Where should I eat crab/lobster for the first time?
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I’m travelling to the US from a country that doesn’t typically serve crab or lobster anywhere. It’s incredibly hard to find. in the US I’ll be visiting LA, NYC, Philadelphia, DC, Chicago, Austin and San Diego
Is there a certain state out of these which excel in crab/lobster? But I’m also meaning where should I go to try it for the first time, are their certain restaurants or should I get it at grocery stores? I have no idea how to go about it!!
Away-Cicada@reddit
Crab in Maryland, Lobster in Maine.
marbanasin@reddit
Except OP is going to neither.
I think I'd recommend Crab in LA or San Diego (can get west coast dungeness - very good, both cities are great food cities)
Lobster I'm guessing to go Philly or NYC, probably NYC just because you can find amazing stuff there.
CaterpillarJungleGym@reddit
I mean you can get Maine Lobster around the country. Alaskan crab everywhere too. Maryland crab is more unique. But I think OP might enjoy trying oysters from the different areas. They taste VERY differently from Canadian, to LI, to Chesapeake Bay, to Gulf, and West Coast.
marbanasin@reddit
Oysters are for sure a great addition to this quest. And they'd have a few really good stops already planned.
Turbulent_Table3917@reddit
Came here to say this!
No-Contact6664@reddit
They aren't going to Maine
thewags05@reddit
They'll do fine getting lobster in New York, it's not like it far. Also there's nothing crazy about cooking lobster. Generally steam or boil and smother it in butter, that's it.
No-Contact6664@reddit
There's nothing crazy other than making sure you have the volume and consistancy.
There are no nos also. Many places serve it too tough or split the tail. Many places bury the flavor or cheapen the presentation. Adding a lobster tail to steak... Ok but that's not going for Lobster.
A place that has the respect and commitment to it is what you want.
Rogue_Cheeks98@reddit
then they shouldn’t be eating lobster
No-Contact6664@reddit
That's a crock.... It's shipped live and places in Maine use frozen Lobster ALL THE TIME.
nothinnews@reddit
We don't know where they're going for sure. They may not even realize the distance between those places.
inanutshell@reddit
They...said what cities they're visiting???
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
That’s their misfortune.
No-Contact6664@reddit
Since they aren't going to Maine get lobster in Austin at Austin Oyster Company. The oysters are from Maine and so are the owners and Lobster.
Lobster Roll at Austin Oyster Company is in the top 10 I've ever had including Maine and I live in Maine PT.
IHaveBoxerDogs@reddit
You can walk to Maryland from DC.
Cautious_General_177@reddit
I think the Metro might be better, but yes.
aculady@reddit
And get there faster than trying to drive!
Away-Cicada@reddit
They're going to DC.... Maryland and Virginia are quite literally r i g h t there...
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
That’s great for crab, or oysters. Not for Lobster.
Weary_Capital_1379@reddit
None of those. If you want to taste lobster at its best go to Maine.
wwb_99@reddit
For lobster in DC -- do it in style. Go to Joe's Stone Crab. Get surf and turf, dine with lobbyists.
blipsman@reddit
The main area for lobster is New England, like Boston or the state of Maine. I guess at a higher end seafood restaurant in any of the big cities you'll be able to find decent lobster. DC is close to Chesapeake bay, which is known for Blue Crab.
eastcounty98@reddit
Get crab in Maryland when you visit DC
Any-Video4464@reddit
yep, I'd take a little trip to Annapolis and go to Canter's for crabs.
_Barbaric_yawp@reddit
Maryland unlocked the cheat code for crabs. Honestly, none of the places you are headed to are that great at lobster. You would want to hit u[ Rhode Island, Massachusetts, or Maine.
Human_Management8541@reddit
NY is close enough. We get fresh lobster from Maine and RhodeIsland. And we cook it the same. It's part of our regular BBQ menu when in season.
HRDBMW@reddit
Or, and I'm not kidding, Kentucky. KY is the shipping hub for live eastern lobster. It gets caught in Maine, shipped to a distributor in KY, and then hits restaurants in every eastern city. All by air.
TooManyDraculas@reddit
Lousiville is one of the largest seafood distribution hubs in the US. They have an insane access to fresh seafood for a landlocked city in the mountains.
I was a shocked. And probably because Kentucky. Prices aren't that bad.
Though I would say very good crab was more common than lobster when I was there. And part of the fun was how many kinds of crab.
Good selection of oysters at a lot of places to.
Spirited_Ingenuity89@reddit
Just fyi, Louisville is not in the mountains.
Nervous_Home9363@reddit
And never has been.
SHAsyhl@reddit
Are Stone Crabs available in Louisville?
TooManyDraculas@reddit
Don't recall if I saw them. But the way these hubs work is other hubs in fisheries feed into them direct. So more than likely.
If they're popular enough to be in stores and restaurants is another question.
ladytal@reddit
Maine ships lobster to distributors in almost every state, not just KY.
TooManyDraculas@reddit
Plus a huge amount of the lobster in the US comes from Canada, rather than Maine and Mass.
ladytal@reddit
And more and more will be coming from Canada as the lobster population continues moving north.
TooManyDraculas@reddit
We've also had flat out die offs in fisheries south of Mass.
Rhode Island, Connecticut, Long Island and Jersey were all major lobster fisheries within the last 10 years. Long Island Sound fisheries in particular are practically over.
That's already part of the reason Canadian lobster is pretty much the default Lobster in the US already.
Maine largely works the same water ways as the Canadian fisheries though, it can be expected to hang around as long as they do. And the catch there has been growing as stocks shift North.
Biterbutterbutt@reddit
Flair checks out
But in all seriousness, I’m going to look in to this Kentucky lobster phenomenon you’re talking about.
Ghoulish_kitten@reddit
I googled and it’s not checking out for California anyway.
madmoore95@reddit
Ah yes, the great East Coast city of California
ndubitably@reddit
California, Maryland is in shambles now.
madmoore95@reddit
After a quick Google it appears it does exist 😂 Honestly I probably should have known
big_sugi@reddit
They said “eastern city,” so it presumably doesn’t include California.
Tacoshortage@reddit
This bizarre comment is why I love Reddit.
ABelleWriter@reddit
OP, Rhode island and Massachusetts are really close to NYC. You can take the train from NYC to Boston, it's about 4 hours. North East regional is the cheapest train.
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
This is silly.
Lobsters are shipped live and the distance between NYC and Boston is so negligible that there is absolutely no difference between lobster served in one city versus the other. There is no reason to hop a train and travel a few hours up the east coast just for lobster.
Crab travels a bit differently but there is no real difference between the blue crabs caught in Maryland versus NYC/Long Island. Both Maine lobster and Maryland crab is more branding than anything else.
fibro_witch@reddit
A lobster in New York costs 100s of dollars. A lobster served the traditional way in a shack on the water costs 25 dollars. I would not miss the lobster shack experience as a first timer.
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
Lobster does not cost hundreds of dollars in New York lol.
Where the heck do you guys get this stuff?
ButterflyStock1791@reddit
And it's been a long time since you can get a lobster dinner in Maine for $25 unless you cook it yourself. Even then, just barely.
Sinrus@reddit
Cheese and tomato ship just fine too, but I wouldn't tell someone to try their first pizza in Boston instead of New York.
1EMurph1@reddit
I would tell them to try their first pizza in New Haven
fibro_witch@reddit
I would tell them that too
itcheyness@reddit
I would tell them to try their first pizza anywhere but New York.
New York Pizza is by far the worst regional variation.
paterdude@reddit
True.
itsmyhotsauce@reddit
Yeah? Well you know, that's just like, uh, your opinion man
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
It sounds like you just give stupid advice then.
There is nothing special about Maine, Maryland, or NYC when it comes to lobster, crab, or pizza. It’s not like Buffalo or California make a Buffalo wing or California roll any better than Boise. This is all just branding.
BankManager69420@reddit
You’re right, but there is something about eating it in the place that’s famous for it, where they come from. If OP has the time and money, it’s definitely worth it for a very memorable first time
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
That’s called branding.
Companies, organizations, and even governments spend fortunes on marketing to try to convince consumers that they’re better than their competitors even if the products are identical.
The lobsters from Maine are exactly the same as the lobsters in Nova Scotia. There is no difference in taste, etc between the lobsters served on the waterfront in Maine or in a restaurant in NYC. Maine just spends a lot of money on marketing to convince people their lobsters are better than Nova Scotia’s and you should book your vacation to Maine to eat them.
TooManyDraculas@reddit
That "cheat code" is "Chesapeake Bay". The stare wraps around one of the biggest marine estuaries on the content.
Maryland's crabs aren't any better or different than crabs elsewhere on the East Coast. There's just a fuck ton more of them.
If they and Delaware can keep Virginia from rat fucking the bay anyways.
Imaginary-Hyena2858@reddit
Sadly this isn't true. Maryland actually imports the vast majority of its crabs from the Gulf due to declining populations in the Chesapeake
Tullyswimmer@reddit
The cheat code is just old bay.
CupBeEmpty@reddit
New Hampshire. It’s got a small coastline but it’s there.
cinnamongirl73@reddit
Came here to say this! Were crab snobs! 😂😂😂
Stan_Deviant@reddit
It has to be a crab shack where you have paper lined tables and you crack your own too. Otherwise it isn't the experience they are looking for.
nadandocomgolfinhos@reddit
Or it’s the dude who sells them to you off his boat. You get the text, go to the spot and hear accents so thick you think you time traveled
brandoldme@reddit
I just don't know the answer to this. But there's like a famous place up there to get crab cakes that are really good. They're huge and they have these huge chunks of crab in them. I thought it was crap hearing my mom talk about it. Like, it's just a crab cakes. But she took me there because she's from there. And they were really good.
So I don't know if anybody would have an idea of where this is, it's in Maryland probably, it's not insanely far from DC. I just can't remember. But it's worth a trip if anybody can suggest the place. It's kind of like a little bit of a shack looking place out in the middle of nowhere. It's not really an accurate way to put it. But it's not right in the heart of the city.
I know Maryland's not a small place. And so just saying some crab cake place sounds ridiculous. Except that in the South we can do that with barbecue places. Someone will be talking about the best barbecue I ever had and it's near a city but they can't remember exactly where, and almost always there's somebody that can pinpoint exactly that because the place is so good. I have a feeling that this crab take place is the Maryland equivalent. That somebody will know it because it's that good.
Biterbutterbutt@reddit
This is the ideal answer, but if OP is only visiting those cities they will still have better lobster/crab than their home country considering they don’t serve it.
My bigger recommendation here is to choose crab over lobster. Crab is amazing, lobster is just expensive.
Bright_Ices@reddit
I strongly disagree. I find most crab missable, and lobster delectable. Crawfish are a solid contender, but you’ll find them in the Southeast.
WrongJohnSilver@reddit
I used to fish for crawdads in Lake Tahoe, though, so it's all relative.
Bright_Ices@reddit
Yeah, we have them up here in SLC, too, but you won’t find them in restaurants, which was what OP was asking about.
androidbear04@reddit
Lobster is also amazing when fresh and cooked well, but not when both conditions are not met.
mrsrobotic@reddit
We have also have lobster rolls in DC. They won't be cheap but the lobster is often shipped fresh from New England.
bananajr6000@reddit
Lobster rolls are great, but I prefer a Connecticut roll
trampolinebears@reddit
Only if the Connecticut is nice and buttery
Bright_Ices@reddit
A lobster roll Connecticut style is definitionally buttery and warm, with juicy crab claw meat loaded into a grilled split-top brioche roll. Garnished with a little lemon juice.
