Do you still look up English words after 10+ years in an English speaking country?
Posted by jisanson@reddit | expats | View on Reddit | 94 comments
I’ve been in North America for over 20 years. I work in tech, I read English news daily, I’m fully functional in the language and I still regularly hit words I have to look up.
What frustrates me is that I look them up, understand them in the moment, and then completely forget them by the next time I see the same word.
Is this just a normal part of life as a non native speaker, even decades in? Or is there something people actually do to make vocabulary stick at this stage?
YuckyYetYummy@reddit
I was born in America and I look up words. You can't know everything.
Mabbernathy@reddit
Same. With Wordle yesterday the word was "carom". I had never thought of how it was spelled. It took me a second to figure out what it was.
OkIncrease6030@reddit
It was the first time Wordle has used a word i didn’t know. I know careen and maybe that’s what I’ve always heard when someone said carom.
prettyprincess91@reddit
If you were British you would know this as it’s a common Indian game. Also if you’re Indian or lived in India I guess. We grow up playing Carom - didn’t know it wasn’t common until reading this.
Mabbernathy@reddit
I've never heard of the Indian game. Carom to me means something akin to bouncing off.
Punner1@reddit
Yes, and that is essentially the game. A player slides a "floating" circular piece on a large, flat, square surface. The game appears to require that this piece "carom" off a certain number of sides before striking a target object. It is much like billiards, the version without holes in the table. But instead of using balls, it uses flat discs.
Look it up on YouTube. It is quite an amazing skill game.
Mabbernathy@reddit
That description reminds me of air hockey!
Punner1@reddit
The pieces move like that, but I see no air source.
prettyprincess91@reddit
Air source? You flick the piece.
Punner1@reddit
The piece floats so nicely, it seems supported on a cushion of air-- like air hockey.
prettyprincess91@reddit
Don’t know - British colonized India and brought the game to Europe. I grew up playing it in the UK.
OkIncrease6030@reddit
I’ve lived in the UK for 16 years?
prettyprincess91@reddit
Then don’t know why you never heard of it? Maybe if you didn’t grow up in the UK? No idea honestly - we grew up playing it and I half grew up in Essex.
Traditional-Ad-8737@reddit
I just deleted my post after writing this, nearly verbatim. Only I blundered around, got the answer, then had to look it up. Never heard of it before!
MegaMiles08@reddit
I never heard the word either. My 2nd word was scram, so I had 4 letters with 2 in the right spot. I lucked out and got it in 3, but I had to search the word meaning afterwards.
Mabbernathy@reddit
I learned from this thread its a game from India. I just know it from baseball.
NoComb398@reddit
I had no idea even what this word. I was going to use it as an example and even say I forgot the word and meaning already. 😅
lameuniqueusername@reddit
I know it practically from playing pool. I’ve heard it in my life beforehand but having actually put it into practice made it coalesce fairly easily
Traditional-Ad-8737@reddit
Hah ha, me too! I did my daily Wordle the other day and blundered into getting it right, then had to look it up
jazd@reddit
I learnt a new word yesterday "glaucous"
No-Tomatillo8601@reddit
My new word yesterday was "cantankerous"
mp85747@reddit
I looove this word ;-), but keep forgetting it! Thanks for reminding me. ;-)
mp85747@reddit
Never heard of it, either. There was a joke about the colors - that they used to be just colors and not named after fruit, fish, etc. ;-) Of course, the simple colors are just the prime colors...
Nobody knows all words in their native language! When I moved to the US, I was so ambitious that I bought this huge, hard-cover picture dictionary, Oh, don't you think that's a piece of cake for kids! It had pictures of all kinds of machines, ships, etc. with all their gadgets, nook and crannies and things hardly anybody outside of these professions knows or will ever need! Naturally, I never really used it.
There was something else funny. I had studied English seriously before moving and had passed TOEFL with nearly perfect result, so, at the time, I knew quite a few fancy words, which I tried using. Guess what? Native speakers didn't know them, I stopped using them and forgot them... I was also very good at spelling. I say "was" because that certainly changed after the invention of the spell check... The final stretch of project Dumbing Down began...
