. We had argubeble the best bands and was cheap as out go see em. There wasnt mobile phones or the internet and that was a good thing. The police actually tried to detect crime and you could actually go to the dentists or doctors. You could get a council house at 16 and a job doing pretty much anything you liked. I genuinly feel sorry for the youth of today and to top ot off looks like youll be sent to war.
griffaliff@reddit
I grew up in the 90s being born at the latter end of 87', it was a great time for me. I was raised in a middle class environment, detached house on the doorstep of the countryside of England. My memories of childhood fun largely consist of bike rides out with other neighbourhood kids, water fights, learning to ride a bike, climbing trees etc. We didn't have social media, surveillance, advanced phones at the time but none of that mattered as it didn't exist.
Low_Mistake3321@reddit
Started university in 1993, first contact with the internet using command-line email, gopher and FTP.
First saw the fledgling WWW soon after, using the graphical Mosaic browser, and realised this was going to be amazing.
So many moments like that in the 90s. Broadband availability was another such moment.
Solid_Contact6529@reddit
I was in my teens and early 20s then and it was genuinely a great time to be alive. I miss the vibes back then but that may just be nostalgia for my youth.
Some things were a lot worse though - there was a lot more sexual harassment and it was largely just considered normal by most people. We were much less well informed about a lot of things. Lots of places were full of smokers which I hated. But there was a lot more freedom and much less scrutiny. Things generally felt more peaceful and less stressful, but that may have been a lack of information. We weren’t constantly plugged in and overstimulated.
Things like ghosting and shitty relationship behaviours were just as bad though, if not worse, because being ghosted (stood up) back then meant standing waiting for someone in the cold or rain for hours when you had planned to meet and never knowing what had happened to them - you couldn’t just track them down on social media, if they vanished they vanished.
supremethinking@reddit
I born in 2007, my mom said in that time during Easter, boxing day etc shops used to give free chocolates cakes etc. And there were actual discounts my parents bought tv, phone etc for less than half the price.
FreshMontrealer12@reddit
My friends and I would find new ringtones on the weekend and then we’d have to Bluetooth them to each other on our Motorola Razrs while cycling to school but ensuring we didn’t separate too much otherwise it would disconnect. Someone got their phone confiscated cause they left the ringer on and crazy frog blared out in class. Good times!
AgeingChopper@reddit
early parenthood day for me. I’ve very fond memories of that period. family life was lovely, my job was great and I was still healthy. awesome times.
HarryShake@reddit
I was a kid/teenager during this period. The last ever generation to touch grass. Truly grateful. And it’s cliche but truly was a simpler time. Perfect balance of technology and real life.
TheYetaaay@reddit
People not mentioning the graffiti, street dance, Sean Paul vibes that I remember so vividly as defining of the era.
There was also this rebellion through crudeness, crassness and tastelessness that was quite pervasive. WWE, South Park and Eminem were all enormous at least in the early 2000's.
THXORY@reddit
The 1990s really were like two extremes in the UK. The early to mid 1990s had a massive recession and crime also rocketed, reaching an all time high around 1995. Really not a nice era.
The late 1990s by contrast were the absolute opposite. The economy was booming and there was a real sense of optimism and progress with the election of the Blair government in 1997 after 18 years of the Conservatives. That optimism lasted I suppose until the 9-11 attacks in late 2001 and things were never quite as fresh or optimistic after that, although the economy kept on performing very well until the 2008 crash.
Icy-Fly-221@reddit
Born in '87. Agree with most of the good points posted.
Must add that violent crime was higher. Racism and homophonic- "gay/p*ki bashing" was an everyday thing.
Next to no mental health support for younger people in schools or elsewhere. Neurodivergent kids dismissed as weird or thick.
Sexual assault was barely reported. Victim blaming was worse than now. No "ask for Angela" because "you should take it as a compliment" if someone is groping you, even in the work place. Sexism at work was worse with fewer protections in place and senior positions even more male dominated.
Far less awareness of child abuse and little of it was reported. Jimmy Saville was considered a national treasure at the times you mention.
You and your clothes would stink of cigarettes after a night out whether you smoked or not.
Constant fear of terrorist attacks, not helped by the media. IRA in the 90s and then Islamic extremists in the 2000s.
That said, there was a sense of optimism in our culture. Misinformation was much less of a concern, no AI or deep fakes etc. The middle class was growing and social mobility was better, less income disparity, affordable housing. University education cheaper if not free and more valuable.
You could consider similar themes for the late 70s and early 80s however.
For any post-war generation, there are pros and cons. You are a very young person, you have advantages and challenges peoppe born before you did not. Please be part of making this world a better place for us all!
PabloEmilioEscobar7@reddit
Born in the late 80s and it was hands down the best era
cregamon@reddit
I was there, it was great. It’s all been said so I won’t repeat it.
There was definitely a lot more casual homophobia, racism and misogyny around.
BUT it was a huge improvement over the 70’s and 80’s which in itself was a huge improvement over the 50’s and 60’s. Obviously that’s not much comfort if you were there and had to live through it but it was an improvement nonetheless.
Society changes and evolves with each generation, it’s not an overnight thing. People will be talking about the late teens/early twenties in twenty five years time and there will be things that people will say ‘it was great but __ was worse’ or ‘it was hard growing up if you were __’.
On that note, I think we have actually regressed somewhat. A lot of that is to do with politics, the 24/7 news cycle and obviously social media.
I think things have gone down hill since COVID - the world has become very divided, everything is like a football match - you have your side, your team and you stand by it no matter what.
FallZealousideal3337@reddit
It wasn’t perfect, but life felt simpler, more present, and less overwhelming than today.
Brave_Assumption6@reddit
One BIG reason why is no other than phones and social media. But you are still in control of that. When you put that away or control usage suddenly everything feels less overwhelming.
