What movies are great representations of the zeitgeist of the Xennial life experience?
Posted by RelevantNothing4653@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 213 comments
Just some discussion here.
I think good movies that show a Xennial life experience are Clueless, American Pie, Varsity Blues
bedtimedoesntsuitme@reddit
Ghost World
BostonBlackCat@reddit
For the club kids: Go, Human Traffic, Groove.
durandall09@reddit
"Puffin da herb puffin da herb" The Russian kids at my boarding school loved Human Traffic!
Miss_Anthropologie@reddit
Party Girl with Parker Posey!
77evens@reddit
How about Spun?
New_Stats@reddit
I tried to rewatch Go a few years back, it just brought back bad feelings. Like I felt physically ill watching it, I had to turn it off
s_nation@reddit
Hackers
djsynrgy@reddit
I feel like Hackers should be ranking higher when this question comes up.
Viewers often clock the misrepresentation of technology, but with hindsight, that was the key thing that makes it such an accurate representation of life at that time: Consumers/civilians were dramatically oversold, in terms of near-future expectations.
And it also does a good job at capturing the "rebel without a clue" vibe that was kind of a hallmark among the kids I grew up with.
cm-badvibes@reddit
younger millennial here that's so crazy you guys cause I've heard of all of these but haven't watched most of them so for me it was Mean Girls, Princess Diaries , The Lizzy Mcguire movie everyone was talking about. Anyone can think of modern gen Z teen comedies that will be remembered as classics? I can't think of anything
Cool_Dark_Place@reddit
Garden State
Economy-Camp-7339@reddit
God I love this movie, it really hit that out of college navigating the fog of adulthood experience hard.
palto1234@reddit
I didn’t love it, but it really did capture the post-college, over-medicated, anxiety-ridden mindset so many of my friends and I were experiencing when it came out.
billygold18@reddit
YES!
zt3777693@reddit
Clueless Can’t Hardly Wait
Willing_Actuary_4198@reddit
Go
Numerous_Team_2998@reddit
Series are somehow easier for me to define: Buffy (the high school part, not the vampires), 90210, (Australian) Heartbreak High.
At_the_Roundhouse@reddit
It’s current, but my god Yellowjackets nails the late 90s high school experience so perfectly. The music, the bedroom posters, the Coed Naked t-shirts… it’s spot on.
itsmestanard@reddit
Yeah add in Degrassi and Freaks and Geeks. And Round the Twist 😂
AcadianTraverse@reddit
I always felt that How I met Your Mother really captured the mid-twenties/life after undergrad aspect really well and You're the Worst really spoke the experience of my thirties.
Boy meets World captured my school years experience
TrinityKilla82@reddit
Goonies. We roamed the world without a thought from our parents. All our older siblings were dicks.
SlapHappyDude@reddit
Gen X probably would fight us for this one, or at least want to share it
tettoffensive@reddit
Yea it came out when I was 3. Maybe older Xennials.
ShinyAppleScoop@reddit
It came out when I was two, but we had the VHS so it was in the rotation.
RavenSkies777@reddit
Gen X for the older kids, Xennials for the younger set
MrNinoBrown1906@reddit
Is who were born in around 1975 like myself are gen x and definitely the younger kids
TrinityKilla82@reddit
I bet on Xennials.😉
xidnpnlss@reddit
Yes. Their adventure was a live action version of an adventure my neighborhood friends and I would get up to. Complete with gangsters, pirates, booby traps, water slides and a random giant, octopus that got cut from the final. And they used foul language liberally. I remember distinctly resonating with that.
LittleAd1445@reddit
I knew this movie word for word as a kid
BalkiBartokomous123@reddit
My husband didn't watch it 75,000 times like I did growing up. It was coming on TV and I recognized the music instantly. He was amazed, "how did you know that?!?"
