Is lacrosse viewed as a rich people sport in the USA?
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So I’m currently on a vacation in the us and I went to DICK'S Sporting Goods store and I saw some lacrosse equipment and it made me wonder what type of connotation does lacrosse has
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
In most of the country, yes. In a lot of the mid-Atlantic region (Baltimore most famously, but also the Philadelphia and DC metro areas) it’s just a normal sport.
Broad_Tie9383@reddit
I don't know. I've been in the DC metro area for almost 30 years, and lacrosse is still mostly upper middle to rich kids, which, to be fair, is a lot of the population here. Soccer is a normal sport.
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Yup. Lacrosse is expensive
Genesis72@reddit
And not established. Football is also very expensive, but every school already has equipment for any player who’s might play.
A decade ago when I was in high school, the school had no equipment so our coach had to get grants just so kids had pads to wear.
You still had to buy your own stick though
JohnnyBrillcream@reddit
Even now it's the same with baseball. Have to buy your own bat and glove(s). My son currently has almost $1800 in a bat and gloves, the HS only provides batting helmets.
LettuceTomatoOnion@reddit
That’s like a hotel bar tab for a travel hockey parent
JohnnyBrillcream@reddit
Doesn't add tourney fees, team fees, travel costs, training, uniforms and so on. Let's not act like one travel sport is any more expensive than the other.
My 2025 baseball costs was $18k and that doesn't include trivial costs like food and fuel.
I get it, hockey requires a bit more equipment but once your kid reaches a level where you can tell, damn, they're actually really good you go all in if you can.
Until he was 12 it probably cost me $1000 a year, after that teams wanted him to play for them. He's 15 now, he played in the Little League World Series.
Upbeat-Stage2107@reddit
How much has inflation hisbbaseball? 10 years ago top of the line bats cost ~400 and gloves ~250-300. Even multiple gloves puts you at $1000
JohnnyBrillcream@reddit
4 gloves, pitcher, outfield, catcher and first base.
DosZappos@reddit
There’s no required piece of football equipment that costs a few hundred dollars and might need replaced multiple times during a season.
Genesis72@reddit
What on earth are you talking about lol
DosZappos@reddit
Uhhh what are you talking about? What piece of football equipment is breaking like lacrosse sticks? It’s not like you go through 4 helmets a year. Shoulder pads last for years. Maybe gloves?
Genesis72@reddit
I bought a lacrosse stick from Dicks for $35 my freshman year. I replaced it with a stick my sophomore year that I put together and strung myself that cost $100.
No one I knew broke a stick the whole 4 years I played that I can remember. I don’t think that’s a very big problem
TranslatorOutside909@reddit
Heads warp if you are taking lots of faceoffs
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Bro, I broke heads twice a year. GTFO.
Genesis72@reddit
idk man sounds like a skill issue I dont know what to tell you
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Seems more like you rode the bench 🤷
DosZappos@reddit
I’m glad I’m not the only person who noticed that. Making a $35 stick last for years just tells me you didn’t play.
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Bro doesn't even lax
DosZappos@reddit
And what football equipment do kids have to buy that’s isn’t also in lacrosse? Literally none. The reason football is so popular is because you don’t need anything special to play it
Genesis72@reddit
I mean my point is that football does require pads, helmets, a large field and other infrastructure. The reason its all "free" is that its already popular and the infrastructure is already in place. Not because there is inherently less equipment needed. Lacrosse is not generally more expensive, its just less supported as it is traditionally less popular.
If that was the only factor, soccer and basketball would be the most popular as they have the lowest barriers to entry.
DosZappos@reddit
lol so you actually agree with me but felt like arguing because the internet
Yankee831@reddit
Because it doesn’t happen lol. I remember when the Edge Ice head came out though. We were shattering heads for sure.
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Had two edge heads, both broke. Went to a Razer, never looked back.
sharpshooter999@reddit
I went to a tiny rural school, 75 kids in 7-12 when I graduated. Playing football simply required cleats and some tall socks. Pants, pads, jerseys, helmets, belts, mouth guards, all provided. Now, if you wanted gloves or a visor, that was on you
ophaus@reddit
A cup might survive a season, everything else? Very destructible. You don't know what you're talking about.
DosZappos@reddit
In football you are responsible for cleats and gloves, and cleats will last as long as they fit
nomadschomad@reddit
It’s not expensive in a specific way.
There’s a lot more gear than soccer or basketball. Similar but a little bit less than baseball. And way less than football or hockey.
And field accessibility is pretty easy. Two goals on a pitch of grass… It’s basically soccer. No ice, gold posts, four sided diamond with maxed up in bases, or even 10 foot tall hoops.
It’s only expensive because of travel costs. And that’s only because there aren’t more teams. If there were more teams, you could play club locally without traveling. Or maybe not… There are tons of baseball teams, but expensive travel ball still exists.
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Way more equipment than baseball. All you need in baseball is a glove, a bat, a ball, and a helmet. In lacrosse you need a stick, a ball, gloves, a helmet, shoulder pads, elbow pads, rib pads (if you feel you need), a cup, a mouthpiece, and $1000 for when your child inevitably grows out of all those things like 4 times depending on when they start playing.
Ok_Ordinary6694@reddit
Stick, helmet, and gloves are the only “need”.
jaierauj@reddit
Women's is like.. stick, eyewear, mouthguard.
MortimerDongle@reddit
The average kid on my high school baseball team definitely had $1000+ worth of bats and gloves and other shit. Yeah you don't necessarily need all that, but the expectation in competitive baseball is that you do have good bats and most schools aren't paying for the good bats.
MechanicalGodzilla@reddit
My daughter is in college now, when she was playing fast pitch softball some kids had bats which were over $600.
MechanicalGodzilla@reddit
I don't know - my son just started playing and we got him a full equipment compliment from Play it Again sports for about $150.
nomadschomad@reddit
Lacrosse has a few more pieces. The cost of a baseball kit is still more expensive.
Although the ranges overlap, the range in prices for baseball bats and mitt far exceed those for a lacrosse stick and gloves. I regularly see 12-year-olds with $800 worth of bats in their bag. That cost more than offsets the more expensive lacrosse helmet, shoulder pads, and arm pads.
You also forgot batting gloves, cup, and much more expensive baseball uniforms (button-down shirts, baseball pants, $50 ball cap, belt).
Like I said, the ranges overlap, but the midpoint and high point for baseball gear is higher than lacrosse.
DosZappos@reddit
Way more equipment required than baseball. About the same as football.
MortimerDongle@reddit
I dunno, baseball is super expensive. Most kids on my high school baseball team had multiple $200+ bats, expensive gloves and other pads. I'm sure lacrosse is expensive for equipment too, but baseball is up there.
Available-Database21@reddit
Baseball gloves will last a really long time and you are not growing out of the. Every year
MortimerDongle@reddit
Gloves last a while. Bats are a consumable
DosZappos@reddit
That’s genuinely laughable. Baseball is the cheapest sport outside of soccer. You literally only need to own your own glove. Mariana Rivera managed to be a unanimous Hall of Famer while using cardboard as a glove during his childhood.
MortimerDongle@reddit
Cheaper than basketball how?
Baseball could be inexpensive but in practice, competitive baseball in the US is very expensive.
DosZappos@reddit
Never seen a cheap basketball goal. And if you’re talking the price to play competitive travel leagues, that’s a different topic and changes nothing. Soccer, baseball, basketball, hockey, etc. all cost thousands to play competitive travel leagues
FunkMastaUno@reddit
Yeah but football is done at public schools and they provide the pads and helmet, you just need to buy the shoes and gloves if ya need em. Most places in the US don't have a school sponsered lacrosse team so you would have to play in an expensuve private club, like you would hockey. So lower income people have access to football but not lacrosse, generally.
MortimerDongle@reddit
Lacrosse is also done at public schools regionally.
nomadschomad@reddit
Your comment is about who pays the cost.
Mine was about how much it cost
Also, lots of public schools don’t provide football helmets anymore. There has been a big push towards providing your own that are properly fitted and new to ensure safety. Same for shoulder pads, but it’s a little more of a mixed bag. My son’s eight-year-old tackle football friends. I’ll have their own shoulder pads and helmets.
I agree that existing public infrastructure, including equipment pools, is more robust for football. But, in terms of field and equipment, lacrosse is a lower cost for to establish or grow.
DosZappos@reddit
Yes that’s what I’m saying
Rough-Importance-822@reddit
Doesn't have to be. You can find good used gear if you look around a little bit. $400 max for everything including cleats if you try a little bit. Especially easy if you are looking for a kid in the 8-14 range where kids grow the fastest. Plenty of rec leagues in MD/DE/VA/PA/NJ/NY/CT that cost $75 or less. I assume other regions also these are just the states i am personally familiar with.
daswisco@reddit
Not disputing that’s it’s expensive, because it is, but it’s not any more expensive than American Football. Why do you think football reaches a more economically diverse player base than lacrosse? In my area there’s a lot of crossover from hockey players into lacrosse, so definitely more of the upper middle class.
TheFishtosser@reddit
At least where I’m from the school provides almost everything but your cleats and socks for football where as you have to buy all your own gear for lacrosse
bmsa131@reddit
In NY state you aren’t permitted to use your own gear for football, it’s the law. They also provide lax helmets. We got our own stick. The girls don’t wear much lax gear just eye goggles so it’s not super pricey
Daddysheremyluv@reddit
Football is limited by season and sponsored by the community and schools. 7v7 or off season is relatively cheap and under school or booster umbrella Lax is a travel sport like hockey. Top level lax players play year round and school level may be lower than club. Similar to Elite AAU hoops.
bmsa131@reddit
Depends on region. Football is struggling in places like nyc burbs. Kids play lax instead of football. It’s also cultural.
Electric_Rex@reddit
But in the NYC metro it’s also not like you have to pick one? Obviously travel stuff is different but at the high school level football is a fall sport and lax is in the spring
bmsa131@reddit
You don’t. My son played both! But usually at public hs one is more popular than the other.
cyvaquero@reddit
Something that often gets overlooked in the cost equation is that while organized football is expensive and only a minority of kids actually play. However, kids just playing in the yard or at recess is not and that is where it starts.
To be frank playground football really gets back to its roots.
Darth_Lacey@reddit
This is reminding me that my high school started a lacrosse team, but they only made shirts and nobody actually played the game. So some other students started an anti-lacrosse team, also only printing and wearing shirts
Carinyosa99@reddit
It definitely is. I've been here in MoCo (and college in Baltimore area) for 40 years.
PhilosophyBitter7875@reddit
Travel Soccer in NOVA and MD can get crazy expensive, but it is one of the best areas in the country for development since its so wealthy and a lot of the population can afford to pay for there kids to be on these teams. But It always sucks for low income families, the American system absolutely sucks as a whole because there is no investments from USSF or the top clubs, so families just pay large amounts of money and if you are low income you are probably only playing at a local club level.
https://365tournaments.com/revolution-cup/
This is just for one weekend tournament, on top of the other fees a club could have you have to spend another $100 just to enter a tournament.
U9 team - $895
U13 team - $1145
U15 team - $1195
Broad_Tie9383@reddit
Oh, I have a kid in travel soccer. It's more like 2k in our club and you pay for your own gear (fairly minimal in soccer) and about $150 per tournament. I think there are some financial assistance programs, but you are right, they aren't much. The time commitment is expensive, as well.
PeorgieT75@reddit
I grew up in northern VA, and none of the public schools had lacrosse teams. That may have changed now as it could be a scholarship path to schools like Duke and Hopkins.
benck202@reddit
Historically lacrosse has been mostly the purview of private schools in Maryland- all the top notch lacrosse high schools are private. In upstate NY it’s a little more widely distributed, which include some legendary public school programs like West Genessee. Granted that’s still a wealthier suburban era- not a lot of kids from urban Syracuse running around playing lax.
capswin@reddit
Played lacrosse in Baltimore City public school in the last century (70’s) All city high schools had teams.
Carinyosa99@reddit
I'm in Montgomery County, Maryland and many high schools here have a lacrosse team. I'd say Annapolis area has more lacrosse than Baltimore even.
unclemilty420@reddit
This corresponds to my vast knowledge of the mid-atlantic region's high school sports situation which derives exclusively from that one episode of "the wire" where we find out Bunk played lacrosse in high school.
Euphoric_Loquat_8651@reddit
And there was that Jim Brown feller
Easy-Maybe5606@reddit
By golly i tell you what
Lanky-Wonder-4360@reddit
He also played for the Onondaga reservation team when he was at Syracuse and many said he was a better lacrosse player than a football player.
Apprehensive-Wave640@reddit
Also Method Man was a star lacrosse player before he was Wu Tang
bearface93@reddit
It originated in western/central NY - it was an Iroquois game. I grew up in western NY and it was crazy popular. Lax bros were absolutely insufferable though because of it.
brubauers@reddit
Long Island and New England are Lacrosse Crazy - Long Islander
HellYeahBelle@reddit
In Baltimore County, definitely a normal sport and at some high schools, might be the most popular spring sport.
Also, it’s the official team sport of Maryland.
tacotowwn@reddit
Shoutout jousting, the official official state sport of MD!
HellYeahBelle@reddit
I love that we have both jousting and lax as our official sports. Both deceptively straightforward.