GettingTooOldForDis@reddit
You’re not from New England, are you? The lobster is the star of a lobster roll. Maine style or Connecticut style is a preference. But any New England style split top hot dog roll is all you need to put it on.
Bright_Ices@reddit
Well, that’s what happens when I comment with a migraine! 🤦♀️
fibro_witch@reddit
Where do you stand on Hot VS. Cold?
BulldogNebula@reddit
No shot you're in New England Im assuming? 'Connecticut roll' is just a style of lobster roll.
bananajr6000@reddit
I’m from New England, but I never had a Connecticut roll until I had one in Las Vegas
… and yes, it’s a type of lobster roll
Bright_Ices@reddit
I think “Connecticut roll” is a Vegas marketing term. It’s a lobster roll, Connecticut style.
realizabeth@reddit
I’m a native Californian who lives in Maryland now. OP, you have the opportunity to try 2 very different types of crabs on your trip. The totally flavour-packed luscious Maryland blue crabs when you’re in D.C., plus the rich, textured Pacific Dungeness crab when you’re in California. If I were you I’d make a point of getting both.
Bookworm10-42@reddit
Or Virginia. They’re the same crabs.
comma_nder@reddit
I’d specifically recommend a lump crab cake from either faidley’s or koco’s
LieutenantStar2@reddit
Maryland Crabs….drool.
It does matter what time of year though.
anschauung@reddit
September though November, ideally.
Chloebean@reddit
Fascinating take. I won’t eat them before May but I’d definitely say July to October.
For OP…if you go to Maryland and want to eat oysters, only do so if you’re visiting in a month that has an R in it. There’s a bacteria, Vibrio, that is more common during the summer.
Take a day trip to Annapolis for crabs. Cantler’s is the go-to spot around here, but the Point and Mike’s are options. Do not go to Buddy’s, despite its excellent location.
ColumbiaWahoo@reddit
Or just get fried oysters since cooking kills the bacteria
GoldenMonkeyRedux@reddit
We had to go to DC (from Philly) last fall and stopped at Nick's in Baltimore off 95. I think it was October. I knew the crabs would be the plumpest around then and hey why not. I guess the why not is that they were about $85 for 6 for the jumbos.
Still got them. They were huge and packed with meat and fat. I had hoped to split them with a family member, but she can't have gluten and they use beer (not a personal choice but a health issue). I only ate one and took them home.
I picked all the meat and made crab fried rice one night and crab cakes the next. Easily the biggest, juiciest, heaviest crabs I've ever had.
By comparison, I got some here in Philly last spring, and damn were they light. Not even really worth my time to steam and pick. Probably better for stock or soup.
ShortRasp@reddit
The only right answer.
hippiechick725@reddit
As a Marylander, I concur…but do NOT eat crab anywhere else!
Frobozz160@reddit
Numerous places in DC proper to get good crabcakes, which is the way I'd send a beginner. You can't just unleash folks on whole crabs without instructions and an understanding that this is gonna take serious time.
TweeksTurbos@reddit
And put Old Bay on it. You want a pile of steamed blue crab.
ladytal@reddit
This.
KatrynaTheElf@reddit
Freshly steamed with lots of Old Bay- so good!
Quirky-Invite7664@reddit
OP: go to CANTLER’s
Novel_Mycologist_119@reddit
Go somewhere near the bay Annapolis being the furthest west in MD for crabs. Otherwise it’s a bit of a crab shoot. You might get lucky, but often you’ll get menus where the author has no idea what jumbo lump even means.
I went to a “nice” restaurant in Bethesda and spent close to $40 on what was basically Philips crab cakes with fries and tartar sauce. Philips are fine for when you’re lazy at home, but we were eating out.
pfffffttuhmm@reddit
Yes to this. Just drive north, up the coast, and find a place on the water with a pier that is bringing in crabs off the bay. You'll sit down at a long table covered in paper, and they will throw the steamed crabs directly on the paper. Grab a hammer or some seafood crackers, a crab, and have at them. DIP IN BUTTER--do not skipping this step, it is essential.
jvc1011@reddit
Agreed. OP, it’s a short Metro ride into Maryland.
goodsam2@reddit
Get a crab pretzel which is the best bullshit I have ever seen.
You get a soft pretzel, put lump crab in each of the pretzel holes and then a slice of cheese (cheddar?) broil it to get the cheese melty and boom an awesome appetizer.
Emotional-Ocelot-309@reddit
Or get crab dip!
aztnass@reddit
This is the answer!
Rock-Wall-999@reddit
Any of the restaurants on the Patuxent River !
Karamist623@reddit
In Philadelphia, you need to get cheesesteaks, or better yet, go to Reading Terminal Market.
LHCThor@reddit
Maryland will have good crab. DC will be the closest location.
Narrow-Psychology909@reddit
Definitely crab in Maryland/DC and you can find lobster in NYC. Philly would be a decent second option for both.
Swan-of-War-425@reddit
Smaller lobsters are sweeter, so don’t fall for “bigger is better”
3mptyspaces@reddit
Yep, 1.25 or 1.5# all the way
TooManyDraculas@reddit
No they're not.
They're much easier to shuck, and proportionally much cheaper tho.
Full_Mission7183@reddit
Next thing you will be saying is that soft shell lobsters don't taste better than hard shell
TooManyDraculas@reddit
They don't.
They're easier to shuck and proportionally cheaper.
Hard shell lobsters have a lot more meat in them, and generally shellfish taste better and sweeeter the colder the water. They shed (ie go soft shell) in warm seasons.
I have eaten all of the lobster all of the time. My family were baymen, I worked with wholesalers and fishermen in the restaurant business. And softshells and smaller lobsters being sweeter or tasting better is a myth.
Some of the best lobster I've ever had were big, 5lb+ hard shells.
Full_Mission7183@reddit
The Gulf of Maine doesn't really have a warm season.
TooManyDraculas@reddit
It absolutely has a warm season.
As in a season where it's warmer. It's not the tundra, and the lobsters are triggered to shed and breed by water temps.
Also migrate based on water temps. That's the entire reason why catches are higher in summer. More lobsters in the area, chasing ideal water temps.
Even the Canadian Maritimes have seasons.
Pitiful_Ad2397@reddit
This is the way.
getyouryayasoutahere@reddit
Best lobster in the east coast are in Maine. If you’re going to NYC you might be able to find Maine lobster or you might be able to take Amtrak to Maine, with a stop in Boston, MA. Driving its over 7 hours and rail may be about equivalent. If you’re kind of stuck in NYC then maybe check out Greenpoint Fish & Lobster Company in Brooklyn. I’ve not been but I’ve been told they service lots of city restaurants and they have good lobster rolls and chowder, etc.
Safe travels and hope you have a great time!
Streamjumper@reddit
Connecticut coastline has tons of iconic lobster shacks from boats that fish the same waters. We just bring in less of the overall catch.
And not only would it be a short day trip compared to Boston or Maine, but overall cheaper. Hell, even the food itself would probably be cheaper than Boston.
getyouryayasoutahere@reddit
I didn’t even think of that. I’m drawn towards Maine because a friend has a cabin there near Acadia National Park. New England is such a treasure.
Streamjumper@reddit
I've got family all over Maine, especially around the Saco area, including some lobstermen, so between that and them pulling in something like 80% of the national haul, I think them Maine first too.
If someone's gonna go to the Boston area for lobster, they're better off hitting the coastline around Boston for a better experience though.
NHDart98@reddit
Lobster would need to be shipped in to all these, so it will be both expensive and not fresh (in New England it is kept alive until cooked, but the quality noticeably suffers if kept in the tank too long). Crab is associated with the warmer waters of the Chesapeake. So DC, which boarders Maryland, is the closest of the listed cities.
Donald_J_Duck65@reddit
I wouldn't recommend getting lobster in any of those places. But take a short trip to Maryland for crab while in DC.
dirt_mcgirt4@reddit
Everyone saying DC is referring to Blue Crab, which you eat whole. While it is good, and a lot of work, most of the time when you eat crab you eat legs. It doesn't matter what city you are in because these are caught in the pacific and cooked/frozen right away. Look for a place that has 'Crab' in the title (Crappy Pete's, Joe's Crab Shack, etc) and is well reviewed and you should be fine.
King crab legs are great but prohibitively expensive. If you see Tanner/Bairdi crab those are my favorite. But also can't go wrong with Dungeness and snow crab.
While Lobster certainly can be frozen, it's better fresh and recently caught. Best in coastal NE. I'm sure there's are places in NYC though with good fresh lobster; you are going to pay for it though.
Crab leg meat is better then lobster, but it's also more work. With lobster you get that big, satisfying tail. No huge chunks of meat from crab.
Schlechtyj@reddit
If you opt not to try to do a make a mess blue crab boil from the Chesapeake bay, then another alternative would be to go to a good (and expensive) steakhouse in one of the cities where there’s a seafood tower or a raw bar. Look at the menus for Gallaghers in NYC and at Chicago Chop house and Shaws Crab House in Chicago. Any of the cities you are going to will have a good steakhouse. Another poster suggested asking on those cities subreddits that’s a good idea.
NaughtyLittleDogs@reddit
Came here to suggest Shaw's in Chicago. They have amazing seafood and the atmosphere is peak old school Chicago supper club.
ocvagabond@reddit
You just missed the season, but out west we grill up spiny lobster, especially in San Diego and Baja California. Absolutely delicious.
Or east cost brethren only know Maine lobster, but other types exist.
Mer4205@reddit
Blue crabs in Maryland and lobster anywhere from NYC and up the New England coast. And once in New England- the fried whole belly clams or clam chowder are also excellent.
Guy2700@reddit
Good Lord! How long will you be in the country?
goodamm@reddit (OP)
3 days
Guy2700@reddit
Are you trolling?
soaring-arrow@reddit
I dm'd you a spot in northern valley, in case you dont feel like traveling super far
Prairie-Peppers@reddit
How long is this trip?
HrhEverythingElse@reddit
For real! I've been here 42 years and only made it to 3 of those places
Baroque_Hologram@reddit
Regardless of length, I can’t imagine spending my vacation getting on a 5+ hours plane trip multiple times.
nihcul@reddit
I’m also wondering about this
Shenanigangster@reddit
Knowing most of the posts in this sub, probably something like 10 days 😆
OhWhyNotMarie@reddit
That’s a hell of a trip my dude.
Please tell me you’re not trying to be driving it in 3 days or something lol
goodamm@reddit (OP)
No, 2 days
OhWhyNotMarie@reddit
Please tell me you have an amazing sense of humor.
Berezis@reddit
There’s some good crab in dc
Overall_Chemist1893@reddit
Massachusetts has very good crab and lobster, but if you can get up to Maine, their seafood is just wonderful. I'd recommend restaurants, but once you are in the area, you can see for yourself which ones get the best reviews. New England is a delightful place for seafood.
consolecowboy74@reddit
LA had all the kinds of restaurants. My bet would be to Google whatever you want and go there. It might cost more but it will be at least good. Local food supply isn't as direct as you would think. You could get great seafood in Kansas City which is in the middle of the country. Have fun. The United States had a lot of really cool stuff. A lot of dumb stuff too. Don't focus on the dumb.
OfficeChair70@reddit
Alaskan King Crab, when done well is amazing.