I only went to a community college in the US, though, so I can't compare my vocabulary to the vocabulary of an educated native speaker. My writing style is not quite like theirs, either. There are plenty of SAT words I don't know, but they're not needed in daily life or at work. I even used to work for a private company in the educational field that had more Ph. D.s per capita than the local U. For quite a few years, I also edited the work of coworkers of mine who were native speakers... I dare say that many ESL people know grammar better than native speakers. Every time I see "they're, there, their" constantly misused or "A womEn", it drives me nuts!
manborg@reddit
Second. I write for a living and am constantly looking up words.
Mainly to make sure my assumption of a word is actually what it means.
lameuniqueusername@reddit
Absolutely
ibitmylip@reddit
same, and I look up words every day
i-love-freesias@reddit
This. Same here. Like most days. English as my first language.
It’s a really illogical language, native speakers or not.
Effective-Stress-781@reddit
I'm English, brought up there only speaking English. I look up English words all the time.
Level-Brain-4786@reddit
no, lost interest in English as a language altogether after 35 years living here. Now I am seeing that my abilities to communicate in English are declining. I guess there is no driver to improve anymore. Getting mildly interested in Spanish or Portuguese though. And brushing up my mother tongue.
Rich-Strain-1543@reddit
This is normal. As a native English speaker I still look up English words pretty regularly, almost daily. I read a lot, but I still tend to immediately forget the word. I have to look it up a few times before it really sticks, if it's a rare word.
This also happens with other languages I'm fluent in as a non-native, but to a greater degree. (Takes more exposures to memorize it, more likely to confuse it for a similar word, etc). I think everyone is like that. As we get older it seems to get a little harder as well. It's normal, don't beat yourself up over it.
Veenkoira00@reddit
I still look up words after 40 years. You are never too old to learn !
zmaauu@reddit
maybe you're just getting old
enamoured_artichoke@reddit
I’ve lived in the USA my entire life, many decades, and still look up words sometimes.
duke_igthorns_bulge@reddit
My husband has been here so long he speaks with no detectable accent, but he still looks words up and will ask me for words and definitions.
tickled_your_pickle@reddit
I learned English and French very close together, I still look up words in both languages and I'm almost 44. I write them down when I remember to (or screenshot the entry to go through later)
Tr1ppymind@reddit
This randomly popped up on my feed
But I also do this in my mother tongue, because I want to make sure I say something correctly
shrlzi@reddit
I still look up words after almost 79 years, born in USA
LadyBulldog7@reddit
When I was learning French, I got to the point where I looked up words, and the English translations were words I never heard of.
theoutsideinternist@reddit
Thankful that I’m not the only one. I read books in other languages and on my Ereader I have the preloaded translation dictionaries, frequently I find words that are primarily used only in literature in the native language and look them up only to realize I also don’t know the English word.
Deleted_dwarf@reddit
As a native English speaker who also speaks other languages throughout the day even I have to sometimes google a word in English because I forgot how it is called ( but do know in German for example).
mp85747@reddit
I know that feeling... I vividly remember trying pants on with some boots and I thought my feet looked like hoofs. It took quite a few minutes to remember the word in my native language. I didn't talk with relatives and friends about hoofs after all! ;-)
F-sylvatica-purpurea@reddit
English is a language with a simple grammar and complex idiom/vocabulary. The number of words is astounding. Change one single letter and the meaning is totally different.
It can be fun to read up on the history of the English language, maybe understanding these specific traits and comparing them to the traits of your first language helps in accepting the need tot look up words?
mp85747@reddit
I think everybody's passive vocabulary is much larger than the active one. You also figure the meaning of words in context and promptly forget them, if not used.