Comfortable-Pea-1312@reddit
grandma-activities@reddit
Hackers, Go, Can't Hardly Wait, 10 Things I Hate About You, Clueless. But the greatest isn't a movie. It's My So-Called Life.
senorfroggyhat@reddit
I scrolled down wayyyy to far to find My So Called Life mentioned. Before the term xennial was regularly used there was a piece in Slate calling us Generation Catalano and nothing had made more sense since.
grandma-activities@reddit
Even if the details were different from our individual lives, the EXPERIENCE was the same, you know?
hamburgler26@reddit
10 Things I Hate About You
ryhoyarbie@reddit
I agree, especially with all the clicks/groups some high schools had. Don’t know if that’s still a thing now a days.
funatical@reddit
They are. My oldest graduates this year as a band dork.
trainwreckhappening@reddit
Saw this with my teen just last week. Lots more dick jokes than I was comfortable with, but still an amazing show.
moxvoxfox@reddit
I took the SAT in that high school, so spot on for me!
hamburgler26@reddit
That’s awesome, such a crazy nice looking campus.
moxvoxfox@reddit
It was such a cool testing location, but what I remember most is getting hayfever, needing tissues, and making do with single-ply toilet paper, which was all the proctors could offer. I think it affected my scores, but not enough to retake. Later in life I worked in test prep and always reminded folks to bring their own tissues!
81toog@reddit
Stadium High School in Tacoma, WA
skeptical_hope@reddit
This is the one.
chronicnerv@reddit
Mulholland Drive captured what it felt like to be young.
This is a pretty surface level take, to be honest, it’s more of a feeling than a fully thought-out idea. I don’t even remember the film that clearly anymore, so I might be completely off here.
ltaylor00@reddit
Office Space - still one of the greatest documentaries ever made 😂
wookiesack22@reddit
I always think of how my job now gives me so much free time I might only do actual work 15 minutes a week. Living that office space dream. But I work from home 75% of the time too so it's even better.
No_Fun_7068@reddit
I was just thinking the other day how busy my job is and I have zero free time. Part of me is envious that these “easy” roles exist.
wookiesack22@reddit
Dont get me wrong my job is sometimes stressful. I work with kids in therapeutics foster care as a skillbuilder. So I drive all over and work with kids on goals. Much of the time we are just hanging out and going out to eat. But some weeks I dont have visits for 3 days. Many days I check my emails, then watch YouTube for 6 hours. Then take a drive to see a kid. Go out to eat with kid, then go home. I have to be on call one week every 4 months. That can cause me to get calls at 3am and sit with a kid at a psych center 2 hours away, or police calling me.
No_Fun_7068@reddit
Nothing about your role sounds easy. I couldn’t do it but I’m glad that there are people like you who can!
wookiesack22@reddit
Its so fun. And i get paid to watch TV for half the day most days. For me its perfect. I could get paid more and take other positions, but screw that. I like hanging out with kids and being lazy.
Fabulous-South-9551@reddit
Did you need a some kind of educational degree or do they just train you? Do you have any upward momentum opportunities? Genuinely curious.
wookiesack22@reddit
I have 2 associates degrees. They prefer a bachelor's. But I had years of experience also. Yes I could move up in the company easily. Im almost at the highest pay scale for my position after 5 years.
Possible-Jerk0138@reddit
Well bully for you
bugwitch@reddit
I’m sorry you don’t have enough flair.
R0botDreamz@reddit
It's amazing how accurate it is. I could remake this entire movie and find a character from my job to fit every single role.
FluffusMaximus@reddit
I worked in a bank. That job is a straight up documentary.
hamburgler26@reddit
Watching this movie as a comedy and then entering the workforce and realizing how accurate it is was mind blowing to me.
burnmenowz@reddit
Before WFH this is exactly how I felt.
https://youtu.be/4s5yHUpumkY?si=ZWKK3r7WkzsSs-AL
The look on his face.
Steel1000@reddit
The first time I got a printer error in the office after watching the office I almost died of laughter.
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
Empire Records, that’s is the epitome of what being a high schooler felt like in the 90s
bokatan778@reddit
Gwar
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
GWAR!!
yamahowzer@reddit
Angus also, especially for small town kids out west.
SavageOphelia@reddit
This.
I worked at a video store in high school with a bunch of other high schoolers and it was non-stop shenanigans at night when the manager went home. It very much felt like Empire Records.
