Please can we get some honesty
Posted by Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit | GenX | View on Reddit | 33 comments
Ok let me just say I’m a GenZ and based on what i experienced all Gen X does is lie, gaslight and manipulate the truth or can’t say the truth at all. Yall can’t handle conversations and it leads to a very frustrating experience
Even person older than me. My best explanation is ppl born between “genx-millennial” has lied to me and kept the truth from me. Angry if a I call out a lie or made they can’t hear the truth.
Let me start by saying is I nearly unalived myself due to this. I was kept away from so much isolated lied to as if I didn’t know anything. Conversation became feeling sorry for my emotions or sorry for making a connection. It was made to be I need to stay in a kids place but as an adult it became me attacking and being argumentative.
Idk my family history my family immigrated from Jamaica to NY in 1995 I was born in 02. I don’t even know my grandma childhood or how she was as a kids and she died at 59 when I wasn’t even 13 yet.
Let me bring up a specific scenario. 9/11 i remember a specific object. Made of crystal we had on the coffee table. Idk what it was or if it was real but this would be before I was 4 years old but older than 2. My uncle remembers but doesn’t know what it was I know he does. He told he don’t know why I’m asking about it. My mother said I remember a lot but she doesn’t remember it. My aunt flat out says she don’t remember.
I ask my friend who’s older 54 i absolutely can’t asked about anything prior to what I was born. Every store he tells me all the same stories. I mentioned 9/11 but he doesn’t like to talk about cause he lost a lot of ppl. I understood of course but everything else is given the same reason. I only ask and make this post because although I was born in 02 that was thee major event in which my history started. I’m not going to get to know my history in Jamaica cause my mother and aunt and uncle don’t remember
And other older Gen X also don’t like talking about the past.
But let me say. Y’all have a such a deep intricate and painful history that is sorrowful and hurtful to remember but is so important to know exactly what occurred during your generation life that you all had to live through.
Like I donged on how was boarding a plane different before 9/11 compared to the norm. Cause checked bags shoes off no hats is Gen Z norm.
9/11 only got me thinking because of the timeline I only heard about it in 7th grade and that made me think. Did I even know they existed before that date???
Gen X are our parents while this was going on Places getting bombed constantly after the war in Afghanistan it’s like I lived a personally bad but a norm childhood. I went to school had recess played made school friends. Been on a plane that I don’t remember but very recently after being born. All those bad things happened and you guys had to lie to keep our innocence to shield us from the terrible world we live in. You guys lie but I don’t blame any of you. We thank thank you for yall efforts yall tenacity and resilience.
You guys lived through sooooo many experiences the way I view it is baby boomers are the war babies. Genx is the post war babies. Millennial and Gen Z are rhe recovery of that.
But as an older Gen Z we aren’t kids any more tell us you history your memories because they deserve to be heard and we want to hear them. Not only to learn but to heal our trauma to understand you all and to heal your trauma and feelings and everything have you guys be heard and everything you all bottled in out.
I wrote this post in a rush I only have 2 percent left but pls this wasn’t a post to attack this was a thank you post and post to let you all know that we, and I want to what yall stories to the fullest extent.
Ray_The_Engineer@reddit
Honestly, it sounds like you have personal and family issues, and a lack of understanding about how memories/stories work for folks that are older...and you've projected all of it onto "Generation X."
I have GenZ daughters; do I "gaslight" them, lie to them, etc? Not intentionally, obviously, and I've certainly shared difficult stories and emotions with them, because they're intelligent kids and I feel that they can benefit from it. Are my stories perfect representations of history, etc? Dunno. I suppose there are flaws, deviations and omissions that favor what I'm trying to say when I repeat the story. Guess what? All older people are likely to do this to some degree when they tell their stories. The Silent Gen and Boomer folks in my life certainly have; I've caught them at it, but unlike you, it didn't set me on fire with resentment or anything.