QueenJamieMaePalmer@reddit
DMV Blue Crab is better than Lobster
dell828@reddit
Lobster in Maine, Massachusetts, Rhode Island. I’m sure you could find a good lobster in New York City. Not the same as Maine, but the restaurants in New York are amazing.
If you want crab, you should go to Baltimore. Again, your best bet might be New York City for crab.
Absolutely do not eat lobster in Los Angeles, Austin or San Diego.
No_Importance_750@reddit
I’d go to Maryland while you’re in DC
the-quibbler@reddit
If you don't go to Boston for your lobstah, we don't need to hear about it.
HermioneMarch@reddit
Maine is known for lobster
Qtrfoil@reddit
If you're visiting DC you might have time to visit nearby Annapolis, Maryland and have crabs where they're meant to be eaten. About 40 minutes away, a simple drive. Many places in the area to eat Blue Crabs, but Cantler's is a classic location to get a bunch of steamed crabs dumped down on a paper tablecloth, so that you can work your way through them with plenty of cold beer!
https://cantlers.com/
Lyfe-of-Luv@reddit
The bigger question is how long will you be in the US to take this long detailed labor intensive trip across the us and back.
BoobearMagoo@reddit
If you go to RI from NY, do not eat the shellfish if there's been a hard rain recently. Providence is a great city but she leaks into the bay when it storms.
marc4128@reddit
How long of a vacation you taking buddy? And yes, if you’re going to be in DC, pop out to MD for the best crab and crab cakes. Best bet would go to Baltimore. 45 minutes drive from DC.
goodamm@reddit (OP)
9 weeks
marc4128@reddit
Jesus Christ. That’s one hell of a vacation.
Prize_Consequence568@reddit
"LA, NYC, Philadelphia, DC, Chicago, Austin and San Diego"
In what a months time? I know you can't mean in a few days.
goodamm@reddit (OP)
No in 9 weeks.
Murderhornet212@reddit
The standard answer is somewhere where you can see the ocean. On this list, I’d do a detour from DC to Maryland and have it there.
Keri2816@reddit
For crab- go to Maryland. Please go to a restaurant for your first experience, not the grocery store. It can be very hit or miss if you go to the store. If the store is a must, ask for jumbo lump crab meat (not in a can, but in a plastic container). You’ll have to spend time picking through it for tiny, translucent shells, but that’s part of the experience! Find a recipe for crab cakes that has crab and less than 5 more ingredients (my mom’s is Old Bay, saltine crackers, butter and mayo). Broil until golden and enjoy life’s most precious food. IMHO of course
davdev@reddit
Crab in Maryland, lobster in Maine (NYC) is going to be closest for this in your itinerary.
Prudent_Tap3271@reddit
Not Ohio.
fibro_witch@reddit
You have to go to New England for Lobster. Anywhere else it has to be shipped and is expensive because it has to be shipped live. Try Maine, New Hampshire, or Massachusetts. But only in season months without an R in them. I would fing a lobster/ crab shack on the water near Salem Massachusetts sit on a picnic table with a nutcracker and dig in.
Queermagedd0n@reddit
If you end up in Alaska, fresh King Crab is to die for
SueNYC1966@reddit
Luke’s Lobster NYC is pretty good
Wondercabage@reddit
do NOT fall for the red lobster trap. Do not eat there it is garbage seafood. try and look for a higher end establishment if you can. I want your first experience with carb to be a good one. NO RED LOBSTER
AlexV348@reddit
You're right, legal seafood is much better
TooManyDraculas@reddit
Legal Seafood is acceptable.
In an area with access to fresh seafood.
But anywhere near a coast a local spot will be far, far, better and probably cheaper.
I_Am_No_One_123@reddit
Legal Seafood is an overrated (and over priced for what you get) chain restaurant. There are plenty of better seafood establishments in New England and on the east coast.
topazco@reddit
But it looks so succulent
Wondercabage@reddit
RED LOBSTER IS A LIE
Spirited_Ingenuity89@reddit
Those cheddar bay biscuits don’t lie!
state_issued_femboy@reddit
Red lobster is good though
Streamjumper@reddit
No.
Wondercabage@reddit
excellent username u/state_issued_femboy, but I disagree
state_issued_femboy@reddit
Sad world we live in
Libertas_@reddit
I don’t care what the rest of your policies are, I’d vote for you.
DroolHandPuke@reddit
Having worked at more than one red lobster, my advice to anyone is: If you are more than 1000 miles from the ocean, then red lobster is ok for seafood, but any decent seafood place within a few hundred miles of an ocean is going to be leagues better than any red lobster.
meowmix778@reddit
I've worked at a few Darden restaurants in my day (shamefully admitting here) and I think that advice roughly applies to all of them.
If you're more than 1000 miles from a decent steakhouse or Italian restaurant, sure it's legally food.
I will say that I was in FL for a few weeks in 2012 and both Bahama Breeze and Seasons 52 were good and worth it with the employee discount.
Nawoitsol@reddit
But it’s Lobster Fest!!!! /s
Wondercabage@reddit
more like shrimp fest those tails are NOT REAL
HavBoWilTrvl@reddit
Shrimpfest is what put Red Lobster (effectively) down for the count. 🤣
Jerk850@reddit
You don’t go to Red Lobster for crab and lobster. You go for the cheddar biscuits with clam chowder. (Seriously, just dump the biscuits in the chowder and eat like biscuits and gravy.)
chaamdouthere@reddit
Hasn’t Red Lobster closed down? Or are there still a few around?
Dreamweaver5823@reddit
They closed about 20% of their restaurants. The other 80% are still operating.
chaamdouthere@reddit
Oh interesting. Still hanging on.
seancbo@reddit
It's fine, it's just the same tier as like Olive Garden, don't expect anything special
AcanthisittaWhole216@reddit
Is the bread at least good?
velociraptorjax@reddit
The bread is amazing at Red Lobster.
Lower-Gap-4251@reddit
The only time I tolerate Red Lobster is if I’m back home in upstate, NY. I live in New England now and I don’t even think Red Lobster exists here lol
OP if you can make a trip to CT, RI, MA, NH, or ME, I would do it! Best lobster in the world and it’s legitimately fresh!
MortimerDongle@reddit
Baltimore is between DC and Philly and is known for crab.
chameleonsEverywhere@reddit
Baltimore, Maryland is the answer for sure.
Craigh-na-Dun@reddit
Native Marylander here, this is correct. Alternatively Annapolis has some nice crab eateries.
big_sugi@reddit
Cantler’s in Annapolis isn’t the very best crab, but it’s good, and the location is unbeatable when the weather is nice.
ladytal@reddit
Preserve sometimes has crab on the menu. I highly recommend their blue catfish, though. It's tasty and an invasive species.
jakizely@reddit
Directions unclear. Ended up at a shack in Dundalk with the words "eet krabs hear".
madmoore95@reddit
Shit you'll find some of the best crabs going to places like that 😂😂 I just go towards the bay and look for the most run down shack to get crabs at when the craving hits
Subject_Way7010@reddit
I love a fried soft shell
JediLincoln14@reddit
It should be New England, but you aren't going there.
CaswensCorner@reddit
Yeah, if OP can fit it in, an overnight up to Boston from NYC would be excellent for seafood. And it’s only a 3-4 hour train ride on the Amtrak. There are fantastic local, non-chain restaurants in the city serving up crab and lobster. Massachusetts lobster fishermen still bring in roughly 15 million pounds of lobster per year. They know seafood!
LL8844773@reddit
Honestly skip Philadelphia and go to Boston
Streamjumper@reddit
To Boston for seafood? When the Connecticut fucking coastline is right there on the way, and much cheaper?
Alien_eyes@reddit
Doesn’t have to go all the way to Boston - tons of great lobster/seafood spots in Connecticut that are an easy train ride from NYC.
No-Contact6664@reddit
It truly doesn't actually matter as they are shipped live. Yes NE is used to working with it more but IU can find great Lobster dishes and rolls all over the US.
dpk794@reddit
Overwhelming majority of lobster is NOT shipped live
DismalNitchfish@reddit
Get Crab in the NW, Seattle/Portland/San Fransisco. Dungeness is the best. There is no true pacific lobster, so you'll want to get that on the east coast.
calcato@reddit
OP isn't going there, though. They can totally get it in L.A and San Diego though.
Streamjumper@reddit
If your trip includes NY and DC, but California is where you're getting your lobster fix, you have problems.
calcato@reddit
Not lobster. Crab. Lobster on the East coast and crab on the West.
Streamjumper@reddit
Ah. Misread.
mykepagan@reddit
Get your crabs when you are in DC. Better still: stop in a crab shack in Maryland when driving from Philly to DC. If you take Route 301 across Maryland, I recommend Harris‘ Crab House just before Kent Island, on Kent Narrows.
ColumbiaWahoo@reddit
Maryland
madqueen100@reddit
On the west coast, dont miss Dungeness crab! 🦀 !
klattklattklatt@reddit
Not sure about Washington/Oregon but don't eat in CA now, it's out of season.
PaleontologistKey885@reddit
Hey OP, this is the only answer. In the US, Pacific Northwest has the better seafood period. Don't listen to anyone suggesting anything East Coast, or god forbid, Gulf. It's an amazing outdoor destination as well. Make yourself a vacation.
TheBimpo@reddit
The superior crab.
calcato@reddit
There are not enough comments on here about Dungeness crab.
jIdiosyncratic@reddit
Kind of thought that myself but then: Why advertise the fact I guess?
Duque_de_Osuna@reddit
When you get here if you google “seafood restaurant” or “lobster restaurant” you will probably see at least one listing for a place called Red Lobster. Do not go there. It is a chain and the food is mediocre at best. Maryland is know for their crab cakes, but crab can be served a lot of ways. I would say to go to a decent upscale restaurant and give them both a try. Lobster is pretty good, the tail is a little more chewy, the flavor is unique.
WritPositWrit@reddit
Wow youre really doing a tour of the country! And yet … youre not really hitting any of the top spots for crab & lobster. East coast locations in Maine, Rhode Island, NJ, Maryland, etc have strong crab & lobster traditions.
You want to eat it someplace where it’s freshly caught, so a coastal city. Your best bets are NYC, DC, and San Diego. Maybe Philadelphia or Los Angeles.
Friendly_Artist4459@reddit
Maine
stillwatersrunfast@reddit
Regardless of what you do for crab and lobster, DO eat Mexican seafood in San Diego. You won’t regret it.
Lady-Kat1969@reddit
Crab in Maryland, lobster in Maine.
Dawn-Storm@reddit
Maryland, Maryland, and Maryland.
genomedr@reddit
Unfortunately spiny lobster season is over in California, but Dungeness crab is still available.
Reasonable_Wasabi124@reddit
I had some good crab in the Outer Banks of North Carolina
goodamm@reddit (OP)
Thank you everyone looks like I’ll be headed to Maryland but now I’m stuck on… Do I go to a restaurant and how the hell am I supposed to crack open the crab? Do the waiters help you with that hahah?
Unique_Let_2880@reddit
Reasonable questions! In Maryland, the right crab to get is Blue Crab. Blue crab is boiled in a broth of a lot of seasoning, including (but not limited to) Old Bay. A crab boil often also has sides like corn, potatoes, and sometimes other seafood. You order a number of crabs. A half dozen is good if they’re smaller or fewer if they’re bigger. Ask your server what size they have in and what they recommend.