As far as the number of words, nothing wrong with a rich language, nuance and precision, but does anybody need THAT many words, for Pete's sake?! ;-)
Saffron_Butter@reddit
Yup. For me it's the word gossamer. Don't ask me what it means. I've probably looked it up 10+ times. Still don't know and am very comfortable with this fact. Cheers!
mp85747@reddit
I was curious and looked it up for both of us, so maybe you'll remember now! ;-)
a fine, filmy substance consisting of cobwebs spun by small spiders, seen especially in autumn
Gossamer (fabric), very light, sheer, gauze-like fabric
Altruistic_Dig_2873@reddit
Very few words that you don't use regularly are going to stick in your brain and sometimes there are words, even as a native speaker, you don't remember.
I worked with a French man who one day was looking out the window and asked me what was the name for what we could see, it was a rainbow. He had such good English it was just a word he couldn't think of so he asked me.
There is a word for the smell of earth after rain that a Polish coworker asked was there a word for and none of the other 9 native speaker people in the office knew that there was, so 10 people learned that it was petrichor and I'd bet the Polish one is the only one to remember 5 years on
mp85747@reddit
But even if you remember that "petrichor" word and use it, you'll just get "Huh? Say that again!"! -)
Anxious-Slip-4701@reddit
Petrichor. Now I know. I just heard a very bright person just call it ozone.
NoComb398@reddit
Well sometimes it is Ozone. Sometimes it's the smell of the wet earth. https://www.oxidationtech.com/blog/causes-smell-rains/
Anxious-Slip-4701@reddit
Thanking you kindly!
Spellflower@reddit
I’m another native English speaker in an English speaking country and I also do this routinely.
English has no academy to police it, so it readily invents and absorbs words from other languages. Some estimates put the number of English words at 1,000,000, ten times as many as French. But a lot of English words are not commonly used, so even native speakers may not have encountered them frequently enough to remember their meanings.
mp85747@reddit
I've always thought English has waaayy too many words! :-) Nuance and precision are good, but c'mon!
defixiones@reddit
You can usually place a word based on its Greek or Roman root if it's not a loanword.
It helps to know some of the Romance languages too.
Chuhaimaster@reddit
It’s completely normal and generally happens with low frequency or highly specialized vocabulary you don’t see or use that often.
notbambi@reddit
Buddy, I'm a native speaker with multiple degrees and I still look up words.
ssinff@reddit
I do this and I am a native English speaker. Dictionaries don't exist only for language learners!
Suvigirl@reddit
I'm a native English speaker and I look up words when I don't know the meaning. Surely you do this in your native language?
Human-Warning-1840@reddit
Once in a blue moon
enjoyyourlife247@reddit
50 years!
Embarrassed-Ant-1416@reddit
My mom lived in America for 30 years and I’m still explaining words to her
deshi_mi@reddit
27 years in an English-speaking country. Yes, I do.
prettyprincess91@reddit
I’m a native English speaker, American by birth and live in the UK and look up English words. This is normal.
danja@reddit
Native English (UK). I'm always having to look things up. More often than not it's a word I've encountered before, looked up, forgotten.
ultimomono@reddit
Passive knowledge vs. active knowledge. Reading a lot so you encounter words in different contexts helps. Words you put into practice and use in conversation stick in a deeper way. Writing a text with words you have learned that has some sort of narrative also encodes the word differently in your memory
soupy2112@reddit
Like a few others have said, I too am a native speaker, and I still look up words. English is weird for a variety of reasons, but focusing on some pertinent points: it has a huge lexicon, varied origins (Anglo Saxon, French, and old native Celtic from the British islands), and, possibly most important: it absorbs words from other languages really well. As an example, straight up foreign words like “schadenfreude” just get accepted into the language without skipping a beat. All of this makes English unique, and, frankly, inconsistent in terms of spelling patterns and syntax.
I like the English language. But I am very grateful I didn’t have to learn it as a second language, my respect goes out to all those trying to learn it.
WizeDiceSlinger@reddit
Busiuness… busness buisniess business
Tough though through
Beutiful beautiful
So many. If I come across a word I don’t know the exact spelling of, I start writhing it in the navigation bar on my browser and it helps me.
Not a native speaker, but have dealings with it on a daily basis.
tikigal@reddit
68 y.o. native English speaker, only a BA degree buy well read. I look up words all the time. English has a LOT of words and has incorporated a lot of words from other languages.
badlydrawngalgo@reddit
I've spoken English 90% of the time since I was 7, I'm now 68. It may as well be my first language. I still look things up, it's a sign of an inquisitive mind and a need to grow.