WastelandHound@reddit
I grew up in the Baltimore suburbs and lacrosse sticks were like baseball gloves. Everybody had one, even if it was just for tossing the ball around on occasion.
Snoo_73204@reddit
correct, very popular in Maryland, many of the public schools (even in lower income areas) have lacrosse teams that have equal popularity with the football team
Ok-Pumpkin400@reddit
Can attest to this! I played lacrosse my senior year 2013. We are the poorest school in our county and i dont think we won a game lol also i never played before and was a starter on varsity. Haha
No_Entertainment1931@reddit
I’m a New Yorker in New England. Generally it’s considered a “white” peoples sport, though anyone can and does play. Historically this makes it more likely to be associated with wealth but it doesn’t have the same associations as sports like yachting or polo.
DogsBikesAndMovies@reddit
I agree with the above from u/Meowmeowmeow31. In the PNW, it's mostly only rich people who play it. They play it on one our suburbs, the island of Bainbridge. Bainbridge is quite affluent. My neice is going to play it at the University of Washington. Though there are impoverished people who attend UW, via scholarships and/or loans, most students at UW are affluent.
Lothar_Ecklord@reddit
It’s pretty popular in New England as well. Not as ubiquitous as soccer or basketball or baseball, but there are a few rec leagues and a lot of public schools have teams as well.
ManWhoFartsInChurch@reddit
It's absolutely a rich kid sport in New England
Lothar_Ecklord@reddit
The people I knew who played were middle class or even lower middle class. I was too poor myself but that’s another story lol. I suppose we could get into how lower middle class in New England may be considered as well-off in other parts of the country, I guess?
jth149@reddit
New York as well
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
Maybe it’s a Northeastern sport and all the people downvoting me are just loud and wrong.
BuildNuyTheUrbanGuy@reddit
We had a lacrosse team in the late 2000s in Louisiana in high school.
shelwood46@reddit
Sometimes when I drive down Rt 31 in NJ I see signs recruiting for their Junior Lacrosse League (before high school). tbf, it is a fairly rich area, and their high/prep schools probably do have lacrosse teams. It's somewhere between hockey (expensive but not snooty) and fencing (expensive, very snooty), slightly above crew.
Morning-Chub@reddit
Yup. Here in upstate NY it's just a game that exists and that tons of kids play, presumably because the native Americans around here popularized it.
QuietObserver75@reddit
Yes, it seemed like a common sport in HS in New York.
Gooners-Anonymous@reddit
that region is just historically wealthy
Shoddy-Secretary-712@reddit
I was going to say its a normal sport, but I live like right smack on the middle between Baltimore and DC.
jennyrules@reddit
This mid-Atlantic Pittsburgher would disagree with this assessment. Lacrosse is absolutely a rich people sport.
AldenteAdmin@reddit
Ah I’m just realizing it’s not a typical high school sport outside of the mid Atlantic region which definitely changes my view. If you’re in a school league travel and equipment costs immediately push it into expensive territory.
Donald_J_Duck65@reddit
WTF! It has been around for about 1000 years and was invented by indigenous people, the Iroquois, in NY and ON.
567Anonymous@reddit
We live in the Philly burbs and both my boys play/played lacrosse. We always joke that you can pretty much tell how good a high school lacrosse team is going to be by how wealthy the area around the school is. It is often true!
UpstairsCommittee894@reddit
I live in a small town that the school district includes a reservation. The lacrosse team is amazing and regularly destroys the fancy elite prep schools they play against. 3 players on the local professional lacrosse team graduated from our small towns public school.
Organic_Basket7800@reddit
I live a little but outside the Philly suburbs (Lehigh Valley). My son played for two years. The richer areas here are the ones that even have club teams set up for younger kids. And I can see why. The equipment is so expensive even for little kids
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
I used to teach at a title 1 school with a killer lacrosse program.
dystopiadattopia@reddit
No, it's a rich people sport here too
Infinite_Crow_3706@reddit
Like golf?
Yankee831@reddit
Golf is definitely not a rich school sport. It’s typically more like a club level sport and not fully funded on the level of the mainstream sports. I went to one of the smallest/poorest schools in Upstate NY and we had a great golf team. Most rural towns will have a golf course somewhere close enough to make a team/club work.
Infinite_Crow_3706@reddit
It's not a poor persons sport though.
Alert-Algae-6674@reddit
I have lived in the Philly suburbs and I can say that while lacrosse is played in most of the schools, it still is very much a “rich sport”.
Middle and working class suburbs have bigger emphasis on football, and the best lacrosse teams here are in the richest areas.
TokyoDrifblim@reddit
It was also a very normal sport down in South Carolina. Every school around us had both a varsity and JV lacrosse team usually for both boys and girls
sammysbud@reddit
When I moved to MD, I made a few jokes about how lacrosse was a (white private school) sport. They got up in arms about that comment. It's still largely true, but way more common in the mid-Atlantic lmao.
I can't judge, bc where I grew up in GA, tennis was the same thing.
Equivalent-Pin-4759@reddit
It’s gaining in popularity in suburban Ohio.
botulizard@reddit
It's kinda normal in New England in that there are municipal intramural programs and public school-sponsored teams even in towns that aren't necessarily rich towns, but even then, it's kind of understood that at least culturally, lacrosse is the domain prep/Catholic/otherwise private schools and rich kids, and the archetypal lacrosse player is the same guy as the archetypal frat boy.
CVogel26@reddit
It's true in New England in the sense that most public schools have it but it's still definitely a rich kid sport.
SabresBills69@reddit
lacrosse was a Native American sport. theviriquois National competes as its own country in a world championship. Iriquois is located in the western/ upper NY area and u to southern Ontario.
lacrosse is a large sport there.
Supurbiia@reddit
In the Cincinnati/Dayton area of Ohio, larger public schools have lacrosse teams. It started gaining wider (non-a school) popularity in the early 2000s
NekoArtemis@reddit
Most accurate answer.
datheffguy@reddit
It depends.
It’s offered as a standard sports program at public schools in my state, but my school didn’t provide equipment. For other more popular sports like football schools would provide equipment so lacrosse does require a bit of an investment.
If you live in a state where it’s not as popular and the only option is club teams, it’s primarily a rich kid sport.
Rare_Independent_814@reddit
It’s a north east sport.
uncouthulu_@reddit
Aside from football, usually the more equipment necessary, the more...discerning the players/families are.
pinkrobot420@reddit
It used to be. I grew up in Southern California and we always thought it was a rich boarding school kid's sport. I moved to the East Coast many years later, and it's a regular sport that everyone plays.
It's everywhere now. Even my old high school has lacrosse.
FormerKey3258@reddit
I live next to a park where they play organized lacrosse in Denver, Co. I watch the families who bring their kids there. It's definitely a rich people's sport in Denver.
jamzDOTnet@reddit
No.
Tullyswimmer@reddit
As others have said, it's VERY regional.
From about Virginia up through the Northeast, EVERY school has lacrosse, and there's leagues for kids just like pop warner football or little league.
In other parts of the country, it's a lot more of a rich private school sport. I grew up in NY, a 15-minute drive from one of the larger reservations for Native Americans, so Lacrosse was just EVERYWHERE.
The_Real_Lasagna@reddit
I'd say it's still largely an upper middle class sport in the northeast, at least near me. It's like ice hockey, played predominantly by those with money
NoPersimmon7434@reddit
Not in the Northeast.
Felis_igneus726@reddit
Thank you, I'm not going insane 😂 All these people going on about it being exclusively a fancy private school thing and I'm just sitting here remembering it being a perfectly normal ass sport offered at my perfectly normal ass public school.
The_Real_Lasagna@reddit
It's absolutely a sport for well off kids where I am in the northeast. It's in schools yes, but like ice hockey it's dominated by upper middle class families, very predominantly white as well
snmnky9490@reddit
Idk I was born in Jersey and grew up in NY and lacrosse was always seen as a thing for preppy rich white kids like water polo and horse riding and badminton. Many schools had it as some kind of team but like in the same way that they all have a tennis team too
567Anonymous@reddit
Did you play? My sons did/do. The wealthier kids do travel up and down the mid Atlantic region starting in elementary school in addition to their local teams. Travel teams are often coached by people associated with prep school teams, and they start developing players and their future teams when they are in grade school. Not all the kids will leave public school, but the kids who can afford to those kind of teams, tend to go to wealthier school districts. So yes, every school has a lax team in the midatlantic region, but how good they are is often tied to how wealthy the area.
Circle_Breaker@reddit
That doesn't really change anything. Most highschools of decent size on the east coast have a team, it's still played mainly by middle class to rich kids. It's not something poor people are playing in the streets.
hugeyakmen@reddit
Yes, it did mean something things for us players. When every school, even the poor schools on the wrong side of the tracks, had JV and varsity teams where I lived in Maryland it wasn't just middle class kids playing. It felt like a sport for all of us, especially in high school where much of the equipment could be provided for us.
If you wanted to join a travel team instead of regular city leagues, go to skills camp, or join an off-season league in high school, then yes it did suddenly feel like a sport for the middle class and up. But that seems to be the experience for any sport once you get into the extra side that costs money
dandle@reddit
My normal-ass school didn't have lacrosse as a varsity sport, but we did learn to play it as a unit in gym class. It was not treated like a sport for rich kids, just one for bigger schools with enough kids to field a team without drawing from the other sports.
SabresBills69@reddit
if you didn’t have a high school team , your school likely was a piled school to create teams. my school because of the fact it was one of the small schools in suburban area had a pooled hockey team with a few other schools
skeevy-stevie@reddit
Seriously, every school in upstate New York has a lacrosse team, from middle school to high school.
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
Losing my mind at all these comments calling it a rich east coast game. Have they never been here? Have they never seen The Wire??
LiqdPT@reddit
The funny thing is that in Canada it's just what hockey players play in summer when they melt the rinks. I've only seen field lacrosse in movies. Box lacrosse is where it's at
otterplus@reddit
Even funnier is hockey and lacrosse are some of the most expensive recreational sports here. I tried putting my son into a hockey program and it was $3k for 10 weeks including training and 4 games. Lacrosse isn’t even represented in my part of the state until you cross into the wealthier areas.
vinyl1earthlink@reddit
I would see why hockey is expensive - you need an ice rink. But for lacrosse, you just need sticks, a ball, and a field.
LiqdPT@reddit
Ya, that field is a NE US thing. In Canada we use the melted ice rinks and outdoor lacrosse boxes. There's even a Canadian/American pro lacrosse league that's box lacrosse. https://www.nll.com/
quaderunner@reddit
Box lacrosse is so much fun. My lazy ass gets too winded for field
apgtimbough@reddit
I played indoor soccer and nearly all the fields shared the space with lacrosse. A field we played at in Ithaca I think did ice hockey in the winter too.
NoPersimmon7434@reddit
I didn't know it isn't popular everywhere. Every public high school in my area has a team.
Hot-Tart1347@reddit
From the rural southeast and I would’ve guessed it was a European thing before reading this thread.
soggysocks6123@reddit
In the Detroit metro at least it’s relatively common with most major public schools having teams. Not a rich man’s sport necessarily, but I don’t ever remember winning a game against some of the private schools.
FatherOfTheSkye@reddit
Lax bros are Preppy rich kids. (In New England at least) all the shitty rich towns have big lacross teams.
Flashy-Specific-4083@reddit
I live in the rural Midwest close to Kentucky. Lacrosse is completely absent in my region. There may be teams at the grade school or high school levels up by Chicago but it’s nonexistent down here. We all see it as a rich person sport like hockey. The closest youth hockey to us is around the metro east(St Louis) and that’s usually suburban kids.
kfriedmex666@reddit
Mostly yes, it has private university vibes. but in places like the suburban areas of the northeast (Philly, Baltimore, NY metro areas) it's mainly a kids sport and fairly common.
Imaginary-Rhubarb-89@reddit
No , I would say golf or tennis
GSilky@reddit
I think so? IDK. Americans can't even decide what a rich person is anymore, so if someone says "yes", someone who had to go to work 3 hours a week at the library going to Harvard will say "No", because rich people don't ever think they are rich for some reason.
Coldfyre_Dusty@reddit
Not where I grew up. In Minnesota lacrosse was just what hockey players played in the off season.
Course equipment for both sports wasn't cheap, so "rich people" sport as in you had to pay for sticks and pads, but it was considered just more of a physical sport anyone could play.
brubauers@reddit
I'm originally from Long Island, NY, and where I grew up was technically a part of the Hamptons. Lacrosse boomed in popularity, specifically in the early 2000s/2010s. I would say yes; I've lived in a different part of New York that's arguably poorer than where I grew up, and Lacrosse was rare. Also, essentially non-existent in Albuquerque, NM.
The sport itself is also quite costly; according to another Reddit post, "The average annual cost of youth lacrosse is $1,289," which is mind-boggling to me. It's well up there with sports like ice and field hockey, skiing, and snowboarding.
This is a pretty good guide that goes over the general costs for playing and equipment for the popular sports here in America: https://www.playgroundequipment.com/the-average-cost-of-each-childrens-sport/?srsltid=AfmBOooAzFWeMhdVrHJwEn5m6cPoeEpkwQ_kLLDYcI-DFrwVoU9Fb1ip
BlueMonday2082@reddit
Not as much a sport for the rich but the rich and mean.
mostlygray@reddit
Kinda. It depends where you live. My neighbors kid played Lacrosse all through high school and he's just standard working class like the rest of is. He and his buddies would play in the road or in my yard.