Fraggle_ninja@reddit
It was great. You rang people to meet up and they turned up on time, it was just easier. As a 20 something I quit jobs and didn’t fear not finding another which seems so alien now. I said to my husband if he recalls when taxis used to be safe, clean and drivers just knew where they were going. Pubs and bars were fun. Fashion was simpler, people more individual maybe there was just less judgement without social media. And the music, the music - trance, house, indie, metal was all just amazing. Good times indeed.
UnusualInstruction51@reddit
have to say that uber is the one good thing to have happened since then, as getting a mini cab home from central London generally involved getting in a random car and hoping the driver wasn’t going to murder you
Fun-Brush5136@reddit
God yeah. So many sketchy unlicensed dudes hanging round outside clubs. Haggle a price first as well (which could be anything really) and get led to their rusty old banger that might or might not fall apart on the way.
Uber definitely is a step up!
Fun-Brush5136@reddit
Ha, one of my mates never turned up on time!
raquille-@reddit
It was awesome. Uni and post uni were going to a lot of drum n bass raves at clubs that done exist anymore like Turnmills, The End and herbal
Voodoopulse@reddit
Brilliant music, a sense of hope and optimism except for having to deal with United fans it was class
elbandito999@reddit
Speaking as a United fan it was perfect!
howunoriginal2019@reddit
Childhood was fun and exciting. It was mixed in with my parents worried sick about interest rates and losing the house. The recession was no joke. Shell suits were a joke tho !
Pickle-dee23@reddit
It was amazing. Friday night TV in the mid 90's - early 2000s was the pinnacle of TV.
Football was better, meaty challenges, no diving and no var pish.
No Facebook, no always connected to the internet
Only contactable by telephone or SMS
Music was incredible
Buy a computer game and play it straight from the box, no downloading or constant patches, they just worked
Pokémon cards, pogs, panini sticker albums, tazos, powerpod figurines, pencil topper football shirts rules the playgrounds.
Physical games on the playground like bulldogs
Films were better and worth going to the cinema to see
Fuck I miss it
fancycakelover@reddit
Smirnoff ice, WKD, Sean Paul, sticky floors in pubs and bars, cheesy chips and a kebab,no one was worried about protein. It was bliss
cregamon@reddit
We be burnin’ not concernin’ what nobody wanna say - the anthem of a good night out!
Quasar8848@reddit
I was a kid and a teenager, so maybe I perceived the world as happier for that reason. But I do think it was prior to September 11th 2001. The 90s was fun, lots of memories of being outside on bikes with my friends and just agreeing to come home from the park in the evening - a phone would have been good, but it was also kind of special. 2000s was more emerging tech, and Nokia phone turned into flip phones etc. We had AOL instant messenger, then moved on to MSN messenger. Bebo, MySpace felt like the first social networking sites. And we put many viruses on the family computer trying to download videos and music.
Prudent_Pack2738@reddit
Fewer and fewer needles in playgrounds, and the shopping trolleys were disappearing from canals
But
Could still get dodgy on a night bus
cregamon@reddit
Night bus roulette. You could make it home. Or you could end up in hospital.
Either way, at least you ended up in a bed.
i_jizz_nails@reddit
Going to 6th form and getting my first mobile, didn't send my first text until 5 months after
Dartzap@reddit
Every generation thinks their youthful decade was the best one, and rightly so.
The day where that's no longer the case will be a bleak one.
Horrifying to think that the 90s are the new seventies which have forever been labelled "30 years ago" in my brain.
cregamon@reddit
My wife showed me an Instagram video earlier with Blink 182’s ‘What’s my Age Again’ playing - a song I loved back in the day, we played it in our band.
This video says that if you were 14 or older when this song came out - which I was, I’d just turned 14 - then you were born nearer to THE END OF WORLD WAR 2 than to today.
I was having a good day up until that point! That made me feel ancient!
ArtichokeDesperate68@reddit
Optimistic and hopeful. It feels like each year now gets progressively worse…
poppyjd@reddit
Summers were the BEST. The temperature got to 24 at max so summer was magical without being overbearing. Every park was full. Kids would all make friends with other kids and run around in packs.
I left school the year you were born, we went everywhere with a digital camera, had to plug our iPod shuffles in to get new music on them. It wasn’t completely switched off, but tech was so gradual in my life that it never took over.
I don’t know if I just got lucky, but it was SO fun being a teenager in the late 00s. We did have MySpace but it barely caused drama and we still all prioritised going out. My son is 15 now and when I tell him stories of what we got up to, he’s so jealous of how much fun we had. All the daft things we’d come up with to have fun and the mad clothes we’d wear.
Fun-Brush5136@reddit
I spent half my time moping about being slightly too young to go out during the early-mid 80s when my favourite bands (early past punk, goth) were hitting their peaks.
Kids never happy with where they're at, huh?
Looking back it was fun though and seemingly a lot more free. Easy to go clubbing/get served booze underage, clubs and pubs were affordable, etc. But I wasn't really into the music at the time.
Able_While_974@reddit
I was in my 20s in the 1990s. Best age to be and in the best decade. I wish I knew then how crap the last 10 years were going to be and I might have appreciated it more.
inthepipe_fivebyfive@reddit
God man, it was so good looking back.
I was probably in year 9 or 10 when the school got their first PC's (1998 or 1999) - teachers didn't know what to do with them. Their connection was much better than the 56k dial up at home, so used to install Napster, download a song (maybe 2) put it into a floppy, bring it home and upload. And repeat.
Man...Lars was maaaaaaad.
PositiveRainCloud@reddit
Knocked for your friends when you wanted to play with them, and as long as we got back home before it got dark we could go anywhere within a reasonable radius. Riding around on our BMX's and friends who didn't have bikes would ride around on the back of us on the stunt pegs.
Mrblad25@reddit
It was wonderful and I miss it, I wish my children had the same childhood I did, minimal tech maximum fun.