If you get a crab boil, they will put paper down on the table and give you gloves, a bib, and a little trash can. This is messy! They’ll also give you a crab cracker (like a nutcracker) and a little hammer. How to eat the crab: turn it belly up. Look for a little “pull tab” near the bottom of the belly. Pull that piece off. Then you can take off the bottom shell. Remove the guts and gills. There is also a yellow-brown goop colloquially called “mustard” inside the crab. It’s good but strong tasting. Eat the flesh from the crab body, and optionally the mustard. Break off legs next. Crack them in half. Usually you can use your hands but the cracker is there if you need it. Slurp the meat out of the legs like a straw. Crack the claws and eat the claw meat. If you drink alcohol, get an orange crush or a Natty Boh to wash it down. Enjoy! It’s truly delicious.
ChessieChesapeake@reddit
Sorry dude, but your cooking method is totally incorrect and if you’re caught boiling a blue crab in the state of Maryland, you’ll be tarred, feathered, and sent to Virginia. Blue crabs should be steamed, not boiled. Boiling makes the meat mushy, which explains how it would be possible for you to “suck the meat out of the legs like a straw”.
Blue crabs are steamed in a large pot with water, vinegar. beer, and spice mix. Each crab house has their own version of spice, but J.O. #2 is a well known spice mix you can get off the shelf.
The rest of your post is on point, but you don’t see many native Marylanders use a crab cracker. Most of us just use a pairing or crab knife.
Unique_Let_2880@reddit
Is “crab boil” not a literal term? I’ve never prepared the crabs only enjoyed them from others.
ChessieChesapeake@reddit
Crab boil is a term, but it describes a specific way of cooking crabs through boiling, and it’s commonly found farther south, especially around Louisiana.
Spirited_Ingenuity89@reddit
The Carolina coast is also big on crab boils. The “low country boil” is a version of that.
ChessieChesapeake@reddit
Me and some buddies from MD moved to north-central Florida back in the mid 90s and I remember we went to the gulf one time and brought back a bushel. Our neighbors, who were FL locals, thought we were nuts when we broke out the steamer pot and started cooking them the MD way. They changed their tune once they tasted the meat.
thejaff1@reddit
There are some great crab houses in Baltimore. If the weather is nice I suggest sitting outside at Captain James Landing, or inside at LP Steamers.
Both spots will set you up with everything you need.
calcato@reddit
Sometimes on the East coast, they even have soft shell crab and you don't even have to shell it. You just eat the whole damn thing, which is weird but, whatever... when in Rome, right? Keep a food journal and try your Maryland tiny pinner little blue crabs, try some Gulf coast crab when in Austin TX, and then try Dungeness and King crab when you are in the West Coast cities. You will see which crabs are truly the best.
HavBoWilTrvl@reddit
Mmmmm, spider sammich! Soft shell crab po' boy is where it's at!
ChessieChesapeake@reddit
https://youtu.be/la6Wtme9P3I?si=S7N5SJokN_ISEp_4
MadHats3@reddit
youtube my guy
RemotePumpkin8665@reddit
Ask your crab related questions to r/maryland They will help with info and recommendations
JamesMajor44@reddit
They will give crackers (similar to a nut cracker but shaped accordingly), and if you tell the it’s your first time I’m sure they give you the run down on how to do it the best way.
lfxlPassionz@reddit
Question... How long are you planing to travel the United States? because that's a massive distance to travel especially with ice agents still slowing down airports.
It would take months to visit all of these places and still be able to enjoy anything.
And lobster/crap are only cheap enough and readily available in states on the ocean
AshDenver@reddit
DC followed by San Diego.
tsukiii@reddit
In San Diego, it would be best to try the local spiny lobster (assuming it’s in season). The other kinds are going to just be shipped in frozen like the rest of the country.
Waterproofbooks@reddit
If you’re catching them yourself, lobster season is from October to March. The OB pier used to be so fun for this!
jvc1011@reddit
Exactly this. And better still to head south for more abundant spiny lobster.
MrLongWalk@reddit
If you’re not in New England the lobster will be subpar, get crab in Maryland while visiting DC
No-Contact6664@reddit
That's a myth. Lobster is shipped live. It's literally the same when I get it in Texas as it is in Maine. Factually from the same docks too.
Rogue_Cheeks98@reddit
you’re coping up and down this thread lmao
MrLongWalk@reddit
It’s so cool how days in a tank does nothing to it
Texan is as Texan does
No-Contact6664@reddit
Misplaced New England pride. It's an export and China buys most of it. The idea that you have to be there is a tourism myth. Yes being at a real seafood shack is fun.
MrLongWalk@reddit
I won’t take a lecture on misplaced pride from a texan, especially if they think lobster tastes the same after being shipped in a recirc tank for a couple days.
No-Contact6664@reddit
Not a Texan bub.
aculady@reddit
They were probably confused by your flag.
MrLongWalk@reddit
Flair says Texas, pard
No-Contact6664@reddit
I'm allowed to live where I live.
MrLongWalk@reddit
And where do you live?
No-Contact6664@reddit
Austin and Maine
MrLongWalk@reddit
So somebody who lives in Texas, with a Texas flair, but isn’t Texan? It must mean something different down there.
Streamjumper@reddit
Might get halfway decent in NY, but they'll pay through the nose for it and run a strong risk of a place that isn't so great.
Their best bet would be a short train ride to the Connecticut coastline to soak in the sites, maybe hit Mystic Seaport, have some seafood on the coast, then back to NY (or up to New Haven for some apizza) at the end.
wwplkyih@reddit
Lobster generally comes from the NE (Maine, New England) and there are both north Pacific (West Coast, all the way down to Santa Barbara for Dungeness; king crab, which comes from Alaska isn't a "true" crab but gets shipped in) and Atlantic crabs (mid-Atlantic, around Maryland). Historically these weren't fancy foods so it may be more fun to find local (generally not that fancy) seafood places -- on your itinerary, DC is right next to Baltimore whence many crabs, but other than that, your itinerary isn't a lot of these kinds of places.
I would generally avoid chain restaurants. Outside of the places where the foods are caught locally, the best bet is probably going to be big cities, often in raw bars--some in fancy restaurants or attached to fishmongers. (I still like Lobster Place in Chelsea Market (Manhattan, NY), even though it's now overrun with tourists and Googlers.) Sleeper places where you'll find really good lobster/crab are high end sushi places which sometimes often serve lobster sashimi or Cantonese seafood restaurants. (When you are in LA, the best sushi is going to be on the Westside, for Chinese, go east to San Gabriel Valley NOT Chinatown.) Ultimately it depends on how you want it prepared.
TL;DR: get crabs in DC, lobster in NY and Dungeness & king crab in LA.
hollowbolding@reddit
maryland crab season is a little later in the year so if you'll be here over the summer get your crabs in maryland. lobster from any of these will be. yknow probably fine but you're not going anywhere with a lobster legacy, that's up in new england
SenseNo635@reddit
Definitely Maryland for crab. It’s kinda our thing. Douse it in Old Bay.
Still_Want_Mo@reddit
Holy smokes that's quite the trip! How long is that going to take?
Whybaby16154@reddit
My friend drive the Maine Lobster truck straight from Maine all night into Florida- team driving with another guy. You can get fresh Maine Lobster almost anywhere. Red Lobster anyone?
os2mac@reddit
you should know there are different species of lobster. Atlantic Lobster has claws, Pacific Lobster does not.
That's why on the west coast you will get a lobster tail and not a whole lobster. unless you are in a real high end restaurant that flies in lobster from Maine. But be wary if they are charging extreme prices for a tail because it's likely not maine lobster.
Note: they taste exactly the same there is no difference in taste or texture between the too. they are running up the price to sell you a Maine lobster due to the transportation costs but are getting them locally.
ambirch@reddit
Lobster is best in Maine and ok in New England. For the rest of the country it's the same. It has to be flowing in live anyway. Crab depends on the type. As people have said Baltimore is famous for crab. But snow and king crab are frozen on the ship and shipped everywhere so it doesn't really matter where you are. There are plenty of no frills restaurants where you can get $30 lb of snow crab. You don't need to go to a really expensive restaurant.
dotdedo@reddit
If you have crab in the east cost you will be chasing that high for the rest of your life.
Was in Maryland once and had a lot of amazing sea food and then came back to Michigan and it hasn’t felt the same since
13mys13@reddit
West coast lobster (spiny) is better than east coast, imo. Look around san diego
Streamjumper@reddit
No.
13mys13@reddit
Yes. all day, every day. not as much meat but the pacific lobster is way better tasting.
Living_Fig_6386@reddit
Maryland is particularly known for it's crab, and New England (Maine, Massachusetts, Rhode Island) for it's Lobster and chowders. If you are going to be in DC, it's a short drive to Maryland for excellent crab. None of the other places on your list are particularly well known for either, and I'd be leery of seafood in places so far from the ocean (Philadelphia and Chicago, to a lesser extent, Austin).
LA is probably best known for Sonoran-style street tacos and for breakfast burritos; probably sushi. NYC has pretty much everything, but best known for delicatessens and NY-style pizza, maybe NY-style cheescake. Philadelphia will have your cheesesteaks, soft pretzels, and maybe tomato pie and TastyKakes. Chicago would be your deep dish pizza, Italian beef and several other distinctive sandwiches. Austin would be craft beer, kolaches, Tex-Mex food, and barbecue. San Diego would be craft beer, tacos (especially fish tacos), and burritos.
Throwaway-ish123a@reddit
Come to Baltimore, Maryland hon' for crabs. Or, if you don't want to get shot, visit Annapolis instead. Make sure to ask for Old Bay seasoning, some like it, some don't, but that's the classic serving.
moonchic333@reddit
Maine is the premier location for lobster.
rgg40@reddit
Get lobster in Maine, crab in Maryland.
I also had a great lobster dinner in Hampton Beach NH.
yurinator71@reddit
Have Maine mail you some lobsters 🦞
alt-box@reddit
If you can't get steamed crabs in DC or can't take a trip into Maryland, Philadelphia is your second best shot for blue crabs. You may be able to get steamed and spiced Chesapeake blue crabs in season there as it's still close to the Chesapeake Bay (I live about 45 minutes away and can get them easily but never tried in the city). Look for male crabs; a number of "all you can eat" places in the summer give you females, which are smaller and have less meat.
One thing to note is that if it's not in season for Chesapeake crabs, that is the summer, you'll get crab shipped from the Gulf of Mexico, which are in season in fall. That's probably fine but I do think Chesapeake crabs taste different!
That said. DC has the Wharf and if you have accommodations where you can eat something that smells strongly, and you can get a bag home (take an Uber rather than the bus lol), I think there's still one spot there that'll steam and spice them for you when you buy crabs from them. So you might be able to swing that. Last time I was there, it didn't have seating, but it's been years so just check it out before you make plans.
If you don't want to pick crabs, or if it's not in season, find a restaurant that does crab cakes. Those exist all over the DC region as well as the Philly region, at varying price points, look for ones that use jumbo lump crab meat with no filler. Eggs Chesapeake is a fun breakfast option too.
I would recommend getting other kinds of crab elsewhere in the US too, in particular west coast spots like others have mentioned—there's great variety and they're prepared differently so it's worth it to try as much as possible.
Lobster is best in New England, unfortunately not on your itinerary but it's a lovely part of the country to visit if you're not locked into your current plan! Otherwise NYC for lobster like others have said.
Streamjumper@reddit
Day trip to Coastal Connecticut can be about 2 hours from NYC and there's tons of lobster shacks down there as well as plenty of scenic and historic tourist sites.