Dont__Grumpy__Stop@reddit
Rex Manning Day is Wednesday! (April 8th)
thelaineybelle@reddit
T-shirt standing by to celebrate Rex Manning Day
BritOnTheRocks@reddit
I still haven’t seen this. I’ll have to see if it resonates with growing up on the other side of the Atlantic.
YourOwnPunkyBrewster@reddit
Yes, I’d be curious to hear if it resonates in a different culture!
Peter_Parker_99@reddit
Damn the man, save the empire!
M_Me_Meteo@reddit
... MIDNIGHT!
djsynrgy@reddit
A few worthy inclusions I haven't seen mentioned here, yet:
And to some extent, despite being a Gen. X hallmark, I feel like The Breakfast Club remained very relevant to our experience.
veglove@reddit
I'm not familiar with #2 or 3 but I 100% agree with Better Luck Tomorrow.
djsynrgy@reddit
2 and #3 are kind of like two sides of the same coin: Both are college movies; Higher Learning is drama, PCU is comedy. Both deal with similar themes but approach them in practically opposite ways.
Both are worth your time, IMHO, each for their own reasons. 🤙🏼
veglove@reddit
noted!
luxtabula@reddit
American pie
Deep-Interest9947@reddit
Kids
Typical_Dweller@reddit
I will always feel the need to mention it seems massively implausible that a dumb goon like Casper would read and enjoy Peter Bagge's Hate.
Southside_john@reddit
It’s also not that easy for HIV to spread through a single heterosexual encounter even without a condom. Statistically Casper probably wouldn’t have caught it after raping a girl
No-Cardiologist472@reddit
She got it from a single encounter so could he
Southside_john@reddit
Yeah I know. Just in the real world results not typical
Clem_bloody_Fandango@reddit
Sadly, this the most spot on representation of me and my friends.
Southside_john@reddit
Yeah, I got high once at like age 13 and my friends and I decided to stay that way for the next 6 years haha. Smoking weed, drinking, sex, skipping school and failing classes. Divorced parents were nowhere in sight
Minute-Yogurt-2021@reddit
When I watched it I was 16 and the main difference from what I did was that we don't speak English here...
SixAlarmFire@reddit
All the partying is super relatable.
triggeron@reddit
Dude
Stimpinstein22@reddit
Minus NYC and AIDS, but add a bigger friend group and part-time jobs, this was my social life. Also, the characters were probably my age, so this does represent the Xennial zeitgeist…
carryon4threedays@reddit
https://i.redd.it/siyolm5637tg1.gif
Stinkbutt596KoH@reddit
This pops up in my head all the time
Minute-Yogurt-2021@reddit
Unfortunately Kids.
doomerunicorn@reddit
One of the greatest movies I'll never watch again.
bsg_80@reddit
My very first thought.
No-Cardiologist472@reddit
Kids
Spending half your day coming up with money for weed, getting the weed, skateboarding/hanging out at a park, find a party/rave, sneak into a pool somewhere with some girls, try a drug you never had before, not realizing how close you are to possibly dying or ruining your life
mattjh@reddit
Mid-90s honestly. It has the benefit of hindsight.
djsynrgy@reddit
More people need to see this one. It's from A24; that alone speaks volumes.
It should consistently rank in the top few selections any time this topic comes up. It's an incredible snapshot of life as a kid in that last moment before the 'Net decimated monoculture.
https://youtu.be/w9Rx6-GaSIE
veglove@reddit
I'm glad you shared the trailer link, because I hadn't heard of it and was sitting here thinking "but which film from the mid-90's are you talking about? what's the title??"
trailer looks intriguing, the landscape feels super familiar
77evens@reddit
Eh, I thought this flick was just a pussy version of Kids. I remember nothing from it other than it was obvious who the director was. The beauty of Kids was that it was made during the mid 90’s by a teenager. You can’t really get much closer to zeitgeist unless it was an actual documentary.
itsmestanard@reddit
Yeah but plenty/(majority?) of us didn't live the life as portrayed in Kids. Maybe we partied a decent amount and did some dumb things, but never anything fucked up.
