Do you call yourself a Xennial or Millennial?
Posted by person12848@reddit | Xennials | View on Reddit | 896 comments
Based on “the seam” of being between Gen X and Millennials, if you fall under 1976-1985, which do you call yourself?
randomUserAction@reddit
Neither, because I don't care. Call me what you want, I got work to do. Born in '77 and tired of other generations trying to label me. All I know, people who greet emails starting PFB (Please find below) are lazy and concatenating Please to "P" weakens the genuine request for polite attention.
yodamastertampa@reddit
I'm GenX 1976 but that sub is too old for me
Ok-Chemist-6781@reddit
Oregon Trail generation.
CobraCommander463@reddit
I like Star Wars generation 77 - 83 😆
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
Name seems a little odd though since it wasn't the generation that actually saw the films in theaters as little kids.
CobraCommander463@reddit
Ha ha but I did see Return of the Jedi in the theater. I was born in 78.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
OK yeah well some did see ROTJ.
But none saw the first two (I mean I guess maybe there are a tiny tiny few early 1977 born who maybe saw ESB? sort of?).
AtaracticGoat@reddit
Pretty sure all of us grew up with Star Wars.
I'm 84' and I still have my original Star Wars fighters from when I was a kid on a display shelf in my office.
PORTOGAZI@reddit
Im 1980 and saw ROTJ in the motherfuckin theatre though. We're not the same.
j/k it means nothing.
Teasing_Pink@reddit
Gen X-Wing
cnymassageguy@reddit
Dood THIS
Automatic-Raspberry3@reddit
That’s what I’ve used. 79 seems too late to be Gen X.
thepuncroc@reddit
Most generations run for 20ish years. Gen x starts with 65ish (20ish years after ww2 babies were born this started their own breeding regimen).
Some asshole though capping genx shorter made sense to be cute for creating a new one early for marketing.
Most millennials should be Gen x, or more gen x like, than they should be much like millennials unless they're neurodivergent-lots.of undiagnosed nds had arrested development for a while and on the whole track younger and less mature,.so probably bonded more with the millennial marker.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
X originally was defined as something like 1958-1975 by Coupland who created Gen X. He based it around a '61-'64 core and '56/8ish-'60 and '65-'75ish extensions. A bit later he decided that shorter generations made more sense and he switched things to: 1956-1964 Gen X; 1965-1975 Gen Benetton/Gen Shampoo Planet/Gen Global Teens (LOL), 1976-1986 Gen unnamed, etc.
Then TIME made it 1961-1972. Then right after Advertising Age went 1961-1973 and started a new Gen Y 1973-1980s-something. There was H&S though with a "13th Generation" 1961-1981 and Millennials 1982-2004.
In 1997 TIME switched Gen X to 1965-1978. Gen Y starting in 1979.
Even in summer of 2000 avg person on the street was unsure about stuff and many thought X ended around 1975-1976. Like Britanny Murphy in a video says (as a 1977) that she just missed being X by a year or two in a summer of 2000 video store visit.
And some various other versions too. One researcher also used decade long generations and split along the lines of: '55-'64, '65-'75, '76-'85, etc.
thepuncroc@reddit
Then that's a lot of people being wrong about a lot of things.
The boomers made sense: ww2 ended, GIs came back, and the marshall plan babies got cranked out for 20 years. 1965 makes sense.as a start because those kids had no investment or role in any of the 60s counterculture, but their parents were the failed,.embarrassed shameful hippies who became the yuppies.
Being under 5 in 1970.dodnt matter the way being 15 in 1980.did.
But those same ex hippie parents all stopped being hippie scum and sold.out, popping out cocaine babies until 1984.when the 80s shifted culturally hard and fast thanks not to Iran contra reshaping culture, but because of slick haired wall stret douches doing the Lords work,.and by Lord we mean Reagan and his psychics.
Generations make more sense when you think about their parents and the baggage they bring.
This is why millennial babies actual millennial.babies, being shot out in full force by 85 make sense: their parents were too young to ever.habe nam,.the draft, or a political scandal that mattered actually make an impression.
As a result they grew up sheltered and weak.
The latch key water hose pre.internet childhoods but not necessarily late teenhoods of.kids whose parents knew vietnam was bullshit, the economy was bullshit,.and we were all going to die from Russian nukes or leaded.gasoline shaped the detached slacker progressive activist that wanted to save the systems, not check out of them, that exemplifies Gen x "I don't care what you think but hit damn I care what I think about the world beyond myself because I'm not a valid narcissist" mentality.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
A lot of first wave X have Silent Gen parents.
A lot of the full on hippies stayed hippies and many of the yuppies came from all the many who were never hippies to begin with.
Cocaine wasn't around THAT much once you got outside of wall street, Hollywood, pro sports, major D1 sports, pro music scenes, certain big city club scenes, uber rich kid circles and such.
I do agree that there did seem to be a bit of a shift starting around maybe 1986 borns or so. I didn't really notice participation trophy attitudes among anyone born before then, but definitely among some born around then or later.
But there was also a pretty big shift and transition around '75-'77 or so for some aspects, especially style/music/vibe (as well as getting raised on media scare stories vs. not). So closer to 10 year generations sort of works better. But generations never really ever quite work out or make sense.
nobot4321@reddit
Yeah, having hard cutoffs for generations is stupid. Some people will say 79 is gen x and 80 is millennial, but it's not like some switch flipped. I am late 79 and have always identified a lot more with millennials than gen x.
analogthought@reddit
Ironically, 79 here and I’ve always related more to x than millennial. I’ve always attributed it to siblings. I was the youngest by 8 years- so a lot of what I was exposed to and remember growing up was my age and older thanks to that.
dallyan@reddit
I joke that I have the age of a Gen X and the downward mobility of a millennial.
Mysterious_Sound2765@reddit
🤣
grandma-activities@reddit
I think our birth order has a lot to do with whether we identify more with X or Millennials. I'm the younger sister, and our parents are Boomers. Definitely more X to me than Millennial. But my friends born in 1979 who are the oldest kid in the family relate more to Millennial culture than to Gen X.
Melicious_1709@reddit
Yep, my best friend had much older siblings who indoctrinated us into the ways of Gen X.
distant_diva@reddit
interesting! i’m the youngest of 5 born in ‘78 & my 4 older gen x siblings are all much older (‘67-‘73). i felt very removed from them & def feel closer to a millennial mindset. although that’s not quite right either. that’s why i totally relate to this xennial label 🤣
jbenze@reddit
Same.
JayTeeRhee@reddit
Same here, can’t identify as much with millennials as I can with Gen X. Pokemon and emo and nu metal were just not for me, it was for kids!
Elenakalis@reddit
1980 here and oldest sibling. I've always skewed millennial. But my friends with older siblings still consider themselves Gen Xers, even if they were born in 81-82 because they relate more to Gen X.
Royal-Pen3516@reddit
November of 79 here and had two much older sisters, so I've always identified a LOT more with gen X
specks_of_dust@reddit
December of 79, also older sister and cousins. I am male, so got left behind when the girls got into teen stuff. I think that’s where I lost a lot of my Gen X essence, but I don’t really relate to millennials either.
nobot4321@reddit
That's funny because my sister is 5 years older and firmly gen x and looking at her is what makes me feel like I don't really identify totally with her experience.
OwslyOwl@reddit
Every cut off I’ve seen is 1980 rather than 1979. My thought is if you are the youngest and born in 1980, you’re Gen X. If you’re the oldest, you’re Millenial.
bcece@reddit
Right. I am late 80 but spouse is 77. Some things I am more Gen X than him. Some things you would think he is a millennial.
writtensparks@reddit
Interestingly, I'm 83 and I always identified more with Gen X than Millennials.
I think (for me at least) it has to do with family income. We didn't have a lot of money so when new technology started coming out, we didn't get it. We lived in a more rural area with only one vehicle so we didn't go a lot of places. We couldn't afford a lot of the things people mention when they talk about millennial childhood, so I hear about gen x kids/youth and that resonates more with me.
peesys@reddit
same!
PuppyJakeKhakiCollar@reddit
78 here and same, at least with the older Millennials. I may be wrong but I could have sworn the late 70s were originally included in the millennial side of things and it got changed somewhere along the way.
c0147@reddit
The term Millennial was coined to identify the cohort of children that graduated high school in the year 2000.
FradinRyth@reddit
Do you have siblings and where do you fall in order? I'm the youngest of 3 and even as a late '81 I've always identified way more with Gen X than Millennials. I've always wondered if older or younger siblings influences our perspectives more then just birth year.
garden_g@reddit
Yep
shiranami555@reddit
I was born towards the end of 79. How am I supposed to represent a generation when I was pretty young during its height.
Upbeat_Tart_4897@reddit
I’m late summer 79 and definitely relate to Xennial more, especially bc I have younger parents
42_and_lex@reddit
I always used Nintendo generation myself, it really was a massive cultural phenomenon for those born between 80 and 85. It probably was the first "computer" those kids used.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
yeah that or Oregon Trail make more sense
C1sko@reddit
The Goonies Generation.
pryingtuna@reddit
This is the correct answer.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
except The Goonies were all pre-Xennial X in the movie.... and the movie was seen in theaters by pre-Xennials....
Morriganx3@reddit
This is my favorite one!
poppykettle@reddit
I also like the duck tales generation I've heard us referred to as before
WheezyGonzalez@reddit
Same.
QualityAssumption@reddit
Yep. 1980 here and this is the best description
Conscious-Code6612@reddit
Xennial, all my influence growing up was the older guys who were Gen X my parents were at the end of baby boomer Gen
Designer-Travel4785@reddit
I consider myself as gen X. I don't really refer to myself by my generation.
SurviveDaddy@reddit
I stuck with Gen X for the longest time, because I didn’t want to get lumped in with Millennials.
Xennial is a good middle ground.
burnednotdestroyed@reddit
I never felt like I fit with Gen X; when I think back on seminal Gen X media, those actors/artists were practically grownups to 'kid' me. I lean much more towards the Millennial mindset so Xennial feels right.
Fasttrackyourfluency@reddit
I’m the same year and agree but for me it was because when Gen X were cool I was constantly being told I wasn’t Gen X 🤨🤯
Which was annoying but also made sense because my cousins are solid Gen X born 1966-69 and i definitely felt like a different Gen to them
It’s very confusing and I think Xennial was perfect tbh
OkFeedback9127@reddit
I feel Xennial is appropriate even though Ibrelate more to millennials
TangoPRomeo@reddit
I'm late-ish Gen X, but I prefer Xennial. My parents got a computer really early, so I was more at home with computers than most of Gen X.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
Home computers were not that rare for Gen X as people seem to think.
TangoPRomeo@reddit
They weren't rare, but I remember no one else at school had one yet. I think we had a C64 for maybe 4 years before PCs became affordable-ish. Started programming on that C64 when I was 7. 🤣
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
IBM clones were crap though anyway. Atari 800/C64 and such way more fun and in many ways more advanced. And then when the Amiga arrived that just blew every last aspect of IBM/MS out of the water.
Early on starting around 1982-1984 (maybe 1981 for one or two Apple kids) some kids had Apple II+/Apple IIe and a few more had C64 and most had Atari 800 (although across the US I believe the C64 was more common than Atari but in my region Atari 8bits ruled). One friend had an IBM. I went Amiga at the start of 1986 and another kid shortly after. A few got Atari ST. I think one got a MAC. IBM junk started becoming more common over time. There were a lot of wars then (1982-1988 and even into the 90s for Amiga/atari ST vs IBM/MS/MAC) between the Apple/IBM/MS crowd and the Atari/Amiga/C64 crowd, the latter believed all the IBM/MS/Apple marketing BS about having 'real' and 'serious' machines and the other stuff being plastic toys but we just laughed at how primitive their over-priced stuff without any custom chips or anything was hah. (Apple II does at least get credit for being first and even the MAC first to GUI/mouse since Atari execs were dopes and kept wanting to milk 8bit longer and so Amiga ended up coming out after instead of before MAC).
Yeah 7 is pretty young (and obviously just about impossible for many earlier X, other than for with an Apple II, but barely anyone had Apple II in 1977). C64 came out when I was 12. I got an Atari 800 then when in middle school 1982. Some decent number of other kids got one not too long after. We did lots of floppy copy game trading and already word processing for middle school papers. By some time or other in high school most kids, one way or another, seemed to be using word processing for school papers now.
When I went to college in the late 80s it seemed like 95%, probably more like 98%, came along with their own home computer. Although perhaps the numbers were not as high at all colleges/universities then.
ravingwanderer@reddit
Kind of the same with music. I see lots of Van Halen music in high school with Gen X, but was more Nirvana, RHCP’s, PJ for me.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
Yeah the music and style flipped almost upside down between earlier and later X.
I'm pre-Xennial X and in high school it was, for the mainstream a real mix of all sorts of stuff and seemed less segmented by type and sex than for later X but also lots of stuff somewhat opposite of the stuff later X goes on about so like one second might be listening to Journey and then Def Leppard the next, Kate Bush the next, Debbie Gibson the next, Susanne Vega the next, Van Halen the next, Bruce Springsteen, 80s Heart, Samantha Fox, Duran Duran, Aerosmith+RunDMC, Expose, Pat Benatar, Belinda Carlisle, Vixen, The Bangles, Poison, The Psychedelic Furs, Madonna, The Cure, Warrant, The Hooters, Tiffany, Phil Collins, Billy Joel, Led Zeppelin, Tear For Fears, U2, Whitney Houston, Queen, Cyndi Lauper, Laura Branigan, Deniece Williams, The Human League, The Pretenders, Irene Cara, Dan Hartman, Bon Jovi, Starship, Billy Ocean, Whitesnake, Aretha Franklin, George Michael, Lisa Lisa, Olivia Newton-John, Pebbles, Sheen Easton, Prince, Michael Jackson, Motley Crue, The Buggles, AC/DC, Patti Smyth/Scandal, Fleetwood Mac, 70s Heart, The Clash, OMD, Soft Cell, Rod Stewart, Bananarama, Paula Abdul, The Cars, Kool And The Gang, Wang Chung, Flock Of Seagulls, Level 42, Missing Persons, Modern English, John Parr, Eric Carmen, 'Til Tuesday, T'Pau, Simple Minds, INXS, Tina Turner, Patti Labelle, Stacey Q, Jeff Healy Band, Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes, David Lee Roth, The Go-Gos, etc.
And yeah style wasn't exactly grunge/hip-hop inspired much:
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judgeholden72@reddit
Same. I am a bit younger than you, and while my music tends GenX, my humor and cultural touchpoints are more millennial.
It probably helps that I spend more time with people younger than me than older than me. My very millennial wife does not feel there's any GenX in me, which I am ok with, but she also never gets my 80s movie references.
toooldforthisshittt@reddit
I feel gen x but I was the youngest sibling and we had cable. I know most of the pop culture.
Individual-Schemes@reddit
That's the catch. I'm the youngest, plus I had boyfriends who were older than me. If I had to choose, I'm GenX (1979), but Xennial is obviously the best choice.
Eep509@reddit
Exactly me too, I was born in 81 but I’m the youngest by (10-15 years) So I feel like a really tech savvy Gen X
BumbleTeacup@reddit
Same. I had two older brothers who were solidly Gen X. I was barely Gen X.
calebpagan@reddit
78 here. Same sentiment.
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
We were all Gen X until the late 90s
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
actually X used to end like 1973-1978 until nearly 2000 and it was Gen Y that covered Xennials (and a bit earlier and later)
whiskeytown79@reddit
I stuck with Gen X until the older Gen Xers started trending inexplicably MAGA in their political leanings. Now I'm firmly Xennial.
Sparklesnow77@reddit
Feels like more of an Urban/ Rural divide to me. But that's just my experience.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
also a money and education divide, these days money and education actually tend to more often = liberal, unlike back in the past (especially the money side of things; although a certainly of money certainly goes conservative even MAGA no matter what to save a few bucks)
Inc-Roid@reddit
There's idiots/MAGA across all generations.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
In 2024 1980 born X/Millennials also voted more for MAGA.
Only 1990/2000/1950 borns voted for Harris.
And 1980 born switched to MAGA majority ahead of schedule compared to 1970 borns actually by a few years.
Lord-Curriculum@reddit
That's what bugs me. How do you go from anti establishment Grunge like Nirvana to MAGA? How!?