If you were in a rich area, yes, it's a rich person sport. In my town, it's a working class sport like hockey or football.
lavasca@reddit
I think it is a midwestern person thing.
Adorable_Dust3799@reddit
Not rich, but niche. I've never known anyone that played.
JediLincoln14@reddit
Yes, which I find ironic given its origins.
btmg1428@reddit
Soccer has similar origins but is perceived as a rich man's sport in this country... for some reason.
MonsieurRuffles@reddit
By who? It’s played in all the public schools and it has a long (and continuing) history of being played by immigrants.
old-town-guy@reddit
Public schools with fields. Which usually means suburbs, which usually means more wealth than inner city.
forgotwhatisaid2you@reddit
Soccer is played all over the world. All you need is one ball and a bit of open space with a way to mark where the goals are. That is why it is the most popular sport in the world.
btmg1428@reddit
But not in this country as I've stated in my initial comment. Is there an epidemic of a deficiency in reading comprehension on this platform?
LL8844773@reddit
FYI immigrants exist in the US
btmg1428@reddit
Are those immigrants looking to go pro? If they do, will they play for the country they migrated to or their country of origin?
LL8844773@reddit
How is this relevant?
btmg1428@reddit
How are immigrants relevant?
Of course they'll play soccer; it's the sport that reminds them of home.
We're talking about the people born here.
LL8844773@reddit
Is there an epidemic of a deficiency in reading comprehension on this platform? Jesus Christ.
btmg1428@reddit
You tell me; I'm not the one that introduced immigrants as some kind of gotcha.
LL8844773@reddit
Yeah I know which is why your comments made zero sense.
btmg1428@reddit
It made absolute sense, what are you talking about?
Please tell me how did it not make sense to you.
LL8844773@reddit
Talking about going pro and which country they’d play for. Completely irrelevant
btmg1428@reddit
It is, if you think about it for even a second. What's the point of platitudes like "immigrants play soccer, too" or "soccer is the cheapest sport" if it doesn't turn into real, tangible results like, I dunno... a better chance of winning the World Cup due to a more expansive and diverse talent pool?
One of the reasons why is the unfair and unfounded perception that soccer in America is a "rich man's sport." Why do people think so? One reason is pay-to-play in youth soccer, i.e. a paywall that is out of reach for most immigrant and inner-city families. The other reason is people who religiously follow foreign soccer teams as a cheap shortcut to being perceived as worldly and cultured.
LL8844773@reddit
Yeah no one is talking about that. Your arguments don’t make any sense.
Everyone here is arguing that soccer in the US is NOT considered a rich man’s sport. No one thinks this.
btmg1428@reddit
A lot of people do, especially from the country I hail from. I don't agree with them either, and I agree, their arguments make no sense.
LL8844773@reddit
Ok? This is the ask an American sub.
btmg1428@reddit
I thought you said "immigrants play soccer, too" as proof that the sport is popular in this country?
But when an immigrant presents a contrary opinion and plays devil's advocate for it, you backtrack into "thIS iS aSKaNaMeRIcAN."
Please explain this glaring discrepancy, thanks.
LL8844773@reddit
I didn’t say that, speaking of deficiency in reading comprehension.
I don’t know why you’re moving me when that is the name of the sub. You’re describing who plays soccer in the US and I don’t think it’s that narrow. If you weren’t raised here then you have less knowledge of this, just like if I immigrated to your country and started telling you about who plays soccer there.
MonsieurRuffles@reddit
It may not be the most popular sport in the US but that has nothing to do with the wealth, or perception thereof, of the people who play it. You’ll find lots of local, working class teams playing in public parks in cities all over the country.
btmg1428@reddit
If it was so cheap, then any inner-city kid with a decent amount of talent could afford to go to an AYSO club or an MLS academy.
Being cheap enough that any Tom, Dick, and Harry can play it means nothing if our national talent pool suffers for it because it'll cost parents a pretty penny if their kids want to take it seriously.
Pete_Iredale@reddit
So still significantly cheaper than baseball, football, and hockey then?
little_runner_boy@reddit
Went to public schools from kindergarten through college. Never played it
nwbrown@reddit
Soccer has very different origins and is not at all perceived as a rich man's sport.
btmg1428@reddit
Then explain the pay-to-play system in youth soccer.
nwbrown@reddit
I can't explain your hallucinations, sorry.
btmg1428@reddit
That's alright, I'll let The Athletic explain it for anyone who cares.
nwbrown@reddit
That doesn't back up your claim, sorry.
btmg1428@reddit
Not reading the source doesn't invalidate it, sorry.
[Pretty sure] (https://ussoccerparent.com/costs-of-youth-soccer/#:~:text=Average%20cost%20per%20player%20nationwide,extensive%20travel%20and%20private%20training) these sources are a product of my fever dream, too, don't you think?
nwbrown@reddit
I don't think you know what you are claiming you arguing.
btmg1428@reddit
Then feel free to enlighten me.
If soccer is so cheap, why do American youth still opt for arguably more expensive sports like football?
While I'm happy to be proven wrong, I would appreciate some insight beyond "LOLOLOL your just wrong here's a downvote."
nwbrown@reddit
American youth play soccer all the time. In fact they play soccer far more than they play football, despite the later being more common in the pros.
Your premise is wrong.
btmg1428@reddit
And if any of these kids want to go pro?
nwbrown@reddit
They almost certainly won't, no matter which sport.
btmg1428@reddit
Please refrain from evading the question and answer it in a satisfactory manner, thanks.
nwbrown@reddit
It's an irrelevant question.
btmg1428@reddit
How so?
Pete_Iredale@reddit
None of that is required for kids to play soccer though. Compare it to hockey if you want to talk expensive sports.
btmg1428@reddit
It is required if they want to take it seriously. Hockey may be a more expensive sport, but it turned out amazing talent that allowed us to beat the country that treats it like a religion a few months ago.
We don't have the same results with soccer for a reason.
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
What? Soccer was the cheap poor man's sports that every poor kid played where I grew up (Oklahoma). Nearly everyone I knew played soccer for at least a couple years in elementary school, though many played through middle school or high school on league teams. Baseball and league football was a little more expensive (though accessible). Nobody played league basketball (though we did in the street), or hockey (though, we did street hockey), and definitely nobody played lacrosse or polo (though, regarding polo, knew lots of kids with horses).
btmg1428@reddit
But if you want to go pro in soccer, could you do it the same way with other sports like basketball and football, e.g. through scholarships?
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
Yes, Absolutely.
In fact my sister in law went to college on scholarship for soccer. Her friend, who I know well, did the same and was a professional soccer player for about 15 years (after an injury, she now coaches at a college)
btmg1428@reddit
Does a similar one exist for men, though?
musaXmachina@reddit
No it isn’t, maybe at the Ronaldo level where they get $B contracts. You see people playing soccer is the most remote and austere locations.
btmg1428@reddit
In the favelas of Brazil, maybe. In my neck of the woods? I've only ever seen immigrants play it. Which is wild because soccer is one of the cheapest sports, that's why it's so globally popular. The soccer mom stereotype exists for a reason.
musaXmachina@reddit
You’re neck of the woods don’t represent the world sport, hell our country doesn’t even. We’re kinda new to it lol.
btmg1428@reddit
Gee, I wonder why I mentioned the favelas of Brazil in my comment...
musaXmachina@reddit
Belief perseverance, the refusal to update beliefs in the face of evidence. Some individuals double down on beliefs to avoid restructuring their worldview.
btmg1428@reddit
Incorrect. It's because I'm well aware of the state of the sport in other countries. I'm talking about the state of the sport in this country, and I'm only using my neck of the woods (Southern California, home to two highly decorated MLS clubs, mind you) as an example, not a standard.
Perhaps I wasn't clear in my initial comment, in which case I will remember to improve its clarity moving forward.
Please refrain from projecting your character flaws onto me, thank you very much.
musaXmachina@reddit
Then act like it, you’re framing things this way and then back peddling and complaining because someone assumes what you present. Sir or person you speaking as if California USA is some type of authority or representative of soccer as a whole. That’s the disconnect.
btmg1428@reddit
Please provide an example of where I explicitly mentioned that the example I presented is definitive of the state of the sport in this country.
musaXmachina@reddit
This is becoming pointless. Just look at your initial post about it being a rich man sport and the reaction to this. With that you’re speaking for the country, I disagree, looks like others do as well. Also in regards to your decorated club that was established in the late 90s, Sheffield FC was has been around since the mid 1800s for reference. So really weird argument to make, even weirder hill to die on. However, good chat hope you enjoy the rest of your day.
btmg1428@reddit
I guess adding "for some reason" to the end of my comment doesn't seem to convey my disagreement with that statement.
And you accuse me of being pointless? 😆
You know what's even weirder? Being so desperate to find an opponent that you'll antagonize someone who actually agrees with you but is only presenting reasons why some people are willing to die on said hill.
musaXmachina@reddit
That’s great
btmg1428@reddit
Isn't friendly fire great? 😁
Pete_Iredale@reddit
Baseball, football, and especially hockey require far more wealth at the kid's level than soccer...
mothman83@reddit
Soccer has almost the opposite origins( codified at U Cambridge!!!!!) and is not in fact, considered an elite sport.
btmg1428@reddit
Keyword: codified.
Various forms of "kick ball" games have existed throughout human history, well before the English FA came into existence. Native American tribes had a game that highly resembled soccerz for example.
That's why I said similar origins when compared to lacrosse.
BrokenManOfSamarkand@reddit
Because if you're not a recent immigrant from Latin America, youre probably a white guy that is ignoring America's traditional sports in favor of rooting for a foreign (almost always European) team. It reads as sophisticated to a certain type of person.
mothman83@reddit
Or Maybe they just like the sport. The real world is not a never ending parade of MAGA/ Fox News Culture war bullshit.
How dare they betray " traditional" American sports!
BrokenManOfSamarkand@reddit
Has nothing to do with Fox News, or even a value judgment. America does have traditional sports that's just a fact. Soccer isn't one of them.
I don't care what anyone watches at all, but the reason why someone might view soccer as a rich sport in the context of the U.S. is the reason I stated. It's not one of the traditional sports in the U.S. and means that someone is taking on an internationalist perspective, which is usually seen as being more sophisticated and associated with being above the lower class. You don't see many poor black people or folks in Appalachia rooting for Arsenal.
There's a lot more urban white guys that do.
btmg1428@reddit
Took the words right out of my mouth!
That, and the pay-to-play system that's harming the American talent pool.
martlet1@reddit
Jesus you got brainwashed
MintyFreshMC@reddit
The commenter you’re replying to didn’t imply anyone was betraying anything. Stop being so dramatic.
The trend of upper/upper-middle class, college-educated, high-earning, left-leaning American men watching European soccer predates Trump’s rise and isn’t about culture wars (unless you choose to make it about that…which it seems that you are). This is, like, a 101-level marketing observation.
techieman33@reddit
A lot of kids play soccer because it’s billed as a safer more affordable alternative to tackle football. So parents are more comfortable with letting their kids play it.
Toad_da_Unc@reddit
For basketball and soccer, all you need is one ball and a set of goals. That’s not really true for most other sports.
techieman33@reddit
You don’t even need the goal for soccer. All you need are some cones, boxes, rocks, or anything else that you can find to mark out the corners of the goal.
TheEvilPrinceZorte@reddit
Soccer mom is a thoroughly middle class suburban cliche. Maybe participation falls off in high school for basketball and football but it’s a very common kid sport.
btmg1428@reddit
Mostly because there's a paywall in the way. With basketball and football, you're incentivized to be good at these games via scholarships.
I've yet to hear a similar system for soccer in this country. You get pay-to-play organizations and academies from MLS clubs, but IIRC these things are out-of-pocket. The American equivalent to Leo Messi could be coming from the inner city, but we'll never see his potential because his parents can't afford all this stuff. Meanwhile, we get the LeBron James of Soccer (Pulisic), who could only get to the level where he's at because of a combination of talent and money.
I'm happy to be proven wrong, though.
DessertFlowerz@reddit
No it isn't
WiWook@reddit
Not really. Prep schools and the Ivies had a history of looking to Native American traditions and appropriating them. The PLL Has tried to emphasize the native roots, but it is just virtue signaling.
GrapefruitFriendly30@reddit
My guess would be hockey.
Sylent09@reddit
I can honestly say the only times ive ever seen anything about lacrosse is during the Olympics and in movies. We have a TON of fancy private schools here in Middle Tennessee and I haven't even heard of them having teams. So it may be regional as well?
SenseNo635@reddit
Lacrosse is just a regular ol’ sport around here.
HavBoWilTrvl@reddit
Here in the South, if it's not football or basketball it might as well not exist. Baseball gets an honorable mention.
Konradleijon@reddit
For native Americans it’s considered masculine
FreakinB@reddit
I grew up on Long Island, which is a lacrosse hotbed, and I was actually on my high school’s lacrosse team. By me, every high school had a team and lots of people played. Definitely not just the rich.