Mid-90s was also pretty amazing at how well it captured the 90s 25 years later. At no point did it feel like modern day actors wearing 90s outfits with bad haircuts, the whole vibe was just spot on.
77evens@reddit
I agree w/ your point on Kids. I certainly didn’t grow up in NYC and that’s almost its own character in that film. Maybe I should watch Mid-90’s again. The only thing I remember from watching it was being bored and thinking, of course Jonah Hill directed this shit. But I may have to give it another shot.
itsmestanard@reddit
That's what I loved about it. It perfectly captured what the 90s was like for many of us. Just...not much besides hanging out and talking shit and going to fairly mild - but still fun - parties
-SandorClegane-@reddit
The word "zeitgeist"
chrisdecaf@reddit
I feel like this one is more solidly Gen X.
SlapHappyDude@reddit
Agreed. Mallrats is closer to Xennial, although the main characters are 20 something slackers and mall workers, it's a pretty good representation of the mall culture we grew up as consumers of.
veglove@reddit
Chasing Amy and Dogma felt more Xennial to me.
witty_user_ID@reddit
Yeah loved it but only after finding out about it after watching Mallrats.
TrustAffectionate966@reddit
Very much Gen X.
Peter_Parker_99@reddit
I'm not even supposed to be here today.
Illustrious_Cry1028@reddit
I think this one line is the closest to embodying my entire career
BigPoppaStrahd@reddit
Inside every Xennial is two Clerks fighting for control
korbendallas13@reddit
If it wasn’t for the fucking customers.
ltaylor00@reddit
I'm not even supposed to be here today!
Appropriate-Food1757@reddit
Total Recall
walter_grimsley@reddit
Empire Records, Office Space, Can’t Hardly Wait. Ill throw Garden State and Clerks II in there too.
Fartweaver@reddit
Slc punk
YNABDisciple@reddit
Euro Trip
Fartweaver@reddit
Mescusy
Awkward-Initiative28@reddit
Don't tell Scotty.
mouse6502@reddit
Ehh… I never watched this one BITD and just recently saw it as part of an Alec Bergathon….
….Are we absolutely sure this one is as good as we remember, or is that the nostalgia kicking in?
YNABDisciple@reddit
There are great aspects. Overall it’s Eh. It’s definitely host the younger side of the Zeitgeist.
Peter_Parker_99@reddit
Super funny movie. Not really sure that it's an accurate portrayal of 90s teen life, but what does Scotty know anyways?
ouijahead@reddit
There was also one called Senior Trip. I remember renting that one and watching it with my friends.
Peter_Parker_99@reddit
Super funny movie. Not sure how accurate the portrayal of 90s teen life was like, but what does Scotty know anyways?
lil_grey_alien@reddit
Slacker (1990)
Southside_john@reddit
Slackers also
KevinMakinBacon@reddit
Pump Up the Volume
Apprehensive-Fig3223@reddit
Mrs Doubtfire
Toys
World's Best Dad
erino3120@reddit
Clueless
Apprehensive-Fig3223@reddit
Now I'm rollin with the homies
frazzledcats@reddit
Don’t tell Mom the babysitters dead, Go, Hackers
ericwbolin@reddit
Can't Hardly Wait
Shanntuckymuffin@reddit
Last night my husband and I were literally talking about how historically accurate this movie is. Why you gotta waste my flava?!?!
Sighlina@reddit
I gots a ninety-two percent chance of embarrassing myself. I roll up on that shorty be like, "What's up yo?" she be like, "You don't know 20 different ways to make me call you Big Poppa" cuz I don't yo.
sigm45@reddit
Holy shit, that just took me back. I loved quoting that line in college as a joke. Man…
holyfruits@reddit
I love that Seth Green is wearing Fila Underglass, I had a pair when I was 12 and they were amazing
dman-5000@reddit
Still regularly use: Preston…you know…kinda tall, has hair, and wears tshirts sometimes. Yeah, Preston!
Afraid-Art-2802@reddit
bro deadass for sure forgot about that one, was like my vibe during high school
DirtyBirdDawg@reddit
Yep! As someone who graduated in '98, this one has always had a special place in my heart.
billygold18@reddit
Yes!