TheGirlwThePinkHair@reddit
Do we really not remember all the preppy kids? I’m sure they’re all MAGA now. POS
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
It's not at all as simple as that.
I know tons of brainy preppies who are very liberal and utterly against MAGA.
What I do note is nearly every last bully from HS is MAGA and barely any from near the top of the graduating class are (and plenty of these were somewhat preppy-ish).
Myanonymousunicorn@reddit
Ohhhhh riiiiight.
It’s so funny, while I was a teen those were the majority and the popular kids and our group was called “alternative” and mean literally. And now everyone forgot that the grunge and all that was actually not the mainstream. So when they put on our flannels we called them posers. And now those posers run the country and vote maga.
Jupitersd2017@reddit
Ugh hell yes they are, that little group of sassy girls in the Adams family movie that were lead by that Amanda I’m sure would also be maga now. The ones realizing Gary’s vision 😂
ahoypolloi_@reddit
The same way Boomers went from Woodstock to Gordon Gecko.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
most of the true hippies didn't become Gordon Geckos though, that was much more often totally different crowds
GenericDave65@reddit
Like having a Deadhead sticker on a Cadillac
BeenisHat@reddit
Don't look back. You can never look back.
GamerDadofAntiquity@reddit
Xennial. I then have to explain what a Xennial is, because if someone isn’t one, they typically don’t even know what a Xennial is.
Face88888888@reddit
I thought I knew what love was. What did I know…
Polar_Version875@reddit
Those days are gone forever, I should just let ‘em go…
GramercyPlace@reddit
Don Henley has entered the chat.
t_bone_stake@reddit
And hearing that little voice inside your head saying “don’t look back, you can never go back.”
jcstrat@reddit
I saw a Tool sticker on a new caddy the other day and it reminded me of this.
jeophys152@reddit
The boomers that went to Woodstock were the rich kids
CallidoraBlack@reddit
Hippies were mostly rich kids LARPing poverty to piss off their parents. The original Trustafarians.
Myanonymousunicorn@reddit
Hmm that was definitely both my husbands parents….
kcg0431@reddit
Yep. The ones who avoided the draft.
wheres_the_revolt@reddit
My dad was given a free ticket by a buddy, was in the general area, and didn’t go because he was in the navy and didn’t want to get in trouble. 😂
cyberllama@reddit
My father claims he went to Woodstock. In his story, he went with friends and thought they were going to the other Woodstock where Blenheim Palace is. I probably believed him when I was very young.
Lanky_Rhubarb1900@reddit
I kind of feel the same about some Gen X. The ones who fucked around the most could afford to because they had privilege and a built-in safety net. When they finally had to grow up and get a job they had an in through a relative and were like “oh I guess I really like this money thing I’ve been pretending to hate”. And just like that, a 3 bdrm 2.5 bath is “too cramped for my growing family.”
ahoypolloi_@reddit
I meant the Woodstock generation more so than the event itself
mjc500@reddit
I’m convinced that singe “greed is good” line did irreversible damage to our entire society
GarminTamzarian@reddit
"Something-D-O-O economics..."
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"...Voodoo economics."
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
Earlier X wasn't generally into Nirvana a lot.
More saw Nirvana as ending X culture not defining it TBH.
More apt is how the hell do you go from raw raw U.S. Constitution, Gorbachev TEAR DOWN THIS WALL and like every movie with USSR and Nazis and dictators and authoritarians as the villains to MAGA and kissing Putin's ass and supporting Jan 6th???????????????
I think a lot is bad info and over-reacting to hyper PC and annoying stuff like that and they recklessly way over-reacting and sticking head in the sand.
yeah I don't know. I will say though even though all too many did go MAGA, there are still a good 40% who are not MAGA at all and among those are many of the most anti-MAGA people I've ever met (granted among the other 50%+ are some of the most MAGA I have ever met). I will also say that almost every last bully at my high school is in MAGA. Very, verrry few from anywhere near the top of the graduating class are.... for what that is worth.
DavePeesThePool@reddit
I think it has something to do with the "I got mine, fuck the rest of you" mindset. Unfortunately I think we're going to see a number of our micro-generation flip to this mindset in the next 10-15 years.
Kapo77@reddit
I dunno man. I feel like I really have got mine and have succeeded more than I ever thought I would... And I hate this MAGA shit. I've come through economic disaster after disaster and saw my parents generation have it like 30x easier... And I'm very aware of how each generation behind us has had it worse and worse and worse. I'll happily pay more taxes to make sure we have healthcare for everyone, free pre-K (even though my kids are grown), etc etc. I don't see these feelings going away in the next decade. I'm not going to just forget how wide the economic inequality has gotten in this country.
GamerDadofAntiquity@reddit
I don’t think throwing more tax dollars into a hole would solve anything. This government is so well-known for mishandling and mismanaging funds it’s practically a meme.
The answer is never more taxes, it’s more fiscal responsibility. Everybody on both sides of the aisle just wants more money to dump into their pet projects and everybody in Congress just wants to get infinitely reelected, so they keep securing funding for their constituency’s wants to the tune of trillions of dollars worth of deficit spending at the expense of everyone’s future financial security.
“Oh if you agree to shuffle $100B into our pet project, we’ll agree to pour $100B into your pet project.” …Nevermind that there’s only $50B in the checking account, that’s the future’s problem.
These cats in the House make me sick. All of them.
WereFlyingOverTrout@reddit
I’m so with you. I voted to raise property taxes when I was a homeowner in my 20s to help fund the public schools. (I didn’t have my son until I was 40.) The measure failed and the school district had to shut down a school and move kids to other schools. I recall one mom interviewed asking if they could have a do over. Because she voted no but didn’t grasp there would be consequences for not increasing taxes to fund her kids’ school. This was over two decades ago and I’m still annoyed lol
charutobarato@reddit
I feel this way too. But I also see the chasm between the haves and have nots growing wider and wider and how it might be important to my kids and their maybe future kids to hustle to stay on the side of the haves.
Not saying it’s right, just saying I understand why people seem less likely to be charitable these days (and not like charitable giving but working to avoid “taxable events” and so on).
mmoonbelly@reddit
The hardest part is to keep small s socialist values as you age. I define that as a belief in the good of society, the good of paying taxes to provide for others, the need to look after others first and showing that through paying for the services provided by the nation-state.
Cynicism kicks in with experience/fear of loss, and voting patterns mirror towards individualism and personal benefits. (Tax cuts, economic measures to release cash to wealth owners etc).
Ironically, as you get to retirement that’s the point where you need society more than it needs you.
CallidoraBlack@reddit
I doubt it. Gen X managed to recover from the Dotcom bubble and save up money before the 2008 crash. You have to actually get yours at some point to adopt this mindset.
avalonfaith@reddit
Say it ain't so !
cptsears@reddit
Yeah in my experience, the older the millennial or genX, the more likely they became mini-boomers who just stuck with their parents mindsets.
TheBr0fessor@reddit
He's the one
Who likes all our pretty songs
And he likes to sing along
And he likes to shoot his gun
But he don't know what it means
Knows not what it means
Myanonymousunicorn@reddit
Ooh lyrics I never really thought about the meaning of before
Lord-Curriculum@reddit
We can have some more... Nature is a whore... Bruises on the fruit... Tender age in bloom.
Famous-Somewhere-@reddit
We grew up with fanatical devotion to Reagan/Bush which led to things being conservative-normative for a lot of people our age. Gen X also famously felt that caring about things was dumb, and if there’s anything that defines MAGA it’s not giving a shit about what happens.
jcstrat@reddit
I mean, the left isn’t any less establishment. They’re both evil, it’s just a matter of which flavor. I don’t have a good solution here. We’re boned either way.
Kapo77@reddit
Hard disagree on both-sides-isms in the present climate. The Dems could be better, MAGA is like a manicical lunatic with a chainsaw on a murder rampage.
IseeAbadMoon@reddit
Late 1975 checking in. Played Oregon Trail and hate MAGA!! Waiting for the Millennials to run the world. Still probably a Gen Xer
DIYdemon@reddit
Just start selling the shirts retail.
BebopTundra76@reddit
I have an idea how something like that could happen.
Every Maga i have ever met goes to church or grew up in a christian family. Ultimately the church tells them how and when to vote.
Those church kids from the 80's loved emo, new wave, metal, grunge, rap, all kinds of other secular music. Those music lovers abandoned their parent's churches to attend non denomination hipster christian prosperity doctorine nationalist churches. They wave flags, love guns, rock and roll, jesus, beer, protecting pedophiles, and currently support any right wing idea spouted on Fox or TPUSA.
BeenisHat@reddit
This fit me pretty well until I was late teens-early 20s.
Star8421774@reddit
Lol, u remained "too cool for school" while others grew up and got a life
leftyjamie@reddit
I always wondered that. But maybe its the grungers backlashing against the majority of Gen X that were embracing their nasty boomer parents’ ideals?
Cozy_Minty@reddit
Liberal ideas became "the establishment". Banks are putting on pride parades. Its just the same contrarianism continued
80KLEK@reddit
Can’t believe any Xennials are still buying the left/right paradigm 🙄
Kapo77@reddit
Me too exactly
specks_of_dust@reddit
To me, it’s also crazy how tight the timing is. There are a fair number 76ers that didn’t fall into that, but it’s a steep drop off for people born 1975 or earlier.
LangdonAlg3r@reddit
Yeah, I’m in the Gen X sub because I’m on that side of the Xennial line, but man they’re grumpy and conservative in there. I still tend to identify as Gen X, but I do think Xennial is more accurate. Definitely not a Millennial by age or identity.
marbotty@reddit
I sometimes wonder if had to do with drinking out of the hose and getting exposure to lead.
But if that’s true, then I’m just a few years out of being an asshole myself
sherahero@reddit
That's why I say I'm millennial now.
tomqvaxy@reddit
Same. Wtf. Not shocked but definitely irritated/disappointed.
Jerkrollatex@reddit
Yes. Same God they suck.
yaddar@reddit
Same
mhoke63@reddit
Pronounced ex-ennial since it's a portmanteau of Gen X and Millennial. Besides, "Zennial" sounds like a younger version of millennial.
grandma-activities@reddit
THANK YOU.
Mysterious_Sound2765@reddit
I second this THANK YOU
allectos_shadow@reddit
In my heart, I still consider myself to be Gen Y
Mysterious_Sound2765@reddit
😂 Love this
bluemagic222@reddit
this.
StrategyOdd7170@reddit
1978 isn’t a millenial though?
MadeMeStopLurking@reddit
I identify as Gen X.
bh0@reddit
Never considered myself a "Millennial" because I was already in college by the time that term even came around. Technically I missed X by a couple months, so this works I guess...
b33lzebubba775@reddit
I was born in the fall of 1980, right on the cusp and always felt the same way about being lumped in with the Millenials. Xennial I can get behind.
mina-ann@reddit
Same!
Only recently have I started saying Xennial, you are my people!
Baked_Potato_732@reddit
I was born in 85 but I grew up so different from other Millenials I couldn’t relate. I have far more in common with Gen X than Millenials so Xennials works for me.
OldCreezy@reddit
I'm right there with you!
Relevant-Package-928@reddit
This. I am Gen X but really had more of a Xennial experience, growing up. Definitely not a Millennial.
JayJoeJeans@reddit
Same. Lately the elder Gen X crowd has become Boomer Light. No thanks
gohashhi@reddit
Yep, same with me. My siblings and cousins are all older, and lean more gen-x, so I have more influence from that older cohort and don’t relate to millennials, but neither to the older gen-x
RetroDadOnReddit@reddit
Same! I am far more likely to claim GenX than Millennial!
elkniodaphs@reddit
I'm still on Gen X. I had a younger friend refer to me as Gen X a couple nights ago and it felt super good to be recognized. The Xennials sub is absolutely wonderful, but it often skews "90s childhood" and I just can't get into that.
bloodpriestt@reddit
Also 78, also felt solidly Gen X until the last 10 years
GangstaRIB@reddit
Same but from the other end of the scale. I feel like your generation has more to do with the generation that raised you then the year you were born. Sure I suppose now technology does play a significant part but thats been rather recent where 2 year olds are given a tablet with access to the internet (insane)
Taco_El_Paco@reddit
Same. Still trying to establish if it's worth accepting the existence of this microgeneration, but it kinda makes sense
aruse527@reddit
76 x, not a millennial in any way
Far-Valuable9279@reddit
Elder millennial
GiggleMoo85@reddit
Xennial for me. Growing up relatively poor, we didn't have many of the 'millennial' things in my house until the late 90's/early 2000s. My first cell phone was in 2003. We had dial-up from 2002 to 2008, when I bought the router to make it Wi-Fi. No internet before that. So I was exposed to all the millennial things at school and friends' houses, but I grew up more tech-less than tech-savvy, and I identify more with Gen X than with true millennials. No, I didn't have Jarts, but I was a latchkey and was out of the house all day doing whatever. It's just the way it was, we didn't have game systems or things to keep us inside
Playful-Spinach-4040@reddit
thewildporpous@reddit
Xennial. Think of us as taking the best qualities of both but not the bad to which I shun ever being called either.
-Heinous_Anus-@reddit
I go by what it says on Wikipedia. I'm a millennial.
aok87@reddit
I call myself a Goonie.
The end.
FJB556@reddit
Xennial seems reasonable (81).
Here-I-R@reddit
I call myself GenX, but '77 makes me a Xennial
Overall-Ask-8305@reddit
Xennial
princesssockhead@reddit
It kinda annoys me as a 1984 born person that xennial doesn’t cover 1979-1984. I wasn’t technically born in the mid-80’s save for a year. So am I just a total outlier who doesn’t fit anywhere?! Cause I sure as heck can’t relate to my ‘87 sibling who is more of an elder-millennial, I mean he’s not even in his 40’s yet. I vote for 1984 to be grandfathered into Gen Y or xennials. It just makes more sense. I don’t identify with straight up millennials nor do I identify with Gen X. Just my .02 cents.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
FWIW from what I saw as an earlier X who went back to school again and then grad school after as well. It seemed to me like the real shift out of Xennial didn't fully happen until those born maybe kinda around 1986ish started arriving on campus. Suddenly tight jeans, bright colors, preppy (as well as some participation trophy type attitudes) and more acceptance of pop music for guys and less angst and stuff showed up (this stuff, aside from the participation trophy stuff and the getting even yet more uptight about various things, which were much less OG X like, was actually trending a bit back more early X like where fashion was colorful, tight, wild, flashy and music not hard alt/rock/grungy and more pop dominated and to when there had been less difference between what girls vs guys listened to than seemed to be the case for Xennials, not all the way back by any means but a bit back).
Now there was a slow shift towards more pop and less angst going from around 1982-1985 born but the full on style changes and fully new attitudes and stuff didn't seem to really hit college campus until around 2005ish.
While 1984 were a bit shifting more Millennial to me overall they still seemed a lot closer overall tied to Xennials than to core, much less, late Millennials. Style still seemed 100% Xennial. Zero participation trophy type attitude in evidence yet.
I'll also say that Xennials had definitely shifted way away from earlier X though. Man oh man did style and some attitudes change from late 80s/earliest 90s college times. Style was almost 100% opposite and music tastes for guys were almost 100% opposite too (at least in public, some did have secret playlists that trended a little bit more back X like, but Xennial era seemed to have a lot of rules that made people afraid of losing either "street cred" or "alt/indie cred" which was a touch ironic in the suppose era of freedom/individuality/authenticity/etc. in many ways 80s mainstream actually felt a lot more diverse, varied and free in some ways, but it's complex). And you could really notice how Xennials got changed by having been first generation to have been raised on non-stop scare media and the first initial rise of school shootings too. and it seemed quite noticeable that it was a generation raised around grunge and gangster rap from a young age vs. one that had zilch of that influence at all.