Sounds like you have some issues to work through, and you came on here to take it out on us. Eh, whatever, do your worst lol.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
Y’all always find a way to excuse yall wrong doings. Ik I have family issues and personal issues. What I did was make a post to state that we appreciate Gen X and that we want to hear yall truth and not the fabricated lies much of this generation spews.
Theres a severe lack of accountability amongst. Theres a severe lack of respect that you guys don’t give but expect back.
Intentional or not yall do it. I stated one personal situation and one historical event. To help support and explain the topic of the conversation.
Yall want to say what other ppl need but none of yall can say what yall need for urself. Not one of you have took a step back and tried to grasp what I was saying.
Y’all saying I have mental issues when ur generation is filled with individuals with undiagnosed mental issues and yall to full of yall selves and want to convince the world tat you all fine when a good amount of you aren’t.
What group do you think is the catalyst for much of the wrong and bad going on today?
Ray_The_Engineer@reddit
I've got to be honest...based upon your ability to communicate and your lack of critical thinking ability, I've decided it's a waste of my time to debate this with you. You're stuck in some kind of "hate cycle", and you need to get psychological help. Best of luck.
Broc_Feargach@reddit
Oh sweetie. We are not the group you want to try to pick a fight with. We don’t give a shit about our own feelings (cause we have none) so we certainly are going to be worried about yours. We were also the question authority generation; so we will have no problem pressing, peppering, & pushing you with questions till we get to the bottom of things & in this case the “things” would be you.
It’s sounds like you have a lot of issues both mentally & emotionally. Please seek the help of a real & licensed mental health professional & not some twit-twat tik-tok little shit who fancies themselves as an influencer & thinks they no better than everyone else because the stayed in a Holiday-Inn Express once. Again please go seek some mental health help. There is nothing wrong in seeking help & it sounds like you could really use some.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
“I wrote this post in a rush I only have 2 percent left but pls this wasn’t a post to attack this was a thank you post and post to let you all know that we, and I want to what yall stories to the fullest extent.”
trullaDE@reddit
And you thought it was so, so very important and groundbreaking, that you absolutely HAD to post it, RIGHT NOW, without making it coherent and readable first?
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
Nothing on Reddit is important I got all my thoughts out and because I can’t save drafts I posted it.
But given the fact that I said that this may not make sense and that this post is all over the place. I will come back to fix it. Did yall not understand? When I said this post wasn’t meant to attack yall but to thank you for your efforts??? What part in those few lines wasn’t clear.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
Y’all can press and issue but yall can’t be pressed. This was suppose to a soft gentle toned post that I quickly wrote before I could correct properly state and revise before posting.
The issue is as you stated so you clearly comprehended the gist of my post. Is to say you guys have feelings. To say all the trauma you guys have gone through is worth hearing and lies don’t have to be told in order to keep this false image that yall are invincible and immune to reacting / having feelings about certain situations.
I gave a personal experience and a historical event to get y’all to acknowledge the feelings you have as a human.
It’s was a post to tell you that we understand what yall had to do. That we thank you. And that we appreciate all you done and sorry for whatever you had to endure to raise the generation after to you.
As I stated it was a post to attack. But per usual yall have yall mind set up without ounce of leeway cause yall believe understand everything.
Melekai_17@reddit
No one can understand you. Learn to write more clearly.
AnnabellaPies@reddit
r/mentalhealthsupport might be a good stop for you to make if you are a real person. And familysearch can help you find information on your family if you have questions
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
“I wrote this post in a rush I only have 2 percent left but pls this wasn’t a post to attack this was a thank you post and post to let you all know that we, and I want to what yall stories to the fullest extent.”
Melekai_17@reddit
Repeating it doesn’t make it any more coherent.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
There’s other comments for you to read smart one. Take the time to read it
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
So say that and I will try to convey it properly. Y’all taking a post that’s suppose to uplift you all and tell yall that we appreciate ur efforts and want to hear yall history. Into something so negative.
It’s impossible to have any sort of conversation with any of you cause yall lack the ability to give anybody a chance.