Decent-Ad-5110@reddit
I dont have a movie but if it was a music video i felt relatable to it would be Zero by Imagine Dragons, (which may also feature in a movie, idk)
I dont particularly enjoy that song but i had a misspent youth in the game arcades so i felt that visual relates
jackfaire@reddit
Can't Hardly Wait is probably the best honestly with the exception that in real life the girl who found a letter you wrote years earlier about her would more likely be creeped out.
carryon4threedays@reddit
Varsity Blues, American Pie, Can’t Hardly Wait
Dazed and Confused took place I. The 70s but still indicative of small town TX in the late 90s.
itsmestanard@reddit
Similar here but small town Australia - just without the junior/senior HS students and hazing dynamics.
epidemicsaints@reddit
Ghost World
adolfojp@reddit
I got to revisit that movie recently and I got to enjoy it from a different perspective.
When I was young and I watched that movie I saw it through the eyes of Thora Birch and Scarlett Johansson.
But now that I'm in my later years I've found that I enjoy sharing old eclectic music with younger people, like Steve Buscemi's character.
The movie holds up so well, but perhaps in unexpected but predictable ways.
shagy815@reddit
Suburbia
castortroys01@reddit
Such an impact on me, especially the soundtrack.
Later days.
batgranny@reddit
From a UK perspective: Human Traffic
Unopposed_Weirdo@reddit
SLC Punk
tmotytmoty@reddit
Im not a huge fan but, can’t hardly wait
Slopii@reddit
Beavis & Butthead Do America
red_bird85@reddit
Welcome to the Dollhouse
Lafemmedelargent@reddit
I gotta go with Hackers. While Can't Hardly Wait and Empire records is also historically accurate, and I grew up in a very wealthy suburb so 10 Things I Hate About You is more visually aligned with the town I grew up in... Hackers really gets the clothing, makeup, hair, crushes 😍, music, and complete lack of parental oversight pitch perfect.
Special Mention to With Honors for showing us how all our parents were dead ass wrong about us getting more conservative as we aged.
yardini@reddit
I just watched Blast From the Past yesterday and part of it happens in the late 90s and it is a VERY SPECIFIC time period in our late teens-early adulthood.
RelevantNothing4653@reddit (OP)
Cruel Intentions, I Know What You Did Last Summer
PuppyJakeKhakiCollar@reddit
Welcome to the Dollhouse certainly captured the darker side of xennial life, as anyone who has been a victim of bullying can attest. So well done but also painful to watch.
Trick-Session2388@reddit
I have to watch this movie once every two or three years.
Laughing_Allegra@reddit
Clueless, Heathers, Cruel Intentions
Caftancatfan@reddit
Romey and Michelle’s High School Reunion
fermentedradical@reddit
Gas Food Lodging
djsynrgy@reddit
Never heard of this one! Just watched the trailer and it looks pretty good.
Diseman81@reddit
Angus
IcarusForPrez@reddit
Mallrats
picollo7@reddit
Mall Rats
Wonderful-Truck-3301@reddit
Watching this right now on ifc
Peter_Parker_99@reddit
That kid is back on the escalator.
yamahowzer@reddit
Like the back of a Volkswagen?
Country_Gravy420@reddit
Such an awesome movie
kayla622@reddit
10 Things I Hate About You, Bring It On
kcg0431@reddit
“I have a dick on my face, don’t I?”
kayla622@reddit
lol!
It must be Nigel with the Brie!
EastCoastDizzle@reddit
I forget that character’s name but he has me rolling everytime I see the movie.
Safe_Presentation_78@reddit
Swingers - the banter and playfighting between the guys, especially while they're playing video games.
I could also relate to Jon Favreau's character as he was getting over a serious relationship and trying to move on. All of the awkward answering messages, etc.