Xennials all seemed closer to each other than either earlier X or core/later Millennials. Maybe roughly '77-'85 as a group. Although shifting some along the way in various ways. And the X side a little distinct from the Millennial side. But overall still all closer to each other than to their own respective generations. The Xennial style was certainly utterly almost beyond 100% opposite of Gen X but also considerably different, if to a somewhat lesser degree, than a good chunk of core/later Millennial style. Some attitudes and vibes were closer to X and others closer to Millennials and sometimes not really quite like either. In general there were some ways Xennials were closer to X than Millennials were for sure, but interestingly also some ways Millennials were actually closer to X than Xennials were. Xennials seemed to have a really deep knowledge of the movies and TV from right before their time, tons of knowledge of 80s tv/movies and many even still listed 80s teen movies like Ferris Bueller as their favorite over ones from say the late 90s and more their time. Millennials were probably good about knowing prior stuff too but probably a bit shy of the degree that Xennials did who maybe knew the most of the just prior gens teen films and general movies and all than any micro-gen in recent times has. That said all this generational stuff is always very vague and fuzzy and all a bit iffy stuff and so complex it would take dozens more paragraphs to begin to work out more fully and anyway whatever you do named generations never really entirely work out or quite make sense.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
'75-'77 and '84-'86 transitions always get extra iffy and can go all over the place
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
Gen Y used to be along the lines of 1975-1985ish. But it kind of varied all over starting as early as 1973 and as late as 1979 and sometimes a vague unspecified ending.
Pleasant_End2907@reddit
Millennial because I identify with them most.
lovemypennydog@reddit
Honestly I skew more GenX but that makes me feel old...
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
go with Z then
mattisnerdy@reddit
I call myself Matthew. But whatever.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
but can I call you Al?
DafniDsnds@reddit
Ex- ennial.
Shennial sounds weird to me.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
I've never heard Shennial, people say Zennial.
Kinetic_Silverwolf@reddit
I was born in Kate 1980. Never felt like X fit, didn't quite align with Y/Millennial.
A Xennial is me.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
lucky, got Kate and just missed being Karen
goater10@reddit
As an 81 kid, I'm as Xennial as much as you can be. I had the Gen X upbringing, self reliance and cynicism but it's matched with my millenial love of nostalgia, use of technology and being mentally resilient.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
Isn't it more X known as being mentally resilient and Millennials less so and X and Millennials for nostalgia (maybe X even more)? Also X were first gen to see the analog to digital switch from 16mm film movie rentals to home video, no video games to video games, no home computer to home computers and using word processing for papers by early mid to late 80s depending upon the person, etc. Anwyay whatever, yeah 1981 is hella Xennial.
seahorseMonkey@reddit
I’m a mammal.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
platypus?
edasto42@reddit
I’m a Gen X, nowhere really close to a millennial, but I hate the Gen X sub so that’s why I’m here.
drolgnir@reddit
It's pretty crusty over there. You wanna fit in but oh well.
edasto42@reddit
I was done with it when I realized how right wing it felt and moderated to. Not overt, but definitely coded. Plus there was such ire if you dare say you like any media that dared be made after 1996 or something. And there were so many posts that I felt I was reading a neighborhood Facebook page.
I’m just hoping this doesn’t dive too far into the nostalgia ‘member berries traps as we age. It’s fun for a second, but gets old fast.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
the mods there seem to delete so many fun nostalgia posts and so many posts where some later gen came in and asked a question and people were leaving detailed answers but then leave in anything hating on later gens or going on about hose water and seem to really heavily curate and steer it (a lot lot lot of first waver's attempts at posts there get deleted before you ever get to see them)
i actually got banned from my own Gen X sub for posting fun, nostalgia stuff and then questioning what rule I had broken and why 90% of my few attempts would get deleted! all I posted in someone else's thread was "rule # so and so that says anything is at mod discretion makes the rules essentially random and how do you know what you can actually post without getting it deleted" (lifetime ban just for that)
i could sort of see their steering it a bit more toward say 1991 and earlier stuff somewhat since there is the Xennial sub for the later stuff and recently across the net first wave X stuff seems to be getting totally swamped and taken over by 90s 90s grunge and so on stuff and nobody seems to even associate X with 80s stuff anymore (but not some of the bans I've heard about for people just asking why they had some later stuff banned, that's ridiculous IMO)
i don't know
the crazy thing is back in the day, IRL, earlier X seemed less angsty and less easily agitated and less angry and so on than later X/early Millennials but going by the two subs on reddit it;s the opposite, Xennial sub is way more chill and doesn't have the hard handed overly sensitive meaner mods
drolgnir@reddit
This sub is literally 'member when? But the fun stuff though.
Nonsenseinabag@reddit
Same, I'm very much at the tail of GenX and all of my younger siblings and cousins are definitely millennials in both the things they were into and the way they were treated growing up compared to the kids in my class range.
Klutzy-Delivery-5792@reddit
1982, I don't think I've ever referred to myself by any generational thing. I just hang here for the nostalgia and try not to get wrapped up in the labels.
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
this actually prob makes most sense of all LOL
Ok-Share-3515@reddit
What up 82!! Same sames. I love going by “elder millennial” or “geriatric millennial” for effect. I’ll always pick millennial over Gen X though- they’re definitely built different.
SonSuko@reddit
That’s easy to do when you graduated in the year…. 2000. They need to make a new category just for us.
Klutzy-Delivery-5792@reddit
In the year 2000
Tree_Weasel@reddit
‘82 as well. I love when old people complain about “Millennial kids” when they’re referring to Gen Z. I get to say, “I’m a Millennial and I’m 44 years old. The youngest Millennial is 29.”
WintryLadyBits@reddit
I love doing that to the old gossipy neighbors I have. They were like Millennials this * millennials that and I was like well I’m a milenial and I’m 43. It made them feel so fucking old and decrepit… I loved it
rialucia@reddit
Pointing out to older people that I’m a millennial and watching their expression change is one of my favorite things, haha.
Cute-Discount-6969@reddit
I’m the tail end of 82, and I consider myself an Elder Millennial
Pete4hon@reddit
Ive used elder millennial a few times and I think it does the same as xennial. But yeah agreed with you on the labels.
casdoodle527@reddit
I also use elder millennial. I mean, I’ve had two “geriatric” pregnancies, so what’s one more “old” label 🤣
WintryLadyBits@reddit
I was calling myself a geriatric millennial until I found out about Xennials
t_bone_stake@reddit
Same with me. Personally, I think the two are interchangeable especially with us 80s babies. Im closer to the millennial side of the xennial micro generation (‘83 born) so the two doesn’t sting as much as the late 70s babies
zenith2nadir@reddit
Also ‘82, was calling myself a millennial until about a decade ago when it didn’t really feel right anymore. Discovered this micro-generation and it’s description fit me perfectly
WintryLadyBits@reddit
Same, I was calling myself a geriatric millennial until I found out about Xennials
22220222223224@reddit
Also, also '82. For me, I just go with what everyone considers us (Millennials), regardless of how I feel about it. Just like I say I'm 5'11" and have never claimed ro be 6'
Relevant_Mouse_4860@reddit
I’m also ‘82. I would usually say I’m millennial, just an old wise one. Sometimes now xennial feels more appropriate though. Being younger in my family (and extended family) I was brought up with a lot more Gen X influence (even compared to others my own age who had younger parents and extended family) but had all the millennial experience later.
A7O747D@reddit
I like to say Elder Millennial, but definitely relate most to the Xennial side. A lot of people outside of this sub don't know what Xennial is, and I don't feel like explaining.
Ok_Alps4323@reddit
Same. I’m technically Gen X (1978), and I’d pick Millennial if I had to choose. I have little in common with Gen X since I’m the tail end. I don’t remember anything before the 80’s. I still don’t refer to myself as anything, but the sub resonates.
mstermind@reddit
I'm an old Xennial or a very young GenX.
drtyhppi@reddit
Same. I refer to my wife ('82) as a geriatric millennial.
Kellzy1212@reddit
I’ve always used Elder Millennial
YeilKhaa@reddit
Yeah, I’ve described myself as an Elder Millennial too
BlueSnaggleTooth359@reddit
I saw someone refer to themselves as Hag Millennial LOL.
drtyhppi@reddit
Yeah, but that doesn't get the response I'm looking for. I feed off eye-rolls and raised eyebrows in this house.
Suplx@reddit
I'm 82 and use "eldritch millennial"
Serrajuana@reddit
I've been looking for a new title. Thank you for this. So damned fitting.
readyforthisyep@reddit
This!
g0rgone1138@reddit
Sameeeee
october_moon_00@reddit
Gen Y, coz I hate being lumped in with Millennials
da_Doctah@reddit
I deny being a Boomer. I was born in the first year post-WW2 that the birth rate was lower than the preceding year, so I consider that post-Boom.
Before X comes W, so maybe I'm a Wennial.
Electronic-Key6323@reddit
Mobody born before 1980 is a Millennial please bffr
Intelligent-Layer-16@reddit
I had an 80s child hood (born '77) and was a teen most of the 90s - i consider myself a late Gen X or an early Xennial.
AdPrestigious2387@reddit
1977 Gen X because that's what I am. 1976 is a real stretch for Xennial.
Round_Rooms@reddit
79 I'm a xennial. When you grow up in the age that both playing outside is most of your activity, while spending time playing legend of zelda on nes or Madden on sega was also a thing in.
coreyjdl@reddit
elder millennial
PerspectiveEven9928@reddit
February of 81. I say I self identify as gen x 😂. I have nothing in common with millennials it seems.
BeccasBump@reddit
I call myself a Xennial (1980) because I feel like I'm too chronically online to be Gen X.
Sea_Pie_Star@reddit
I feel 100% Xennial !! Born July 1981, graduated 1999. Half of my graduating class is X, half millennial. I was Gen X until the social security website changed the date range. Millennials used to start in 1983, now it’s 1981. Culturally I don’t quite fit in with either, but relate to both.
Rude_Independence_14@reddit
Generation X
Traditional_Rush_622@reddit
I used to be considered genX, and I've always just stuck with it even after they made up the new classifications.
YoreGawd@reddit
I usually say elder millennial. I'm 39 and my childhood was VERY different compared to the youngest millennials boy in the mid 90s.
I was probably the last generation of latch key kids.
CaptinEmergency@reddit
I say xennial and pronounce it with a z and I’ll die on that hill.
Away-Passenger-9920@reddit
May I ask what is the alternative pronunciation? I always assume it is pronounced with a z but English is my third language so
Elegant_Tie_3036@reddit
I have never heard it pronounced “in real life”… so I’m one of those people who learned by reading. I pronounce it “EX-eh-nee-el” (rhymes with “MIL-eh-nee-el”). 🤷🏼♀️
Appropriate-Diver301@reddit
I always thought it was a 'ks' sound. Ksennial. Very soft k, just so it is vaguely different from a z sound.
abyss_of_mediocrity@reddit
No.
Appropriate-Diver301@reddit
The problem with the z pronunciation is that there is another microgeneration that is actually called zennials.
CatchYouDreamin@reddit
Ohh I thought that microgen was Zillenial?
Appropriate-Diver301@reddit
Apparently they can be called both
CaptinEmergency@reddit
Some place emphasis on the x and pronounce it like the x in Gen X. I don’t think it’s grammatically correct but whatever floats their boat.
PonyPounderer@reddit
There is no other valid pronunciation. People who pronounce it with a hard X sound are bad, and also bad people
orange_avenue@reddit
Is your username a peppa pig reference?
CaptinEmergency@reddit
It is, I’m an emergency manager so it fits. Unfortunately the real captain took the correct spelling and I respect that.
orange_avenue@reddit
Love that so much. My kids are 8 and 12 now so they haven’t watched it in years, but sometimes I’ll watch new episodes to catch up on what’s happening in that world. 😂
CaptinEmergency@reddit
Mine are 7 and 10 and probably don’t even remember Cpt. Emergency lol. I was mid career change at the time and it stuck with me. I was going to get a doll of him for my office but didn’t want to accidentally offend law enforcement, they can be sensitive.
theunrefinedspinster@reddit
The correct pronunciation is with a z, I agree. Like Xerox!!!
mrdon83@reddit
Thank you for pronouncing it correctly.
EarlBeforeSwine@reddit
Is there another way to pronounce it?
It isn’t x-ennial, it is xennial. In the very rare occasion where I pronounce it out loud (usually when telling my wife about something on this sub), I pronounce it “zennial,” it never crossed my mind to say it any other way.
CaptinEmergency@reddit
There was a whole thing about it on here a while back. The other pronunciation is made to distinguish between zennials. It never comes up in spoken conversation (other than also to my wife about this sub) so it doesn’t matter.
SavageOphelia@reddit
This
Jasion128@reddit
I Watched the space shuttle challenger explode
I will never call myself a millennial
mommybot9000@reddit
Same. The nuns immediately popped the tv off, rolled the shades up and the AV cart out. Zero discussion. I didn’t quite understand that it blew up until days later. I just thought it was still going into the sky.
Frippertron42@reddit
I was in kindergarten but vividly remember it
ABSOFRKINLUTELY@reddit
First grade in Miami. I remember being excited for days before the launch...
I remember the teacher wheeling out the TV. After that my memory goes blank
MajorFox2720@reddit
I remember the teacher wheeling in the tv, explaining the launch and who was on board. After she shut off the tv, she tried to explain what happened through her tears. That teacher was a mean woman, and I would have never thought empathy was possible.
queenofcaffeine76@reddit
yup. saw it live in the sky over my elementary school in Cocoa Beach.
4shitzngigglez@reddit
Same, but it was my elementary school playground in New Smyrna Beach, opposite side of the Cape from you.
redrosebeetle@reddit
Me too, from St. Augustine.
Kellzy1212@reddit
Watched from Sarasota. Teachers were crying. It was awful.
TryFine317@reddit
Oh Dang!
Shoddy-Definition-13@reddit
Our gym teacher was in the running to be the teacher on board. It was so terrifying to watch knowing he could have been on it.
readyforthisyep@reddit
I remember the Punky Brewster episode too!
PursuitTravel@reddit
I'm 1984, and I find myself identifying a lot more with the gen X experience than the Millennial experience growing up. Like.. when those silly generational tiktoks roll by, it's the gen X one's that I remember, while half or more of the Millennial related stuff I was too old for. So... I tend towards "Xennial," even though I'm technically Millennial.
No_Promotion_7125@reddit
I don’t call myself anything, it doesn’t really come up. If someone asks my age I tell them…
How many people are bringing the nuance of your generation up on a regular basis?
prematurely_bald@reddit
I don’t quite fit with GenX or millennial, so Xennial it is.
We belong to a micro-generation that perfectly encapsulates a unique era in history.
Rough-Ad5670@reddit
Xennial
IslingtonCrane@reddit
GenWhy
GamerDadofAntiquity@reddit
Xennial. I then have to explain what a Xennial is, because if someone isn’t one, they typically don’t even know what a Xennial is.
MissyLovesArcades@reddit
I'm '77 and I just lump myself in with the Gen X crowd. It's a strange place to be for sure because I feel like I have so much in common with people of so many different ages.
Ancient-Eye3022@reddit
Xennial, because I honestly have nothing in common with people born in the 60's.
Wide_Replacement7326@reddit
'77 baby. I identify with the 90/early 2000s as my formative years. I did, however, have a much older Dad than our friends and a brother born in '71, which informed my outlook/cultural experiences, but I still feel more closely connected to the Xennial side of things than Gen X.
In a nutshell, I'm in my last year of being cool 😎🙌
facesnorth@reddit
Why would anyone born between 77 and 80 call themselves a Millennial? This is a question only for those born between 81 and 85. You could ask those born between 77 and 80 do you call yourself Gen X or a Xennial?
la-wolfe@reddit
Millennial
Alexandratta@reddit
Millennial, since that's a real thing and the Xennial is usually just something that older Millennials who wholeheartedly devoured the hate against our generation hook, line and sinker.
My all time favorite 'Gotchyah!' is when a boomer will roll up with the ol' "What, you wanna participation trophy?"
To which I have to remind: "When I was in 4th grade, I didn't give myself a trophy... that was your generation. Boomers are the Participation Trophy Generation, not us. We couldn't ask for shit."
Like, if you're a younger Gen-X who falls into the fake generation of Xennial, okay, cool... you want to seem younger and you're likely not as much of an asshole as the older 'Boomer Lite' Gen-Xers. But for the most part, again, the whole make-believe 'between generation' thing is just that.
It's funny to show up at this intersection on reddit but it's not a real thing. Millennials got a bad rap from Boomers over stuff boomers foisted on Millennials, and then got even madder when Millennials didn't buy the same trends and products they did (Diamonds, Huge Weddings, etc...).
So I'm a 1984 Millennial, always will be. But spotting the folks who genuinely call themselves 'Xennials' and not just as a Satire thing is pretty funny to me.
