This is going to vary depending on where you are, but in general our culture is informal so using such honorifics would be seen as weird and uncomfortable.

Now, you can usually get away with sir/ma'am, especially in the South where it's more expected. But for us it's a marker of politeness, not friendliness. A Walmart checker would call a customer sir/ma'am for instance. Guys will sometimes tell you "no don't call me sir, that's my father" and sometimes women will take "ma'am" to mean that they look old. But if you ARE in a formal situation with the mayor or something, it would be appropriate to call him sir.

There are some women who call everyone honey or sweetie, though this is more common in southern or rural places. Men don't usually use those terms but instead might say darlin' (never pronounce the g though). Darling is reserved for your wife or something, but darlin' can be used with anyone. However, typically only older Southern men use it, as most women think it's creepy these days.

If in a casual situation, you can get away with "dude" sometimes. Most people view it as gender neutral, but there are some people who get offended by it. Same with how you can usually refer to a group of mixed gender as "you guys" but occasionally you'll find a woman who objects.

But, in general we don't call strangers by any particular honorific as a matter of course. Honorifics or titles are reserved for formal situations or if you're a child or the person you're talking to is old/rich/an authority figure. For instance a priest would be called Father. A CEO/policeman/lawyer would be sir or Mr. (Name) unless he tells you to call him by his first name. A doctor is always Dr. So-and-so, not Mr. or Mrs. College professors and other academic people are also often (but not universally) Dr. although in this case it means they have a PhD instead of being a medical doctor. A child would call a teacher Mr./Mrs./Miss/Ms. So-and-so. That's about the extent of our formality heh