I am so deeply sorry to hear about your diagnosis and the incredibly difficult path you are navigating. Thank you for your selflessness in using your energy to warn others; your message is a powerful one and will likely save lives.

For everyone else reading: please, never skip a PSA test. Think of a high PSA reading as the "check engine light" for your body. It doesn't automatically mean you have cancer, but it is a clear signal that further investigation is required.

In recent years, there was a backlash against the PSA test due to concerns about "over-treatment." While it is true that not every case requires aggressive, life-altering intervention, the medical landscape has changed significantly. Today, urologists and oncologists are much better equipped to triage patients. They can accurately distinguish between those who need immediate action (such as surgery), those who benefit from lighter focal therapies, and those who only require "active surveillance." Do not let outdated debates convince you that this simple blood test isn't necessary.

If you are interested in learning more about risk reduction and modern treatment options, I have found these resources to be incredibly helpful:

• The Dr. Geo Prostate Podcast (YouTube): Dr. Geo is a Clinical Assistant Professor of Urology at NYU Langone and provides excellent, evidence-based insights.
• Prostate Cancer Research Institute (PCRI) (YouTube): A highly credible source for navigating the complexities of diagnosis and treatment.

Because my father and grandfather both had prostate cancer, I know firsthand how vital this information is. Sending my best wishes to the OP and strength to everyone else managing their health.