But it’s not as popular in a lot of other parts of the US.
snmnky9490@reddit
I grew up on long island too and while many schools had a lacrosse team it was still definitely seen as a rich white kid sport or at least upper middle class white kid sport, like tennis or water polo
TheBimpo@reddit
It’s viewed as a Northeast sport. I wouldn’t say it’s a rich person sport, it’s just a regional one.
snmnky9490@reddit
Even within the northeast it was always portrayed as an upper crust white kid sport like tennis or polo
gylliana@reddit
I don’t know anyone who’s played it. I know it’s a sport with a stick and ball, but that’s it. I’m sure larger cities have teams.
Phoenix_Court@reddit
It depends where. In areas where lacrosse is not played often, yes. Only private schools of rich kids have teams. But in areas where lacrosse is popular (looking at you NYS), it's just a regular sport.
snmnky9490@reddit
I'm confused because as someone who grew up in New York, lacrosse was always seen as a preppy rich kid sport in the same vein as water polo and horse riding
apgtimbough@reddit
Yeah as a NYer that grew up in upstate, lacrosse was a very popular sport, obviously not soccer/basketball/baseball/football big, but very common. We played it in gym class every year and a decent chunk of the boys I went to school with played lacrosse.
Kids wandering the hall with their lacrosse sticks between classes was common during the season.
Phoenix_Court@reddit
Yes! Also an upstate NYer! The coach from my high school is (or at least used to be) a big name in the lacrosse world. And I'm from a podunk middle of nowhere town. Meeting people who think lacrosse is for rich kids, or who don't know what lacrosse is is always mind-boggling.
momamdhops@reddit
West Genny grad?
Rj924@reddit
West Genny isn't podunk. I'm thinking Penn Yan.
Lookwhoiswinning@reddit
Who’s the coach for penn yan?
Rj924@reddit
Was Queener, now is Hobart.
Lookwhoiswinning@reddit
Oh wow you just sent me with the queener name. Blast from the past.
SabresBills69@reddit
I know …it’s not a rich kids sport.i understand in some areas of the country where it’s not as common so you have more pooled school teams or you go through private clubs to play can skew to rich kids,
Maximum-Examination1@reddit
Yea i am from upstate and kindof poor. We got lacrosse pads from school. Syracuse though is very big and the local college is known for it. Lacrosse was spring football.
eurtoast@reddit
My public school had a lacrosse team, but didn't field a football team if that gives you an indication of the sport's popularity in NYS
coffeecircus@reddit
Water polo, fencing, row team, dressage etc. I guess lacrosse does kind of fit in there. That’s how Skull and Bones recruits their members
PAXICHEN@reddit
There were a lot of public high school fencing teams in NJ, surprisingly or not. And not just the rich areas.
tbrock1337@reddit
What is dressage? I'm sure I'm not the only one who doesn't know what that is
HumbleLife69@reddit
You could’ve googled it easier and not told us all how poor you are
Asparagus9000@reddit
Showing off how cool your horse is.
BrotherNatureNOLA@reddit
No. It's just a turbo douche sport.
katarh@reddit
I only knew one lacrosse player in college. She moved to Georgia from New York as a kid, and joined a city club for it, and then was the goalie for the college club team.
Her family was upper middle class, but not like.... rich rich.
WinterWick@reddit
Here in MI the schools have lacrosse teams, but most the players were hockey players, which costs a lot of money to play and travel to
Heavy_Law9880@reddit
Where I live it isn't rich kids, but Catholic kids. All the private high schools have lacrosse teams.
suzemagooey@reddit
Considered unquestionably elite in all parts of the US I've lived.
cyclingidiot16@reddit
Yes, I don’t know any public school that has it. Only the private schools offered it. Probably small areas where it’s more popular but I haven’t heard of any.
SDEexorect@reddit
really?! thats crazy too hear. its one of the most popular sports in high schools here. every high school has a team.
Tullyswimmer@reddit
Almost every state north and east of Virginia has it as a standard high school sport. Like, EVERY school. I went to a tiny public high school with a graduating class of 100 students, and we had JV and varsity lacrosse teams. Was more popular than baseball as a spring sport. Tons of kids played it from 5-6 years old, too. We had summer leagues (that again, were more popular than pop warner or little league)
cyclingidiot16@reddit
To be fair, I grew up in the south. There’s only one sport that’s important here. Haha
NoPersimmon7434@reddit
I've had the opposite experience. There isn't a single public high school in my area that doesn't have a lacrosse team.
WhereasTherefore@reddit
It must be really regional. It’s not even recognized as a sport by our state high school association. A couple schools have club teams that play teams in Iowa.
NoPersimmon7434@reddit
That's crazy. I'd have never known.
PavicaMalic@reddit
Native Marylander here. Hopkins and Syracuse recruited at my public high school. I know a a couple of guys who attended Div. I universities on full lacrosse scholarships.
cyclingidiot16@reddit
Interesting. I was going to guess it might be in parts of the north east. But I’ve never heard of it in most of the country. I still wonder why private schools around here have it.
SDEexorect@reddit
its in every public school where i live. most football players here also play lacrosse but then again check flair
agate_@reddit
In the eastern US, it's considered a rich white private school thing.
In the western US, nobody knows what it is.
rmr007@reddit
You are incorrect. Plenty of public schools have lacrosse, particularly in the east.
In the west, Colorado is an existing hotbed and Utah and California are emerging hotbeds. Colorado has a professional team that draws crowds of 10,000+ fans every week. Plenty of people across the US know what lacrosse is.
Glum-Welder1704@reddit
It's viewed as a foreign sport that rich people occasionally indulge in.
ELMUNECODETACOMA@reddit
When I was in high school, none of the public schools had lacrosse teams and all the private schools did.
One of them didn't even field a baseball team to play us but had nearly 100 boys try out for lacrosse.
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
Yes, but more specifically - private nearly all-white high school in the upper midwest or northeast - type of rich.
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
Not all of the Northeast In MD/DE/Philly area/some of NJ it’s pretty normal.
MonsieurRuffles@reddit
Growing up in North Jersey, all the public high schools had lacrosse teams.
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
What was the average income of said school districts?
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
Poor districts in DE and MD have it too.
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
Yeah, maybe so, and I am sure there was a black kid on one of the teams too!
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
I have some news for you about the demographics in the city of Baltimore.
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
I don't think you get the gist of my prodding.
The OP asks a question, most people are like "yeah", and then there are those of you from a very specific part of the country saying "nuhh uhh, we do it in our high schools". I am sure you do, but if in 90% of the country, lacross is an elite private school sport only, and in one corner it may be everywhere, it's like a white guy in a suburb saying they are integrated because they have a token black friend. Like, sure, okay, but you are are finding exceptions to a very wide spread general trend to argue that the general trend doesn't exist on account of the exceptions.
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
“A very specific of the country” where 1/5 of the population lives. Alright. 👍
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
Okay, correct my 90% of the country, to 80% of the country then.
In 80% of the country, Lacrosse is a rich white private school sport.
In 20% of the country ("where 1/5 of the population lives"), in regions and states with the higest average income in the country, it is also common for public schools in the suburbs to have Lacrosse as well.
You made your point. lol...
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
Yeah, it’s a normal high school sport in 1/5 of the country, and for some reason people telling you this fact makes you really upset. Got it.
domab15@reddit
Yeah every public school in Baltimore City has a lacrosse team
Healthy_Blueberry_59@reddit
North Jersey is wealthy compared to a lot of places.
MonsieurRuffles@reddit
Not where and when I grew up there.
A-Moron-Explains@reddit
Eh all the public high schools in my district (Charlotte NC) had lacrosse and I still consider it a rich sport. The demographic of kids playing lacrosse and basketball/football were very different. It was only played by upper middle class white kids where basketball, baseball, and football were played by everyone.
Meowmeowmeow31@reddit
Looking at this comments, it’s all people from NoVA/MD/DE/Philly/NJ/NY saying it’s just a normal school sport in our area, and people from everywhere else saying “yes.”
Apart-Disaster-3085@reddit
Maybe so, but I grew up in Oklahoma and nobody except the rich private school kids at Cascia Hall (tulsa) played lacrosse or even knew what is was.
The poor kids like me played soccer. The middleclass kids played soccer but went to tournaments.
Long-Station7566@reddit
Same in the Denver metro area. Normal high school sport
reichrunner@reddit
Growing up in western PA we had lacrosse teams at most of the larger high schools (both boys and girls)
Fit-Building-2560@reddit
It's a traditional Native American game from the northeast.
spareribs78@reddit
I remember seeing a documentary where a Native American School started a Lacrosse Team and the white private school students asked why Native Americans were playing Lacrosse.
rmr007@reddit
Interesting because lacrosse makes it's origins fairly well known. You have to be purposefully ignorant to play lacrosse for more than a season and NOT know it was started by Native Americans.
Are you sure this "documentary" wasn't Crooked Arrows?
ruusalor@reddit
Those kids clearly weren't blessed with an overabundance of schooling then. Their private school must be awful
Intelligent_Pop1173@reddit
In the Northeast, lacrosse is popular and played at pretty much every high school, and I promise you they are not all rich.
Realistic_Tutor_9770@reddit
hockey is absolutely a middle and upper class sport and getting worse every year. lacrosse isnt in the northeast and midatlantic. doesnt cost much to play. almost every school has a lacrosse team.
2daysnosleep@reddit
I couldn’t afford to play hockey in highschool, so I picked up poor man’s hockey, lacrosse.
HumbleLife69@reddit
I grew up in CT and no schools in our region had lax teams
Intelligent_Pop1173@reddit
Weird. Lacrosse is very popular there.
HumbleLife69@reddit
NH and Litchfield COs
No-Handle-66@reddit
Depends where you live. In the Mid-Atlantic where we live everyone plays lacrosse. The Iroquois Native Americans in the Great Lakes area put a miniature lacrosse stick in every male baby's crib.
DifficultyHappy1546@reddit
Counterpoint: in the Mid-Atlantic poor people don’t play lacrosse.
GuadDidUs@reddit
Counterpoint, was a girl in a working class family in NJ suburbs. Played high school lacrosse for free.
We didn't have boys lacrosse because of insurance back then so boys lacrosse you probably needed money, but girls lacrosse did not have financial barriers to entry.
DifficultyHappy1546@reddit
Obviously we’re not talking about 100% of people here. The overwhelming majority of people that play lacrosse are middle class and above.
GuadDidUs@reddit
That wasn't my only point. There's a lot of male defaultism going on in this thread.
Equipment needs for women's vs. men's lacrosse are different. They are almost 2 different sports. Men's lacrosse is probably closer in cost to ice hockey or football. Women's lacrosse is probably more comparable in cost to field hockey or baseball.
Lacrosse was actually more accessible to me as a sport as a poor girl in a middle class suburb because it was less popular. I didn't have access to play sports before free middle school and high school sports started; our soccer team, for example, was absolutely stacked with kids that grew up playing travel or club soccer.
DifficultyHappy1546@reddit
Sorry for being a male that doesn’t really know any lacrosse players other than my daughter.
Equipment cost is negligible when talking about travel sports. $250 for a stick that lasts a couple years is a drop in the bucket when comparing to $4k in club fees plus 20 nights in a hotel over the course of a year.
GuadDidUs@reddit
Equipment costs matter when you're talking about whether public schools can afford to offer the sport. My school had sticks and uniforms for everyone. I only had to purchase my cleats and mouth guard.
The question was not whether club sports are expensive, it's whether lacrosse is expensive. Club sports in America are generally thousands of dollars a year, as you noted. I pay similar to what you pay for club soccer, but am fortunate that our tournaments are generally local.
That said, club track IS significantly cheaper than other club sports. Fees for 2 seasons plus uniform is about what I pay for just my daughter's soccer kit. Meets are typically around $20-$40 each. All in, we're at probably about $2500 for a whole year, including overnight travel for a few meets. Cut out overnights and you're under $1000 probably.
DifficultyHappy1546@reddit
The question is not is lacrosse expensive. The question is: “is lacrosse viewed as a rich people sport?” The answer is “yes”.
Weaselandhottie@reddit
Baltimore City, not just the wealthier schools, have Lacrosse. Dunbar is one as is Patterson Park. Neither of those is considered "wealthy" like City or Poly.
Problem is more City Edu Dept funding more than lack of players.
DifficultyHappy1546@reddit
Those schools have lacrosse, but they don’t have lacrosse players. They tend to get second tier athletes that don’t play basketball or football and start playing in high school. The other schools have kids that have been training lacrosse for 5-8 years already.
SceptileArmy@reddit
I just watched an episode of 30 Rock tonight where Tracy Jordan says, “I’m going to be so rich my grandchildren will play lacrosse.”
BassWingerC-137@reddit
And there’s the answer for OP.
Brave_Mess_3155@reddit
There's another episode where one of his kids makes him an acrostic and he says "well I hope they made me an across helmet, so I dont get hurt playing across"
FormerPopCultureIcon@reddit
So many good lines in that show 😂
Healthy_Blueberry_59@reddit
That is hysterical.
skilletjlc4@reddit
Yes
shammy_dammy@reddit
To me, it's something that is probably done at fancier universities on the east coast. However, I have never lived on the east coast so that's just my perception.
Ratatoskr_The_Wise@reddit
Where I am, it’s considered a rich person sport because it entails having to have a large field to practice as part of the school. Many urban schools don’t have that luxury.
jbriggsnh@reddit
My 4 kids all played and really loved it. They played from about 12 yo in youth leagues then high school, also summer travel club.