SummitJunkie7@reddit
New England for lobster, but since you're not going there - go to a higher end restaurant that serves it. You have to pay higher prices for decent quality when you're not eating it local to where it's found.
DC should have some good crab, mid-Atlantic coast is the right region for blue crab - there's dungeness crab in the pacific northwest, but you aren't traveling there either.
Streamjumper@reddit
Coastal Connecticut is right there, with tons of authentic lobster shacks. And some nice places to visit.
kirstynloftus@reddit
If I had to guess, probably NYC. But crab/lobster is largely a New England specialty- any chance you could take a train up to CT for a day?
Fickle-Aardvark6907@reddit
NYC gets lobster from the same water as most of New England so it should be about as good there as anyplace south of Maine.
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
If you can be sure it’s fresh, not frozen. That’s a very big if.
Streamjumper@reddit
Its almost certainly going to be fresh if you're getting boiled Maine Lobster in NYC. Its literally a few hours from the boats in CT/MA, and a few more from Maine.
BoopleBun@reddit
Fulton Fish Market is like, what, the second largest in the world? It’s not that big an if.
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
That’s great, if that’s where you’re eating. And most of the fish at Fulton’s are, you know, dead. That’s a deal breaker for Lobster.
If I were in NYC, Lobster is not what I’d be ordering. Period. To be fair, I live in coastal New England. If NY as close as you can get, great. But if you could have Lobster in Maine instead? Clearly that would be the correct choice.
Fickle-Aardvark6907@reddit
In NYC its almost certainly fresh. Every place that sells them, keeps them live in a tank.
quitealargeorangecat@reddit
Crab is more of a Maryland thing.
MonsieurRuffles@reddit
Crab’s not a New England thing. In fact, you can get better crab in New Jersey where it’s caught fresh at the shore or the Delaware Bay.
KatrynaTheElf@reddit
Maryland is very famous for its blue crabs- delish! 🦀
kirstynloftus@reddit
Ah, yes, was focusing on lobster- MD (and especially the Baltimore area) is great for crabs!
Schlechtyj@reddit
Agree with eastcounty88 - try for blue crab in dc. Blue crab boils are a typical American activity for those areas around the Chesapeake bay and the gulf. I live in the Midwest now and have to get them flown in from Maryland. Eating blue crab is different than crab legs or lobster tails from Alaska or New England, so watch a video on how to eat them. Here is a restaurant in Arlington that has them. https://www.quarterdeckarlington.com/menus/
Top_Copy_693@reddit
We don't boil around the Bay, we steam them.
Unique_Let_2880@reddit
Seconding Quarter Deck if you need a metro-accessible spot in DC. Baltimore will be better (accessible via the cheap and fast MARC train) and slightly outside of the cities by car will be better yet.
Consistent_Case_5048@reddit
This is a good place if you can't get to Annapolis or Baltimore in Maryland.
TooManyDraculas@reddit
NYC and the DC Metro (especially if you head over to Maryland while there) will have the best access to the freshest seafood while you're here.
Seafood quality, and price, in the US is heavily reliant on proximity to the shore and connection to fisheries.
NYC is one of the largest wholesale hubs for seafood in North America and you can get pretty much anything, at pretty good prices. There are both lobster and crab fisheries in the NYC Metro Area, and it's the main destination for fisheries From Maine south to New Jersey.
Maryland (which DC sits against) is one of the 2 states on the Chesapeake which is one of our biggest fisheries, and our biggest blue claw crab fishery. And there's likewise a major distribution system for seafood in the DC metro.
Both are good for the standard American Lobster and Blue Claw Crabs. Crabs are more common in Maryland/DC, and NYC will have more options on Lobster.
San Diego is a coastal city, west coast seafood is different than East Coast. In particular the crab. San Diego has locally caught Rock Crab, and Dungeness Crab should be available in season. And for my money Dungeness crab is the best crab. Local lobsters aren't a huge thing on the west coast, but they exist. East Coast lobster will be stupid expensive there.
Chicago and Austin are not known for their seafood. But Austin isn't crazy far from the gulf. Blue crabs are still a thing down there, as are things like stone crab claws. Generally the thing they're more famous for is shrimp.
Chicago is a transit hub, so they have access to good seafood. But it's gonna be much the same as any other part of the country, and more expensive.
Philly is OK on sea food. We're close enough to fisheries, but not a major distribution hub for it. I wouldn't go out of my way while here. When blue claw crab is in season, it crops up everywhere. But it's coming from Maryland. The one thing that might be worth seeking out is crab gravy. A local Italian American ragu made from fresh crab.
The best thing you can do is narrow in on what's local in each of those spots that are on or near the coast.
Find restaurants. You don't want to be cooking this stuff without experience, and while travelling. And supermarkets are pretty much the worse place to buy seafood. On the coasts fishmarkets often serve cooked seafood meals, and that can be the freshest and best price you can find. But it's mostly outside of cities.
anonymous_fart5@reddit
If you are wanting to eat snow crab then it doesn't matter where you get it. It's all boiled and flash frozen due to how quickly it goes bad.
Apprehensive_Run6642@reddit
If you want the best crabs, when in DC get out of town and go to Kent Island in the Chesapeake bay. Find a crab house as close to the dock as possible, get crabs.
Lobster your best bet might be New York, but even that is a little south of prime lobster zone.
Appropriate_Sock6893@reddit
In Maine you can buy lobster for cheap and as fresh as possible!
sleepyj910@reddit
For crab go to Baltimore or other Chesapeake Bay adjacent cities like Annapolis, you can drive from DC, for Lobster down east Maine is ideal, but NYC has everything. A quick search reveals 'Smithereens' in the East Village provides traditional New England fare.
pconrad0@reddit
But be careful.
Some of the big tourist trap style "crab" restaurants in Baltimore are terrible (I'm looking at you, Phillips Crab House.)
Baltimore (and anywhere close to the Chesapeake Bay) is definitely where to get crabs. But be discerning and check reviews. There are great places for crab, and there are awful ones.
Lamballama@reddit
Captain Jack's and Crab Towne USA have amazing crab cakes though. Honestly, Blues just aren't very good eating on their own, at least not as good as Dungeoness or King (Snow are the awkward middle child where they're long but scrawny)
Lamballama@reddit
Between NYC and DC, stop in Baltimore to go to either Captain Jack's of Crab Towne USA for the lump crab cakes (Captain Jack's I believe in Tuesday gets you a pound of crab cakes for $40). Maryland blue crabs aren't really that good for eating on their own. Maybe California gets some good Dungeoness or King crab from Washington State, but if you want the good stuff you'd have to head up to Seattle and get the Crab and Crab and Crab set from Crab Bucket (3 types of crab)
Any_Assumption_2023@reddit
Stone crab, go to Florida. Just wow.
Soft shell crab, go to Maryland.
Lobster, go to Maine.
SmokinHotNot@reddit
Born in DC. Haven't been back in decades, but doubt things have changed much. Pull up a map and zoom in. The Potomac River runs thru DC, and is sourced from the Chesapeake Bay off the Atlantic. Boats head out early for fish and crab, and return in time to source the restaurants in the area. Search in the map for "seafood restaurants". Look for the clusters near the river. Zoom in, identify the restaurants, then use the web to review their menu items and availability. Some fresh seafood may have availability issues.
Good luck. Hope you find something to your liking. Growing up, my brother and I used to go with our father when he'd take the small boat he had to the Bay and go crabbing. My mother loved blue crab. We'd usually come back with a bushel. She'd steam them up and we feasted.
Rtn2NYC@reddit
DC, but if you can’t find any or don’t have time to go to Annapolis, when you get to NYC, go to Brooklyn crab. It’s a Maryland style crab house in Red Hook (a Brooklyn neighborhood) and it’s easily accessible by ferry.
You can find decent lobster in NYC too, though the best lobster is in Boston or further north
meowmix778@reddit
I feel somewhat uniquely qualified to answer this because I live in Maine and I've lived near NYC and lived in Chicago.
The thing I can tell you is don't get lobster in the south, NYC or Chicago. I have no idea about Philly but your best bet is DC. They have good crab there if nothing else.
FineWashables@reddit
NYC, LA, and San Diego are all on the coast. Choose a decent seafood restaurant in any of these cities.
No_Patience_6801@reddit
In San Diego you HAVE to get fish tacos. And lots of Mexican food. San Diego has the best Mexican food outside of Mexico.
Carinyosa99@reddit
Maryland. And when you come to DC, you need to ask around because crab is not the same from place to place around here. You will probably have to travel closer to Baltimore to get decent crab.
No_Patience_6801@reddit
DC is where you should get a crabcake. It’s closest to Maryland which is renowned for the blue crab. Try Georgetown seafood or the Old Ebbitt Grill.
theegodmother1999@reddit
maryland for crab, which is between DC and the rest of your East Coast cities, and then go just a little bit beyond NY to the coastal states north of it for lobster. yes maine is the best place to get lobster but you can definitely get very good lobster up there if you can't make it to maine
kvsig@reddit
DC for crab (you want fresh unpasteurized) and NYC for the lobster (they're right next to New England. Having said that, Dungeness crab on the west coast is very good too.
HardyMenace@reddit
Not the shellfish you asked about, but since you're going to be in Philly, go to Monk's Cafe and get the mussels
Tibbiegal@reddit
My choices have always been Maryland for crab and Maine for lobster. Maybe you could hit the first one.
ChicagoTRS666@reddit
I mean you can get good crab or lobster in about any major city. If you are closer to the source it will be less expensive.
Mr_Kittlesworth@reddit
Are you going to be here for months?
goodamm@reddit (OP)
Yep
Mr_Kittlesworth@reddit
Awesome. Anyway, your best fresh crabs with that agenda will be taken from the Chesapeake Bay while you’re in the DC area. Also make sure you get some oysters.
You should also get some Alaskan king crabs at a nice seafood place when you’re in LA. They’ll be shipped frozen, but they’ll still be excellent.
No-Buy503@reddit
Carol
Weightmonster@reddit
Maryland, maybe on your way to DC or as a side trip. I’m sure the hotel can recommend a place. The best are often small local places.
BearFluffy@reddit
I hope you're flying between some of the as e destinations. I also hope you planned for more than a week or two. You're aware of how far apart everything is, right?
goodamm@reddit (OP)
Do you actually think I have booked a whole trip without knowing anything? Yes I’m flying and I’m there for 10 weeks.
BearFluffy@reddit
Americans could never get enough vacation time to take a trip long enough for all of that. I forgot that you guys have it way better 😭😭
WaldoJeffers65@reddit
Not pertinent to the question, but I'm curious- how long are you planning on visiting the US? Because you're covering a lot of ground and I'm wondering how much time you'll be in each location vs. how much time you're going to spend traveling from one place to the next. A lot of foreigners don't realize how truly big the US is and severely overestimate how many different locations they can visit in one trip.
all_teh_sandwiches@reddit
Drive from Philly to DC and stop off in Baltimore on the way. There is nowhere better in tge country for crab
Certain-Monitor5304@reddit
Somewhere coastal that has fresh lobster that's not shipped it.
somecow@reddit
A decent (and unfortunately expensive) buffet in Austin might suit your needs. But ngl you’ll just want barbecue anyway.
Crawfish season right now though, that’s what you want.
AwesomeOrca@reddit
If you're looking for specific seafood recommendations in Chicago, Luke's Lobster Chicago City Hall in the Loop is about as close as you’ll get to a true New England, style lobster roll in the Midwest. Oh My Crab in West Ridge is an absolute gem, and does New Orleans or Cajun syle seafood boils. If you’re looking to splurge, Bavette's Bar & Boeuf is one of the city’s best steakhouses but also has excellent seafood, including an incredible tower, just be aware it’s pricey and reservations can be tough to get.