BSugaHi@reddit
Xennial here
LargeMarge-sentme@reddit
GenX because I grew up hanging out with older kids. Although a lot of the older ones seem boomerish to me these days. There’s definitely a difference. I embraced technology a lot more as a kid and many of them seem to fall for stupid online misinformation that any idiot should immediately reject. Like they’re still on FB all day sharing the most cringe memes imaginable. I had to unfollow so many of them. Maybe there are people in every age group like this and I’m just projecting my experience. But damn, you later GenX seem really old to me.
JonAegonTargaryen@reddit
Xennial. Born in January 83
207Simone@reddit
Xennial 1985 here
ablebody_95@reddit
Gen X. I was born in ‘80.
Gwydion11b@reddit
I swear the date range gets larger every time I see a new post about it...
Mysterious-Dirt-@reddit
Xennial...I used think I was a super young GenX
raikougal@reddit
I was born in 81 but I call myself a millennial simply because other people don't know the term xennial yet, at least not widely.
TheBamaChad@reddit
I was born in 1980. I'm in reality a millennial. It's the whole internet thing. I grew up playing outside and riding bikes all day until the sun went down. Parents were not home when I got home from school. They had no idea what I was doing or exactly where I was for hours upon hours. They knew the area I was in of course. No cell phones to track us or anything. Then when I became a teenager everything started to change. All of a sudden we were clogging the phone lines and talking to people around the world and getting real news from the world. We quickly lost interest in any news from TV but we still watched Friends, Everybody Loves Raymond, Frasier, ER and many 9f the last great television series. When we became adults all 9f a sudden cell phones were in every hand and pay phones began to disappear. We had to figure out tech and figure it out quickly. We have all the rebellious nature of gen X. We know how to be bored. We can sit for hours with no entertainment. We don't need fast hits of social media and don't feel the need to post everything because we remember privacy and we don't want people knowing everything we do. We know how to use any tech that comes around because we built much of it. We were brought up in a very different world but adapt to the new world pretty easily. We mostly hate the new world but we have no choice of living in it.
slippersandjammies@reddit
Millennial.
dudical_dude@reddit
The annoying thing is how they made Zennial a thing because the pronunciation between Zennial and Xennial is confusingly similar.
Polar_Version875@reddit
I am too much in the middle. I identify with X and Millenial on different things. So I always say Xennial or Oregon Trail.
Jinx5326@reddit
My husband says he’s GenX with Millennial tendencies. 😂
Myanonymousunicorn@reddit
Gen X. I just don’t vibe with millennials.
wild85bill@reddit
I go with the Oregon Trail generation.
Comfortable-Sky-9569@reddit
Xennial I have the cynism of Gen X with the hopefulness of the millennial
DBPanterA@reddit
I say Xennial.
As someone that’s Gen X by a few weeks, I was too young for a lot of Gen X pop culture (I get most), but I was too old for millennial pop culture.
I was in Kindergarten when Santa brought me the Nintendo Entertainment System. Most millennials were not born at that point, and most Gen X were listening to Bon Jovi. 🤷♂️
saki4444@reddit
Gen X
KingValidus@reddit
Xennial.
Seraph782@reddit
Xennial.
PartPrestigious7683@reddit
Peelboy@reddit
Xennial, my Gen X brothers and sisters are not like me and my millennial sister is not the same, I have virtually nothing in common with either.
sisterpearl@reddit
I usually describe myself as a “baby GenX” or an “Elder Xennial”
Choice-Marsupial-127@reddit
Xennial, because it is accurate. I was born in 1980 and absolutely identify with xennials more than Gen X or Millenials.
MSmtnMomma@reddit
Had this conversation with my wife and son this past weekend! She and I are both Xennials but she is ‘81. We were trying to explain the generations to our GenAlpha boy and how we are both on the cusp of two. I doubled down on how I identify fully as a Xennial and after a few google generational description searches - she realized that’s how she fits, too.
This conversation all started because he sits in the backseat of the car and when we get grocery pickup placed on the seat next to him the younger (GenZ) employees working won’t speak to him when he says hello but the older ones (millennials and up) will.
emeraldk420@reddit
Elder millennial
tyomax@reddit
Elder Millennial, reporting for duty. Born in '85.
AttyMAL@reddit
1983 here. I'm calling myself a Xennial because I feel like I have so little in common with millennials from 85 or later.
Apprehensive_Bird357@reddit
Xennials’ experiences tend to align with my experiences, so that’s how i identify.
fatkidscandystore@reddit
1977 and call myself Gen X. Regionally I feel like millennials started a year or two after me. There’s definitely a big cultural divide after my year here.
Jedi_Mind_Chick@reddit
I feel like pop culture wise, I am right in the middle (84), so xennial works. The Gen X side of me has only heard of this term recently.
SadApartment3023@reddit
Elder Millenial, but Xennial works too
Striking-Access-236@reddit
If I'd call myself millennial, I'd be in a different sub :)
jrm2003@reddit
I think if you want to decide you should base it on your parents’ age. I’m a 1985 millennial I guess, but my parents were born in the 40s, same as my cousin who was like a brother and born in 1972. We had the same family basically, despite being 13 years apart. My parents looked after him in his teenage years and he introduced me to pop culture, comic books, games , etc from his generation. Always made me feel a bit older than my classmates/friends.
PatchworkGirl82@reddit
I say I'm part of the MTV generation. We feel neither highs nor lows.
bigpoppa973@reddit
Really? What’s it like?
PatchworkGirl82@reddit
Meh
SunshineofMyLyfetime@reddit
Hi Lisa!
Belichicks_sleeves@reddit
Meh
dadjokes502@reddit
I want my MTV!
RainRepresentative11@reddit
Gen Y or Xennial. My birth year wasn’t classified as “millennial” before 2010, and I refuse to accept it. Millennials were allowed to have cell phones in high school.
ArnaudCZ@reddit
I don't Call myself. I vibe with Both
mustymusketeer@reddit
Xennial is too made up to be used regularly.
Academic-Bat-8002@reddit
82 and for sure xennial. I have way more in common with someone born in 76-85 than I do someone who’s 30 now!
jojotherider@reddit
Xennial, tbh i just say middle aged working man.
staticvoidmainnull@reddit
either or.
dallyan@reddit
I’m literally Gen X so I prefer xennial.
monobluemill@reddit
Por qué no los dos?
OwslyOwl@reddit
I call myself Gen X. My siblings are both older and I’m in the last Gen X year (1980), so it makes the most sense.
Jaime_d_p@reddit
Xennial. I can remember watching baby Jessica down the well live on tv with my mom as a kid. Labeling maps in school with USSR, and waiting for Nirvana to release the Unplugged in New York album. I learned to drive in the 90s, remember the house party I rang in Y2K in at and was already out of school and working full time when 9/11 happened.
TrixieBastard@reddit
I usually call myself an elder millennial, but I do appreciate the Xennial label too
Upbeat_Bet_6708@reddit
The age range between the two is crazy. You could be born in 1965 and be Gen X and 1996 and be a millennial. The amount of technological advance that impacted our childhood/teen/early 20’s is unprecedented if you were born in the mid to latter years. Your upbringing was completely different. Being born in 1982 means I’m smack dab in the middle of the two and never could completely identify with either. Hence, the xennial identity.
Mysterious-Clothes45@reddit
Gen X
PileofTerdFarts@reddit
Xennial... And I pronounce it "X - ennial" not "Zennial" like some people.
I think its a perfect name because it highlights how we are neither Gen X nor Millenials in the truest sense.
We are good at working with our hands, but can equally set up an iphone in 5 minutes. We were the LAST generation to grow up without devices, but learned them as they were created and injected into society.
I think we're kinda special that way. We saw the dawn of the internet age (and its grotesque effects) in real time.
CaulkSlug@reddit
I call myself CaulkSlug
Kuroude7@reddit
I am… highly unusual.
I call myself a Xennial, even though I was born in 1986, because my siblings are all Xennials or Gen X, and my parents were born in the 40s. I grew up with that life.
hnybun128@reddit
‘76, largely refer to myself as GenX, but really I’m an Oregon Trail kid. I do identify more with Xennials than older Gen X.
R0botDreamz@reddit
It's as though the entire purpose of this sub answers that very question.
scovizzle@reddit
Well, I'm not a Millennial, so...
Tygie19@reddit
I’m a ‘77 baby. I feel more Xennial than Gen X in a lot of ways.
ALIJ81@reddit
Xennial
Bubble_Lights@reddit
‘76-‘85 is quite a stretch. Xennials are ‘77-‘83. According to the actual defined generations, I am GenX, but I call myself a Xennial and have never called myself a Millennial.
Immediate-Agency6101@reddit
xennial
BetterEveryDayYT@reddit
Xennial
No_Piccolo6337@reddit
Xennial or Elder Millennial.
H3lls_B3ll3@reddit
Gen X. There's some overlap, but not a lot.
StringerBell34@reddit
Xillenial
nudist83@reddit
Xennials, kinda hard to call myself something that is 25-30 years removed from the actual millennium. (83).
TacticalFunky@reddit
Xennial or Elder Millennial. The former when I want to belong to a uniquely cool (and nerdy?) sub-generation. The latter when I want my Millennial peers to respect the wisdom I have attained from bridging the analog-to-digital divide. Dial-up internet, bay-bee!
Southern-Salary2573@reddit
Meanwhile, my skimming the brim of Gen Z younger millennial coworkers tell me I’m not that much older than them so I couldn’t have experienced much more. I’m 42 they’re 31-32. It wasn’t until I hit them with “think of 10 years of technology” that they got it. Please don’t group me with the millennials; we are built different.
CatchYouDreamin@reddit
Yup and younger Millenials, their memory of 9/11 is basically "I remember it happening and my parents/teachers being upset/scared/acting unusual but I didn't really understand what was going on." Meanwhile our age group (I was born in 84), was old enough to vote, in college or headed to college, possibly already in the military or decided to join. It's hard to culturally relate to someone who was in kindergarten and had no concept of the impact of this event while my friends were being shipped off to fight a war being waged by a president I didn't support.
justFaye@reddit
I consider myself these two (interchangeably) as well. I very much disagree with classing people of those ages as the same as the kids born right before the new millennium. The latter didn't experience life without a phone in your pocket and a computer everywhere you look (and used for everything), and I think that's a very big divide.
Working-Youth1425@reddit
I say elder millennial too. Don’t identify with Gen X and have more ‘wisdom’ (grey hairs and wrinkles) than most millennials
Gwtheyrn@reddit
Neither. I'm '78 GenX.
DisastrousBeautyyy@reddit
Xennial
rarselfaire2023@reddit
Oct 79, definitely an xennial, but after trying to tell people this who are unfamiliar with the term, I usually end up saying late gen x, but I'm just as millennial I'm sure.
sk3pt1c@reddit
I only mention this like twice a year, most people don’t care.
TryTwiceAsHard@reddit
Xennial, I wear it like a badge of honor.
kg51113@reddit
I'm not a Millennial in any sense. It depends on the situation whether I use Gen X or Xennial.
Vegetable_Childhood3@reddit
Born in 81 and have never thought of myself as a Millenial
bananapanqueques@reddit
Xennial.
I’m at the tail end but I’m more Xennial than Millennial.
OutkastAtliens@reddit
I’m 83. I consider myself a millennial.
Wespiratory@reddit
I was born in 86, but I’m from rural Alabama so it’s basically five years behind the rest of the country.
grandma-activities@reddit
I considered myself fully Gen X until the term Xennial (or the even more descriptive "Oregon Trail Generation") came about. My sister is 10 years older than I am, so a lot of my early cultural references up until our family split up in 1990 were her cultural references. After that point, I was fully immersed in the overlap of Gen X and what was called Gen Y at the time. Xennial just fits.
Outside_Wrongdoer340@reddit
Xennial
gregarious119@reddit
Born in 83. Xennial all the way.
star_b_nettor@reddit
Xennial. I have less in common with millennials than x, but am two years outside of x by date.
asterixxx@reddit
1985 are smack dab millennial, the world changed SO much for their existance in highschool versus 79-80. kids. I'd cut it off at 81 tops.
Nole_in_ATX@reddit
Xennial because I never thought I fit in with either Gen X or Millennial. This moniker is perfect tbh
dearjuliet82@reddit
My two children tell me I’m delusional if I think I’m not a millennial. I call myself a Xennial. They’re delusional, my step siblings are core millennials, I can’t identify with them.
JPhrog@reddit
Xennial just looks and sounds cooler, I mean we are the coolest generation so it makes sense!
Somebody_or_other_@reddit
1978, definitely a Xennial but comfortable with Gen X and Millennial culture.
jbt55@reddit
Born in 83 and the baby of the family usually say millennial.
JudgeJuryEx78@reddit
I'm more of a "Gen X, but..."
Paul_Smith_Hi@reddit
1981 = Aging Xennial; at least that's what I call myself.
Optimal_Sherbert_545@reddit
Born in '81 and I call myself a great grand millennial
Puzzleheaded_Net_863@reddit
Its fun to mess with the rest of millenials. Tell them we're middle aged.
krissym99@reddit
1981 too and I say the same. I don't feel Gen X enough and Xennial requires an explanation to a lot of people.
geriatricxennial@reddit
me too (1980)
AeonFluxIncapacitaor@reddit
We're in this together, friendo.
KristinSenpai@reddit
I say Elder Millennial
DancingFire121@reddit
I never liked the labels as none were applicable to me and it's all just too generic and meaningless. I am a 1978 baby and the original Gen Y grouping (now Millennial) started from 1978 and then was moved to 1980. I have nothing in common with Gen X people. My brother and every single one my cousins are Gen X so I have a clear understanding of their experiences and they just do not resonate with me. So I always put myself in the Gen Y group if I had to pick one. When I came across the term Xennial it was first time that I felt that I fit into one of the labels. If I have to pick one, I'd go for Xennial.
Background-Student62@reddit
1980 / Millenial with X siblings. I’m most definitely Xennial, but it’s easier to go Millennial publicly :)
Notexactlyprimetime@reddit
I have started referring to myself as a Xennial or an in between person after using elder millennial. Am 44.
YEMolly@reddit
Xennial always. I was born in 1979.
marcos_MN@reddit
It doesn’t really come up that often outside this sub, but I suppose it would depend on who I’m communicating with.
I def have zero desire to explain the concept of Xennials to a grumpy boomer, for example.
SpendPsychological30@reddit
I hate explaining ANY concept to Boomers. Ive never know anyone from any other generation to put so much effort into purposefully "not getting" a concept simply because they don't want to.
ineffable_my_dear@reddit
Ooh, I like this point. All the more reason to use Xennial. 😂
“Don’t talk to me, boomer, you wouldn’t understand anyway.” (though saying that feels very X-coded lol)
Ztunyknum@reddit
I don't see the point of acknowledging people who dream up names to call me without thinking of something clever to say.
SpendPsychological30@reddit
I was born in 81. I usually use the term Xennial, but I will also occasionally accept "elder millennial" or the more amusing (to my ears) "geriatric millennial".
Ztunyknum@reddit
I don't see the point of acknowledging people who dream up names to call me without thinking of something clever to say.
BrilliantTop5012@reddit
Xennial. 💯
Ztunyknum@reddit
I don't see the point of acknowledging people who dream up names to call me without thinking of something clever to say.
GnarlesB1982@reddit
I call myself Charley... cause, well, thats who I am.
trippyhop@reddit
“Elder millennial.”
Inevitable_Pride1925@reddit
I’m solidly a millennial.
I have very little in common with Gen X and quite a bit in common with millennials even ones much younger than I am. It helps that I look much younger than my age and commonly get lumped into the younger side of 30ish. But even the media, entertainment, and activities I pursue are more online with millennials.
jackfaire@reddit
Xennial. I was angrily yelled at for calling myself a Gen Xer back in the day while loving Nirvana and having no clue who Kurt Cobain was.
Kind of soured me on ever considering myself a member of Gen X.
To this day I usually couldn't tell you the names of people in the bands I've listened too.
pit_of_despair666@reddit
Xennial is 1977- 1983 and was coined by a writer in a magazine who I think was a late millenial. I spent most of my life never hearing this word and it wasn't created by experts on generations or anything. I just stick with Gen X or younger Gen X since I was born in the late 70s and was told that was my generation for most of my life. Gen X is 1965 to 1980. I think some people take the generation thing too seriously and it leads to a lot of people assuming each generation is a monolith which is far from true. I don't think it matters at all if you are an older millenial or young Gen Xer and you would rather tell people you are an Xennial or not.
tealccart@reddit
Xennial — 1980
hatesbiology84@reddit
I don’t call myself anything. I don’t even know if this is where I’m supposed to be honestly. Why are we giving ourselves more labels to have to keep track of??