As a parent I loved it because .ost of the parents were involved and fun people. Unlike football, baseball, or basketball, none of the kids or parents ever missed sleep hoping their kid would get recruited by a D1 school or turn pro. It was just a way to have fun and develop friendships on the way to college.
I also liked how a kid did not have to be 6'6" or weight 300 lbs to play. It was more about speed, agility, and vision.
I miss it. Great memories.
BenJudah619@reddit
Yes
nightowl1135@reddit
Not in the Mid Atlantic. Every school has lacrosse and field hockey teams. You regularly see totally middle class (and even working class) families in parks playing catch with their lacrosse sticks.
Outside of Northern Virginia/Maryland/Delaware/PA and Jersey? Yeah, you’re right.
Berserker717@reddit
Growing up in NJ in the 90s in my area lacrosse was really only at private schools and really wealthy areas. Not the case anymore. Seemed to have started growing more in the early to mid 2000s. My HS didn’t have a team till a year after I graduated in 2005.
RunninOnMT@reddit
Apparently one of the best lacrosse players of all time is a backup guard for the Golden State Warriors. So there’s no big payday if you’re good either (unless you’re also super good at basketball too I guess)
CliffGif@reddit
Basically I agree but only on a broad cultural level in that it’s associated with private schools. But on an individual level don’t make assumptions I’m thinking of the Duke lacrosse case where the media went after the accused players assuming they were rich privileged kids but they were actually middle class.
jcstan05@reddit
This varies a bit, but generally, yes. In my hometown, the only people that play lacrosse (or even know how it's played) are those who go to private schools. In my current town, the public schools have teams.
Mysterious-Carry6233@reddit
Yes. I live in South Carolina and my sons play. Most of the good teams are entirely rich white boys. You don’t have to be rich to play in public high school, but you won’t be very good compared to the rich kids that played in club growing up.
texan_robot@reddit
Ive never known a single person in Texas to play Lacrosse. Im sure it happens, but its very rare here. I dont think it has any cultural implications at all here.
DineenMattingly@reddit
Not particularly. It probably tends to skew wealthy but I’d imagine soccer, hockey, and baseball do too. A rice people sport would be good or squash.
palto1234@reddit
I grew up in a blue collar, middle class home. My brothers and I all played, mostly with used gear, sometimes with a new stick we got for Christmas.
That said, our middles class high school team would regularly get curb-stomped by the upper middle class public schools and the private schools.
Kielbasa_Nunchucka@reddit
I wouldn't say "rich" so.much as "yuppie," but that term goes along with a bit of an upper-class stereotype anyway
DeeksPizzaEnjoyer@reddit
I'm from MN and not really. Up here hockey is the rich man's sport.
NCC1701-Enterprise@reddit
The image is changing as it is becoming more popular, but generally yes it is still mostly considered a rich people sport.
ITrCool@reddit
I always assumed Polo was the rich-man's sport (or in that class of sports). I guess LaCrosse could be considered "upper middle class" but I wouldn't say it's exclusive to the wealthy class.
TheMuffler42069@reddit
It’s just another sport that costs a good amount of money for equipment. No different from football or hockey. Even baseball, soccer and basketball can get pretty pricey for the right kind of shoes and athletic wear. I saw a lady in a video recently complaining about how expensive softball bats are now. My lacrosse stick when I was in middle school was several hundred dollars and that was… damn…. Like 35 years ago or something like that..
inaSlomp@reddit
My public schools had lacrosse teams. The town had a rec league for kids too. In Michigan.
capsrock02@reddit
Yes.
Word2DWise@reddit
It does have a general connotation to be a WASP sport, right in line with skiing or rowing.
lovemesomewine@reddit
So from DC to Boston - just a regular spring sport especially on the girls side. (Less equipment than boys). All the towns in my area have teams starting 2/3rd grade and they play each other. These rec leagues go to 8th grade and feed the high school programs.
Now like most other sports - if you are playing club level those are expensive and you are traveling to tournaments- more $. Many playing club are looking to play in college. Being recruited can greatly assist you getting into some schools and potentially getting some $$ as well. Note - as u rise grade levels in club there are often cuts to select out lower performers.
So town rec - cheap
Travel club - expensive ( no different than Hockey, soccer, baseball softball or basketball). Yes if u are really good some clubs will give you assistance of some sort if needed.
soiledmeNickers@reddit
Pretty common in the Midwest.
lisagd625@reddit
It's funny how 99% of the comments talk about lacrosse in high school, but hardly anyone has mentioned it being played in college. IME, it's a popular college sport on the East Coast, with colleges from New Hampshire to North Carolina competing. My ex went to Johns Hopkins University, and lacrosse was the biggest sport there. Their biggest rival was NC State.
domab15@reddit
NC State does not have lacrosse. Hopkins biggest rival is Maryland.
lisagd625@reddit
What team is the Tarheels? We used to chant "What the hell's a tarheel? It's just a slimy fish!)"
Full_Mission7183@reddit
No, public schools offer it to their students.
In my location lacrosse remains the "second" sport for a lot of the athletes on the field.
Around here the lacrosse field is filled by hockey players.
doubtsnail@reddit
Poor people who never played a sport in their lives but saw people they didn’t like playing it “yup”
ColonelTime@reddit
It's expensive like competitive soccer is expensive. Balls and shoes are cheap. Uniforms, hotels, and "fees" will kill you.
ratelbadger@reddit
Oakley sunglasses worn indoors.
bh0@reddit
Not around here (NY). It's basically played in all high schools and lots of colleges. Lots of native populations around here so it's popular. It's cheap to buy a stick as well so it's pretty easy to get in to. Even if you join a team it's still minimal equipment to buy and doesn't have the recurring expenses that something like hockey has with ice time.
ChapterOk4000@reddit
Nah, here in SoCal there are lacrosse teams at most high schools, even in the hood. Also, it's based on a Native American game, so there's that too.
RunJumpSleep@reddit
Maybe now but when I was in high school in the 90s, I didn’t know any schools in South Central with lacrosse teams and I grew up there.
ChapterOk4000@reddit
Well I don't know about there, but down in San Diego County most of the schools do. I taught high school in Chula Vista in the hood and we had a lacrosse team. Granted, it's not South Central, but it was a poor school.
Crafty-Connection636@reddit
It is in so much as there is a decent amount of equipment required to play it. You need a helmet, gloves, chest pad, elbow pads, a cup, and of course a stick which has a few parts to it as is. It's been a while since I played or looked up costs, but in the late 2000s the more top of the line gear could cost 100 bucks pretty easily, if not more.
In regions where lacrosse isn't quite as popular, it is definitely seen as more as a rich people sport for the above costs and also traveling to play other teams. In the Northeast or more specifically Maryland up to Massachusetts, lacrosse is pretty popular and there are loads of teams playing, so outside the initial equipment purchase, the costs aren't too high and is more viewed as a routine sport to play.
SNOWR8R@reddit
The more specialized gear and equipment it takes the more elite and exclusive it is.
Sure lacrosse and hockey take a lot of expensive stuff. But then imagine keeping/racing horses and boats etc.
stonecw273@reddit
West Coast ... outside of some private schools, we don't do that here ... so yes?
Tacokolache@reddit
No. I played in school. I was poor as shit. I grew up near an Indian reservation. We all played and none of us had money.
At the collegiate level, yeah. Kind of feel like it’s a lot of rich white kids
myOEburner@reddit
Yes. Reminds me of an interesting article on lacrosse a couple years ago.
Apparently it is all the rage in New England, and affluent families will spend obscene sums of money on the best training and summer camps for their kids to become very good lacrosse players all with the idea that it will give them advantages in pursuing admission into elite universities. Buuuut.....there's one problem.
When a lacrosse recruiter evaluates a talented high school kid with the best training from Connecticut and another talented kid from some club league in Missouri, who does he pick? Well, Connecticut kid is as good as he's ever going to be by age 18. There's nothing left to really develop. What more can you do? Connecticut has been refined as far as he can be! But the Missouri kid can probably get a lot better when trained and practiced with better techniques. There's probably a lot left to tweak and improve, so Missouri is going to have a lot more potential upside than Connecticut.
Liljoker30@reddit
In general its for rich kids with anger issues who sucked at more traditional sports like football, baseball or basketball.
El-Viking@reddit
I had never heard of it until we moved to a suburb of DC in Northern Virginia. It's a pretty wealthy county and lacrosse is pretty popular so I'd say that there's some correlation.
MortimerDongle@reddit
It's a mainstream sport where I am. We did it in gym class.
bananaland420@reddit
No. Ice hockey is.
cropguru357@reddit
It was back in mid-90s when I was in high school, too.
AldenteAdmin@reddit
It’s not a rich person sport here in NJ, however that does skew a bit in high school as do many equipment heavy sports. It’s kinda like high school baseball in the sense it’s accessible to most income levels, but the equipment someone has can vary wildly. Some kids are playing with the cheapest stuff because that’s already a lot for their family, other kids are playing with cleats, sticks etc that are literally hundreds if not over $1000 total together.
Luckily it’s not a sport that gets too gear dependent, I mentioned baseball because for years I was getting outplayed by kids who just had dads who bought them new $600 bats every year that did half the work for them if they made contact at all.
Apart_Insect_8859@reddit
yes, only the 'fancy' high schools have leagues where I am
Donald_J_Duck65@reddit
No not at all. Most schools have lacrosse teams and there are many leagues. It has been around for about 1000 years and was invented by indigenous people, the Iroquois, in what is now upstate New York
Rocket1575@reddit
It is fairly popular here in Michigan (at least in my area). Not really seen as a rich peoples sport, but not as many kids play it as Football, Baseball, Hockey, and Basketball.
DruncleMuncle@reddit
Yes, for most of the country. It requires a lot of equipment, and a lot of travel.
Historically, the sport was really only played at elite/expensive boarding schools. It's only been in the past 20-25 years that it's expanded into public schools and rec programs.
Special-Reindeer-178@reddit
Lacrosse and Hockey are the rich kid sports
redjessa@reddit
Yes. We didn't even have lacrosse as an option when I was in school. I only know if it existing now in private or charter schools where I live.
Range-Shoddy@reddit
Pretty much. I’m in Atlanta and my kids play. Starter equipment is about $500 bc the helmets are over $200. Luckily they last a while but some teams make you buy their matching helmets. A uniform setup is a few hundred. Fees per season for rec teams are a few hundred each. Kids change shoe sizes like crazy so $60 2-3 times a year for cheap shoes. We have to have turf and grass cleats so shoes are $500 a year. Better equipment is needed as you get to higher levels. Club dues are several grand per season. Travel is expensive- my middle schooler traveled out of state 8 times last year. We drove twice but mostly its flights. I’m probably missing some costs too but that’s most of it. No way my parents could have afforded even a quarter of those costs when I was a kid. Even if you have basic equipment and only play rec it’s $1500 minimum I’d guess.
vashtachordata@reddit
My oldest played on a summer league once to try it out and that was really affordable. I think all we had to buy was a lacrosse stick which was like $40 from academy. I’m sure it would have been more if we’d played during the actual season.
It seemed much more reasonable than the sport he ended up sticking with, swimming. Have you seen how much a tech suit costs? Insane.
holymacaroley@reddit
Where I am in the southeast, yes.
ChanFry@reddit
I grew up in Oklahoma and Texas, and didn't hear about lacrosse until I was an adult and heard the word in a movie. Then I realized lots of movies use the word or have a character known as a lacrosse player. Eventually I just assumed it's a common sport in whatever region most screenwriters grew up.
mezolithico@reddit
Lol, no, it is not a rich person sport at all. Grew up middle class and had multiple siblings play. Rich people sports are: Polo, competitive horse back riding, sailing, competitive skiing, summering.
Drew707@reddit
IDK, on a relative scale, I think lacrosse is up there from both a gear investment and tuition expense standpoint. Polo and sailing are definitely some of the top contenders. "Competitive horseback riding" can mean a lot of different things from polo down to bronc riding. While horses in general are expensive for the general public, they are usually built into the roots of your normal rodeo professional. Winters sports are becoming much more expensive but can still be competitive on a budget.
JoePoe247@reddit
Gear investment is totally dependent on the kid and parent. You can definitely get entry level or used gear for pretty cheap that can make do. Everyone wants to get the lightest and coolest lacrosse sticks and heads, but I was able to start on varsity with a basic setup of that cost no more than a baseball glove and bat would. Obviously more expensive than soccer and basketball, but I don't think people claim baseball is a upper class sport like how hockey is.
Drew707@reddit
Well, baseball bats and gloves can vary in price wildly. I assume lacrosse is similar.
mezolithico@reddit
You're right, I should've been more specific, not talking about rodeo riding stuff, was referring more to equestrian triathlon activities. Agree skiiing used to be middle class. Competition level isn't anymore at least in California. Lessons are expensive, racing is expensive, housing is expensive. The handful of friends I have who did it as kids all had cabins up in Tahoe they went up every weekend and their school districts had ski week breaks.
Drew707@reddit
Had this discussion on Easter. Lift tickets are more expensive than Disneyland.