FamousOnceNowNobody@reddit
You don't know what "trauma" is. The "lies" you are claiming are are probably us trying to get rid of you, and prevent you wailing about your feelings being hurt. Instead you wail about that.
We don't have feelings. We have no guts to spill. Go away.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
Y’all do have feelings stop acting like you don’t and that an issue and why yall are catalyst for what’s going on today as was baby boomers before yourselves.
Sooner yall accept yall aren’t invincible yall have trauma and yall have feelings the sooner things will get better. But half yall don’t even want to sit and listen to anyone and understand. Much less acknowledge when yall are wrong.
You admit you have trauma u admit you tell lies but instead of sitting down and working through the cause and effect you say I’m wailing about my feelings being hurt when ur actively hurting too. And yall lie why???
A open wound can’t heal unless you take out the foreign object and patch the skin. And yall aren’t tougher because you decide to continue to walk with that wound open
FamousOnceNowNobody@reddit
Point proved. You asked us to be honest. We were, and now you're crying for the waaahmbulance because we didn't tell you what you wanted to hear.
You are imagining other people's thoughts and generating scenarios to make yourself a victim. This is not healthy, and you need serious mental health attention. Get help.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
What am I crying about???? Me showing that I care about yall and think yall history is important and that it deserves to be heard.
How am I painting myself victim. Your lack of self awareness and comprehension definitely isn’t healthy
Endlessknight17@reddit
I tried to read that, I really did, but just couldn't do it. Can someone summarize?
Ray_The_Engineer@reddit
Youngster has issues and is challenged with writing coherently, comes on here to blame us. Meh.
tharesabeveragehere@reddit
User name confirmed
Melekai_17@reddit
LOL wut? Generalize much? I’m sorry your family doesn’t seem to be very honest with you. You can’t project all of that onto GenX, though. If anything, we’re the opposite of feeling sorry for ourselves and sugarcoating things. We’re more likely to be TOO honest about how things were.
9/11 was horrific especially for people with personal losses but it really changed us as a country, and not for the better, unfortunately. And for a lot of us it really lifted the wool from our eyes about how destructive our policies have been around the world.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
Anytime that it comes to having those conversations so many of you shut down. Deflect. And gaslight. I’m projecting this all on to Gen X why? who raised Gen Z and the earliest of that generation are just coming to age? Who raised majority of the millennials? Gen X.
Baby Boomers are all elderly. While they were the initiators of issues raised today. Y’all generation were the ones to enforce it no matter how bad it was. Enduring trauma when not needed. Yall lie how much it affects you which is why yall think yall have no feelings.
I generalized Gen X because every single one apart from you I would say, kinda, reacted as I expected. This clearly ain’t enough to be a credible census of a group. But I have yet to see a person that got the message I was trying to convey. Especially after establishing and clarifying what I said at the end.
Alcoholic_Bunny54@reddit (OP)
No one is truly honest cause yall react exactly how I expected you all to react. Yall mind made up and no understanding.
I gave a personal exp to connect it to myself and to make what I wrote less general. But the initial point was to make note of how much Gen X lies.
This wasn’t a post to attack as I stated this was a post to get y’all to understand that we understand you why you do what you do but now is a time where we as adults should make an effort to understand each other.
Retracnic@reddit
What is this?
Dull_Double_3586@reddit
Okay. I’ll bite. Being trotted out like a show pony in your Sunday best. The emphasis on appearance was so intense. Or maybe I just came from a bunch of narcissistic pricks?
TJCharter@reddit
So long story short....you have a bunch of problems and you blame everybody but yourself, especially Gen X.
speedincuzihave2poop@reddit
This sounds more like you were just exposed to Shitty people, rather than them just being associated with GenX. Also, this is not the place for a therapy session. So why are you here?
Foamfollower_65@reddit
AI slop is soooo easy to pick out.
claude3rd@reddit
I think AI is easier to understand and has less spelling mistakes.
trullaDE@reddit
That's too badly written to be AI.
bruce-neon@reddit
Beat it hippie.
YouMustBeJoking888@reddit