New_Needleworker_473@reddit
I was born in 1980. None of the generations want to claim me.The only subset for misfits like me is the Xennials. I just want to say thanks for the invite to the party. Now I'm going to go back to being a wallflower. Peace.
tigerlilie43@reddit
Xennial
bigsphinxofquartz@reddit
"Early millennial". "Elder" sounds like I have some kinda Rip Van Winkle beard, and that's only true in the winter
SwiftTayTay@reddit
willennial
cats-n-cafe@reddit
I refer to myself as a Xennial. Especially after I went to an Alanis concert and realized I wasn’t as feral as the true Xers.
accountant319@reddit
I’m 81 and I consider myself gen x.
dwreckhatesyou@reddit
I am a meat popsicle.
BumbleTeacup@reddit
A Xennial or Gen X since I was born in 79.
Amyava510@reddit
Xennial. I was born in 79.
Sea-Slide-498@reddit
Same. I feel much closer to millennials but do have that sprinkle of “I used microfiche” Gen X. But I also work with some older Gen X who might as well be Boomers with the way they act and I don’t identify with that at all. Nor with Gen X who don’t understand how to use technology.
iliaccrestv@reddit
100%, fully embraced the term once I heard it
BookerV79@reddit
100%
anitabelle@reddit
Born in 80 and so happy I found my people here!
Historical-Piglet-86@reddit
Ditto
justsomeyeti@reddit
Same, and I never fully identified with either generation.
History's Middle children, as Chuck Palahnuik would call us
tart27@reddit
sillykittyvibes@reddit
lmao same
Ok_Yesterday_2884@reddit
Gen Y
lik_a_stik@reddit
Xennial, can relate to Millennials but I’m not one. I got to experience a lot of Gen X culture through TV only. Many of the great late 80s/90s grunge bands I was into were done and gone by the time I was of age. Also I built my 1st computer by early ‘93, so for me I didn’t feel like I really had much in common w/my own generation.
Preemiesaver@reddit
Sometimes Xennial and sometimes Elder Millennial
kh730@reddit
Honestly I usually still say Elder Millennial because I'm '85 but I like to lurk here. I just think most people wouldn't understand xennial if I used it in conversation.
MoodScripted@reddit
Human
_deedas@reddit
You mean Gen X or Xellenial?
AYearInOaxaca@reddit
This subreddit is the only place I've ever seen the term Xennial used, I've always understood my own cohort (1984) to be Millennial.
ElectronicLow7228@reddit
You're one of the few making sense.
Lirpa_the_Lurker@reddit
Same… I’ve mentioned Xennial a couple times in person and no one has known the term. Then I get stuck defining it and telling people why they are not Xennials (my brother born in ‘87 or my cousin born in ‘72).
A_Night_Awake@reddit
Same here at 82. Mostly just Millenial. It’s an older code, but it checks out.
luxtabula@reddit
Waldus792@reddit
Gen X
itsjakerobb@reddit
If pressed, Xennial. But I don’t generally call myself either one. I’m just me.
Different-Audience34@reddit
Xennial all the way.
MukYJ@reddit
I feel like a mix of Gen X and Millennial, so Xennial feels like the best fit overall.
CatLovingWeirdo@reddit
Millenial.
I think inventing a mini generation called Xennial "because wer're not quite like the others" is the most stereotypically millenial thing ever 😅
ElectronicLow7228@reddit
GTFO Xers trying to clock in on Millennial time. Go play with your Etch a Sketch.
ShowMeYourHappyTrail@reddit
Gen X.
Formal-Telephone5146@reddit
Born in 1980 Listening to Most of the Millennials at work talk about their Childhood experiences, i can’t relate at all I was already a very late teen or early twenties while they was Children. Being around Genxer born in the late 60s and Early 70s really nothing in Common . The term Xennial is needed
AndrogynousBirdtale@reddit
I'm def a Xennial. A lot of the things the 90s millennial kids talk about happened when I was already in middle/ high school.
Greycatsrule22@reddit
The older I get the more I feel like a millennial than Gen X so I was really glad that this little slice was acknowledged because Xennial really fits like neither one of those slots did.
Moist_Movie1093@reddit
I’m 1983 and typically say millennial or Elder Millennial.
jandrew2000@reddit
I didn’t find out I wasn’t GenX until I was 13. My dad had a 21 year old girlfriend. I told her we were in the same generation and she informed me that she was GenX and I was “whatever comes next, maybe GenY”
For a long time I felt like I didn’t have a home generation. The self-described millennials I knew had an entirely different experiences growing up than I did. This informed a worldview that I just didn’t identify with. I felt closer to Gen X, but it never felt right to call myself one of them.
Somewhere around 2010 I was really excited to learn about our micro generation, it was the first time I felt a sense of shared generational experience. I have referred to myself as an Xennial ever since.
Desertwrek@reddit
I usually feel more Gen X than Xennial, but I have my moments.
Door_in_Mirror@reddit
Millennial. I can go either way, but I identify as a millennial more.
nfssmith@reddit
Late-model GenX unless I think the person I’m talking to about it will get what a Xennial is.
lazer_sandwich@reddit
I like elder millennial. Makes me feel like Gandalf of the millennials
robocopsafeel@reddit
'83 here. I use both but when I'm explaining how I am an older millennial and also the youngest of 4, therefore I have a lot of nostalgia wrapped up in Gen X pop culture, Xennial feels the most fitting
stoneyj@reddit
I just say old
Hot-Significance-462@reddit
I like geriatric millennial because it makes my knees feel heard
jadedbeats@reddit
I call myself a millennial because technically that's what I am, but personally I feel like a xennial. I don't actually really care though
Good_Promotion8883@reddit
At 1977 with an older sister and a younger brother I'm solidly Xennial. Or, ya might say I go both ways.
Fluffy-Wave-6088@reddit
How do we pronounce this term? I’ve only ever seen it written. “Zennial” or “X-ennial”?
CheesyRomantic@reddit
Xennial.
I do and don't fit in with Gen X or with Mellennials.
disgirl4eva@reddit
Xennial
bookishdogmom@reddit
Xennial, born in ‘80.
I don’t feel like an X or Millennial at all.
mahzian@reddit
Xennial for me, I feel too young for Gen X and too old for Millennial but I can pass myself off as either, we are human chameleons.
Perfect-Resist5478@reddit
Xennial. I didn’t have Internet till I went to college so def not millennial
RoundTheBend6@reddit
I correct any millennial nonsense with xennial.
ihatecleaningtoilets@reddit
Xennial I relate far more to GenX than I do millennials
homerj681@reddit
Xennial, but I pronounce the "X"
Stop_Already@reddit
I’d rather be a millennial than an x’er at this point so I just say xennial and then explain what it is. 🙄😔
Hikikomori_Otaku@reddit
Y
Automatic_Beat5808@reddit
Reddit has convinced me that I am absolutely not a millennial.
newhappyrainbow@reddit
I’m 1977, so definitely on the X side, and my husband is 1968 on the other side of the generation… I feel like I identify best with older millennials but honestly, my friend group is split. Xennial feels most accurate.
SmokeyWolf117@reddit
Xennial. My friends are either my age or younger so that’s where I fit.
thirddownloud@reddit
Xennial. I was born in 79, but I remember way back when the media was having a cow about the slacker generation gen x, they did not include my year of birth in that group and I when I was a kid I always wondered about what my generation would he called.
HandWashing2020@reddit
Old millennial works
andiinAms@reddit
Technically I’m Gen X.
RiotPurrrl@reddit
Millennial. I don’t love the pronunciation of xennial and it kind of feels like I’m just being contrarian not to go with the more widely used term.
Extra_Shirt5843@reddit
I mostly call myself Gen X, actually. Born in 78.
RoxyLA95@reddit
I feel more Gen X than Millennial because I was the baby of the family.
D34N2@reddit
I refuse to call myself Gen X anymore because I'm just not that old. I was a little kid in the 80s, I don't have those same experiences. I can go with Millennial, as I have most of the same experiences as my Millennial friends. But more and more I am being reminded that I also have some different experiences that they view as old, so I prefer Xennial if anyone really cares to ask.
Jealous-Inspection11@reddit
Xennial. I was born early 80's. I was too young and thought before I acted to be a true Gen X, but too feral to be a millennial.
distant_diva@reddit
i’m ‘78 & consider myself a xennial cuz i don’t quite fit a millennial, but i def feel like a much different generation from my 4 older gen x siblings (born ‘67-‘73).
IFSismyjam@reddit
Late 76. Xennial is definitely the better fit for me. No internet until college but a cellphone in my pocket. With reduced rate calling on evenings and weekends.
remoteworker9@reddit
Technically I am Gen X (76) but I have little in common with people born in the 60s so I say Xennial.
TheThrivingest@reddit
In everyday conversation I call myself an elder millennial
PishPosh-01@reddit
I firmly stick with Xennial. There’s a huge difference between my brother (born in 88) and myself (83). He even insisted he was “Gen Z”-like argued about with me. He’s a solid Millennial (not even on the cusp of X or Z), who really thought he was Gen Z for some reason.
I keep using the term “Geriatric Millennial” and my husband hates it. He prefers Xennial or “Early Millennial”.
Rhianna83@reddit
Xennial hands down
BananasBananas34@reddit
I know I’m GenX categorically (1978) so only by 2 years… but I grew up mainly in the mentality of 80’s kid, 90’s teen/21, then Y2K hit and so did the world after it!
I have always been very proud to have seen and experienced life the way I did! Ever-changing, yet adaptable…
If I had my choice in defining Xennial, it would be the people like me, just on the cusp of GenX and Millennials! I’m like a hybrid, GenXennial!
PercentageCreepy2653@reddit
I call myself a baby Gen X
On_my_last_spoon@reddit
I’d call myself Gen X before Millennial, but usually Xennial
peepeemccrappy@reddit
Primarily Gen-X
good_enuffs@reddit
I correct people and state I am a Xennial because I am too techie to be a Gen X and have more common sense than a millennial.
GenXMillenial@reddit
The challenge with using Xennial is I pronounce it zen-nial and that lumps me into the zennials (millennials and gen Zers that overlap).
Illustrious-Lead-960@reddit
AHEM…
Positively_Eric@reddit
Xennial
1DietCokedUpChick@reddit
I’m Gen X.
squeaky19@reddit
Xennial or Gen X. 100% not a Millennial
Bakhtiian@reddit
Elder Millennial mostly
SuCzar@reddit
I'm too young for most things considered peak GenX media/experiences. I'm too old for the millennial ones. I was in hs when Pokemon came out and thought it was nonsense for children. It's a core piece of childhood identity for my friends a bit younger than me. Generation boundaries are arbitrary, if I call myself anything I do tend toward xennial.
putitontheunderhills@reddit
Ecksennial
Ginger630@reddit
Gen X or xennial. Never millennial lol!
Adrasteia-One@reddit
I started with Gen Y, the Millennial, then Star Wars Generation, and settled on Xennial.
broken_shadows@reddit
Gen Y for sure. Millennial just never feel right to me. Proudly Xennial now though, cause I like being part of this little micro generation of being able to remember the before and after times.
Adrasteia-One@reddit
Right? Xennial is a more memorable term too, I think. Wasn't sure how to pronounce it at first though, hehe.
broken_shadows@reddit
Lol, I wasn't sure either, but then realised it's bridging the gap between Gen X and Millennial, so the X should be emphasised (ex-ennial) haha!
Adrasteia-One@reddit
Haha yes, for the longest time I was calling it Zennial. Oops!
kaest@reddit
I don't typically call myself anything.
Cabaline_16@reddit
I say Xennial usually, or, depending on who I am talking to if I am trying to relate to them, I will say Milennial or elder Milennial. But usually Xennial (and I say it "zennial"). Born in 1980.
rajalove09@reddit
I’m a xennial and proud of it.
frooootloops@reddit
Xennial. I don’t have much of the millennial experience. A little too late. I have cousins who were early millennials and they lived a very different experience.
Cleanclock@reddit
I’m technically Gen X, but I have young kids so I relate much better with millennials at this particular juncture.
AliTheFloof@reddit
85' here and assigned millennial at birth. Tend to relate to older gen z more than my peers, though.
chemgeek_2@reddit
I definitely call myself Xennial. My partner hates that, and insists I'm GenX even though I'm a late '79 kiddo.
I have wayyyyy more in common with Millenials than GenX, and always have.
BlackFlag8595@reddit
I'm an 85 baby, we were poor so, I always relate more to Gen x then I do millennials, like my sister and husband who are 90's babies.
Aggravating-Try1222@reddit
Gen X
sarcasmexorcism@reddit
xennial. and i do the x-ennial pronunciation.
One_Mission9448@reddit
I was born in 1980 and they can’t even decide if that’s Gen X or Millennial as is, so I’ll go with Xennial since I have no real home.
broom-jerry@reddit
No
peesys@reddit
I'm a 90s kid not 80s
peesys@reddit
millenial because man those Gen x ppl be old. It is 1965-1980 and I am 1979 I refused to age myself. So I am openly an xennial but if I had to choose I would say millenial over Gen x
carcer_a@reddit
I do not.
M3m0ry_0v3rfl0w@reddit
Gen X ('78)
unbakedpizza@reddit
I say I’m a Xennial. I was born in 85, but have a bother born in 81 that had influence on me. I tend to feel I relate more to Gen X than Millennial traits.
_Internet_Hugs_@reddit
I'm a member of the Star Wars Generation. Born between the release of A New Hope and Return of the Jedi. 1977-1983.
5pens@reddit
Elder millennial
Sindorella@reddit
Xennial
Equal_Question_4594@reddit
Xennial. It’s important that we don’t let our distinct generation become even more forgotten
piratejeffwdw@reddit
Oregon Trail Generation or Gen Y
ElegantGoose@reddit
I'm either a baby Gen X or a Xennial
ohfrackthis@reddit
I'm too old to be millennial but feel gen X a tiny bit but my husband who is 5 yrs older than me has completely different childhood cultural memories than mine.
Accurate-Ad-8796@reddit
Call me Al
projectx51@reddit
I can call you Betty
Markaes4@reddit
I'm a xennial. I have siblings who are true gen-x and millenial. I am not the same as them. I'm closer to Gen-x by and experience, but still quite different, They grew up on Brady Bunch and Donny and Marie. I grew up on He-man, Transformers and Goonies.
Roxygirl40@reddit
Xennial or young Gen X. I don’t feel like a millennial at all but I’ll accept I’m not fully Gen X because I was a child in the 80s.
Dame_Ingenue@reddit
I just say Gen X. I’m not sure how many people are familiar with the micro-generation.
Weary-Translator-995@reddit
I’m 1977 but the youngest of a large family and extended family. Parents were lost generation . So I suppose I’m bi 🤷♂️
I can relate with a lot of older Gen X but I get along well with old Millennials
CupcakeVulture925@reddit
Xennial or Elder Millenial
DG04511@reddit
Xennial 100%
Absofrickinlutely@reddit
No. Gens is just horoscopes for gen x to feel superior about
personguy@reddit
My wife is a solid Millennial. I'm not quite old enough to be solid Gen X, but we have enough differences that Xennial seems to work for me.
wiltrvls@reddit
Nintendo generation ... a la Hackers
Hawaiiflower22@reddit
1978 and i identify with neither, lol. Xennial fits me perfectly! But if i had to choose i’d pick a flee millennial. i have nothing in common w the older generation Xers at work
tabrazin84@reddit
I say I’m a “cusper”. Or typically I just say I’m old AF
SissyWasHere@reddit
I’m Xennial. But technically I would fall into Gen X, not millennial.
Moist-Golf-8339@reddit
I call myself either Gen X or Xennial
projectx51@reddit
Xennial
538_Jean@reddit
I generally call myself the first Millennial
WhatIGot21@reddit
I was call gen-x my whole life but now people want to call me a millennial, I’m gen-x.
Filbertine@reddit
Gen X (‘79 qualifies)
fozzyfozzburn@reddit
I call myself Steve.
HighOnGoofballs@reddit
So just fuck the genX folks?