Brichals@reddit
I was born in 78 so the 90s were my formative years. There was just much less oppressive feeling.
Less fences if you know what I mean. The council put up so many fences since then. But not only that, 15 year olds can't buy beer any more and hang around in parks. All the areas they could hang out in are fenced off now. Just everything is gatekept now I don't know where I'm going with the fence analogy.
Saying that we were bored quite a bit. We danced drank and screwed because there was nothing else to do. Could write a song about that.
As teenagers in the 90s though we were total twats. Kids nowadays are actually more civilised.
Hamsternoir@reddit
The free party scene in the early to mid 90s was great so there's some parts of the decade I don't remember at all.
But also some great times I do remember and look back on very fondly.
Rich_27-@reddit
Fucking awesome
invokes@reddit
Epic!
Effective-Cash7286@reddit
The year I did my GCSE's summer 2008... How was that 18 years ago?!
Holiday_Cat_7284@reddit
I was in my 20s for that period. I was 20 in 1995.
For me, it was an era when girls were fully expected to get a job and be successful, but also one of the worst eras for misogyny. There was horrible pressure to be thin, be very sexual, but also be successful and be a good wife. It was quite a confusing and difficult time to be a young woman. I struggled.
Culturally, it was an incredible era. It felt like amazing things were around the corner, that anything was possible, that the UK was flying. Sadly, it was short lived.
EyeAware3519@reddit
The Matrix was right. 1999 was the peak of human civilization
jaBroniest@reddit
No one recording on their phones for everyone else's attention. Please ban recording at music festivals I don't want to watch the show through your fucking iPhone camera.
Illustrious_Bus8440@reddit
Born in 88. 90s was my childhood.
TAKE ME BACK. Life was so much better.
tomkeys78@reddit
It was ace. It was like the 60’s but the 90’s. Great memories
McBahtman@reddit
Born in 2000 and as much as I appreciate the ease that technology offers, I really miss the early days where social media and algorithms didn't dictate everything.
I only got a few years of it, and I wasnt allowed a Facebook account until I was 13 but god the lack of pressure was something I long for. No constantly comparing yourself to other people, just vibes and occasionally getting a black eye from a tree branch snapping back in your face (yes that really did happen to me)
Old_Shake3789@reddit
I still have PTSD from dial-up! Great times!
Jonathans_8@reddit
As a teen in the 90s, I used to hang out with friends to play video games (Amiga, SNES, PS1 era). It was all offline back then so we actually had to go to each others houses. I didn't have the internet till late 90s so I would read magazines like Gamesmaster for reviews and cheats. Since the media was physical (cartridges and CDs) we would swap games/music with friends. Arcade games were a fun experience, and superior to the console versions making them a bit special.
Usaname91@reddit
Born in 91 and Christ I miss how life was back then. I won’t repeat what’s already been said but life just seemed better
mjstokes85@reddit
The easiest way I can describe it was that you actively had to do something to go online. Now you actively have to do something to get offline. It was the best of both worlds in my opinion, but you could feel the shift towards a more digital age coming. Once it tipped over to more online than offline, with the birth of the smartphone, it didn’t feel fun anymore.
Icy_Society_9931@reddit
I found mid 80s, early 90s great! Only in my 20s had a great job, music was great as was the raving scene.
SpectreSingh89@reddit
I see wha u mean. I was born in 89 and pondered on wha 70's was like. Adults talking about how they got hit by parents or even "roughed" up by teachers. When I was 5-6 best I got was teachers grabbing me by my collar tightly 😂 and telling me off.
I suppose u can go to a friend, knock on their door to see if they are in? Write a letter to someone instead of composing a text? Wear a jumper instead of switching on the radiator? Find games in the park or garden? Imaginary play? But for your age, finding info in the library may be ideal then just searching it up online.
lostnov04@reddit
Early Internet and social media was amazing.
Internet was fresh with websites that didn't have a pay wall, no ads, no hidden agenda, just websites set up to provide cool and interesting content.
Social media, again - no ads, was fun and actually social, people spoke on daily, but it didn't take over your life.
I have Spotify now and access to anything, but the buzz i had from downloading 1 x song from Napster is unmatched. It was a different time.
BigBastardChap@reddit
Born in '82 and loved the late nineties, early 2000s.
I know it's an' old fart' thing to say, but social media and the era of influencers has pretty much fucked up society beyond repair now.
We weren't a bunch of zombies obsessed with looking at our mobiles back then. We actually talked, we wore silly massive jeans, we played 4 Player Goldeneye, looked forward to The Matrix and listened to Limp Bizkit. :) Simple but fun times.
Theres3ofMe@reddit
I was aged between 17 and 24 and it was absolutely perfect.
Calm_Set_9433@reddit
Oh if you thought those days seemed good, wait till you hear about the 80s. Every era has good and bad aspects but the 80s for me were really good times, (mostly).
mondo_generator@reddit
I turned 16 in 1999 and looking back it was such a perfect time to be that age. Tony Hawks on PlayStation, Jackass and Tom Green on TV, American Pie films, nu meal and pop punk. It felt like nobody took anything seriously and it was more about just having some fun.
Exactly as you want things at that age.
axelzr@reddit
Better
Programmer-Severe@reddit
The back end of it was the begining of the end of an era tbh. Generally the carefree world died post-9/11, which was when the clouds started rolling in.
The late 90s were incredible. No social media, great music, optimism.... I wish I could relive it.
ParticularNo9591@reddit
I was born in 1993, and I remember from about 1997 onwards even though I was a young kid then. My mum and dad didn't earn a lot and we were a normal working class family, living in the north of england. I feel like they could do more with their money that I can now at the same age as they were.
