Over the only light I know

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Shootemout@reddit

sounds like someone needs to find a real hobby. try whittling or smthn. take a shit at the front door of a wendy's or practice batting in front of a very window-ey building

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Letters_to_Dionysus@reddit

i don't have a single original thought

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subnautictrucker@reddit

That tought wasn't original for years and is still solid advice, some people just need to hear more often.

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disc0jesus@reddit

Running over cia agents is kind of a based hobby ngl

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NoTmE435@reddit

Did you ever think of 3nding it all ?

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I traded malnutrition with having dated but in return, every dating experience ive ever had has ended in extreme emotional trauma to the point where I just dont talk to women anymore. Not even in a "i despise women, they're all the same" type of vibe.

When your first ever girlfriend has a secret child and fiance she doesnt tell you about, and then every relationship afterwords ends up being worse and worse with it ending in you trying to drink yourself to death before almost dying in a motorcycle accident and ending up with a permanent limp at the age of 26... yeah, maybe dating isnt for me.

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TheMorbidHobo@reddit

Either you are depressed or your dopamine receptors are fried from overstimulation (drugs, masturbation, etc.). I thought I feel into the latter, but then I started pushing myself to get out and do things even though they made me really uncomfortable at first, socialize even just a bit. Now I look forward to these things, and I do feel happy when I'm doing them, and some other stuff I found along the way that brings me joy.

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Consistent-Throat130@reddit

You might've - then you spend less time on the hedonism because you're out socializing and...

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TheMorbidHobo@reddit

Nope, same hedonism.

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Consistent-Throat130@reddit

Convincing yourself socializing is hedonism. Damn dude.

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TheMorbidHobo@reddit

Haha no, I mean I still do the same hedonistic things, just also socialize which brings me more happiness.

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Ssyynnxx@reddit

happy for you man, good to hear

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SuperSocialMan@reddit

he just like me fr :'c

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Loathe_the_Hive@reddit

There's a reason why all these old men are so talkative. Don't waste anymore of your life like this. You will regreeeet it.

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YoungDiscord@reddit

no friends or lost them all

And how exactly did anon "lose" them I wonder?

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SpeechStraight60@reddit

I lost a lot of friends just because we didn't talk much, either because they moved away or as we all went to different unis we developed different friend groups, and so stopped talking to each other

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YoungDiscord@reddit

If you nurture your life you meet new people and form new connections as some old relationships change or end.

If you aren't then you are the source of that problem

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SpeechStraight60@reddit

This is basically my life icl

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Substantial-Cat2896@reddit

I marry you

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Ilovethrowawaysngl@reddit

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lofeobred@reddit

What is chopped?

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EngineStraight@reddit

i think its just the brainrot term for not good looking

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Lime-Ciggie@reddit

Then perish

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castlesitting@reddit

Maybe OP should try therapy first. They can always prematurely perish later. But can't really perish and then try therapy in that order. And maybe with therapy and meds they'll feel better.

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TheChannelMiner@reddit

therapy is too expensive

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castlesitting@reddit

Are you from the USA? Cause that sounds like a USA centric answer. Therapy is free or not expensive if you live in the UK, Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Finland, Germany, France, Australia, etc.
Would you also say "that's too expensive" if OP has cancer and I recommend a hospital and treatment? Or would your answer change?

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TheChannelMiner@reddit

i looked it up and found some free walk in clinics, might be worth a look

previous searches led me to private clinics which charge like $210 an hour

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chomusuke_cat@reddit

It sure is a good thing that therapy is free/cheap and isn't known to have have long wait lists /s

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Lime-Ciggie@reddit

Excellent suggestion, let’s hope others try it out if they feel the same

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Lime-Ciggie@reddit

I don’t understand why I’m getting detailed DMs about peoples lives off the back of this comment lmao. This is a reference to an old af meme and if you are feeling similar to this post, please seek real help that is (likely) available around you. If it’s not, do not tell me this as I do not care and most in life people won’t

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