NekoArtemis@reddit
Skiing and horseback riding aren't exclusively rich people activities everywhere either.
mezolithico@reddit
That's totally fair to say. Wrt to horses, i was referring to equestrian triathlon activities not just riding. My friends who did it all had horses and everything was expensive including medical bills, and time and travel commitments.
porcelainvacation@reddit
They were both really common in the Pacific Northwest, and most middle class people did them. In the last 10 years ski lift tickets and stable land has become significantly more expensive but you can still do it relatively cheaply if you are creative about it.
NoPersimmon7434@reddit
Don't forget about motorsports.
reichrunner@reddit
Ice hockey is sneaky expensive too
Real_Bat5853@reddit
As a parent with 3 kids playing club hockey can confirm.
ABelleWriter@reddit
100% this answer.
CharlesFXD@reddit
Agree 100%
MainelyKahnt@reddit
In new England it's pretty common. But in my school system it was definitely the "dad's a lawyer but won't let me play ice hockey cus it's dangerous" types that play lacrosse.
Bjorn_CyBorg1@reddit
My kid plays HS varsity lacrosse in MN and it’s not very expensive…compared to hockey. Every piece of hockey equipment is far more expensive, ice time, team/association fees, tournaments, etc., But lacrosse is not as popular here as it is on the east coast, where I imagine it’s a lot more expensive.
But, LAX can be expensive if you add in doing club/travel and clinics/camps.
GuadDidUs@reddit
I think it's important to make the distinction between men's and women's lacrosse here.
Men's lacrosse has a lot more equipment because of the padding, like ice hockey, therefore yes it's a more expensive investment.
Women's lacrosse has cleats, a stick, a mouth guard, and I believe they wear eye protection now. My HS provided sticks if you didn't have your own.
So not a rich person sport for women.
D3moknight@reddit
Where I grew up in the South, only rich private schools have lacrosse.
GreenBeanTM@reddit
Not really. My school didn’t have a team but I just figured that was due to lack of interest same as why we didn’t have a cheer team.
Based off other people saying it’s expensive maybe this is wrong, but I always thought it was similar in costs to football - slightly cheaper for teams that don’t wear the helmets (didn’t even know that helmets existed until right now and it appears to only be men’s teams that wear them, which I also didn’t realize existed), which definitely isn’t seen as a rich persons sport.
loweexclamationpoint@reddit
Midwest, it's mostly a private school or rich suburb sport. Rural places it doesn't exist.
twotall88@reddit
I grew up in Southwestern Iowa, I didn't even know Rugby and Lacrosse were sports until I moved to the East coast.
CosyBeluga@reddit
White and suburban so well to do but not rich. That’d be polo.
Ear_Enthusiast@reddit
Not anymore. At least not in my town. We have a league near us that has grown rapidly. They are amazing at the hand-me-down network. The initial cost of starting lacrosse is expensive. You have to buy a helmet, a stick or two, pads, elbow pads, gloves, cleats, and usually a bag and some accessories. If you're on Facebook, the league Facebook group and Marketplace are a life saver. New, all of that shit costs around $1000. When my son first started I pieced his kit together for maybe $250.
Youth baseball is the rich kids support these days. It's a fucking cult. Absolutely insane what they're paying for travel ball, equipment, trainers, recruiting services, and fashion.
TillPsychological351@reddit
I grew up in the Philly area, and for the most part, lacrosse was the spring sport for many of the football players.
It didn't have any particular class connotation.
Emotional_Match8169@reddit
I’m in South Florida and we only recently had Lacrosse start ups here. They are all in upper middle class areas as far as as I know of.
ChessieChesapeake@reddit
I grew up in a very working class, blue. Collar neighborhood and we got together to play lacrosse all the time. Our neighborhood rec league didn’t have a lot of money, so we always used the football jerseys.
Current_Poster@reddit
Yeah, pretty much. People say it's big in New England, but I'm from New England and never heard anyone mention lacrosse or otherwise show enthusiasm for the game, on a day-to-day basis.
bonerland11@reddit
No, where I'm from originally, the teams from the poor Indian reservations absolutely destroy the wealthy areas.
zoppaTheDim@reddit
If white people play it, yes.
A lot of lacrosse tournaments are filled with white prep schools, the exceptions are Native American dominated teams who they rarely invite and an occasional large unified school district, the type of place where their popular sports actually cut people.
Lacrosse is a light contact sport for medium sized guys. Some people are pitching it for people who don’t want their kids suffering concussions.
Canada tends to be a little less elitist, as it crosses over with hockey.
Rj924@reddit
It's not Alpine Skiing level of rich people sport. But there are equipment costs beyond shoes and a ball.
Gingerbrew302@reddit
Public high schools have teams where I am. It's also an athletic pathway to college scholarships, particularly for girls.
JoeFromStPaul@reddit
It's gaining popularity in MN, but feom what I can tell, they aren't stealing athletes from more traditional sports, it's more the kids that couldn't make those teams and still want to play something.
dsam338@reddit
Where I’m from, not every kid who plays lacrosse is rich, but every kid who’s rich plays lacrosse.
PghSubie@reddit
No, it's not a rich person's sport. It's not popular though in general. There are pockets of popularity
Particular_Bet_5466@reddit
I don’t know that we view it as anything, I never met or heard of anyone that plays.
DamnGoodFries@reddit
I think it’s starting to move in that direction. Most people I knew who played in high school were Native American. In college it was all white guys.
FunkMastaUno@reddit
It is a rich kid sport
somecow@reddit
Kinda. But not really. That’s polo.
Zatzbatz@reddit
I think lacross is more normal in colder places?
OGbigfoot@reddit
Out here on the west Coast it's almost non-existent. At least when I was in highschool late '90s.
RunJumpSleep@reddit
I was in high school in the 90s in Los Angeles and didn’t know any school in the area that played lacrosse.
zignut66@reddit
I learned recently from an NPR story that lacrosse has its roots in Native American traditions and sport. I always viewed it as exceedingly white and bougie, and perhaps it is, but that ain’t its roots, nor how it’s enjoyed everywhere.
Ok_Art4661@reddit
USA does not care. Never had a lacrosse conversation in 40 years living in usa
NCLAXMOM26@reddit
As my user name implies, I do know a little about this... Yes it's incredibly expensive both from an equipment standpoint and cost per season (assuming your kid plays on a club/travel team) but it's such a fun sport !!
Extra_Routine_6603@reddit
Eh never looked into it least where I grew up probably not many people could tell you anything about it.
Wh0_Really_Knows@reddit
Not a "rich sport" per se, but it is not very common.
92TilInfinityMM@reddit
Yes, bc it’s a club sport so it’s not available in most poorer high schools unlike football baseball soccer etc
Cerulean_IsFancyBlue@reddit
It's not rich-coded like polo, but it tends to be embraced by schools that happen to cater to rich kids.
WiWook@reddit
$250 - $500 for a helmet.
$125 for chest protector.
$60 for elbow guards.
$80 - $120 for gloves.
$80 - $100 for a regular crosse. (more for a DPole).
$80 - $250 for shoes (though I don't think many are going for top end mercurials for LaCrosse).
Don't forget a cup and mouth guard.
I'm sure I missed some equipment, but I didn't feel like digging my kid's kit bag ($$) out of the back of the closet where it has sat untouched for 2 years.
Add in Carbon Fiber sticks, 2-3 different heads, stringing fees...
Yeah, there is a high cost of entry. We started with just the stick, bag and renting the rest. Still added up quickly.
Compare this to soccer: Shoes are the same. Shin Guards $10 - $30.
Long Socks $15.
If they are a keeper - gloves $50 - $180.
so $100 vs $800 ‐ $1000 as cost of entry?
can be played with 2 people and some coats to mark a goal on any patch of grass vs. a dedicated goal with something to indicate a crease. Not even sure if a pickup game is possible beside playing catch.
Vegetable_Fly_8687@reddit
My daughter plays girls' lacrosse. Not that expensive for school. Gets pretty expensive for club, but still not as much as club volleyball for my other daughter.
Boys lacrosse... those guys are savages (which is fun) and are much more expensive. Padding and broken sticks... wow. I only really have to buy cleats, stick, goggles, uniform, etc. for my daughter. And most of those last more than one season.
getElephantById@reddit
Yes, but not that rich. It's not like polo or falconry, it's just slightly fancier than football. It's like the one house in the neighborhood with a pool in it: they've got a pool, but they're still in the same neighborhood as everybody else.
Specialist-Solid-987@reddit
Come on a sport doesn't need special animals to be associated with wealthy people
Specialist-Solid-987@reddit
Lacrosse has the stereotype of being played by douchey frat boys
Ok-Equivalent8260@reddit
No
bmsa131@reddit
Jim Brown was actually a lacrosse star who played football bc it paid more. He’s from Long Island, from a town still a lax hotbed. It’s regional.
EnlightenedCorncob@reddit
It definitely is in my state.
SamCanyon@reddit
Yes. Definitely a private school sport.
SyntheticScrivner@reddit
Lacross is some caucastic east coast bullshit.
GateGold3329@reddit
It's "rich kid" as a way to avoid the good athletes.
Far_Shop_3135@reddit
I think it has connotations yes.. but if your school has it it's relatively accessible assuming you can beat out all the club kids.. the club teams are where things get ridiculously expensive.
schmatteganai@reddit
In upstate New York, or anywhere (i.e. Eastern Canada) with lots of Haudenosaunee folks, it's a regular sport to *the* main sport, particularly men's lacrosse. Some of the groups of people who feel that the predecessor of modern lacrosse has a spiritual dimension don't think women should play that version of the game, but most people don't consider women's lacrosse to be the same game as the ritual one. Some of the people I've heard express strong concerns about this are associated with the Onondaga Nation.
In MD/DE/NJ/PA, it's a regular sport that skews white, but moreso towards people whose parents went to college, or kids who are in a community where a critical mass or people who love lacrosse will encourage you to play. It's popular enough that it's not really associated with wealth, but there's a skill barrier that can be tricky to cross without encouragement.
Upstate New York and Maryland are probably the areas where lacrosse is most popular, particularly as people's favorite sport over, say, football/soccer/baseball. Women's lacrosse is a little more popular in Maryland, because the objections that some people have to women playing aren't significant cultural issues on the sport outside of upstate New York.
In New England it's strongly associated with prep schools, which are also associated with wealth, but it's gotten more popular in public schools over time.
Outside of the Eastern Canada and the MidAtlantic, it's more associated with wealth, since it's less popular in its own right and mostly seen as a sport for kids to play to prepare for college. Men's lacrosse probably has more overall popularity throughout Canada than it has in the US.
Daddysheremyluv@reddit
Rich kid sport. Most affluent schools have the best teams...... the exception and it is huge some school districts with a a Reservation kids kick ass.
too-left-feet@reddit
In western/central/southern tier New York lacrosse is pretty much class independent. I had 2 college lacrosse players as housemates my Sr. Year and they definitely did not come from wealthy families. Further, my son in law played in high school and college and his folks were definitely working class. I also doubt that the boys on the Onondaga Reservation ( south of Syracuse) came from families that had much,… and some of those boys are fantastic.
I think, like most sports, wealthy families can afford camps, one on one coaching, and focused physical fitness for their kids which can give their kids an advantage.
The_World_Is_A_Slum@reddit
In MD, everyone plays lacrosse. Prep schools or public schools, it doesn’t matter. When I was a kid, it was just a regular sport like basketball or whatever. It’s the most fun sport I played, for sure.
Southern-Usual4211@reddit
Its such a rich person's sport in the southwest I have never met someone who plays it. Far to rich for my blood 😂
Evenfisher01@reddit
Kind of but not really in my area most schools have a lax team but also it is seen as like a frat bro sport
Beverly_Crusher_2324@reddit
It was all upper middle class yt boys that played lax at my high school - but this was 20 years ago in Chicagoland
AWTNM1112@reddit
My daughter played in college. Bought her own equipment. Had to find her own transportation to games. Sold tee-shirts for help with safety equipment for the team.
DrMindbendersMonocle@reddit
Not really, it's only popular in certain parts of the country. It would be similar to rugby equipment
Penguin_Life_Now@reddit
I think it is more seen as a midwest or west coast sport
SabresBills69@reddit
on what planet?
Penguin_Life_Now@reddit
Anywhere in the south where football dominates
donuttrackme@reddit
On average, yes. Definitely. In the Northeast and Mid-Atlantic it's more popular, but even then it's still a sport mostly played by at least middle class families.
Danibear285@reddit
That’s a Yankee sport
gypsysniper9@reddit
Yes. Just look at the high schools that have lacrosse teams
Danibear285@reddit
Yes
muphasta@reddit
My youngest decided he wanted to start playing in high school.
Since it was a brand new program, there was very little gear to provide the team.
We shelled out about $1200 in gear for him. Lucky for us, he has a huge cranium so the only helmet that would fit him was $280. Then the coach let us know to buy black helmets if possible, which was another $40.
We are not rich, but we could afford the gear.
I was pretty unhappy when he stopped playing after his sophomore year, but he did it to concentrate on academics. He is graduating this year with a 4.7 GPA and got accepted to all but one university he applied to.
He’ll be going to Cal Poly SLO in the fall.
Maurice_Foot@reddit
I thought it was a shirt brand.
