What's something people tend to judge about you just by looking at you?

I'm a short bloke with a baby face and glasses. People always seem to correctly guess I am a scientist and a nerd, however they always seemed shocked that I am not weak and will happily not put up with crap. I went to a rough school and got bullied a lot. I just refuse to accept it as an adult, so will happily stand up for myself against idiots who think I am a soft target.

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FunkyYoghurt@reddit

I wear cheap trainers, trackies, cheap tops, a hat (even in summer. I always need a beanie or cap on. Don't know why. Always have). And if you see me about you'll probably see me with a can and a cig.

Basically you'd most likely prejudge me as a wrongun.

In reality: the cheap road man aesthetic is because I look after adults with learning disabilities and complex needs, so often get...bodily fluids either on me or too close to comfort, so why would I wear £300 trainers or jeans?

As for the drink, I walk because I don't like buses and don't like forking out on taxis and where I work is about 1 hour 20 mins home walking. It's great "me time" with my tunes on and in being in my own world. So I treat myself to a can of cider for the walk.

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plissryuken@reddit

Respect I always have to have a cap on or beanie even at work. People assume i don't have hair but I actually have long hair.

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Witty_Entry9120@reddit

If we gathered up your closest circle of friends and family members, would they also be partial to a tracksuit? and a can of cider in public?

Nothing against it mind.

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FunkyYoghurt@reddit

No. Family don't drink and my friends prefer the pub. My mum hates that I wear trackies. She likes me being a "smart man".

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Witty_Entry9120@reddit

Very interesting

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FunkyYoghurt@reddit

Is it? Ok.

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kliccit@reddit

That I am a "roadman". I just find tracksuits comfie

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Active_Definition_57@reddit

I look and, probably generally am, smily and approachable. However, I suspect people might see me as quite happy go lucky when I actually have a tendency to be rather cautious and can be rather conventional.

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5h0D10n@reddit

Someone once said I look like a craft ale drinker 🤷‍♂️

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when_music_hits@reddit

That is an insult, isn't it?

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Active_Definition_57@reddit

I'm British and I think of an archetypal craft ale drinker being a youngish hipster. An archetypal real ale drinker would be early 60s with a ruddy complexion, a beer belly and a scraggy beard.

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when_music_hits@reddit

Im British too, and unfortunately the only guys I've spent time with that were craft ale drinkers/connoseurs...hmm....obviously everyone is different but when I'd tried to explain that I just don't like beer/ale(or any alcohol other rhan rum, it was met with derision, which is fine but noted that I'll not get caught in that situation again

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Key-Sir7532@reddit

People think I'm not bright because I have Tourette's and tic a lot. I think a lot of people don't realise what's up -- don't know I have Tourette's -- they just figure there's something "wrong" with me. Their response is to talk to me like I'm a child, which is awkward, but at least they're being nice I guess.

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Active_Definition_57@reddit

If you rode a 1.5 litre Honda, you'd be quite the biker!

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EconomicsAfraid7880@reddit

As a large, bald, bearded tattooed man who is a massive metalhead you are my enemy.

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PaddedValls@reddit (OP)

We shall meet at your local playpark at dusk.

Hammers or metal pipes.

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Psychological-Bag272@reddit

People assume I am shy and doesn't speak English cos I am a small, unintimidating looking Asian woman. Once they get to know me they spend majority of the time begging me to shut up. 😂

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lumiere108@reddit

Because of the way I dress, people sometimes ask if I’m Italian or simply compliment my look, which is really nice, or just tell me that I’ve got style😀

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Connect-Bug9988@reddit

People tend to underestimate me, because I'm fairly clean cut, dress smart, and have an approachable personality, which has led to a fair few people thinking they can take advantage as they assume I'm totally naive.

Wrong move 🤣🤣🤣

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serenityy666@reddit

Think am I thug or ruffian or sorts as often have cauliflower ears (get them easily and often get them drained but usually swollen a bit most of the time) from training BJJ 4 times a week.

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Fullchimp@reddit

People think I’ve got it together because I’m good looking, present well and don’t have a strong regional accent. I have no qualifications, no real relationship with my family, only soft skills and few prospects.

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when_music_hits@reddit

I've been told that I look aggressive or imposing presumably due to being tall and broad with a resting bitch face...I can't help my looks and don't suppose I really care, but I'd say if you're worried about me, you're looking in the wrong direction.

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C0nnectionTerminat3d@reddit

probably almost the exact same as you but the opposite. I wear modest, basic clothes, glasses, hair typically up and/or in braids and my bedroom is pink and white themed so people assume girly girl, pop loving, quiet, “typical good” girl aesthetic etc.

in reality i actually love metal/rock music, gothic style and culture, smoke weed and would love tons of tattoos once i build up the courage to get one.

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Key-Original-225@reddit

I have a naturally heavy frown when my face is at rest, people always think I’m pissed off.

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CautiousJump3942@reddit

That I’m a bit weird and quirky, and an eccentric loner.

I’m actually just an introvert, but can lead, hold and carry a very provoking and thoughtful conversation, which people who are forced into conversation with me are pleasantly surprised at how witty and intelligent I come across.

I just have a low social battery and don’t indulge in chit chat too much, as it’s part of my job to converse.

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Dramatic-Doctor-7386@reddit

People find me intimidating and think I'm confident and outgoing.

I'm actually super silly, sensitive and kind. I feel like an imposter in virtually all social or professional situations. I prefer to be home with the dog, watching TV in my jammies.

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Low-Captain1721@reddit

Loads of people have commented that I seem to have it all sewn up, together, highly sociable, confident, level headed and could easily attract a new girlfriend if I wanted to.

Basically all a complete contradiction to the 'real me' that I see everyday.. 😅

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Wonderful-Cow-9664@reddit

That I have a short and fiery temper because I’m a redhead.

They are correct

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Own_Average7810@reddit

People think I’m a mess, a nice but chaotic, erratic person. They’re not really wrong tbh…

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