Vivid-Masterpiece78@reddit
I like Xennial because I’ve never felt exactly X or Millennial. To me GenX is like the Reality Bites generation: Angry, Cool, independent. But those kids were older than me when that move came out. Millennial term came out later so even though I could be “elder millennial” who tf wants to be called that 😆 So I stick with Xennial but pronounce the X
Witty-Common-1210@reddit
Wait does this make Boomer / Gen Xers
Xoomers?!?!!!!?!!!
c0147@reddit
Gen X. Millennials are the high school graduating class of 2000 (hence the name) and later.
_FLostInParadise_@reddit
I like this sub cause we all shared a lot of experiences growing up, but irl I don't use titles for generations at all.
freebird_inthe_wind@reddit
Xennial or Baby-X, but I play well with Elder Millennials :-D
Cass_Q@reddit
Gen X.
Puzzleheaded_Net_863@reddit
1981, so millennial. If amuses me to be a really old millenial by a few months. Also, someone once went on a rant at me how no one born in 1981 is a millenial, and I'm only a xennial. Xennial is a micro generation, my actual generation is millenial.
armyofant@reddit
Technically X but Xennial is a much more fitting term for anyone born between 1975-85
AntiqueCandidate7995@reddit
Whatever...
guiltypleasures82@reddit
Depends if I'm trying to be younger seeming or explain why I dont get something.
Shadowstriker_777@reddit
Xennial
Inevitable-While-577@reddit
Xennial or elder Millennial.
gurnard@reddit
Same. Kinda depends what cultural touch point I'm dealing with.
Some things are squarely millennial cultural phenomena, that I was at the older end for, but still clearly of the generation.
My fiancee was born in 91, so she's like "peak" millennial. Sometimes it feels like we're the same generation, sometimes it feels like I'm from a different century.
Like having internet at home (dialup, but still) was common as early as she remembers, where I used a rotary phone.
SpookyTheDevilCat@reddit
1980 Xennial here. I married a true millennial born in ‘88. Much learning has happened.
I call myself GenX because no one has the time to want to hear me out about what Xennial really means except you guys lol
ComprehensiveTour278@reddit
I was born in 79 so I am technically Gen X, but I have never fully fit with them. I am definitely not a Millennial. I am absolutely a Xennial. There is a reason our microgeneration exists. We are the crossover generation.
USConservativeVegan@reddit
Xennial fits me better than Millienal and GenX. Because I find nostalgia with many 80s films and television that I originally watched as a child. They weren't reruns. However, what laid the foundation of most of what music and film interests was the 90s. I find myself tampering off of being part of the "pop culture" around 2009 or so. That was around the time I feel everything started to suck.
When it comes to what inspired my path into adulthood, it was the 80s patriotic ethnos. When I graduated in the 90s, I didn't go to college like most Millienals, I enlisted in the military. Which caused me to miss any of the stress of getting employment during the 2008 recession.
I also find Millienals whine too much about boomers screwing up the country. I just roll my eyes seeing how their have some easy office job when my boomer parent worked in a factory all his life. When my mom's side lived in the 60s while her older sister raised an mixed race child. Even in liberal urban East coast, that didn't go well.
Every generation has their problems. Not saying Millienals don't have problems. However, at least you ain't dying in some coal mine in the late 1900s or having to fight actual Nazis in WW2 or dealing with real systemic racism in the 60s.
Toph_a_loaf@reddit
Born in 80 and was married when 9-11 happened. I'm too old to be a Millennial and don't quite fit in with the Breakfast Club Gen Xers. Xennial fits perfect.
rockstar1083@reddit
Xennial for sure. Always.
Traditional-Page7788@reddit
I want to reclaim “echoboomer” 🤪
Sparklesnow77@reddit
Xennial. I can't relate to the GenX memories from the 70's because I wasn't born until '79. Their pop culture references like movies from the 80s, I was just a little kid. Plus, my dad is a scientist and we always had a computer. Was in AOL chat rooms from around 6th grade. But I know I'm older than the millenials. So Xennial just fits.
Beetso@reddit
Xennial or Oregon Trail Gen.
AnteaterCritical9168@reddit
Definitely Xennial. I have absolutely always felt like I straddled the line
Low_Soil_6831@reddit
I don’t, because labels are lame. Cool sub though
bluecanary101@reddit
I’m a ‘78, so I often identify myself as Gen X (and feel that those are my people so much more than millennials), but Xennial is good too!
I_HaveSeenTheLight@reddit
Again Gen X is left out of the options 😪. I'm Gen X, but feel I fit in more with Xennial. Proud to be an Xennial.
Austaras@reddit
I typically refer to myself as an Oregon Trail Gen.
moar_waffles_plz@reddit
I am 1985 so technically more Millennial so I think I just call myself a Millennial. but I honestly feel like I often relate more to this group than the millennial group… like I very much feel different than the younger Millennials!
notverycashmoney44@reddit
1981, I call myself “the eldest millennial”
Trismesjistus@reddit
Of these choices, definitely Xennial. I am properly generation X But I don't fully identify with them for sure
mousee3176@reddit
Xennial 81
Shoddy-Definition-13@reddit
Gen X, because I am.
sexwiththebabysitter@reddit
Neither
YeilKhaa@reddit
My two favorite names are the Star Wars generation (born between the theatrical releases of the original trilogy), or the Oregon Trail generation.
Sometimes call myself an Elder Millennial too.
smoothops85@reddit
85 Im xennial in my eyes(depends on source)
Barracuda_Recent@reddit
Xennial?
CorkFado@reddit
I call myself a middle-aged man.
Borracho_Bandit@reddit
Xennial. Born in 83. If you liked the power rangers you are a millennial.
Tsunamiis@reddit
Usually Thomas
Kriegerian@reddit
Xennial. All the emotional neglect of Gen X with a hint of the maniacal helicopter parenting of a millennial.
_NoleFan6@reddit
I usually say I’m a millennial with late Gen X influence, a Xennial, or a pre-9/11 millennial.
Lornesto@reddit
I'm an 80 model, so smack in the middle of them. The last year of Gen X, or the first year of millennials, depending on who's doing the counting.
And... I've never really felt like I strongly identified with either of them? Maybe that's why I've found the Xennial stuff somewhat appealing? (Also, the generally lighter and more friendly tone of this subreddit helps)
DocBEsq@reddit
I’m late ‘76, so I’m too old to be a millennial. So, even though I tend to identify more with millennial life events, I was stuck with Gen X. Xennial is way better.
DrMasterBlaster@reddit
I was born in 1984, but my family wasn't well off so I remember typing reports on a typewriter, no cable (bunny ears), etc.
I might be a Millennial but given the lack of 1980's creature comforts I feel like I got more of a Xennial experience. But I usually just say Millennial because then people ask "What's a Xennial?" then I feel pretentious about having to explain, etc.
TPSReport1@reddit
Xennial
tesseractjane@reddit
85... old Millennial. Sort of Xennial. My husband is 78, so everything we remember in common feels more Xennial, but he was over seas when I was a teenager so anything he doesn't find culturally relevant is Millenial.
MusicalCougar@reddit
‘76, and I never questioned being GenX until reading this. Brother (‘69) is GenX; ex-husband (‘68) is more like a boomer. BF (‘88) is a millennial I have way more in common with.
void_method@reddit
Xennial, because I'm more X than Millenial. If you go by stereotypes, obviously.
babyBear83@reddit
I always felt like I was too old to be a millennial and too young to be Gen X. It was maybe 8 years ago when one of my sisters friends (younger Gen X) told me “that’s because you’re in the micro generation between them” and I was like - oh, right, that makes sense. It’s been xennial no mans land ever since.
Nwcray@reddit
When I’m around actual Gen X’ers, I’m definitely a Millennial. And then when I’m around actual Millennials, I am definitely Gen X.
When I’m around Gen Z/Alpha, I’m just old.
Anyway, I don’t really fit anywhere. Except here with you fine people.
NJTrash@reddit
I usually call myself a Goonie, but xennial if I have to. 1979 is a weird year for us to be born in.
PapaTua@reddit
I always was called Gen X but all the GenX'ers I knew felt like grown ups to me when I was a kid, so I just felt like the youngest brother in the family, that everybody ignores. Which felt really bad because Gen X's subtitle is "The forgotten Generation" and I felt forgotten within the forgotten Generation. Identity erasure.
But when the term Millennial started being thrown around, they always seemed to be talking about people way younger than me, and even though my lived experience still closely matched the Millennials, I still hung on to being Gen X.
Then "The Oregon Trail Generation" caught traction and it was like finding my true place for the very first time, and that was eventually rebranded as Xennial.
So while I can interact like a native inside both GenX and Millennials, I call myself a Xennial because it's the only label that fits perfectly.
ChristyLovesGuitars@reddit
Xennial. I don’t have much in common with Millennials, particularly core or younger. Slightly more in common Gen X, but not so much most of them today.
Farewellandadieu@reddit
Even in a fringe Gen X sub, Gen Xers are erased once again! 😫😂
Kidding, of course. Late ‘77, so I’d never call myself a millennial, and have several strong Gen X traits. But so, so many of them are MAGA idiots with a Boomer mindset. They’re arrogant and don’t embrace change.
Definitely Xennial
oneeweflock@reddit
Xennial all the way.
be_loved_freak@reddit
Xennial.
Johnnnybones@reddit
Xennial absolutely, don't you dare call me a millennial
s0_spoiled@reddit
No but you can call me AL.
YorkiesandSneakers@reddit
I’m not into your labels, maaaaaaan!
Oceanbreeze871@reddit
Xennial. I dont fit in with either but have Elements of both
PIG20@reddit
I'm a 1979 Gen X that identifies as Xennial.
Somone-Who-Isnt-Me@reddit
Xennial
Difficult-Ring-2251@reddit
100% Xennial.
codedigger@reddit
Meat Popsicle
tronassembled@reddit
Xennial, I was weirdly relieved to find out the term existed... I felt like I identified with Gen X but they didn't identify with me
Prairie2Pacific@reddit
1983 and I never used to call myself anything, because I'd always get told by the our shoulder generations.
Online I call myself a xennial, but irl I just say old millennial.
Esseldubbs@reddit
Xennial. I'm an '81, so feel pretty solidly in the xennial camp
Playtek@reddit
I graduated high school in 2000 so I’m a millennial.
_shaftpunk@reddit
I usually go with “piece of shit”.
DarksunDaFirst@reddit
I call myself a Millennial. We’re the original, and we shouldn’t have to change our names because the others suck.
thatotherguy57@reddit
I was about 30 when I found out I was an elder millennial. My parents had always told me I was at the very end of Gen X.
brunch_blanket@reddit
Xennial makes more sense for me that Millenial.
gleek12@reddit
Xennial , early 80s born
Lumpy_Branch_552@reddit
1982, technically millennial, go by either
johnb300m@reddit
I’ve been gravitating toward Xennial more. Used to say “early stage Millennial.”
hotdogjumpingfrog1@reddit
You keep stretching it. It’s 1977-1984
Silly_Sherbet5543@reddit
Xennial
LuisMataPop@reddit
too young to be genx too old to be a millenial, but until a few years I was always considered genx
massunderestmated@reddit
1980 here. Xennial.
pink_faerie_kitten@reddit
Xennial. Or elder millennial.
That_Isopod_1394@reddit
84 no older siblings or cousins. 100% millennial.
mariposa314@reddit
'84, I call myself a millennial.
It seems to only come up at the doctor's office during exams when I have to explain that I'm wearing a million layers because I'm a millennial. Layers and layers of clothes are hard wired into my brain.
toooldforthisshittt@reddit
Gen X
TJBurkeSalad@reddit
Millennial
jmerrilee@reddit
I call myself Gen X.
cbih@reddit
I prefer OG Millennial. Class of 2001!
LMurch13@reddit
Xennial. I'm a young Gen X, but grew up with my 3 millennial brothers, so I don't feel Gen X.
beebs44@reddit
Perrennial
tibbycat@reddit
Millennial. Although once upon a time it was "Gen Y".
malachite_animus@reddit
Xennial or Oregon Trail micro-generation.
Spare-Good-5372@reddit
I definitely fit in better in this sub than in the millennial one, but IRL I just say millennial to avoid confusion.
Intelligent-Salt-362@reddit
Being ‘82 vintage I am on the millennial side of the Xennial crowd and unless I am specifically talking to other xennials I’ll most often refer to myself as an Elder Millennial, as in “ Do not cite the deep magic to me, witch. I was there when it was written.”
snail13@reddit
I consider my brother (1970) to be true Gen X. Since we are 9 yrs apart, our upbringings and childhood/ youth experiences were vastly different. Shit, the earliest Gen X are in their 60’s.
I tend to associate and relate more to older millennials. Most of my close friends are older millennials since it’s only like a year difference, plus I dropped out of college and went back in my 30’s, and naturally gravitated to people within 5-6 yrs of me. Most of my ride or dies are millennials or xennials like me
joeliopro@reddit
X gon give it to ya. So... Yes. Xennial.
Mapper9@reddit
Xennial or Gen X
SBMoo24@reddit
Xennial. We earned it.
ChiefBroady@reddit
Xennial, or alternatively elder millennial.
hipkat13@reddit
I’m a Xennial, but I sympathize with Millennials. I feel a lot of older Gen Xers are too boomerish.
pawogub@reddit
When it ever actually comes up I usually go with “old millennial”.
GoldEyes86@reddit
Xennial. Gen-X feels too old and Millennial feels too young. 🤷♀️
PhillNewcomer@reddit
I definitely prefer Xennial. Born in 81 leaned towards genX culture.
Always thought millennials were born in 90s/00s and always will.
badz21@reddit
Born in 1976. I call myself a Xennial because I genuinely feel on the cusp a young Gen X/old millennial. My Gen Alpha daughter thinks I’m being ridiculous though.
mrmcgeek@reddit
I like xennial and the idea that our micro generation grew up analog and we’re the first to fully adopt to the digital world.
Plus I feel too young compared to the Gen X people I know and too old to be a millennial.
Sleepy_cheetah@reddit
I had an older brother who was 6 years older than me. He was GenX and I was born in 1980. He was the Arbiter of what was cool. If he liked something, I knew it was 👍🏻. He was always very popular, made everyone laugh, people loved being around him. He said I was NOT GenX because I was not cognizant of what was going on until later. GenX starts in 1980 but I feel it's have more in common with the elderly millennials or Xennials. Mostly I go by Xennial.
gnomequeen2020@reddit
I was born in '80, so I've always felt like I didn't belong in either X or Millennial. Heck, it varies depending on which source you use to determine when generations start and end. My favorites were the one that said 60-79(X) and 81-99(M), like to hell with everyone born in 80, and the other one was X July 60 - June 80 and M July 80 - June 00. I was born at the end of June, so are we saying that I would be an entirely different generation had I been born a couple of days later?
It also became pretty clear that I have jack shit in common with someone born in the early 60's, nor do I have much in common with someone born in the late 90's. The world just changed so rapidly and dramatically during our lifetimes. So, yes, I definitely prefer Xennial because it just captures our weird micro-generation so much better.
Plumeria9798@reddit
Yeah, the cutoffs are arbitrary. I’m almost positive X used to go until 1984 and that made sense based on the boomers being 18 years long that X would be about 18 years long instead of 15…it probably should be boomers, 1946-1964, X 1965-1983, millennials 1984-1996ish. I do think that based on tech moving super quickly in the 90s and beyond that at that point generations should be shortened because the tech of one generation’s childhood changes drastically every decade or so.
I’m an early 80s baby and the tech I grew up with was super analog until I entered adulthood and the internet really took off. I didn’t have a cellphone until I was 20. No smartphone until my mid/late 20s. No social media until my mid/late 20s either. So I definitely identify more with someone born in the late 60s than someone born in the 90s when it comes to what our childhoods looked like. Hope this all makes sense. TLDR; the date ranges are arbitrary.
senbenitoo@reddit
As if! Xennial til I die!!
grumpyoldnord@reddit
Both, depending on the context. Or Elder Millennial.
BeenisHat@reddit
Millennial in conversation. Nobody really knows what a Xennial is.
Xennial on the Internet.
Dakkin4@reddit
fermentedradical@reddit
Oldest Millennial. Born late November 1980, so feels about right.
StonedinNH@reddit
I think that's technically Gen X. 1965-1980 and 1981-1996 is millenial.
fermentedradical@reddit
Yes but it's an arbitrary mark, I was always the youngest in my class, and I missed the mark by a month? I have younger siblings so always felt pulled in the millennial direction. Never felt like a Gen Xer.