Compared to now, the technology really was the dark ages. I was 12 in 2005. I'd been messing with computers for a few years, learning to fix them and stuff. It became an interest and now a career. Computers got cheaper, more powerful, and more capable. More people had internet connections in their homes. That brought with it the beginning of an 'internet culture'. There were websites like Newgrounds where Flash games and animations (Flash was an early multimedia technology that would run in your browser) were popularised. It was broadly the same as it is now in terms of what people did with the internet, but it was the wild west. There was no filtering, anybody could post anything. Both an aspect of freedom but also a huge problem no legislation could really deal with. You wanted to talk to someone you knew, we used MSN Messenger but there were others. You wanted to talk to someone else, a chat room somewhere. Yes it was as dodgy as it sounds.
Mobile phones were getting cheaper and more capable too. You no longer needed a contract, you could buy the phone outright and then get a SIM card just like today. I had a Nokia 3510 which I was given when I started high school in 2005. It had a monochrome display, and 'T9 predictive text' which would try and predict your words. I got really really fast at it. I didn't get my first android smartphone until about 2010. Smartphones 'existed' but they were a business tool rather than a consumer device. You communicated not doomscrolled.
Music shops sold CDs, Cassettes and Vinyl. You'd walk into someone's house and they'd have a grotesque silver Aiwa or JVC stereo system with bass ports and flashing lights everywhere. It'd play everything you needed. It was the centre of the living room. And a big silver CRT widescreen TV. Everything was fucking silver.
Gaming was great but even at the time felt a bit complicated compared to the Playstation era. You had the Playstation 2, the first Microsoft Xbox, and the Nintendo Gamecube. All of them could do online play if you were minted and all of them used physical media as internet connections weren't too good at downloading full games yet. That'd come next time around. I did most of my gaming on PC and xbox. I played Half Life 2 on release, and it blew my tiny mind.
When I was growing up, we all saw 9/11, the Iraq War, the Afghanistan conflict, the 7/7 London bombings live on TV. Every single day. The optimism kinda died post 9/11. I went from watching the fireworks on the 31st December 1999 to a near constant threat of terrorism. Our town had two IRA bombings, so it wasn't exactly a zero chance.
TheodoreEDamascus@reddit
I was a teenager in Ireland late 90s, moved to London early 2000s.
The common denominator? Lots of ecstasy. The choice and quality of British ecstasy was far better though
redheadedwildgypsy@reddit
those were absolutely brilliant times!
Reverend_Butler@reddit
The fucking best, the best music, the best clubbing experiences, drugs were cheap. People were optimistic and I was thin.
bennettbuzz@reddit
Brilliant. Childhood in the 90s and being a teenager early 2000s just out with your mates all the time, getting messy every weekend, house parties/ raves, underage in pubs no problem. I was about 20 when Facebook properly kicked off so to miss all the shit that’s come after is a complete blessing. I feel sorry for kids born around 1998+
GeekDomUK@reddit
No social media Mobile phones were only just coming in and they couldn’t do much, just call and text. The drugs were amazing 🤩
rose-a-ree@reddit
A lot of things sucked, particularly if you weren't a straight white man, BUT things were better than they'd ever been and we had no reason to believe they wouldn't keep on getting better forever
Brighton101@reddit
A lot of sex. A lot of crazy shit. A lot of great music. A lot of grinding and smoking and drugs. Parents had no idea. No photos no records.
RoyofBungay@reddit
Born in 1971 and was a mature student in the late 90s. Was both a grant and student loan student. Life definitely felt more laid back and less competitive. However, we still had to work part time to make ends meet. My housemates worked at Woolies on Saturday and I worked as a hospital domestic. My student rent was £160 a month and beer about £1.80 a pint. The music scene was definitely less generic and more diverse. Probably the best years of my life so far.
losttraveller123@reddit
I feel lucky I experienced life without social media or iPhones. When we finally got a computer it was shared between the whole household and we couldn’t use the internet without disrupting the phone. A lot of time was spent outside and it was a simpler time.
Funnily enough I say the same thing and kind of wish I was bought up in the 70s and 80s.
Funky_Owl_Turnip@reddit
Honestly it was class. Drink was cheap, clubs barely bothered to ID, nobody was going to upload pics of you going feral on blue WKD age 15.
Additionally, I didnt even experience one 'once in a lifetime recession' til I graduated (in the middle of one!) and now it feels like we're continually experiencing financial crises.
It's not just nostalgia. It was a simpler, cheaper time. There was an optimism in the air.
OllyDee@reddit
I personally loved it, it was an exciting time. It felt very optimistic though that might have been my own youthful bias. Technology was advancing quicker than you could shake a stick at, and the banging music of the time reflected that. Particularly rave and club music which was really dominating at the time. Hardcore, Drum and Bass, Hard House, Trance… take me back!
If you liked gaming it was exciting too, and still at the point where arcades were still the premium experience. That would soon change, for better or worse.
asphytotalxtc@reddit
Hardcore was absolutely banging! Was djing quite a lot at the time around between London and Birmingham... Hell we still run a 2000s era Hardcore night to this day! Hahaha
Great days ☺️
OllyDee@reddit
I loved it so much I taught myself how to make 90’s era Hardcore. I still make it now. Proper high-bpm cheese. It’s my one talent mate!
Never got into PC gaming until a lot later, though I do fondly remember illicit games of Quake at college.
asphytotalxtc@reddit
My true love was always the 90s era cheesy hardcore! That's what I fell in love with as a teenager 😂
Still got a load of love for the 2000s era UK Hardcore as well. I probably played that out the most... Was still a bit young in the 90s haha, only had my first rave (Slammin Vinyl @ Bagley's) in '97.
Still have my 1210s though, they're still spinning! Middle of a house move right now... All the vinyl moving is absolutely knackering me 😂😂
OllyDee@reddit
You gotta get some CDJ’s at least mate, you’ll have no back left otherwise! Vinyl hardcore does sound good though, especially the crunchy old shit.