LankyJeep@reddit
Crab in Maryland, Lobster you’d really want to be in New England so Maine NH or Massachusetts to really get good fresh lobster but you can find it in the NYC area too it’ll just cost you more
minneyar@reddit
I know it's not what you were asking about, but don't get seafood in Austin. It's pretty far from the ocean, and getting anything that's fresh-caught would be expensive.
Do get BBQ and/or Tex-mex while you're in Austin.
No-Contact6664@reddit
Austin has amazing seafood and I assure you BBQ is FAR more expensive. A pound of brisket will cost more than a Lobster Roll easy. I dunno why people say the things they do.
Austin Oyster Company - Best Lobster Roll in Austin and on par with Maine
Fish Shop ATX - $2 Oysters at Happy Hour
Clark's
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Mongers
calcato@reddit
Finally a thread with Austin people. Isn't there crabbing on the Gulf coast? Like from Corpus Christy or somewhere like that?
No-Contact6664@reddit
Not really? There is Blue Crab on the TX coast but I never see it on menus or for sale specific to the Texas coast. Usually Shrimp, Redfish, Black Drum. Fishing is insane in the bays down there. I went on a charter and was catching 4-6 fish every cast with pieces of shrimp on 6 hooks.
There's a burgeoning oyster farm scene and the ones from Three Sisters Oyster Farm are available at Fish Shop ATX. They are the best oysters I've had from the gulf and actually small like east coast oysters. I'm guessing they harvest them early instead of letting them become monsters that snobs don't want.
goodamm@reddit (OP)
BBQ is defs on the menu while I’m there!! Do you have any recommendations for a spot
No-Contact6664@reddit
Austin has direct connections to Maine seafood and the owners of several place in Austin source directly from Maine.
Austin Oyster Co is a fantastic place to get Lobster and oysters from Maine. As good as any place in Portland Maine with the exception of Eventide.
chinchaaa@reddit
Skip Austin and go to Boston instead. I say that as someone that lives in Austin.
Grouchy-Stand-4570@reddit
Maine is known for its fresh lobster. It’s mostly a cold water crustacean. I would say any reputable seafood or steak place in NYC
lavasca@reddit
San Diego will have it . Restaurants in or near the following neighbirhoods & suburbs will be optimal:
Point Loma (near airport)
Coronado ( also near-ish airport but over a bridge)
Bankers Hill
Gaslamp
La Jolla
Del Mar
Carlsbad
It is also kind of important when you are going.
Use Google or Yelp to identify specific restaurants.
Prudent_Champion_698@reddit
Crab in DC/Maryland a place where you sit and they just pile them on the table on top of newspapers. Try to get out of dc and find a more authentic place, you won’t need to go far or the Navy Yard in DC. Navy yard is actually a cool little spot in DC. None of those cities are really lobster spots, (lobster is primarily from Maine), but NYC is closest geographically and I’m sure you could find a New England style place. For lobster i’d just google best lobster roll in NYC. I prefer hot lobster rolls with melted butter but they also serve them cold with mayonnaise. In my opinion this is the best way to eat lobster.
Seidhr96@reddit
You can get crab or lobster anywhere in the United States, but the freshest lobster usually is found in the north east, specifically Maine. The freshest crab (smaller blue crab) in the Chesapeake region (Virginia, Maryland, Washington, DC) and Alaska (larger crabs like king crab).
winteriscoming9099@reddit
Maryland for crab. Any coastal New England state for lobster (Maine, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Connecticut, that tiny sliver of New Hampshire) though I’d say Maine does it particularly well.
Euphoric_Ease4554@reddit
In a restaurant, not a grocery store
Ok-Measurement3882@reddit
You’re hitting up several large northeast cities, so finding crab and lobster shouldn’t be too difficult.
If I were you, I’d eat at Old Ebbitt and Joe’s Stone Crab in DC. Plenty of shellfish options from up and down the eastern seaboard.
RedSolez@reddit
People have given you great advice on the ideal experience but if you're looking for a simple but still delicious experience just go to Chickie's and Pete's while you're in Philly. There are decent crab and lobster items on the menu at all times and crab fries too (which don't actually contain crab but are delicious).
Emily_Postal@reddit
Good steakhouses usually have excellent crab cakes and lobster tails.
FancyRatFridays@reddit
If you're in DC during softshell crab season, go down to the Wharf and find a place that's serving it. Nothing like a fried softshell crab in that environment; it's magical.
If you want a great (but expensive!) lobster roll, The Salt Line restaurant does a good one. It's much more pricey than if you ordered the same thing in Maine, but it's very very tasty.
Federal-Membership-1@reddit
You can find stores and restaurants that sell/cook live lobster everywhere in the US. I think the best place to enjoy lobster is outdoors at a picnic table, very close to where it landed, which means New England, ideally at a place that cooks a lot of lobster. A lobster roll from the area will be a decent entry point. We have a food truck that serves Maine lobster rolls that pops up near us way down in NJ.
Same for crabs. Atlantic blue crabs are shipped live from the mid-atlantic to points all over. The best experience will be at a picnic table very near where the crabs were caught at a place that cooks crabs as the main attraction. You can find these places from Souhern NJ through Delaware, Maryland ( obviously), and south. If you've never eaten crab at all, find a spot that is famous for crab cakes.
bmsa131@reddit
NYC will have plenty of lobster. Especially in the summer. You can head to Long Island to lobster farms if you really want.
travelinmatt76@reddit
How long are you going to be here and how do you plan on getting to all these places?
_WillCAD_@reddit
When you're in DC, make a side trip to Maryland and try crabs.
As a Marylander, I can confirm - crabs in Maryland are on a different level from the rest of the country. The crabs in Maryland are a species called blue crabs, which come from the Chesapeake Bay. They can be found in other parts of the US, but they have a special significance to Maryland's cuisine and economy.
We have several signature crab dishes: steamed crabs, which are as much of an experience as they are a food, crabcakes, and crab soup.
What time of year are you visiting? Steamed crabs are a summer thing that you won't find in winter, but crabcakes and crab soup can be found year-round.
Useful_Humor_1152@reddit
When you go to the city your in google seafood restaurants and check their ratings. You can also ask locals when you get here. NY will import lobster from Maine.
Maryland DC area best for crab
Have you eaten other types of shellfish before? Shrimp? Some people are highly allergic to shellfish so be aware of that issue.
RevenueOriginal9777@reddit
Chesapeake Bay Blue Crab is wonderful, sweet meat.
AnitaIvanaMartini@reddit
Have the lobster in NYC, preferably Long Island. Once you get to the city try and find the best place.
Eat the crab in Maryland, for sure.
tcrhs@reddit
You can usually find crab and lobster in seafood restaurants in all major American cities. Don’t try to cook it yourself, you won’t know how and it smells bad when boiled inside.
The price will vary more depending on the season. You’ll pay more for it in some cities than others. DC is the best area for lobster rolls.
CombatRedRover@reddit
Since I don't see anyone actually answering the question on the OP's parameters:
Crab (Maryland blue crab): technically not in DC, but it is inside the beltway so it counts.
Bethesda Crab House. 4958 Bethesda Avenue Bethesda, MD
Note: The last time I went there was over a decade ago, but I can't imagine it's fallen off. It will be expensive. It will be worth it.
Crab (snow crab legs): Philadelphia. Chickie's and Pete's. It's a chain, there are multiple locations in the Philadelphia area.
Also, I just learned that there's a location in Vegas, Kansas City, and Reno. That's weird. Philly people really will go to some weird places.
I don't have any particular lobster recommendations, but for the cities you've listed, those are the crab locations I would recommend.
Good luck, and have fun!
Boring_Material_1891@reddit
What kind of crabs? King and Dungeness crabs are far superior to Blue crabs (I’ve spent 20 years on each coast, I said what I said). If you can get fresh Dungeness crabs, that’s the tops. If you’re on the east coast and can only get Blue crabs, then it’s still a fine crab.
yoyogogo111@reddit
As a Maryland native, I endorse this. I like Maryland blue crabs just fine, and will happily house 5-6 in a sitting. But they are laborious and messy, and I prefer the larger king/snow/dungeness, even stone crab.
Quality and preparation do matter, too - good blue crabs are better than bad/watery/rubbery king crab, but when they’re both at their best, the pacific species are better.
Boring_Material_1891@reddit
Definitely agree. A well steamed blue crab is still delicious, but like for like, I’ll take cold water crabs.
HellYeahBelle@reddit
As a Baltimorean, I appreciate and respect you saying it with your full chest. How would you describe what you prefer about Dungeness crab?
Boring_Material_1891@reddit
It’s a bit sweeter and it’s much less work for the amount of meat you get.
Radar1980@reddit
Honestly if price is no object, you can get lobster and crab in any of those cities. Of those, I’d suggest Philly or NYC. The source is more important. Lobsters you want from Maine/Canada, and crabs it’s going to vary. Stone crab is my favorite (Florida), but Philadelphia you’d probably be able to get Blue crab, from Maryland, or Rock and Sand crabs (Massachusetts).
On the west coast (San Diego, LA) it will be easier to source Dungeness crab.
Justtakeit1776@reddit
California does lobster quite well. You can get some great lobster rolls at Santa Monica Pier in LA.
SouthernReality9610@reddit
West coast is good for king crab. Your best bet for lobster is New England. Bookbinders in Philadelphia was great, but you missed it by about 20 years.
censorized@reddit
Everyone is talking about Marytland crab, which is fun but very labor intensive because they're so small. To get a true US crab experience, you should also try dungeness crab on the west coast. It would be best from northern CA , Oregon and Washington, but since you're not going there, LA or San Diego should do.
calcato@reddit
Listen to this ^ person, OP, they know what's up.
calcato@reddit
TL/DR: Get local foods where they are, or closest to wherever they come from.
For lobster, have Maine lobster and get it in one of the East coast cities because it will be freshest in those locations. All of them (NYC and DC, especially) will be expensive. Maybe in Philly it would cost you a little less.
For crab, have Dungeness and get it in L.A. or San Diego. It is from the Pacific Northwest so it will be freshest in those locations. But price-wise, save it for San Diego where it is likely to be less expensive.
I suppose there is Gulf of Mexico crab that you could get when you are in Austin. They're tiny though, and I have no idea what they cost.
Ursus-majorbone@reddit
Lobster you can get pretty much anywhere although it is better and more available at lesser prices in New England.
East Coast crabs are a good social occasion and something you should definitely try. But nothing, including lobster, comes close to Dungeness crab. That's a West Coast thing and mostly Northwest although California has plenty. I'm not sure if I've ever had Dungeness crab in Los Angeles. They must have it somewhere. Does anyone on here know places in LA that are good for crab?
Osidestarfish@reddit
In San Diego find a good place for Puerto Nuevo style lobster. Puerto Nuevo is a small town across the border just south of Tijuana that became locally famous for their style of doing the spiny lobster. It’s split whole and cooked. Served with fresh tortillas, beans, rice, and butter. And it’s fantastic.
Pleasant_Pen8744@reddit
Chinese food buffet on seafood night.
_Bon_Vivant_@reddit
Maine is known for lobster. Maryland is known for crab. But you can get good crab or lobster in almost any state. The quality depends on the restaurant.