0utlaw-t0rn@reddit
It’s a northeastern/mid Atlantic sport
Sea_Macaron_7962@reddit
Very much so
Slight_Manufacturer6@reddit
No… I think of it more of a college kids sport
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
Where I grew up, I only knew it existed from seeing it on ESPN now and then. No schools, public or private, fielded teams. For us, soccer was what the "rich" kids played (or as it was, the middle class minority, as opposed to the working class majority).
After I moved to Virginia, I saw that here a lot of schools have teams. Even the in the poorer, more rural areas, which really surprised me.
TeacherOfFew@reddit
Very much so in the central US.
Legitimate-Frame-953@reddit
Where I grew up only the private schools played Lacrosse.
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
Where I grew up, even the private schools didn't. It was something far away.
Patient-Ad-7939@reddit
No. All the public schools in my area have teams.
SurpriseEcstatic1761@reddit
What area? Upstate ny?
Sco_Queen@reddit
In NC and all the high schools have it in my area.
Patient-Ad-7939@reddit
Lol, no, the South. Not an affluent area at all
seifd@reddit
I think of it that way. When I was in high school, I never knew any of our local schools to have it. However, I don't know if that's really fair. After all, is the cost of a lacrosse team greater than baseball or a swim team, which I don't consider sports for rich people?
plumberbss@reddit
https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/s/HBXdpCLolb
MadHats3@reddit
It is a rich kids sport. Equipment and sticks are expensive as hell
SabresBills69@reddit
lacrosse is like Ice hockey where many colleges have only that sport as their D-2 sport while other sports at the school are D-3.
examples
Johns Hopkins — lacrosse
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_NCAA_Division_I_lacrosse_programs
ice hockey— many small schools like RPI, RIT, RPI, Union, and a bunch others.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_NCAA_Division_I_ice_hockey_programs#/media/File:Map_-_College_Hockey_-_all_men's_D-I_locations.svg
No-Sail-6510@reddit
I don’t really get why. All you need is the stick which isn’t really crazy or anything.
steeze_y@reddit
In California - at least where I grew up - high schools did not have lacrosse programs. It is not that big here.
Next-Wishbone1404@reddit
Rich east coast game.
SabresBills69@reddit
it’s not….
EmperorMorgan@reddit
I mostly remember it as the sport everyone did for three weeks in high school, and I went to a very not-fancy public school.
SabresBills69@reddit
I did it in high school. we also did Olympic handball in gym.
Circle_Breaker@reddit
Yeah it's a middle class/ rich sport for people not athletic enough to play football
BarefutR@reddit
Almost all the public schools around Atlanta had lacrosse 16-20 years ago.
Jswazy@reddit
I have never heard of anyone not rich or at least in "rich culture" playing it.
LoadCan@reddit
Howdy, former lacrosse player and current ref here. This answer is kind of, but not really.
It is thought of as a rich kid sport, but in practice it's not. It is a sport that a lot of "rich" kids play, but poor kids are not locked out of it. It's a very accessable sport where there is a cultural footprint for it. New England, New York, the mid Atlantic, and the civilized south (Virginia, North Carolina). In these places you will find school sponsored lax, robust youth leagues, etc. It's a sport that tends to be populated with middle class white kids, but is genuinely accessible to anyone. It's not expensive to play, and most coaches will take any athlete they can get their hands on.
Where I'm from, Massachusetts, lacrosse is something that has a shitload of overlap with the hockey population (myself included, I started playing in 6th grade because my hockey buddies dad was the coach, and I fucking hated playing baseball all summer), but by HS we had basketball and football first athletes on our lax roster as well. You will find noticably more black men playing HS and college lax than you will hockey. Not a huge number by any stretch, but easily more than hockey, because it's easier to pick up, and coaches love taking other sport athletes and converting them.
And all of this is ignoring how massive the sport is with northeastern/Great lakes native American communities.
Jaqen-Atavuli@reddit
Both of my daughters play for the High School team. It is way better than the the travel shit. We did that for Volleyball for a year with our our oldest. We were probably 10K in after a year.
Funny add on. My youngest is a firecracker. When we were discussing her playing, I was like we sure we want to to give her a stick and tell her to go hit people. She just grinned.
OUsnr7@reddit
Grew up in one of the wealthier areas of Houston and it honestly was mostly played by rich kids. Ironically, they were pretty mercilessly mocked for it by a lot of other athletes though. Even our football coaches gave shit to the kids that were also on the lacrosse team. I initially thought it might have been because it’s just a club sport but they never gave any of us on the rugby team a hard time
Nottacod@reddit
Not in Maryland. We always played it in jr and high school. My grandaughter plays it for her high school in a southern state.
topcide@reddit
I grew up in Michigan and I've lived here my entire life,.
I'm 44 years old
I actually played lacrosse when I was younger, my middle school had enough players. We had a 7th and 8th grade team, I grew up in the Detroit suburbs.
Some of the other surrounding middle schools had teams but we had to play a lot of private schools, but with each year it became more common.
By the time that I was finishing high School, it was a very, very common sport to be played by public schools throughout the metropolitan Detroit suburbs as well as the west side of the state.
Pretty much every public school has lacrosse teams now at this point in my life, maybe Michigan is just a pocket that bled over from the Northeast, but it's been a pretty regular ass sport here for a long time.
SubstantialListen921@reddit
Lacrosse is the fasting growing high school sport in Wisconsin. It's becoming quite common at public high schools, and has no class connotations that I'm aware of.
LABELyourPHOTOS@reddit
In my experience it was something the football coach made his team do off season. Not for rich kids.
PabloTheGreyt@reddit
I’m old, old enough that my father (son of immigrants) went to college just before WWII. he was a physical education major at Springfield College, where basketball was invented and played on their championship team. He played lacrosse in the off season
Toad_da_Unc@reddit
It’s probably at least $500 to get outfitted with all the pads you need and a stick for a young kid, but people are definitely happy to loan used equipment to players wanting to start
No-Conversation1940@reddit
I lived in Missouri for nearly 30 years and never came across a lacrosse player or a lacrosse game. Even in college, when I met more well off people from St Louis, it seemed like the guys from those families played ice hockey.
salty_new_england@reddit
Lacrosse has democratized significantly in the past 30 years. At one time it was quite regional and played significantly at private schools but also in public schools in hotbed areas. A significant portion, but not all, of the best high school teams are still private schools. The current poll is showing 24 of the top 25 teams are private schools primarily in the northeast I.e. Boston-Washington.
southsidekc34@reddit
I view it as more of an affluent sport (Connecticut ) my 8th grade gym teacher was the hs lacrosse coach and I fell in love with it . Was planning on coming out freshman year especially to stay in shape for football but transferred high schools unfortunately. I woulda gunned for midfield
No-Conversation1940@reddit
Not just a rich people sport, a regional rich people sport.
I rarely meet people in Chicago who played and who grew up in the Midwest. It's always people from the northeastern seaboard. I never met a lacrosse player when I lived in Missouri. It's an obscure sport in the Ozarks.
ChicagoTRS666@reddit
I think it is becoming more popular/accessible. My daughter plays at a midwest public high school and more and more schools in the area have lacrosse teams.
SufficientProject273@reddit
Here in the Deep South it is.
PinchedTazerZ0@reddit
Yeah it has that connotation. I didn't realize that because the public school in Texas I went to had it. The first time I heard it I was confused "isn't that like calling football a rich kid sport? What the hell"
Auntie_Venom@reddit
I see it as a high school sport, in the spring the local schools started practicing at one of the parks by our old house.
pikkdogs@reddit
Yes. Very much so.
DanteRuneclaw@reddit
It was once associated the private schools and higher-end universities, but not any longer.
seanx50@reddit
I know only the richer suburban school districts have lacrosse
midnightllamas@reddit
It’s also the most rapey.
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
This is a Reddit thing, not a US thing.
This sub is really, really weird about a lot of things and is very unrepresentative of the US as a whole.
cyclingidiot16@reddit
Fair but also a regional thing. The US is freaking massive and you get these general questions that only really apply to a small region. Also, it’s Reddit.
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
I said it was Reddit lol.
But lacrosse is most popular in the mid-Atlantic but it's played throughout the country in schools of all income levels. No where is it a sport for rich people.
cyclingidiot16@reddit
No, I’ll argue that. If you live in the south, you can only play if you attend very expensive private schools. There are zero rec leagues and zero public schools offer it. So, if you live here and play, you’re rich or attend a rich kid school. If you live in the north east, it’s an every day normal sport for anyone. I’ve never even seen equipment for sale at the local sports stores.
-Boston-Terrier-@reddit
That's just not true lol.
Few_Pipe_6285@reddit
I've never seen anyone playing lacrosse where I live, so probably.
sean8877@reddit
Yes
IanDOsmond@reddit
Not, like super-rich, polo level, but upper-middle-class, people who go to high school in nice suburbs, colleges which might not be Ivy League, but which are, y'know, reasonably selective.
Top half of wealth, definitely, maybe top third.
FreeKevinBrown@reddit
Lacrosse is an expensive sport.
Kaurifish@reddit
For me, even more so since I found out it was appropriated from Native Americans.
kreativegaming@reddit
Everyone knows the rich people sport is hockey. A full set of gear can easily set you back 5k. Lacrosse is like here's a stick and a helmet have fun with 100 bucks.
Sean_theLeprachaun@reddit
Im in the northeast, played in public high school, coached on and off for 25 years and my kids are on youth travel teams. There are beer leagues and lots of tournaments too. It's still spreading.
Sean_theLeprachaun@reddit
Oh, and roughly 1/5 of rhe high-school teams in the state were started by a farmer. And the guy is like 100 years old now.
_bibliofille@reddit
Grew up playing stickball as a poor kid. Went to university where the rich ones played lacrosse.
Euphoric_Loquat_8651@reddit
I played in San Diego in the 90s. It was not very popular, but wasn't considered a rich sport. Hell, it wasn't even officially a sport until the 95-96 school year.
iampatmanbeyond@reddit
Hockey is the rich people sport followed by gymnastics
BroCanWeGetLROTNOG@reddit
All of the public schools in my area (southern California) had very large lacrosse teams. For me it wasn't a rich people sport, but more so a sport for all the people who weren't good enough to get on any other teams.
Tullyswimmer@reddit
Growing up in rural upstate NY, the baseball team was the sport for people who couldn't cut it on the lacrosse team. But then, the sport was literally invented by the Natives in the area, so....
BroCanWeGetLROTNOG@reddit
Its funny, but I can definitely imagine it.
Tullyswimmer@reddit
There were a couple of the local public schools where the kids from the Rez went and playing them was an absolute nightmare. It's actually a tradition in some of the tribes to put a lacrosse stick in the cradle of a newborn boy.
If you've ever seen the Hulu show Letterkenny, the "Native Flu" episode is incredibly accurate to how we felt about playing some of those teams.
The_Evolved_Ape@reddit
I played HS lacrosse in the NY metro area at a public school in a lower-middle class community and went to college in New England where several friends of mine were lacrosse players who came from small towns and weren't particularly wealthy either so I'd say, no. Other areas of the country might perceive it differently.
Hawthorne_northside@reddit
Just ask the University or Richmond soccer team. They got demoted to a club sport (no university funds go to the team and there is no more professionally coached). What took their place? Lacrosse. Why? Some rich kid got his dad to donate big bucks to have a lacrosse team so they dropped the soccer team.
According-Couple2744@reddit
It’s fairly popular in Virginia.
RubGlum4395@reddit
Soccer became really popular in the US in the 70's and 80's. Lacrosse has become really popular, on the West Coast, in the last 10-15 years. We just got a highschool lacrosse team a few years ago.
ATLien_3000@reddit
20 years ago, outside of (basically) central Virginia through Baltimore and Long Island, people largely didn't know what lacrosse was.
That's not an exaggeration.
Now it's got to be the fastest growing sport in the country.
I'd suggest that it's traveling the route that many cultural changes do sociologically.
Catches on first with the well traveled and the mobile; someone sees it elsewhere and brings it back, or played before moving.
Especially because when lacrosse originally got legs in Atlanta, teams had to travel for competition (not cheap).
School programs initially started here in some wealthier public school districts and among private schools, almost entirely around Atlanta.
Now it's in most public schools in metro Atlanta (regardless of wealth).
And it's growing statewide.
It's not a super expensive sport; the bigger issues are coaching (you're JUST now in metro Atlanta starting to have coaches who played), and title 9 precluding schools from adding it for guys (even if there's interest) if they can't get a girl's program going too.
ByWillAlone@reddit
I grew up in an upper/middle-class neighborhood in the Pacific Northwest...my high school had a robust sports program, we had our own Olympic sized pool, a huge football field with covered stadium, a second football field, multiple soccer fields, a baseball field, multiple tennis courts, and racquetball courts... But we didn't have lacrosse because it was for people richer than my school district. We also didn't have polo. But we did have water polo!
Sensitive-Respect-25@reddit
The animated show archer has the main character play lacrosse (and at least once organize a team), and he is explicitly showcased as a rich asshat. It's all satire and crass humor BUT does show how the sport is viewed by many.
Phoenix_Court@reddit
The comments on this post can be divided into two categories.