That's why I like the term Xennial.
lassiemav3n@reddit
Really? That’s interesting - youngest in the class is August in the UK!
danglingfern@reddit
I feel this. December 23rd 1980 so just shy of the arbitrary border. I’m super familiar with gen x and millennial culture but slightly too young/old to feel like I belong to either core group.
StonedinNH@reddit
Ah, understood. I was born at the end of 79' and have 2 sisters (76'&78') so I always felt part of Gen X. Xennial definitely fits the best though.
FineScratch@reddit
Elder millennial
UraniumRocker@reddit
Vintage Millennial
Cactilily@reddit
Xennial. I always felt that I had more in common with those born in ‘75 than ‘85. Those who grew up on Voltron 😌 as opposed to MMPR 🥴
TheLastBoat@reddit
Xennial. I was in High School when the Millennials were playing with Pokémon.
revolutionoverdue@reddit
Gen X
Dry_Inspection_4583@reddit
I don't, i've rarely if ever had a dialogue outside my home about it.. but here I do say xennial and my family gets it.
DarthWeber@reddit
I'm an older millennial but call myself a part of the Oregon trail generation
phoenix0r@reddit
I call myself an elder millennial (1984). While internally I identify more as Xennial, I don’t think many know that term, and externally I think I come off as more of an elder millennial anyway (home owner, side part, skinny jeans, ankle socks, etc).
Runinbearass@reddit
Im exactly the same except for the side part.. time has been cruel to my hair line
CasualEveryday@reddit
Similar for me. I am the youngest AND we were poor, so I grew up about 5 years behind my actual age.
Ippus_21@reddit
Xennial
I'm just that bit too young to fit right with all the Gen X stuff.
But I never really fit with a lot of the millennial stuff, either, from people my little brother's age and younger, like born after 86 or so... especially not the kids who were born after 1990. That's a different ballgame in a lot of ways.
EarlBeforeSwine@reddit
I can’t say that I find many occasions where I find a need to use a particular generation name to define/describe myself.
I don’t consider myself to be gen-x or millennial, though… xennial is as good of a name as any… but outside of this sub, I don’t use it, or any other generational name.
RVDRVDRVDRVD@reddit
Xennial. Closer to Millenial on the date range, but closer to Gen X in spirit.
lickmywatermelon@reddit
Gen Y.
disneyplusser@reddit
I call myself a Xennial officially; I never felt Gen X and I never felt Millennial.
When asked, I always defined us as those born between Star Wars (1977) and Return of the Jedi (1983).
Dazzling-Pace-7134@reddit
Analog childhood, digital adulthood. Xennial, through and through.
RamenRoy@reddit
Millenial. 84. I just like the vibes y'all got going on. 😎
LuxyontheMoon@reddit
1984, my husband and I call ourselves Millennials, but never felt like Millennials.
cantwejustplaynice@reddit
I'm happy with being a xenial or millennial but not gen X, they seem broken.
AlgoRhythMatic@reddit
As 76-er, I stick with GenX or Xennial. I’m much closer to an old man yelling at the clouds vs. Millennials that haven’t yet met their mid-life crisis era.
Superpriestess@reddit
Neither, I call myself GenX. Born in 79 with two older siblings so lots of their influence.
etoiline@reddit
I stick with Xennial, because I feel like there really is a difference between folks who grew up completely without the Internet, those of us who encountered it while still young enough to wonder at it but could also deal with things being offline, and the younger folks who never knew childhood without the Web.
firewifegirlmom0124@reddit
jazzbot247@reddit
Nothing- because Generations are made up BS made to cause division. You haven’t noticed Millenials vs Boomers Gen X vs everyone. Males vs Females, Red vs Blue, Everyone vs Karens. These are all labels to cause division provoked by social media. I’m not buying into it.
blessitspointedlil@reddit
Por que no dos?
Both are true.
sleepy_unicorn40@reddit
I was born not even a full month into 1981. I considered myself as Gen X. Once I learned more about Xennials, I knew where I belonged.
My younger siblings are very clearly Millennials but not me. I'm a Xennial.
n8_S@reddit
After learning the term I use xennial
Def that over elder millennial.
oopsymeohboy@reddit
Haha I love how the OP leaves GenX out in the post, perfectly nailed the cliche that we’re always forgotten, never acknowledged.
Depending on how deep the conversation is I call myself GenX or xennial.
jez_shreds_hard@reddit
I call myself an elder millennial, which is technically accurate. I honestly don’t relate as much with true Gen X as I do with millennials. Especially older millennials born before 1990
skin_e0909@reddit
I feel like GenX, but xennial I can live with
Weird_Squirrel_8382@reddit
I've never said Xennial out loud. I'm mostly here cause y'all remember the same music I liked!
mzshowers@reddit
Xennial and Gen X from 1978.
Burlington-bloke@reddit
I certainly don't call myself a Millennial! I explain the "Micro Generation" to those snot nosed little millennial bitches and Gen Zedders all the time.
metalmachineZ@reddit
I always bring it up when conversation comes up about millennials, especially when I'm classified as one. I'm quick to correct.
n33dwat3r@reddit
In person I call myself an "elder millennial" because I don't know how to pronounce xennial.
I also think of myself as part of "the oregon trail generation" as well as a "dial up internet kid."
Plumeria9798@reddit
I call myself Xennial or sometimes an X cusper. I refuse to go with millennial. Husband and I are both early 80s babies with siblings born in the late 80s and they’re both so stereotypically millennial and it’s crystal clear that they are not cut from the same cloth.
Upbeat_Tart_4897@reddit
I’m technically Gen X but I just often can’t relate and Xennial fits me much more so I’ve embraced calling myself that
LopensCouisin@reddit
Xennial being born in March of 1981.
jahneeriddim@reddit
I’m a special snowflake!
P-a-n-a-m-a-m-a@reddit
Gen X.
I consider my siblings millennials - they’re idiots. lol
BigRonDongson@reddit
Xennial for me, I never for a second thought I was a millennial
avalonfaith@reddit
Xennial for sure. I get made fun of by everyone even just a year older than me when I say I'm a millennial. I graduated JS in '99 - how much more millennial could I be? Like whateves! I feel like xennial is my true home as I've had both experiences. 100%
Kinky-Bicycle-669@reddit
Xennial. I don't relate to a lot of Millennials.
grim_reapers_union@reddit
I’m a Xennial, but I just say Millennial unless there’s a specific need to make the distinction.
killa_sushi_robot@reddit
Xennial now. it’s been lately that I understand the psychological difference, especially being a small business owner kids these days.
ocvagabond@reddit
How is micro generation 10 years long when full generations are 15 years?
zombieplum@reddit
I've only seen those years here. Typically it's 1977-1983. Dunno why otherwise is said.
Antique_Paramedic682@reddit
Probably because the analog to digital transition was major, a literal explosion of culture in every direction. The means by which you grew up had a giant influence on your experience, whether left or right of the defintion. ie MTV was always on, or you had a family PC early/late, or your siblings were all Gen X, etc..
That's why you see so many mid to late 70s folks with the same experiences as those up until the mid 80s.
ocvagabond@reddit
I get it, everyone wants to fit in, but no way in hell is that broader definition accurate.
I say Xennial. If pressed “ Gen X now fuck off!” Just to prove a point
devour_feculence___@reddit
Xennial. How do you pronounce Xennial?
Hoodiebug22@reddit
85 and I have always identified with millennials more than Gen X.
YNABDisciple@reddit
I"m a Xennial and I'd call myself Gen x before Millenial
EastTXJosh@reddit
As much as I love this sub, I consider myself Gen X in every sense of the word.
Previous_Injury_8664@reddit
I actually am a Millennial (1985) so that makes that easy, but with several older siblings I do tend to have a lot of nostalgia in common with Xennials.
foxtongue@reddit
I'm a Xennial. It's my little siblings that are Millennials. The difference is ++real++.
nuskit@reddit
Xennial. Born 1980. I don't belong in either Gen X or Millenial. My husband was born in 1968 and is definitely Gen X.
zenestex@reddit
Gen X. Only a Millennial would come up with a term like Xennial.
Rolenalong@reddit
Xennial because I used a rotary phone AND a 56k Modem in my life.
morbidnerd@reddit
Elder Millennial.
It makes me feel like a wise wizard
Few_Improvement_6357@reddit
Depends. Most of the time I say Xennial, but sometimes I say Baby X.
Muted_Month83@reddit
Xennial
half-a-cat@reddit
I like Xennial
dollheads@reddit
Born in ‘81, and I call myself a Xennial (with a Z). I have younger siblings born in ‘87 and 91, and they are definitely Millennials. I have an older sibling (‘79) and we did not have the same childhoods as the younger two, even though we all have the same parents.
toejampotpourri@reddit
I'm in Xenial. It's like denial, but better.
gimmeslack12@reddit
I don’t fucking care.
Sad_Firefighter_8407@reddit
Gen Y
Lcky22@reddit
Baby Gen X
pls_send_caffeine@reddit
Both, but more often Xennial, specifically with the pronunciation "ex-ennial." None of this "xennial is pronounced zennial" nonsense.
Popular-Departure165@reddit
I don't call myself either. Arbitrary labels are pointless.
JeffTS@reddit
I used to call myself GenX before Xennial became a thing. Still do sometimes.
Beneficial_Cicada_37@reddit
I feel like broke millennials get the xennial experience.
Traditional_Entry183@reddit
Ive called myself a Xenial since I was in college, around 99.
Core Gen Xers are just too different from me, and im far too old to be a core Milennial, though I do have more similarities to them than X without question.
MyAvarice4@reddit
I identify more with the Gen X side, but as I see my slightly older friends morphing into “get-off-my-lawners” I’m clinging more to the Xennial side. Haha. My youngest sibling is the millennialist millennial I know, and I refuse to align (though he is a great person). 😬
Late-Arrival-8669@reddit
Xennial
redrosebeetle@reddit
Xennial. 1981, ffs
AffectBrave4834@reddit
I thought we were calling ourselves Goonies now 🙂
silentsinner-@reddit
I don't feel the need to label myself. I am me not my generation. My generation just describes when I was born.
krisztinastar@reddit
“Elder millennial”
andiluxe@reddit
It depends on who I’m talking to. If it’s to a Millennial, then I’ll say I’m a Xennial. To everyone else I’m an elder millennial.
Reasonable-Wave8093@reddit
Ima Goonie
Roland-Of-Eld-19@reddit
Gen Y as in Why the Heck Did Life Get So Damn Pricey For Our Generation 🤷♂️
Cold-Monk5436@reddit
Xennial. Born 1981.
YoshiandAims@reddit
Xennial. An elder Millennial. I was raised "in the old ways" as I like to say.
edwardturnerlives@reddit
I don't want to be Millenial but I also don't relate to a large percentage of Gen X. But Reddit likes to tell me I'm not allowed to be Xennial.
Kobeer01@reddit
The "time before timeout" generation... The generation that got our asses whooped for not minding our elders.
TwixorTweet@reddit
I'm of the camp Xennial needs to be it's own generation.
LilBennyPoo@reddit
If it comes up, I say genX cause I'm too old to relate to millennials
Rememberancy@reddit
Xennial for sure.
My older cousins are all Gen X, I have some things in common with them, but I don’t feel like I was ever in their party.
My younger cousins are all millennials, I they were into a bunch of kid shit.
spinners_888@reddit
Xennial is a good description. Too young to be Gen X, too old to be considered Millenial. Love golden era hip hop but too young for illegal raves in the UK (\~1988-94); lived through 8 bit (do millenials remember Atari 2600?), 16 bit, and >32 bit games consoles in my youth (do millenials remember Atari 2600?); young enough at the time to live through/remember Communism, Berlin wall.
Responsible_Park3317@reddit
I begrudgingly admitted to gen x, felt like millennial, and now claim xennial.
wanna_be_green8@reddit
Xennial.. I have very little in common with our younger cohorts.
PercentageRoutine310@reddit
Born December 1980. High school class of 1999. Most my classmates would be considered Gen Y as that's what we called it back then before "Millennials" became a thing. But mt personality and experiences fits more with Gen X. I went to the Millennials sub and it's not for me. But I when I check the Gen X sub, all the stuff showing '80s nostalgia, I related it more..
I waa born at the tail-end of Gen X. But I have cousins and sibs considered Millennials born in the '90s (1990-1994) and it's like they are different breed than me. I didn't experiment helicopter parenting. I'm a latchkey kid. My parents are late Boomers but had me young qnd don't act like typical Boomers. They seem a little closer to Gen X like I am.
Repulsive_Science254@reddit
Late 1980. If you look at a list of typical Gen X things, I don’t understand 90% of the references. But also Millennials were into Backstreet Boys and Disney and I was too old for that too. So, Xennial is where I really live.
Firebolt164@reddit
Xennial. When I look at millennial content, I feel like I'm 5 years too old to connect to it (I graduated HS in 2002, so really 1995-2000 were my formative years culturally)
_KeenObserver@reddit
That’s exactly how I felt when I first heard the term Millennials, it never quite lined up with my experience. We didn’t grow up with texting, smartphones, or social media shaping how we communicated. If you wanted to talk to someone, you called their house or showed up. Most of us learned how to read a room and interact face to face long before we could hide behind a screen. And culturally, there’s a bit of a gap too. A lot of the core millennial touchstones like Harry Potter or SpongeBob hit just a little late for us. By the time those took off, we were already aging out or focused on other things. Nothing wrong with either of those, they’re great for what they were, I just couldn’t relate.
Firebolt164@reddit
Exactly. I got into texting in college 😂
herseyhawkins33@reddit
I don't care anymore 🤷
selphiekupo@reddit
Xennial mostly because of how I was raised. Very much a feral latchkey kid from the start raised by hippies in the middle of nowhere. I'm actually rather envious of many posts on here because we were raised so backwards. Like house didn't have electricity or an indoor bathroom some of my childhood backwards. So we didn't get gadgets, cartoons, pop culture references, etc. But me and bro did get trauma resulting in a great sense of humor, so there's that!
DoctorsSong@reddit
I claim both titles. Some days I feel more of one than the other depending on the hour, day, week, month, year.
leftyjamie@reddit
Honestly, years ago in marketing I always saw it spelled as Xellennial. I don’t mind your spelling. I was born in 75, but never really had any connection with the Gen X stuff. I have siblings 10 & 12 years younger so experienced a lot of their pop culture stuff so felt in between Millennial and X.
karly21@reddit
Xennial. Husband insists I am Gen-X like him, friend days I am millennial like her....
Optimal_Row3798@reddit
Xennial
shadowofzero@reddit
84, I remember watching the Berlin Wall fall
Away-Passenger-9920@reddit
I was born September 1980 in Southeast Asia. Granted, some things were quite different over there in contemporary culture even though we were inundated with imported American entertainment (MTV and the likes). Lived in Europe and hanging out with Western Europeans and Americans in my 20s and early 30s, and I identified as a 'gen X with a millenial mentality.' So, Xennial fits me perfectly.
TijayesPJs443@reddit
Xennial
keto_and_me@reddit
I just call myself middle age. I don’t remember the label being so important when we were growing up? And I don’t even know what generation my kids are? Z I guess? What’s after Z? Alpha maybe?
Significant-Block260@reddit
I was so excited to discover “Xennial” because I could never consider myself a millennial. Born in 81, class of 99; half of my class would have technically been the youngest Gen Xers and the other half (including me) would technically be the oldest of the Millennials but that just feels so wrong. Xennial captures it perfectly.
poodog13@reddit
I don’t label myself
Jerkrollatex@reddit
Gen X generally.
BreakfastBeerz@reddit
Gen X
MadameTree@reddit
X or xennial, but 1978 is Gen X. Post 1980s ate Millenials.
andronicus_14@reddit
Technically a millennial. Class of 2000.
MulberryEastern5010@reddit
Xennial, from 1984
Fasttrackyourfluency@reddit
Nintendo Gen ❤️💯
That’s what we got called in Australia before they started moving and adjusting the gens🤔
Mrpeewee982001@reddit
Geriatric Millennial is what I use.
Suitable_Matter_9427@reddit
Xennial, but lately leaning toward X (born in 80)
ThePaleDreamer@reddit
Elder Millennial. I was born in 83, and while I don’t necessarily relate to everything core millennial, I relate to enough. I don’t relate to anything core Gen X. I was too young and too sheltered to experience most of that. I don’t care for the term xennial, so I will only use that begrudgingly. Oregon Trail generations good though.