Any_Stop_4401@reddit
Going to add besides the north east coast and Maryland. If you get a chance Seattle/Portland and the PNW on the northern west coast for king crab, and dungeness crab, also good Salmon.
Fickle_Waltz_2211@reddit
The Blue Crabs of Maryland are the best
evilr2@reddit
All are major cities where you can find restaurants that make lobster rolls. You'll also be able to find crab at seafood restaurants in all those cities as well, though you'll probably have more options for some great local blue crab in the DC area.
I'm in LA and in CA we're currently in season for our local species which is the dungeness crab. It's worth a try as well.
traviall1@reddit
Maryland for crabs, Boston/New England for lobster, the coasts for fish
Alg0mal000@reddit
Since you’re going to be on the West Coast, try Dungeness, Rock Crab, or Spider Crab. While you’re in LA, check out Neptune’s Net (Malibu) or HC Seafood (Oxnard).
ViciousOtter1@reddit
Go to a few crawfish boils in New Orleans and skip the other cities. Try some crawfish cheesecake at Jacquimos.
dontkillmysoul@reddit
👍San Diego has amazing seafood. 👍
DefinitelyNotLola@reddit
Philadelphia here, chiming in. It’s true, you should have crabs in Baltimore. And yeah, New York and DC are great food towns. But Philly absolutely holds its own when it comes to seafood. We’ve got plenty of it, and it’s good. If you want something classic, get a crab cake sandwich at Pearl’s Oyster Bar in Reading Terminal Market. If you’re doing the tourist thing, you’ll probably end up there anyway.
Get a lobster roll for lunch. Sure, New England invented them but you're not going there. Luke’s Lobster does a legit one with the same style bread they use up north. It’s also a good excuse to wander around Rittenhouse. Same neighborhood, but more upscale, Oyster House is a longtime staple. Not cheap, but seafood usually isn’t, and they do more than just oysters. It's a nice place. If your goal is to just sit down and try all of the kinds of seafood, Royal Buffet & Grill deep in South Philly is an option. It’s a ridiculously large Asian buffet that specializes in seafood. Crab, crab legs, Alaskan king crab legs, giant shrimp, baby shrimp, whole lobsters, lobster claws..it's all there. It’s not fine dining, but it's always super busy so everything is pretty fresh. Plus, if you want to people watch and marvel at American gluttony, a massive buffet is quite the experience. Bottom line, Philly might not be the first place people think of for seafood, but we got plenty. Go birds.
pbmadman@reddit
Wherever you go, make sure it’s fresh. Usually the best places are dumps on the coast that buy from some local fisherman.
I grew up in a coastal town and the local paper did a piece on the source of seafood in all the restaurants. Despite being a fishing town, so many places didn’t use local, much less fresh seafood.
Lots of towns have a fish market, it’s going to be a sketchy building in a sketchy part of town and they will have super limited hours. That’s a guarantee of the good stuff.
Sh0ckValu3@reddit
I've seen the "Crab in Maryland and Lobster in Maine" thing. Around where I'm at (Very tip of NW Washington) we say "Crab here, lobster over on the other side"
cmiller4642@reddit
If you’re going to DC check out Captain White’s for crabs.
crispyrhetoric1@reddit
Dungeness crabs in California.
Electrical-Ad1288@reddit
New England is the key region for lobster.
You can always buy a live grocery store lobster if your accommodation has a kitchen and a big enough pot. Make sure to get some good butter as well.
Niro5@reddit
As a former DC resident, I want to absolutely cosign on the Baltimore crab stop.
But as a west coast transplant I got to say Dungenus Crab is amazing! Its natural range ends just north of LA, so you should be able to get it fresh in San Diego.
easy_Money@reddit
Crab in Maryland, Lobster in Maine. Those are the only 2 answers, anyone who says otherwise is just being a homer
brokensharts@reddit
Dont listen to these people.
You want king crab, not the goofy east coast ones. Get lobster on the east coast and king crab or Dungeness on the west coast
mrtsapostle@reddit
As someone born and raised in California, dungeness and king crab are pale imitations of the flavor you get with a good Maryland blue crab
Bernssogood@reddit
If none of the suggestions here to hit the crab shacks on the Maryland shore during your travels resonate with you, you can get a version of Mid-Atlantic crab dishes in Philadelphia. Head to one of the several Chickie’s and Pete’s locations for an order of crab fries with a Yuengling.
To be explicit, this is a last ditch suggestion given that you’ll be in both DC and Philly. Go to a Baltimore sub and see what’s trending there for crabs when you’re visiting. Blue crab in Maryland is absolutely the way to go on your itinerary.
geekycurvyanddorky@reddit
You should go to Oregon to have crab, as well as slumgullion chowder. Lobster is better on the East Coast, but crab is better in the Pacific Northwest. You could have some proper cowboy food in Oregon too, at Cowboy Dinner Tree (where the some cowboys and ranchers would stop to have meals).
United_Gift3028@reddit
The further north, and on the Atlantic coast, the better and cheaper it will be. Seriously, you can get lobster anywhere, but it's considered pricey the further from the NE you go. Enjoy!
No-Contact6664@reddit
Lobster Rolls are more expensive in NE because of the demand. You can get one in Milwaukee at St Paul Fish Co for a fraction of what it costs in Maine. Why? Demand.
Counter intuitive but true. Since lobster is shipped live there's also no it's fresher there aspect.
Source - From Maine
United_Gift3028@reddit
Dang, I pay for little 5" rolls here, and pay $25 because it...well. I think it was 30 years ago I was in Maine, and the lobster was cheap. Sorry to hear that's no longer true.
Can you imagine that 200y ears ago, lobster was hog food?!?
miketugboat@reddit
NYC and DC have decent lobster rolls. DC/MD for blue crab though. It's more work than larger crabs, but the flavor is better. Blue crab is a bit of an event thing though, sure there are great crab cakes but every summer I get together with friends and family to spend hours cracking open crabs, drinking corona or natty boh, and snacking on fries, somewhere outside.
There are places that have all you can eat crabs that basically serve this, that's what I would suggest. If you need a specific recommendation I can help with that.
Failing that, soft shell blue crab is a delicacy.
West coast has good pacific crabs(dungeness, king crab, etc), those are larger and easier to eat.
miketugboat@reddit
https://youtube.com/shorts/GuPfdnmwlmY?si=ceQAxTnXjP7jR57I
Good short on how to pick blue crab. I don't use a knife or tools generally. It's dirty work. Part od the experience are the little cuts you get that you only know are there because the seasoning and vinegar burn.
Enjoy the states!
redvinebitty@reddit
Dungeness crab in the Pacific Northwest is the best crab
venturashe@reddit
If you are limited to those locations, San Diego, but it’s a different lobster than you get on the east coast. Maine would be my first choice
Ok_Brick_793@reddit
OP, I'll be honest and tell you that you should try lobster first. It'll be easier for a first time eater to get the meat out of the tail.
Eating crab requires skill depending on the species. If you're not sure what to order, get snow crab legs.
Do not attempt to eat blue crab if you've never tried crab before. Honestly, they're small and a pain to eat unless you are enjoying a lazy afternoon with nothing else to do for hours. If you've watched movies showing people pounding crab with hammers, they're liking eating blue crab.
epppennn@reddit
Caveat to this; the Phillip’s Crab House in Annapolis will do a whole hands on tutorial for shelling crabs. If you still don’t want to put in the work, a fired soft-shell crab is the way to go.
Ok_Brick_793@reddit
That's true, and I like soft shell crab. However, it's a different experience, and I dunno how OP feels about eating "everything" (minus the really bitter innards).
epppennn@reddit
Oh definitely. I didn’t get the confidence to try it until my 30s. But if OP is coming from a place where crab and lobster aren’t common and they really want to food tour, I want to make sure they don’t sleep on all their options. Lobster is definitely easier, but my grandparents retired to Winter Harbor, Maine so I grew up shelling straight from traps.
Fun fact! Italy currently has a problem with Chesapeake Bay blue crabs as an invasive species along the southern Italian coast. Since they don’t really know how to cook or eat them, I’m trying to convince my husband to move there and open up an east coast/ low country American crab shack.
Ok_Brick_793@reddit
You might be too clever, lol.
Now I'm hungry and want some soft shell crab. T_T
epppennn@reddit
Ugh, me too. And I’m stuck in Chicago and don’t trust any “seafood” here. Maybe I’ll just add a teaspoon of old bay to my hot lemon water before bed tonight… just to take the edge off
Alycion@reddit
DC for crab. Or if you don’t mind taking a trip into Baltimore, you can get better there.
Avoid Phillips. It’s a tourist trap and does not live up to Maryland expectations. I’ll never figure out how the one location in Ocean City has a line around the block every night. Especially when there is cheaper and better options.
If I think to ask my MIL about the name of the one place we would hit, I’ll let ya know. Green Turtle has good food. I’m stoked they just opened one near me since I moved out of state a long time ago and Florida just sucks with blue crab.
seancbo@reddit
Of those, east coast is your best bet, and you can absolutely find some excellent lobster in New York
doonerthesooner@reddit
If you go to any nice place in any of those cities they get frequent, fresh deliveries daily.
Trulucks in Austin for example.
LetterheadClassic306@reddit
i ran into this last year when my cousin visited from overseas. for lobster, you want maine or boston but since you're hitting nyc and philly, those work too. in nyc try luke's lobster for a casual roll or go to crab house in philly for maryland blue crabs. for grocery stores, whole foods sells pre-cooked lobster tails and crab legs - just ask the seafood counter to steam them for you. honestly the northeast does it best so focus on nyc/philly/dc for quality. avoid grocery store crab unless it's a dedicated seafood market.
Capable_Stranger9885@reddit
In Philadelphia, Sansom Street Oyster House has crab cakes and whole lobster (and also has legendary Philadelphia recipe, snapper soup, if you are game to try turtle meat too) although the real bushel of crabs experience can be had from Anastasi Seafood in the Italian Market, or out of one of the trucks on Oregon Avenue.
kmoonster@reddit
On a separate note, how long is your trip?
7 cities in 6 states and 4 time zones is pretty intense, and you list them as if you are making the trip into a loop which means you do the jet lag twice.
Agreed with the others on Maryland if you can.
goodamm@reddit (OP)
Yep, it is a loop. I’m flying in and out of LA. 9 weeks.
kmoonster@reddit
Ok, 9 weeks will be enough to enjoy an itinerary like this. You gave me a heart attack initially. Too many people plan a trip like this with only a week or two, which is not enough to both do the travelling and enjoy the places.
goodamm@reddit (OP)
Oh god no! I did something similar in Europe with less time and I will not be shoving so many places into a shorter time ever again!!
kmoonster@reddit
Good! And well done learning the lesson on the first try!
kmoonster@reddit
Just make sure to avoid the chain/corporate restaurants. Ask in a city or state-specific subreddit for their recommendations when you get closer.
DanteRuneclaw@reddit
Eat it at a restaraunt, don't try to cook it yourself.
state_issued_femboy@reddit
Red lobster lmao
ApprehensivePie1195@reddit
I understand the want to try these things. As ppl said get your blue crabs in DC/Maryland. Lobster isnt a great option on your list of cities. But have you thought about getting things you can only get in the cities you are visiting?
No-Contact6664@reddit
We've determined Americans can't read.
Kurtista@reddit
Everyone as top comment already have it, I'm from Virginia and you gotta get some Chesapeake blue crab in Maryland (between DC and Philly)
If you are a little scared by it, go for a crab cake. If you are a little more comfy just get crab legs.