I didn’t get to Slammin’ until the very last event at the Sanctuary unfortunately. At least I got to see it before it became… an IKEA?
asphytotalxtc@reddit
Lol! Ah I had a pair of 1000s for years! Had to really, just to keep up to date.. So many gigs towards the end of that era were basically CDJ only. I rarely carried vinyl after about 2008 to be honest, just a giant wallet of burned CDs...
I still can't find it in my heart to get rid of a good decade+ span of Hardcore on vinyl though. I still spin a bit at home nowdays, rarely play out any more as I'm bloody deaf as a doornail 😂
The urge to perhaps just buy a controller is still there though. Maybe just one more big splash on a DDJ-AZ or something to see out the end of my days 🤔
OllyDee@reddit
Lovely stuff. You had to go for the last one, that place had such a big legacy. Scott Browns set was in particular a fuckin’ monster from what I remember. I dread to think about how many loose tapes from those events I accumulated over the years.
asphytotalxtc@reddit
Was the Sy and Storm one for me... I still listen to it all the time!
OllyDee@reddit
Just seen the comment about the tracks - Cheers mate lmao. That’s the plan, make it retro and make it clean. My production is shite but I can write a tune more or less.
asphytotalxtc@reddit
The beautiful thing about 90s hardcore was that the production was so basic! It had a whole "simpler vibe" that just made it addictive. I think that's very much a key aspect of its style.
None of this six million VSTs and a billion processor cores running untold automation.. Just good old synths, samplers, drum kits all cabled into a mixing desk with perhaps a 486 running cubase to sequence it all lmao.
Simpler times....
OllyDee@reddit
Yeah but recreating that sound from scratch isn’t simple, I can tell you that much. You’ve got to reverse-engineer everything, and do far more research than you would for some other genres. Obviously I can’t run everything hot into a mixing desk so I’ve got to recreate that sound without the equipment. Thankfully there’s at least some interviews with people that reveal how they did what they did (Darren Styles came in handy actually) so it’s not a complete guessing game.
It’s kept me busy and having fun for a few years though so I can’t complain.
asphytotalxtc@reddit
Its something I've always wanted to get into, but I've honestly got the production talent of a mildly retarded gerbil on ketamine... Tried so many times but never got much progress. Guess I'm just cursed to spin and promote rather than produce 😂
Darren's a good lad, learned a heap off dougal, gammer and jbc as well. Gammer is mental to watch in the studio... I've no idea how he does it!
OllyDee@reddit
Yeah Gammer is a talented bloke for sure, top-notch production. Brisk was another one pushing the production too, and right from the early days.
asphytotalxtc@reddit
I'm gutted Brisk is off in Australia... Getting a proper classic Brisk and Ham set on the go at HAS (our night) is one of our final goals we've never been able to accomplish in 12 years no matter how hard we try.
OllyDee@reddit
Oh mate you are not wrong about that. Yeah you’ve gotta get Brisk on, he’s probably my favourite out of all the old crew. Needs to get his priorities straight eh?
asphytotalxtc@reddit
We've tried, and tried, and tried.. Hams even apparently warm to the idea. Just need all the planets (and half the galaxy) to align at the same precise milisecond, cast the chicken bones in this right order, utter the right chant.. Sacrifice a young minimal house fan in the smoking area and MAYBE we'll just pull it off...
We live in hope! 😂🤞
asphytotalxtc@reddit
Just checked out some of your tunes you've posted! Baaaaannnggggiiiinnnn! Absolutely nailed that late 90s sound! 😁
Which-Particular-438@reddit
I was born in 1988, I was 10 in 1998 but the early 2000s was my teen years, no phones, real conversation, real connection, Nokia 3210/3310 was the phone to have. Early 2000s still felt like the late 90s. My university years 2007-10 were analogue as I had a colour Samsung slide phone that called and texted, got my first smartphone in 2010, a blackberry curve which didn’t have 3G as it was the cheap one with only 2G and WiFi.
Suspicious-Case3861@reddit
The best. It was the best.
Realistic-River-1941@reddit
1997 was 2024 except people thought things actually could get better.
I grew up with horror stories of the 1970s, so there was no nostalgia for just before I was born.
While nostalgia is the wrong word, WWII was still the defining thing for society, and we were surrounded by the people who saw it first-hand.
All the stuff people now say about mobile phones was said about TV. By people who had been told radio was the problem.
koombot@reddit
I miss gamefaqs, now everything is a bloody wiki or a 30 minute YouTube video for a 2 minute section.
this-guy-@reddit
I was 20 in 1990. Through the 90s - Nobody knew where I was and nobody knew what I was up to. Unless I decided to tell them. Society was at a perfect point where permissiveness and opportunity overlapped.
purplechemist@reddit
When you met up, people arrived on time. You’d agree on Friday “meet by the clock tower at 2pm tomorrow and we’ll go from there” and you know what? You were fucking there or you missed out. None of this “oh haha, running 35 mins late, see you soon lol” rubbish.
PsychologicalDish430@reddit
Fucking amazing
CasfromBri@reddit
I bought a house for 18 thousand in 2001 and sold it for 80 thousand 2 years later. My mortage was £218 a month for a 3 bed. Times were good!
himit@reddit
You could buy little straws of sherbert for 1p each, and they also sold them in bundles of 50 and 100. My school playground was covered with them. Eventually the school banned them.
jimmygetmehigh@reddit
Born in 2000 and so thankful for that. Had the best childhood without having an iPad shoved in my hands from the age of 3.
Asleep-Software-4160@reddit
I fucking loved it and I miss it.
ijs_1985@reddit
Watching MTV, going skating, getting the bus to town, drinking in the park
Good times
GrahamGreed@reddit
This nostalgia exists for every generation, I grew up in the 90s and 00s and the 60s in particular seemed incredibly cool. I am glad I didn't have a smart phone at school though as pretty sure I would have failed given how addicted I am to it now.