WadeDRubicon@reddit
This is normal for life as a native speaker. I looked up well over 100 words last year, and those were just for meaning (I know I checked spelling of a bunch of others).
English, especially, just has more words than a lot of other languages. Nobody can keep up with all of them all the time!
Athingwithfeathers2@reddit
I have to look up words frequently. There are a lot of irregular verbs and words imported from other languages. Sometimes I just forget how a word is spelled.
MajesticTomatillo@reddit
lol I still do as a native English speaker—usually just when they come up while reading or when I want to use one I don’t often use just to be sure
PaulusDeBoskaboutert@reddit
English counts over a million words… no one knows them all 😅
ibitmylip@reddit
i’m a native english speaker and I look up english words all the time, every day.
i use an app called Readwise that I save the words to, and it has a widget on my iPhone that refreshes itself several times a day. it helps me learn.
lameuniqueusername@reddit
Nearly every day. Wikipedia and an encyclopedia are always easily found on my phone
wordswordswords@reddit
As many have said, I am a native English speaker and do this constantly. Daily. And to address your second point, I frequently forget the meaning of these words. There are some words, that when I encounter them, I can even remember that I have looked them up several times before and I still can’t remember the meaning! Also, I work in tech with native English speakers from many countries and we weekly discuss the slightly different meanings and usages in these different regional versions of English.
Also, I work with many non-native speakers who ask me about word definition or usage. Frequently I struggle to answer and I realize they have asked me about something I do not understand as a native speaker. I really enjoy this because it makes me think about the language in a new way.
Nothing-to_see_hr@reddit
Not daily but regularly. I imagine this happens even with native speakers. psephologist?
beetrootfarmer@reddit
English is my first language and I still look things up. Sometimes there's new words I haven't seen before sometimes I'm missremebering the actual meaning. It's good practise to double check.
AlbaMcAlba@reddit
Born to in UK and look up words and the spelling of some words. Totally normal.
getreckedfool@reddit
Strength
AnchoviePopcorn@reddit
I’m an attorney, born and raised in an English speaking country. I work with brilliant colleagues. We all often look up definitions of words and debate their meaning. English is hard, especially if it isn’t your first language.
shackledtodesk@reddit
Let’s not even get started with (in the US) Black’s Law Dictionary vs OED.
Choice_Philosopher_1@reddit
Im a 40 year old native speaker and I look up words all the time.
geekycurvyanddorky@reddit
Hey, don’t beat yourself up! No one can memorize every single English word ever used. I still use dictionaries and I’m a native English speaker. (I actually love flicking through vintage ones, just for my own enjoyment).
AdditionalAd5813@reddit
Native English speaker here, I still use a thesaurus… I cheat and ask Google, but that’s only because I don’t know where my hardcopy is.
Pinknailzz69@reddit
I’m native English speaker. I got 99% in English in school and university. I look up words at 58 yrs old. English is a huge language. Almost impossible not to increase your vocabulary until you die.
Even_Happier@reddit
Yes and I’m a native English speaker. I hear you on not remembering words, my current favourites are petrichor (the smell in the air after rain) and eponym (proper nouns for items like Walkman or Hoover). I can never remember them.
muirnoire@reddit
I just looked up assuage today. I'm 66 born in the US.
Alostcord@reddit
After almost 60 years…I still do, and though not a native speaker as you can see from the many comments native speakers do as well. We all keep learning no matter our level of our language(s)
_Smedette_@reddit
I’m from an English speaking country and still look up words.
rosstafarien@reddit
Lived here my whole life. Still keep a dictionary handy.
Kiwiatx@reddit
Yes and English is my native language 🤣
sum-9@reddit
I’m English in an English speaking country and look up words every day.
Severn6@reddit
I'm a kiwi and I still look up words in English! And it's my native language.
Embarrassed-Ad-3383@reddit
I still look up words in my native language too