If you want to go all in and get the experience - try to find a place that does "Crab Picking". You will sit at a table with a bunch of newspaper tablecloth and beers and some sides then pull apart every inch of those little beasts for the best seafood meat you've ever eaten!
Altruistic-Cloud-552@reddit
Maine for sure
devilscabinet@reddit
Don't eat lobster. They boil them alive. That's just cruel.
49JC@reddit
Lobster go to coastal New England. Rhode Island and Maine specifically, maybe Massachusetts
thelmaandpuhleeze@reddit
When are you coming? Maryland crab is famous for good reason, but if you can get Dungeness in season (the ultimate west coast crab), it’s pretty much the best thing ever. (In SF, the season is nov/dec–june/july. I think it starts earlier the farther north you go.)
Status_Agents@reddit
DC for crab and NYC for lobster honestly the perfect combo for a first-timer Get a crab cake in DC first way less intimidating than cracking a whole crab yourself
bjanas@reddit
Yeah, as a proud Bostonian I need to begrudgingly second Maryland for crab.
Cape Cod is where it's at for Lobster, but Maryland absolutely crushes crab. Enjoy. Find a local to help you learn to eat 'em, it's a bit of a skill.
Sponsorspew@reddit
Crab - Maryland Lobster - Maine
Cayderent@reddit
I like crabs & lobster very much. However, both are insanely overpriced nowadays.
Stardustchaser@reddit
Dungeness (sp?) Crab from Bodega Bay CA is a lowkey fave
Occamsrazor2323@reddit
Definitely Maryland
San Diego if you're headed west
I would warn that quality and price do not always correlate, and the provenance of sea critters is often impossible to ascertain.
Blue387@reddit
Chinese seafood restaurant that has lobster with ginger and scallion, delish!
therealCatnuts@reddit
Don’t forget oysters.
jvc1011@reddit
While you are in San Diego, cross the border and go to Puerto Nuevo for lobster. It’s about 20-30 minutes south of the border.
Any of the 7,000,000 lobster restaurants there will be great.
Rob_LeMatic@reddit
When you're in DC, you're going to want to get lobster rolls. Mason's Famous Lobster Rolls on Water St Southwest is on the waterfront, it's a good choice.
Since you're not really going to New England, that's your best choice for Maine style lobster rolls. I'm sure someone will want to argue, but part of DC culture is everybody calling everybody else's opinion wrong. You want atmosphere and freshness and quality, you'll get it.
As for a full lobster dinner, maybe NYC but get a recommendation from a local wherever you end up. It's a big city, there's bound to be a great spot near wherever you're staying.
Same with crab. Baltimore near the water is what you want, but also you need to be there during crab season. And ideally September to November. Just get near some water and find a local to trust about the best place to go. Maryland is proud of their crabs and your story will move a group of Marylanders at a friendly pub to steer you to the right spot.
OJSimpsons@reddit
North Dakota
063anon@reddit
In Austin, mexican, bbq or steaks lots of good places there.
MaleficentCoconut594@reddit
Crabs in DC (Maryland specialty). Lobster more of a New England thing, NYC closest you’ll be
Don’t forget deep dish pizza in Chicago, cheesesteak in Philly, and BBQ in Austin. Salt lick BBQ south of Austin is a go-to for us
LastCookie3448@reddit
You must get crab in Maryland, enjoy some baja style seafood in San Diego, and a cheesesteak in Philly. NYC and LA are a gastronomic dream come true. Austin is bbq and chili.
Dapper-Condition6041@reddit
San Francisco in winter for dungeness crab.. 🦀
BuildNuyTheUrbanGuy@reddit
Everyone saying Baltimore/Maryland forgot that they get they're crabs from the real mecca, Louisiana.
goodamm@reddit (OP)
But I’m not going that close to Louisiana, I guess which is why they’re saying Maryland?
BuildNuyTheUrbanGuy@reddit
Yeah I just had to rub it in cuz I'm from Louisiana and live here now.
Traditional_Trust418@reddit
Damn. How long are you gonna be here if you're traveling to so many different spread out places?
You typically can find decent seafood in any city near the ocean. I'm just more concerned about your travel plans unless you're going to be here for a minimum of one month
goodamm@reddit (OP)
9 weeks
quizzicalturnip@reddit
West coast lobster is gross.
musaXmachina@reddit
Out of those locations Chicago and DC. Chi is famous for food and Maryland is known for crab. I want to say blue crab, maybe rock.
reluctantmugglewrite@reddit
For crabs go across the bay and eat at an outdoor crabshack. Its a fantastic experience.
Cornwallis400@reddit
New York or DC will have the best crab and lobster.
The best seafood overall will probably be in San Diego though.
epppennn@reddit
As a DC native, definitely head to Maryland for crab. Baltimore is a cool large city or Annapolis is a quaint traditional east coast town. Both are excellent for fresh crab in all forms. Make sure you try an Old Bay Bloody Mary. If you absolutely cannot make the drive to Maryland, Old Ebbitt Grill on Capitol Hill in DC has great crab cakes and is a DC legacy restaurant.
Currently living in Chicago and it’s definitely a beef town. Amazing steaks and burgers or our signature Italian beef sandwiches. Growing up on the east coast spoiled me on seafood, so I honestly don’t eat it here in Chicago.
If you need restaurant suggestions in rather city, send me a message and I’m happy to help.
GoldenMonkeyRedux@reddit
In Philly go to Sansom St Oyster House or one of our steak houses for lobster. If you're there, try a bowl of snapper soup. Personally I cook it myself or wait until I go up to New England. That said, The Jersey Shore has good places for seafood, but that's generally not on a visitor's itinerary. Atlantic City is the easiest to access via public transportation from Philly but it's not a great place at all. OK for a day trip.
In terms of crab, it's not really crab season until summer or most preferably fall. In which case Baltimore has the best crab houses in the country for blue crab. OTOH, you can attempt to get a dungeness crab, but they're a west coast thing for the most part. Again, most likely a steak house but you could try a place like Alpine Rose and get a seafood tower.
I can't really speak for other cities, but Balthazar in NYC does a good seafood tower. I'm sure there are lots of other options.
Prestigious-Comb4280@reddit
Boston or Maine for lobster.
ToastetteEgg@reddit
Near a coast. Missouri lobster is crap. North east lobster is great. West coast lobster is .01% less great.
Weekly_Barnacle_485@reddit
Maryland for crab. Maine for lobster, but Cape Cod in Massachusetts is a good backup.
OriginalSilentTuba@reddit
Genuine question, how long are you traveling for? Some of those cities are thousands of miles apart (1 mile = 1.6km). The closest distance between cities you have listed is NY and Philly, and those are still 94 miles apart (151km). Are you flying between cities?
goodamm@reddit (OP)
😂 thanks the train and flights I have booked have let me know of that already
Affectionate_Many_73@reddit
Get lobster in New York. The best places really are firstly Maine, and secondly anywhere along the New England seaboard. But New York City will have Maine lobster available and it will still be good. You can find a Luke’s lobster (a seafood chain) and many other seafood places should have it on the menu.
Nearby_Initial2409@reddit
Maine is literally infamous for its Lobsters if you could find a day to pop up. You are far better off going to a small costal town with a lobster shack though than cities in the southern tip like Portland. Those places are tourist traps that will gouge you while these smaller towns you can get them literally fresh off the boat. My town has a bottle depot where you can exchange bottles for freshly caught live lobsters in the tank.
YoshiandAims@reddit
Maine and Maryland are typically the ones super known for their crab/lobster. (Maine is #1 in the states)
Alaska, Louisiana, and California all also offer different types of crab/crawfish. Depending on what type.
El-Viking@reddit
Lobster is poor peoples' food. Make some time in your schedule to stop in Baltimore for some crabs.
green_goblins_O-face@reddit
ive spent time in Maine, been to "the local places"
lobster is overrated. crab is superior. go to Maryland.
Maryland is your new arrakis. old bay is the spice melange
andrewrbat@reddit
new england has the best lobster. Maine and Massachusetts especially. mostly maine. Luke's is the best place ive been but ive only been to portaland and a few other places in Maine a few times.
Maryland for crabs. go during soft shell season and get one of them bitches fried in corn meal on a sandwich. MMMMMM
capsrock02@reddit
Those are two different animals and you should get them at two different places.
External-Creme-6226@reddit
San Diego for cold water crab (dungeness or similar). Philly (or better yet Baltimore) for Blue Crab
JustAnotherDay1977@reddit
DC is your best bet among those places.
tujelj@reddit
If you were going to San Francisco, I’d recommend cioppino, a seafood stew featuring Dungeness crab invented by Italian Americans, but it’s really a local thing.
RumpleDumple@reddit
Thanh Long for garlic roasted crab and garlic noodles
Tokyosmash_@reddit
Maryland is the answer for both
MommyPenguin2@reddit
Maryland for crab! Baltimore or Annapolis. Make sure to have them steamed in Old Bay! You probably need to be there between May and September, though. Out of season, you could probably find crab cakes but crabs themselves would be pricy or hard to find.
FirstPersonWinner@reddit
States in the Northeast are known for shellfish. San Diego also has some good fishing. Like people said, see about stopping in Maryland between DC and Philly for some crab.
Delicious_Oil9902@reddit
Two very different meals - lobster I’m assuming you are referring to Maine Lobster - red cockroach with big claws - Chauncey Creek Lobster in Kittery, ME. Get the blueberry pie as well. Crabs you’ll want around the Chesapeake and make sure they’re local. Lots of places will sell LA horseshit as Chesapeake. Instead of MD I’d direct you to Copps in Lewes DE. All local. Home made iced cream as well
difficult_oven_@reddit
What time of year? DC for blue crab from the Chesapeake. For lobster new england really is king, but you could surely find it in NY. Lobster will be very expensive now, with prices dropping a little in the summer when supply increases.
Cool-Coffee-8949@reddit
None of those are places where you should get lobster.
Bubble_Lights@reddit
DC for crab and NY for lobster. Only because the further north the better the lobster. New England minus VT is ideal. Only because there’s no ocean in VT.
WonderfulVariation93@reddit
You want crab, you come to Maryland.
jbonejimmers@reddit
Crab mecca is Maryland, so Washington DC is probably the most natural spot to prioritize eating it.
Lobster mecca is Maine/Massachusetts, which is a bit north of where you're headed. If you extended the trip up to Boston, I'd say that's your spot. NYC can work too, but you'll want to be a bit more selective of where you go.
antonio16309@reddit
Strip club buffet!
Old-Breakfast5331@reddit
100%
JohnnyC300@reddit
When you're in DC, you're right down the road from the best Blue Crab on the planet. Take a short train ride up to Maryland. For lobster, you're best bet is NYC. It's not exactly the lobsters' natural habitat, but it's only a state or two away. You should be able to get very fresh lobster there.
BoBoBearDev@reddit
China buffet has unlimited crabs
Agitated-Painter5601@reddit
City island in NYC
diligentnickel@reddit
lobster: Maine Crab: dungeoness is most delicious, Oregon, Washington, Alaska. second most delicious Alaskan King Crab. most delicious salmon: Copper River Sockeye.
ShoddyCobbler@reddit
Can you squeeze in a stop in Baltimore between Philly and DC?
Salty_Dog2917@reddit
Maybe ask in those city’s subreddits.
Old-Aardvark945@reddit
This.
DocHoliday8514@reddit
You should probably be able to find them in all those cities.
riarws@reddit
What time of year? Crab especially has seasons where different types are best in different regions.