TelephoneOrnery1394@reddit
Growing up in the 1990’s I thought at the time, this is the best time ever! Mario in 3D, online gaming, internet, mp3’s..
teacup901@reddit
Yes I was born early 90's and feel nostalgia for the 70's and 80's.
Away_Cauliflower1367@reddit
It was fantastic being a teen, sitting on a field with your mates on summers evening and nobody looking at their phone. Proper conversations, not just speaking in regurgitated phrases.
aaron1uk@reddit
For me what made the late 90s and early 00s amazing was the internet, I was amazed I could play games with people half way across the planet (worms 2). It was chaos but it felt like a hopeful place, wasn't spoiled but corporations and greed, it was this free space for people to share hobbies and passions. It's the one thing I yearn for as I hit middle age.
RedPlasticDog@reddit
The end of X teen era
Easy to get drink and fags. No one cared that your fake id was so obviously fake.
Parents pretended they didn’t know u was pissed.
No social media or camera phones to record it all
Great music, lots of places to go and do stuff.
Was a fun time
MaxMouseOCX@reddit
No one told me I was living in the best time until I was old enough to recognise that, and the fact it was already over.
ATB 9pm and the like was the sound track of my summer in 1999 - I often wish I could go back to that time for a holiday; sometimes when it's a quiet summer's day and I'm driving alone on a country road in the middle of nowhere listening to the tunes from back then I can almost transport myself back there for a few minutes.
It wasn't all roses obviously, no time frame ever is... But to me, it was perfect.
If you were to say to me "you can go back to that time and stay there forever, but you must give up everything in your modern life like your phone etc" - I would be incredibly hard pressed to make a decision... It'd take me a while.
Tight-Principle-743@reddit
Well, I was a teen in the mid nineties and early noughties so I can answer this one - I loved it! It was brilliant there was no social media so none of the problems that came with it.
The news was something you’d see once a day or something (I didn’t really pay much attention to it) so the misery and grief wasn’t that present compared to today.
the tech we had was the sole computer you’d have in the household as your sole access to main news or gaming. I remember standing around it whenever my brothers were using it and listening to it dial up when we browsed the internet.
I used to go to watch games at Upton Park in my later teens pretty regularly and loved it!, Euro 96 was a lot of fun.
The Early noughties were great and had Muse and one of my favourite songs Supermassive Black Hole.
You had to be there, it was cracking. I’d go back if I could.
f1boogie@reddit
Kids played outside without adult supervision.
More people spoke about TV, without streaming and with less channels, most people would have watched the same program the night before.
We had a different thing for each feature of your smartphone. Camera, cd player, cd carry case, mobile phone, wallet, maps, compass, foreignlanguagephrase book. Having plenty of pockets, or a bag was a must for a teenager, especially if you went abroad. Now you just carry one device.
Technology came on a long way very quickly, it seemed like every year or so, something totally revolutionary came out, now its just the same thing as last year but slightly faster,and slightly worse in some other way.
Social media was about talking to your friends and family, not complete strangers and having recommended posts and adverts shoved in your face. I won't miss pop up ads online though.
Microsoft Windows used to just let you get on with what you wanted to do. Now it just tries to guess what you want to do, or hides things in advanced settings menus, and keeps asking if you are sure that you want to run a program that you intentionally clicked on.
alfa_omega@reddit
1999-2009 were peak for me. It all went rapidly downhill after that
ysabellatrix@reddit
It was great! Every Friday my dad would take us to blockbusters to rent movies for the weekend.
I was always out and about playing with the neighbourhood kids. We would go around the houses playing with dogs and eating a lot of cake.
Majority of birthday parties was Spice Girls themed.
It was good times!
MisstianoPenaldo@reddit
Born in 97' and I understand, feel like technology grew with me as I grew up so never really knew what it was to be without it
Skanedog@reddit
Being in 82 and God I do miss being a teenager in the 90s.
sennalvera@reddit
Spice Girls, Gameboy, Little Britain. Harry Potter books just being released. An easier, lighter, more fun time than our non-stop rage and depression train of today.
Basic-Pangolin553@reddit
It was great.
RevFernie@reddit
Doves, Rolex's and Mitsubishi's mostly.
catfordbeerclub@reddit
Also turbo mitsubishi's. Really cheap as well. Good times
seshwan33@reddit
Honestly it was fucking fire. It was the best. Just everything. We had some much but nothing had gotten to the point where it ruined life a bit.
You still knocked round for people Flicking through Music channels watching the videos was like scrolling now. You just did it when there was nothing to do. It was amazing.
You were excited to see people at school because you weren’t connected to them 24/7 a smart device.
Texting was fun. Going to gigs. Festivals. House parties. The music of that era. Even gaming. Things like guitar hero 3. TV shows. Not having pause on the tele. Just unbeatable.
It was truly amazing. For ages like 8 to 18 it really was the best time and I feel bad for kids these days including my own because it’s just not possible to go back to it being like that.
RevolutionaryLow309@reddit
Well wicked!
Fruitpicker15@reddit
I remember being at school and looking at property ads in the paper and thinking ok so a house costs £30,000 so when I finish school and get a job that's what I'm going to do. Meanwhile house prices started their insane inflation and when I finished school it was impossible for me. That's one of the bad things but overall things were good. I suppose every generation says this but things were simpler compared to now and I didn't worry about the future.
Miserable-Rub-4053@reddit
It was a much simpler time, yes… and there wasn’t nearly as much doom and gloom around as there seems to be these days… but it wasn’t without its problems - no era is perfect.