Those from Upstate New York. Those not from Upstate New York.
jaquan97@reddit
Short answer, yes
Spirited_Concern_800@reddit
Yes
FeijoaCowboy@reddit
I grew up in Colorado. The only kid I knew who played lacrosse lived in a very wealthy neighbourhood, in a house I would best describe as a suburban mansion. His neighbour gave out full-sized candy on Halloween. His uncle had an even bougier lakefront mansion and a boat. I think he only really played lacrosse because his dad made him do it, but yeah.
caseygwenstacy@reddit
The most popular girls sports for me when I was a kid were lacrosse and field hockey
JustAnotherDay1977@reddit
It’s definitely viewed as a rich people sport in the Midwest.
I think the Northeast is the only place where it’s pretty commonly played by everyone.
OneNerdyLesbian@reddit
I'd probably say so. I don't know a single person who plays or watches lacrosse around here. My school didn't have a team, and if any of the other local schools had teams, then I didn't know about it.
heybud_letsparty@reddit
Lacrosse was a private school sport for most of the country for a long time. Some public schools had it in states like Minnesota, Wisconsin, and New England states. But for the most part it was a "rich kid" sport. We used to joke it was the sport for kids scared to play hockey but needed to get into their daddy's school. Now though its had a huge surge in popularity the last decade and more public school kids have access to play it. It's actually more accessible now than hockey in most areas, which makes sense. It should be one of the more accessible sports to play in the first place, it was just a popularity issue.
Tullyswimmer@reddit
Not just Minnesota, Wisconsin, and New England. It was, and is, incredibly popular all over NY, PA, NJ, VA, and all the other states in that area due to the connection to the Natives. NY in particular is a hotbed due to all of the influence from the Iroquois, who invented it.
seandelevan@reddit
Where I grew up in upstate NY most decent sized high schools had a lacrosse team. Where I live now in Virginia that fact blows people minds….I then blow their minds even more when I say my high school had a hockey and bowling team as well.
CharlesFXD@reddit
No. Not here. Almost every JS has a lacrosse team. Public and private. At least here in my city. Western NYS
3Duder@reddit
I remember the lacrosse kids being the more preppy/wealthy kids. This was in the 80s in the Long Island suburbs.
wwacbigirish@reddit
Big in North Jersey and at my HS and we were decidedly not rich.
rinky79@reddit
It's a rich frat boy sport.
Eric848448@reddit
Yes, absolutely.
Ok_Orchid1004@reddit
Not particularly popular with the masses but those who played it growing up were not rich people.
LankyJeep@reddit
Not anymore, in the early 2000’s 100% absolutely, the reason for this perception is due to it being popularized in the Long Island NY and Maryland suburb areas which both tend to be richer, but nowadays not as much, it’s more like football or baseball where most schools have a program and its very common to play even if you aren’t rich or even upper middle class
Tullyswimmer@reddit
In the late 90s, the biggest summer sports teams for kids (elementary school age) in my area was lacrosse. And we were NOT a rich area. I grew up in a rural town outside of a rust belt city.
More kids played summer lacrosse than football or little league. A town of 1000 people had teams in every age group starting from like, 6 years old.
wjbc@reddit
It’s probably fairly characterized as an upper middle class sport. I think the upper middle class is far from rich, but i suppose it depends on your perspective.
PersonalBrowser@reddit
I would say it’s more of a sport that upper middle class kids are more likely to do, but it’s not like polo or fencing which is a “rich person” sport
PixiePandaDust@reddit
Lived in Northern NYS. Public schools had lacrosse.
Recent_Permit2653@reddit
Uh, you know, I’m not really sure. I’ve never lived anywhere where lacrosse was much of a thing. So my impression is that it’s regional much more than anything else.
madogvelkor@reddit
It's a normal sport in New England.
Tokyosmash_@reddit
It was an every person sport growing up in central MD (Ellicott City)
PopEnvironmental1335@reddit
It’s more of a private school sport. I’ll let you decide if that counts as “rich.”
I personally think wealth comes into play more with the level you achieve than the sport itself. The families I know that spent huge amounts on sports had kids that did Olympic level fencing and professional ballet. It costs a huge amount of money to raise a pro athlete. I’m sure there are scholarships and sponsorships, but I suspect a lot of kids - especially in niche sports - have parents with very good jobs.
LvBorzoi@reddit
Yes because almost no public schools play it for lack of sports budget. Private schools have it more often.
zsava002@reddit
Popularity depends on location but take it from someone who moved every year of high school, no it is not a rich person sport. No more than field hockey is.
Vandal_A@reddit
More so in the Mid-Atlantic than elsewhere. Actually, MidWestern teams tend to play a much more physical brand of the game, which I think helps keep those who enjoy it there (it's not huge) feeling like it's more down to Earth. In much of the country though it's not even a footnote either way
xSparkShark@reddit
It’s no more financially inaccessible than hockey, which isn’t usually seen as a rich kid sport, but it’s most played among affluent north eastern white communities so gets a reputation from that.
No_Patience_6801@reddit
Our high school - the parents paid for any student who made the team but couldn’t afford the equipment. That’s how a lot of the teams were in Southern California high schools that were public. We made it work.
Dead_before_dessert@reddit
Played it in gym class, in Montana, in the 90s.
Like...I always knew there was a weird east coast private school association but that never really made sense to me because....gym class.
wisemonkey101@reddit
I’m in California we don’t even know it’s a sport. For us it’s an east coast WASPy pastime.
IlexAquifolia@reddit
Yes it is associated with New England prep schools, so it has a posh vibe. Not necessarily like it’s limited to the rich like, say, polo, but it’s for sure more of an upper middle class sport.
RNconsequential@reddit
In the 1970’s it was just a prep school sport, maybe. Funny this characterization when Maryland has all the Lacrosse and the MD/NoVA area is THE hotbed for the sport for the past few decades. The club tournaments for the HS age kids trying to impress college coaches happen every weekend in the region in the summer. All-star teams come from all around and we just send our regular club teams that happen to be available for it. The Lacrosse Hall of Fame is in MD for a reason.
BigRichard1990@reddit
Lacrosse was mostly a sport played at private schools or in Maryland until about 30 or 40 years ago, and where it is played now is mostly by white people who are too slow or small for college football. The equipment is not expensive really, and it doesn’t require a pool or ice rink or anything but a grass field. Artificial turf is ok too, the players mostly stay on their feet. Jim Brown, the NFL Hall of Fame running back, was considered the greatest college lacrosse player in his day.
little_runner_boy@reddit
Lacrosse people have a trust fund for their trust fund
Sensitive-Chemical83@reddit
It's normal in the mid Atlantic/ North Mid Atlantic region. But outside of that, yes, it's a rich kid sport.
I get why, you need a lot of protective gear, basically as much as Hockey or Football, but it doesn't have the popularity of either sport professionally. So it's just kind of a money sink. I know all sports are, but the popularity of football and hockey helps justify the kind of crazy costs for those. In Lacrosse, not so much, so only people with disposable income are willing to spend hundreds each season on gear.
Narrow_Roof_112@reddit
No. It’s become very common.
1EMurph1@reddit
Normal in New England/Northeast. Every public school has a lacrosse team
Quiet-Competition849@reddit
Yes
Healthy_Blueberry_59@reddit
Yes.
WeDontKnowMuch@reddit
I played lacrosse from middle school through college. It has a stigma about being a sport for rich kids. As a player, my experience was that it was not all rich kids playing the game.
It was a pretty good mix of backgrounds, lots of stoners.
rebelopie@reddit
No, stickball (lacrosse) was created by Native Peoples and had been played here for hundreds of years. I am Choctaw and view stickball as a Rez sport and certainly don't associate it with rich white people.
No_Foundation7308@reddit
Just a regular sport in the NE. I’m from DC/Baltimore area up 95. Everyone plays
lil-birdy4@reddit
No, grew up in rural NY and pretty much every public HS had it. I live in Northern Virginia now, and most public high schools have it here too. It's also very prevalent in MD.
Eat--The--Rich--@reddit
Rich bro douchebag sport. Lax players are the type of guy that girls cover their drinks around.
Nodeal_reddit@reddit
Yes. Not in high school anymore since programs have been expanding nationally, but definitely at a college level.
___HeyGFY___@reddit
GEORGE CARLIN AND SPORTS To my way of thinking there are really only three sports: baseball, basketball, and football. Everything else is either a game or an activity.
Hockey comes to mind. People think hockey is a sport. It's not. Hockey is three activities taking place at the same time: ice skating, fooling around with a puck, and beating the shit out of somebody. If these guys had more brains then teeth, they'd do these things one at a time. First go ice-skating, then fool around with a puck, then you go to the bar and beat the shit out of somebody. The day would last longer, and these guys would have a lot more fun. Another reason why hockey isn't a sport is that it's not played with a ball. Anything not played with a ball can't be a sport. These are my rules, I make 'em up.
Soccer. Soccer is not a sport because you can't use your arms. Anything where you can't use your arms can't be a sport. Tap dancing isn't a sport. I rest my case.
Running. People think running is a sport. Running isn't a sport because anybody can do it. I can run, you can run. For Christ sakes, my mother can run! You don't see her on the cover of Sports Illustrated, do you?
Swimming. Swimming isn't a sport. Swimming is a way to keep from drowning. That's just common sense. Sailing isn't a sport. Sailing is a way to get somewhere. Riding the bus isn't a sport, why the fuck should sailing be a sport?
Boxing is not a sport either. Boxing is a way to beat the shit out of somebody. In that respect, boxing is actually a more sophisticated way of hockey. In spite of what the police tell you, beating the shit out of somebody is not a sport. When police brutality becomes an Olympic event, fine, then boxing can be a sport.
Bowling. Bowling isn't a sport because you have to rent shoes. Don't forget, these are my rules. I make 'em up.
Billiards. Some people think billiards is a sport, but it can't be, because there's no chance of serious injury. Unless, of course, you welch on a bet in a tough neighborhood. Then, if you wind up with a pool cue stickin' out of your ass, you know you might be the victim of a sports-related injury. But that ain't billiards, that's pool, and that starts with a P, and that rhymes with D, and that brings me to darts.
Darts could have been a sport, because at least there's a chance to put someone's eye out. But, alas, darts will never be a sport, because the whole object of the game is to reach zero, which goes against all sports logic.
Lacrosse is not a sport; lacrosse is a f@ggoty college activity. I don't care how rough it is, anytime you're running around a field, waving a stick with a little net on the end of it, you're engaged in a f@ggoty college activity. Period.
Field hockey and fencing. Same thing. F@ggoty college shit. Also these activities aren't sports, because you can't gamble on them. Anything you can't gamble on can't be a sport. When was the last time you made a fuckin' fencing bet?
Gymnastics is not a sport because Romanians are good at it. It took me a long time to come up with that rule, but goddammit, I did it.
Polo isn't a sport. Polo is golf on horseback. Without holes. It's a great concept, but not a sport. And as far as water polo is concerned, I hesitate to even mention it, because it's extremely cruel to horses.
Which brings me to hunting. You think hunting is a sport? Ask the deer. The only good thing about hunting is the many fatal accidents on the weekends. And, of course, the permanently disfigured hunters who survive such accidents.
Then you have tennis. Tennis is very trendy and very fruity, but it's not a sport. It's just a way to meet other trendy fruits. Technically, tennis is an advanced form a Ping-Pong. In fact, tennis is Ping-Pong played while standing on the table. Great concept, not a sport.
In fact, all racket games are nothing more the derivatives of Ping-Pong. Even volleyball is, technically, racketless, team Ping-Pong played with an inflated ball and raised net while standing on the table.
And finally welcome to golf. For my full take on golf, I refer you elsewhere in the book, but let it just be said golf is a game that might possibly be fun, if it could be played alone. But it's the vacuous, striving, superficial, male-bonding joiners one has to associate with that makes it such a repulsive pastime. And it is decidedly not a sport. Period.
From George Carlin's book Napalm and Silly Putty
Pristine_Cicada_5422@reddit
Yes, in some very small areas, many high schools have teams, but that’s probably because the rich districts have it, so others follow suit.
wwhsd@reddit
It’s had the reputation of being a sport for rich kids at prep schools but it gets played by more than just rich kids.
I really love the sport and would like to see it grow outside of the parts of the country where it’s been popular.
hat_finder@reddit
Yes
OkayDay21@reddit
Not really. There is definitely a stereotype about rich kids who play lacrosse, but every public high school has a team. It’s a popular sport. I would also say that stereotype is about boy’s lacrosse. Girl’s lacrosse is a very different game, different vibe.
BrokenManOfSamarkand@reddit
I mean theres a difference between rich and rich. Yes, maybe a certain type of private Catholic or prep school situation is more likely to feature lacrosse bros, but I really dispute the notion that it's a "rich" sport. Its more like a middle brow, somewhat well off but still middle class rather that more traditionally snooty sports like, say, equestrian.
OldRaj@reddit
Sort of. But if you’re basing this notion on the equipment cost then ice hockey is a sport played exclusively by the fabulously wealthy, which it isn’t.
NemeanMiniLion@reddit
Yes. And I've never seen it played with legit equipment in person, even by chance.
Annihilator_Of_Walls@reddit
Indubitably
AdamOnFirst@reddit
Sorta, but only because it’s mostly popular in the east coast, especially at traditional prep schools
yellowrose04@reddit
Pretty much.
7empestSpiralout@reddit
Yes
Judgy-Introvert@reddit
I’ve never thought of it that way.
LakeTwo@reddit
Yep
quitealargeorangecat@reddit
Not really. My public high school had a lacrosse team.
alvysinger0412@reddit
Yes