BeefSupremeeeeee@reddit
Yeah, Millennials had such a negative rap and I just didn't seem to fit that description. Leaned more Gen-X but Xennials is perfect term for where we/I sit.
iekika@reddit
Elder millennial
Moons_of_Moons@reddit
Will I'm technically GenX 😒
TheWorldIsNotOkay@reddit
I feel very much like an elder Xennial, being born in 77. There are significant differences in my life experiences compared to both most Gen Xers and most Millennials, particularly in the areas of culture and technology.
readyforthisyep@reddit
Xennial really resonnates with me, but I’m technically Gen X and don’t identify with Millenials at all. I dont think of anyone born in the 70s, including 79, as a Millenial, but I have friends born in 1980 who describes themselves as Millenials. I tend to draw the line at 1982.
S_A_R_K@reddit
Nope. Star Wars generation if anything
dadjokes502@reddit
I call it the Digital generation
We went from Telephones to Cellphones
From being the remote to having a remote
We bridge the gap of Technology
indigocherry@reddit
Online, usually Xennial. Offline, Millennial because most people don't even know what a Millennial is, let alone a Xennial.
moejike@reddit
I don't fit totally in with Millennials or Gen X, so... Xennial I be.
pick_up_a_brick@reddit
Neither because it’s all bullshit made up by marketers & Time magazine.
SnooPaintings5597@reddit
GenXennial
No-Calligrapher3043@reddit
I still prefer the term "80's baby"
Prestigious-Row-3244@reddit
Xennial. It truly is the most appropriate! 🙌
SSolomonGrundy@reddit
Cusp Xennial (last couple months of 75). To me, graduating from high school in the 90s is what defines us as a gen, so I guess backdating it, would be 1972-1982. Which would not actually make me cusp.
MTV defines us in ways that older and younger folks can't relate to.
folksongcat@reddit
I usually say elder millennial. Only because it doesn’t seem like too many people have heard “xennial”.
AtFishCat@reddit
1980 - Xennial or Gen Y.
Kellzy1212@reddit
Elder Millennial, but i use all three depending on the situation.
SolarDarkMagician@reddit
Xennial. My brother is 4 years younger very late 80s, and he's firmly Millennial, though I did have a good influence on him until I moved out. 😂
Fallsfrostdew@reddit
I call myself an xennial (pronounced Ex ineal )
Tdk1984@reddit
Millennial, though I feel Xennial as a sub group fits me better than the rest of the Millennials do
Imaginary_Scene2493@reddit
I’m Xennial. I’m pretty much smack in the middle of the Xennial range, and some put me in the last year of Gen X. I had a Gen X childhood and was an early adopter of the internet so I don’t identify as either Gen X or millennial.
flamingknifepenis@reddit
On paper I’m solidly millennial, so I just say “old millennial” because nothing sounds less appealing to me than having a conversation about where to split micro generations, but I can also see that from a cultural standpoint I have 1,000x more in common with ‘80 borns (and earlier) than I do my siblings who were born in ‘89 or ‘91.
There was something to that switch from an analog childhood, through the Wild West days of the internet, and into the social media era that permanently etched itself onto our DNA. I have a mix of the “Whatever, everything will be fine” Gen X apathy, swirled up with the “everything is fucked” millennial anxiety.
By their powers combined, I have a unique ability to find myself thinking “Yeah everything is fucked, but that’s just fine.”
sapphireskiesx@reddit
I was going with elder millennial until someone I know who was born in the late 80s called themselves an elder millennial.
I don’t feel like I fit squarely in X or millennial so gladly adopted the Xennial category once I found out it existed.
Acceptable_Self_7732@reddit
1978 xennial who feels closer to genx than millennial
silentlyshe@reddit
Xennial.
Mememememememememine@reddit
Xennial. I truly don’t relate to either Gen X or Millenials
SourcePrevious3095@reddit
Old.
No-Championship-8677@reddit
I say Xennial but if I have to pick X or Millennial I’m absolutely a millennial
Good_Air_7192@reddit
I've decided to call myself a Xennial but I'm not sure how to pronounce it, so I'm going to go with "zeennial" like Xena Warrior Princess.
Tdk1984@reddit
Xennial
Reen842@reddit
I'm a Xennial or Gen X. Too old to be a millennial.
Tricky-Passion-7191@reddit
Elder Millennial xx
_Tux4Life_@reddit
I definitely feel I fit squarely into the Xennial micro generation. Grew up analog, came thru adulthood with technology. I don't feel part of either Gen X or Millennials. I just don't closely relate to either of them.
Winter_Dimension8107@reddit
Same
Skore_Smogon@reddit
1980 so right in the middle of the Xennial limbo.
carinosa34@reddit
Xennial
kittenpantzen@reddit
'78, so definitely not millennial. My childhood experience is more generation X, especially because my parents had me older than average (one of my parents is silent gen, and the other was a boomer). My adult experience is more millennial, because I went to college later. My experience with technology is also more in line with millennials, because my dad worked in an IT role and so we had a computer at home much earlier than almost anyone else that we knew and I was playing games on our Apple IIe as part of learning how to read.
Winter_Dimension8107@reddit
Having to explain Xennials to non-xennials is exhausting. I just say Gen X
VinceAmonte@reddit
Xennial, but I think I'm more millennial, even though I'm on the Gen X side. Which sucks because I always loved the way "Gen-X" sounded, but core Gen-Xers are insufferable.
PopcornSurgeon@reddit
I think I’m going to start calling myself Gen Y. That’s how I identified from my teen years into my mid 20s, when “Millennial” started to dominate - and was defined to exclude me, even though until then I’d been defined as too young for Gen X.
(Born in ‘78)
Munchkin531@reddit
I loathe being called a Millennial. I am a Xennial! I mean i was Gen Y, but I'll take Xennial.
Separate-Relative-83@reddit
Gen X bc 1980.
pettyvillainy@reddit
I usually just say Gen X, since it seems that '79 is the last year that almost always makes the cutoff (I've seen about 50/50 on 1980). Most people I know haven't really heard of 'Xennials.'
FoppyRETURNS@reddit
Millennial. I don't split atoms. 😂
mpmbullet@reddit
Xennial… I don’t like classic millennials 😂
Lucky_Louch@reddit
elder millennial or xennial
Zelengro@reddit
I literally only heard of generations in any meaningful way post 2017 or something, and though I knew what Millennial/Gen Y was before that, it did not have (or I did not notice it having) such an significance as it does now. There was just ‘young guy’ and ‘old guy’ and we inferred the rest. In fact, ‘Whatever, grandpa,’ was essentially the ‘okay Boomer’ before okay Boomer.
So that’s a longass way of saying I don’t care. But I am here for the frequent nostalgia hit.
badmongo666@reddit
There are millennials born in '96 who had the rise of smartphones mirror their puberty years the way the rise of the internet did for mine. We are not the same.
ThisIsACompanyCar@reddit
Technically I’m Gen X, but I associate much more with Xennial. I don’t know anyone in my real life who uses that term though, except maybe one friend who is probably also on here somewhere.
fishhead12@reddit
Me too I justify it by growing up in New Zealand, we were always at least 5 years behind the US. I just tend to resonate more with posts here than in the GenX subreddit.
mageoftexas@reddit
Geriatric millennial 😂😂😂
Cinderhazed15@reddit
I accdently have been calling it Xelennial (Zel-in-ee-al) instead of Xennial
RobotBearArms@reddit
Im 1984 and I identify more with the folks in the millennial reddit more than this one, so I usually go with "elder millennial"
gbobeck@reddit
Elder millennial.
I disliked the older “Gen Y” naming.
polygonalopportunist@reddit
I now identify as a Xennial, proudly btw i 💕us, but most of my life i enjoyed Young Gen X status.
bcentsale@reddit
I really kinda miss "generation y"
drtyhppi@reddit
I will fight anyone that even attempts to call me a millennial
krillthemalll@reddit
Neither because they are kind of a dumb label in the first place.
Commercial-Ad7119@reddit
Xennial
BillG2330@reddit
Born late November 79. I call myself the dying gasp of Gen X.
I like to tease my wife (b. 1985) by talking about the 70s like I was there. "Watergate, the gas crisis...crazy times man."
worksnake@reddit
I'm an xennial online, but it's so niche that I often refer to myself as one of the first millennials. I think they're pretty much the same thing anyway.
AnyAngle7212@reddit
Xennial. I hate being called a geriatric millennial.
Horizontal_Bob@reddit
The Ipod is the cutoff
If you had access to an ipod (meaning if you could have afforded one you could have bought one) while in high school, you’re a millenial.
If the Ipod came out after you graduated high school, you’re a xennial
tacosandtheology@reddit
Gen X, myself. I was precocious when young and was already into the art film, beat poetry revival, 80s post-punk world that I think of when I think of the term "Gen X".
On rare occasions, I say "millennial" when trying to prove a point to a really old person.
chud_wik@reddit
‘82, so Xennial.
Waste-Reflection-235@reddit
I refuse to call myself a millennial even though technically I’m an elder millennial. But even most millennials I know don’t see me as one. I don’t relate to everything Gen X. So I’m a Xennial. I’m stuck at the cusp. It’s been like that my whole life basically.
bluesmokebloke@reddit
Gen X. Born 1980 with older siblings
unbalancedcentrifuge@reddit
I feel like my holding off starting my life by going to grad school and doing a fellowship has made me lean a bit more toward the millennials in that my money making and house buying capabilities was put off until we were in the pandemic BS. I have more of that millennial nihilism.
WinterLanternFly@reddit
Xennial. I grew up with Mtv pre-TRL
The_Fell_Opian@reddit
82 so I go with Ducktails generation or Old Millennial.
ClassicMovieFan@reddit
I usually say elder millennial.
Savings_Prior4133@reddit
Xennial. I feel far removed from Millennials given the analog nature of my childhood and my youth. I didn't have a cell phone or regular use of the internet until college.
CaptPotter47@reddit
Millennial, makes feel younger.
Plus_Lead_5630@reddit
I got called a Millennial the other day and took it as an insult.
Flimsy_Goat_8199@reddit
Xennial after I found my micro-generation people on Reddit
blackhawksq@reddit
Goonie
zombieplum@reddit
1980-81 are true blue xennials. Neither group ever wanted us and I'm good with that lol.
MxMicahDeschain@reddit
I was born in '82 and under the impression I was Gen X until I saw a Gen Y art installation in Greenwich Village around '97. I don't think I even heard the term Millenial until after 2000. I've long since adopted the Xennial tag, but, hey, I'm a sucker for nuance and specificity.
Ozzdo@reddit
Was born in 78, just under the wire. Gen X were the slightly older kids to me, and the Millennials slightly younger, but I have lots in common with both. Late Gen X? Pre-Millennial? I don't know.
oddball_ocelot@reddit
I call myself a Gen X. 1980 is considered to be the final model year of X, and that was my manufacture date.
Historical-Client-78@reddit
Xennial. I’ve never identified as a Millennial.
Zeke_Smith@reddit
I like xennial. Born in 81. I probably have some bias towards millennials significantly younger than me. Xennial seems better.
psoriasaurus_rex@reddit
I’m ‘78 so I am a Gen X, but also a Xennial.
punky100@reddit
I say "elder millennial"
If you say xennial out loud it sounds like zennial, and I am definitely not gen z
MuffinMatrix@reddit
Xennial is 1977-1983. If you're born in that, you're Xennial. Simple.
You don't need 'older' or 'younger', its a micro gen, you're in or your not. That kinda stuff is built into WHY its a micro gen.
beeurd@reddit
I generally say "elder millennial", but I consider xennial being an "and" rather than an "or".
wisdomseeker42@reddit
I think xennial describes my experience best. I don’t fully relate to gen x or the millennials, though obviously I have some things in common with each. I am glad this exists!
Karrik478@reddit
'78 was the Gen Y microgeneration when I was growing up. Now I used Xennial.
HoneyBadger302@reddit
Xennial, and have used it ever since I first heard the term because I never really related to a lot of Gen X (where far too many were more like boomer-light than anything to me), but also didn't quite fit in with millenials fully either, feeling like the perpetual odd man out....
lakebistcho@reddit
I don't use these terms, but I identify much more strongly with Xennial/Oregon Trail generation than Millennial.
Another part of the distinction in my mind is whether you were still in high school or out of it when 9/11 happened. My experience has been that people who were still in K-12 when 9/11 happened had a different formative experience in the US.
C1sko@reddit
Gen X-er.
AmIYourNeighbor@reddit
Xennial. I’m most certainly not “Gen X” and I’m distinctly too old for the term “Millennial” to apply to me.
Past-Confection-6730@reddit
Baby xennial and/or older millennial.
Nikkianne617@reddit
Xennial
marathonrunner79@reddit
Young Gen X, Xennial since I was born on the cusp of 1979. My sister who is ten years younger than me is a true Millennial.
Sea_Cue@reddit
I generally go with Elder Millennial.
Mid-Reverie@reddit
Xennial cuz I easily identify with either.
Philhughes_85@reddit
Xennial
jugdeesh@reddit
I used to think I was just a millennial, but after long-term relationships with women born in ‘ 88 , ‘ 90 And a short term relationship with a woman from’93 I see there is a clear difference and I know I am more of a Gen X millennial cusp , although that doesn’t really roll off the tongue
TBeIRIE@reddit
I just like to say that I’m from the 1900’s. I imagine myself as a rugged gunslinging horse wrangler.
piscian19@reddit
Xennial. The vast majority of millennials seem to like fedoras, groomed mustaches, tribal tattoos, and imagine dragons. None of that works for me.
InfectedSteve@reddit
Xennial I cant relate to millennials all that well.
MoveCompetitive5742@reddit
xennial. don’t feel like I have much in common with either of the other groups. genx didn’t really use computers or cell phones and millennials grew up with entirely internet and smartphones. i had a cell phone and internet and grew up with computers in the house since early grade school and emailed and chatted with friends on IM but not the same experience as millennials. same with tv and movies. I relate more with millennials but they had different experiences.
TryFine317@reddit
1980
Xennial or Baby Gen X
instant_ramen_chef@reddit
Xennial for sure. .but thats mostly because I have siblings on both sides. Its very clear to me who I am not.
TemporaryPhone8985@reddit
I’m born in (late) 1980 so I’ve seen my year listed as both. I definitely relate more to Millennials than to Gen X. So if I’m talking to someone I say Millennial (because odds are they don’t know what a Xennial is!)
washingtonsquirrel@reddit
Xennial. I am solidly in the middle of that range you’ve given, but if I was on either end, I don’t think I’d hesitate to call myself Gen X or Millennial.
Scalytor@reddit
Most of the people I work with were born after 1990, with a decent chunk born after 2000. So I'm just old. I grew up thinking of myself as Gen X and nobody has ever called me a Millennial.
Ill-Percentage-3276@reddit
When I was young we were told we were Gen X so that's what I always went with, but adopted Xennial along the way when that popped up since it fits better (1980 btw.)
chitownkid81@reddit
Xennial only. Then I follow up with an explanation.
slippedintherain@reddit
I’m 1978 so I fall within late Gen X. I typically say that or Xennial.
Sdog1981@reddit
If you really want to lite a match ask people if you Zen-nnial or X-nnial
Top-Wolverine-8684@reddit
I'm okay with being a Xennial. I considered myself GenX prior to that label (and we were definitely called that growing up). I've never had anything in common with Millennials and can't relate to them at all. All of my friends from high school and my husband are GenX.
More-Community7355@reddit
Never felt like gen x or millennial I was so excited when I heard xennial
WendyPortledge@reddit
I have said xennial since first hearing of it, but lately I seem to be using elder millennial more.
luxtabula@reddit
I called myself Gen X until the recession happened. After that boomers and older Gen X labeled me millennial sometimes pejoratively.
I eventually embraced the millennial label even though most millennials are a decade younger than me.
I never use the xennial label IRL, it's too online for normal use.
Character-Ganache187@reddit
Xennial
NeonBuny@reddit
I was born in 1996, so I'm not sure if I'm a millennial or already part of Generation Z
jimmythesaint83@reddit
Xillennial
Sheshnation@reddit
Lean Gen X but elder millennial on paper.
Ineedavodka2019@reddit
Xennial. I’m a Gen X by one year.
tlbkcal@reddit
Gen Y
eat_like_snake@reddit
Yes.