Wise-Youth2901@reddit
If I miss that time it's more because of the older generations that are now mostly dead. My grandparents were born in the mid 1920s and 1930s. I knew my great grandmother, born in the early 1900s. My husband's great grandmother was born just before the sinking of the Titanic. There was a way of dressing, a style and way of being that has fallen increasingly by the way side. You didn't see lots of people with tattoos. People held themselves differently. People took more pride in how they looked and dressed respectably. There were more community things that went on. Traditional things. In northern towns you had brass bands and marches linked to the old industries and unions. Summer fetes. Some of this still happens but far less. Also, society was less car dependent. More people walked around. Jumped on the bus to the local high street. So many towns now feel quite dead to me, so many just drive everywhere.
KittyKes@reddit
Car dominance accounts for a lot of what people think has declined about community life. Kids playing out, neighbours hanging out in the streets / even street parties, all not considered safe anymore
StillJustJones@reddit
I can honestly say although britpop was inspired by mod music from the 60’s (ocean colour scene were more or less a Small Faces tribute band) British music and culture felt new and exciting.
The beginning of the decade birthed rave, jungle was a brand new totally British sound (yes it was riddled with ragga and reggae samples but it was OUR sound). London and city living was doable and liveable even on a meagre wage.
The ecstasy was new, cheap and plentiful.
Clubbing and gigging was fresh and it felt like it was run by the youth for the youth…. Even the mega clubs (cream, ministry etc) weren’t shit as they weren’t corporate sell outs and hadn’t diluted their brand at that point.
I had a bloody good time, all the time, (right up to the point where I didn’t anymore).
ishallbecomeabat@reddit
Woolworths!
Derbadian@reddit
It was truely a great era. Cool Britannia was a thing and there was genuine hope and excitement about the future
Sea-Hour-6063@reddit
Better than now, that’s for fucking sure.
Comfortable-Bug1737@reddit
I was born in 1988, it was a great time to be a kid
Crypto-hercules@reddit
I turned 18 in 2000 was the best NYE ever !!
TheeDeme@reddit
I was a teenager in the early 2000s!
I remember school used to be buzzing with what had happened in the Premier League, along with the antics on Soccer AM. Being a Liverpool fan during this period was painful though.
You would finish school, stay out for a while, then run home to get on MSN. Then wait for hours for Limewire to download a song, only for it to be Bill Clinton.
I remember using chatrooms. A/S/L anyone? I remember my friend met her husband when she was 15 on a chatroom (he was 15 too).
You had to have photos developed, which made them special. I still have a bag full of photos from this period of all the times I were out with friends.
You could make mistakes and there wasn't that 'virtual/digital' footprint.
Loose_Avocado4670@reddit (OP)
This sounds so great.
I'm thinking of getting a Polaroid camera to take photos with me my boyfriend and family so it sort of looks like we were in that time haha.
TheeDeme@reddit
I actually bought a polaroid to get the feeling back!
I think what the 90s and 00s had is freedom - especially being young. I used to go out for hours and go everywhere. Just needed to be home before a certain time/when the street lights went on. Looking back at the photos then (no filters, no posing, no perfection) is probably the happiest I've ever looked in a photo. I hate having my picture taken now because you have to look perfect. Then? No-one cared because it took weeks to be developed and when you finally got it, you just remembered the memory/experience.
palebluedot365@reddit
It was great. But we didn’t know how good it was at the time.
In 30 years time you’ll probably be nostalgic for today (well maybe not the first 4 months of 2026 specifically).
So maybe just try to enjoy it and make memories you can look back on rather than thinking about a time that’s never coming back.
tennisstar04@reddit
Britpop era was unparalleled
Capable_Tip7815@reddit
I feel sorry for my daughter growing up now as when I was her age I had discos or underage raves (legal) to go to of a weekend. The shows would come to town for every school holiday, including long weekends. We could go up the town and mooch around shops.
ReggieTMcMuffin@reddit
Things were really good. The country seemed at ease with itself, cool Britannia and union jacks were everywhere, the economy was in a good place, the nanny state wasn't as intrusive, no social media and all the bullshit it brought but best of all, the clubbing scene was amazing.
9/11 changed everything. The world and Britain changed for the worse. It seemed to be all fun and games before that.
Loose_Avocado4670@reddit (OP)
My mum says this a lot. Said she was in town and the shop that sold tvs and displayed a lot of them in the window, usually showing the news was crowded and people were in shock/crying.
She went over and saw the 1st plane hit the tower.
She said the attack was on the news constantly for weeks and it was just a very depressing/weird few weeks.
Natsumi_Kokoro@reddit
So good I wish life was like this now.
We had a tv made of wood with only 4 channels.
We played out with friends and less cars on the road made it easier to be (and feel) safe. Knocking on doors for mates rather than texting. It felt like people were truly connected and social.
You could ride bikes for hours and go exploring. Get called in for dinner. School we did homework on a white board, no apps for homework and you truly could get lost for hours reading amazing books.
Life felt more peaceful and harmonious to me. I happened to live near to the sea which was just dreamy. You could also have a penpal and it cost pence to send letters.
Natsumi_Kokoro@reddit
And too add up til high school for me it was blackboards and chalk 😆
MitziDd@reddit
i was a teenager in the early 2000s and honestly yeah it was pretty special but not in the way you probably think. like it wasnt some magical utopia, there was still plenty of shit going on (iraq war, 7/7 bombings, chavs lol). but the VIBE was just different
like you'd actually go round your mates house unannounced and just knock on the door. nobody texted ahead bc half of us didnt have phones yet or had like a nokia with 10p texts. you'd just show up and if they werent in you went home. wild concept now
saturday mornings were actually good tv, you'd go into town with like £5 and somehow have a full day out. msn messenger in the evenings where you'd spend 40 mins picking the perfect display name with like ~~sparkles~~ around it
the music was class too. indie was massive, everyone was either into oasis or blur even tho that rivalry was basically over by then. then you had garage, grime coming up, arctic monkeys dropping that first album and it felt like everyone heard it at the same time
but i'll be honest with you mate the job market thing is massivley overstated. it was easier yeah but wages were still crap and housing was already starting to get mental in the south east. your parents generation had it even better than us tbh
you're not really nostalgic for the 90s specifically i think your just nostalgic for a time before everything was online 24/7 which is completely fair
Responsible_Bird3384@reddit
Lived in London, got my first graduate job, poor as a church mouse but no student loans. Later moved back north, got a better job, able to buy my first house on my salary alone. The Oasis/Blur wars. No work emails or wide use of mobile work phones. Magic. Life is hard for kidults now.