HearseWithNoName@reddit
Napoleon Dynamite
But ONLY bc I actually grew up in that town and Jared did a great job at showing what it was like irl.
xidnpnlss@reddit
George Araki’s Nowhere. If you haven’t seen it, it’s a must watch as a Xennial.
then Goonies then Can’t Hardly Wait
vulgarvinyasa2@reddit
Kids
VideoApprehensive@reddit
For me, Ghost World did a good job of capturing that feeling of just wandering around an absurd world as a bored youngster pre 9/11. "look, the pants are still there!" I dont think I want to rewatch that one though. The writer, Daniel Clowes, has some wild, dark graphic novels.
Awkward-Initiative28@reddit
I think I watched it once a month when I had it on DVD about 20 years ago.
Typical_Dweller@reddit
Enid is the last gasp of pre-internet ironic cool kids.
goofytigre@reddit
Mallrats
Narc78@reddit
You guys should check Been caught stealing. It’s not exactly what op was asking for, but still an amazing movie playing in the mid/late 90s.
Typical_Dweller@reddit
It really feels like a particularly high-quality example of the Tarantino rip offs that exploded in the late 90s.
Zrcadbro@reddit
Lots of teen movies mentioned in these comments and no one has mentioned Clueless? "It does not say RSVP on the Statue of Liberty"
Typical_Dweller@reddit
Super Dark Times (up to the point the real drama starts I suppose)
PapaTua@reddit
Hackers was right on target for me.
AcadianTraverse@reddit
Frances Ha captured the early adulthood aspect of the Xennial experience to me.
kcg0431@reddit
Titanic. I remember girls from my school going to see it in theaters MULTIPLE times.
xt0rt@reddit
Mallrats!
EdStarkJr@reddit
Superbad
Awkwardpanda75@reddit
Heathers. I just rewatched recently and caught so many subtleties that my 14 year old brain didn’t catch. Worth a rewatch.
FoxExpensive9319@reddit
Mid 90s ,and kids
Rodeoqueenyyc@reddit
Not at all representative in plot to the life lived in my suburban normie high school, but we made a pull off “days until Cruel Intentions comes out calendar” in our English classroom. Opening night show was sold out with basically everyone in my high school there. The class clown ripped an insanely loud fart in the “colorblind” sex scene. Everyone’s at In N Out or Nations after. Going to that movie at a now-shuttered multiplex was peak high school Xennial life experience.
Timmonidus@reddit
99 Cigerettes
Timmonidus@reddit
American Pie
Fibbersaurus@reddit
Pulp Fiction
Mind-of-Jaxon@reddit
Fight Club
s_nation@reddit
my go-to CSS color is cornflower blue
Awkward-Initiative28@reddit
Election, Ghost World, Lady Bird
_meestir_@reddit
Lady Bird!
Hit harder case I went to Davis lol
Rodeoqueenyyc@reddit
Saw it at the Tower Theater while living in Sac. Great love letter to an underrated city.
jivemasterjohn@reddit
Old school
S_A_R_K@reddit
disneyplusser@reddit
An early one, but it showed our comedic reactions to everything around us: CB4
Matt-J-McCormack@reddit
American Pie as a metaphor. Boomers are Jim and we are the pie.
pebbles_temp@reddit
Wayne's World may seem a little off in regards to representing teen culture. But 90s teens loved it so it i think it deserves a mention
hi984390@reddit
Was just telling my kid how my whole junior high sang along to Bohemian Rhapsody at our dance, all jammed around the dj, belting it out. I love thinking about how mystified the older people must have been that we all glommed onto that song when we did. Kinda like me seeing my kid listening to Tears for Fears and wondering how they found them! At least he has the internet.
lizardbeff@reddit
Super Bad
billygold18@reddit
YES!
ArcadeKingpin@reddit
Might be my favorite movie ever.
_meestir_@reddit
Goonies is the closest representation to my childhood as it gets. Neighborhood kids meet at someone’s house, make a plan to do something, jump on bikes for the day and get into mischievous adventures.
RunRickeyRun@reddit
Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle
absentlyric@reddit
The Faculty.
Even as a horror movie that movie got the closest to our fashion from my midwest area as a 1999 grad.
schullringus@reddit
Natural born killers
timshel_turtle@reddit
I fall more on the Millennial side but find The Spectacular Now novel & film to be just stunning at capturing the feeling, moreso than just clothes and songs.