cymruaj@reddit
Everyone says the time they grew up was the best.... so here's my version haha. I was born in 85 so this was my growing up period. It was brilliant. The internet was basic, but more fully formed than you'd expect - I'd often spend rainy Saturday afternoons watching dodgy streams of football from the UK or Germany, so not much has changed with that (but more popups then!) Lack of smart phones was a good thing in a way - you could phone and text, load music onto it. Anyone who got your number you didn't want, it was easy to block them so there was no harassment. When you made plans for a week in the future, you didn't have to text every day in the build up to confirm the meetup place and time, you stuck to the plan. The media gave less of a shit about everything, if there was a big story, it lasted for a few days then something else took over, rather than witch hunts being dragged out for weeks. Sportspeople were far less sanitised because of this. TV had fewer options but this meant less repeats, less of the same idea rehashed. Same went for films, there were a few huge blockbuster films every summer so the cinema was worth going to.
I'd re-live it again in a heartbeat.
qbnaith@reddit
It fucking sucked if you were gay
soulsteela@reddit
It was truly awesome, the only time in my life I’ve really felt hopeful about the future, I was very wrong.
MGSC_1726@reddit
Tech was so exciting then. From 2000-2010, the evolution of phones was amazing. Everybody had their own unique one, and when you got a new one, you got a new one. Not the same phone just upgraded. I was born in 93, my first phone age 10 was a Nokia 3310.. absolute classic.
roozierooo@reddit
Unrelated, but have you claimed the money you’re entitled to? https://www.theguardian.com/money/2026/apr/11/child-trust-funds-windfall-18-uk-ctf?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other
geekroick@reddit
Pro: very little restrictions on the Internet, it was like the wild west back then.
Con: as the vast majority of us were on 56k modems, it was like crawling through the wild west rather than strutting around in your cowboy boots.
Also, the vast majority of things that we now take for granted as being able to complete online (getting road tax/anything involving the government, for example) just did not happen back then. You had to leave the house, or pick up the phone and call someone.
Lau_kaa@reddit
The mid 90s were a great time. I was in my late teens/early 20s and it felt like we had a lot of opportunities people that age don't have now. It was ridiculously easy to get a job and you could live well very cheaply. No social media, no 24/7 rolling news. It wasn't perfect and there were problems as there are in any era, but objectively I think the country was a better place than it is now.
notmenotyoutoo@reddit
Squats, raves, living for almost nothing on the dole. Hitch hiking around to festivals it was a good time to be young.
Just-an-idiot-online@reddit
OK, I was a kid/teen for most of that time, so my view is rose tinted, but it seemed a simpler time. Nobody was connected 24/7, you had to leave your house for anything you wanted. The internet was new and cool and fun and not overtaken by ads and bots.
There was a real sense of hope and future in around the millennium.
Basically there was a better sense of connection and interaction because you had to go and speak to someone in person to get anything done.
Jobs were fairly easy to get. University tuition was free. Housing was relatively cheap.
Obviously there was some bad stuff going on too. Casual homophobia and racism worse than it is now. I never knew trans people existed, but I imagine they didn't have a great time either.
kylehyde84@reddit
Fucking incredible
nihilistkitty@reddit
My and my other half 41f and 43m were just saying that we wanted to go back. Everything was just easier back then. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for 200/month. That included utilities.
ThatPrickNick@reddit
90s were amazing in my opinion, I was still young turned 20 in 98 but everything just seemed better somehow, not as much pressure in life, I was doing labouring when I was 16 getting 75 quid a week cash in hand, id give my mum 25 quid and the 50 was enough for me to get through the week with fags and drinks in the pub included, pub discos were awesome back then no camera phones to worry about, just simpler times really
Cally83@reddit
The best of times looking back.
avalonMMXXII@reddit
It was a pessimistic era with lots of cynicism, especially from adults at the time.
chriskeene@reddit
It's impossible to generalise for a whole nation, but for many of us it felt like good times. Good music, going out felt something most of us could do, summers were hot (I'm not making that up, there was a string of really hot summers).
In the 80s and early 90s where I grew up I struggle to think of many restaurants, and this was a large town. Beefeater, Pizza Hut (not Pizza Express/Ask), the odd Chinese place but I really can't can't think of any other places. by 2000s that was all changing, so many more options.
And it felt good to be British, we normally love talking ourselves down, but british music (britpop + pop), TV, Films fooball, were all doing well.
strawberryblondey@reddit
Compared to now those times were a dream. It was more simplistic. Too much going on these days.
THATSMrPOTATOH3AD@reddit
Honestly? Amazing..... The days of getting in from school and going out to play using pure imagination. Loved building camps in the woods and just generally having no technology to rely on for entertainment.
TranquillityQuack@reddit
I miss it a lot. I remember coming home from school in the 2000s to go on MSN 🤣 not being able to get through to my friends on the bouse phone bwcause they were on the internet 🥲 it's difficult to explain how it was considering how technology heavy we are as a world now. Feel like an old git saying this lmao
Unusual_Sherbert2671@reddit
Amazing
Growing up to 90s and 00s pop cultur, TV, premier league was amazing
Bbew_Mot@reddit
Everything was much bigger from what I remember!
Doomergeneration@reddit
Heaven on earth, you had to be there mannn
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